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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsIndiana church that booted gay choir director to close due to falling attendance
http://www.lgbtqnation.com/2014/12/indiana-church-that-booted-gay-choir-director-to-close-due-to-falling-attendance/David Mantor, pastor of the First United Methodist Church in Alexandria, Ind., says the decision to close the church resulted from falling attendance, membership and financing problems, reports The Herald Bulletin.
The church made national headlines in January when as much as eighty percent of the congregants left the church after a popular gay choir director was forced to resign, and a respected church lay leader was fired for his support of the choir director.
Former choir director Adam Fraley worked at the church for six years and attended with his partner, but when a new minister took over, he said that he resigned because of pressure about his sexual orientation.
Instant karma's gonna get you...
Manifestor_of_Light
(21,046 posts)I keep hoping he was right with that song.
Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)They're not buying what these churches are selling.
closeupready
(29,503 posts)Homophobia is the biggest reason I left Catholicism behind.
Edited for typo, oops.
Initech
(100,080 posts)hedgehog
(36,286 posts)or as our priest says, the English Catholics.
closeupready
(29,503 posts)Mostly, Xtians are anti-semitic and homophobic. It is part-and-parcel of their dogma.
YOU may not be, and I love you for the thought, but I don't think xtianity is The Way.
Cheers!
hedgehog
(36,286 posts)the Episcopals would be worth a look. The parishes which insist on homophobia and/or no female priests have withdrawn from the American Church to become part of African dioceses.
In any case, Peace be with you.
bmbmd
(3,088 posts)The good Methodists of the FUMC in Alexandria acted Christ-like. They supported their friend, stuck true to their beliefs, and affected great change. Good on them.
douggg
(239 posts)The Catholic Church condemns homosexuality so vigorously and yet actively protected their own pederast priests for many decades.
Hassin Bin Sober
(26,330 posts)KamaAina
(78,249 posts)and get the thread hidden.
Hassin Bin Sober
(26,330 posts)LonePirate
(13,424 posts)niyad
(113,334 posts)joeybee12
(56,177 posts)80% walk out...pretty much the entire congregation weren't bigoted d-bags like Mantor.
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)has a wicked sense of ironic humor.
liberalhistorian
(20,818 posts)social-justice-oriented seminary, where at least half of the students, faculty and staff are GLBT. We've been laughing our asses off about this, especially at the idiot new pastor whose short-sighted bigotry caused it all. And he's still in denial, claiming that it had nothing to do with the church closing. LOL, yeah, you keep telling yourself that, idiot. Whatever makes you feel better and however you can spin your loss to your regional superiors, who are not going to be happy with you.
LibDemAlways
(15,139 posts)All Saints Episcopal in hugely wealthy conservative Montecito, Ca just hired a new rector who brought along her wife and their 4 year old daughter. She was hired after an exhaustive search and won the unanimous support of the committee tasked with finding the best candidate. She was greeted with open arms and all seems to be going well. That church in Indiana deserved its fate. What goes around comes around.
wryter2000
(46,051 posts)My Episcopal church celebrates and loves our LGBT members and their families.
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,732 posts)lit up with rainbow lights on the day the state passed a law allowing same-sex marriage.
stevenleser
(32,886 posts)Every few days a new homophobic message is posted.
Here are some images of past signs. Note, very homophobic so click at your own risk https://www.google.com/search?q=atlah+church&espv=2&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ei=8W2UVKOBCqmQsQS1tYKYDw&ved=0CAgQ_AUoAw&biw=1366&bih=667
Jack Rabbit
(45,984 posts)I used to be half of a mixed marriage. Please give Pastor Manning my warmest regards -- by flipping him off. Be sure to tell him it's from me, and that my message is that he didn't know Ann Dunham well enough to talk about her the way he does.
stevenleser
(32,886 posts)MADem
(135,425 posts)In actual fact, we know he's Number 2....a great big, heaping LOAD of Number 2.
m-lekktor
(3,675 posts)I saw him call Obama a long legged mack daddy on one video. I can't believe anybody would take him serious!
stevenleser
(32,886 posts)whackjob right wing social conservatives.
Jack Rabbit
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markpkessinger
(8,401 posts). . . which specializes in training organists, choral conductors and music teachers. When I was there in the early '80s, there were only three undergraduate majors: Church Music, Music Education and Performance, and within each major one had a principle instrument of either voice, organ or piano. There was, even when I entered as a freshman in 1979, a very large openly gay student body (probably approaching 50% of the student body), as well as many openly gay faculty (including the Dean). But things hadn't always been so open and accepting. The school was founded in the 1920s as a Presbyterian School (by the time I entered, the school had dropped any denominational affiliation). In the late '60s and early '70s, the Board of Trustees had been engaging of purges of gay students. They would actually have people barge into dorm rooms unannounced, and upon finding two men (or two women) in bed together, the two students would be sent packing the following morning.
In the wake of the Stonewall uprising in '69, students (and many faculty) began protesting these purges. It all came to a head at a trustees meeting sometime in the early '70s, where the diminutive (and heterosexual) head of the organ department, Dr. Joan Lippincott, addressed the trustees, saying: "Well, if you're going to start expelling gay students, I suggest you should also dismiss gay faculty as well. And if you do that, you'll have gotten rid of half of the students, three-quarters of the faculty, and all of the talent." Following her speech, the trustees took a vote to eliminate all anti-gay policies then in effect. The school has been open and accepting ever since. And Dr. Lippincott, bless her heart, was a hero to all gay students from that day forward!
oberle
(29 posts)was a force to be reckoned with. I'm an organist and she has a great reputation among organists.
markpkessinger
(8,401 posts)americannightmare
(322 posts)that free enterprise system is a bitch, ain't it!
"...and he needs money! Just can't handle money!"
Hekate
(90,714 posts)....progressive UUs who got their start in the Methodists in previous years.
It didn't have to be like this in Indiana. Good for the congregation!
Major Nikon
(36,827 posts)irisblue
(32,980 posts)dumbasses
darkangel218
(13,985 posts)AndyTiedye
(23,500 posts)greyl
(22,990 posts)Running churches should have prominent signs saying "Open For Business".
valerief
(53,235 posts)NewDeal_Dem
(1,049 posts)maybe the congregation would return.
MADem
(135,425 posts)I don't think it's too bad at all--it's a reap what you sow kind of situation.
That guy was a hater, and I'm sure that the people who left in disgust are feeling a bit of schadenfreude over this turn of events.
A religion shouldn't be hateful or discriminatory, or tolerate that kind of conduct.
I think it's a good lesson on how NOT to behave!
NewDeal_Dem
(1,049 posts)to do with the 'religion'. Methodists aren't know for being especially fundie or homophobic.
I'd say it had everything to do with the new pastor, and it's a shame to lose the church for that when they could just fire the pastor.
MADem
(135,425 posts)I think maybe the congregation got an up-close and personal look at the tenets of the faith, and eighty percent of them didn't like what they saw:
¶ 341.6: Ceremonies that celebrate homosexual unions shall not be conducted by our ministers and shall not be conducted in our churches.
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806.9 Fiscal Responsibilities of the General Council on Finance and Administration
The General Council on Finance and Administration shall be responsible for ensuring that no board, agency, committee, commission, or council shall give United Methodist funds to any gay caucus or group, or otherwise use such funds to promote the acceptance of homosexuality or violate the expressed commitment of The United Methodist Church "not to reject or condemn lesbian and gay members and friends" (¶ 161F). The council shall have the right to stop such expenditures.18 It shall not limit the Church's ministry in response to the HIV epidemic.
Gee, they won't give their money to gay-bashers, but they won't let gay people get married in their church, either (they're more than welcome to put a few bucks in the plate, though!).
Look what happens to those who stray from the accepted path!!!
http://www.umc.org/news-and-media/theologian-charged-for-same-sex-wedding
http://www.umc.org/news-and-media/dallas-pastor-faces-complaint-for-same-sex-service
http://www.umc.org/news-and-media/complaints-filed-against-bishop-talbert-for-same-sex-union
I think that congregation had the right idea--vote with their damn feet. If people start leaving in droves, the church will hemorrhage money and quickly adjust their policies to get those deep pockets back. They'd better move quick, though, because some people, when they leave, will never go back.
oberle
(29 posts)I'm aware that many church musicians are gay. Many churches just don't deal with it at all. The church I play at wouldn't hire a man because he was gay, and then I came along. What they don't know is that I'm an atheist.:--)
And welcome to DU!
Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)sabrina 1
(62,325 posts)Karma! Good for the Congregation.
TNNurse
(6,927 posts)But they could have also stayed and thrown out the "minister" and the 20% who were not really Christians. Oops, I forgot, I am not qualified to decide if someone is Christian or not... the ones who were bigots and awful people.
winterwar
(210 posts)I absolutely love it when people get what they deserve
nikto
(3,284 posts)Stick it to 'em, Jehovah.