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niyad

(113,496 posts)
Tue Mar 31, 2015, 12:47 PM Mar 2015

What the Dallas Cowboys’ Signing of a Man Found Guilty of Assault Says About the NFL

(is this one of the things that emmert meant when he talked about "everything right about american sports"??)


trigger alert: This article contains graphic descriptions of intimate partner violence.

What the Dallas Cowboys’ Signing of a Man Found Guilty of Assault Says About the NFL

Greg Hardy signing with Dallas is yet more evidence that the NFL’s so-called commitment to combating violence against women is nothing more than lip service.





In July 2014, a judge found then-Carolina Panther defensive end Greg Hardy guilty of assault and communicating threats against Nicole Holder, a woman he had dated. When she testified during that trial, she told the court a horrific account of the night of May 13, when, Holder said, Hardy picked her up and threw her multiple times (one time down onto a pile of loaded guns); dragged her by her hair; and ripped off her jewelry and flushed it down the toilet. At one point, Holder said, Hardy put his hands around her throat: “He looked me in my eyes and he told me he was going to kill me. I was so scared, I wanted to die. When he loosened his grip slightly, I said, ‘Just do it. Kill me.’” Another person in the house called the police, telling the dispatcher, “He’s beating her ass in there. Some girl’s getting her ass beat upstairs and I heard it. And I seen it. He is beating her ass right the fuck now.” Holder was scratched, bruised all over her body, and there was swelling on her arms and back.

Hardy was sentenced to 18 months’ probation. On Wednesday, the Dallas Cowboys signed him to a one-year contract.

When reporting on Hardy’s conviction in July, the Associated Press reported:
Hardy’s attorney Chris Fialko said he’ll appeal and Hardy has asked for a jury trial in superior court. In North Carolina that means the terms of Hardy’s probation are on hold until the trial—so he’s free to travel with the team to training camp and compete in games.

And Carolina let him do both until September, when the angry public fervor over Ray Rice boiled over into large-scale awareness about Hardy’s case. He was then deactivated by the team and placed on National Football League Commissioner Roger Goodell’s exempt list, meaning that although he could not play and the team could replace him on the roster while his case was pending, he was still paid. In late February, the Panthers released him.

Between the original bench trial in which he was found guilty and the jury trial Fialko requested on appeal, the district attorney prosecuting the case says Hardy settled with Holder in a civil suit. When the DA tried to locate Holder to have her testify again for the jury trial, they could not. There is no public documentation of the settlement and so no knowledge of whether it included an agreement not to testify, but the prosecution expected her to do so in the jury trial. When the DA last talked to her in November, she told them she did not want to testify again. She “intentionally made herself unavailable to the State,” prosecutors said in February. The result was that all charges against Hardy were dismissed last month.

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http://rhrealitycheck.org/article/2015/03/20/dallas-cowboys-signing-man-found-guilty-assault-says-nfl/

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JonLP24

(29,322 posts)
1. I remember with Carolina he was very talented
Tue Mar 31, 2015, 12:57 PM
Mar 2015

Not like a dispensable running back such as Ray Rice (Adrian Peterson is a different story)

It is 1-year, probably loaded with excuses to cut them in-case something happens. I remember when Dallas had Pac-Man Jones (talk about a player that still has a job in the NFL) all loaded up that when he got in a fight with his own bodyguard they cut him & traded away a high draft pick to the Titans just to get him off their hands.

But with a DE such as Hardy, he wouldn't go too long without at-least 1 team willing to take a chance -- high reward. So he appeals to the jury trial after the bench trial (NC is one of those states) & charges were dismissed so technically he isn't guilty of anything, legally speaking.

whatthehey

(3,660 posts)
2. Hmm.. Conflicting issues here
Tue Mar 31, 2015, 12:58 PM
Mar 2015

PR concerns aside, although IIRC NFL crime rates are below the broader matching demographics, there is cause to worry here as there is that hard to define "role model" content. On the other hand, a job that puts you on TV and involves playing a game is still a job, and it's hard to say that assault means you should be eternally unemployable in your normal field.

Johonny

(20,867 posts)
5. I agree-it doesn't seem to be the "right" thing as this article says
Tue Mar 31, 2015, 01:36 PM
Mar 2015

to place a player in which the charges have been dropped on some permanent ban doesn't feel progressive to me. In society the place for criminals is jail. If you aren't in jail or have served your time, you should be given a chance to work. I do not like the idea of criminal prosecution by Corporate Law and media persecution. If our societal laws are failing to punish these men that isn't the NFLs problem, it is our problem. That people continue to focus on the NFL and not our lack of prosecution or ability to convince women to follow through with prosecution then the problem will continue. Do people want to be sentenced by Corporation? I doubt it.

 

DefenseLawyer

(11,101 posts)
4. Proposing a lifetime employment ban for everyone charged with battery isn't very practical.
Tue Mar 31, 2015, 01:10 PM
Mar 2015

As much as we abhor domestic violence, and crime in general, the typical American response of "We just need to be tougher" has never worked and never will. Education, public discussion of the issue and cultural condemnation of the behavior will do a lot more in the long run to change a culture of violence.

 

libdem4life

(13,877 posts)
6. Wrong. That's always the excuse...it's the culture...only because there are no serious
Tue Mar 31, 2015, 01:44 PM
Mar 2015

financial, career, reputation ramifications. Let's just say that the fine is one year's pay...just for starters. One missed game for every punch or wound. And unpaid and unable to play for one year if the woman/SO has to go to the hospital. Mandatory Anger Management and Domestic Counseling for one year. Signing a statement of apology and that it will never happen again. If so, career over.

That ought to fix it. Either they can control themselves or...see above.

 

DefenseLawyer

(11,101 posts)
7. Sounds really good. Righteous even.
Tue Mar 31, 2015, 01:56 PM
Mar 2015

And it's never worked. We have more people in prison and on probation than anywhere in the world. Why? Because the knee jerk response, the easy, even lazy, response to crime has been "we need to get even tougher" and as righteous as it makes you feel, it doesn't work. Sorry.

 

libdem4life

(13,877 posts)
10. Don't think you read it ...snark aside. All of the "punishments" had to do with that culture that
Tue Mar 31, 2015, 02:10 PM
Mar 2015

made him/her a highly paid start. Hit 'em in the pocket book. That's the ONLY thing that's working in Indiana. Oooops, we didn't know. Same here. We're talking about a sports star. Don't know where that's righteous or a knee jerk response or anything to do with prison or probation.

Quick, knee jerk response, if you ask me.

There need to be consequences...that's the short of it. That they need to hurt the pocketbook and playing ability, i.e., earning less money, is the long of it. It's got to hurt somewhere. She sure as hell is.

 

DefenseLawyer

(11,101 posts)
14. That is exactly why civil forfeiture ended drug dealing in the United States.
Tue Mar 31, 2015, 02:35 PM
Mar 2015

Oh wait, no it didn't. Taking away one drug dealer's money isn't a deterrent to someone else getting in the business. Someone that is prone to domestic violence isn't going to alter his or her behavior because Greg Hardy gets cut. What you are talking about is retribution against an individual, not a policy that furthers a societal goal for the future. The fact is most people who commit these kinds of crimes don't think about the consequences beforehand, and they certainly don't think about some NFL players' consequences beforehand. Harsher punishments for domestic violence won't "deter" domestic violence any more than the death penalty deters murder (it doesn't, by the way). We have to get past the notion that being draconian somehow makes you a "better" opponent of domestic violence. We should do what works for a change instead of what sounds like it should work but never does.

 

libdem4life

(13,877 posts)
16. Do you think you could manage the difference between retribution and
Tue Mar 31, 2015, 02:46 PM
Mar 2015

accountability? believe you me, if a big sports start KNEW he'd be seriously punished...money, fame, fortune...for kicking on his wife...he's smart enough to control himself. If not, bet it only happens once.

All your other "parallels" aren't. What it says is It's OK to hurt folk, but gosh darn it, we don't have a clue in the world what to do about it.

And who said it would wipe it out. It's just the tip of the iceberg...these are called Teachable Moments/Events. Indiana. Sure some assholes will continue getting off on the bruises and broken bones of their wives. No one said you can stop violence. But you can sure as hell make it painful back...within the law. Not everyone is stupid.

And this isn't a DP situation. FFS, it's a rich baller beating his wife, buying everyone's silence, pretending like nothing happened and what does she get? Probably not even an allowance. And, what about the kids (if there were any)? What did they get? A lifelong lesson...you guess what it is.

And if your handle is any clue, you should know that women are almost never believed in court, or refuse to cooperate because nothing will happen and they'll just get it worse. See, I've been on the other side, and that's exactly what my high-priced lawyer told me. "Cheaper to stop now and lose than to make me rich and still lose." That's a quote. I get it.

Back to the NFL...they need to get some new balls.

 

mythology

(9,527 posts)
8. Would you apply that same standard to somebody
Tue Mar 31, 2015, 01:59 PM
Mar 2015

Making minimum wage? As noted NFL players are actually less likely to commit domestic violence than men at large. So if there is a culture of domestic violence, the NFL is apparently better at limiting it.

Also why limit this to just domestic violence?

 

libdem4life

(13,877 posts)
11. Stop trying to reduce this to the ridiculuous. The punishment must equal the crime. They
Tue Mar 31, 2015, 02:19 PM
Mar 2015

lock up general everyday, minimum folk. That does everything I mentioned. But, oh the apologetics comin' round the bend here. We are talking about a filthy rich, over-privileged, sports god who used his wife as a punching bag. What should we do, slap his hand? Ooops, sorry dude...too hard?

Disgusting reply. Like KO just said about the Indiana law...have the whole damn group leave the state. They are changing the way we see LGBT hate on a national level.

Is mopping the floor with your wife by the hair any less egregious? Maybe even better would be to refuse the entire team's pay and require them to pay for the damage done by their teammate...then disallow play in a few games. Bet you 10-1 it would be fixed in a New York minute. Teamwork.

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
9. The NFL doesn't have a domestic violence problem
Tue Mar 31, 2015, 02:08 PM
Mar 2015

The rate of NFL players arrested for domestic violence is lower than the general public.

Humanity has a domestic violence problem. Holding up NFL players as a separate, special problem is a distraction from reality because it happens more often in our own communities and we stay willfully blind to it. It's like claiming teachers have a sex offense problem merely because of a few high-profile cases where a teacher slept with his/her student.

As for the Cowboys employing a DV perpetrator, that happens every day in every profession in America.

 

libdem4life

(13,877 posts)
13. The "Everybody does it" or "It isn't a big problem" is why it l) isn't punished and
Tue Mar 31, 2015, 02:30 PM
Mar 2015

2) Provides cover for the perpetrator threatening the victim with the "fact" that no one will listen, let along act.

It took some "simple little law" to enflame the nation against Indiana and the fallout to bring LGBT to the national consciousness. As far as the Gov was concerned, he was just doing Business As Usual. Would you say we were holding him up as a scapegoat? That just because of him, all the national sports leagues are considering leaving his state? The pain will be great on citizens, but I'll bet he either get's recalled or not elected when the average everyday person is affected. Until then who cares?

And willfully blind happens because no one gives a shit enough. And your anecdote about the teacher is painfully lame. Just happens I am one, and if one of my colleagues were sleeping with a student, I and most I know, would be at the head of the line at the Board Meeting rooting out the bad so what you described Does Not Happen. That's what it takes. Seeing one teacher thrown out would likely have an effect on any other "tempted" teacher to control themselves. Without that, who knows, suddenly all teachers might find one of their students especially attracts. Right.

Same in Any Profession. Accountability and Compensation.

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
15. Nice straw man
Tue Mar 31, 2015, 02:36 PM
Mar 2015

You can rewrite everything you just wrote because it has nothing to do with my reply.

How the hell did you manage to read this:

The NFL doesn't have a domestic violence problem...Humanity has a domestic violence problem

as this:

"Everybody does it" or "It isn't a big problem"



The rest of your post is similar straw man nonsense. Bye
 

NM_Birder

(1,591 posts)
12. It says the same thing as,........
Tue Mar 31, 2015, 02:24 PM
Mar 2015


Electing "leaders", that are in control of our fiscal future, .......... where HALF of them have DUI convictions, bankruptcies, financial portfolio so bad some can't get a credit card, alcohol problems, adulterers, suspected of felonies, assault, murder, treason, voter fraud,

and the list goes on. But for thier trouble most retire on full pensions as millionaires, never having to suffer the rules of the laws the pass on us serfs.


But for what it's worth, ....the only team that makes me vomit more than New England, are the fucking Dallas Cowboys. When Jimmy Johnson was coach they were not the douchebags they are now. The Patriots have always been a group of wankers, with king douche Brady at the helm.
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