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karnac

(564 posts)
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 06:56 PM Apr 2012

I stalked/followed a black kid!

I am curious and want a sampling of your collective wisdom.

Basically,

Where was I right?
Where were my actions legal or illegal?
when where my actions moral or immoral?
Where was I just plain stupid?
Did I deserve the consequences?

Feel free to condone or condemn.
For many years I have lived in the suburbs. The neighborhood is working class and mixed. Pacific Asians, Hispanics with a smattering of whites and blacks. Crime is minimal except for an occasional wave of either burglaries or car thefts(usually the stereo). We all knew each other though not as well as I would have liked. Houses are two storied with the bottom part serving mostly as second units(rentals) with windows directly exposed to the streets. Bottom windows are never barred because of fire safety codes.

I lived in the bottom half.

Anyway one weekday afternoon I was working in my home office when my GF stated someone was trying to open up the frosted window to our bedroom. She has always been a bit paranoid but i did go outside to check just to keep her quiet.

I saw a black kid probably 15-18(not good with ages) moseying past my window. He turned around and saw each other briefly as I opened up my door. he then turned back and kept on walking away slowly.

"Can I Help You?" I stated.

"NO!"

I went back inside. It *did* bother me that my girlfriend was probably right and there was nothing I could do about it. Afterall, I didn't actually see him try to break in.

About 5 minutes later I stepped out for a smoke. About 200 yards away the same kid was still walking away slowly while peering through each lower window as he passed. Not all windows were frosted like ours. a couple times he came close enough to touch his nose to the glass. Not once did I see him try to open a window like my GF claimed.

I started to follow him. about 100 yards away he noticed I was following him though he didn't change his pace.

I thought to myself this was ridiculous. I had work to do and I didn't have time for this. Calling the police was out of the question,more of *MY* time wasted explaining. Maybe needlessly making things hard for a kid that might not actually be doing anything wrong.

At the same time I didn't want to be responsible for a burglary minutes later right after i had noticed suspicious behavior and left him alone. And there HAD been burglaries around my neighborhood fairly recently.

My solution:

I walked back and got into my pickup. slowly drove by the kid and took a picture. The kid noticed and pulled his hood over his head. He needn't have bothered. Stupid me just took a picture of my thumb.

When I got back I was real proud of myself. Only killed 10 minutes and scared the kid from committing a burglary! He would think twice about doing that in OUR neighborhood. All without having to call 911. Back to work!

Next day my tires were slashed. Never happened before or since.

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I stalked/followed a black kid! (Original Post) karnac Apr 2012 OP
I don't believe your tale. n/t Jumping John Apr 2012 #1
Unfortunately true karnac Apr 2012 #3
Get an alarm system on your windows that alert the police if someone tries to open them. FarLeftFist Apr 2012 #37
Actually, my tires did get slashed before karnac Apr 2012 #55
Why was the Black Panamanian friend you mentioned not up in the tree? obamanut2012 Apr 2012 #136
Rather than follow him, the second time you saw him, rustydog Apr 2012 #50
ok, i have some questions/comments: CreekDog Apr 2012 #109
I wonder why the picture of your thumb scared the kid from committing a burglary Lasher Apr 2012 #2
tires must have been slashed at night karnac Apr 2012 #9
My parents lost all their RV tires, during a tiff with the NEXT DOOR NEIGHBOR. WingDinger Apr 2012 #18
A young man in my neighborhood just got put in jail for stealing gasoline from his neighbor's car. Lasher Apr 2012 #70
Somebody tried to get in your window and you didn't call the cops? LeftyMom Apr 2012 #4
I wear a hoodie myself. karnac Apr 2012 #12
actually walking around looking in windows is probable cause for a police stop and question. Warren Stupidity Apr 2012 #185
Exactly. This story is more racist horse shit. UnrepentantLiberal Apr 2012 #103
You should have shown him your Frederick Douglass avatar. nt NoGOPZone Apr 2012 #5
LOLOL!!! CatWoman Apr 2012 #8
*snork* cyberswede Apr 2012 #42
hahahahahaha obamanut2012 Apr 2012 #52
Lol! whatchamacallit Apr 2012 #141
LOL. myrna minx Apr 2012 #147
How did you know he was "black"? BumRushDaShow Apr 2012 #6
What? 'Dark complected'? trof Apr 2012 #11
Is this one "black"? BumRushDaShow Apr 2012 #16
what "I" do know is CatWoman Apr 2012 #21
LOL! BumRushDaShow Apr 2012 #28
He's also a Glenn Beck fan JonLP24 Apr 2012 #135
in my travels I've met plenty of hot men CatWoman Apr 2012 #137
This would make a great sig line. Pool Hall Ace Apr 2012 #164
He is hot, but I have to say Pool Hall Ace Apr 2012 #163
the mods already think wer'e a bunch of horny degernates CatWoman Apr 2012 #167
Sigh. Another clique I wasn't asked to join. Hassin Bin Sober Apr 2012 #181
the first one is about as black karnac Apr 2012 #29
So then he may have been "hispanic"? BumRushDaShow Apr 2012 #34
Could have been a Black Panamanian karnac Apr 2012 #36
Or perhaps an asian? BumRushDaShow Apr 2012 #38
"I'm Dreaming of a White Isthmus..." blue neen Apr 2012 #48
... TBF Apr 2012 #51
Post removed Post removed Apr 2012 #74
So, the Black Panamanian you know is a great tree climber? obamanut2012 Apr 2012 #77
Yup karnac Apr 2012 #81
dude, you just turned your BS stereotype up to 11 CreekDog Apr 2012 #104
Why does this statement scream offensive to me?! n/t vaberella Apr 2012 #124
Because it is obamanut2012 Apr 2012 #132
That's exactly what crossed my mind. Is this poster tombstoned yet?n/t vaberella Apr 2012 #154
WTF??!! "blacker than any African American I ever saw. Great tree climber"??? WHAT IS THAT Ecumenist Apr 2012 #171
But .... polly7 Apr 2012 #172
EXACTLY, that's fucked up and so racist that it could be published in a klukker newspaper Ecumenist Apr 2012 #173
They are trying to call him a black monkey obamanut2012 Apr 2012 #174
Tell me about it. I did the same thing. Cheeky cretin thnks it's okay to say things Ecumenist Apr 2012 #175
You can be either black or hispanic, not both? 4th law of robotics Apr 2012 #58
That's what I'm trying to get at BumRushDaShow Apr 2012 #67
I guess I don't see why also being hispanic would make it inappropriate to describe him as black 4th law of robotics Apr 2012 #142
"If you were describing such a person to the police..." BumRushDaShow Apr 2012 #145
Right, sure ok 4th law of robotics Apr 2012 #149
Your response allows me to rest my case. BumRushDaShow Apr 2012 #151
Not really 4th law of robotics Apr 2012 #152
Sorry kid BumRushDaShow Apr 2012 #155
I was giving you an out by allowing you to simply be a college freshman 4th law of robotics Apr 2012 #156
You'll figure it out one day. BumRushDaShow Apr 2012 #158
My great great grandma was black and nicaraguan karnac Apr 2012 #68
You're digging the hole deeper and deeper. BumRushDaShow Apr 2012 #73
you mean there WAS karnac Apr 2012 #78
The rule is still in effect BumRushDaShow Apr 2012 #92
This entire thread is snark right?! Because man...you're full of shit. n/t vaberella Apr 2012 #125
I don't know who those men are, but they definitely look at least part black. Honeycombe8 Apr 2012 #84
This is the problem, isn't it? BumRushDaShow Apr 2012 #99
Yes, it's totally a visual cue, for the purpose of identification. Like color of t-shirt, kind of Honeycombe8 Apr 2012 #108
You just dug yourself into that same hole! BumRushDaShow Apr 2012 #112
Depends on the light in which I saw these people. Give it a break! Giving race info is NECESSARY. Honeycombe8 Apr 2012 #114
And you just kept on digging. BumRushDaShow Apr 2012 #115
+1 obamanut2012 Apr 2012 #133
A little off topic, but what a lovely smile that woman has whatchamacallit Apr 2012 #143
Yet sadly BumRushDaShow Apr 2012 #146
Colonialism lives whatchamacallit Apr 2012 #148
Yup. BumRushDaShow Apr 2012 #153
It's just a general description by a witness. No need to get into profiling. Are witnesses now Honeycombe8 Apr 2012 #110
That's why there are 'Neighborhood Watch' organizations.. trof Apr 2012 #7
At the time I thought 911 was overkill. karnac Apr 2012 #14
no, not all of them do TorchTheWitch Apr 2012 #59
big deal CatWoman Apr 2012 #10
'specially the good lookin' ones, yeah? alcibiades_mystery Apr 2012 #15
damn straight CatWoman Apr 2012 #17
Hate to see you leave, but I love to watch you go... alcibiades_mystery Apr 2012 #19
Stop it.. HipChick Apr 2012 #23
bwahahahahaha CatWoman Apr 2012 #24
Since said event is already in the past, why do you need DU's "collective wisdom"? marmar Apr 2012 #13
the point is trying to make zimmerman's actions seem reasonable noiretextatique Apr 2012 #184
I can't begin to express how fucked up your post is. Why the need to post on DU? For approval? Liberal_Stalwart71 Apr 2012 #20
And the jury says... Ikonoklast Apr 2012 #57
"And the ladies posting in that thread need to take a cold shower. " Jamastiene Apr 2012 #62
They DO! karnac Apr 2012 #71
oh that has to be a duzy zeemike Apr 2012 #83
And the ladies posting in that thread need to take a cold shower. CatWoman Apr 2012 #75
Thank you! I wasn't calling the OP racist. I suggested that he/she deal with internalized Liberal_Stalwart71 Apr 2012 #122
How is his post racist? Are you maybe angry at the reality of what the poster said, and that Honeycombe8 Apr 2012 #86
Interesting post if you enjoy ecstatic Apr 2012 #97
Whenever one assumes or implies ANYTHING, bringing race or color in it, then yes it's racist. Liberal_Stalwart71 Apr 2012 #123
Similar things have happened to me. I hear something, go outside.... Honeycombe8 Apr 2012 #140
No! He named the title of the OP "I stalked a black kid!" Yes it is racist. Why start this thread Liberal_Stalwart71 Apr 2012 #157
"Being a particular race is part of an identity and description" BumRushDaShow Apr 2012 #162
It's a way to describe someone to cops, so they know who to look for. Honeycombe8 Apr 2012 #183
I noticed your bullshit responses throughout this thread so I'm putting you on IGNORE Liberal_Stalwart71 Apr 2012 #159
Liberal_Stalwart, I've noticed that abou t Honeycombe too. It's a pattern with them. It's Ecumenist Apr 2012 #177
If you were pretty sure it was him trying to get into your window I don't see a problem Quixote1818 Apr 2012 #22
I didn't see him do anything illegal, period. karnac Apr 2012 #33
I think it was just your protective instincts kicking in Quixote1818 Apr 2012 #43
I don't believe your story either. Kind of makes me feel ill. Maraya1969 Apr 2012 #25
And....... Maraya1969 Apr 2012 #26
The entire thread is making me ill. nt TBF Apr 2012 #49
He doesn't believe his own story, either! That's why he had to recommend his own thread! Liberal_Stalwart71 Apr 2012 #168
You erred right in the beginning not calling the cops zeemike Apr 2012 #27
LOL CatWoman Apr 2012 #30
They were all in the garage for a meeting of the Constitution Club with Snake Alchemist alcibiades_mystery Apr 2012 #32
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! CatWoman Apr 2012 #35
I think the dark kid might have actually been Snake Alchemist doing an experiment on racism. likesmountains 52 Apr 2012 #39
Well, he did excuse himself to go to the bathroom right before the Peeping Tom incident alcibiades_mystery Apr 2012 #40
oh no you didn't obamanut2012 Apr 2012 #79
Always got to be the Black one...sigh. n/t vaberella Apr 2012 #127
OH SHIT... dionysus Apr 2012 #105
This message was self-deleted by its author devilgrrl Apr 2012 #113
You didn't know? Even with the card held up to your forehead? CreekDog Apr 2012 #31
LOL! cyberswede Apr 2012 #44
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA CatWoman Apr 2012 #45
Nice post, Kreskin... cyberswede Apr 2012 #46
The REAL Karnac would have seen this coming... -..__... Apr 2012 #96
I expected it. karnac Apr 2012 #101
Even hiding /seeking sanctuary in a Cathedral... -..__... Apr 2012 #106
That's Frank and all of his idiot drooling followers coming out of the cave to post in this thread. Ikonoklast Apr 2012 #120
Based on what you put down... AmazingSchnitzel Apr 2012 #41
Hey, I have a bridge to sell. You seem perfect for this deal. n/t HangOnKids Apr 2012 #150
I have no way to know if it's real or not... AmazingSchnitzel Apr 2012 #179
Are you trying to compare this fake story in some way to the Trayvon situation? Cali_Democrat Apr 2012 #47
I don't know how different one way or the other. karnac Apr 2012 #66
"My very REAL incident does relate to the Travon/Zimmerman tale, but only to a point." polly7 Apr 2012 #72
How does your tale relate to the Trayvon incident? Cali_Democrat Apr 2012 #80
Looks like there may be a sequel coming out to answer all these. nt. polly7 Apr 2012 #186
So ProSense Apr 2012 #98
and the OP ended up posting later to say that his tires had been slashed before CreekDog Apr 2012 #165
What a very interesting and illuminating story obamanut2012 Apr 2012 #53
Definitely illuminating. nt TBF Apr 2012 #56
That's nothing CatWoman Apr 2012 #54
OMG I got a flashback to 30 years ago BumRushDaShow Apr 2012 #60
is this your first Nanowrimo? CreekDog Apr 2012 #61
To think that DU has an international novelist in its midst! blue neen Apr 2012 #116
You must have spent all day coming up with this one. Jamastiene Apr 2012 #63
*snicker* CatWoman Apr 2012 #76
Cool story, bro Electric Monk Apr 2012 #64
okay, I'm stealing that pic. U4ikLefty Apr 2012 #107
Would you have behaved differently if you had went out and a white kid was looking into windows? saras Apr 2012 #65
What could be wrong with questioning anyone you saw peeping in windows? polly7 Apr 2012 #69
Bad idea to question a stranger and accuse him of attempted burglary, esp if he DID try to break in. Honeycombe8 Apr 2012 #88
I'd have done it. polly7 Apr 2012 #90
I think it IS against the law to be peeping Tom, even if he wasn't breaking in. Honeycombe8 Apr 2012 #82
You're an idiot. flvegan Apr 2012 #85
bwahahahaha CatWoman Apr 2012 #89
Well, the OP ProSense Apr 2012 #93
Ha! Well if the OP didn't rec his own foolishness, who will???? Number23 Apr 2012 #111
I inherited a mixed A-Schwarzenegger Apr 2012 #87
I lol'd at this. flvegan Apr 2012 #91
THAT story was far more believable than this load of bovine excrement. Ikonoklast Apr 2012 #131
Interesting post. Honeycombe8 Apr 2012 #94
To answer your question: stupid ecstatic Apr 2012 #95
'Great chance?' RZM Apr 2012 #102
Tell that to Kenneth Chamberlain, Sr or ecstatic Apr 2012 #117
That's like saying RZM Apr 2012 #118
I don't believe your story n/t Marrah_G Apr 2012 #100
Good thing you didn't have a gun ... JustABozoOnThisBus Apr 2012 #119
Gerlado, is that you? sarcasmo Apr 2012 #121
Bogus. Dogtown Apr 2012 #126
oh for the love of reason. You didn't want to waste your time calling the cops cali Apr 2012 #128
Alternate Theory: His father thought you were a pedophile. JoePhilly Apr 2012 #129
BRILLIANT AS ALWAYS!!!!! Liberal_Stalwart71 Apr 2012 #161
Awe thanks ... I had fun writing that and hoped others would enjoy it. JoePhilly Apr 2012 #166
That was spot on! BumRushDaShow Apr 2012 #169
Thanks, glad you liked it. JoePhilly Apr 2012 #170
I don't believe it. Iggo Apr 2012 #130
And who would anyway? Lex Apr 2012 #139
I would have called the cops, and stayed on it until they showed up slackmaster Apr 2012 #134
Cool story, bro. Lex Apr 2012 #138
Strange... whatchamacallit Apr 2012 #144
Calling the police was most certainly not out of the question. LanternWaste Apr 2012 #160
on conservative web sites, they woukd call this story a "bouncy" scheming daemons Apr 2012 #176
How do you know the person wasn't having diabetic ketoacidosis? NNN0LHI Apr 2012 #178
This message was self-deleted by its author devilgrrl Apr 2012 #180
karnac has left the building. HangOnKids Apr 2012 #188
Good to hear NoGOPZone Apr 2012 #189
This story is missing a scene where you walk away slowly as a car explodes behind you. Evoman Apr 2012 #182
No good deed libodem Apr 2012 #187

FarLeftFist

(6,161 posts)
37. Get an alarm system on your windows that alert the police if someone tries to open them.
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 08:24 PM
Apr 2012

There are lots of different brands and the prices are good. If the alarm is triggered the police are notified. They really work. As for the tires, that type of stuff happens everywhere. Big cities, rural communities, suburbs, etc.

 

karnac

(564 posts)
55. Actually, my tires did get slashed before
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 09:01 PM
Apr 2012

Last edited Mon Apr 23, 2012, 06:26 PM - Edit history (1)

Just remembered! Thought it was humorous at the time since the tires were worn anyway.

I was high up a sidewalk tree loping it when somebody complained from below that i was blocking the sidewalk with the fallen limbs. I stated i left the legally allowed clearance of 4 feet and I i would finish cleaning up AFTER i was done trimming trimming..

Not satisfied he said he would talk to my boss and started taking down the phone number embossed on my truck.

"I am the boss." I stated

"Oh yea? well here ya go BOSSMAN!!!"

POP! SSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!

Guy took off running.

Right in the sidewall where it couldn't get fixed.

Good thing i didn't see his race/face.

Might get me in trouble here one way or the other.

Yea, I have vehicle alarms.

obamanut2012

(26,080 posts)
136. Why was the Black Panamanian friend you mentioned not up in the tree?
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 09:17 AM
Apr 2012

The one you said could climb so well, because of well... you know?

What another interesting story.

rustydog

(9,186 posts)
50. Rather than follow him, the second time you saw him,
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 08:57 PM
Apr 2012

you shouldhave been on the phone, giving the description to police of a suspicious male then hang up and stay on your stoop protecting what is yours.

Let police do what they are paid to do.

CreekDog

(46,192 posts)
109. ok, i have some questions/comments:
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 11:12 PM
Apr 2012
I stalked/followed a black kid!



I lived in the bottom half.


intellectually?

Anyway one weekday afternoon I was working in my home office when my GF stated someone was trying to open up the frosted window to our bedroom. She has always been a bit paranoid but i did go outside to check just to keep her quiet.


So your bedroom window is frosted but your office window is not. Is your office not a bedroom?

I saw a black kid probably 15-18(not good with ages) moseying past my window. He turned around and saw each other briefly as I opened up my door. he then turned back and kept on walking away slowly.

"Can I Help You?" I stated.

"NO!"



okay. sounds believable.

I went back inside. It *did* bother me that my girlfriend was probably right and there was nothing I could do about it. Afterall, I didn't actually see him try to break in.

About 5 minutes later I stepped out for a smoke. About 200 yards away the same kid was still walking away slowly while peering through each lower window as he passed. Not all windows were frosted like ours. a couple times he came close enough to touch his nose to the glass. Not once did I see him try to open a window like my GF claimed.


so you're saying in 5 minutes, the kid walked 600 feet while looking and approaching each window?
you're also saying that he looked in the clear windows, but the only one he tried to break into was your frosted window, which he could not see into? (it's clear that your story indicates he didn't attempt to get into any more windows because he wouldn't have had time to go 600 feet, look at all the windows and also get into one in that amount of time)

also, you could see while smoking, who he was, what he was doing, from 600 feet away. you could also see the windows and watch him go back and forth from 600 feet away. quite impressive!

I started to follow him. about 100 yards away he noticed I was following him though he didn't change his pace.

I thought to myself this was ridiculous. I had work to do and I didn't have time for this. Calling the police was out of the question,more of *MY* time wasted explaining. Maybe needlessly making things hard for a kid that might not actually be doing anything wrong.



trying to decide if this bullshit stands out from the rest.

At the same time I didn't want to be responsible for a burglary minutes later right after i had noticed suspicious behavior and left him alone. And there HAD been burglaries around my neighborhood fairly recently.


oh right. you were helping!

My solution:

I walked back and got into my pickup. slowly drove by the kid and took a picture. The kid noticed and pulled his hood over his head. He needn't have bothered. Stupid me just took a picture of my thumb.


yes, this was a much better idea than calling the cops to report a prowler/peeper.

When I got back I was real proud of myself. Only killed 10 minutes and scared the kid from committing a burglary! He would think twice about doing that in OUR neighborhood. All without having to call 911. Back to work!


i think this is not the way to land a date.

Next day my tires were slashed. Never happened before or since.


apparently you stalked Captain Obvious.




Lasher

(27,597 posts)
2. I wonder why the picture of your thumb scared the kid from committing a burglary
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 07:39 PM
Apr 2012

but not from slashing your tires.

 

karnac

(564 posts)
9. tires must have been slashed at night
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 07:52 PM
Apr 2012

Nobody to see him. Best time for mere mayhem. A few seconds and you're done. Heck, when was a kid(12) i tried to steal a stop sign at one o'clock in the morning. tried for 30 minutes and never succeeded. But nobody ever saw me.

On the other hand best time for a burglary is(contrary to popular opinion) in the day. When the working stiff is out.

You know, I never will know if i actually deterred him from a burglary. I just thought I did at the time. Probably just from my block alone.

 

WingDinger

(3,690 posts)
18. My parents lost all their RV tires, during a tiff with the NEXT DOOR NEIGHBOR.
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 08:01 PM
Apr 2012

Unless you witness them doing so, Impossible to prove.

Lasher

(27,597 posts)
70. A young man in my neighborhood just got put in jail for stealing gasoline from his neighbor's car.
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 09:36 PM
Apr 2012

The young man has a long criminal record, and had moved in next door not long before this incident. I'm guessing the neighbor had put up a trail cam after having found his gas tank mysteriously empty once or twice - or maybe he took that precaution before anything had yet been stolen.

LeftyMom

(49,212 posts)
4. Somebody tried to get in your window and you didn't call the cops?
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 07:43 PM
Apr 2012

Then you saw him try the same thing someplace else and you STILL didn't call the cops?

Your story doesn't make any sense, and you managed to make your mystery kid the same age, race and gender as Trayvon Martin AND work a hoodie in for good measure. I call bullshit.

 

karnac

(564 posts)
12. I wear a hoodie myself.
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 07:55 PM
Apr 2012

Remember, i didn't see him break the law. Looking in a window is not illegal. I merely suspected.

 

Warren Stupidity

(48,181 posts)
185. actually walking around looking in windows is probable cause for a police stop and question.
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 10:17 PM
Apr 2012

your story is all bullshitty and everything, but next time, just in case this ever really happens, call the fucking police. That is really what they are there for, and it will give them something useful to do other than arrest pot smokers and people trading sex for money.

BumRushDaShow

(129,096 posts)
16. Is this one "black"?
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 08:01 PM
Apr 2012


How about this one?



Since there was a prominent mention about "Hispanics" and both of the above pictured young men consider themselves "Hispanic" and are from the Dominican Republic, so I ask again, how does the OP know he was "black"?

Pool Hall Ace

(5,849 posts)
163. He is hot, but I have to say
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 01:45 PM
Apr 2012

I find the other one pretty cute too, whoever he is.

Can we turn this in to a cute baseball player thread, pretty please??

 

karnac

(564 posts)
29. the first one is about as black
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 08:10 PM
Apr 2012

as the fellow I saw.

The second one is about my color.

I am hispanic(central american).

 

karnac

(564 posts)
36. Could have been a Black Panamanian
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 08:22 PM
Apr 2012

One of my fellow workers was a Panamanian and blacker than
any African American I ever saw. Great tree climber.

Response to TBF (Reply #51)

 

karnac

(564 posts)
81. Yup
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 10:07 PM
Apr 2012

I have a tree trimming and removal business AND a computer services shop from my basement.


I must say though the Panamanian's skills at writing Linux device drivers are SORELY lacking..

obamanut2012

(26,080 posts)
132. Because it is
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 09:06 AM
Apr 2012

Anyone who knows how racists talk knows they call Blacks "monkeys," "apes," etc. And, what do monkeys do (and, apparently Black Panamanians)? Climb trees.

I do give him props for not mentioning watermelons.

Ecumenist

(6,086 posts)
171. WTF??!! "blacker than any African American I ever saw. Great tree climber"??? WHAT IS THAT
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 03:26 PM
Apr 2012

SUPPOSED TO MEAN? Reads suspiciously like you're implying that he's a monkey, what are you really trying to say?

Ecumenist

(6,086 posts)
173. EXACTLY, that's fucked up and so racist that it could be published in a klukker newspaper
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 03:36 PM
Apr 2012

a read like it was right at home.

obamanut2012

(26,080 posts)
174. They are trying to call him a black monkey
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 03:38 PM
Apr 2012

Well known racist rhetoric for those who rise above "garden-variety racists."

When I read that post, I really did gasp.

Ecumenist

(6,086 posts)
175. Tell me about it. I did the same thing. Cheeky cretin thnks it's okay to say things
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 03:40 PM
Apr 2012

like this and get away with it? REALLY?

BumRushDaShow

(129,096 posts)
67. That's what I'm trying to get at
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 09:32 PM
Apr 2012

What was this "black kid" in light of the OP attempting to make an analogy to the Zimmerman stalks Martin case?

If the "black kid" was from Cuba who is hispanic, like this top pitcher that the Reds managed to snag-



would the same sort of issue have occurred and would he have been called a "black kid" or a "hispanic kid"?

 

4th law of robotics

(6,801 posts)
142. I guess I don't see why also being hispanic would make it inappropriate to describe him as black
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 11:52 AM
Apr 2012

if you're describing someone to the cops their physical characteristics are more useful than their assumed cultural identity. Hispanic is more of a culture. Which is useful in some instances. However when describing an appearance, not so much.

For instance, there are a few Americans who defected to North Korea. They've gone on to have kids with some white women who were also there. Culturally their children are Korean. However they are also lily white and until they open their mouths they look like any white kid you could find back in the states or Europe.

If you were describing such a person to the police would you say it's a korean kid or a white kid?

BumRushDaShow

(129,096 posts)
145. "If you were describing such a person to the police..."
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 12:38 PM
Apr 2012

And that is the crux of the problem that this nation - as one of the, if not the most diverse in the world - faces when it comes to the pseudo-classification of race, ethnicity, and gender. Previous societal "rules" by a "majority" (European-descended) mix of ethnic groups, defined, reinforced, and indoctrinated the society as a whole by assigning certain odd "traits" to others via various means (at home, in school, via books and other print media, via audio/visual means, via games and toys, and via advertisements for products or services, etc.), and the "traits" have persistently perpetuated negative stereotypes about the defined group, some more egregious to certain groups than others.

This is the heart and soul of profiling. Once one has "tagged" a person via some phenotypical description, then a subset of predefined, internalized cultural assumptions are called up in the psyche to apply to that individual. Problem is, what if the one "tagging" gets it "wrong"?

As an example of how convoluted this system is - when geographers defined the continents based on land mass and included a continent of "Africa", then it was insane when many historians refused to include the country of Egypt, the home of so many famous antiquities, as being on the continent of Africa. I.e., Africans were not allowed to claim Egypt as a source of their civilizations whereas Europe could claim Greece as the source of theirs. This wasn't something relegated to hundreds of years ago, it was a major battle during the past 20 years during the debates about multiculturalism. In fact the whole designation of "sub-Saharan Africa" reinforces the nonsense.

It is a sick system with a dysfunctional set of rules that many posting here have had to leearn from birth in order to survive and it will take another century to purge, and fix the damage.

 

4th law of robotics

(6,801 posts)
149. Right, sure ok
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 12:52 PM
Apr 2012

And I guess they also shouldn't describe a person as "male" since there are many cultural assumptions that go along with that (you can't pretend men and women have always been treated exactly the same right?) . Also there are some men who would identify as women and vice-versa and it's not always possible to tell them apart by just looking at them.

Also being tall carries societal weight as well (we treat tall people differently) so height as a descriptor is out.

So when someone assaults you tell the police it was "a person of indiscriminate race (since it's all a social construct anyway), of some height (I AM NOT A HEIGHTIST!) and a gender of sher own choosing (really it's a spectrum so I don't even see male or female anymore)".

That will definitely be useful.

/and as an aside culturally north Africa is quite different from the south. We separate continents why? Because they're separated by geological features that don't make them entirely inaccessible to other continents necessarily but do limit cultural and physical interactions. The same can be said of north and south Africa. And given the ease of access offered by the Mediterranean including north Africa with southern Europe would make more sense (Greeks had far more interactions with North Africa than they did with Northern Europe; North Africans had far more interactions with Southern Europeans than they did with Southern Africa).

 

4th law of robotics

(6,801 posts)
152. Not really
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 01:01 PM
Apr 2012

your argument was silly. The kind of stuff a freshman who just took his first sociology class could churn out by the gigabytes.

I get it, yes you are the first person ever to discover that race has a social component and a ton of historical baggage. None of us ever realized that before. Totally.

BumRushDaShow

(129,096 posts)
155. Sorry kid
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 01:08 PM
Apr 2012

College was done 30 years ago. And you have lost sight of the false analogy of the OP based on your own outdated view of reality. And you managed to dig yourself into that same hole!

Certainly getting crowded in there, don't you think?

 

4th law of robotics

(6,801 posts)
156. I was giving you an out by allowing you to simply be a college freshman
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 01:09 PM
Apr 2012

overly excited by his Sociology 101 course.

As someone in their 50s or so you really ought to know better.

 

karnac

(564 posts)
68. My great great grandma was black and nicaraguan
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 09:34 PM
Apr 2012

I really don't know how to classify since Black nicaraguans(from the coast) spoke english primarily.

I probably use the term rather sloppily. But then again, I am allowed!

Because i *AM* hispanic.

BumRushDaShow

(129,096 posts)
73. You're digging the hole deeper and deeper.
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 09:44 PM
Apr 2012

So what is considered "black" (and keep in mind that in the U.S., there is that "1 drop" rule)?

 

karnac

(564 posts)
78. you mean there WAS
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 10:02 PM
Apr 2012

such a rule. If me having a great great black grandma make me black in your eyes, so be it. But I must say I am melanin challenged.

Personally I consider myself hispanic though my spanish is guttural at best. I would fit in well as an extra in any mariachi movie. As long as I don't speak fast.

BumRushDaShow

(129,096 posts)
92. The rule is still in effect
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 10:21 PM
Apr 2012

and is very much alive and well here in the good old U.S.A. And the profiling continues and is even picked up very quickly be recent immigrants, until and unless the profiled individual "opens their mouth" and utters words with an accent.... If not, the well-worn stereotypes kick in and all common sense is tossed aside.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
84. I don't know who those men are, but they definitely look at least part black.
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 10:11 PM
Apr 2012

They may be hispanic, too. Black is a race. Hispanic is an ethnicity.

If a person looks black, then that is enough for the police to spot the person, since he would black then, too.

GZ is a hispanic white, I think.

BumRushDaShow

(129,096 posts)
99. This is the problem, isn't it?
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 10:44 PM
Apr 2012

And what is "part black" if you are only going by visual queues?

Do you see how this whole issue of profiling in the U.S., a country burdened down with a sick and convoluted race/ethnic/appearance definition issue, causes people to jump through all sorts of hoops to justify actions? The problem being that multi-generational descendants from countries in Africa brought here centuries ago, have now become "blah" people according to the psychopath Rick Santorum, with no ethnicity worthy of recognition, and are therefore undervalued, underestimated, marginalized, AND profiled. And anyone who "looks like" such a non-entity, is assumed to be one unless they speak with an accent or are established to have been born in another country. Then suddenly the rules change.

Ironically, CNN's RWer Ruben Navarette opined about the use of the term "White Hispanics" a couple weeks ago and insists the term should be eliminated:

http://www.cnn.com/2012/03/29/opinion/navarrette-white-hispanic/index.html

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
108. Yes, it's totally a visual cue, for the purpose of identification. Like color of t-shirt, kind of
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 11:10 PM
Apr 2012

kind of shoes, whatever. It's not a verified statement of fact. It's a visual cue for the police to spot someone. A description.

How do you expect the cops to find someone if they don't know whether they're looking for a white woman or a black man or a white man or an Asian woman?

I might say someone has blonde hair, but you'd say light brown. It's a description to help the police spot who they're looking for.

BumRushDaShow

(129,096 posts)
112. You just dug yourself into that same hole!
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 11:28 PM
Apr 2012

So this woman would be described as a "black female with straight black hair"?*


*(this is a woman from India considered an "untouchable&quot

And this one would be a "Hispanic female with straight blonde hair"?*


*(this is Beyonce, who is AA)

M'kay.

And with that, I bid you and this thread adieu because it is bedtime...

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
114. Depends on the light in which I saw these people. Give it a break! Giving race info is NECESSARY.
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 11:34 PM
Apr 2012

Unless you don't WANT criminals to be caught.

I'm not sure what I'd identify the top young woman as. Depends on the light. I might tell cops she's dark skinned, possibly Af American, possibly Indian. But if it's dark, I might describe her as I think she's black.

That would be close enough for the cops to know who they're looking for. AND THAT'S THE POINT.

You lose this argument, my friend. If I call 911, I'm giving as full a description as I can, including race. We all should do that. If you're embarrassed that a particular race is identified, that's a separate issue.

whatchamacallit

(15,558 posts)
143. A little off topic, but what a lovely smile that woman has
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 12:14 PM
Apr 2012

Despite her plight, she radiates beauty from the heart...

BumRushDaShow

(129,096 posts)
146. Yet sadly
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 12:46 PM
Apr 2012

like so many others with "darker" hues, she is relegated to the bottom of society - much of this as a direct result of the rampant visciousness of colonialism.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
110. It's just a general description by a witness. No need to get into profiling. Are witnesses now
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 11:16 PM
Apr 2012

not expected to attempt to identify a person out of fear of offending someone? That's ridiculous.

If someone is breaking into your house and he looks like a black male of around 30 or so, wearing a white t-shirt and dark sweatpants, then that's what you see, and that gives the cops a clue on what to look for.

It's not profiling. It's a description of what you have SEEN. But note that a 911 call is not about, "I see a black man in the street." The cops would say, "So?" But if you say I see a white man running down the street carrying a jewelry box, and an elderly woman shouting after him that she's been burglarized, and he's wearing a dark warmup suit.....that's a call to 911 based on behavior, with race as a description.

trof

(54,256 posts)
7. That's why there are 'Neighborhood Watch' organizations..
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 07:51 PM
Apr 2012

You call police, NOT ON 911, and report suspicious activity.
AFAIK, every police dep't. has a number you can call.

 

karnac

(564 posts)
14. At the time I thought 911 was overkill.
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 07:58 PM
Apr 2012

Since then i have called the right number to get a fixit ticket taken care of.

TorchTheWitch

(11,065 posts)
59. no, not all of them do
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 09:11 PM
Apr 2012

Ours and others in my area do not have a direct line to police after business hours and a recording instructs you to in future call 911 and the call is then automatically forwarded to 911 dispatch. During regular business hours they have both an emergency regular number that goes directly into the police station and a non-emergency number that does the same. If the emergency regular number is busy or is not answered after three rings the call gets automatically forwarded to 911 dispatch.

When 911 was first established in our area everyone got a notice about it in the mail, and at that time there weren't plans to have any regular emergency number that went into the police station at all whether during business hours or not, but as it turned out there weren't enough 911 operators when it was first started, so they had to revert to having the regular emergency number that went into the police station but only during regular business hours and rig the phone system to forward to 911 if the regular emergency police station number was busy or wasn't answered after three rings. They never got rid of the regular emergency number and the temporary system they had to establish has stayed the same for many years now. I guess they figured with our well-staffed police service and boring township where not a whole lot of crime happens it was more feasible to keep it this way than hire and train more 911 operators.

Our township police are well-paid and well-staffed especially since nothing much happens around here. For police stations that are understaffed and/or busy with a lot of crime that goes on in their area it's most likely that they have no emergency regular number that goes directly into the police stations and calls go directly to 911 to free up their officers from having to deal with emergency phone calls. After all, this is why 911 dispatch was invented and wanted in the first place.


marmar

(77,081 posts)
13. Since said event is already in the past, why do you need DU's "collective wisdom"?
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 07:55 PM
Apr 2012

What is the point of this post?


noiretextatique

(27,275 posts)
184. the point is trying to make zimmerman's actions seem reasonable
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 09:59 PM
Apr 2012

after all, black males are automatically suspect.

 

Liberal_Stalwart71

(20,450 posts)
20. I can't begin to express how fucked up your post is. Why the need to post on DU? For approval?
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 08:02 PM
Apr 2012

Pathetic! You need to deal with your internalized racism!

Ikonoklast

(23,973 posts)
57. And the jury says...
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 09:03 PM
Apr 2012

At Sun Apr 22, 2012, 07:39 PM an alert was sent on the following post:

I can't begin to express how fucked up your post is. Why the need to post on DU? For approval?

REASON FOR ALERT:

This post is disruptive, hurtful, rude, insensitive, over-the-top, or otherwise inappropriate. (See <a href="http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=aboutus#communitystandards" target="_blank">Community Standards</a>.)

ALERTER'S COMMENTS:

Hurtful. Directly called a poster a racist when the OP did not condemn any race. Merely related a story and facts thereof.

You served on a randomly-selected Jury of DU members which reviewed this post. The review was completed at Sun Apr 22, 2012, 07:52 PM, and the Jury voted 3-3 to LEAVE IT.

Juror #1 voted to HIDE IT and said: Personal attack.
Juror #2 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE and said: No explanation given
Juror #3 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE and said: The OP was atrocious, and this type of response should have been expected. It's like the old judicial concept of "fighting words." I think that while this post was harsh it was perfectly called for.
Juror #4 voted to HIDE IT and said: I agree with the alerter.
Juror #5 voted to HIDE IT and said: No explanation given
Juror #6 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE and said: The OP is spinning a yarn, and the poster alerted on is calling him on it. IMO, the OP is a complete "Cool Story Bro!" load of bullshit. Leave it. And the ladies posting in that thread need to take a cold shower.

Thank you very much for participating in our Jury system, and we hope you will be able to participate again in the future.








I was Juror #6.

zeemike

(18,998 posts)
83. oh that has to be a duzy
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 10:10 PM
Apr 2012

Someone needs to make a LMAO smiley...that phrase us under used.
And I love it that that jury member could make his point with some humor.
 

Liberal_Stalwart71

(20,450 posts)
122. Thank you! I wasn't calling the OP racist. I suggested that he/she deal with internalized
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 07:49 AM
Apr 2012

racism of which most of us suffer from!

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
86. How is his post racist? Are you maybe angry at the reality of what the poster said, and that
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 10:14 PM
Apr 2012

he brought it to everyone's attention? He did it because it's similar to the Martin case, would be my guess.

It's an interesting post. Good discussion.

ecstatic

(32,712 posts)
97. Interesting post if you enjoy
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 10:29 PM
Apr 2012

reading bullshit. The story does not ring true at all. Seriously, who does that?

 

Liberal_Stalwart71

(20,450 posts)
123. Whenever one assumes or implies ANYTHING, bringing race or color in it, then yes it's racist.
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 07:52 AM
Apr 2012

Not the OP but the sentiment *IS* racist. The OP and/or his girlfriend makes all kinds of assumptions about the marauder without any proof. What they do is bring the race of the person into the discussion and makes those assumptions. If you can't see the underlying problem with that, then I'm not sure what else to say or think.

I believe that the OP is baiting. Why start this thread in the first place? The Martin case is a very sensitive case. Why pour salt on an open wound? And again, why bring RACE into this?

I was not calling the OP a racist. I was suggesting that he/she deal with internalized racism, which does NOT amount to calling someone an inherent racist.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
140. Similar things have happened to me. I hear something, go outside....
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 11:01 AM
Apr 2012

and there's someone standing there trying to act nonchalant. Now I know that's who was doing the whatever, and he knows, but there's no proof. This sort of thing happens a lot, I would think.

If the guy had been white or Asian, I wonder if you would have considered it racist if he mentioned the race of the guy.

We're all against racism, but it's kinda hard to give a physical description w/o giving the perceived race. I attended a racial sensitivity seminar at my workplace. The lady speaking said that she was watching the news when they were talking about a recent local crime. She said they didn't give the race of the perps, but they showed their pics on the news. She said that was racist...there was no reason to do that (they were Af. American). Now, that's just ridiculous. That is trying to hide the identity of criminals when they happen to be a particular race. Mug shots are frequently shown on tv, regardless of race of the perps.

Being a particular race is part of an identity and description. It seems to me that the focus should be on trying to stop crimes by young men (it's far and away young men) of a certain race, than trying to hide the fact that they were convicted of crimes.

I am white. I am female. That is the description that would be given to cops if someone called in for me to be checked out as a possible perp, as well as the color of my hair, the length, what I'm wearing, approximate age. That is not discrimination against whites and females.

 

Liberal_Stalwart71

(20,450 posts)
157. No! He named the title of the OP "I stalked a black kid!" Yes it is racist. Why start this thread
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 01:12 PM
Apr 2012

in the first place? It is bringing up a very sensitive issue in the vein of the Martin case. Very few people here understand how this looks.

I am black and female. Every single day people make unfounded assumptions about me based on how I look and regardless of my talents or the way I am dressed.

The OP has to know the amount of damage his thread would cause. I'm sorry, but I see right through it. At the very least, it amounts to race baiting, knowing what kind of response the thread is likely to get. I don't see the innocence of the OP at all. Forgive me, but I think you're being just a little naive here.

BumRushDaShow

(129,096 posts)
162. "Being a particular race is part of an identity and description"
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 01:31 PM
Apr 2012

The problem is that someone else has defined the "identity and description" of others and in most cases, the definer was not the definee. And that is where the breakdown occurred, and where the reality ends, and the stereotypes begin.

I.e., people have to spend decades trying to recover who they really are and not what someone else said they are. And worse, when people try to redefine themselves, it immediately throws the definers out of their comfort zones. At this point, the definers then go through all kinds of crazy shit to "right" their now-turned-upside-down-world, including attacking the individual for rejecting the definer's purported wisdom of all things in the world. We see that with the GOP and their dealing with the current President, and we see it right here in this thread.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
183. It's a way to describe someone to cops, so they know who to look for.
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 09:51 PM
Apr 2012

Would you leave out the fact that it's a woman, for example? Or a young person? Or someone with blonde hair? Those are the kinds of descriptions that are more helpful than "the person who tried to break into my house is running down Burger Street...the person is wearing a red cap and jeans."

People have gotten to where they just don't want any race or ethnicity or other type of minority mentioned at all, as if it doesn't exist. It's NECESSARY to describe to the cops who to look for. If you want that person caught, that is. It's just ridiculous to try to argue that you shouldn't try to fully describe a possible perp to the cops.

 

Liberal_Stalwart71

(20,450 posts)
159. I noticed your bullshit responses throughout this thread so I'm putting you on IGNORE
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 01:19 PM
Apr 2012

You can spot responding to me now. I see where you're coming from.

Ecumenist

(6,086 posts)
177. Liberal_Stalwart, I've noticed that abou t Honeycombe too. It's a pattern with them. It's
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 03:54 PM
Apr 2012

not the first time they've made "questionable" comments.. NOT. AT. ALL!

Quixote1818

(28,946 posts)
22. If you were pretty sure it was him trying to get into your window I don't see a problem
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 08:05 PM
Apr 2012

That is completely different from someone just minding their own business walking along the street and you getting out of your truck and following them.
 

karnac

(564 posts)
33. I didn't see him do anything illegal, period.
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 08:14 PM
Apr 2012

She is still kinda paranoid. For all I know she merely saw his shadow on the window and freaked.

Quixote1818

(28,946 posts)
43. I think it was just your protective instincts kicking in
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 08:37 PM
Apr 2012

People worried about the one they love are naturally going to react and check out the situation. That is common sense. Completely different from what Zimmerman did as Martin had done nothing but walk down the street and it sounds like you were a little more diplomatic than Zimmerman by asking "Can I help you?" However, if the kid had done nothing I can see why he would have been pissed off. We will never know.

Maraya1969

(22,483 posts)
26. And.......
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 08:09 PM
Apr 2012

And I agree with the other posters. You are a complete fabrication. If someone was peaking into windows or trying to get into windows I would damn well call the police, not follow the person.

I call racist bullshit. Go take a nap.

zeemike

(18,998 posts)
27. You erred right in the beginning not calling the cops
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 08:09 PM
Apr 2012

someone peeking in windows should be reported...end of story.

 

alcibiades_mystery

(36,437 posts)
32. They were all in the garage for a meeting of the Constitution Club with Snake Alchemist
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 08:14 PM
Apr 2012

when the black boy stepped out of line...

Response to CatWoman (Reply #30)

 

karnac

(564 posts)
101. I expected it.
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 10:48 PM
Apr 2012

In fact I recognize one of the posters in this thread in your pic. front row, second from the right.

But let's not name names. This is just too good.

Ikonoklast

(23,973 posts)
120. That's Frank and all of his idiot drooling followers coming out of the cave to post in this thread.
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 07:46 AM
Apr 2012

Glad you recognize them, the rest of us certainly do.

 

AmazingSchnitzel

(55 posts)
179. I have no way to know if it's real or not...
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 04:23 PM
Apr 2012

... so what's the point of internet outrage either way?

Doesn't cause me a bit of concern in any case...

Cheers...

 

Cali_Democrat

(30,439 posts)
47. Are you trying to compare this fake story in some way to the Trayvon situation?
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 08:51 PM
Apr 2012

Trayvon was doing nothing except walking home when he was stalked and followed. The character in your phony story was peering through windows.

 

karnac

(564 posts)
66. I don't know how different one way or the other.
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 09:28 PM
Apr 2012

All we(The public) have is Zimmerman's rather vague 911 recording. Doesn't say what thought was "Suspicious". We shall see at the trial if his story is consistent throughout his several questionings and lie detector checks.

Personally I *think* is Travon wasn't even coming close to looking in windows.

My guess is Travon got lost and was looking at the house numbers to see if he was at his dad's. The houses in the gated community all look alike.

My very REAL incident does relate to the Travon/Zimmerman tale, but only to a point. Neither of us got really frightened or angry. And neither of us were in any danger or proximity. As far as i know for SURE nobody broke any law.

Except for my slashed tires and i STILL can't prove the kid did it. Just that it makes sense.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
72. "My very REAL incident does relate to the Travon/Zimmerman tale, but only to a point."
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 09:39 PM
Apr 2012

How so? The dark skin? The hoodie?

How else does it relate?

ProSense

(116,464 posts)
98. So
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 10:39 PM
Apr 2012

"My guess is Travon got lost and was looking at the house numbers to see if he was at his dad's. The houses in the gated community all look alike."

...assigning the transparently absurd title to your OP ("I stalked/followed a black kid!&quot , you were attempting to justify Zimmerman's actions, equating the above to "peering through" windows?

Your premise: "Black kid," "lost and was looking at the house numbers" deserved to be "stalked/followed"

Bonus presumption of guilt: "Next day my tires were slashed. Never happened before or since."

If it's even true: http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=597619

I can't imagine why anyone would perceive this as racist!

CreekDog

(46,192 posts)
165. and the OP ended up posting later to say that his tires had been slashed before
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 02:45 PM
Apr 2012

oh just fail, fail, fail, right?

blue neen

(12,322 posts)
116. To think that DU has an international novelist in its midst!
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 11:45 PM
Apr 2012

Why just back in 2004, karnac was spinning yarns for DU from the UK!



 

saras

(6,670 posts)
65. Would you have behaved differently if you had went out and a white kid was looking into windows?
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 09:27 PM
Apr 2012

polly7

(20,582 posts)
69. What could be wrong with questioning anyone you saw peeping in windows?
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 09:34 PM
Apr 2012

I don't get the point of this thread either. Trayvon Martin wasn't doing anything wrong.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
88. Bad idea to question a stranger and accuse him of attempted burglary, esp if he DID try to break in.
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 10:17 PM
Apr 2012

Too dangerous.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
82. I think it IS against the law to be peeping Tom, even if he wasn't breaking in.
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 10:08 PM
Apr 2012

Yep, you caught a perp in the process.

flvegan

(64,408 posts)
85. You're an idiot.
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 10:13 PM
Apr 2012

Not that I believe an ounce of this Superball-esque bouncy post, but here's the deal based on what you've said...

Your co-habitant stated an individual made an attempt to break in. You went out (tough guy, good job) to assess the situation. Upon doing so, the alleged crim kept moving. Yet, he seemed to come back after your manly assertion (sorry, reading too far into it?). He peered in more windows.

So...at this point, if not one previously, the cops (they drive those cars with all the lights on them with the sirens, fyi) should have been called.

The age, gender, skin color, nor anything else mattered.

So you're proud of taking a picture, yet doing nothing. Except maybe getting your tires slashed.

It "bothered (you) that your girlfriend was right" Say no more, say no more.

ProSense

(116,464 posts)
93. Well, the OP
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 10:23 PM
Apr 2012

has one rec, guess who?

From the OP:

"Next day my tires were slashed. Never happened before or since."

Then there is this: http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=597619

Definitely a stupid and contrived story indicative of someone with issues.

Number23

(24,544 posts)
111. Ha! Well if the OP didn't rec his own foolishness, who will????
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 11:21 PM
Apr 2012

I'm a bit surprised. I actually thought I knew the one person on all of DU that would rec this tripe as they are one of only about 3 posters that seem to rec EVERY bit of racially questionable BS that gets posted here.

Ikonoklast

(23,973 posts)
131. THAT story was far more believable than this load of bovine excrement.
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 09:00 AM
Apr 2012

Thanks for the reminder, I'm going back to read that one again.

A real classic.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
94. Interesting post.
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 10:24 PM
Apr 2012

Following him was legal, I think. Maybe not smart, but legal.

As far as I know, it is against the law to peep into windows, so you did see him break the law.

I can see why you didn't want to bother the police, but if you were concerned at all, that's what you should have done, so the cops could've questioned him and gotten his identity. Now he's just a ticked off stranger who may target your place.

If the cops had gotten his identity, he might've avoided your neighborhood in the future.

Talking to him was maybe not a good idea. Haven't we learned from the Martin incident that asking a total stranger that you think is doing something wrong, what they are doing, is not a good idea? (I've done things like that in the past, though, sort of. It's a reflex response.

You think you were being a detective. Maybe the cops couldn't have gotten there soon enuf to get his identity. But...you didn't accomplish much in that you don't have his name and address or his statement of what he was doing.

If you'd called the cops, they might've gotten actual information that would prevent him from burglarizing your neighborhood in the future.

But I can understand your hesitancy to use 911 resources for something you think isn't serious. So if it's not serious, don't be following people.

ecstatic

(32,712 posts)
95. To answer your question: stupid
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 10:26 PM
Apr 2012

Let's say your story is true--white, black, latino, or asian, it's OK to call the police on someone you think is peering through windows.

What's *not* OK is to try to take the law into your own hands and kill the guy yourself (although, there's a great chance the police would kill the guy anyway). Sigh...

 

RZM

(8,556 posts)
102. 'Great chance?'
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 10:51 PM
Apr 2012

On average, the police kill a little less than 400 people annually. I don't know how many calls the police get every year for 'suspicious persons,' but I would be surprised if it isn't in the hundreds of thousands, if not even higher. There were over 9 million instances of property crime alone in 2010 in the US. So you have to think the number of calls is pretty high. Even if the police are only interacting with suspects a small percentage of the time they are called, there's no way you can call 400 out of whatever number that is a 'great chance' that such a suspect will be shot.

The truth is probably the opposite. I'll bet there's only teeny-tiniest chance the police would shoot such a person.

ecstatic

(32,712 posts)
117. Tell that to Kenneth Chamberlain, Sr or
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 12:18 AM
Apr 2012

DJ Henry. That number is appalling, IMO. I wonder how many of those people were unarmed?

 

RZM

(8,556 posts)
118. That's like saying
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 12:22 AM
Apr 2012

'Tell a victim of a plane crash that planes aren't safe.' Of course, if you die in a plane crash, you've had a pretty bad experience. Crashes do happen. But most air travelers get to their destinations safely.

You have to put these numbers in perspective. The cops shoot about 400 people per year. Some of them definitely didn't deserve it. But when put against the huge number of people the cops deal with, those shot are a very small percentage of the overall total.

I get what you're saying. But what you initially argued is patently false. The 'great chance' is that suspects aren't shot.

JustABozoOnThisBus

(23,350 posts)
119. Good thing you didn't have a gun ...
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 07:46 AM
Apr 2012

You might have shot your thumb off.

Next time you see someone suspicious in the neighborhood, call 911. Let the kid slash the cops' tires.

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
128. oh for the love of reason. You didn't want to waste your time calling the cops
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 08:08 AM
Apr 2012

but you had time to follow the kid and take his picture.

oh, and I'm in the camp calling dogshit on your little tale.

JoePhilly

(27,787 posts)
129. Alternate Theory: His father thought you were a pedophile.
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 08:21 AM
Apr 2012

Here's the alternative story.

Your paranoid girlfriend decides you're working to much and ignoring her. So to get your attention, she makes up a story of about a potential burglar. She figures that you'll go outside and be her protector. And then you'll come back in, with your manly juices churning, and she'll get to have some "hero sex".

You go outside, see a black kid, and immediately assume that he's the burglar. But you didn't see him actually do anything. So you go back in.

The hero sex your girlfriend was hoping for ends rather quickly because you're too distracted. You're thinking about that kid / burglar. So 5 minutes later, you go out for a smoke.

Again you see that kid. Now he's down the block. You start to think that he's planning to break into one of the houses.

In reality, he's walking up and down the street bored to death while waiting for a friend who lives at one of the houses, and who was supposed to be ready to leave 10 minutes ago. His friend is always late.

So you get in your pickup truck, and start towards him. He sees you, and can't understand why the same creepy guy he saw earlier now seems to be following him. He starts to walk away. Then you drive by real slow and take his picture.

When he gets home, he tells his father about the creepy man in a pickup truck who followed him and took his picture.

The father is very concerned. After all, his son is tall for his age, but still only 12 years old. And there have been lots of stories about pedophiles in the news recently.

But he doesn't call the police. He didn't see you do anything. It would be a waste of time.

So he decides to send you a message. He slashes your tires to send you a warning.

When he got home, he was very proud of himself.

It only took him 10 minutes, and he scared you from raping another child. You'll think twice before you try that in HIS neighborhood!


Lex

(34,108 posts)
139. And who would anyway?
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 10:53 AM
Apr 2012

I'm just assuming the people who took him seriously were giving him the benefit of the doubt, but I'm not.




 

slackmaster

(60,567 posts)
134. I would have called the cops, and stayed on it until they showed up
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 09:10 AM
Apr 2012
When I got back I was real proud of myself. Only killed 10 minutes and scared the kid from committing a burglary! He would think twice about doing that in OUR neighborhood. All without having to call 911. Back to work!

Next day my tires were slashed. Never happened before or since.


You're on someone's shit list now.

whatchamacallit

(15,558 posts)
144. Strange...
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 12:36 PM
Apr 2012

After reading through most of this thread, what stands out to me is your "good humor and patience". You must be a saint. I know if I told a story that was *true*, and everyone accused me of being a lying racist, I'd be pissed, hurt, and defensive. Not you, you just keep calmly tossing balls in the air.

Strange...

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
160. Calling the police was most certainly not out of the question.
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 01:24 PM
Apr 2012

Calling the police was most certainly not out of the question, and would have been the wisest and most prudent course of action-- regardless of how much time you may think would have been "wasted". Additionally, the tires you allege were slashed may have made it through the evening without injury had you not forced a confrontation.

So, a mere ten minutes on the phone with local law enforcement, or slashed tires-- not the most sensible choice you've ever made, I imagine...

NNN0LHI

(67,190 posts)
178. How do you know the person wasn't having diabetic ketoacidosis?
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 04:16 PM
Apr 2012

The police once found my father, a diabetic, confused and walking up and down in front of his own street and unable to locate his own house. He was really out of it. Someone called the police and they called an ambulance which maybe saved his life.

You could have had a sick person who was confused and not thinking correctly and instead of calling the police you begin taking pictures of the person without considering his welfare?

I think calling the police would have been the moral thing to do.

Don

Response to karnac (Original post)

Evoman

(8,040 posts)
182. This story is missing a scene where you walk away slowly as a car explodes behind you.
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 05:08 PM
Apr 2012

To ratchet up the racism and mystery, you also should have had the kid later actually break into a house. The twist is, we don't know for sure it was him...all that was found at the scene of the crime was watermelon seed and a carton of purple drink.

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