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My boyfriend was just in NYC visiting friends. He called one friend's mother, and got her answering machine. This machine has a screen showing the name and/or number of who called. The name that was displayed when he left a message was the P****** Family Trust ( I hid my last name there). How could his name and cell phone number be associated with my family trust? He's not on our trust. This seems so bizarre to us! Any thoughts?
Thanks
DawgHouse
(4,019 posts)PasadenaTrudy
(3,998 posts)know who I am! Doesn't know my name. He hasn't called her in like 20 yrs....
DawgHouse
(4,019 posts)Lars39
(26,109 posts)purposes.
because he resembles Peter Falk, lol. No, he doesn't know a thing about our trust.
Enrique
(27,461 posts)he was amazed by digital watches, caller ID would blow his mind.
Lars39
(26,109 posts)And I would soon like to meet his wife and BIL.
Whiskeytide
(4,461 posts)Check your call history.
PasadenaTrudy
(3,998 posts)This was in NYC, I was here in CA. All I can think is we have the same address...but still odd. We are in our 50s, live together, not crazy kids here.
Whiskeytide
(4,461 posts)... accounts for your phones? Could you have consigned on his account? Call his provider and see if somehow they have your name on his account. Maybe they can tell you how it got there.
PasadenaTrudy
(3,998 posts)we added his phone to my acct. We get one bill for both phones. But, I don't have any info about my family trust with Verizon. No one knows about it except my brother, our lawyer, and I.
Terra Alta
(5,158 posts)Maybe your lawyer would know what's up.
PasadenaTrudy
(3,998 posts)he knows of the existence of the trust, he is in my will. I think I'll email my lawyer and see if he can figure it out. It's nothing nefarious David has done, it's some weird tech glitch.
R B Garr
(16,954 posts)that had that name/data on it? I would bet Verizon has picked it up somehow through your remittances, etc. with them. They may have set his phone up when they initialized it with that as an ID name for it for some reason.
It sounds weird but not too alarming. If you're on the same account at Verizon, it's probably a shared data type thing. I had a strange thing happen with Verizon on our shared phones, and they shed some light on it -- forget what it was, I think some third-party call or something like that -- but Verizon answered my questions for me about it enough that it didn't worry me anymore.
PasadenaTrudy
(3,998 posts)paid by check, only cc. None of that info was given to them.
R B Garr
(16,954 posts)the second phone (did you add a second line for a phone number for him?). Maybe they got that Trust name from your credit report...(?). When he calls you, how does his ID show up?
dumbcat
(2,120 posts)"It's nothing nefarious David has done, it's some weird tech glitch."
I suspect you cannot be totally objective here. Better to get the lawyer to investigate. There is a reason this happened, and you should definitely find out what it was.
PasadenaTrudy
(3,998 posts)I'm not being totally objective here?
dumbcat
(2,120 posts)but you obviously are in a relationship with David, and thus naturally your feelings, instincts, or whatever you want to call your judgements could be compromised. It's not bad, it's a natural thing. Better to let a uninvolved party make inquiries. That's what people should do in any situation that involves finance among people with close relationships.
I'm sorry if I came across as offensive. I was trying to offer good advice.
Terra Alta
(5,158 posts)That could explain it. Other than that, I don't have a clue.
PasadenaTrudy
(3,998 posts)Same plan. He got his phone after my sister and mom died and the trust was established. He is in my will too. But even my phone number is not associated with our trust....could be though. That's creepy!
djean111
(14,255 posts)PasadenaTrudy
(3,998 posts)My brother and I are trustees but we use my address. The trust only consists of the rental property that David and I live in....
djean111
(14,255 posts)for the name the address is registered to?
I doubt it is sinister, but it is creepy how much info there is out there, easily accessed.
PasadenaTrudy
(3,998 posts)like that must have happened. I googled our phone numbers, the name of the trust, nothing came up. Very strange!
djean111
(14,255 posts)A few years ago, a neighbor behind me started playing very loud music with lots or base, all frikkin' day. After the third day started with more of same, I looked up his address in the county records, saw who it was registered to, and used that to get the phone number. He was sheepish when I called - he had just gotten a new sound system and his wife had warned him it was too loud. I complimented him on the quality, but asked if he could turn it way down, he said sure and that was that. No hard feelings.
Maybe your home is registered to the trust on the tax tolls, and that is where they got the name.
appalachiablue
(41,143 posts)PasadenaTrudy
(3,998 posts)That's what's so freaky. And it only came up this way when he called his friend's elderly mom. Freaked her out too!
appalachiablue
(41,143 posts)Customer Service. That kind of personal financial info., esp. the family trust shouldn't be id'ed that way as you know, not cool. Hopefully it was the one instance & you can resolve the matter.
PasadenaTrudy
(3,998 posts)But we should if we can think of someone to try.
appalachiablue
(41,143 posts)Ms. Toad
(34,074 posts)My guess is that you will find the trust name on it somewhere, and that by default all phones on that account are connected to the trust name.
People in the thread who are suggesting you privately call your attorney are being unnecessarily alarmist. It's an amusing puzzle that you'll figure out soon enough, but particularly since every time someone asked you questions that point to the kind of link I'm suggesting, you have confirmed the link exists.