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Skidmore

(37,364 posts)
Mon Mar 30, 2015, 08:06 AM Mar 2015

Why a gay man like me is going to make it hard for Indiana businesses to exercise their ‘religious

liberty'

Good editorial piece getting at the pernicious nature of this law.

http://www.rawstory.com/rs/2015/03/why-a-gay-man-like-me-is-going-to-make-it-hard-for-indiana-business-owners-to-exercise-their-religious-liberty/


So, perhaps Indiana now needs a law requiring I.D. cards for all citizens — yellow for the hets, pink for the homos — to protect both the souls and the profits of faith-full, freedom-loving Chamber of Commerce members. Or maybe gays should be required to tattoo their foreheads for quick identification. If so, the same should go for straight people who practice oral and anal sex, since what offends some religious beliefs is “sodomy” defined more broadly, not merely loving someone of the same gender.

What about Jews? Some conservative Christians believe God does not hear the prayers of a Jew. If He can discriminate that way, why can’t a car salesman refuse to sell a Chevy? And what about adulterers? Indiana’s new law is so broad, it clearly protects the freedom to deny service to adulterers if that offends sincerely held religious beliefs. If so, and there’s going to be some sort of I.D. system adopted, it could incorporate a scarlet “A.”
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Why a gay man like me is going to make it hard for Indiana businesses to exercise their ‘religious (Original Post) Skidmore Mar 2015 OP
Some conservative sects of Protestant religions Bettie Mar 2015 #1
Gay people need to vote Protalker Mar 2015 #2
Yep, we need to get people to vote Bettie Mar 2015 #3
in 2012 the LGBT vote was about 5% of the electorate, with about 77% of LGBT Zorra Mar 2015 #7
THIS ^^^^^^^ calimary Mar 2015 #31
I've been gone from them for a while. LiberalFighter Mar 2015 #8
According to my large flock Bettie Mar 2015 #9
Missouri Synod is real strict too. Manifestor_of_Light Mar 2015 #40
Yep. Bettie Mar 2015 #42
May the Replug/stupid businesses will use the whisper campaign.... wolfie001 Mar 2015 #4
Not familiar with that campaign. Skidmore Mar 2015 #11
A little off the beaten track, but still relevant: wolfie001 Mar 2015 #23
I was thinking they will probaby allow only male - female couples to enter their businesses. AlinPA Mar 2015 #5
In which case, no one should be entering their Skidmore Mar 2015 #6
Male-female couples with the same color skin, of course. n/t Ineeda Mar 2015 #22
Other than public displays of affection... SHRED Mar 2015 #10
Even then....Attack on Ecuadorean Brothers Investigated as Hate Crime Bluenorthwest Mar 2015 #14
There is much guess work involved in targeting people for bias crimes. As we all know, Sikh Bluenorthwest Mar 2015 #12
One can only hope the demise of that mess can Skidmore Mar 2015 #13
Before physical harm happens, yes. The State of Indiana has already done great harm to this Bluenorthwest Mar 2015 #15
Agree. Skidmore Mar 2015 #17
FWIW - just sent Pence's office a "I ain't going to Indiana rurallib Mar 2015 #16
Good idea. My husband orders Skidmore Mar 2015 #20
Same here. Will never go there again. onecaliberal Mar 2015 #21
Address to email Pence rurallib Mar 2015 #24
Thank you, kindly. onecaliberal Mar 2015 #25
Done. We will choose an alternate route from now on. AllyCat Mar 2015 #33
+1 Zorra Mar 2015 #38
Rastafarians should be headed to Hoosierland.. HoosierCowboy Mar 2015 #18
Race is the key Lamonte Mar 2015 #19
Welcome to DU, Lamonte! calimary Mar 2015 #34
My suggestion is to wear a button. stone space Mar 2015 #26
I think we need additional buttons. calimary Mar 2015 #36
Why do they need this law? Why can't they just give bad service? vlyons Mar 2015 #27
Actually, I do marvel at the power of the dollar. It's gonna be the BUSINESS community in Indiana calimary Mar 2015 #37
and money is the reason that marijuana will get legalized! vlyons Mar 2015 #43
because the law is to score political points with backwards, bigoted voters Skittles Mar 2015 #45
organize some willing same sex iraq and afghanistan vets to go in there. Thats some bad press pasto76 Mar 2015 #28
I'm picturing an Armband Day Challenge radhika Mar 2015 #29
Why reinvent the wheel? Just use the tried and true system from the 1930s and 40s. Kablooie Mar 2015 #30
I know I'm going to get flamed for this, but... SpankMe Mar 2015 #32
Clergy are already and always protected. Nobody can force a clergyman to perform a wedding. yardwork Mar 2015 #35
Yep. If a rabbi can refuse to marry people who aren't Jewish, eridani Mar 2015 #44
That right is totally protected as it should be. yardwork Mar 2015 #46
one would think that, for a business, a simple "gosh, I am completely booked right now" niyad Mar 2015 #39
And don't for get single mothers - we are the scourge of the earth according to Rs and rw christians jwirr Mar 2015 #41

Bettie

(16,120 posts)
1. Some conservative sects of Protestant religions
Mon Mar 30, 2015, 08:13 AM
Mar 2015

yeah, I'm looking at you "Wisconsin Synod Lutherans", believe that Catholics' prayers are not heard by God because they are idol worshipers.

People are sometimes horrible.

Protalker

(418 posts)
2. Gay people need to vote
Mon Mar 30, 2015, 08:29 AM
Mar 2015

Barney Frank said Republic vote Dems march. Get out of the street into the voting booth. Mobilize our friends. The corporate response is a language Republicans understand. I have marched since 1978. Happily we are visible.

Zorra

(27,670 posts)
7. in 2012 the LGBT vote was about 5% of the electorate, with about 77% of LGBT
Mon Mar 30, 2015, 09:31 AM
Mar 2015

voting for Obama.

LGBT vote, and we vote Democratic, and we vote in very high percentages relative to the LGBT population.

Gay Vote Proved a Boon for Obama

While President Obama’s lopsided support among Latino and other minority voters has been a focus of postelection analysis, the overwhelming support he received from another growing demographic group — Americans who identify as gay, lesbian or bisexual — has received much less attention.

But the backing Mr. Obama received from gay voters also has a claim on having been decisive. Mitt Romney and Mr. Obama won roughly an equal share of votes among straight voters nationwide, exit polls showed. And, a study argues, Mr. Romney appears to have won a narrow victory among straight voters in the swing states of Ohio and Florida.

Mr. Obama’s more than three-to-one edge in exit polls among the 5 percent of voters who identified themselves as gay, lesbian or bisexual was more than enough to give him the ultimate advantage, according to the study, by Gary J. Gates of the Williams Institute at the U.C.L.A. School of Law, in conjunction with Gallup. The results are consistent with earlier research on the number and political beliefs of gay voters.

http://www.nytimes.com/2012/11/16/us/politics/gay-vote-seen-as-crucial-in-obamas-victory.html?_r=0


calimary

(81,425 posts)
31. THIS ^^^^^^^
Mon Mar 30, 2015, 11:07 AM
Mar 2015

AMAZING point made by Barney Frank - the republi-CONS vote. The Democrats march.

INDEED: "Get out of the street into the voting booth!" They smirk and sneer, and laugh at us and roll their eyeballs when we march. When we VOTE, we wipe that smirk off their smug faces. Sometimes we even sand-blast it off.

 

Manifestor_of_Light

(21,046 posts)
40. Missouri Synod is real strict too.
Mon Mar 30, 2015, 01:16 PM
Mar 2015

I went to high school with two very bright girls whose father was a Missouri Synod Lutheran minister.
They had to do all the housework and their three brothers sat around and were waited on.

They both left home at an early age. The younger one married a guy she met working at a restaurant to get out of the house. The boy was a Baptist, and I was told that her father would never speak to her again for such a terrible sin.

Christian love.

The older one went to Rice University and got a physics degree and eventually got a Ph.D. I doubt seriously that their father encouraged them to go to college, since they were expected to wait on their brothers instead.

Bettie

(16,120 posts)
42. Yep.
Mon Mar 30, 2015, 01:49 PM
Mar 2015

When my beloved and I got married (at the courthouse, because I didn't want to become a Lutheran), his mother gave me a handbook on being a good Lutheran wife. I think it was written in the 50's.

I thought it was a joke gift and kidded her about it. Took several years for her to forgive me for that one.

wolfie001

(2,264 posts)
4. May the Replug/stupid businesses will use the whisper campaign....
Mon Mar 30, 2015, 09:00 AM
Mar 2015

....seemed to "work well" in Missouri after all. Pence is a total jacka$$.

wolfie001

(2,264 posts)
23. A little off the beaten track, but still relevant:
Mon Mar 30, 2015, 10:22 AM
Mar 2015

From the Wash Post:

Just before suicide, Missouri politician fretted about rumors he was Jewish. Missouri Republican Auditor Tom Schweich announced his candidacy for governor in January – a month before he took his own life.

He wasn't part of the Khristian Kleptocracy.

AlinPA

(15,071 posts)
5. I was thinking they will probaby allow only male - female couples to enter their businesses.
Mon Mar 30, 2015, 09:15 AM
Mar 2015

Otherwise they'd need the color codes and IDs you mention.

Skidmore

(37,364 posts)
6. In which case, no one should be entering their
Mon Mar 30, 2015, 09:23 AM
Mar 2015

premises. How much of a slip further down the slope would it be for these squeamish fundamentalists to expand the category of those they fear?

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
14. Even then....Attack on Ecuadorean Brothers Investigated as Hate Crime
Mon Mar 30, 2015, 10:05 AM
Mar 2015

"The two brothers from Ecuador had attended a church party and had stopped at a bar afterward. They may have been a bit tipsy as they walked home in the dead of night, arm-in-arm, leaning close to each other, a common tableau of men in Latino cultures, but one easily misinterpreted by the biased mind.

Suddenly a car drew up. It was 3:30 a.m. Sunday, and the intersection of Bushwick Avenue and Kossuth Place in Bushwick, Brooklyn, a half-block from the brothers’ apartment, was nearly deserted — but not quite. Witnesses, the police said, heard some of what happened next.

Three men came out of the car shouting at the brothers, Jose and Romel Sucuzhanay — something ugly, anti-gay and anti-Latino. Vulgarisms against Hispanics and gay men were heard by witnesses, the police said. One man approached Jose Sucuzhanay, 31, the owner of a real estate agency who has been in New York a decade, and broke a beer bottle over the back of his head. He went down hard."
http://www.nytimes.com/2008/12/09/nyregion/09assault.html

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
12. There is much guess work involved in targeting people for bias crimes. As we all know, Sikh
Mon Mar 30, 2015, 10:02 AM
Mar 2015

people are sometimes targeted by those who make the wrong guess that they are Muslims. That guy who shot people at a Jewish Center in Kansas shot no Jews, guessed wrong. The victims of anti-gay bias crimes are sometimes not gay at all, a few years ago in NYC, for example, a kid was killed for putting his arm around his brother. They guessed wrong.
So. That's how it works Indiana. Better hope that wheel of misfortune does not mistakenly spin to your own demise.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
15. Before physical harm happens, yes. The State of Indiana has already done great harm to this
Mon Mar 30, 2015, 10:09 AM
Mar 2015

country and to LGBT people by passing this law.

rurallib

(62,434 posts)
16. FWIW - just sent Pence's office a "I ain't going to Indiana
Mon Mar 30, 2015, 10:12 AM
Mar 2015

as long as the law is in place" email.
Hope his office gets flooded with such emails.

We used to drop down there @ once a year to see friends - no more.

Skidmore

(37,364 posts)
20. Good idea. My husband orders
Mon Mar 30, 2015, 10:16 AM
Mar 2015

parts for his tinkering from a company in Indiana. There are other companies elsewhere. We talked about this yesterday. We need to follow up with a letter.

HoosierCowboy

(561 posts)
18. Rastafarians should be headed to Hoosierland..
Mon Mar 30, 2015, 10:14 AM
Mar 2015

...in great numbers as this law will legalize the "incense" they use as part of their religious practice. In about ten years, the Rastamans will be the leading faith of all Hoosiers..

Lamonte

(85 posts)
19. Race is the key
Mon Mar 30, 2015, 10:16 AM
Mar 2015

This law will enable a business to say they think this black person is gay and refuse service. Does anyone think there is protection from this in the new law?

calimary

(81,425 posts)
34. Welcome to DU, Lamonte!
Mon Mar 30, 2015, 11:13 AM
Mar 2015

Glad you're here. "Does anyone think there is protection from this in the new law?" NOPE. Well, not reasonable, reality-based thinkers anyway. But these folks in their lovely little bubble just think they're getting the government off their own backs. And that's a goooooood thing. Especially when it forces the government into the lives and hearts of everybody else.

BELIEVE IT. This law would give ANYBODY who doesn't like something to use their religion to justify anti-social, cruel, exclusionary, or hurtful behavior. DISCRIMINATORY behavior. Look at Hobby Lobby - and women's access to health care! That's not a gay thing. That's a misogynist thing. And you better believe that some out there might try to apply it to blacks, to the poor, to ANYBODY. They WILL try to use this to impose their narrow views on everybody else. "MY religion trumps YOUR rights." This has become an epidemic. I hope the whole "Indiana experiment" here starts to turn the tide on that one. Because this shit needs to stop!!!!

calimary

(81,425 posts)
36. I think we need additional buttons.
Mon Mar 30, 2015, 11:52 AM
Mar 2015

Indiana/Hobby Lobby is what happens WHEN DEMOCRATS STAY HOME.

Honesly, people. WE have the numbers. There are MORE Dems than there are GOPers. And judging from the changing demographics, it's gonna increase that way, too. When WE turn out to vote, WE WIN. The numbers are on OUR side. The CONservatives aren't, but the NUMBERS are. Just think DEMographics. Funny, I just realized both DEMocrat and DEMographics start with a D. Take a lesson from that!!!

Imagine, if you will, a President pence. Disgusting thought, isn't it? THAT side of Indiana gone national, officially sanctioned. With the full force of the White House behind it. Want that? Then stay home in November 2016 (if you wanted somebody other than Hillary - or WHATEVER). I guarantee you, you may not have liked the Democratic candidate, BUT YOU'RE GONNA HATE the republi-CON PRESIDENT. GUARANTEED. ABSOLUTELY GUARANTEED. Study Indiana if you don't want to hear it from calimary. Look what THEY got. Dems stayed home, Dems stayed silent. Dems presumed it was no use, so they threw the game before the game started. When they could have influenced the election there. Maybe mike pence wouldn't have gotten where he is now.

And okay, you say maybe the Demographics actually aren't there in Indiana? Okay, maybe we lose Indiana for awhile. But there are OTHER states where the margin ISN'T so lopsided. And Dems may stay home then, too. Which gives the minority republi-CON voting block a leg up. I think I'm gonna start writing the word "Demographics" with a capital "D" just to further underscore that point. The NUMBERS are with US!!!!!!

Guys, DU Brothers and Sisters, PLEASE!!!!!! DO NOT STAY HOME AND POUT ON ELECTION DAY!!!!! DO NOT STAY HOME AND GIVE UP BECAUSE YOU THINK IT'S NO USE!!!!!! PLEASE!!!!!!! Get out there and VOTE!!!!

And think of this, too: If you stay home because you didn't like the choice for President, then you also screw all the down-ticket races too. You won't like who you get for Lt. Governor. You won't like who you're stuck with for State Treasurer. You're not gonna like who you get stuck with for state Attorney General. And You're REALLY gonna hate who you get stuck with for Secretary of State - they're the Katherine Harrises (Florida 2000) and Kenneth Blackwells (Ohio 2004) and others - likes Kris Kobach in Kansas - who's been the instigator of a TON of this shit, especially voter suppression. And you'll throw all the ballot measures to the bad guys and THEIR voters. And believe it - THEIR voters WON'T stay home.

vlyons

(10,252 posts)
27. Why do they need this law? Why can't they just give bad service?
Mon Mar 30, 2015, 10:44 AM
Mar 2015

Order a cake with 2 grooms or 2 brides on the top, and put too much salt in the batter. Or deliver half wilted roses for the bouquet, of mess the zipper on the grooms tuxedo pants, or some other way to deliver horrible service and ruin a gay wedding. Isn't that what they want? To trash a gay wedding? The law says they have to serve the public, but it doesn't what kind of service! Once their reputation for bad service gets around, gay people will stop coming to their establishments. Of course their straight friends and family will stop coming also. Then they'll go out of business, and we'll be rid of them.

Hey I'm just being snarky -- having a little fun with ridiculing their stupidity. Bigotry and hatred wrapped in religion is still bigotry and hatred.

calimary

(81,425 posts)
37. Actually, I do marvel at the power of the dollar. It's gonna be the BUSINESS community in Indiana
Mon Mar 30, 2015, 11:54 AM
Mar 2015

that puts this bill in its well-deserved grave. Remember when dubya said "Money trumps peace"? Well, take a lesson. Money does trump peace. Money trumps EVERYTHING.

THIS is what happens when Democrats stay home on Election Day.

vlyons

(10,252 posts)
43. and money is the reason that marijuana will get legalized!
Mon Mar 30, 2015, 07:25 PM
Mar 2015

Within 10 years, marijuana growers and distributors will be listed on NASDAQ and maybe even the NYSE. I mean really, how many wedding businesses in Ind. actually think that gay people's dollars don't spend the same as straight people's dollars? There's maybe what? a dozen companies in all of Ind that are so stupid? This law is basically a giant kabuki theatre for the RWer pols to throw red meat at the Christian taliban. I'll bet you that the vast majority of wedding-based businesses could care less if someone wants 2 grooms on their wedding cake.

pasto76

(1,589 posts)
28. organize some willing same sex iraq and afghanistan vets to go in there. Thats some bad press
Mon Mar 30, 2015, 10:55 AM
Mar 2015

and you know once that image/headline is out there its will never go away

radhika

(1,008 posts)
29. I'm picturing an Armband Day Challenge
Mon Mar 30, 2015, 10:56 AM
Mar 2015

A bunch of self-crafted in your face ones that say any point you'd like to make.

I'm gay, bi, hetro whatever
I support abortion
No tax $ to bigot firms
I cohabit with my partner
I have sex outside marriage
I'm an atheist, Wiccan, free thinker...
I oppose all religious exemptions
I think Fundies are the Anti Christ

You get the point. Get video when u visit.

SpankMe

(2,963 posts)
32. I know I'm going to get flamed for this, but...
Mon Mar 30, 2015, 11:11 AM
Mar 2015

...what the fuckbags in Indiana are going for is not the "right" to deny service to gays and lesbians simply for being gay/lesbian. Rather, they're looking to "protect" businesses from having to create product or provide service that specifically alludes to "teh ghey" or exhibits explicit reference to the "lifestyle" they object to.

For example, a baker could refuse to make a wedding cake for a same-sex ceremony, or a gay themed cake in general. A clergy member could refuse to perform a gay wedding. A welder could refuse to take on a contract to produce a homoerotic image in a wrought iron gate.

But, under the law they're advocating, a business would not be able to deny their usual and ordinary service to someone simply because they're gay.

Mind you, I still object to the law. But, I do struggle a bit with the ideas in it. If I was a welder and a KKK group came to me wanting me to create a wrought iron swastika for the gate to their compound, I'd sure like a legal way to opt out on moral grounds.

If I was a graphic artist and the KKK wanted me to create a depiction of a lynching for the cover of the program of their annual hate-fest dinner and buffet, I'd like to be able to get out of that without being sued. If I was a caterer, I'd rather not provide the buffet for such an event, either.

How can we get the good without the bad of this?

Let me say again - I do not agree with this law. It is blatantly homophobic and it causes me to judge Indiana very harshly.

This is just food for discussion. Please respond constructively and don't rage on me with pushy questions like "...so you agree with the law, huh?..." Thanks.

yardwork

(61,695 posts)
35. Clergy are already and always protected. Nobody can force a clergyman to perform a wedding.
Mon Mar 30, 2015, 11:46 AM
Mar 2015

Indiana law now protects government employees from performing non-religious secular marriages for gay couples, as is now allowed by law in Indiana.

This is a crucial distinction. Nobody can ever force a religious institution to perform a marriage for anybody.

Regarding the welder, no law requires anybody to create an image that is obscene or offensive. Indiana law now allows a welder to refuse service to a customer only because they are gay.

If this reminds you of the old "whites only" signs on businesses in the south, that's because this is what Indiana law now allows, only against gay people this time.

eridani

(51,907 posts)
44. Yep. If a rabbi can refuse to marry people who aren't Jewish,
Mon Mar 30, 2015, 10:52 PM
Mar 2015

if a priest requires potential non-Catholic spouses to take classes in church doctrine before marrying anyone, being unwilling to perform same sex marriages is just another version of that.

niyad

(113,518 posts)
39. one would think that, for a business, a simple "gosh, I am completely booked right now"
Mon Mar 30, 2015, 12:54 PM
Mar 2015

would be all that was necessary.

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
41. And don't for get single mothers - we are the scourge of the earth according to Rs and rw christians
Mon Mar 30, 2015, 01:21 PM
Mar 2015
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