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Gratuitiesgenerally 15-20 percent in the U.S.perpetuate a slave-master binary that is fueled by a sense of karma, writer and musician Ian Svenonius argues. Those who tip well often do so out of camaraderie, claiming they too were once victims of the service industry and understand the terrible conditions and poor wages commonly associated with the field. Or else it is done to assuage the culpability inspired by purchasing a luxury, he explains in Jacobin. Whatever the reasons for tipping someone, doing so allows this form of indentured servitude to prosper in the United States by justifying the service industrys mistreatment of workers while deluding and encouraging them with the overhanging carrot of the tip jar.
Svenonius describes how the degrading system functions:
Tipping is the onus of the purchaser who pays the wage of the worker on top of the cost of whatever service provided, which goes to the business itself.
If one ever tries to discuss tipping in America, one is immediately met with a dismissive and lofty: Well, I tip really well because I was/am part of the service industry. Like veterans of the armed forces, the service people are bound together in a cult whose members have experienced the true nature of work servitude and the demeaning, harrowing experience it represents. The fellow warrior conspicuously tips well in a great display of homage and respect. Service implies a subservience but also a noble sacrifice. The service industry workers prepare our sandwiches nobly, submitting to our personalized mayonnaise requests. Almost all Americans have worked in the service industry at some point and many will only ever work in it.
Tipping for these service-industry comrades is outside of money. It is an alm or genuflection; a gesture of humility to the tippee designed to recognize and rehabilitate the degrading nature of their work, and also to connect with them spiritually. The camaraderie and smile dispensed by the waitstaff on receiving a generous tip after a suspenseful meal service brings the light of spiritual nourishment to the tipper, who can rest well that night
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Nuclear Unicorn
(19,497 posts)sendero
(28,552 posts).... appreciation for good service coupled with the knowledge that most of the server's income comes from tips.
ErikJ
(6,335 posts)I was never indoctrinated into the restaurant culture as we rarely went to one with a family of 10 and both parents from farms. But when I do I get a vague feeling of guilt like I'm the master and the waiter is my slave dependent on my tip if she serves me well enough. Maybe its just me.
hatrack
(59,587 posts)Years of waiting tables, and yes, it's a shitty job. Gee, I never knew that I was just an unwitting tool of slave-mongering and oppression.
Strange to relate, though, this sudden realization doesn't mean that I'm going to start hitting myself in the head with the A1 bottle out of guilt at tipping well, or beating the wait staff with chains so as to avoid knuckling under to the Oligarchic Deconstructed Heuristic Hegemons of the Gerontocratic Phallocentric Aristocracy.
ErikJ
(6,335 posts)your "masters" to try to get a bigger tip, right?
hatrack
(59,587 posts)Deal with it.
BlueJazz
(25,348 posts)...have to do if I was eating at a buffet place. Being raised in Australia, it's never even crossed my mind that being served at a place is some sort of Master/Slave thing (Yuck!) It's the person's job. It's NOT who the person IS.
There's been a lot of times when being served, I've thought, "Wow...what a cool personality",
especially the woman who works down the street from me but that's another story...
HappyMe
(20,277 posts)I am not a black woman, but the use of 'master' and 'slave' is rubbing me the wrong way. I have never thought of myself as a slave when I was waiting tables, or at any job I have had.
sendero
(28,552 posts)..... employer/employee relationship.
Nye Bevan
(25,406 posts)And no, I was never in "the service industry".
The most common reason I reduce the tip is if the server does not come to the table to check on us shortly after the food arrives.