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Mackenzie Moretters classmates didnt want to attend, so her Minnesota town pulled together to throw an epic celebration.
Jenny Moretter (left) and her daughter, Mackenzie, at Mackenzie's 10th birthday party. (Photo: Jenny Moretter/Facebook)
http://www.takepart.com/article/2015/04/20/after-moms-facebook-plea-hundreds-show-bullied-girls-birthday-party?cmpid=tpdaily-eml-2015-04-20
April 20, 2015 By Liz Dwyer
Staff Writer Liz Dwyer has written about race, parenting, and social justice for several national publications. She was previously education editor at Good.
Its the stuff of childhood nightmares: Youre so unpopular at school that no one wants to come to your birthday party. Thats the situation fourth grader Mackenzie Moretter, who has a rare genetic disorder called Sotos syndrome, found herself in last week after she distributed invitations to her classmates. But thanks to her mom Jenny Moretters savvy use of social media and the kindheartedness of other members of their community, the young girls celebration on Saturday in her hometown of Shakopee, Minnesota, was attended by about 300 people, including a player from the Minnesota Vikings.
Indeed, after Moretter discovered that her daughters 10th birthday party invitation received no RSVPs, she took to Facebook to ask other moms in the suburban Minneapolis community to stop by with their daughters.
Hello moms. Im writing because I have a beautiful daughter named Mackenzie who is turning 10. I recently invited several girls to her birthday party this Saturday. I got cancellations or no calls at all saying whether theyre coming or not, wrote Moretter.
The heartbroken mother went on to share that bringing gifts for Mackenzie wasnt necessary. Just stop by and wish her a happy birthday, she wrote.
FULL story at link.
Octafish
(55,745 posts)Thank you to the good people of Minnesota who created some great memories for a child.
secondwind
(16,903 posts)NewJeffCT
(56,828 posts)but not sure I would call it hating. As her parents said, the other kids are nice to her at school, but she doesn't have any close friends or kids she hangs out with. At that age, I think it's more the other kids being fearful of a kid that is different and not knowing any better.
appalachiablue
(41,132 posts)turbinetree
(24,701 posts)a great tribute to those families and the Minnesota Viking player to show up.
And it gave notice to the parents and the students that didn't show up that they were basically rude, that intolerance is not acceptable
yeoman6987
(14,449 posts)I think calling all of them names without a chance to explain themselves is rather unfair and nobody RSVPs anymore. Maybe some of the kids even showed up.
ProfessorGAC
(65,042 posts)I'm angry at the fact that nobody wanted to come. But, it's a feelgood story after all.
I'm mad and happy at the same time.
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LisaL
(44,973 posts)ChisolmTrailDem
(9,463 posts)know how their actions hurt a little girl who just wanted to have a birthday party.
treestar
(82,383 posts)that every single one could not make it. I'd think they need to look at the school, the classroom and figure out why those girls are so snotty, if that's the case. Possibly every one of them had something else to do, with all the scheduling they do of kids now.
ChisolmTrailDem
(9,463 posts)Not one RSVP or other indication that they would not be there was offered. Not one.
Those kids in that MN school and their parents need to have a good look in the mirror at themselves. That hundreds of total strangers showed up and not one classmate says all they need to know about their characters.
treestar
(82,383 posts)As you'd expect to hear more like they went out of their way to go to the girl's birthday party, since she does have a disability. I recall that football team that let the disabled kid make a touchdown. Kids in present day are usually more compassionate and sensitive than my generation was. So this is an odd story. But true it is not just feel good as they need to look in the mirror.
ChisolmTrailDem
(9,463 posts)the memory that clicked in my head: Why couldn't they have rallied around McKenzie like that football team rallied around their classmate?
NewJeffCT
(56,828 posts)that let the boy score a touchdown, if I recall? There is a big difference between high schoolers and kids in 4th grade that are 8 and 9 years old. I'd put the blame way more on the parents than the kids in this case. As the girl's dad said, the kids in the school were friendly to her, but she just didn't have friends. The parents should have taught their kids not to be fearful of kids and people that are different than them.
I'm glad that she ended up having a great birthday party, but I'm more sad about the other kids in her class being ignorant and fearful of their classmate. I just hope she can find a few real friends at school going forward.
jwirr
(39,215 posts)into classes for decades and it includes teaching tolerance. Most of our schools also have anti-bullying classes.
Some thing went really wrong here. Also I would guess that the parents and children in this 4th grade are very aware of how the community reacted and are NOW feeling pretty embarrassed. Or at least I hope so.
LisaL
(44,973 posts)It doesn't sound like anyone is actively bullying the child.
She is being ignored by her peers.
jwirr
(39,215 posts)yeoman6987
(14,449 posts)Bday party....not pretty.
treestar
(82,383 posts)I'm pretty sure most parents would advise their child to be kind to a kid with a disability.
allan01
(1,950 posts)never heard of this .
http://sotossyndrome.org/sotos-syndrome
1000 points for mom and her good use of social media.
LisaL
(44,973 posts)Since adults with this syndrome might be in a normal range of height and intellect.
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H2O Man
(73,537 posts)This shows that when people of good will step up, they can accomplish wonderful things. And have fun in doing so.
This is truly beautiful. Thank you for posting it.