Welcome to DU! The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards. Join the community: Create a free account Support DU (and get rid of ads!): Become a Star Member Latest Breaking News General Discussion The DU Lounge All Forums Issue Forums Culture Forums Alliance Forums Region Forums Support Forums Help & Search

Ohio Joe

(21,761 posts)
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 07:27 PM Apr 2015

So... I died last Sunday (with edits about work)

Last edited Sat Apr 18, 2015, 11:51 PM - Edit history (3)

As you probably already guessed... It didn't take

I'm not even sure what the fuck I want to post this for but... Regardless...

On Friday the 10th, I went in for some common male hernia surgery. I really was not worried at all... I mean, what could possibly go wrong?

I got there at 9:00am and was home by 2:30pm. What I didn't know at the time was that the surgeon had nicked my bladder. Looking back, I know when it ripped open... The doc had told me their would be no dietary restrictions so I went for mini pizza's for dinner at 7:00pm. Toast up some English muffins till they are about 90% done, then a mixture of some 'meat' flavored sauce, crushed garlic and Romano cheese, and spread it on... Top with some fresh mozzarella and a drizzle of some good olive oil and top with a little fresh oregano... Pop them back into the toaster oven and finish them off. Fuckin heaven.

I'd put them on the plate and moved off to the couch and sat down wrong... The pain was insanely sharp and... Weird. It went away quickly though, so I just figured I'd worry if it happened again... That was a mistake.

Through the night it became increasingly hard to get up or down... But it just felt like increased soreness and I thought I must just be working it too hard for day 1 and needed rest. I was still pretty fucking wrong. I needed my nephew's help getting into bed around 11:00pm and it was very slow and painful... I popped a few more of the pain pills they had given me and figured I'd see what was what in the morning. I was just not getting better at this.

I awoke around 4:00am Sunday morning in a lot of pain... Plus my right side was now feeling very... Funny... Clammy with the skin having almost a 'plastic' feel and very... Squishy. In addition, my stomach was undeniably distended. It took me almost an hour to realize I was unable to get out of bed... Reach my phone... Or even cry out... Pain and nausea were coming over me in waves I'd never felt... I was just kind of lying their moaning from the effort... And knew something was very wrong and that I was at that moment, very much fighting to stay alive.

Around 6:00am, things had not improved... They had gotten much worse and I was simply fighting to stay conscious. I heard my brother coming out of his room for his morning coffee... I was pretty happy he was regular that morning... I'd been waiting and hoping he would be... The only thing I had that I could both reach and throw was the pill bottle, so I threw it at my door and fuckin fell almost two feet short... Fortunately it made enough of a rattle that he heard it and stopped... I was able to moan load enough to get him to knock and check it out...

I'm lucky my brother is not stupid and as soon as he turned on the light and saw me, he turned around, got his cell and called 911. Only asking me questions he repeated from the operator... Sadly, I was of little help.

The real trouble began when the ambulance guys showed up... See... My room does have the distinct odor or weed perpetually hanging around, as well I keep my stash of weed and edibles right out in the open... It's fuckin legal people... Sheesh.

As they came into my room, it was obvious exactly where their eyes were drawn and the look on their faces told the story... They were certain they had someone who had taken too many edibles... So pretty much a waste of their time and they did nothing to even try to hide it. Even after my brother had explained the hernia surgery and showed them what I HAD been taking, it was obvious they were not buying it.

They took me out to the ambulance and I had managed to get them the message to contact my Surgeon/Doctor, and off we went... Things were about to get even worse.

When we got to the hospital, I was wheeled into a room and stuck me with Dilaudid... Vile shit... It fucks up your head, making you unable to make sense of even the simplest of things, makes you puke instead of breath and even has the added bonus of doing absolutely nothing for the pain... WTF? Why do hospitals use this shit?

The Doctor at the hospital tried to get information out of me for hours... Ran all manner of tests... Even chided me for 'not being co-operative'... I shit you not. All the while, the pain just kept getting worse... I remember that I kept thinking... Don't people pass out after a certain point? Is there not only so much a body can take? Sure wasn't seeming like it... Sheesh.

The pain was going from my groin, up through my stomach and especially on my lower right side, just above the hip... And it just kept getting worse. I could not believe how long my stomach muscles had been cramped... It would be a few more days of that... But then the other pain started... In my left arm and it went all the way up my shoulder and around and down into my chest.

There were only two young girls in the room with me at the time and I know I must have looked odd that I was actually pulling myself up a bit and looking intently at my left hand... They both started asking me what was happening... And there were a lot of noises... And then all the pain went away... Just for a moment it was gone... And then everything else went away and I died.

Of course, they brought me back (I don't know that story yet), my brother got a hold of my Doc, who got me to a different hospital and did the repair surgery... THAT is a fuckin story I gotta write out sometime... And many other horrible things happened during my stay at that hospital this past week... Most of it was simply disgusting and more than a bit humiliating, so I'll skip it.

I came home today and I feel pretty good. I plan on being at work Monday. I still don't know what to make of all this yet... I think I'm going to go smoke a joint and play some Borderlands 2 though...

Sheesh.

Edit:

First off... Thanks everyone for the wonderful support. I appreciate it.

Going Back to Work Monday - hmmm... Let me tell you a bit about where I work. The place is freakin awesome, I love it there... By far, the best job I've ever had. The company is wicked liberal and they are treating the situation with every concern going toward my well being. I was visited every day by many levels of management, people I've never met, who sure acted like they were sincerely concerned. I have been assured that no time off I take regarding this will be taken from my PTO (we get a lump sum of days, 20 to start, that combines sick, vaca and personal... All called PTO) and that the company will just eat the time... This includes days taken already, upcoming, follow up visits, as well as any potential 'legal' time needed, so they are giving me zero pressure to return. As well, I believe this is how companies should treat their people, so I'm not particularly going back because of any kind of 'guilt' or 'loyalty' or whatever. The bottom line is that I freakin like to go to work, it's is always pretty much zero stress, in a very comfortable atmosphere that is filled with a great group of people. We do good things together and have fun doing it... Every company should be like this. I spent a few days in the Dilaudid fog and it was a wicked scary place to be... I want to go be my friends, have some laughs and do some good... I think I want that more than anything else. Believe me... If this had happened and I was working at any other job I've ever had, I would be taking at least all of next week off but... I do want to go in for myself.

99 replies = new reply since forum marked as read
Highlight: NoneDon't highlight anything 5 newestHighlight 5 most recent replies
So... I died last Sunday (with edits about work) (Original Post) Ohio Joe Apr 2015 OP
Yipes shenmue Apr 2015 #1
Welcome back! The Velveteen Ocelot Apr 2015 #2
Holy fucking shit, Joe!!! I'm so glad you're OK!! PeaceNikki Apr 2015 #3
Oh dear... glad you are still with us OKNancy Apr 2015 #4
Yikes! How scary. I hope all is taken care of, now. Laurian Apr 2015 #5
Damn! zappaman Apr 2015 #6
You have been to hell and back! femmocrat Apr 2015 #7
Borderlands 2 makes everything better justiceischeap Apr 2015 #8
+1... SidDithers Apr 2015 #27
Only if I can bring it down within 30 seconds justiceischeap Apr 2015 #63
Zero with Bore for the win... SidDithers Apr 2015 #70
Glad it didn't take. bluedigger Apr 2015 #9
OMG Joe! I'm glad you're back with us! Trailrider1951 Apr 2015 #10
Glad you made it back! Sounds like you should take some more time off work livetohike Apr 2015 #11
Glad you're still with us, Joe! Taylorz Apr 2015 #12
Thank Goodness NOLALady Apr 2015 #13
my gawd! you sure had a time of it. glad u pulled thru Liberal_in_LA Apr 2015 #14
wow joe. what a story. of course i'm thrilled they figured it out, and got you on the path of healin seabeyond Apr 2015 #15
Wow! vankuria Apr 2015 #16
So happy you are on the mend. boston bean Apr 2015 #17
OMG, Ohio Joe! mnhtnbb Apr 2015 #18
Holy shite! demmiblue Apr 2015 #19
Wow.. you poor thing, Ohio Joe! And, all because your dr nicked you bladder and didn't notice it! Cha Apr 2015 #20
And it didn't even take you three days! MineralMan Apr 2015 #21
Glad you're back with us Fumesucker Apr 2015 #22
DON'T GO TOWARDS THE LIGHT!!! beam me up scottie Apr 2015 #23
Yikes! sheshe2 Apr 2015 #24
YEEEEEE-haaaaaaw!!!! Iggo Apr 2015 #25
((DearOhioJoe)) blm Apr 2015 #26
Glad you are still with us! Starry Messenger Apr 2015 #28
Glad your ok. ..nt Jesus Malverde Apr 2015 #29
. Wilms Apr 2015 #30
So you don't remember angels and all that? mountain grammy Apr 2015 #31
Take Care Unknown Beatle Apr 2015 #32
but he wants to NJCher Apr 2015 #93
I'm glad you made it LiberalEsto Apr 2015 #33
I have died 5 times during a 12 hr leg operation. Everyone always asked what I saw. LiberalArkie Apr 2015 #34
Very scary! greatauntoftriplets Apr 2015 #35
well if that isn't the subect line to beat all subject lines, I don't know what is....! hlthe2b Apr 2015 #36
What does heaven look like? panader0 Apr 2015 #37
Welcome back. That's quite the adventure. Today's word of the day is now officially "iatrogenic". Electric Monk Apr 2015 #38
No messages from beyond? nolabear Apr 2015 #39
Freaking wow malaise Apr 2015 #40
Sweet Jesus Joe !....damn...that was some bad experiance shit. Also, I'm pissed at the "service" .. BlueJazz Apr 2015 #41
I'm glad you are back alive and hope you recover very soon. Jamastiene Apr 2015 #42
WOW! So many questions . . . so happy to know you are on the road to recovery! My thoughts are Liberal In Red State Apr 2015 #43
Well....we're glad you're back. kentuck Apr 2015 #44
My husband plays Borderlands while I smoke. bravenak Apr 2015 #45
Sounds like a bleed ismnotwasm Apr 2015 #46
Holy crap! I'm glad you're okay. n/t lumberjack_jeff Apr 2015 #47
Dear Joe, please don't do that again Demeter Apr 2015 #48
Horrific, glad your okay now! AuntPatsy Apr 2015 #49
Your Delta Tau Chi name is now Zombie Joe! bluesbassman Apr 2015 #50
I have almost never spoken of it but when was in 5th grade i had accident where I CentralMass Apr 2015 #51
Thanks for sharing your experience, CentralMass. classof56 Apr 2015 #97
Wow! That has to be the best story I've read on DU! Amazing! Glad you're okay. C Moon Apr 2015 #52
What trip that was, safeinOhio Apr 2015 #53
jeeeeeezus!!!!!!!!! holy crap! BlancheSplanchnik Apr 2015 #54
Wow, that is going to be quite a story passiveporcupine Apr 2015 #55
What an ordeal! Think of all the different ways it could've gone the other way- NBachers Apr 2015 #56
Holy crap, Joe! colorado_ufo Apr 2015 #57
WOW-Welcome back Gothmog Apr 2015 #58
Welcome back, did you see the light? madamvlb Apr 2015 #59
Wow! tavernier Apr 2015 #60
Godawmighty! frogmarch Apr 2015 #61
OMG - This is really scary stuff!!!! RKP5637 Apr 2015 #62
glad to hear "they" weren't ready KT2000 Apr 2015 #64
what a terrible experience for you! barbtries Apr 2015 #65
Wow. Glad you made it OhioJoe. I smell a lawsuit and an incredible story, please share..... joanbarnes Apr 2015 #66
Welcome back fellow dead person, at least I managed to drive hollysmom Apr 2015 #67
Wow! Really glad you're OK, and that your brother is a quick thinker... (nt) petronius Apr 2015 #68
Take good care of yourself and do not overdo it during your recovery. greatlaurel Apr 2015 #69
Way to close, fellow Buckeye awoke_in_2003 Apr 2015 #71
Don't go to work Monday Caretha Apr 2015 #72
Wow! Please, please reconsider returning to work on Monday Ruby the Liberal Apr 2015 #73
Glad you are ok voteearlyvoteoften Apr 2015 #74
Warn people of the hospital system you were in, certainly the EMS who should be horse whipped MrMickeysMom Apr 2015 #75
Good question... what hospital was that? Taylorz Apr 2015 #78
Well you were in hypovolemic shock for one thing. Laffy Kat Apr 2015 #76
Wow! Welcome back! WhiteTara Apr 2015 #77
Happy you made it back... Thespian2 Apr 2015 #79
Are you sure it didn't take? You could be so much cooler as one of the undead... winter is coming Apr 2015 #80
Many Blessings, and Be Well. nt AnotherDreamWeaver Apr 2015 #81
ain't nothing I can add to this thread onethatcares Apr 2015 #82
So now you know what dying feels like..... dixiegrrrrl Apr 2015 #83
what a story! spanone Apr 2015 #84
Ohio Joe, I could relate to every word you said. Enthusiast Apr 2015 #85
I am very glad you pulled through. You have been through a lot. One thing, a hernia operation still_one Apr 2015 #86
holy shit! Kali Apr 2015 #87
My dear Ohio Joe! CaliforniaPeggy Apr 2015 #88
I once heard an M.D. (internist) say... Binkie The Clown Apr 2015 #89
He'd obviously never had a perforated appendix Warpy Apr 2015 #91
I went down like a sack of wet manure on Monday Warpy Apr 2015 #90
Sorry to hear all this - how scary! LeftishBrit Apr 2015 #92
So glad you came back and feel good enough to work already! Lisa0825 Apr 2015 #94
Oh my goodness! marym625 Apr 2015 #95
I'm glad you are back with us and are doing better... Hotler Apr 2015 #96
I know the feeling. DeSwiss Apr 2015 #98
MAN, Ohio Joe! Holy Cow! What a story! calimary Apr 2015 #99

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,829 posts)
2. Welcome back!
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 07:30 PM
Apr 2015

That sounds like an absolutely horrendous experience. Glad you survived; take it easy. Maybe you shouldn't go to work on Monday. I sure wouldn't!

zappaman

(20,606 posts)
6. Damn!
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 07:32 PM
Apr 2015

Glad you got thru it.
I lost my 24 year old brother in law to minor surgery.
Even for my recent colonoscopy, I made sure to really talk with every nurse, doctor, anesthesiologist, etc.
We take it for granted it is going to be simple, but things can happen.
Hang in there.

femmocrat

(28,394 posts)
7. You have been to hell and back!
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 07:32 PM
Apr 2015

You are incredibly lucky to have survived all of that. Are you thinking "malpractice"?

Glad you are better, Joe.

bluedigger

(17,087 posts)
9. Glad it didn't take.
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 07:34 PM
Apr 2015

Good thinking having a Cadillac arrest in the hospital though. Perfect place for it.

 

Taylorz

(53 posts)
12. Glad you're still with us, Joe!
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 07:35 PM
Apr 2015

Just take care of yourself, and defintely follow up with your Doctor.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
15. wow joe. what a story. of course i'm thrilled they figured it out, and got you on the path of healin
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 07:36 PM
Apr 2015

not very encouraging.

i thought i was having a heart attack once. my whole body was shaking. they couldnt get the iv in. had bruises al over two arms. they were pissed at me.

say wha? not doing it on purpose.

enjoy your damn time. and take care of you

vankuria

(904 posts)
16. Wow!
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 07:39 PM
Apr 2015

I'm so glad you're okay...you mentioned the Dr. nicking your bladder and I'm assuming this caused all your problems. Why didn't the Dr. repair this during your initial surgery or at least make you aware there could be a potential problem? Do you plan on pursuing charges against him, I mean you could've died.

Again, I'm so glad you survived this horrible ordeal and please rest up and don't push yourself.

boston bean

(36,223 posts)
17. So happy you are on the mend.
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 07:40 PM
Apr 2015

I couldn't imagine the pain. A hernia operation is very painful itself. And to add that to it and almost dying!!!!

Glad u are still here.

mnhtnbb

(31,401 posts)
18. OMG, Ohio Joe!
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 07:40 PM
Apr 2015

Unbelievable! What a horrible experience. I can't believe your surgeon didn't know he nicked your bladder, though.


My OB/Gyn sliced my bladder when I had my last son--C-section--25 years ago. But, he knew it. Fixed it at the time.
BUT--and watch out for this--there was nerve damage from where he sliced/repaired. Ended up--little
did I know--with unable to being able to completely void. So, down the road a year or so, I end up
in the hospital with a raging bladder/kidney infection and high temp. The problem with not voiding completely
is that you can have bacteria build up in the urine that never gets voided.

I refused to let the urologist 'fix' it. No more surgery, thanks. Which means that I make sure to void completely
by pressing the heel of my hand on the part of my lower abdomen that results in the bladder being completely
emptied. Kind of a PITA, but no thanks to more surgery.

Glad you're still with us!

Cha

(297,564 posts)
20. Wow.. you poor thing, Ohio Joe! And, all because your dr nicked you bladder and didn't notice it!
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 07:41 PM
Apr 2015

Glad you're back.. you obviously have strong recuperative powers!

Iggo

(47,564 posts)
25. YEEEEEE-haaaaaaw!!!!
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 07:53 PM
Apr 2015

Great to have you back, buddy!

(Suspended punch in the nose for your original ambulance drivers. They did eventually get you to the hospital, I guess.)

Starry Messenger

(32,342 posts)
28. Glad you are still with us!
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 07:55 PM
Apr 2015
Not ready to see your screen name on the memorial wall here. Good vibes for healing.

NJCher

(35,715 posts)
93. but he wants to
Sun Apr 19, 2015, 07:49 AM
Apr 2015

He likes his work. It's therapeutic for him. So if he wants to go back, he should go.

"Work" is the crux here: so few people think of work as fun and good, but work can be all of that. It sounds like he works for a very unusual employer.


Cher

LiberalArkie

(15,728 posts)
34. I have died 5 times during a 12 hr leg operation. Everyone always asked what I saw.
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 08:07 PM
Apr 2015

A nurse pulling a needle out of my arm when I was in my room after the operation. Too much anesthesia. No white light no nothing. But talk about being high. It took a long time for that crap to work its way out of my system. I even asked them the back off the pain meds as I was having a hard time knowing whether I was a person or a bowl of silly putty.

hlthe2b

(102,343 posts)
36. well if that isn't the subect line to beat all subject lines, I don't know what is....!
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 08:14 PM
Apr 2015


Thank heavens you made it through. What a horrendous experience!

panader0

(25,816 posts)
37. What does heaven look like?
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 08:23 PM
Apr 2015

Kidding, so glad you are OK. I visited a friend today at a hospital in Tucson. He had suffered liver and renal failure. It looked really bad for him. But today he was better. Whew...

 

BlueJazz

(25,348 posts)
41. Sweet Jesus Joe !....damn...that was some bad experiance shit. Also, I'm pissed at the "service" ..
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 08:36 PM
Apr 2015

....you receive from the ambulance guys. They have absolutely no right to judge anyone who is in pain. They're not a Doctor.

Take care...Man.

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
42. I'm glad you are back alive and hope you recover very soon.
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 08:37 PM
Apr 2015

It sounds like you had a horrible ordeal.

I hate it when people are judgmental of weed. It is Nature's gift to human kind. I wish more people would smoke it and learn it is not the Great Satan so many seem to think. Those must have been some dumb ass hospital emergency workers if they thought pot could cause any of your symptoms. It's a miracle you are still alive if that is the kind of attitude you had to deal with. I'm glad you are back with us now. Don't leave us to deal with 2016 alone. We've lost enough DUers in the past few years.

43. WOW! So many questions . . . so happy to know you are on the road to recovery! My thoughts are
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 08:44 PM
Apr 2015

with you and please let your brother know that I'm so happy he was there to help you! Awaiting . . . The rest of your story!

 

Demeter

(85,373 posts)
48. Dear Joe, please don't do that again
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 09:03 PM
Apr 2015

What a nightmare! You must have excellent luck to overcome all that, plus a good brother and doctors.

It is a problem the way people are treated by strangers, especially strange "helping professionals".
Best wishes for a speedy recovery and many pain-free years.

CentralMass

(15,265 posts)
51. I have almost never spoken of it but when was in 5th grade i had accident where I
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 09:06 PM
Apr 2015

put right arm through a window and cut my main artery at the wrist. The school bus was late that day and my older brother was home sick. My mother, who normal got us on the bus had to leave for work. I had forgotten a text book in the house and went into the garage and was rapping on the window of the kitchen door for my brother to come and let me in. He was ill in the bedroom and didn't hear me.
The glass must have had a defect and it shattered and I cut my wrist very badly. I ran to the neighbors knocked on the door and passed out as they opened the door. The put a tourniquet on my arm and wrapped it with two towels loaded me in the car and rushed towards the center of town. They had called the police and hoped to meet up with an ambulance but when that didn't happen, they rushed me to the nearest hospital. I had regained consciousness and was surprisingly calm. As we got close to the hospital I had lost a tremendous amount of blood and felt warmth flush over me. I apparently calmly asked my neighbor, who was cradling me in the back seat while her husband drove, if I was going to die, and she said I don't honey, i don't know. My vision cut out and went gray and then white. I've always attributed this to the "white light" that people speak of who have had near death experiences. I can't recall much of that piece other then a sensation of calm and peace. I came to in the ER on the surgical table after they started IV. They had to my corduroys off with scissors because they were completely blood soaked and stuck to my legs making them too hard to pull off. They repaired the artery and I obviously made it. Thanks to my neighbors and I believe some divine intervention. I am not overtly religious but I have had several serious accidents that I probably shouldn't have a survived.

So Ohio Joe, congrats for making it and I'll bet this experience will be one that you will ponder for years

classof56

(5,376 posts)
97. Thanks for sharing your experience, CentralMass.
Sun Apr 19, 2015, 11:21 AM
Apr 2015

What a brave kid you were! So glad for the happy ending, and BTW, a belated welcome to DU.

Peace

passiveporcupine

(8,175 posts)
55. Wow, that is going to be quite a story
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 09:20 PM
Apr 2015

I had a bad surgery experience too (doc operated in the wrong place on my foot), but nothing like yours. Not life threatening, just depressing because I came back to the hospital with a fever and serious asthma attack, and then found out what he'd done. I was crying and depressed, and the nurses didn't believe what I was telling them. They were supporting the doctor, even though he screwed up my surgery, and it made my stay in that hospital hell. I was only there a couple of days and so glad to get out of that mess.

I can only say, you lucked out here. Everything fell into place to keep you alive and you are one lucky dog, because the crew that came to get you could have let you die from their ignorance...I mean permanently die.

So glad you made it. And now have a story to tell your grandkids.

NBachers

(17,135 posts)
56. What an ordeal! Think of all the different ways it could've gone the other way-
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 09:22 PM
Apr 2015

We're lucky to still have you here. We need all the Democratic voters to stay alive- and I'm glad you are, Ohio Joe!

colorado_ufo

(5,737 posts)
57. Holy crap, Joe!
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 09:22 PM
Apr 2015

You just scared the hell out of me, and I am so sorry for all you went through!

I just had a double hernia surgery a week ago Thursday, and thank God and my excellent surgeon, all went well. I am of the female persuasion, but we gals can get the same type of hernias that guys do (Google it, peeps). Anyway, I am even more grateful for my great medical care after reading you story. You HAVE to tell us the rest, when you are up to it!

One thing: Please, please, please do not go to work Monday. Your body has been through hell, and you need to help it recover with a few days of rest and some good nutrition. Listen to Grandma here.

And, for sure, welcome back!

tavernier

(12,396 posts)
60. Wow!
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 09:38 PM
Apr 2015

Appears that your work here is not yet finished... Can't imagine why otherwise you would have suffered and survived such a horrendous event!!

hollysmom

(5,946 posts)
67. Welcome back fellow dead person, at least I managed to drive
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 10:05 PM
Apr 2015

to the emergency room before I died. Not that I expected that, I just thought I had some reaction to medication.

I laugh when I was wondering what was going on when the guy ahead of me had a bleeding gun shot wound and they were making him fill out forms before they would treat him, but they told me to never mind and pulled me in the back and hooked me up to machines. But no white light for me, just very tired, but then again I was dying from extremely low blood pressure, so no pain, just very tired and fell asleep for 3 days While they kept resuscitating, me ha ha.

greatlaurel

(2,004 posts)
69. Take good care of yourself and do not overdo it during your recovery.
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 10:12 PM
Apr 2015

Get well soon! What an ordeal you have been through.

Good luck.

 

Caretha

(2,737 posts)
72. Don't go to work Monday
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 10:27 PM
Apr 2015

do take it very very easy, and quit thinking that you "have to work".

Just this once, look out for yourself, please.

Ruby the Liberal

(26,219 posts)
73. Wow! Please, please reconsider returning to work on Monday
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 10:27 PM
Apr 2015

Not suggesting you don't feel ready, only that you have been through some incredibly major stuff the last week+ and the body can't recover if you don't give it time. Especially with something as integral as abdominal/hernia work that affects your every movement.

Be good to yourself, and may you heal fully and soon.

MrMickeysMom

(20,453 posts)
75. Warn people of the hospital system you were in, certainly the EMS who should be horse whipped
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 10:58 PM
Apr 2015

I'm very glad you are back, but someone should be alerted as to the poor first response you had. Once knowing about the surgery, they should have done a much better job of assessment, based on your swollen stomach and condition of skin. No doubt, vital signs wouldn't have been good… So what in the world is wrong with THEM?

Actue care system - bad! What WAS that hospital? Warn people!

Get well soon all the way, OJ.

Laffy Kat

(16,386 posts)
76. Well you were in hypovolemic shock for one thing.
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 10:59 PM
Apr 2015

What couldn't the doctor figure out about that? Jesus. That was a close one.

winter is coming

(11,785 posts)
80. Are you sure it didn't take? You could be so much cooler as one of the undead...
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 11:04 PM
Apr 2015

Glad you're still with us.

onethatcares

(16,178 posts)
82. ain't nothing I can add to this thread
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 11:30 PM
Apr 2015

it's one hell of a killer story. I'll be waiting for the rest.

OH, and glad you're alive to tell it.

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
83. So now you know what dying feels like.....
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 11:35 PM
Apr 2015

does it seem less scary now???

Now, about that surgeon error....I take it they are going to pay for all your hospital bills, yes?

I was thinking, as I read the part about your being unable to signal for help...
I gotta start taking my phone into the bedroom with me.
or have plenty of loud things to throw.
and I for one would be interested in the rest of your hospital adventures, as far as you are willing to share.

So very glad you did not leave us forever, Joe.
Welcome back.....

Enthusiast

(50,983 posts)
85. Ohio Joe, I could relate to every word you said.
Sun Apr 19, 2015, 12:01 AM
Apr 2015

I've been through some difficult medical shit. But I never died. Jesus Christ!

You are so fortunate to have a wonderful work place. And your brother!

I remember, my friends were at work. It was great to be with my friends. But we were losing our jobs. We had been acquisitioned out. That's tough when you're recovering from a life threatening accident.

I'm so glad you made it, bud. Geez.

still_one

(92,372 posts)
86. I am very glad you pulled through. You have been through a lot. One thing, a hernia operation
Sun Apr 19, 2015, 12:37 AM
Apr 2015

may be common, but it is not without risks. Not only a surgical error like you went through, but also
Infection complications, both which can be life threatening. There are also potential side effects that can cause a lot of unpleasant things for years. There is no question your case was mishandled in an awful way.

Wishing you a smooth and full recovery. Glad you are with us

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,683 posts)
88. My dear Ohio Joe!
Sun Apr 19, 2015, 01:28 AM
Apr 2015

Now look here, I've lost too many friends already! I'm just not ready to add you to that list, ya hear me???



SO GLAD you made it. SO GLAD.



And yes, since you love your job that much, by all means go into work Monday. But do listen to your body...If you don't feel well, don't go, and maybe see your doc. OK?

Gawd, man.

Warpy

(111,332 posts)
91. He'd obviously never had a perforated appendix
Sun Apr 19, 2015, 02:15 AM
Apr 2015

The best way to stay alive is to know when they're appropriate and when to tell them to treat something medically until it can't be treated any more.

Warpy

(111,332 posts)
90. I went down like a sack of wet manure on Monday
Sun Apr 19, 2015, 02:14 AM
Apr 2015

while I was in line to pay my taxes. They didn't do anything about my broken leg I kept telling them about until Wednesday, they were too focused on my perfectly healthy heart when what I told them was it's basically a nerve problem I've had since my 20s.

Oh, well, at least my kidneys are still stable, I'm at home, and the air cast is making hobbling around so much easier I'm not bothering with the crutches. Oh, and a nice guy picked the 2 envelopes stuffed with multiple pages of tax returns up and said the postage would be his treat, even though I was trying to hand him the money. There are still good people out there and I was due a reminder of it.

I'm glad we both survived to vote again.

The EMTs need a reality check and the people who listened to them are utter dimwits. However, maybe you need something with a drawer in it next to your bed for the edibles.

LeftishBrit

(41,209 posts)
92. Sorry to hear all this - how scary!
Sun Apr 19, 2015, 02:22 AM
Apr 2015

It sounds as though something went wrong with the first surgery? Anyway, I hope that there are no further problems whatsoever, and that you are soon 100% healthy!

Lisa0825

(14,487 posts)
94. So glad you came back and feel good enough to work already!
Sun Apr 19, 2015, 10:30 AM
Apr 2015

It's great that you work for such an awesome company that is genuinely concerned about their employees

Hotler

(11,443 posts)
96. I'm glad you are back with us and are doing better...
Sun Apr 19, 2015, 10:58 AM
Apr 2015

Get some good rest (sleep) and take care.
Peace
Hot.

calimary

(81,441 posts)
99. MAN, Ohio Joe! Holy Cow! What a story!
Sun Apr 19, 2015, 06:35 PM
Apr 2015

Glad you lived to tell the tale!

I'm told people who go through an experience as profound as this - come back and notice a new, or renewed, appreciation for the little stuff. The sights, the smells, the sounds, little miracles in every little day. You perceive things fresh, with new eyes and new ears, and maybe a whole new mindset.

Latest Discussions»General Discussion»So... I died last Sunday ...