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boston bean

(36,221 posts)
Fri Dec 19, 2014, 07:19 PM Dec 2014

Misandry ALERT

Can you believe it??? After all the years of mostly men being called upon to present a question to the President of the United States, NONE were called on today.

WTH...

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For those who are dull to it, here is a sarcasm smiley just for you! LOL

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Misandry ALERT (Original Post) boston bean Dec 2014 OP
He ascared of those 'tough' questions men ask. bravenak Dec 2014 #1
What did the women ask him? what he got Michelle for Christmas?? boston bean Dec 2014 #2
How she keeps her figure so nice and pleasing for her husband.nt bravenak Dec 2014 #4
And probably if she is feeding him well, keeping him all nice and happy and satisfied. boston bean Dec 2014 #5
And how he's handling the Misandry in his life.nt bravenak Dec 2014 #6
Laughing my fuggin' ass off women. Thanks for the laugh. Nt seabeyond Dec 2014 #10
And, there's this, sweet pie!.. Who's been naughty and who's been nice.. Cha Dec 2014 #48
I love it!! The Obama 8. bravenak Dec 2014 #49
Love it too.. Obama's 8 .. we'll need sequels. LOL I think it would help some people to Cha Dec 2014 #50
Women are allowed to question the President?? sarisataka Dec 2014 #3
Don't you mean Helen Thomas? longship Dec 2014 #9
A good reporter sarisataka Dec 2014 #19
DU members sent her those flowers. longship Dec 2014 #23
That was before my time here, sarisataka Dec 2014 #28
Then, there was our flowers to Nancy Pelosi. longship Dec 2014 #32
Thomas was the FIRST woman with a regular assignment in the press corps Gormy Cuss Dec 2014 #22
Furthermore, throughout multiple presidencies she had the first question, longship Dec 2014 #25
Yeah, the flowers were one of DU's finest moments. Gormy Cuss Dec 2014 #27
She was quite touched by those roses... n/t chervilant Dec 2014 #30
I'm not sure who this might be aimed at... Frosty1 Dec 2014 #7
Agree nichomachus Dec 2014 #8
Because if every women asked every question... JaneyVee Dec 2014 #11
I doubt it, being as: NewDeal_Dem Dec 2014 #40
I just went through about 30 press conferences. All of them he calls on mostly men and 1 or 2 women Luminous Animal Dec 2014 #12
What makes me sad... Frosty1 Dec 2014 #13
Ridicule Frosty1 Dec 2014 #16
It is a kind ohheckyeah Dec 2014 #14
Don't ya hate that high pitched shrieking gwheezie Dec 2014 #31
Really, gwhweezie! Here's some background on how this all came about if you haven't heard. Cha Dec 2014 #51
Sarcasm gwheezie Dec 2014 #65
Typical of some male responses and not surprised at this one. Cha Dec 2014 #68
Fuck a bunch of "shrieking" cyberswede Dec 2014 #44
You forgot "hysterical" betsuni Dec 2014 #46
yep, now that it's happened for the 1st time in history, that women were called on BlancheSplanchnik Dec 2014 #55
I'm sure you were very sad when he called on only men at this press conference. Luminous Animal Dec 2014 #15
what is sad is KT2000 Dec 2014 #39
I agree Frosty1 Dec 2014 #41
Oh - I see KT2000 Dec 2014 #47
So he spent the whole press conference mansplaining stuff? n/t hughee99 Dec 2014 #17
Prayers sent to all the white male members of the press. woolldog Dec 2014 #18
You forgot the sarcasm liberalhistorian Dec 2014 #20
That's the spirit! Sheldon Cooper Dec 2014 #21
We can use this one. Luminous Animal Dec 2014 #26
heh! BlancheSplanchnik Dec 2014 #29
I'm glad you added the sarcasm tag madokie Dec 2014 #24
I get what you're saying.... BlancheSplanchnik Dec 2014 #37
Yup pretty much it madokie Dec 2014 #38
Post removed Post removed Dec 2014 #33
Jonathan Karl is weeping into his eggnog right now. betsuni Dec 2014 #34
Kick & recommend. William769 Dec 2014 #35
Heh! Derek V Dec 2014 #36
The sarcasm was crystal clear Frosty1 Dec 2014 #42
I had a teacher named Miss Andry in Fifth Grade Derek V Dec 2014 #43
K&R ismnotwasm Dec 2014 #45
Mahalo for your thread, boston bean.. quite enjoyable~ Cha Dec 2014 #52
Wrong is wrong. These journalists, men and women, are professionals who showed up TwilightGardener Dec 2014 #53
Well, it's not bullying to tell you the truth. KitSileya Dec 2014 #57
Oh, the MRAs are sobbing in their Ben & Jerry's right now. nt valerief Dec 2014 #54
None of the guys griping (on this thread or elsewhere) KitSileya Dec 2014 #56
I thought that was blatantly obvious, or kinda the whole point of it. :shrug: nt Electric Monk Dec 2014 #58
Ooops, that was me saying the opposite of what I wanted to say. KitSileya Dec 2014 #59
I don't get it Prophet 451 Dec 2014 #60
Whoosh! I think liberalhistorian Dec 2014 #67
Trying to resurrect the sex wars again? Katashi_itto Dec 2014 #61
.. Inkfreak Dec 2014 #62
I was deeply disappointed by the prequels, myself. I hope the new ones are better. Warren DeMontague Dec 2014 #63
I understand Jar Jar might stand in Katashi_itto Dec 2014 #64
Heh! K&R demmiblue Dec 2014 #66

Cha

(297,323 posts)
48. And, there's this, sweet pie!.. Who's been naughty and who's been nice..
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 02:27 AM
Dec 2014
Mark Knoller ✔ @markknoller
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TV reporters were advised in advance that @PressSec wanted other reporters not regularly called on to get to question the Pres.
9:51 AM - 19 Dec 2014 87 Retweets 38 favorites

http://theobamadiary.com/2014/12/19/its-friday-laugh-your-off/

Obama takes questions only from women, apparently a White House first

snip//

Friday was a reminder of how much has changed. The president began with a question from Carrie Budoff Brown of Politico and continued with reporters from Bloomberg BNA, Associated Press, McClatchy Newspapers, Reuters, the Wall Street Journal, the Washington Post and American Urban Radio Networks. All were women. The group represented a mix of major news outlets and smaller organizations. Notably, television correspondents, who sometimes dominate the news conferences and daily media briefings, were shut out.

http://www.latimes.com/nation/politics/politicsnow/la-pn-obama-reporters-women-20141219-story.html

AprilDRyan @AprilDRyan
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Wow! they are calling us the Obama 8, the women who asked questions of the President today!
2:14 PM - 19 Dec 2014 146 Retweets 143 favorites

Joy Reid ✔ @JoyAnnReid
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Per @AprilDRyan the front row men of the White House pool had their game faces on during the #ObamaPresser but fits were pitched after.
2:44 PM - 19 Dec 2014 94 Retweets 71 favorites


Zeke Miller ✔ @ZekeJMiller
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.@PressSec statement on questioner list:
10:34 AM - 19 Dec 2014 189 Retweets 99 favorites

http://theobamadiary.com/2014/12/19/a-tweet-or-two-193/


Cha

(297,323 posts)
50. Love it too.. Obama's 8 .. we'll need sequels. LOL I think it would help some people to
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 03:02 AM
Dec 2014

have the background on this.. might it easier to understand.

I really like how this evolved! However there's this one dude from WaPo, one Roger Cohen who is pitching a fit.. among others, no doubt.

Roger Cohen ✔ @NYTimesCohen
Questions only from women fine but WH might have advised male correspondents they could split on vacation early. #maledowntime

Holly Jolly Alison @mitzy247
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@NYTimesCohen How about just quit the job entirely & have all the free time you want? Then maybe someone who cares can have your seat.#hack
12:02 PM - 19 Dec 2014 14 Retweets 18 favorites

http://theobamadiary.com/2014/12/19/its-friday-laugh-your-off/

longship

(40,416 posts)
9. Don't you mean Helen Thomas?
Fri Dec 19, 2014, 08:02 PM
Dec 2014


Who questioned more presidents than almost anybody in history? BTW, almost always from the front row and most often with the first question.

Here's DU's memorable response to her.

Roses, all paid for from this very Web Site.

sarisataka

(18,663 posts)
19. A good reporter
Fri Dec 19, 2014, 08:41 PM
Dec 2014

By any measure.

I posted more in the vein of why is this news? There have been many excellent female reporters for a long time. I'm more surprised this milestone hadn't happened long ago.

longship

(40,416 posts)
23. DU members sent her those flowers.
Fri Dec 19, 2014, 09:08 PM
Dec 2014

It made national news.

She was the first, for decades was the first questioner in Presidential press conferences, from the first row. That makes her very special, plus all those Democratic Underground flowers, but maybe outside her gender. She was just damned good, which was enough for us here to recognize her specially.

sarisataka

(18,663 posts)
28. That was before my time here,
Fri Dec 19, 2014, 09:18 PM
Dec 2014

I had to look it up. It looks like it did receive quite a bit of coverage at the time. Very impressive.

I don't recall it in the news but that year I spent a lot of time overseas on "government business". I can proudly say I spent a lot of it handing out food, providing clean water and medical aid; I even managed to somehow avoid water boarding anyone.

longship

(40,416 posts)
32. Then, there was our flowers to Nancy Pelosi.
Fri Dec 19, 2014, 09:31 PM
Dec 2014

The scandal from the right wing was that she spent thousands of dollars to send flowers to so-called losers.

But we DUers sent them, plus from DailyKOS.
http://election.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=389x8032620

That's what Nancy did with them, a room full of roses put to excellent use.

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
22. Thomas was the FIRST woman with a regular assignment in the press corps
Fri Dec 19, 2014, 09:07 PM
Dec 2014

and for years was the only woman likely to be heard in that room. Using Wiki's admittedly incomplete list, the current press corps includes at least 59 reporters. Of those listed, one third (n=20) are women. That eight women were called on in a single press conference shouldn't be news, but we all know why it is -- it was the lack of men.


longship

(40,416 posts)
25. Furthermore, throughout multiple presidencies she had the first question,
Fri Dec 19, 2014, 09:13 PM
Dec 2014

from the front row of every press conference.

Helen Thomas was a tour de force. And Democratic Underground members actually did send her all those flowers.

nichomachus

(12,754 posts)
8. Agree
Fri Dec 19, 2014, 07:52 PM
Dec 2014

If he had refused to call on any women and had called on only men, shrieking would be unbearable. But when he ignores men, it's seen as so e kind of a victory.

 

JaneyVee

(19,877 posts)
11. Because if every women asked every question...
Fri Dec 19, 2014, 08:15 PM
Dec 2014

At the year end press conference for the next 150 yrs, men would still have asked more questions than them. Also, this was never done in history so its pretty historical.

 

NewDeal_Dem

(1,049 posts)
40. I doubt it, being as:
Fri Dec 19, 2014, 10:49 PM
Dec 2014

"Press conferences" are a modern phenomenon. The first White House press conference occurred during the Wilson administration (1913).

Thomas became WH correspondent under Kennedy (1961), and other women followed her quickly.

I doubt it would take 150 years for men's and women's questions to balance.

And, y'know, this is a photo of the WHPC in the 50s which makes me wonder who the woman is. Doesn't look like Thomas.



Harry S. Truman Presidential Library, Unidentified members of the White House press corps on the south lawn, c. 1950s

Luminous Animal

(27,310 posts)
12. I just went through about 30 press conferences. All of them he calls on mostly men and 1 or 2 women
Fri Dec 19, 2014, 08:16 PM
Dec 2014

Here's one where he calls on only men.

http://www.whitehouse.gov/the-press-office/press-conference-president-nuclear-security-summit

Funny it wasn't all over the news.

Frosty1

(1,823 posts)
13. What makes me sad...
Fri Dec 19, 2014, 08:22 PM
Dec 2014

is that this is even an issue to be held up for derision.
by Anyone for any reason.

Frosty1

(1,823 posts)
16. Ridicule
Fri Dec 19, 2014, 08:27 PM
Dec 2014

ridicule, deride, mock, taunt mean to make an object of laughter of. ridicule implies a deliberate often malicious belittling <consistently ridiculed everything she said>. deride suggests contemptuous and often bitter ridicule <derided their efforts to start their own business>. mock implies scorn often ironically expressed as by mimicry or sham deference <youngsters began to mock the helpless wino>. taunt suggests jeeringly provoking insult or challenge <hometown fans taunted the visiting team>.

gwheezie

(3,580 posts)
31. Don't ya hate that high pitched shrieking
Fri Dec 19, 2014, 09:24 PM
Dec 2014

From the women folk? It's almost as bad as hillary's cackle. Too bad we little ladies haven't learned to modulate our shrieking.

Cha

(297,323 posts)
51. Really, gwhweezie! Here's some background on how this all came about if you haven't heard.
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 03:05 AM
Dec 2014
Mark Knoller ✔ @markknoller
Follow
TV reporters were advised in advance that @PressSec wanted other reporters not regularly called on to get to question the Pres.
9:51 AM - 19 Dec 2014 87 Retweets 38 favorites

http://theobamadiary.com/2014/12/19/its-friday-laugh-your-off/

Obama takes questions only from women, apparently a White House first

snip//

Friday was a reminder of how much has changed. The president began with a question from Carrie Budoff Brown of Politico and continued with reporters from Bloomberg BNA, Associated Press, McClatchy Newspapers, Reuters, the Wall Street Journal, the Washington Post and American Urban Radio Networks. All were women. The group represented a mix of major news outlets and smaller organizations. Notably, television correspondents, who sometimes dominate the news conferences and daily media briefings, were shut out.

http://www.latimes.com/nation/politics/politicsnow/la-pn-obama-reporters-women-20141219-story.html

AprilDRyan @AprilDRyan
Follow
Wow! they are calling us the Obama 8, the women who asked questions of the President today!
2:14 PM - 19 Dec 2014 146 Retweets 143 favorites

Joy Reid ✔ @JoyAnnReid
Follow
Per @AprilDRyan the front row men of the White House pool had their game faces on during the #ObamaPresser but fits were pitched after.
2:44 PM - 19 Dec 2014 94 Retweets 71 favorites


Zeke Miller ✔ @ZekeJMiller
Follow
.@PressSec statement on questioner list:

10:34 AM - 19 Dec 2014 189 Retweets 99 favorites

http://theobamadiary.com/2014/12/19/a-tweet-or-two-193/


gwheezie

(3,580 posts)
65. Sarcasm
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 10:21 AM
Dec 2014

That high pitched shrieking comment is typical of a male response. when women have legit concerns we shriek, cackle, weep etc. according to some men.
I think it was great obama called on the back row what does it say that there are so many women back there. We are going to have a female president women are moving to the front row.

betsuni

(25,538 posts)
46. You forgot "hysterical"
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 01:42 AM
Dec 2014

It should be the "hysterical shrieking would be unbearable."

(emoticon of sarcasm and unbearable hysterical shrieking here)

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
55. yep, now that it's happened for the 1st time in history, that women were called on
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 03:58 AM
Dec 2014

exclusively, men aren't shrieking.

No...Because their vocal chords are longer and thicker.

A man's vocalizations are generally not high pitched, even when he's hysterical, irrational, enraged, and not to be taken seriously --as if a high pitch itself invalidates women.

Because of the physical difference, male vocalizations have a deeper timbre.....while of course, "high pitched shrieking", something only women do, directly implies negative assumptions, i.e. the 'shrieker' is hysterical, irrational, and just plain contemptible.

I guess a few equally loaded words describing the sound the upset guys are making might be:

Petulant complaining
Griping
Resentful muttering
Bellyaching
Gasket blowing
Raging
Tantruming
Bellowing
Blustering

Do I make myself clear?



KT2000

(20,584 posts)
39. what is sad is
Fri Dec 19, 2014, 10:07 PM
Dec 2014

that women are often in situations where their voices are not even acknowledged much less heard. Meetings at work were like that. It seemed that only the men were acknowledged and their issues discussed. When a woman spoke it was as if she had not said anything - move along.

This IS a big deal.

Frosty1

(1,823 posts)
41. I agree
Fri Dec 19, 2014, 11:46 PM
Dec 2014

The attempts to ridicule and minimize are what make me sad. Some of it may be a poor attempt at humor. I would like to give them the benefit of the doubt however, I fear that humor is only a transparent cover for derision.

madokie

(51,076 posts)
24. I'm glad you added the sarcasm tag
Fri Dec 19, 2014, 09:13 PM
Dec 2014

Our President knows what he's doing is all I'm going to say.

He's been pushed back into a corner by the right and the left right and is coming out swinging. you know the ones who can't see the forest for the trees, the ones against the overall good because of some little bit of bad. i'm sorry I can't say what I'm trying to say more plainly at the moment, the words just won't come.

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
37. I get what you're saying....
Fri Dec 19, 2014, 09:55 PM
Dec 2014

It's kind of like "ok, you all been on my back all this time. Fine. Here's some radical Doing the Right Thing for you."

Response to boston bean (Original post)

betsuni

(25,538 posts)
34. Jonathan Karl is weeping into his eggnog right now.
Fri Dec 19, 2014, 09:39 PM
Dec 2014

Carolers are outside, but the songs sound ... different. We Wish you a Misandry Christmas. Ding Dong Misandry on High. It Came Upon a Misandry Clear. Jonathan sighs and pours another eggnog.

 

Derek V

(532 posts)
36. Heh!
Fri Dec 19, 2014, 09:49 PM
Dec 2014

I don't know why that emoji is even necessary. In 19 of 20 cases, the sarcasm is so damn obvious that you'd have to be a Palin not to see it!

Thread recced, btw.

 

Derek V

(532 posts)
43. I had a teacher named Miss Andry in Fifth Grade
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 01:09 AM
Dec 2014

She graduated all us boys to college level in one semester!

TwilightGardener

(46,416 posts)
53. Wrong is wrong. These journalists, men and women, are professionals who showed up
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 03:23 AM
Dec 2014

to do a job. I doubt they showed up to be part of a little gender experiment for political points. It's offensive to both men and women--a waste of the men's time, and patronizing to the female reporters who don't need "help" to do their jobs. Thumbs down on this stunt, Obama. And I don't care who tries to bully me into not saying so, with "sexism" alerts.

KitSileya

(4,035 posts)
57. Well, it's not bullying to tell you the truth.
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 04:16 AM
Dec 2014

You are completely wrong. This wasn't a gender experiment, or whatever you want to tell yourself to hide from the fact that men are favored, privilege even, in these kinds of settings. The purpose wasn't to "patronize" female reporters, it was to give those who were routinely ignored a chance to ask questions, and wouldn't you know it, a majority of those who got to ask questions most seldom, were women! But I can understand that anyone who puts sexism in scare quotes would be too entrenched in sexism to understand that.

KitSileya

(4,035 posts)
56. None of the guys griping (on this thread or elsewhere)
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 04:13 AM
Dec 2014

Last edited Sat Dec 20, 2014, 04:50 AM - Edit history (1)

About how this would have caused a huge ruckus if the genders were reversed, caught the fact that the reason why all the journalists called on were women, was because they "wanted other reporters not regularly called on to get to question the Pres." If men were the ones who usually don't get to question the President, they would have been part of the group. But they aren't. This wasn't a gender experiment, it was a highlighting of the fact that female reporters get to ask questions less often.

KitSileya

(4,035 posts)
59. Ooops, that was me saying the opposite of what I wanted to say.
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 04:50 AM
Dec 2014

It should either be 'all of the guys' rather than none of the guys, or caught instead of missed. I'll edit now.

Prophet 451

(9,796 posts)
60. I don't get it
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 05:14 AM
Dec 2014

So he called on female reporters to ask questions today. So what? That's hardly misandry. Actual misandry is pretty rare although it pops up on the internet occasionally.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
63. I was deeply disappointed by the prequels, myself. I hope the new ones are better.
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 08:36 AM
Dec 2014

Jar Jar Binks looked really bad on the cover of sports illustrated.

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