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kpete

(72,028 posts)
Mon Apr 13, 2015, 09:52 AM Apr 2015

This Note A Business Owner Left For A Dumpster Diver Will Restore Your Faith In Humanity

With all the hatred demonstrated toward the less fortunate in our society, it is always both shocking and uplifting when someone does more than say “Shoo!” upon noticing someone rummaging through the trash for food.

The owner of an Oklahoma restaurant noticed that someone had been going through her garbage, and she became frustrated — not that bags had been torn open and food taken out, but that someone was in a situation that made such a lifestyle a necessity.

“Last week, I had noticed some bags, when I had taken out the trash, were torn open and some of the food was taken out,” Ashley Jiron, the owner of sandwich shop P.B. Jams, told KFOR.

“That really, it hurt me that someone had to do that,” Jiron said, realizing that she had to do something. Of course, she had no clue as to the identity of the person she wanted to help — so she put up a sign instructing the person to come inside for some food next time.




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This Note A Business Owner Left For A Dumpster Diver Will Restore Your Faith In Humanity (Original Post) kpete Apr 2015 OP
WoW. We could be a wonderful world, couldn't we. misterhighwasted Apr 2015 #1
treat others kpete Apr 2015 #2
BTW kpete, off topic but, I saw your post about Podesta's tweet on climate change. misterhighwasted Apr 2015 #4
thank you misterhighwasted kpete Apr 2015 #6
can I see this tweet please NoJusticeNoPeace Apr 2015 #26
"Treat others..." 3catwoman3 Apr 2015 #8
This is the list my father had us kids send out for Christmas cards back in the fifties. freshwest Apr 2015 #17
Well, freshwest Iwillnevergiveup Apr 2015 #43
I'm a member of the Church of Reality... StarzGuy Apr 2015 #44
The one who wrote this is a real human being. Greybnk48 Apr 2015 #3
That claim that poverty is a moral failing is an Joe Chi Minh Apr 2015 #15
And smart policy too. bemildred Apr 2015 #5
I like what she did. There was a local grocery store in our community that left the "edible" jwirr Apr 2015 #7
Big mistake by the owner jeanmarc Apr 2015 #9
and don't forget going to the fortune teller. niyad Apr 2015 #10
But to be fair, that's just giant floating dumpster diving. eggplant Apr 2015 #12
now that is a lovely note upon which to start the week, which we know is going niyad Apr 2015 #11
You are sadly, so very right, niyad. mother earth Apr 2015 #13
No kidding. calimary Apr 2015 #36
I wonder if the so-called "Christians" who flocked to that pizza shop gofundme page Tanuki Apr 2015 #14
One of my brother in laws lives just a few blocks from there madokie Apr 2015 #16
Such things give me hope........ joanbarnes Apr 2015 #18
This actually just made me cry marym625 Apr 2015 #19
I think I have something in my eye Tree-Hugger Apr 2015 #20
That is so cool Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Apr 2015 #21
If that person identifies as a Christian, TNNurse Apr 2015 #22
But don't you know you're only in business to make profit? tclambert Apr 2015 #23
There is no other reason to be in business other than to make a profit TexasMommaWithAHat Apr 2015 #27
Actually, businesses were NOT invented to make profit. tclambert Apr 2015 #41
Profit is what you have after expenses TexasMommaWithAHat Apr 2015 #46
There are two childrens' books by Richard Peck ProfessorPlum Apr 2015 #24
And just look what has happened!!!! Contrary1 Apr 2015 #25
: allan01 Apr 2015 #28
wow rtracey Apr 2015 #29
I truly turbinetree Apr 2015 #30
What if the 'diver' is diving for a family? Myrina Apr 2015 #31
...and peeking at Rand Paul's webpage BB_Smoke Apr 2015 #32
Can someone supply the name of this Oklahoma restaurant? jamesatemple Apr 2015 #33
It's called P.B. Jams calimary Apr 2015 #37
Got it! Thanks for your help. n/t jamesatemple Apr 2015 #48
This makes me feel so happy and sad ybbor Apr 2015 #34
Any society that claims "There's no such thing as a free lunch" blows chunks. hunter Apr 2015 #35
Especially since we in America have the food and the resources to make sure that no one calimary Apr 2015 #38
Wow. PB&J. bvar22 Apr 2015 #39
I doubt a republican would do that...... Hotler Apr 2015 #40
No one should ever go hungry. Lobo27 Apr 2015 #42
Why does it bother me that it is a PB&J and a glass of water? Maraya1969 Apr 2015 #45
Look at the name of the shop. Erich Bloodaxe BSN Apr 2015 #51
The world is filled with nice people. Unfortunately, PatrickforO Apr 2015 #47
Thank you. Scarsdale Apr 2015 #49
My Sister Works.... cynzke Apr 2015 #50
Great story Gothmog Apr 2015 #52

misterhighwasted

(9,148 posts)
1. WoW. We could be a wonderful world, couldn't we.
Mon Apr 13, 2015, 09:58 AM
Apr 2015

This should get a humanitarian award.
Lift people up. Give dignity. Be generous.
Its pretty simple.

misterhighwasted

(9,148 posts)
4. BTW kpete, off topic but, I saw your post about Podesta's tweet on climate change.
Mon Apr 13, 2015, 10:11 AM
Apr 2015

Read it this morning, & glad you posted since I was so busy this weekend & missed much of DU.

I am sure that the subject of the tweet will be brought to the fore as Clinton's campaign moves through the year.

Should be interesting to see how Gov Scott reacts when Hillary addresses Climate Change in the State of Florida.
Enjoy your day.

3catwoman3

(24,066 posts)
8. "Treat others..."
Mon Apr 13, 2015, 10:39 AM
Apr 2015

Hmmmmmmmmmmmm. Where have we heard this before?

The Universality of the Golden Rule in the World Religions

Christianity All things whatsoever ye would that men should do to you, do ye so to them; for this is the law and the prophets.
Matthew 7:1

Confucianism Do not do to others what you would not like yourself. Then there will be no resentment against you, either in the family or in the state.
Analects 12:2

Buddhism Hurt not others in ways that you yourself would find hurtful.
Udana-Varga 5,1

Hinduism This is the sum of duty; do naught onto others what you would not have them do unto you.
Mahabharata 5,1517

Islam No one of you is a believer until he desires for his brother that which he desires for himself.
Sunnah

Judaism What is hateful to you, do not do to your fellowman. This is the entire Law; all the rest is commentary.
Talmud, Shabbat 3id

Taoism Regard your neighbor’s gain as your gain, and your neighbor’s loss as your own loss.
Tai Shang Kan Yin P’ien

Zoroastrianism That nature alone is good which refrains from doing another whatsoever is not good for itself.
Dadisten-I-dinik, 94,5

Adapted from "The Christopher Newsletter"




freshwest

(53,661 posts)
17. This is the list my father had us kids send out for Christmas cards back in the fifties.
Mon Apr 13, 2015, 11:48 AM
Apr 2015
Thanks for posting it. He believed it was the only thing that mattered, and lived that way. All religions were the same to him.

StarzGuy

(254 posts)
44. I'm a member of the Church of Reality...
Mon Apr 13, 2015, 08:27 PM
Apr 2015

...if it's real we believe it.

So, do to others as you wish done to you. Be kind, help where you can and don't make a big deal about it.

Poor people are real
Climate change is real
Science is real
The Earth is 4.6 billion years old
The Universe is 14.7 billion years old
There are 400 billion stars in the Milky Way Galaxy
Wars are real and bad. A waste of human capital
Peace is good. Working together to solve problems is good
The top 1% don't pay their fair share
The political system is rigged in favor for the rich
Republicans are owned by the Koch brothers, Wall Street, Big Banks and the 1%
Republicans could give a flying f**k about the poor and middle class
Social Security Disability Insurance is not an entitlement, it's a benefit paid for by workers
Medicare is not an entitlement it's a benefit paid for by workers and those enrolled
Need I go further?

Greybnk48

(10,177 posts)
3. The one who wrote this is a real human being.
Mon Apr 13, 2015, 10:06 AM
Apr 2015

No accusations or judgments of "moral failing," no claims that the person had drunk a beer of bought a candy bar in the recent past. Just pure human kindness.

Joe Chi Minh

(15,229 posts)
15. That claim that poverty is a moral failing is an
Mon Apr 13, 2015, 11:32 AM
Apr 2015

obscenity beyond belief. It's too crazy for Monty Python. It seems mankind is capable of any insane inversion of the truth. A few week s ago I read a US Catholic (my church) blogger, in effect, saying that we really must kick the crutches from under cripples, otherwise we'll be encouraging them to be dependent.

I don't recall Jesus fretting about that at all. In fact, he commended the poor widow who gave all she had into the Synagogue treasury. And he said, 'Take no care for the morrow....;' and 'Regard the lilies of the field. they neither sow, neither do they spin.'

He's not commending sloth; but he knew that the worldlings of the right make an idol of worldly riches and the toil of the people who enriched them, and if this didn't clobber them, nothing would. It didn't and nothing has - which however he already knew, as is clear from his story of Lazarus and the rich man.

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
7. I like what she did. There was a local grocery store in our community that left the "edible"
Mon Apr 13, 2015, 10:34 AM
Apr 2015

foodstuff in a box on the back steps for my dad to pick up every Friday. Dad used it mostly for the chickens and geese but there was often a lot of things in there that were "edible" for humans also.

jeanmarc

(1,685 posts)
9. Big mistake by the owner
Mon Apr 13, 2015, 10:51 AM
Apr 2015

The person going through the dumpster clearly buys food off of cruise ships.

niyad

(113,612 posts)
11. now that is a lovely note upon which to start the week, which we know is going
Mon Apr 13, 2015, 11:14 AM
Apr 2015

to be filled with awful stuff.

isn't it a shame that such a basic bit of humanity is so rare as to be newsworthy? and that there are people in this "greatest, bestest, richest country in the world", who are in such dire straits?

Tanuki

(14,924 posts)
14. I wonder if the so-called "Christians" who flocked to that pizza shop gofundme page
Mon Apr 13, 2015, 11:28 AM
Apr 2015

would think of sending some money to this restaurant owner to support her good works. What a great example THIS business owner sets for us all. Thanks for a good news story!

madokie

(51,076 posts)
16. One of my brother in laws lives just a few blocks from there
Mon Apr 13, 2015, 11:36 AM
Apr 2015

Whether he goes there or not I don't know. Probably does though

marym625

(17,997 posts)
19. This actually just made me cry
Mon Apr 13, 2015, 12:03 PM
Apr 2015

What a wonderful person. How horrible our government doesn't give a shit.

tclambert

(11,087 posts)
23. But don't you know you're only in business to make profit?
Mon Apr 13, 2015, 12:40 PM
Apr 2015

In the spirit of maximizing profit, you should spray kerosene on your garbage to make it inedible*. Force that poor person to BUY your food . . . at a profitable markup. That's the capitalist way.


*According to The Grapes of Wrath (chapter 25), people actually did this in California in 1933 to discourage Okies from eating surplus fruit during one harvest season when the banks said prices were too low to afford selling the entire orange crop. So they dumped some of the crop . . . Well, here's the quote:

“The works of the roots of the vines, of the trees, must be destroyed to keep up the price, and this is the saddest, bitterest thing of all. Carloads of oranges dumped on the ground. The people came for miles to take the fruit, but this could not be. How would they buy oranges at twenty cents a dozen if they could drive out and pick them up? And men with hoses squirt kerosene on the oranges, and they are angry at the crime, angry at the people who have come to take the fruit. A million people hungry, needing the fruit- and kerosene sprayed over the golden mountains. And the smell of rot fills the country. Burn coffee for fuel in the ships. Burn corn to keep warm, it makes a hot fire. Dump potatoes in the rivers and place guards along the banks to keep the hungry people from fishing them out. Slaughter the pigs and bury them, and let the putrescence drip down into the earth.

There is a crime here that goes beyond denunciation. There is a sorrow here that weeping cannot symbolize. There is a failure here that topples all our success. The fertile earth, the straight tree rows, the sturdy trunks, and the ripe fruit. And children dying of pellagra must die because a profit cannot be taken from an orange. And coroners must fill in the certificate- died of malnutrition- because the food must rot, must be forced to rot. The people come with nets to fish for potatoes in the river, and the guards hold them back; they come in rattling cars to get the dumped oranges, but the kerosene is sprayed. And they stand still and watch the potatoes float by, listen to the screaming pigs being killed in a ditch and covered with quick-lime, watch the mountains of oranges slop down to a putrefying ooze; and in the eyes of the people there is the failure; and in the eyes of the hungry there is a growing wrath. In the souls of the people the grapes of wrath are filling and growing heavy, growing heavy for the vintage.”

TexasMommaWithAHat

(3,212 posts)
27. There is no other reason to be in business other than to make a profit
Mon Apr 13, 2015, 01:28 PM
Apr 2015

Now, if this man wants to feed the homeless with his money, he is surely one of the kinder human beings on the planet, and I hope more people will follow his example.

Imagine if every food establishment fed a couple of homeless people every day. There would be far fewer hungry people in every city, and just knowing that someone really cared would make a difference in a homeless person's life.

tclambert

(11,087 posts)
41. Actually, businesses were NOT invented to make profit.
Mon Apr 13, 2015, 07:34 PM
Apr 2015

And a great many nonprofits exist today. Historically, businesses existed long before the concept of profit came into being, possibly as much as 100,000 years.

TexasMommaWithAHat

(3,212 posts)
46. Profit is what you have after expenses
Mon Apr 13, 2015, 10:31 PM
Apr 2015

If that's fifty thousand dollars, and you pay yourself twenty-five thousand dollars, you have twenty-five thousand dollars in profit. Or you can pay yourself fifty thousand dollars, and show "no" profit. Or the family business might rake in a half a million dollars, and show no profit, because mom and pop each make $250,000. Profit is a rather "loose" term in business, wouldn't you say?

As a matter of fact, there's a lot of folks making hundreds of thousand of dollars working for "non-profits."

ProfessorPlum

(11,279 posts)
24. There are two childrens' books by Richard Peck
Mon Apr 13, 2015, 12:46 PM
Apr 2015

entitled "A Long Way from Chicago" and "A Year Down Yonder" that talk about a couple of kids and their summers spent with their fictional Grandma - who is a bit of a mischief maker. But one of the things that she does is stay up at night and greet the out-of-work men traveling illegally by train with food and sandwiches. she just does it. She doesn't check with anyone to see if it is all right, and wouldn't back down if it weren't.

That description of that simple act made such an impression on me when I was reading those books to my kids. The person in this store is doing the same, acting out of the same impulse - and it is a feeling of kinship with our fellow people that we should all cultivate and nurture. Fuck the "morals" that our corporate-bought media and government try to foist on us.

Edited to add - the stories were during the Depression

allan01

(1,950 posts)
28. :
Mon Apr 13, 2015, 02:42 PM
Apr 2015

there are many "christians " who dont toot their own horn. there are many who dont want credit . there are many who work behind the scenes with their time . talent and monies and dont make any noise about it . this lady deserves

 

rtracey

(2,062 posts)
29. wow
Mon Apr 13, 2015, 03:26 PM
Apr 2015

Ok see this person, see this person help her fellow man..... this business is the business that needs a go-fund-me account set up for her, not these scam pizza, florist BS groups scamming cash for hate.....

turbinetree

(24,726 posts)
30. I truly
Mon Apr 13, 2015, 03:33 PM
Apr 2015

hope that she gets more people coming into her establishment than she knows what to do with, and just maybe she could hire that person that was looking for the food behind her business

Myrina

(12,296 posts)
31. What if the 'diver' is diving for a family?
Mon Apr 13, 2015, 03:48 PM
Apr 2015

Sadly, dumpster divers aren't always going solo.

Going in for a pb&j is great for the individual but what if there are hungry kiddos waiting somewhere?


jamesatemple

(342 posts)
33. Can someone supply the name of this Oklahoma restaurant?
Mon Apr 13, 2015, 05:13 PM
Apr 2015

I ended up with $10.00 at the end of March that I'd like to send to the restaurant owner.

calimary

(81,527 posts)
37. It's called P.B. Jams
Mon Apr 13, 2015, 05:46 PM
Apr 2015

From Facebook:

https://www.facebook.com/pbjams66?fref=ts

5912 NW 38th
Warr Acres, Oklahoma
(405) 789-0888

Looks like there's a GoFundMe account set up somewhere, too. If I lived near there, I sure would become a regular customer! I LOVE giving my business to worthy enterprises like this one. Always good to reward and reinforce good behavior!

hunter

(38,337 posts)
35. Any society that claims "There's no such thing as a free lunch" blows chunks.
Mon Apr 13, 2015, 05:22 PM
Apr 2015

What's the point of a society that can't feed everyone?

Such a society is broken.

calimary

(81,527 posts)
38. Especially since we in America have the food and the resources to make sure that no one
Mon Apr 13, 2015, 05:47 PM
Apr 2015

goes to bed hungry. Shit - when I see what gets wasted, and what gets thrown out, it just makes me hurt.

bvar22

(39,909 posts)
39. Wow. PB&J.
Mon Apr 13, 2015, 06:01 PM
Apr 2015

That just pulled a heart string.

My parents both served in WW2, and afterwards, moved into a row housing clapboard,
shotgun duplex in New Orleans. This location happened to be close to a major highway (remember, this is before Interstates), and a major rail junction.

We occasionally had some weary traveler, usually a vet, knock on the back door asking for food.
My mom always fixed a PB&J and a tall glass of cold milk.
2nds if asked.

I was 4 or 5, and remember sitting on the back steps with these travelers while they ate their sandwich. I had completely forgotten those memories until this thread.
Thank You.... and now I feel like crying for all the hungry people while we throw so much money away on the military.

DURec.

Lobo27

(753 posts)
42. No one should ever go hungry.
Mon Apr 13, 2015, 07:42 PM
Apr 2015

Bless this person for trying to help.

I still remember the faces of the people in need that would come to our church when I was a little kid. You could see the happiness. For that small moment in time they imo their hardships were gone.

Maraya1969

(22,507 posts)
45. Why does it bother me that it is a PB&J and a glass of water?
Mon Apr 13, 2015, 10:04 PM
Apr 2015

It immediately set to mind the cheese sandwiches for poor kids in school.

Erich Bloodaxe BSN

(14,733 posts)
51. Look at the name of the shop.
Tue Apr 14, 2015, 07:56 AM
Apr 2015
the owner of sandwich shop P.B. Jams,


It looks to be a shop that makes PB&J sandwiches. And water is actually healthier for you than sodas, which is probably what else they sell.

PatrickforO

(14,594 posts)
47. The world is filled with nice people. Unfortunately,
Tue Apr 14, 2015, 01:28 AM
Apr 2015

we are surrounded by evil systems based in greed.

Scarsdale

(9,426 posts)
49. Thank you.
Tue Apr 14, 2015, 07:40 AM
Apr 2015

What a refreshing change from the people banning gays. This is obviously how true compassionate people act. Too bad more people do not follow Ms. Jiron's lead. THIS is a person who really should have a gofundme account, to do good deeds with.

cynzke

(1,254 posts)
50. My Sister Works....
Tue Apr 14, 2015, 07:46 AM
Apr 2015

for a national grocery chain. You would be appalled at how much perfectly good food they are forced to throw away. Even flowers and living plants that reach a set date. LIVING PLANTS! They are not allowed by law to even give the food away to charities or food banks. Not EVEN allowed to give it away to the employees. It is totally pathetic. And millions of animals are killed and the meat gets thrown away. It is a crying shame.

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