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bravenak

(34,648 posts)
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 05:06 PM Dec 2014

Does America treat Black People fairly?

It is my opinion that America has been treating minority populations, especially Black and Native Americans like dirt for Centuries. Now, I have noticed lately that many here seem to think that our efforts at assimilation are funny and use our attempts to discuss Cultural Appropriation to mock us and accuse us of Appropriating White culture by assimilating to the dominant culture.

I do not think that is fair. If we do not assimilate to the dominant culture, we suffer serious consequences, like not being employable. I have worked in industries where looking more white, like having long, straight, hair, wearing certain clothing and accessories actually increased my pay and helped me succeed. Wearing an afro to a job interview is not helpful. You may think it doesn't matter, but it does.

Since there are no consequences for being themselves, many black people are offended when members of the majority adopt cultural mannerisms of our culture. There is a history there if you choose to look. Stolen people with stolen identities forming a culture among those who stole them, their labor, their children are loathe to give up anything else to the majority who have taken so much from them already, and still don't like or accept them as equals after all these centuries. There is it. That's my take on it. I could go further, but I don't want to make this too long.


61 votes, 1 pass | Time left: Unlimited
No, America does not and never had treated black people fairly.
56 (92%)
Maybe. We used to be unfair, but things are fine now.
0 (0%)
Yes. Black people are living in the past.
1 (2%)
What about Black on Black crime?
0 (0%)
Black people should just allow the appropriation without comment so that White people like them.
0 (0%)
There is no such thing as appropriation.
4 (7%)
Your protests are interfering with my life. Stop being disruptive to the system!!!
0 (0%)
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Does America treat Black People fairly? (Original Post) bravenak Dec 2014 OP
The useful discussion is the sentence that follows the correct answer "no". lumberjack_jeff Dec 2014 #1
It depends on how it is done. bravenak Dec 2014 #2
"...don't make it a minstrel show." Nuclear Unicorn Dec 2014 #7
I can get with that. bravenak Dec 2014 #8
"I can usually tell flattery and sincerity from greedy opportunism." Nuclear Unicorn Dec 2014 #12
Thank you. bravenak Dec 2014 #14
That's in my top ten list JustAnotherGen Dec 2014 #70
I have to say that when I moved out to NM Warpy Dec 2014 #15
Competently is a better word for what I was trying to say . bravenak Dec 2014 #17
Speaking of New Mexico lumberjack_jeff Dec 2014 #85
You've never seen what they're selling under the portal of the old Governor's Mansion Warpy Dec 2014 #100
Indeed not. A hint? n/t lumberjack_jeff Dec 2014 #132
White men who lie America into war walk free. Octafish Dec 2014 #3
Somewhere... bravenak Dec 2014 #4
Colin Powell AgingAmerican Dec 2014 #94
Maybe, but wasn't he lied to by Tenet and given false info to present? nt brush Dec 2014 #134
Oddly enough, I just responded to a new poster Erich Bloodaxe BSN Dec 2014 #5
This seems to be a very difficult subject for us as a nation. bravenak Dec 2014 #6
Oh we are so far from exceptional... sheshe2 Dec 2014 #9
Thank you She. bravenak Dec 2014 #11
Well I put both your links in my favorites file. sheshe2 Dec 2014 #16
Oooh, the favorite file.... bravenak Dec 2014 #18
I love your post. Thank you for this Number23 Dec 2014 #44
I would say for the most part yes they are treated fairly helpmetohelpyou Dec 2014 #10
It goes for everybody. bravenak Dec 2014 #13
I think in many work places there is a lot of hidden discrimination that can never be proven. helpmetohelpyou Dec 2014 #19
I wish they would go back natural. bravenak Dec 2014 #21
I don't blame you helpmetohelpyou Dec 2014 #27
Belong on the blog roll at DU! Outstanding! freshwest Dec 2014 #154
..... bravenak Dec 2014 #155
Posting privledges... sheshe2 Dec 2014 #20
I'm glad. bravenak Dec 2014 #22
Not sure what that comment to BainsBane meant, but I have an idea. sheshe2 Dec 2014 #23
The same thing they always use to beat up white women. bravenak Dec 2014 #33
Message auto-removed Name removed Dec 2014 #24
Tick tock. nt cyberswede Dec 2014 #25
library's open. eom uppityperson Dec 2014 #26
Damn it-I was on the jury and didn't even have time to register my "hide" vote before MIRT Rowdyboy Dec 2014 #28
2-0 hide and yay for mirt. she's nasty today, still needs a new hobby, or a job. uppityperson Dec 2014 #29
Maybe she should just create her own job! greatauntoftriplets Dec 2014 #31
she could start collecting toenail clippings? uppityperson Dec 2014 #32
Or shill for big pharma! greatauntoftriplets Dec 2014 #35
Hi, bravenak! Feral Child Dec 2014 #30
Was that not the worst op ever? bravenak Dec 2014 #36
*Rambling Crazy* as well as incredibly racist Feral Child Dec 2014 #38
Crazy is right!! bravenak Dec 2014 #39
If you are talking about that post that is hidden that I read from the racist asshole randys1 Dec 2014 #55
Things shouldn't be like this. bravenak Dec 2014 #57
By then they will have climate change to deal with... randys1 Dec 2014 #60
I guess we'll go back. bravenak Dec 2014 #64
there is a lot of denial here JI7 Dec 2014 #34
Yep. bravenak Dec 2014 #40
When people are robbed of their very lives through slavery and or land theft, there exists Jefferson23 Dec 2014 #37
Thank you for the thoughtful response Jefferson. bravenak Dec 2014 #41
You're most welcome, bravenak. n/t Jefferson23 Dec 2014 #45
The U.S. Congress managed to pass a token reparations bill for the victims (and KingCharlemagne Dec 2014 #147
I agree and it's disturbing as hell. The human mind can rationalize away, just about anything. n/t Jefferson23 Dec 2014 #153
Question "offended when members of the majority adopt cultural mannerisms of our culture. "??? 4139 Dec 2014 #42
I'm sure you'll figure it out. bravenak Dec 2014 #43
? I turn 60 in a few weeks, it may be an age thing... 4139 Dec 2014 #46
I think we'd have to plan an op for that in a group. bravenak Dec 2014 #49
Send him a copy JustAnotherGen Dec 2014 #72
Okay. bravenak Dec 2014 #75
He will get it JustAnotherGen Dec 2014 #82
I just got a new reply... bravenak Dec 2014 #83
I just asked the same thing in another thread. SMC22307 Dec 2014 #86
Not a blog on the internet!!!!11!! bravenak Dec 2014 #87
No kidding? SMC22307 Dec 2014 #90
LOL!!! bravenak Dec 2014 #97
...... sabrina 1 Dec 2014 #47
I can't tell which is better - your poll question of your Ask Bravenak blog Number23 Dec 2014 #48
Thank you, it means a lot coming from you. bravenak Dec 2014 #51
This shit is just getting out of control.... giftedgirl77 Dec 2014 #91
That one drives me crazy with her bullshit. bravenak Dec 2014 #93
That was one of the ugliest threads I've ever been involved in... giftedgirl77 Dec 2014 #101
I posted the one from earlier on Tobin's thread in AA. bravenak Dec 2014 #105
Define "America." LWolf Dec 2014 #50
I cannot define America for you. bravenak Dec 2014 #54
What about black on black crime? JustAnotherGen Dec 2014 #52
I'm ready!! bravenak Dec 2014 #53
can I play too? rbrnmw Dec 2014 #92
Yep!!! bravenak Dec 2014 #95
I want to tell you one more thing I know about the Negro... randys1 Dec 2014 #58
Driiiiinnnnkkkkkk! JustAnotherGen Dec 2014 #67
you wont believe this randys1 Dec 2014 #73
That's shameful JustAnotherGen Dec 2014 #76
No, America does not and never had treated black people fairly. abelenkpe Dec 2014 #56
We'll get there. bravenak Dec 2014 #59
No fucking way! Enthusiast Dec 2014 #61
Very Special brand of justice. bravenak Dec 2014 #65
My answer would be "Sometimes" BlueJazz Dec 2014 #62
Of course not... randys1 Dec 2014 #63
Nothing like a poll with a topic such as this to reveal who's who on DU; nc4bo Dec 2014 #66
True. bravenak Dec 2014 #69
I thought the list Caretha Dec 2014 #96
Obviously not. Jackpine Radical Dec 2014 #68
Thank you, I try to give the benefit of doubt. bravenak Dec 2014 #71
Option 1, but I don't think America treats most people fairly. aikoaiko Dec 2014 #74
They have been most consistent with us. bravenak Dec 2014 #77
Message auto-removed Name removed Dec 2014 #80
I would agree that the AA community has been treated most unfair aikoaiko Dec 2014 #115
The one person who voted yes JustAnotherGen Dec 2014 #78
Always. bravenak Dec 2014 #79
Yes, they do - Spirochete Dec 2014 #81
You funny.nt bravenak Dec 2014 #84
There is much to be said for the old saying, "Walk a mile in my shoes!" Dustlawyer Dec 2014 #88
I agree. bravenak Dec 2014 #112
"No" to long, straight hair. "Yes" to dressing professionally. SMC22307 Dec 2014 #89
Too bad Caretha Dec 2014 #98
I acknowledge educated, hard-working, successful... SMC22307 Dec 2014 #107
I am doing just fine, ma. bravenak Dec 2014 #99
Those women have excelled in a world... SMC22307 Dec 2014 #103
They are twice my age. bravenak Dec 2014 #106
What triggered the change? SMC22307 Dec 2014 #108
Style. bravenak Dec 2014 #111
And that's the problem... SMC22307 Dec 2014 #116
Are u judging? bravenak Dec 2014 #117
How did you arrive at "judging" from what I posted? SMC22307 Dec 2014 #121
It's different for black women. bravenak Dec 2014 #122
I have a pretty good idea. SMC22307 Dec 2014 #123
It's really good. bravenak Dec 2014 #124
While styling your hair? SMC22307 Dec 2014 #125
LOL! bravenak Dec 2014 #126
who are you to school bravenak? rbrnmw Dec 2014 #113
And how should I speak? bravenak Dec 2014 #114
Huh. SMC22307 Dec 2014 #119
You'd have to have been there for that. bravenak Dec 2014 #120
Trust me, rbrnmw, I couldn't care less... SMC22307 Dec 2014 #118
No doubt your anecdotal (and alleged) observations are colored through a fine lens of personal bias LanternWaste Dec 2014 #156
K&R! marym625 Dec 2014 #102
+1 bravenak Dec 2014 #110
America has never treated its black inhabitants even remotely fairly. jdenver_2624 Dec 2014 #104
Hello bigwillq Dec 2014 #109
OT, but I ROFLed Jamaal510 Dec 2014 #127
I loved that one too. bravenak Dec 2014 #128
Wow... Jamaal510 Dec 2014 #151
Stupid. bravenak Dec 2014 #152
Should've told that person to sit down, he's rockin' the boat. WinkyDink Dec 2014 #148
Hell no. lovemydog Dec 2014 #129
When I finally start writing nonfiction. bravenak Dec 2014 #130
You already do - right here you're writing non-fiction. lovemydog Dec 2014 #131
Oohhhh!! That's good! bravenak Dec 2014 #133
LOL, thanks. lovemydog Dec 2014 #135
Thank you. bravenak Dec 2014 #138
No problemo. lovemydog Dec 2014 #140
I have 3 different versions. bravenak Dec 2014 #142
Thanks a million. lovemydog Dec 2014 #143
I think you can buy refurbished too. bravenak Dec 2014 #144
I can't live without my radio. lovemydog Dec 2014 #145
Hahaha!nt bravenak Dec 2014 #146
Hell; I don't treat black people fairly. Sweeney Dec 2014 #136
I like you Sweeney. bravenak Dec 2014 #137
Everybody likes me Sweeney Dec 2014 #141
White European Americans have never treated Native Americans, nor Black Americans fairly. roamer65 Dec 2014 #139
This is a trick question, am I right? To separate the sentient beings from the Pod People? WinkyDink Dec 2014 #149
All questions are trick questions. bravenak Dec 2014 #150
 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
1. The useful discussion is the sentence that follows the correct answer "no".
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 05:15 PM
Dec 2014

Does integrating elements of historically black culture into the mainstream (whatever that might be) aggravate or mitigate the unfairness?

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
7. "...don't make it a minstrel show."
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 05:50 PM
Dec 2014

That's a statement I can wholeheartedly support.

The world being such as it is there will always be those who are cruel and part of the expression of the cruelty will be mocking people for anyone of any number of superficial identifiers: skin color, gender, sexual identity, religious faith, etc. Such people can never be removed from our community, they are a burden to be endured.

I believe the greatest counter to these benighted souls is for the rest of us to simply be who we are. We won't convert the hateful but the delight and wonder of who we are will shine bright enough to overcome the poison they might otherwise spread to others.

And it's better if we just go on about our own lives rather than giving the haters the power they cannot possess on their own.

Life is better for us that way.

But how to know if something is someone's sincere effort at art, is it respectful? Does ti bring a wider appreciation to a broader audience?

That's what I want to see happen.

Then there are things such as Mel Brooks' film Blazing Saddles. I wonder if such a film could be made in this day and age even though the entire point was to give racism the skewering it so richly deserves.

I think the pornography standard may be in play here: We'll know it when we see it.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
12. "I can usually tell flattery and sincerity from greedy opportunism."
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 06:02 PM
Dec 2014

I think I can say, without fear of embarrassment, that the last thing I will ever be accused of is realigning my beliefs simply to gain approval.

Thank-you for the conversation.

JustAnotherGen

(31,907 posts)
70. That's in my top ten list
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 08:00 PM
Dec 2014

Of comedies! Blazing Saddles! Up there with original - The Producers.

And "Half Baked".

I don't think Blazing Saddles could be made today.

And - All In The Family and Sanford and Son would never get it time now.

Warpy

(111,359 posts)
15. I have to say that when I moved out to NM
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 06:08 PM
Dec 2014

and saw suburban white kids with saggy shorts and backwards ball caps with boom boxes and trying to keep up with NYC rappers, I had to giggle a bit.

However, if they go on to write it and manage to write some good stuff, hooray for them.

Kids will try to imitate cultures they're not part of and most of the time, it looks like parody and we get to laugh at them. A few of them might have the talent and put in the time to do a creditable job in that cultural art form and that's a good thing.

I remember the resistance toward using black dancers in ballet. Now most US companies have a few black faces among the sea of white, at least if they go for the best dancers instead of merely the whitest, and nobody considers it a parody of "white culture." Likewise, a few white dancers have gone on to do decent break dancing.

Art has always been very fluid, inspiration being found across many cultures. Culture, itself, isn't that immutable, as the American experiment has found across both North and South America.

I'd have to say it's not a question of treading lightly as it is of treading competently.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
17. Competently is a better word for what I was trying to say .
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 06:11 PM
Dec 2014

Art is to be shared, that is true.

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
85. Speaking of New Mexico
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 08:49 PM
Dec 2014

I wonder how many people have Kokopeli artwork, how many fully understand its context and if those identifying with the cultures from which it was appropriated are unhappy about it?

Warpy

(111,359 posts)
100. You've never seen what they're selling under the portal of the old Governor's Mansion
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 10:03 PM
Dec 2014

HAHAHAHA!

We're done here.

Octafish

(55,745 posts)
3. White men who lie America into war walk free.
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 05:24 PM
Dec 2014

Black men who kill dogs go to prison for years.

There's a problem, somewhere.

Erich Bloodaxe BSN

(14,733 posts)
5. Oddly enough, I just responded to a new poster
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 05:35 PM
Dec 2014

asking me 'who does it hurt?' in response to a post I'd made about cultural appropriation, in which I had just specifically noted that it was problematic for those who were the target of cultural appropriation.

Who does it hurt? Real people. People who deserve the same respect as anyone else, people we've (we, the dominant culture members) been, as you put it earlier, treating like dirt for centuries. If we can't even stop disrespecting them and ignoring their pain, how will we ever advance to treating them the same as we do ourselves.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
6. This seems to be a very difficult subject for us as a nation.
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 05:39 PM
Dec 2014

Many believe we are exceptional in all ways and find it difficult to reconcile how awesome we think we are, with what we did to people to get to this point.

sheshe2

(83,929 posts)
9. Oh we are so far from exceptional...
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 05:53 PM
Dec 2014

and as a nation we should be ashamed of ourselves. Black and Native Americans have been stepping stools for America to succeed, yet sadly few turned around to give you a hand up.

You have been cheated, lied to, beaten and murdered. Yes, we should be ashamed.

Thank you for the Op, bravenak.

PS I just followed your link, I have to go back there and read more.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
11. Thank you She.
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 05:58 PM
Dec 2014

Lol!! I posted that blog for DU in a way... Gotta keep track of this stuff somehow.
Maybe the crazy questions can be answered there and we can have real conversations here. That would be nice.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
18. Oooh, the favorite file....
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 06:12 PM
Dec 2014

I better make sure to keep it updated.
It gives me stuff to do while I study my various interests.

 

helpmetohelpyou

(589 posts)
10. I would say for the most part yes they are treated fairly
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 05:55 PM
Dec 2014

As to your point of dress and appearance in a job interview ?

That goes for anyone , White , Black etc...


 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
13. It goes for everybody.
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 06:04 PM
Dec 2014

The point is that it goes for everybody because the majority says so.
Do you know how much work goes into getting an afro turned into silky locks?
For me, 2 hours and I cannot get it wet.
My sister? 5 fucking hours!! Her hair is down to her butt.
For people who do NOT have naturally long hair like ourselves? 8 hours and 500 - 2000 dollars for a weave. I used to lay tracks for people, glue or sewn. The hair is over 100 dollars per bag and it takes multiple bags of hair. Then you have to braid synthetic hair in cornrows in a pattern so that the hair falls properly, leaving out enough hair in the front to cover the tracks. Then you sew or glue them in carefully. How is that the same for everybody?!?! Not the same for us. If the majority had to do all that to get a job, they'd change the rules.

 

helpmetohelpyou

(589 posts)
19. I think in many work places there is a lot of hidden discrimination that can never be proven.
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 06:25 PM
Dec 2014

against fat people, really skinny people , ugly people , older people , long haired men ,clothing style even peoples names.

In some cases women who are too pretty even.

An interviewer very rarely picks the best person for the job.
They have their own conceived prejudice when you make that first impression .

I do understand what you are saying about the hair thing though but I believe that's done
by the individual more so because of current trends in fashion.

That's the style now that they see movie stars , singers , celebrities wearing

If all Black female celebrities went back to the natural look then you would see the style through out the country change.

 

helpmetohelpyou

(589 posts)
27. I don't blame you
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 06:47 PM
Dec 2014

The one thing about fashion and styles is old style at some point becomes the new style once again.

It always does , whether it's hair styles, home styles , cars , clothes , motorcycles ,you name it

sheshe2

(83,929 posts)
20. Posting privledges...
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 06:27 PM
Dec 2014

were also revoked on that hidden Op in your group, bravenak. I say good riddance, I alerted but it was already hidden.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
22. I'm glad.
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 06:31 PM
Dec 2014

After what he said to BainsBane, I'd like to wring his neck. I'm seriously pissed. I might just post that crap on my blog and destroy it for the pleasure of busting something up. Thank you for alerting. I was so mad, I forgot to ban him. He was so quick!!! Busy trolling days lately.

sheshe2

(83,929 posts)
23. Not sure what that comment to BainsBane meant, but I have an idea.
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 06:38 PM
Dec 2014

Actually I am glad it was hidden and not just a ban that would have left the what they said there. With the hide people can read it if they wish, yet it won't punch you in the face when you click the link. That was ugly and they certainly were not talking for me as a white person.

bravenak~

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
33. The same thing they always use to beat up white women.
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 06:55 PM
Dec 2014

Black men. Disgusting.
I know that person was off his rocker. I had already copied it because I wanted to save it for future reference. But I am glad it and he are both gone.

Response to bravenak (Original post)

Rowdyboy

(22,057 posts)
28. Damn it-I was on the jury and didn't even have time to register my "hide" vote before MIRT
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 06:48 PM
Dec 2014

stepped up. Hope they get time and a half for working over the holidays.

Feral Child

(2,086 posts)
30. Hi, bravenak!
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 06:51 PM
Dec 2014

Voted for #1, of course.

Also served on jury for that 1Post Wonder.

That post was my "WTF?" winner for the entire month.

Feral Child

(2,086 posts)
38. *Rambling Crazy* as well as incredibly racist
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 07:05 PM
Dec 2014
and personally insulting.


How many times have you been called that particular term? In your whole life?

I'd just logged on to check the news, hadn't read a single post before I saw the blue banner.

Did not have to think twice.

randys1

(16,286 posts)
55. If you are talking about that post that is hidden that I read from the racist asshole
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 07:43 PM
Dec 2014

then crazy sure, but if he is crazy then we have about 50 MILLION crazy white people in America, aka teaparty and republican party.

I am certain they would ALL agree with every word of that racist, ignorant, punk ass post...

And I say punk ass because we have to start treating these assholes with great disdain, and in real life too, not just on the internet.

I have ended friendships over racism, and I will do it every time it is called for.

Enough

is

Enough

And let me repeat that racism in American is EXCLUSIVELY a white problem...

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
57. Things shouldn't be like this.
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 07:45 PM
Dec 2014

We will overcome this Randy. Our grandchildren will live better if we do the hard work now. I hope.

randys1

(16,286 posts)
60. By then they will have climate change to deal with...
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 07:47 PM
Dec 2014

The human race started out Black...

remind the assholes of that

Jefferson23

(30,099 posts)
37. When people are robbed of their very lives through slavery and or land theft, there exists
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 07:01 PM
Dec 2014

an upset in what would have likely occurred at another point in time..their own immigration to
America, in their own time. We have no way to reset that period in history...reparations are unacceptable
to many, unfortunately. Reparations would not remove the racism but it would be an official
record of attempting to right a wrong which is a powerful statement for the people of this nation.

The genocide advanced upon Native Americans on their own land due to their lack
of military power created a hole that remains open today. The idea that people stolen for
another mans benefit..slaves, and another populace killed and displaced for their land
has had continual negative consequences..we treat minorities terribly today because we do
not completely recognize and accept the responsibilities of our past. Not to the degree that
we should..imo.

Sadly, there are Americans who believe we're done with racism as an issue, since we elected a black man to be
POTUS. It is also shameful that no Native American is expected to run for POTUS and win.

Good poll question, glad you posted it.

 

KingCharlemagne

(7,908 posts)
147. The U.S. Congress managed to pass a token reparations bill for the victims (and
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 01:36 AM
Dec 2014

Last edited Tue Dec 30, 2014, 11:15 AM - Edit history (1)

heirs) of Manzanar. Which is as it should be. But as bad a stain as Manzanar is upon our national honor, it pales before the great crimes of land and labor theft for which a more radical form of reparations are due. And yet 3 DUers as of this writing posit that blacks (and, one presumes, Native Amiericans) are 'living in the past.' I swear, you cannot make this shit up!

4139

(1,893 posts)
42. Question "offended when members of the majority adopt cultural mannerisms of our culture. "???
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 07:11 PM
Dec 2014

Most the threads I've seen have dealt with pop-culture (hip-hop, hair style)... So I don't know how or what you include in 'culture'

4139

(1,893 posts)
46. ? I turn 60 in a few weeks, it may be an age thing...
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 07:22 PM
Dec 2014

I'm closer to a Doo Wop guy than a hip-hop guy

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
49. I think we'd have to plan an op for that in a group.
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 07:25 PM
Dec 2014

Otherwise the op will be trolled to no end. We are dealing with some issues here right now. I can pm you a message and explain why today is not a good day? If you want.

JustAnotherGen

(31,907 posts)
82. He will get it
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 08:14 PM
Dec 2014

Older DUers see that. Gaaaah - I'm glad heaven is taking a few days off and didn't see that.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
83. I just got a new reply...
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 08:17 PM
Dec 2014

From the cultural appropriation one.

138. "Being left out all the time leads you to make your own culture."

Specifically, what "culture" have you and others created? Would hip-hop/ghetto rap be part of that creation? Is this "culture" helping or hurting blacks, black males in particular? For example, if two young men show up for an interview, one dressed professionally and the other dressed with his pants hanging below his ass crack, who will get hired?

I've worked in DC and surrounding areas for decades and see successful blacks every day. PG County, Maryland is nearly 65% black, and according to Wikipedia, "the 70th most affluent county in the United States by median income for families and the most affluent county in the United States with an African-American majority." What are they doing right?

I work in the IT industry -- lots of Indians (Hindu, Muslim and Sikh on my team) -- and have to say they seem to have assimilated beautifully, without losing their "culture." What are they doing right?

A small but vocal minority (no pun intended) on DU likes to chalk up black woes to racist whities, but at what point are *some* blacks culpable for their failures?




Why me? I'm cross posting that on my blog in one form or another. These folks are too much.

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
86. I just asked the same thing in another thread.
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 09:04 PM
Dec 2014

What does the OP consider the "culture" being created by blacks? The OP dodged my question, and referred me to what I am sure is yet another goofy blog on the internet. There's a never-ending supply of them...

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
87. Not a blog on the internet!!!!11!!
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 09:09 PM
Dec 2014

You're on the internet on a site with bunch of people who blog.

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
90. No kidding?
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 09:43 PM
Dec 2014

Who knew?!

I get enough of said posters on DU; I'd rather sit home sticking pins in my eyes than read some of their blogs.

Number23

(24,544 posts)
48. I can't tell which is better - your poll question of your Ask Bravenak blog
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 07:23 PM
Dec 2014

If your contribution to this web site goes unnoticed or unappreciated by others, you have simply GOT to understand that the ones that are unappreciative, the ones that malign your presence here and view you as a "trouble maker" are the ones lacking in humor, wit and humanity. Because there is simply no denying you've got all three.

But I never had to practice to be a good dancer. Came naturally.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
51. Thank you, it means a lot coming from you.
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 07:34 PM
Dec 2014

I'm at the point in my life where I am just about done caring about what people who are ignorant think. It feels good to let them go.

I practiced dancing so hard... My sister used to tell me to relax and stop bouncing around like that, why you so stiff?? LOL!! I ended up working in a dance club. We try hard at everything we do. Have to.

 

giftedgirl77

(4,713 posts)
91. This shit is just getting out of control....
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 09:44 PM
Dec 2014

& my give a damn button broke on Christmas when I wandered into a thread I probably would have been better off staying the hell out of. But hell be damned if I was going to let it slide, I said what I had to say after a long heated discussion, got alerted on, & to my surprise the jury came out on my side.

Here is what I posted

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6004710

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
93. That one drives me crazy with her bullshit.
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 09:47 PM
Dec 2014

I have to actually get nasty with her ass to prevent an eruption! She does that shit every fucking time. I got one hid once. It was bad too. She calls me her stalker! Wtf? $&@@& please!

 

giftedgirl77

(4,713 posts)
101. That was one of the ugliest threads I've ever been involved in...
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 10:14 PM
Dec 2014

I've decided I'm not holding back anymore...People need to understand this country isn't a "white" country & I'll be damned if me or my children are going to be treated like we owe somebody something.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
105. I posted the one from earlier on Tobin's thread in AA.
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 10:20 PM
Dec 2014

Did you see it? It was one of the nastiest ops ever. Nasty as hell. It's in a reply to Randys. Posting ops in AA now? Shit.
I refuse to be uncomfortable alone. No, we don't owe nobody shit. Especially not silence in the face of rampant racism.

LWolf

(46,179 posts)
50. Define "America."
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 07:29 PM
Dec 2014

Do you mean the Constitution? The government? Or do you mean subgroups of citizens? Or?

JustAnotherGen

(31,907 posts)
52. What about black on black crime?
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 07:36 PM
Dec 2014


Best poll ever!

After the alert I just saw - I'm not answering this.

Do you have it still?

Let's play a drinking game - Everytime there's a quote from that thread that just disappeared - have a little nip of something!

randys1

(16,286 posts)
58. I want to tell you one more thing I know about the Negro...
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 07:45 PM
Dec 2014

That was actually said in 2013...

In America...

By a human being...

abelenkpe

(9,933 posts)
56. No, America does not and never had treated black people fairly.
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 07:45 PM
Dec 2014

But hopefully one day soon it will. Can't stop trying to get there.

Enthusiast

(50,983 posts)
61. No fucking way!
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 07:47 PM
Dec 2014

I try to look at this issue as objectively as I can. That is sort of hard because I'm a rural white guy from Appalachian part of Ohio.

From any objective standard it is clear that black people and other racial minorities have the deck stacked against them. As if this was not bad enough, the law enforcement community doesn't play fair with minorities, often even targeting them for a special brand of justice.

randys1

(16,286 posts)
63. Of course not...
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 07:50 PM
Dec 2014

Time for protest, again.



I am Tamir Rice
I am Eric Garner
I am Michael Brown
I am Jordan Davis
I am Trayvon Martin

nc4bo

(17,651 posts)
66. Nothing like a poll with a topic such as this to reveal who's who on DU;
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 07:56 PM
Dec 2014

What lives in the dumpsters, under dark bridges, rotten logs and swamp rocks.

Edit to add: Seems only the rich and privileged get treated fairly these days, at the expense of everyone else. They leave us divided, conquered and fighting over our differences. Mission Accomplished.



 

Caretha

(2,737 posts)
96. I thought the list
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 09:56 PM
Dec 2014

very telling myself.

I won't forget....I hope no one else does either. It is way past time to tell some to go jump off a cliff and mean it.

Jackpine Radical

(45,274 posts)
68. Obviously not.
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 07:59 PM
Dec 2014

And BTW, I haven't posted anything in particular on any of these appropriation/assimilation threads but have been reading them and learning. Thanks for the eloquent, nuanced arguments and perspectives you just shared here.

(And never doubt that your calm and persistent messaging can pay off in educating others.)

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
71. Thank you, I try to give the benefit of doubt.
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 08:02 PM
Dec 2014

I can be an asshole elsewhere.
Click the link 'ask bravenak black' to see what we just dealt with in the AA forum a little while ago. You'll be amazed.

aikoaiko

(34,184 posts)
74. Option 1, but I don't think America treats most people fairly.
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 08:07 PM
Dec 2014

Some a little better than others, and only a few at the top fairly.

Response to bravenak (Reply #77)

Dustlawyer

(10,497 posts)
88. There is much to be said for the old saying, "Walk a mile in my shoes!"
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 09:39 PM
Dec 2014

While not literally possible, it is possible to get a good sense of what it is like if you took more of an interest in black friends, co-workers etc. It would be truly eye opening! I am white, grew up and live here in S.E. Texas. I went to an all black Middle School and experienced racism from the other end. I was treated poorly to say the least, just due to the color of my skin. Our school was falling apart, books and equipment were hand-me-downs from the mostly white Middle School in the same District, and the teachers had given up, or at least didn't want to be there. No way was public education the same for whites and blacks.
My second wife is black and from long talks with her parents and her very sweet 93 year old "Auntee" I heard first hand accounts of Jim Crow that made me ashamed for my race. I am amazed that her family has accepted me with such open arms after what they have been through. I can't say that I could have let it go so completely. While many things are much better than they were, progress has seemed to have slowed dramatically.
Being white, I also hear pretty regularly how tired Whites are of hearing the cry of "racism" at every turn. The problem is, the people doing the complaining either have no clue, or are the ones perpetuating the problem. People assume that Blacks have the same opportunity as Whites, they just squander it. While there are some cultural issues that hold Blacks back, they are ones of institutionalized poverty, not of any inferiority to any other race. If you are "tired of hearing about race" then finally help to do something about it, or at least have a better understanding of the dynamics.

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
89. "No" to long, straight hair. "Yes" to dressing professionally.
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 09:40 PM
Dec 2014

Ursula Burns, CEO of Xerox.


Debra Lee, CEO of BET


Eleanor Holmes Norton


La June Montgomery Tabron, President and CEO of W.K. Kellogg Foundation


Gwen Ifill, Lead Anchor and Political Analyst, PBS


Donna Brazile, Political Strategist (short hair and... gray!)


These women seem to know what they're doing. Exceptionally well.

If you and others wish to buck "assimilating to the dominant culture," what are your plans for survival? What does the future hold for non-assimilating African-Americans?

Too bad so many Americans take their cues from fucking pop stars, rather than from women like those above.

 

Caretha

(2,737 posts)
98. Too bad
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 10:00 PM
Dec 2014

you are so shallow.

Glad I'm not you...your karma is really going to suck as in big time.

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
107. I acknowledge educated, hard-working, successful...
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 10:24 PM
Dec 2014

black women and *I'm* shallow? I condemn idiot pop stars and the insane focus on appearance and *I'm* shallow?

Ooookay, Caretha, okay...

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
99. I am doing just fine, ma.
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 10:00 PM
Dec 2014

Not everybody can be those women. My mom wears her hair like Ursula Burns right there at the top. She's strong. I no longer care about hair like pop stars, but I'm lucky and can grow sheets of hair. Not everybody is lucky or strong.

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
103. Those women have excelled in a world...
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 10:18 PM
Dec 2014

in which you think "long, straight, hair" is a basic condition of employment. It's not. I work in the DC area and see hair, hair everywhere hair, including afros.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
111. Style.
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 10:28 PM
Dec 2014

Natural was in when they were young and they have adapted that style. Then came Jheri curls and S-curls, better No Lye Relaxers, more trade brought better weaves in.
Trying to fit in is hard when the standard of that All American girl is not you. Hair blowing in the wind and all that. Hollywood beauty standards inform the public of what is in. And long ass itchy hair is in for young women. So they buy it.

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
116. And that's the problem...
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 11:20 PM
Dec 2014

listening to Hollywood and being obsessed with what's "in." Isn't long, stick-straight hair on its way out? Good. It's not flattering on many -- black or white -- and they all look like clones.

Esperanza hair. Halle hair. Whoopie hair. Lupita hair. All very different looks, and not really "blowing in the wind," unlike Beyoncé's blonde extensions.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
117. Are u judging?
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 11:25 PM
Dec 2014
Try not to. Looks are very important to some, and with Black women, our hair is off limits. It's really hard, but I try to realize that people are just not like me. I go to pool parties and get into the pool. (Told you to read the blog, lol!! Then you'd woulda got the joke)

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
121. How did you arrive at "judging" from what I posted?
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 11:39 PM
Dec 2014

I'm just baffled as to why so many are influenced by celebrity. Like those obsessed with getting glasses just like Sarah Palin's, or Jennifer Aniston's latest 'do. I wear makeup, contacts, and style my hair, but I'm not trying to emulate Hollywood. And I didn't when I was younger.

Jesus, we women put waaaaay too much pressure on ourselves.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
122. It's different for black women.
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 11:43 PM
Dec 2014

Especially with our hair. Watch good hair. It's a documentary about black hair. It will help you understand why we are so sensitive about it.

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
123. I have a pretty good idea.
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 11:49 PM
Dec 2014

I see black women with different hairstyles every couple of days, and they cost a pretty penny. I hear the discussions at work.

I'll add the documentary to my Netflix queue.

rbrnmw

(7,160 posts)
113. who are you to school bravenak?
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 10:30 PM
Dec 2014

she can wear her hair as she damn well pleases How do you wear your hair? Do you have any fine tips for how to protest too?

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
119. Huh.
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 11:31 PM
Dec 2014

Who do you think is dictating how you should speak? Certainly not me. Speak away. But I still won't read yet *another* blog.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
120. You'd have to have been there for that.
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 11:36 PM
Dec 2014

You missed that day. Sorry.
I was joking. You don't have to read it.

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
118. Trust me, rbrnmw, I couldn't care less...
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 11:27 PM
Dec 2014

how bravenak wears her hair. Or how you wear yours. But her suggestion that an afro will prohibit employment, based on what I see around me every day of the week, is bullshit.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
156. No doubt your anecdotal (and alleged) observations are colored through a fine lens of personal bias
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 03:07 PM
Dec 2014

No doubt your anecdotal (and alleged) observations are colored through a fine lens of personal biases, and the experiences of African Americans who may disagree with your conclusion are simply "bullshit".

marym625

(17,997 posts)
102. K&R!
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 10:18 PM
Dec 2014

I would like to add that I find it hilarious that people actually complain about people of color "assimilating" or "appropriating" or whatever the hell you want to call it. I also find it hilarious that anyone can dictate to anyone else what they're allowed to be upset about.

It's quite like someone saying, "I really can't stand you but don't take that personally."

People bitch and moan about other people who have anything but English as a first language, and other similar things. They complain that any immigrant is even here, except for their own family. Those are usually the same people who don't want people of color to "act white" and don't think there's anything wrong with taking parts of a culture, that they often can't even admit is a separate culture, E.G. "you're people have been here for 300 years so it's American culture. You don't own it."

Most importantly, I find it absolutely reprehensible and complete and total bullshit that any person, with an I.Q. over 50, has the audacity to say that a person of color, especially a black person, does not suffer oppression in the USA. Any person that discounts that unique experience, and it is nothing that any white person could ever imagine, and tries to tell a person of color how they should react, act or that the experience is the same for all, is a liar and/or as dumb as they come.

Not here on DU, of course.

 

jdenver_2624

(50 posts)
104. America has never treated its black inhabitants even remotely fairly.
Mon Dec 29, 2014, 10:19 PM
Dec 2014

One only has to look at the millions of young black males locked up throughout the country to realize that black people in this country simply don't have it as good as the average white American. And with the resurgence of the right wing movement in recent years, I fear that the situation will only worsen in the future.

Jamaal510

(10,893 posts)
127. OT, but I ROFLed
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 12:14 AM
Dec 2014

when I went to your blog and saw the "Dear Bravenak, Why do Black people smoke so much weed?" and "Why do black people shoot craps all the time? What is craps?" questions. The dumb was intense for both of those questions, especially the 2nd one where the person asked why we "shoot craps" all the time, and then goes on to ask what craps is.

[IMG][/IMG]

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
128. I loved that one too.
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 12:19 AM
Dec 2014

Somebody asked me that in person. The looked quite confused trying to figure out what to say and how to say to.
The people he was looking at weren't even shooting craps. They were using six dice. They were playing Ten Thousand.

Jamaal510

(10,893 posts)
151. Wow...
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 01:56 AM
Dec 2014
The people he was looking at weren't even shooting craps. They were using six dice. They were playing Ten Thousand.

just when I thought it couldn't get more absurd. What's in the water that person is drinking?
 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
152. Stupid.
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 02:00 AM
Dec 2014

There was stupid in the water. Nobody was even drinking alcohol or anything.
I blame the mild winter here. Usually we wouldn't have even been out side, but it hasn't really gotten below freezing much. He mighta been drunk though. There is a problem with that up here.

lovemydog

(11,833 posts)
129. Hell no.
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 12:26 AM
Dec 2014

The number of black people in prison and black unemployment rates are just two examples that we have a long way to go toward racial equality.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
130. When I finally start writing nonfiction.
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 12:28 AM
Dec 2014

I'm starting there. Prison is the new slavery. That's my title, don't steal...

lovemydog

(11,833 posts)
131. You already do - right here you're writing non-fiction.
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 12:30 AM
Dec 2014

I won't steal I promise. Prison is indeed the new slavery. Or how about Black is the New Orange.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
133. Oohhhh!! That's good!
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 12:32 AM
Dec 2014

Black is the new Orange.
You might be right. I bet I can scare up some material from my post archives. Lots of stuff there. Good thinking.

lovemydog

(11,833 posts)
135. LOL, thanks.
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 12:38 AM
Dec 2014

You probably already have a lot of great reading material. But I'd like to suggest a couple of books in case you haven't read them. Soledad Brother by George Jackson and The Crime of Punishment by Karl Menninger. And of course Angela Davis. All from a long time ago, but with pertinent information (just not the statistical stuff, which has actually gotten worse not better since they were written).

Free the people now.

lovemydog

(11,833 posts)
140. No problemo.
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 12:50 AM
Dec 2014

What kind of kindle do you have? Do you like it? I had one a long time ago and loved it. But it was the cheapest one and I stupidly got one that didn't connect to the net. Can't remember too well.

Also, can you find those books and others for free on kindle. Isn't there some free library or something like that?

I'm thinking of getting a new one. It would save money and I love reading from a kindle.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
142. I have 3 different versions.
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 12:57 AM
Dec 2014

All are kindle fires and they all work decently. The newest one is the best, it takes photos, has games, and surfs the net along with being a reader. My kids and my husband use those. I just use my kindle app that I have on my iPad.
If you go on Amazon and choose a category select kindle , then whatever type of book like dystopian, then sort it by lowest to highest. The free books will be first. There are thousands. They have most classics for free. I have Oliver Twist in English, German, and French and Don Quixote in English and Spanish. I think I may own about 300 free books and a couple thousand that I bought.
I no longer purchase paper books.
They have a sharing program to where you can lend and borrow books from other people with Kindle Accounts. I haven't used it yet, since I'm behind on my reading.
If you learn how, you can borrow my books.

lovemydog

(11,833 posts)
143. Thanks a million.
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 01:17 AM
Dec 2014

I love reading too. I can speed read if I want to (I love speed reading here at DU), but on some things like graphic novels & comics I enjoy taking my time. It's interesting how they've improved all this stuff immensely since I first got (and later gave away) my first kindle. I was just looking at prices there at amazon, and may go with a simple paper white when I'm ready to buy one.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
144. I think you can buy refurbished too.
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 01:19 AM
Dec 2014

They sell graphic novels for kindle too, though. I have one by GRRM. The sworn sword. Enjoy your gadget when you get it. I can't live without mine anymore.

Sweeney

(505 posts)
136. Hell; I don't treat black people fairly.
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 12:42 AM
Dec 2014

If I am not prejudiced, I am cautious. I am careful to not give offense, and since I offend a lot of people and take for granted that I offend people, I avoid black people so I do not have to worry about offending them. But we are culturally different and it is hard to avoid giving that difference your attention.

I had a black girl friend once, and she was a pretty good fit, and she wanted to go white and I was like super man back then. But I let it out to an aunt that I was thinking about it and that news bounced around my family like a grenade. They are not very racist, but culturally it put them over an edge, and without any support for the idea, I could not go with it.

You really need a lot of family support to do kids, and all of that. They really did support my half Jewish child, and did so better than myself. I was never much of a father in spite of wanting children out of my own vanity. But they never made known that side of themselves, and I had taken for granted that they would not mind.

I saw the same reaction when my cousin's child came out as Lesbian. I don't care; because the kid was sharp; real intelligent, highly educated. And the family took it badly, and sort of rejected her. My Aunt phrased it thusly: She is not one of our denomination. I asked: What the heck does that mean? Did she join the Presbyterians? I would own her in a heart beat. She is one of us; she is super intelligent, and between her and her girl friend they have a child who needs family, and you will let some silly shit stand in the way of a relationship with this kid? There are none of us that are dumbbells, but I would point to such a one with pride.

roamer65

(36,747 posts)
139. White European Americans have never treated Native Americans, nor Black Americans fairly.
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 12:50 AM
Dec 2014

Hitler actually admired how poorly we treated both minorities. That is a fact.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
150. All questions are trick questions.
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 01:46 AM
Dec 2014

Yes. I skewed the poll. I wrote it to get my preffered answers. Like everybody else.

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