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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsFor Christmas I got my brother back...
He's been my housemate for over ten years now. Exactly a week ago he was on a table in the operating room with a tumor being removed from his cerebrum. They thought it was the size of a tennis ball,but it was larger. They thought he would be on the table for four hours but it took close to eight...
This was his second cancer go around in the last three years. He was losing his balance and his vision was deteriorating. The tumor had to go but the outcome was very much in doubt.
I brought him home Monday and he sits now across the room in his recliner next to the woodstove. He'll need a walker for a few weeks, but last night we visited the local bar for happy hour. This week he'll order parts to get his Kawasaki ready for bike week in June.
This could have been a sad Christmas-I've had some. Instead I received a very special present-it seems Santa sent me one more summer to spend with my brother on two wheels. We never had a chance to shop and wrap gifts this year and there is no tree and are no glowing decorations. They seem now so small a part of the spirit of the season.
Christmas is, and always was about family and friends. I got my Christmas miracle-may each of you get yours.
Merry Christmas.
misterhighwasted
(9,148 posts)Much peace to you in 2015
catnhatnh
(8,976 posts)...but still my bestest gift.
misterhighwasted
(9,148 posts)Hang on to that humor, dear.
Happy Day
spanone
(135,866 posts)Demeter
(85,373 posts)a blessed Christmas, indeed!
kelliekat44
(7,759 posts)marble falls
(57,172 posts)Enthusiast
(50,983 posts)Merry Christmas to you and your brother. I hope he gets to go to bike week. I've had several Kawasakis.
Leith
(7,813 posts)I knew a couple people who had had brain tumors. They became completely different people.
All the best to you and your family.
stage left
(2,965 posts)Merry Christmas!
Octafish
(55,745 posts)God Bless and Godspeed!
PS: Once I owned a Kawasaki 440. Bought used, it was missing a battery cover, needed tires, and the thing's starter failed after a couple days. So, it was a running start, where we'd get moving and I'd hop on and pop the clutch. What was weird, even though I lived in hilly Southern California, most everywhere I drove, it was flatland where I parked. Ran a lot by that red bike. Still think the world of the motorbike.
LittleGirl
(8,291 posts)Merry Christmas to you.
My brother was in Cleveland Clinic Friday and had three stints replaced from the blocked ones he had in his heart. He's the baby of the family at 53 so we were all a bit worried. I'm so glad he made it through the surgery that was supposed to be 3 hrs and was 8 hrs instead too. He was in bad shape. He's going to work on his diet, exercise more and hopefully have a long life without constant chest pain. Yippee!
madamvlb
(495 posts)calimary
(81,443 posts)So glad this Christmas has a happy ending for you, catnhatnh!
mnhtnbb
(31,402 posts)I'm very happy for you and your brother! Enjoy the season!
jwirr
(39,215 posts)Triana
(22,666 posts)It's worth more than gold!
Happy Christmas catnhatnh!
lame54
(35,317 posts)it turned out much better
Merry Christmas to you and your family
ladyVet
(1,587 posts)The light of your brother's soul is the best decoration you'll ever have. Enjoy every moment you have together. Vroom vroom!
DesertDiamond
(1,616 posts)appalachiablue
(41,170 posts)Live and Learn
(12,769 posts)catnhatnh
(8,976 posts)...and humbled by your response. It's easy to forget the many tragedies we see on the board until the possibility leaps up in our own lives. I would like to personally thank every poster for their responses and also those who recommended the thread. The fact that my brother is regaining his health drew such huge response reminds me of my larger family on this board and that I also have them to be thankful for. I always expected discussion here but the empathy exceeded my wildest dreams. Thank you all again. Cat
vulcan800
(1 post)I want to say thanks to All who have sent the kind words ! I'd also to say thanks to cat .
Rhiannon12866
(205,927 posts)It is completely awesome to have you with us!
malaise
(269,157 posts)Merry Christmas
Cha
(297,574 posts)NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Best of luck and Merry Christmas to you and yours.
Iwillnevergiveup
(9,298 posts)what a wonderful Christmas story. May 2015 and all your years together be sparkling and bright. You both have great spirit which have gotten you this far, and the gratitude you so well express guarantees you'll have many happy years together.
Huge K&R
Hekate
(90,779 posts)JDPriestly
(57,936 posts)Jesus Malverde
(10,274 posts)Good Luck to you and your family!
MrMickeysMom
(20,453 posts)
and the day after that, and that
K&R