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SpartanDem

(4,533 posts)
Sat Feb 21, 2015, 03:48 PM Feb 2015

Judge says Detroit man must pay $30K in child support for kid who is not his

It is a story that inspired outrage

Carnell Alexander says he got a shock during a traffic stop in Detroit in the early 1990s. The officer told him he is a deadbeat dad, and that he was under arrest.

The problem? Carnell didn’t have any kids.

He’d been made dad by default after an ex listed him as father when applying for welfare benefits. According to documents filed with the court, a process server claimed to have given Carnell Alexander, in person, a notice of hearing at a house he once lived at. It is something that wasn’t possible. Carnell wasn’t at that house on the date he was allegedly served. He was incarcerated for a crime he committed as a young mann Tuesday, he went to the Third Judicial Circuit Court, hoping a judge would fix it.
......
Instead, his story inspired a different kind of outrage.

“I am outraged that Mr. Alexander for two and a half decades failed to take this matter seriously,” said Judge Kathleen McCarthy.

Judge McCarthy described how he had been to court more than a dozen times over the years. She ruled that Carnell Alexander should have filed a motion to set aside the acknowledgement of parentage long ago

http://www.wxyz.com/news/judge-says-man-must-pay-30k-in-child-support-for-kid-who-is-not-his



What a horrible judge(I have few other choice words to describe her). A guy with little education and income is expected to navigate the justice system perfectly? It's too bad the idiot isn't up for reelection until 2018, more likely than not people will have forgot about this by by then.

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Judge says Detroit man must pay $30K in child support for kid who is not his (Original Post) SpartanDem Feb 2015 OP
Our justice system at work! MadCrow Feb 2015 #1
UPDATE: Attorney Cherika Harris has stepped forward to help this man. pnwmom Feb 2015 #91
And when this dude gets off the hook. .. AngryAmish Feb 2015 #97
Gets "Off the Hook" for some thing he didn't do FreakinDJ Feb 2015 #107
This was posted here a while back... trumad Feb 2015 #2
I searched didn't see anything on this weeks ruling SpartanDem Feb 2015 #3
I think this is an update on the story with the final judgment. ScreamingMeemie Feb 2015 #4
And she's right. nt msanthrope Feb 2015 #17
So much for truth being the arbitrator of justice. Nuclear Unicorn Feb 2015 #5
The judge is following the law here. nt msanthrope Feb 2015 #18
The law is fucked. AngryAmish Feb 2015 #104
He's not going to jail...the prosecution used their discretion msanthrope Feb 2015 #105
He will never be in a position to pay. AngryAmish Feb 2015 #106
I'm really not sure where your ire towards me is coming from.... msanthrope Feb 2015 #108
The ire toward you is because you insist on shitting on this guy AngryAmish Feb 2015 #110
An unemployable ex-con qualifies for legal aid....and he now has a pro bono msanthrope Feb 2015 #111
. joshcryer Feb 2015 #112
More info A Little Weird Feb 2015 #6
Only one website makes that claim... BklnDem75 Feb 2015 #8
Snopes is pretty clear about that A Little Weird Feb 2015 #15
I'm talking about the source... BklnDem75 Feb 2015 #24
Oh I see A Little Weird Feb 2015 #25
Because parents are responsible for their children. Igel Feb 2015 #11
This guy is not the father Beaverhausen Feb 2015 #13
Doesn't matter. He had two years to contest being named. He didn't. nt msanthrope Feb 2015 #19
Did you read the entire story at the link? Beaverhausen Feb 2015 #20
Absolutely--and having had many clients in the same situation, I can smell which parts are after-the msanthrope Feb 2015 #21
Why the hell should someone pay for a child who isn't theirs? Beaverhausen Feb 2015 #22
First of all--people end up paying for children that are not theirs all the friggin' time due msanthrope Feb 2015 #23
How does one change their address when they are in prison? LiberalFighter Feb 2015 #27
The same way you do it when you are out of prison. You get your mail forwarded msanthrope Feb 2015 #28
The Post Office will not accept change of address cards from inmates. Sunlei Feb 2015 #53
Yes...they will. Here's the federal code.. msanthrope Feb 2015 #113
FYI...here's the federal code on the USPS acceptance of msanthrope Feb 2015 #114
I get that A Little Weird Feb 2015 #14
Regardless, the father of the child is a deadbeat. It's just not this guy. Thor_MN Feb 2015 #54
Can't he and us claim the judge Politicalboi Feb 2015 #7
the judge is a woman. niyad Feb 2015 #9
we need to give Alexander handmade34 Feb 2015 #10
We need mandated paternity tests at birth. roamer65 Feb 2015 #12
No, we don't. Men tapped for paternity generally have two years to contest. That's plenty of time msanthrope Feb 2015 #16
Why should they have to prove the negative in the first place? Drahthaardogs Feb 2015 #30
Because of the rights of the child prevail here. The child has the right to msanthrope Feb 2015 #31
No. The child only has rights to my income if I am the father, not if I am ACCUSED Drahthaardogs Feb 2015 #32
No...the child has rights to your income if you are either the msanthrope Feb 2015 #33
The man was incarcerated and could not have been the father Drahthaardogs Feb 2015 #34
It doesn't matter if he was in jail. It's still a good serve..... msanthrope Feb 2015 #35
OF course it matters. It shows you how lazy our legal system is. Drahthaardogs Feb 2015 #36
This case shows how lazy this guy is treestar Feb 2015 #41
How could he answer summons he didn't get because he was in prison? LisaL Feb 2015 #44
He got the summons--you forget, it was delivered to his LNA--and his msanthrope Feb 2015 #67
Gotta love how people think this kind of thing gets them out of treestar Feb 2015 #92
There are a lot of reasons besides laziness that someone doesn't answer a summons. Gormy Cuss Feb 2015 #73
Then when you find out you can do a motion to quash treestar Feb 2015 #94
It's amazing to me how so few DUers have empathy. n/t Gormy Cuss Feb 2015 #117
+1 Pooka Fey Feb 2015 #48
I'd say corrupt, not lazy. lumberjack_jeff Feb 2015 #58
The day you start thinking that the law is about 'truth' is the day you lose in msanthrope Feb 2015 #66
As I noted below, Drahthaardogs Feb 2015 #77
Hmm....now where have I heard something that sounds like that nonsense before Ms. Toad Feb 2015 #93
Fail, when you conflate child support with the death penalty. nt msanthrope Feb 2015 #96
I am comparing the callous attitude you are displaying Ms. Toad Feb 2015 #99
The person bringing the suit does have the burden of proof treestar Feb 2015 #45
And ANY lazy judge could have ordered a simple records search to verify the truth. Drahthaardogs Feb 2015 #72
Our laws have nothing to do with the truth ripcord Feb 2015 #90
They don't have time to do all that. treestar Feb 2015 #95
How about the prosecutor Drahthaardogs Feb 2015 #98
The child has a right to have it established treestar Feb 2015 #39
Have you ever seen Maury show? LisaL Feb 2015 #42
Does the child have a right to know who his father is? lumberjack_jeff Feb 2015 #57
Yes. And it does matter who it is...which is why the law gives a 2-3 year window for a man to msanthrope Feb 2015 #65
So you are in favor of ending the possiblity of being found the father at two years as well? Thor_MN Feb 2015 #56
No--because the rights of the child don't end at two years, do they? nt msanthrope Feb 2015 #63
And the rights of parents and people who are in no way related do? Thor_MN Feb 2015 #68
No, we don't, becuase laywers ^^^ wouldn't be able to cash in U4ikLefty Feb 2015 #26
How would that work? missingthebigdog Feb 2015 #29
you are suggesting that every birth, the woman gives names of all men she had sex with at that time, seabeyond Feb 2015 #37
how about put that shoe on the other foot. mopinko Feb 2015 #50
...and that would be a choice...as it should be. N/t roamer65 Feb 2015 #84
When you get a summons to court, go treestar Feb 2015 #38
You must have missed the part where he was in prison at the time. LisaL Feb 2015 #40
There are ways to deal with that treestar Feb 2015 #43
He didn't get the summons. LisaL Feb 2015 #46
Once you find out treestar Feb 2015 #47
LOL. OK. nt Logical Feb 2015 #49
He found out when he got pulled over at a traffic stop... BklnDem75 Feb 2015 #62
No, but a DNA test proving he's not the father... NaturalHigh Feb 2015 #102
If you are not in a committed relationship with someone, you don't have the right to force them Yavin4 Feb 2015 #51
I don't think this is true. nt Logical Feb 2015 #55
Would you say that about a divorced couple? PotatoChip Feb 2015 #59
In a divorce? No. I would not. Yavin4 Feb 2015 #60
So only the woman is on the hook for the enormous cost of raising a child, PotatoChip Feb 2015 #64
If the woman chooses to have the child out of a casual sexual encounter Yavin4 Feb 2015 #70
so instead of choice, you advocate, abort or solely incur the cost? nt seabeyond Feb 2015 #71
If the woman wants to continue the pregnancy after a casual sexual encounter... Yavin4 Feb 2015 #78
you advocate that the male is allowed non pro creation sex and the woman must suffer the seabeyond Feb 2015 #81
Yup, that is exactly what this person is saying. PotatoChip Feb 2015 #82
BOTH the woman and the man wanted a casual sexual encounter Yavin4 Feb 2015 #88
seeing how only the woman can get preg, the obvious is, ... causual is cool for man, for women? seabeyond Feb 2015 #89
I'm not "taking away choice". Casual sex is a norm in our culture. Yavin4 Feb 2015 #100
True. However, nothing but abstinence is 100% effective in preventing pregnancies. PotatoChip Feb 2015 #75
The intent of a casual sexual encounter is for mutual pleasure, not procreation. Yavin4 Feb 2015 #79
this thread is filled with ridiculousness qazplm Feb 2015 #76
Just a stark reminder.. sendero Feb 2015 #52
Judges and lawyers. 99Forever Feb 2015 #61
And the MRA movement lancer78 Feb 2015 #69
More disconnected stupidity from the judge, our judicial system is full of supremacist uponit7771 Feb 2015 #74
the idiot judge Liberal_in_LA Feb 2015 #80
Women should just put famous men down as the father of their kids. dilby Feb 2015 #83
...or really wealthy ones. roamer65 Feb 2015 #85
Yes, and according to our resident lawyer if one million women claim Drahthaardogs Feb 2015 #86
Well its a good law. dilby Feb 2015 #87
If I were in his position there's no way I would pay. NaturalHigh Feb 2015 #101
He would still go to jail. AngryAmish Feb 2015 #103
This is the kind of case, that were I in the man's situation, would have me commit suicide strategery blunder Feb 2015 #109
SMH Mr Dixon Feb 2015 #115
When the law is being an ass, it's time for a pardon from a governor or president muriel_volestrangler Feb 2015 #116

pnwmom

(108,980 posts)
91. UPDATE: Attorney Cherika Harris has stepped forward to help this man.
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 08:51 PM
Feb 2015

I agree that the justice system has been failing this man. I'm glad someone is volunteering to help.

http://www.wxyz.com/news/update-legal-help-for-detroit-man-who-was-forced-to-pay-30k-for-child-who-isnt-his

Since our story aired, an attorney has stepped forward to help Alexander fix his legal mess. It is something he couldn’t afford before.

“I feel like I have a duty to right this wrong. This is an injustice that needs to be addressed, so he can move on with his life,” said Attorney Cherika Harris.

Harris is now working on motions she hopes will fix the many things that went wrong in this case. She says she is committed to seeing this case through. She says the message people need to take home is if you are fighting a child support case you need a good attorney.

SNIP

SpartanDem

(4,533 posts)
3. I searched didn't see anything on this weeks ruling
Sat Feb 21, 2015, 04:12 PM
Feb 2015

I saw past stories not surprisingly since it's gotten some national attention

ScreamingMeemie

(68,918 posts)
4. I think this is an update on the story with the final judgment.
Sat Feb 21, 2015, 04:13 PM
Feb 2015

Basically, this judge appears to think it's his owned damned fault for not taking it seriously enough if I'm reading it correctly.

 

AngryAmish

(25,704 posts)
104. The law is fucked.
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 10:37 PM
Feb 2015

And any decent person knows it. There is such thing as prosecutorial discretion. It was a big thing a few months back.

No, they are doubling down on this poor guy, who is obviously not smart, to make an example of him.

This guy will spend the rest of his life in and out of jail because of this. Great victory you got there.

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
105. He's not going to jail...the prosecution used their discretion
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 10:42 PM
Feb 2015

in withdrawing the arrest warrant.

 

AngryAmish

(25,704 posts)
106. He will never be in a position to pay.
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 10:49 PM
Feb 2015

And you know that. He is unemployable. And some day this case will come up on a progress call, he won't be there, and a warrant will issue, he will get picked up and spend a lot of time in jail.

And you know that.

And you think this stupid guy has it coming.

As if a guy with a 80 iq can navigate a court system.


But jobsworths like you want to nail the ignorent yet innocent to the tree of woe.

You are broken. And nobody can fix you, I think.

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
108. I'm really not sure where your ire towards me is coming from....
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 11:18 PM
Feb 2015

I don't think this guy "had it coming," but I think he's responsible for his own choices.

I think he has shit representation, however. I'd be suing the mother.

 

AngryAmish

(25,704 posts)
110. The ire toward you is because you insist on shitting on this guy
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 11:39 PM
Feb 2015

You know why he had terrible counsel? Bevause he had to represent himself.
An unemployable ex con with no money can't exactly hire a lawyer.

Yet the state will represent this woman who lied about him being a father for free. And they have guns.

Just stop.

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
111. An unemployable ex-con qualifies for legal aid....and he now has a pro bono
Mon Feb 23, 2015, 08:51 AM
Feb 2015

attorney...I'm saying that it is the pro bono attorney who is doing a crap job.

Mr. Alexander first became aware of the issue in 1991, he claims. I don't believe him. I think he was aware before that, in the late 80s, and I think that at the time, he probably thought it was no big deal, as welfare was generally not inclined to go after fathers for state given child support. That changed in the 90s.

Now...you'll note that without a lawyer, Mr. Alexander managed to find his ex, get a DNA test, and furnish it to the court when this matter became pressing to him. That undercuts the idea that this guy is helpless. Had he thought the matter pressing in 1991....he might have saved himself a great deal of trouble.

joshcryer

(62,276 posts)
112. .
Mon Feb 23, 2015, 08:55 AM
Feb 2015

edit: n/m, paternal testing has been accurate since the 80s. My bad, I thought it wasn't until the late 2000s that it became possible.

I completely agree with you.

A Little Weird

(1,754 posts)
6. More info
Sat Feb 21, 2015, 04:22 PM
Feb 2015

[div class="excerpt"; background-color:#CCCCCC;"]
But how did Alexander get entangled in a paternity case?

Alexander's ex had a baby and didn't know who was the child's father. She reportedly needed state assistance, so the case worker demanded that she name a father for the child.

Alexander, who only went up to the eighth grade education-wise, decided to help his ex so that she could receive state assistance.

http://www.snopes.com/politics/crime/notthefather.asp



This case is a mess no matter how you look at it, but if he really did agree to be named the child's father to help out his ex then that puts a different spin on things. Even if it turns out that he did knowingly allow himself to be named father, then she is just as guilty as he is for "welfare fraud". Rather than trying to get $30k from this guy, maybe we should be asking why the father has to be named at all to get state benefits, there are cases where the father's identity is not known - those kids still need to eat. It would be awesome if we had a real social safety net in this country.



BklnDem75

(2,918 posts)
8. Only one website makes that claim...
Sat Feb 21, 2015, 06:25 PM
Feb 2015

Snopes is basing that info on a newsone.com article written by Ruth Manuel-Logan. She offers nothing as a source for this claim: Alexander, who only went up to the eighth grade education-wise, decided to help his ex so that she could receive state assistance.

http://newsone.com/3086167/carnell-alexander-detroit/


Irresponsible reporting at best.

A Little Weird

(1,754 posts)
15. Snopes is pretty clear about that
Sat Feb 21, 2015, 07:04 PM
Feb 2015

They aren't trying to hide the fact that it is only reported from one source. They also state that they can't verify it because it is from a court proceedings that is not part of the public record. I don't think that is irresponsible reporting, I think it is thorough.

BklnDem75

(2,918 posts)
24. I'm talking about the source...
Sat Feb 21, 2015, 08:02 PM
Feb 2015

Ruth Manuel-Logan was irresponsible to make such a claim without citation. Did Carnell give her this information?

A Little Weird

(1,754 posts)
25. Oh I see
Sat Feb 21, 2015, 08:11 PM
Feb 2015

The way the article is written, it sounds like she talked to his ex (the child's mother) but it really wasn't clear to me where she got that info.

Igel

(35,317 posts)
11. Because parents are responsible for their children.
Sat Feb 21, 2015, 06:48 PM
Feb 2015

Financially.

The money's not denied to the kid if the father's a deadbeat. But the state comes after the father to man up and to pay for what he started if he has anything like the ability to do so. That bar's set relatively low, because if the guy stuck around to help raise the kid and made minimum wage he'd still be contributing something for 18 years, even if the kid and his mother did get a lot of government assistance.

The alternative is to just say that somebody has a right to procreate but no responsibility for the kid. All rights and no responsibilities is precisely the "tragedy of the commons" setup, and usually leads to a lot of abuse and irresponsibility. Like it or not.

Which is where, if I recall correctly, I started following the conversation back in the early-mid '70s, shortly before it was decided that the guy couldn't live with a woman and kid who were being largely supported by the state because then the state would be supporting the entire family.

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
21. Absolutely--and having had many clients in the same situation, I can smell which parts are after-the
Sat Feb 21, 2015, 07:25 PM
Feb 2015

fact bullshit. And I can also tell you that it was his responsibility to change his legal address.....that was a good serve.

Beaverhausen

(24,470 posts)
22. Why the hell should someone pay for a child who isn't theirs?
Sat Feb 21, 2015, 07:30 PM
Feb 2015

He didn't have the resources to fight shat was bullshit to begin with.

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
23. First of all--people end up paying for children that are not theirs all the friggin' time due
Sat Feb 21, 2015, 07:38 PM
Feb 2015

the nature and complexity of their lives and sexual arrangements.

Second--it doesn't take much money...or much smarts, to answer a summons, even from jail.

When you get a parking ticket, you notice how there's a box to check and a means for dispute? Yep.

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
28. The same way you do it when you are out of prison. You get your mail forwarded
Sat Feb 21, 2015, 08:26 PM
Feb 2015

from your last known address either by filing out the forms and sending them in, or having a family member do it, or asking at the prison library, prison services, or one of the clergy staff.


A Little Weird

(1,754 posts)
14. I get that
Sat Feb 21, 2015, 07:00 PM
Feb 2015

It just seems that there are going to be some cases where the father is not known. I don't like the idea of deadbeats procreating at the expense of the taxpayer but I like even less the idea that there are kids whose needs are not being met because the father's name is not on a piece of paper.

(Which is totally irrelevant to this case anyway because they apparently do know who the father is. Why she didn't put the actual name of the father down is not really explained from what I've read.)

 

Thor_MN

(11,843 posts)
54. Regardless, the father of the child is a deadbeat. It's just not this guy.
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 11:55 AM
Feb 2015

Simple DNA test ought to be able to end the discussion.

 

Politicalboi

(15,189 posts)
7. Can't he and us claim the judge
Sat Feb 21, 2015, 05:30 PM
Feb 2015

Is our father, and he never supported us? Seems you don't need to be biologically related with this clown.

roamer65

(36,745 posts)
12. We need mandated paternity tests at birth.
Sat Feb 21, 2015, 06:53 PM
Feb 2015

I have heard of other stories where men get stuck with child support payments on kids that are not theirs. It is unfair to force any man to pay for children he did not father. If he adopts them or chooses to do it, that is cool.
I also believe if a woman commits proven fraud in these paternity cases, she should be held criminally liable. But the mandated paternity tests would solve that problem.

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
16. No, we don't. Men tapped for paternity generally have two years to contest. That's plenty of time
Sat Feb 21, 2015, 07:09 PM
Feb 2015

to initiate a dispute.

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
30. Why should they have to prove the negative in the first place?
Sat Feb 21, 2015, 11:07 PM
Feb 2015

Is it really upon the man to prove he is NOT the father or should it be on the woman and the state to prove that he is? Seems to be if you are going to presume he is until proven otherwise, there should be NO time limit on contesting. It is bullshit to be guilty until proven innocent, but even more to be restricted in the time frame you have to fight it.

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
31. Because of the rights of the child prevail here. The child has the right to
Sat Feb 21, 2015, 11:16 PM
Feb 2015

support from the proper parties. So the state places that burden on putative fathers. As for contesting...there's a time limit because that's how the law works....your claims are not in perpetuity.

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
32. No. The child only has rights to my income if I am the father, not if I am ACCUSED
Sat Feb 21, 2015, 11:39 PM
Feb 2015

of being the father, then I am not the proper party. It may be the law, but I find the application fundamentally flawed.

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
33. No...the child has rights to your income if you are either the
Sat Feb 21, 2015, 11:43 PM
Feb 2015

biological parent, or the constructive parent. That's why it's important to answer your summons....if you are accused, fight it.

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
34. The man was incarcerated and could not have been the father
Sat Feb 21, 2015, 11:56 PM
Feb 2015

and the judge, prosecutor, etc. could have easily verified it. However, you are telling me that no one has any burden to prove that he WAS the father, not even something as simple as checking a jail record. Apparently our legal system is more interested in process than the truth. I am not sure I am okay with that.

Silliness and stupidness. This case is 25 years old. There is no child here to support any longer. This is bullshit. The judge should be ashamed.

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
35. It doesn't matter if he was in jail. It's still a good serve.....
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 09:41 AM
Feb 2015

and the time to dispute that passed two decades ago.

Neither the prosecution nor the judge have to anything but follow the law. And they did.

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
36. OF course it matters. It shows you how lazy our legal system is.
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 10:16 AM
Feb 2015

I am a scientist. I have dedicated my life to making decisions based upon truth and evidence. Apparently our court system makes their decisions based upon process and protocol even when the truth is readily available in their own record system. I get the feeling you think this is okay. Perhaps you are indoctrinated in the same system. This is not justice. This is not truth. Defending it because "it is how the law works" is no defense. It simply magnifies the fact that the system is broken.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
41. This case shows how lazy this guy is
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 10:25 AM
Feb 2015

You do not get default judgments against you if you answer a summons.

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
67. He got the summons--you forget, it was delivered to his LNA--and his
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 12:29 PM
Feb 2015

dad had it. Think he didn't know about it? I seriously doubt he didn't know of the summons. And if he knows....then he's served.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
92. Gotta love how people think this kind of thing gets them out of
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 09:19 PM
Feb 2015

Rule 4 or whatever the rules are in their jurisdiction about service of process. You can tel which people think the legal system is sitting there waiting to serve them, as opposed to it having rules that apply to them too. What a clever argument as a means of ignoring being served! Just come up with something and it will work and if it does not, the system must be corrupt. Because it applied its rules to them too.

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
73. There are a lot of reasons besides laziness that someone doesn't answer a summons.
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 01:34 PM
Feb 2015

Outstanding warrants for one. Not actually receiving the summons for another.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
94. Then when you find out you can do a motion to quash
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 09:21 PM
Feb 2015

check out the court rules.

Outstanding warrants is not a legal defense to ignoring a summons.

Oh, gee, you don't want to be arrested for that for which there is a warrant out for you, so it's unfair to expect you to answer civil summons. Yeah right, that's the way it should be.

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
66. The day you start thinking that the law is about 'truth' is the day you lose in
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 12:27 PM
Feb 2015

court.

Here--it's pretty simple. You have "x" amount of time to present the truth in court.

Once you are out of "x" time, your options are more limited.

It's pretty simple.

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
77. As I noted below,
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 04:38 PM
Feb 2015

The fact that the prosecutor's office could have saved the taxpayer's tens of thousands of dollars in both court costs and child support (to the real father) by conducting a simple 30 minute database search, but failed to do so is a real problem. Add to that the server who lied and stated the defendant would not sign, and we have all the signs of systemic corruption. Then you get to add to it the fact that this idiot judge continues to cost the taxpayer's dollars 25 years later and file claims against a person who cannot and will not pay, even though everyone knows the man is innocent, costing more $$ in the process, the judgment just perpetuates the stupidity.

The Attorney General's Office should be notified for waste, fraud, and abuse.

Ms. Toad

(34,074 posts)
93. Hmm....now where have I heard something that sounds like that nonsense before
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 09:20 PM
Feb 2015

Oh yeah. Justice Scalia:

This Court has never held that the Constitution forbids the execution of a convicted defendant who has had a full and fair trial but is later able to convince a habeas court that he is “actually” innocent. Quite to the contrary, we have repeatedly left that question unresolved, while expressing considerable doubt that any claim based on alleged “actual innocence” is constitutionally cognizable.


In re Davis, 557 U.S. 952, 955 (2009) (Scalia, J. dissenting)

Not company I would want to find myself in.

(Not to mention that there are similar challenges between innocent people who find themselves on death row and "fathers" who are innocent of paternity but don't have access to the time and/or resources to make a timely challenge.)

Ms. Toad

(34,074 posts)
99. I am comparing the callous attitude you are displaying
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 10:06 PM
Feb 2015

toward individuals who find themselves in unjust legal situations as a consequence of not having access to the resources (experience, financial, freedom of movement) to do things "properly" in the first place:

That's just too damn bad that you're stuck paying $30,000 (or with your life) for something you didn't do because you didn't have the resources to make due process work for you. I'm really appalled that I am encountering this attitude on DU - a legal attitude I expect to find only in opinions or dissents by Scalia, Thomas, and Alito - or people who think they walk on water.

(Note: I can see acknowledging that the decision was consistent with the law. Unfortunately, that may well be where the law is. What really bothers me is the condescending and blaming attitude you are taking toward the man who did not have the resources to make the system work for him - and, implicitly, that it is an appropriate system.)

treestar

(82,383 posts)
45. The person bringing the suit does have the burden of proof
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 10:30 AM
Feb 2015

But if someone defaults, they get a judgment. Even then, there are means to undo the default if there was a mistake. This guy just wanted it to go away without his participation in the legal system.

Two and a half decades is long enough for him to have mad the motion even the judge told him to.

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
72. And ANY lazy judge could have ordered a simple records search to verify the truth.
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 01:33 PM
Feb 2015

It was in their OWN database. As a taxpayer, we should all be outraged for several things

1) The real father is a deadbeat dad. The taxpayer picked up the tab for this child with no paternal contribution because our legal system cared so little to find the absolute truth, they hid behind obscure laws that have not kept up with science.

2) We paid for the arrest, trail, and judgment against an innocent man. When you add up everyone's time, labor, and billable hours, the taxpayer just paid tens of thousands of dollars for this nonsense. A simple records search would have taken 30 minutes and it could have been determined that the listed father could not possibly be the father.

The state attorney's general office should be called in for waste, fraud, and abuse against the judge, the prosecutor, and the server. What a waste of time and money, and 25 years later, they are still pursuing it.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
95. They don't have time to do all that.
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 09:23 PM
Feb 2015

You expect the judge to do a party's work for them? Which party's work should they do, so as to seem neutral and all?

The judge deals with what it before them. They are not omnipotent or required to research a party's facts. How do they know who is in jail? Do you think states don't have separate branches of government too?

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
98. How about the prosecutor
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 09:58 PM
Feb 2015

Someone did some research, just not very well. An when you are fucking with people's lives, you damned well better MAKE TIME to get the facts right. We are not talking about screwing up a haircut here.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
39. The child has a right to have it established
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 10:24 AM
Feb 2015

Now that it can be done by DNA test, it's not that hard to prove/disprove.

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
57. Does the child have a right to know who his father is?
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 12:01 PM
Feb 2015

The child apparently has a right to support from someone, individually, and it apparently doesn't matter who so long as it's a guy.

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
65. Yes. And it does matter who it is...which is why the law gives a 2-3 year window for a man to
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 12:25 PM
Feb 2015

contest. But the nature of the law is that one does not leave matters open in perpetuity.

 

Thor_MN

(11,843 posts)
68. And the rights of parents and people who are in no way related do?
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 12:37 PM
Feb 2015

Sorry, "two years is plenty of time" is ridiculous. If the guy isn't the father, he isn't the father.

If a bill collector showed up at our door and said that because someone falsified a legal document 20 years ago, making you responsible for $30,000 in debt, you would cheerfully just write a check, because you know deep down, you should have challenged it 18 years ago?

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
37. you are suggesting that every birth, the woman gives names of all men she had sex with at that time,
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 10:21 AM
Feb 2015

and the men must go get tested?

mopinko

(70,113 posts)
50. how about put that shoe on the other foot.
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 11:32 AM
Feb 2015

man raises a child he believes to be his own. loves the child. then paternity test shows him to NOT be the father.
does he have any right to this child? visitation, etc?
different men would react differently, and many would take a walk. but a decent would fight for their right to father that child.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
38. When you get a summons to court, go
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 10:23 AM
Feb 2015

People who think it will go away if they ignore it are being stupid.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
43. There are ways to deal with that
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 10:26 AM
Feb 2015

People in prison get moved to court for hearings all the time.

And he could have moved to set aside the judgment. The judge even told him too.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
46. He didn't get the summons.
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 10:30 AM
Feb 2015

He could have moved to set aside the judgment?
How was he supposed to know that?
He doesn't have legal education.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
47. Once you find out
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 10:34 AM
Feb 2015

Which he must have done or this wouldn't be in the news.

Not having legal education is not an excuse. Anyone could say that. "I didn't know I was liable for child support" for example is not a defense.

BklnDem75

(2,918 posts)
62. He found out when he got pulled over at a traffic stop...
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 12:18 PM
Feb 2015

That paperwork followed Alexander for two decades, racking up more than $69,000 in child support debt. He didn't learn of the child until 1991, when a police officer called him a “deadbeat dad” during a traffic stop.

“I knew I didn’t have a child, so I was blown back,” Alexander told the TV station. “I feel like I’m standing in front of a brick wall with nowhere to go.”

He could have learned of the child sooner, but a summons failed to reach Alexander. He was in jail for an unrelated charge when a process server stopped by his home with a summons. But the process server reported back that Alexander refused to sign it, according to WXYZ-TV.

http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/detroit-man-owes-30-000-child-support-debt-child-not-father-article-1.1991456


How can he refuse to be served if he's in jail? If that's the server's story, he's a liar.

NaturalHigh

(12,778 posts)
102. No, but a DNA test proving he's not the father...
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 10:28 PM
Feb 2015

is a pretty good excuse. All legal niceties and back-bending attempts to defend this judge's decision aside, we all know this ruling is ridiculous.

Yavin4

(35,441 posts)
51. If you are not in a committed relationship with someone, you don't have the right to force them
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 11:35 AM
Feb 2015

to pay child support.

PotatoChip

(3,186 posts)
59. Would you say that about a divorced couple?
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 12:04 PM
Feb 2015

Or do you mean a situation (like this one in the OP) where he is just an ex-boyfriend?

Where do you draw the line when it comes to calling something a "committed relationship" as it pertains to child support?

If DNA proves that a man is the father of a child born to a woman he had a one-nighter with, are you suggesting that he shouldn't have to pay child support?

Yavin4

(35,441 posts)
60. In a divorce? No. I would not.
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 12:12 PM
Feb 2015

In situations where there was a real relationship like boyfriend/girlfriend, yes, there should be child support. If it's a casual relationship or a hook-up, then, no, you should not be forced into paying child support because there was no relationship intent.

PotatoChip

(3,186 posts)
64. So only the woman is on the hook for the enormous cost of raising a child,
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 12:24 PM
Feb 2015

even if DNA proves that the male part of a hook-up is the father?

To that, I'd have to say I disagree, but thanks for the honest answer.

Yavin4

(35,441 posts)
70. If the woman chooses to have the child out of a casual sexual encounter
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 01:19 PM
Feb 2015

and there was no confirmed relationship with the man, then, no, the man should not be compelled by law to pay child support. Casual sexual encounters are a social norm. The people who engage in it, male and female, are not doing so in order to have a child.

Yavin4

(35,441 posts)
78. If the woman wants to continue the pregnancy after a casual sexual encounter...
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 06:11 PM
Feb 2015

and the man does not want to support the child, then, yes, she will incur the cost of raising the child on her own. This is a casual sexual encounter. The sex was for their mutual pleasure, not pro-creation.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
81. you advocate that the male is allowed non pro creation sex and the woman must suffer the
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 06:38 PM
Feb 2015

consequences exclusively

PotatoChip

(3,186 posts)
82. Yup, that is exactly what this person is saying.
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 07:09 PM
Feb 2015


I gave the 'benefit of the doubt' with the first couple of replies, but it has become all too clear now.

Yavin4

(35,441 posts)
88. BOTH the woman and the man wanted a casual sexual encounter
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 08:30 PM
Feb 2015

It was neither's intent to create a life. If the woman wants to continue the pregnancy, she is making that decision on her own. Thus, she should shoulder the responsibility of the pregnancy.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
89. seeing how only the woman can get preg, the obvious is, ... causual is cool for man, for women?
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 08:32 PM
Feb 2015

well, hell. you are fucked. keep a damn aspirin between your knees.

this would be the repug mentality of today, of Neanderthal of the past. except i give neanderthals more credit.

you take away choice. and you seem to be obtuse to that fact. maybe even a little vindictiveness toward a woman having casual sex.

Yavin4

(35,441 posts)
100. I'm not "taking away choice". Casual sex is a norm in our culture.
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 10:15 PM
Feb 2015

I'm not advocating that people should not engage in it. What I am saying is that if a woman wants to continue her pregnancy and raise the child from a casual sexual encounter, then the man should not be responsible for child support.

PotatoChip

(3,186 posts)
75. True. However, nothing but abstinence is 100% effective in preventing pregnancies.
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 01:45 PM
Feb 2015

Once an unwanted pregnancy occurs, neither 'casual' sexual partner is off the hook.

If she chooses an abortion, he needs to pay at least half the cost. And that would be getting off easy, since she'd be paying not only the other monetary half, but also enduring the physical pain of the procedure.

If she chooses to have the child, he needs to pay whatever amount of CS is deemed appropriate based on his income (and whatever other factors they use to determine such things).

She again is stuck with substantially more onerous realities, but that is just biology, and both parties involved took the risk, so...

Yavin4

(35,441 posts)
79. The intent of a casual sexual encounter is for mutual pleasure, not procreation.
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 06:18 PM
Feb 2015

There are multiple forms of birth control and most combinations of them are indeed highly effective.

qazplm

(3,626 posts)
76. this thread is filled with ridiculousness
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 03:03 PM
Feb 2015

in the form of extremes.

your position is extreme and ridiculous. Just like those of misanthrope (who really lives up to the meaning of that word).

You put your penis in someone's vagina, and that someone decides to have the child that was produced from said insertion, then BOTH of you are equally on the hook for the cost of raising that child. End of story.

Don't put it in, wrap it up, what have you if you don't want that burden.

Having said that, when you are actually not the father AND the father is now KNOWN, I fail to see how any person with a remotely functioning logic circuit doesn't turn to that person and say, ok, you owe the child support now.

The whole, you had two years you should have figured it out, even from jail, is the kind of baloney you usually see in right-wing thought.
But it's even worse when we have the actual father and know who he is. It's one thing to argue from a kids-come-first perspective that even if he's not the father he still pays.

I don't agree with that but at least it has some basis in logic...but this kid's actual father is known.

sendero

(28,552 posts)
52. Just a stark reminder..
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 11:38 AM
Feb 2015

.... of what you REALLY want to avoid in this country. And that is getting caught up in the legal system in any way. No matter how trivial your offense, you are seriously at risk if you do.

dilby

(2,273 posts)
83. Women should just put famous men down as the father of their kids.
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 07:12 PM
Feb 2015

Since it doesn't matter if the guy really is or isn't.

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
86. Yes, and according to our resident lawyer if one million women claim
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 07:49 PM
Feb 2015

that Brad Pitt fathered their love child and file a court proceeding, Mr.Pitt should have to fight each allegation. Even if he was out of country filming a movie for the past 12 months and could not possible be the father unless he impregnated an elephant with a two year gestation period.

This is a good law and Mr. Pitt should just plan on spending every Tuesday and Thursday at the court house. Failure to do so on his part shows laziness on his part and could result in summary judgments.

NaturalHigh

(12,778 posts)
101. If I were in his position there's no way I would pay.
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 10:22 PM
Feb 2015

I would leave the state and say screw it just on principle.

What's next - pick out a guy on the street and order him to pay child support for some random kid that he's never even heard of?

 

AngryAmish

(25,704 posts)
103. He would still go to jail.
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 10:32 PM
Feb 2015

The government wants their money. They have guns. He is just a black man who gets scolded by a white judge for failure to respect her authority.

strategery blunder

(4,225 posts)
109. This is the kind of case, that were I in the man's situation, would have me commit suicide
Sun Feb 22, 2015, 11:33 PM
Feb 2015

right on the courthouse steps.

The law is being blindly applied with no regard to the facts whatsoever. This would be semi-understandable if the father was not known but he is unequivocally NOT the father, could not have had a relationship to that child on account of his jail time, AND the father is known. If the process server lied to make the paperwork look legit at the time, then ethically if not legally the two-year statute of limitations for contesting fatherhood should start when the man found out about it, not from the time of the alleged "service." From reading the article in full it seems the man DID contact the court and received bad information about what to do about the summons.

If the man found out in 1991 and only now appeared in court for the first time, again I could understand this ruling. But instead we have: man finds out about backdated court summons in 1991, contacts court in 1991, gets information from the court, pursues such information to find it a dead end, goes back to court, court refuses to do a basic records search, man tries and fails to find an attorney...the man is hardly the only questionable actor here. Now the man is being pursued for child support that not only isn't his, but also for a child that has aged out of requiring support. I believe most reasonable people would conclude that the taxpayer's interest in getting that support reimbursed from this man is equitably forfeited by the taxpayer's demonstrated disinterest (demonstrated through the court system's disinterest) in assisting him with this matter once he got out of prison and tried to act upon it. If the state must be reimbursed that badly, it can go after either the actual, biological father (who is now known), the mother who falsified the welfare paperwork for fraud, or both.

Moreover, I believe the man's mistakes in initially navigating the just-us system are reasonable, given his education, the assistance (or more accurately, lack thereof) from the court, and his attempt to find a lawyer. Honestly this kind of crap is why pro bono requirements for lawyers to maintain their law license need to be increased substantially (in exchange I'd be cool with forgiving their student loans).

Were I in his situation and unable to appeal due to lack of resources, or if I lost that appeal, I would take that $30K court order in one hand, along with a post-it note politely explaining where the judge could take that order and blow my head (important: ONLY my head) off in front of the courthouse steps with the other hand. This is exactly the kind of crap (as said by someone else above) that gives mens' rights advocates ammunition to fuck with a whole lot more kids' lives than just one individual case. It's also the kind of crap that erodes the legitimacy of the just-us system in the eyes of John Q. Public...and gives the pukes more talking points in the process.

Mr Dixon

(1,185 posts)
115. SMH
Mon Feb 23, 2015, 09:23 AM
Feb 2015

This is madness, the system is a joke and the lawyer here defending this is part of the problem. I understand that the taxes payer’s are tired of paying taxes for people that are not working, and I also agreed that some people on state assistance take advantage of the system; however making someone pay for another person’s action is wrong period. IMO this is a classic case of if it didn’t happen to me then I could care less, blaming this man because he didn’t answer a court summons? There has been no mention of prosecuting the Mother?

muriel_volestrangler

(101,320 posts)
116. When the law is being an ass, it's time for a pardon from a governor or president
Mon Feb 23, 2015, 09:25 AM
Feb 2015

Everyone can see that this man has been unfairly screwed by a justice system that failed to do its job and is now victimising him. This is the point at which the governor, if it is only a state matter, or the president, should be stepping in and saying "we have a chance to stop idiotic court proceedings right now that would be unfair and costly. This man does not owe anything, he's done nothing wrong, anyone trying to persecute him should look at their conscience, and their bosses should decide if they deserve to keep their jobs. He is a free man with no debt in this matter, and no stain on his character". And that would be a popular move.

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