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KamaAina

(78,249 posts)
Thu Dec 18, 2014, 03:19 PM Dec 2014

Indiana church that booted gay choir director to close due to falling attendance

http://www.lgbtqnation.com/2014/12/indiana-church-that-booted-gay-choir-director-to-close-due-to-falling-attendance/

A Methodist church in Indiana that suffered a massive walk-out after forcing its gay choir director to resign, will close its doors for good at the end of 2014.

David Mantor, pastor of the First United Methodist Church in Alexandria, Ind., says the decision to close the church resulted from falling attendance, membership and financing problems, reports The Herald Bulletin.

The church made national headlines in January when as much as eighty percent of the congregants left the church after a popular gay choir director was forced to resign, and a respected church lay leader was fired for his support of the choir director.

Former choir director Adam Fraley worked at the church for six years and attended with his partner, but when a new minister took over, he said that he resigned because of pressure about his sexual orientation.


Instant karma's gonna get you...
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Indiana church that booted gay choir director to close due to falling attendance (Original Post) KamaAina Dec 2014 OP
I hope John Lennon was right. Manifestor_of_Light Dec 2014 #1
If there is any hope it lies with the younger generation. Arugula Latte Dec 2014 #30
Ha. Serves them right. Good on those who left. closeupready Dec 2014 #2
Same reason I left my church and never looked back. Initech Dec 2014 #3
Follow me over to the Episcopalians - hedgehog Dec 2014 #13
If most Xtians were kind, then I would, maybe. But they aren't. closeupready Dec 2014 #17
If you liked Catholicism, but not Roman Catholicism, hedgehog Dec 2014 #19
Seems like these Christians were kind. bmbmd Dec 2014 #31
Confusing, ain't it? douggg Dec 2014 #14
I don't know about instant. But it's close enough. Hassin Bin Sober Dec 2014 #4
Well, I didn't want to call karma a, uh, female dog KamaAina Dec 2014 #5
Yeah. Let's keep this a happy occasion. Hassin Bin Sober Dec 2014 #6
This should please Repubs as this is an example of the free market working as it should. LonePirate Dec 2014 #7
ah, the delicious scent of sweet kharma. niyad Dec 2014 #8
Did this effing idiot pastor know who is flock was? joeybee12 Dec 2014 #9
Karma/The Universe hifiguy Dec 2014 #10
I attend a progressive liberalhistorian Dec 2014 #11
On a more positive note, LibDemAlways Dec 2014 #12
My Episcopal church wryter2000 Dec 2014 #20
The Episcopal cathedral in my city The Velveteen Ocelot Dec 2014 #26
I'm waiting for that to happen to a bigoted church near me in Harlem. stevenleser Dec 2014 #15
Oh, my! Pastor Manning is your neighbor? Jack Rabbit Dec 2014 #16
Just six blocks away. Anytime I want to lose weight, I just need to walk by. Instant end to appetite stevenleser Dec 2014 #28
Surely you mean tell him that "He's Number ONE!!!" MADem Dec 2014 #45
that guy is batshit insane, I have seen video of him! m-lekktor Dec 2014 #18
Those desperate to cling to homophobia love the guy. I think he gets a lot of online donations from stevenleser Dec 2014 #29
!! Jack Rabbit Dec 2014 #21
I went to college at Westminster Choir College in Princeton, NJ . . . markpkessinger Dec 2014 #22
I've heart that Dr. Lippincott oberle Dec 2014 #24
Indeed she was! n/t markpkessinger Dec 2014 #25
The market has spoken... americannightmare Dec 2014 #23
I hope they headed for the Unitarian Universalists. Oddly enough, there's a bunch of socially .... Hekate Dec 2014 #27
I think Nelson said it best Major Nikon Dec 2014 #32
^^Nelson is right^^ irisblue Dec 2014 #39
Instant karma always works.. darkangel218 Dec 2014 #33
Surely We Can Spare them the World's Tiniest Quintet AndyTiedye Dec 2014 #34
"Church Closes for Business", hmm. greyl Dec 2014 #35
Only goes to prove the only thing worth hating is the hate. nt valerief Dec 2014 #36
Too bad; a nice-looking church in a sound-looking building. Why not fire the pastor, NewDeal_Dem Dec 2014 #37
Some other religion can buy the thing--a non-homophobic religion. MADem Dec 2014 #40
Since 80% of the congregation and some of the staff left I don't think it has much to NewDeal_Dem Dec 2014 #41
That pastor was only following "the party line," apparently. MADem Dec 2014 #44
K Cha Dec 2014 #38
As a church organist.... oberle Dec 2014 #42
... avebury Dec 2014 #43
ROFL! KamaAina Dec 2014 #50
karma Liberal_in_LA Dec 2014 #46
Maybe they would be willing to hand over the Church to the majority who walked out. sabrina 1 Dec 2014 #47
I admire the ones who left TNNurse Dec 2014 #48
hahahaha winterwar Dec 2014 #49
Ooh, God's punishment nikto Dec 2014 #51
 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
30. If there is any hope it lies with the younger generation.
Fri Dec 19, 2014, 11:55 PM
Dec 2014

They're not buying what these churches are selling.

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
2. Ha. Serves them right. Good on those who left.
Thu Dec 18, 2014, 03:22 PM
Dec 2014

Homophobia is the biggest reason I left Catholicism behind.

Edited for typo, oops.

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
17. If most Xtians were kind, then I would, maybe. But they aren't.
Fri Dec 19, 2014, 03:08 PM
Dec 2014

Mostly, Xtians are anti-semitic and homophobic. It is part-and-parcel of their dogma.

YOU may not be, and I love you for the thought, but I don't think xtianity is The Way.

Cheers!

hedgehog

(36,286 posts)
19. If you liked Catholicism, but not Roman Catholicism,
Fri Dec 19, 2014, 03:47 PM
Dec 2014

the Episcopals would be worth a look. The parishes which insist on homophobia and/or no female priests have withdrawn from the American Church to become part of African dioceses.

In any case, Peace be with you.

bmbmd

(3,088 posts)
31. Seems like these Christians were kind.
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 12:18 AM
Dec 2014

The good Methodists of the FUMC in Alexandria acted Christ-like. They supported their friend, stuck true to their beliefs, and affected great change. Good on them.

douggg

(239 posts)
14. Confusing, ain't it?
Fri Dec 19, 2014, 02:24 PM
Dec 2014

The Catholic Church condemns homosexuality so vigorously and yet actively protected their own pederast priests for many decades.

 

joeybee12

(56,177 posts)
9. Did this effing idiot pastor know who is flock was?
Thu Dec 18, 2014, 07:18 PM
Dec 2014

80% walk out...pretty much the entire congregation weren't bigoted d-bags like Mantor.

liberalhistorian

(20,818 posts)
11. I attend a progressive
Thu Dec 18, 2014, 08:08 PM
Dec 2014

social-justice-oriented seminary, where at least half of the students, faculty and staff are GLBT. We've been laughing our asses off about this, especially at the idiot new pastor whose short-sighted bigotry caused it all. And he's still in denial, claiming that it had nothing to do with the church closing. LOL, yeah, you keep telling yourself that, idiot. Whatever makes you feel better and however you can spin your loss to your regional superiors, who are not going to be happy with you.

LibDemAlways

(15,139 posts)
12. On a more positive note,
Fri Dec 19, 2014, 11:13 AM
Dec 2014

All Saints Episcopal in hugely wealthy conservative Montecito, Ca just hired a new rector who brought along her wife and their 4 year old daughter. She was hired after an exhaustive search and won the unanimous support of the committee tasked with finding the best candidate. She was greeted with open arms and all seems to be going well. That church in Indiana deserved its fate. What goes around comes around.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,732 posts)
26. The Episcopal cathedral in my city
Fri Dec 19, 2014, 11:00 PM
Dec 2014

lit up with rainbow lights on the day the state passed a law allowing same-sex marriage.

Jack Rabbit

(45,984 posts)
16. Oh, my! Pastor Manning is your neighbor?
Fri Dec 19, 2014, 02:53 PM
Dec 2014

I used to be half of a mixed marriage. Please give Pastor Manning my warmest regards -- by flipping him off. Be sure to tell him it's from me, and that my message is that he didn't know Ann Dunham well enough to talk about her the way he does.

 

stevenleser

(32,886 posts)
28. Just six blocks away. Anytime I want to lose weight, I just need to walk by. Instant end to appetite
Fri Dec 19, 2014, 11:40 PM
Dec 2014

MADem

(135,425 posts)
45. Surely you mean tell him that "He's Number ONE!!!"
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 11:42 PM
Dec 2014

In actual fact, we know he's Number 2....a great big, heaping LOAD of Number 2.

m-lekktor

(3,675 posts)
18. that guy is batshit insane, I have seen video of him!
Fri Dec 19, 2014, 03:16 PM
Dec 2014

I saw him call Obama a long legged mack daddy on one video. I can't believe anybody would take him serious!

 

stevenleser

(32,886 posts)
29. Those desperate to cling to homophobia love the guy. I think he gets a lot of online donations from
Fri Dec 19, 2014, 11:49 PM
Dec 2014

whackjob right wing social conservatives.

markpkessinger

(8,401 posts)
22. I went to college at Westminster Choir College in Princeton, NJ . . .
Fri Dec 19, 2014, 08:34 PM
Dec 2014

. . . which specializes in training organists, choral conductors and music teachers. When I was there in the early '80s, there were only three undergraduate majors: Church Music, Music Education and Performance, and within each major one had a principle instrument of either voice, organ or piano. There was, even when I entered as a freshman in 1979, a very large openly gay student body (probably approaching 50% of the student body), as well as many openly gay faculty (including the Dean). But things hadn't always been so open and accepting. The school was founded in the 1920s as a Presbyterian School (by the time I entered, the school had dropped any denominational affiliation). In the late '60s and early '70s, the Board of Trustees had been engaging of purges of gay students. They would actually have people barge into dorm rooms unannounced, and upon finding two men (or two women) in bed together, the two students would be sent packing the following morning.

In the wake of the Stonewall uprising in '69, students (and many faculty) began protesting these purges. It all came to a head at a trustees meeting sometime in the early '70s, where the diminutive (and heterosexual) head of the organ department, Dr. Joan Lippincott, addressed the trustees, saying: "Well, if you're going to start expelling gay students, I suggest you should also dismiss gay faculty as well. And if you do that, you'll have gotten rid of half of the students, three-quarters of the faculty, and all of the talent." Following her speech, the trustees took a vote to eliminate all anti-gay policies then in effect. The school has been open and accepting ever since. And Dr. Lippincott, bless her heart, was a hero to all gay students from that day forward!

oberle

(29 posts)
24. I've heart that Dr. Lippincott
Fri Dec 19, 2014, 10:42 PM
Dec 2014

was a force to be reckoned with. I'm an organist and she has a great reputation among organists.

americannightmare

(322 posts)
23. The market has spoken...
Fri Dec 19, 2014, 08:39 PM
Dec 2014

that free enterprise system is a bitch, ain't it!




"...and he needs money! Just can't handle money!"

Hekate

(90,714 posts)
27. I hope they headed for the Unitarian Universalists. Oddly enough, there's a bunch of socially ....
Fri Dec 19, 2014, 11:27 PM
Dec 2014

....progressive UUs who got their start in the Methodists in previous years.

It didn't have to be like this in Indiana. Good for the congregation!

greyl

(22,990 posts)
35. "Church Closes for Business", hmm.
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 01:48 AM
Dec 2014

Running churches should have prominent signs saying "Open For Business".

 

NewDeal_Dem

(1,049 posts)
37. Too bad; a nice-looking church in a sound-looking building. Why not fire the pastor,
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 03:23 AM
Dec 2014

maybe the congregation would return.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
40. Some other religion can buy the thing--a non-homophobic religion.
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 08:21 PM
Dec 2014

I don't think it's too bad at all--it's a reap what you sow kind of situation.

That guy was a hater, and I'm sure that the people who left in disgust are feeling a bit of schadenfreude over this turn of events.

A religion shouldn't be hateful or discriminatory, or tolerate that kind of conduct.

I think it's a good lesson on how NOT to behave!

 

NewDeal_Dem

(1,049 posts)
41. Since 80% of the congregation and some of the staff left I don't think it has much to
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 09:42 PM
Dec 2014

to do with the 'religion'. Methodists aren't know for being especially fundie or homophobic.

I'd say it had everything to do with the new pastor, and it's a shame to lose the church for that when they could just fire the pastor.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
44. That pastor was only following "the party line," apparently.
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 11:40 PM
Dec 2014

I think maybe the congregation got an up-close and personal look at the tenets of the faith, and eighty percent of them didn't like what they saw:

304.3: The practice of homosexuality is incompatible with Christian teaching. Therefore self-avowed practicing homosexuals are not to be certified as candidates, ordained as ministers, or appointed to serve in The United Methodist Church....

¶ 341.6: Ceremonies that celebrate homosexual unions shall not be conducted by our ministers and shall not be conducted in our churches.

....

806.9 Fiscal Responsibilities of the General Council on Finance and Administration

The General Council on Finance and Administration shall be responsible for ensuring that no board, agency, committee, commission, or council shall give United Methodist funds to any gay caucus or group, or otherwise use such funds to promote the acceptance of homosexuality or violate the expressed commitment of The United Methodist Church "not to reject or condemn lesbian and gay members and friends" (¶ 161F). The council shall have the right to stop such expenditures.18 It shall not limit the Church's ministry in response to the HIV epidemic.
http://www.umc.org/what-we-believe/what-is-the-denominations-position-on-homosexuality

Gee, they won't give their money to gay-bashers, but they won't let gay people get married in their church, either (they're more than welcome to put a few bucks in the plate, though!).

Look what happens to those who stray from the accepted path!!!

http://www.umc.org/news-and-media/theologian-charged-for-same-sex-wedding

http://www.umc.org/news-and-media/dallas-pastor-faces-complaint-for-same-sex-service

http://www.umc.org/news-and-media/complaints-filed-against-bishop-talbert-for-same-sex-union

I think that congregation had the right idea--vote with their damn feet. If people start leaving in droves, the church will hemorrhage money and quickly adjust their policies to get those deep pockets back. They'd better move quick, though, because some people, when they leave, will never go back.

oberle

(29 posts)
42. As a church organist....
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 10:16 PM
Dec 2014

I'm aware that many church musicians are gay. Many churches just don't deal with it at all. The church I play at wouldn't hire a man because he was gay, and then I came along. What they don't know is that I'm an atheist.:--)

sabrina 1

(62,325 posts)
47. Maybe they would be willing to hand over the Church to the majority who walked out.
Sun Dec 21, 2014, 01:31 AM
Dec 2014

Karma! Good for the Congregation.

TNNurse

(6,927 posts)
48. I admire the ones who left
Sun Dec 21, 2014, 11:24 AM
Dec 2014

But they could have also stayed and thrown out the "minister" and the 20% who were not really Christians. Oops, I forgot, I am not qualified to decide if someone is Christian or not... the ones who were bigots and awful people.

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