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riqster

(13,986 posts)
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 09:33 AM Dec 2014

Attention White People: It is Time to Acknowledge our Ignorance.

https://bluntandcranky.wordpress.com/2014/12/30/attention-white-people-it-is-time-to-acknowledge-our-ignorance/

Source info at the link.

Hate to say it, but far too many of us don’t seem to realize how little we know about being a person of color (POC) in America. You can tell it from the things that both well-meaning and malicious people are saying. Here is one example of the latter:

This is from an a**hole cop who is mocking the death of Mr. Garner, a POC who was choked to death by a white policeman in New York. That is willful, vindictive, hateful ignorance, and it is all too common: here is another example.

This doesn’t mean that all white people are such evil motherf***ers: this writer is fully aware of his ignorance. Just because one has lived and worked among, say, Black and Hispanic friends and co-workers does not mean one fully appreciates their experiences, any more than a father fully understands what a mother goes through when she gives birth to their child.

Participation in an event does not necessarily mean equivalent understanding. Mrs. Blunt and Cranky doesn’t understand what a coronary bypass feels like, any more than your humble correspondent groks her labor pains. Some things you have to feel for yourself to fully grasp.

So here is the challenge to all of us white folks: be aware of our ignorance. It will make us look smarter. And if we listen to our brothers and sisters who are people of color, we might even become smarter.

Can’t hurt, and it just might help.
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Attention White People: It is Time to Acknowledge our Ignorance. (Original Post) riqster Dec 2014 OP
I think most DUer's have been listening ...for years. For the most part, we're a kind,... BlueJazz Dec 2014 #1
I think summer of 2013 JustAnotherGen Dec 2014 #2
+1. nt seabeyond Dec 2014 #3
& it gets even more obvious by the day.... giftedgirl77 Dec 2014 #78
S'truth. But not all of us. riqster Dec 2014 #6
I married a black woman, she reminds me of my ignorance everyday! Lol Dustlawyer Dec 2014 #18
I have black friends who do the same.. mountain grammy Dec 2014 #20
Well said: riqster Dec 2014 #23
LOL Mr Dixon Dec 2014 #28
That's cute and funny and filled with awesome! JustAnotherGen Dec 2014 #79
Love the juxtaposition of soothing words with a backdrop of SS storm trooper black and The Badge. Fred Sanders Dec 2014 #4
Yeah, the asshole contingent has gone totally off the edge. riqster Dec 2014 #5
And ultimately the Koch Bros and Rove agenda to divide and conquer is working randys1 Dec 2014 #7
That is indeed the heart of the matter. riqster Dec 2014 #8
+1 nt Live and Learn Dec 2014 #13
That skull and crossbones meme is the anti-meme to the "love and peace" meme of the 60s. Dont call me Shirley Dec 2014 #9
I guess atreides1 Dec 2014 #12
Ah,,,,, the difference between Ignorance and Stupidity Cryptoad Dec 2014 #10
A good point. But acknowledgement is the first step in either case.7 riqster Dec 2014 #21
but only one is capable,,,,,, Cryptoad Dec 2014 #41
Point of note... It's not possible to be cognizant of one's ignorance. Fearless Dec 2014 #11
But it is quite possible to imagine yourself walking in someone else's shoes. Live and Learn Dec 2014 #14
That is what I said. Fearless Dec 2014 #35
Disagree. It is quite possible to be aware of one's lack of knowledge. riqster Dec 2014 #22
Ignorance is a lack of knowledge. Fearless Dec 2014 #36
Au contraire, in this post-Rumsfeldian (and post-Socratic) world, it is KingCharlemagne Dec 2014 #26
Donald Rumsfeld is hardly a reliable source on anything Fearless Dec 2014 #37
I'm dissolving in a fit of mirthful giggling listening to you channel your KingCharlemagne Dec 2014 #74
To be fair what I said is the exact opposite of what he said Fearless Dec 2014 #81
I don't remember when the awareness dawned on me that Rumsferatu KingCharlemagne Dec 2014 #82
I disagree. I'm entirely cognizant of my ignorance of string theory, small engine repair, Maedhros Dec 2014 #58
Perfectly put! riqster Dec 2014 #60
By definition you can't be cognizant of ignorance Fearless Dec 2014 #67
Why are you so desperate to drag a meaningless semantic argument into this thread? Maedhros Dec 2014 #69
I am not the one dragging it on. Fearless Dec 2014 #72
Here is the definition. riqster Dec 2014 #71
"lack of knowledge or information" Fearless Dec 2014 #73
visit the King historic site in Atlanta greymattermom Dec 2014 #15
I feel like I am completely aware. onecaliberal Dec 2014 #16
Or at least the audible part of the country. riqster Dec 2014 #24
Right... onecaliberal Dec 2014 #46
The ones who amplify their message. riqster Dec 2014 #47
Exactly. The ones who spout the corp philosophy. onecaliberal Dec 2014 #68
How hard is it to realize your own personal experience is not universal? alarimer Dec 2014 #17
Even when we are aware, we can still learn more. riqster Dec 2014 #25
There are many who do believe their experience is universal! kwassa Dec 2014 #63
This works in more than one way too... MadDAsHell Dec 2014 #75
Maybe teaching empathy to children using dogs; there are programs in some prisons that do this. Flatulo Dec 2014 #19
I cant help but notice WHO doesnt respond in these type of threads... randys1 Dec 2014 #27
I don't get how you get to be the decider upaloopa Dec 2014 #31
Decider? Where did I claim to be a decider? randys1 Dec 2014 #32
You didn't say you were dividing who the racist upaloopa Dec 2014 #33
You cant say "many labeled as racist are not racist" without some backup... randys1 Dec 2014 #34
You didn't need to go into all that for me to understand upaloopa Dec 2014 #38
I know I am extreme, but there are many like me, if you have a problem with what I randys1 Dec 2014 #39
I don't intentionally follow you around. I don't even upaloopa Dec 2014 #40
+1. Jester Messiah Dec 2014 #43
This is interesting: riqster Dec 2014 #59
Yes it I could be wrong I don't know for sure upaloopa Dec 2014 #62
Good food for thought. riqster Dec 2014 #65
So who are the racists? - maybe you should have some sort of code word you could el_bryanto Dec 2014 #44
Nah, there aint no racists here...you betcha randys1 Dec 2014 #51
Ah - "you betcha" - good call - that's from Sarah Palin? el_bryanto Dec 2014 #52
Your comment implies there are either NO racists here or very few, I find that an randys1 Dec 2014 #54
I believe there are racists here - I just don't like veiled accusations and paranoia el_bryanto Dec 2014 #56
I just wrote a long response to you about hidden posts by defensive white people randys1 Dec 2014 #57
Excellent comment. The Velveteen Ocelot Dec 2014 #29
Yep. I know enough to know that I don't know enough. riqster Dec 2014 #50
How can we listen to each other when white males are Flatulo Dec 2014 #84
You poor thing. Nobody ever listens to white males. The Velveteen Ocelot Dec 2014 #85
If white people are the root cause of all racism, then is it not fair to say that white people Flatulo Dec 2014 #86
I never told you to "shut up." Nobody is telling anybody to shut up. The Velveteen Ocelot Dec 2014 #87
I agree with your comments. I just didn't see the need for such a rude response to my first post. Flatulo Dec 2014 #88
Well being born White I could not ever live upaloopa Dec 2014 #30
I think starting conversations is a good thing. riqster Dec 2014 #49
Your OP is a good one. I think that a lot of AA people on DU have started conversations. Raine1967 Dec 2014 #55
I don't think public self-castigation serves any good end. Jester Messiah Dec 2014 #42
I agree. Self-flagellation is akin to masturbation in my view. riqster Dec 2014 #48
I don't think "self-castigation" is what's being called for here. The Velveteen Ocelot Dec 2014 #53
Well said! riqster Dec 2014 #64
This is good advice. Hard for many to put into practice, but worth doing. nt el_bryanto Dec 2014 #45
Message auto-removed Name removed Dec 2014 #61
I try to keep an open mind, listen, and then decide for myself. aikoaiko Dec 2014 #66
You can't say any fairer than that. riqster Dec 2014 #70
Are we ignorant or are we occupied with our own struggles? RandySF Dec 2014 #76
Wherever the ignorance comes from, we need to correct it in ourselves. riqster Dec 2014 #83
I don't know what it's like vive la commune Dec 2014 #77
Well said. riqster Dec 2014 #80
This white person fully understands the hardships black people deal with in America jdenver_2624 Dec 2014 #89
A very good point. riqster Dec 2014 #90
 

BlueJazz

(25,348 posts)
1. I think most DUer's have been listening ...for years. For the most part, we're a kind,...
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 09:39 AM
Dec 2014

....understanding bunch.

JustAnotherGen

(31,828 posts)
2. I think summer of 2013
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 09:45 AM
Dec 2014

I started looking at a lot of DUers with a suspicious eye.

That's something to listen to and be aware of.

I'm not the only one.

riqster

(13,986 posts)
6. S'truth. But not all of us.
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 10:12 AM
Dec 2014

And many of us need to better understand the limits of our awareness.

mountain grammy

(26,624 posts)
20. I have black friends who do the same..
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 01:00 PM
Dec 2014

We need to be constantly reminded. White Americans must open their eyes, hearts and minds to where we are and how we got here. It's pretty astonishing when a white person becomes aware of the everyday injustices people of color deal with almost daily.

We all know people who consider themselves not at all racist but would have no problem with the sentiments expressed on this t shirt. I've heard " I can support the police without being racist" and that's where the great divide comes in, because it's not about "not supporting the police," it's about not supporting racist and gestapo tactics.

riqster

(13,986 posts)
23. Well said:
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 01:38 PM
Dec 2014
"because it's not about "not supporting the police," it's about not supporting racist and gestapo tactics."

Mr Dixon

(1,185 posts)
28. LOL
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 02:00 PM
Dec 2014

Now that is a funny, my white wife seems to still have alot to learn about the police but we're getting there

JustAnotherGen

(31,828 posts)
79. That's cute and funny and filled with awesome!
Wed Dec 31, 2014, 09:28 AM
Dec 2014


My husband is working on his Masters at "Black Girl School" as he calls it!

Fred Sanders

(23,946 posts)
4. Love the juxtaposition of soothing words with a backdrop of SS storm trooper black and The Badge.
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 09:51 AM
Dec 2014

Nice harmony with the skull and crossbones caps.

Should have added the words, "Or Else" to the slogan.

Breath easy. Don't break the law. "Or else" Officer Friendly Stormtrooper will shoot you dead, motherfucker?!"

It is not "To Subvert and Arrest", remember?

randys1

(16,286 posts)
7. And ultimately the Koch Bros and Rove agenda to divide and conquer is working
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 10:19 AM
Dec 2014

just fine.

Firefighters who make too much, well sure, if you compare it to Walmart workers...

The worst people with the strongest union, cops...

The best people with no union, everybody else...

We have a simultaneous attack going on, the southern mentality being played out EVERYWHERE including California, of racism and bigotry, while the Oligarchs are targeting all of us for a future of poverty.

I think we can use the racist puke fucks attack on our Black brothers and sisters as a way to organize a hard response to the oligarchs.

Not sure exactly how, but the beginning has to be getting the morons who think the problem is some mother of 3 getting food, to understand what the real problem is, who the real enemy is.

And they are enemies, be sure of that.

Dont call me Shirley

(10,998 posts)
9. That skull and crossbones meme is the anti-meme to the "love and peace" meme of the 60s.
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 10:26 AM
Dec 2014

It's been around too long. And taken many forms, mean looking kill faces to cute little pink smiley skull marketed to little girls. I am sick of it. I refused to buy any skull/crossbones propaganda crap for my kids.

atreides1

(16,079 posts)
12. I guess
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 10:41 AM
Dec 2014

"Meine Ehre heisst Treue&quot My honor is loyalty) would have been a bit much...even if the shirt does have the two colors associated with the SS!

Fearless

(18,421 posts)
11. Point of note... It's not possible to be cognizant of one's ignorance.
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 10:35 AM
Dec 2014

That's the definition of ignorance, to lack knowledge of something.

What they author really means is that people should be cognizant of the privileges that they receive off the bat from looking a certain way, loving a certain way, acting a certain way, etc. That is the real take home message here.

Live and Learn

(12,769 posts)
14. But it is quite possible to imagine yourself walking in someone else's shoes.
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 10:51 AM
Dec 2014

For example, how many of us would be for 'stop and frisk', if we thought it was us that would be subjected to it?

I don't understand how anybody could not see the blatant unfairness of such a policy or how it could one day be expanded to include us all.

riqster

(13,986 posts)
22. Disagree. It is quite possible to be aware of one's lack of knowledge.
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 01:34 PM
Dec 2014

I believe you might be thinking of a "blind spot'.

 

KingCharlemagne

(7,908 posts)
26. Au contraire, in this post-Rumsfeldian (and post-Socratic) world, it is
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 01:54 PM
Dec 2014

perfectly possible to be cognizant of one's ignorance:

Reports that say that something hasn't happened are always interesting to me, because as we know, there are known knowns; there are things we know we know. We also know there are known unknowns; that is to say we know there are some things we do not know. But there are also unknown unknowns -- the ones we don't know we don't know. And if one looks throughout the history of our country and other free countries, it is the latter category that tend to be the difficult ones.

~Donald Rumsfeld, February 2002

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/There_are_known_knowns

Fearless

(18,421 posts)
37. Donald Rumsfeld is hardly a reliable source on anything
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 02:54 PM
Dec 2014

And likewise, he wasn't speaking about ignorance. You equated knowing what you don't know with ignorance. It is a false equivalence. Ignorance is completely not knowing. You can't know that you don't know without knowing something.

 

KingCharlemagne

(7,908 posts)
74. I'm dissolving in a fit of mirthful giggling listening to you channel your
Wed Dec 31, 2014, 01:23 AM
Dec 2014

own inner Rumsfeld:

You can't know that you don't know without knowing something.




Socrates is credited with saying, "The only thing I know is that I know nothing." To me Socrates is saying he's entirely cognizant of his ignorance.

I revile myself for mentioning Socrates and Rumsfeld in the same sentence (and I agree wholeheartedly with your assessment of RummyDummy and his epistemological creds or lack thereof.)

Fearless

(18,421 posts)
81. To be fair what I said is the exact opposite of what he said
Wed Dec 31, 2014, 01:07 PM
Dec 2014

And only one of us is a murderous f*ckhead.

 

KingCharlemagne

(7,908 posts)
82. I don't remember when the awareness dawned on me that Rumsferatu
Wed Dec 31, 2014, 01:11 PM
Dec 2014

was a soulless Strangelove. I'm pretty sure the awareness had dawned before the 'Known known' presser. Something about that too-eager glint in his eye, or maybe that gleeful cackle at his adoring fans in the papparazzi. But yeah, RummyDummy is sui generis. Even Bob McNamara managed to preserve at least a modicum of gravitas.

 

Maedhros

(10,007 posts)
58. I disagree. I'm entirely cognizant of my ignorance of string theory, small engine repair,
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 05:52 PM
Dec 2014

Thai cooking technique and 17th century Chinese poetry. That cognizance of ignorance is what prevents me from refuting, dismissing or belittling what theoretical physicists, mechanics, chefs and literature professors say about these topics.

One could extend the analogy to race relations. Knowing that I am, for the most part, ignorant of the life experience of black people in America, I refrain from refuting, dismissing or belittling what they say about their experience.

Knowledge of my ignorance compels me to learn.

Fearless

(18,421 posts)
67. By definition you can't be cognizant of ignorance
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 09:05 PM
Dec 2014

A lack of knowledge or expertise is not ignorance. But I digress it isn't important.

 

Maedhros

(10,007 posts)
69. Why are you so desperate to drag a meaningless semantic argument into this thread?
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 10:20 PM
Dec 2014

Is it to show how much more clever you are than everyone else? Well, take a little pat on the head and the DU Hairsplitter Award for your trouble.

Fearless

(18,421 posts)
72. I am not the one dragging it on.
Wed Dec 31, 2014, 12:08 AM
Dec 2014

I stated a grammatical fact and one that is important. We should always be precise with the language we use.

riqster

(13,986 posts)
71. Here is the definition.
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 10:51 PM
Dec 2014
ig·no·rance
ˈiɡnərəns/
noun
lack of knowledge or information.
"he acted in ignorance of basic procedures"
synonyms: incomprehension of, unawareness of, unconsciousness of, unfamiliarity with, inexperience with, lack of knowledge about, lack of information about; informal cluelessness about


You'll please take note that degrees of ignorance are not precluded. Thus meaning that one can be ignorant but not completely unaware.

Fearless

(18,421 posts)
73. "lack of knowledge or information"
Wed Dec 31, 2014, 12:10 AM
Dec 2014

If you lack knowledge or information on something then you lack knowledge or information on something.

I'm not sure I can be more clear than that.

greymattermom

(5,754 posts)
15. visit the King historic site in Atlanta
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 10:58 AM
Dec 2014

and you will see videos of white people sounding so ugly that I'm embarrassed to be one. This hasn't changed, and now it's on the surface again. They need to put these new videos on display in the civil rights museum. You'll find in next door to the world of coke.

alarimer

(16,245 posts)
17. How hard is it to realize your own personal experience is not universal?
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 11:12 AM
Dec 2014

Are people really so blinkered?

Rhetorical, because I know they are.

I just can't believe that it is so difficult to imagine yourself in someone else's shoes. But that would require empathy, which is in short supply these days.

riqster

(13,986 posts)
25. Even when we are aware, we can still learn more.
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 01:41 PM
Dec 2014

But far too many won't even take that first step.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
63. There are many who do believe their experience is universal!
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 08:14 PM
Dec 2014

Unfortunately, a number of them are here on DU.

 

MadDAsHell

(2,067 posts)
75. This works in more than one way too...
Wed Dec 31, 2014, 01:33 AM
Dec 2014

Because there seems to be a lot of Caucasians that think, that as persons of color, we all think and feel universally. It may surprise some of you to learn that not every person of color feels the same way about race relations in the US, the police, or the recent citizen deaths that have received so much media attention.

Further, I get the feeling from s lot of recent posts that most Caucasians on DU assume that all of us persons of color spend every minute feeling oppressed and sorry for ourselves, and that's a little insulting. Many (if not most) of us get up, go to our jobs, love our kids, and live our lives just like everyone else.

randys1

(16,286 posts)
27. I cant help but notice WHO doesnt respond in these type of threads...
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 01:55 PM
Dec 2014

They cant support the OP but they cant risk opposing it either, so nothing.

I wish the god damn racist pukes that live on DU would just come out with it, already.
You know who you are...

upaloopa

(11,417 posts)
31. I don't get how you get to be the decider
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 02:21 PM
Dec 2014

of who is a racist puke? Aren't we saying that we can't know how other people think or feel? I don't like the self righteous pukes on DU who can't see how fucking blind they are!

randys1

(16,286 posts)
32. Decider? Where did I claim to be a decider?
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 02:26 PM
Dec 2014

I simply observed that DU has many racists on it, including those who are pretend Dems ...

I have observed and made a decision for myself what these people are and WHY they are here...

Where did I pretend to decide anything for you?

So when you are reading posts of racists you dont decide for yourself they are a racist?

upaloopa

(11,417 posts)
33. You didn't say you were dividing who the racist
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 02:44 PM
Dec 2014

pukes were for yourself. Many people who are labeled racist on DU are not racist.
Someone could invent a false standard then judge people by it which is what is happening I think.

randys1

(16,286 posts)
34. You cant say "many labeled as racist are not racist" without some backup...
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 02:49 PM
Dec 2014

To be fair to you and I dont mean this sarcastically or as an attempt to demean you, but if you are white the odds are you/we dont have a clue what is racist to a minority, because as white people we are so encompassed by our white privilege, we are so completely unburdened the way a minority is, especially Black (something about that skin color that just makes all the god damn difference in America), that even the most well meaning among us are still racist if only to the degree that we enjoy white privilege on a daily basis.


The question isnt are most white Americans racist, because they are; but which ones are at least attempting to resolve the issue even if while gladly accepting white privilege.

Racism is a white and white only problem, in America.

i.e. ONLY white people can resolve it, in America.

upaloopa

(11,417 posts)
38. You didn't need to go into all that for me to understand
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 03:04 PM
Dec 2014

where you are coming from. The problem is you are extreme and you don't know it.

randys1

(16,286 posts)
39. I know I am extreme, but there are many like me, if you have a problem with what I
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 03:05 PM
Dec 2014

believe, please be my guest and tell me what exactly you have a problem with.

You seem to like to follow me around, now I am not exactly sure why, yet.

Would you like to give me your views on something or are you just going to follow me around and accuse me of being passionate, involved, engaged and giving a fuck?

upaloopa

(11,417 posts)
40. I don't intentionally follow you around. I don't even
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 03:40 PM
Dec 2014

know your DU name. I never looked you up. I guess I react to what you say kind of like Pavlov's dog.
This will sound extreme but I don't know how to tone it down. I would if I could.
I think part of the problem with this discussion lies in the degree to which people are portrayed as either victim or perpetrator.
There is no doubt that African Americans are not treated as well as White people are. I would think we agree on that. I think the vast majority of White people understand that. You don't think so I assume.
I believe that you can't help growing up White and understand that you are given privileges that Black people aren't given. The Civil Rights movement and laws point that out. Yet you think most White people don't understand White privilege or deny it.
Also, you are given privilege. It is passive not something you use against another yet you say White people aggressively use their privilege to harm others.
You believe in ideas like white appropriation of Black culture as some kind of negative action that White people ascribe to and that it can only be White people who can be appropriaters. I think that is a made up paradigm that does not represent reality.
So when I see extreme posts like yours I react. You don't have a lock on the truth. Like all of us you have an opinion. At times it may reflect truth and at times it doesn't I am the same in that respect.
I am 68 years old and I am assuming I am much older than you. I lived during the time when segregation was accepted as the norm and what was right.
I was not taught to be racist by my parents.
I don't know what life is like for a Black person today. I think Obama being president has brought out the racists who feel embolden when before they might of felt they would not be out of place.
I don't think your brand of extremism is helpful. I think it is more devisive.
The other week I was helping at a beach clean up. There was a group of young Black Civil Conservation Corp helping us. As they walked past I thanked them for helping and tried to get a conversation going. Only one guy talked to me and he was very nervous. The rest about 10 people glanced at me and walked by in silence or just walked by. I thought all the racial tension the country lately may have been the reason we did not communicate. I think the extremists are driving us further apart not helping. I think you are not helping.

 

Jester Messiah

(4,711 posts)
43. +1.
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 04:21 PM
Dec 2014

All this talk of "cultural appropriation" is just a code word for segregation. Sad to see it coming from liberal quarters, I thought we were better than that.

riqster

(13,986 posts)
59. This is interesting:
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 07:11 PM
Dec 2014

"I thought all the racial tension the country lately may have been the reason we did not communicate. I think the extremists are driving us further apart not helping."

Possible. But fear has many sources, and it may not be accurate to take such an hypothesis and apply it in this context.

el_bryanto

(11,804 posts)
44. So who are the racists? - maybe you should have some sort of code word you could
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 04:24 PM
Dec 2014

use when responding to them. Something innocent that the Mods wouldn't notice - like . . . Custard Pie or Delaware. Just work something into the response and we'll all know that you have identified another racist.

Bryant

el_bryanto

(11,804 posts)
52. Ah - "you betcha" - good call - that's from Sarah Palin?
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 05:24 PM
Dec 2014

So any time you use that phrase we can be aware that you have identified another racist?

Bryant

randys1

(16,286 posts)
54. Your comment implies there are either NO racists here or very few, I find that an
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 05:25 PM
Dec 2014

entertaining response, would have assumed it was sarcasm but I guess not.

el_bryanto

(11,804 posts)
56. I believe there are racists here - I just don't like veiled accusations and paranoia
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 05:36 PM
Dec 2014

If someone is openly racist they should be alerted on and either change or leave DU. If you can't alert on someone, then there is little point to those sorts of veiled accusations other than to shut off discussion.

Bryant

randys1

(16,286 posts)
57. I just wrote a long response to you about hidden posts by defensive white people
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 05:43 PM
Dec 2014

and now realize that will again jeopardize my account, so mums the word...

not a word out of me

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,735 posts)
29. Excellent comment.
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 02:13 PM
Dec 2014

Nothing will improve unless we (white people) understand that we don't really get what it's like to be on the receiving end of racial discrimination. Women might get it to some extent, having been subject to routine and pervasive gender discrimination, but white women still benefit from white privilege in other respects. We all need to listen to each other instead of bloviating about what we think "they ought to be doing."

 

Flatulo

(5,005 posts)
84. How can we listen to each other when white males are
Wed Dec 31, 2014, 03:59 PM
Dec 2014

are constantly being told to shut the fuck up by both women and minorities?

Whoops, guess I just outed myself as both a racist and a misogynist.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,735 posts)
85. You poor thing. Nobody ever listens to white males.
Wed Dec 31, 2014, 04:13 PM
Dec 2014

I'm sorry that throughout the history of civilization your voices have never been heard or your concerns ever considered.

 

Flatulo

(5,005 posts)
86. If white people are the root cause of all racism, then is it not fair to say that white people
Wed Dec 31, 2014, 04:24 PM
Dec 2014

will need to be part of the solution?

If you agree with this, then please explain to me how telling them to shut the fuck up will bring about better cooperation between people.

White people have to be part of the conversation. I get the whole 'we have to listen' movement. I've been listening. I get that I don't get it.

But I'd like to know one good expected outcome of telling people to shut the fuck up, aside from the occasional obsequious, gratuitous and condescending 'Ayup, I'm white and I'm a fucking moron, so I'll just shut up and pick gunk from my navel' type posts.

You can answer like, you know, a grown-up person, or you can post some asshole-y and completely unhelpful remark.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,735 posts)
87. I never told you to "shut up." Nobody is telling anybody to shut up.
Wed Dec 31, 2014, 04:31 PM
Dec 2014

What some of us are suggesting, however, is that those who are not black or other minority (or female) could learn a lot if they were to spend less time whitesplaining (and mansplaining, if applicable) and more time listening. The first step is to try to understand. Understanding comes first and foremost from listening. If you want to interpret that as being told to shut up, that's on you, but that isn't what is being asked. If any of us white people thought we were just being told to shut up, we wouldn't be participating in this thread at all, would we? You can take offense if you want, but that won't help the conversation any.

 

Flatulo

(5,005 posts)
88. I agree with your comments. I just didn't see the need for such a rude response to my first post.
Wed Dec 31, 2014, 04:52 PM
Dec 2014

Anyway, Google for yourself, "White people need to shut up". It's become something of a movement, and I don't think it's the best way to get white people to listen.

Thanks for the civil and well-reasoned response. I agree 100%.

upaloopa

(11,417 posts)
30. Well being born White I could not ever live
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 02:14 PM
Dec 2014

in a Black skin. I did not know that places were as bad as Fergason and I am very upset that it took the killing of Michael Brown for me to learn about it.
I have a new Black coworker that I haven't met yet. I don't know how the past few month's racial news has effected him. I don't want to ask him. I don't think it is a proper work topic.
I don't think the posts on DU are much of a help either. They are mostly about symptoms and not solutions.
I think the way to stop the police in Ferguson is for the citizens to vote in a prosecutor who will indict cops when they should be.
Ideas like that could be more effective and in place faster than the time it takes to improve race relations. Some White people will never come around.

Raine1967

(11,589 posts)
55. Your OP is a good one. I think that a lot of AA people on DU have started conversations.
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 05:31 PM
Dec 2014

So I really think in the end, There is a contingency of white People that need to start to really listen and be a part of those discussions.

There are people right here on DU that a are part of suggesting solutions. WE need to listen.



 

Jester Messiah

(4,711 posts)
42. I don't think public self-castigation serves any good end.
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 04:18 PM
Dec 2014

Especially since anyone given to such is demonstrably not part of the problem. It would basically just devolve into a public show of piety, which is usually done for the purpose of drawing attention to oneself.

riqster

(13,986 posts)
48. I agree. Self-flagellation is akin to masturbation in my view.
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 05:13 PM
Dec 2014

But calls for awareness, like this one, are a horse of quite another color.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,735 posts)
53. I don't think "self-castigation" is what's being called for here.
Tue Dec 30, 2014, 05:25 PM
Dec 2014

It's not at all the same as simply trying to acknowledge that there are some things about racial prejudice we might not know or understand without ever have been on the receiving end of it, and that it's important to listen to those who have. I don't "castigate" myself for perhaps having been insufficiently aware of certain realities. I'm just acknowledging that I need to pay more attention.

Response to riqster (Original post)

RandySF

(58,911 posts)
76. Are we ignorant or are we occupied with our own struggles?
Wed Dec 31, 2014, 02:02 AM
Dec 2014

Decades of stress placed upon working class whites have created conditions that make it easy to pit groups against each other or at ;east keep one preoccupied.

vive la commune

(94 posts)
77. I don't know what it's like
Wed Dec 31, 2014, 02:11 AM
Dec 2014

I've experienced discrimination before, for many different reasons (being female, low-income, disabled, queer, etc.), but never over my race or skin color, so I don't know what that's like. I fully admit to being ignorant of not personally knowing what it's like to be a black or brown person in America. I can't know it. So I try to listen to people and their stories the same way I would want someone to listen to me. I like to think I'm doing a good job of that, but I'm sure I'm clueless at times. But I know people aren't making up racism. It exists. It kills people.

And that "Breathe Easy, Don't Break The Law" shirt is way fucked up.

 

jdenver_2624

(50 posts)
89. This white person fully understands the hardships black people deal with in America
Wed Dec 31, 2014, 06:19 PM
Dec 2014

After all, so many of them are wasting away in our country's prisons, imprisoned for frivolous charges. Very unfortunate.

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