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democrank

(11,109 posts)
Tue Apr 14, 2015, 11:21 AM Apr 2015

Purple bandaids, "Let him die" and violent killer cops.

The slew of violent, criminal police behavior we`ve seen lately has made me think about how these men and women sworn to "serve and protect" have gone so far astray. To my way of thinking, the problem is deeper than racism and/or poor training. It`s us, .... we the people. The same people who wore purple bandaids to mock John Kerry`s war wounds. The part of the crowd that yelled, "Let him die" when a hypothetical question was asked about a young man in a coma with no health insurance. The people that cheer at dogfights or shoot a seven year old on her way to school because they`re pissed off because her uncle owed them money. The people who can build pyramids out of naked men with chains around their necks and then pose, smiling, with a corpse. The people, like Rush Limbaugh, who joke about hungry children or the people who`d drag a gay man behind their pickup truck for the hell of it. There are plenty more examples where these came from, and we`ve heard them over and over and over. Look at the horrible examples of bullying in our schools and on the internet. Bulling because a teenage girl isn`t a size 4 or because a teenage boy "acts gay" whatever that means. Look at the examples of road rage, fraternity hazing, rape.

We have become so lacking in empathy, so coarse, that we need almost no reason to think a suspect "deserved it", deserved getting shot in the back because he ran from police. Homeless people "deserve it" because they probably want to live on the streets anyway. "Deserved it" because a black teenager on the 19th floor of a project got gunned down because he wasn`t in school where he should have been. "Deserved it" because a young woman was asking for it, asking to be raped, because she wore a short skirt.

We`ve thrown our language around in such a callous way that "haters" here at DU apparently are people who disagree with a particular candidate`s position. Really? Haters? I thought haters were people like those I described in the first paragraph. Those are the people we should be trying to do something about. We should save our tough language for loud-and-clear demands for a change to our country`s current atmosphere of real hate, exemplified by the recent noose around neck of the statue of James Meredith, the University of Mississippi`s first black student.

There are some wonderful, caring people in this country and they need to band together, however imperfect a union, and demand a stop to this in-your-face hatred that is chipping away at everything. We are so much better than that.


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Purple bandaids, "Let him die" and violent killer cops. (Original Post) democrank Apr 2015 OP
K&R! Big time! marym625 Apr 2015 #1
Very well said. DirkGently Apr 2015 #2
The Culture of Fuck You I Got Mines. Orsino Apr 2015 #3
The decline and fall of social capital phantom power Apr 2015 #4
Good post. But I have begun to wonder, are we REALLY 'so much better'? If we were, things could sabrina 1 Apr 2015 #5
We have always been that way Ms. Yertle Apr 2015 #6
Bravo OP Runningdawg Apr 2015 #7

DirkGently

(12,151 posts)
2. Very well said.
Tue Apr 14, 2015, 11:36 AM
Apr 2015

Nice to see an OP with a thoughtful point of view and excellent writing, rather than boring poo-flinging and thoughtless attempts to beat down dissent.

Which I take it was rather the point.

Nice job.

Orsino

(37,428 posts)
3. The Culture of Fuck You I Got Mines.
Tue Apr 14, 2015, 12:04 PM
Apr 2015

The cult of welfare=lazy, wages=theft, money=good, and death=money.

phantom power

(25,966 posts)
4. The decline and fall of social capital
Tue Apr 14, 2015, 12:08 PM
Apr 2015

Deliberately destroyed, brick by brick, by the conservative movement.

Social capital refers to the collective value of all "social networks" [who people know] and the inclinations that arise from these networks to do things for each other ["norms of reciprocity"].


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_capital

sabrina 1

(62,325 posts)
5. Good post. But I have begun to wonder, are we REALLY 'so much better'? If we were, things could
Tue Apr 14, 2015, 12:16 PM
Apr 2015

never have gone so far imo. Winning is everything in our culture. To win, whatever that means anymore, people are required to set aside any morals they may have, eg, to support Bush's murderous war in Iraq.

People who use the word 'haters' for those who dare to question, are a huge part of the problem and part of the reason we are where we are.

Still, there is always hope that before things go too far, though wrt to the police, imo that has already happened, good people will prevail.

For that we need good, strong leadership, not leadership that is willing to brush aside things like illegal wars, torture and other crimes, the police murders of AAs, in order to achieve whatever their goals are.

US Foreign Policy is brutal and bigoted. But appears to be the way a majority want it to be. Listen the cries across the country of 'kill all ragheads', 'camel jockeys' and these are the people who prevail.

I'd like to think we are 'better than that', but I look at our leaders who are there because they too support our brutal, bigoted foreign policies and I'm not so sure.

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