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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsMy daughter is in Nepal. Here is a very direct way to help:
Last edited Mon Apr 27, 2015, 05:40 PM - Edit history (7)
EDIT TO ADD: My daughter and her group are not out of harm's way. Good vibes are most appreciated.
I used to be a staple on DU. There are plenty of people here who can vouch for the fact that I'm not a scammer. (The first response to my post is what prompts this paragraph.) This is me -- https://about.me/denapatrick -- or you can see my DU journal. People really should do a little due diligence (looking at post count, the journal, etc.) before questioning someone's legitimacy, though I do understand there have been scammers here and this community feels inundated with requests for help. Still...
My daughter (Taylor) is NOT the person who set up this fundraiser, nor is she a volunteer there. It is the trek guide (Deana) leading her group in Nepal who is in charge of this fundraiser and the work to be done with the funds.
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My 22-year-old daughter, Taylor, is on a three-week base camp trek with her dad (my ex); his dreamed of trip of a lifetime.
They left Kathmandu two days before the quake hit and were in a village called Namche when it hit. They're still there.
The company that organized the trek -- Mountain Madness -- has been absolutely fabulous about staying in touch with me and other family members. Even before losing contact, I knew Deana -- the trek guide -- must be amazing when my ex praised her, saying that the entire groups knows they are in good hands with her guiding them.
Knowing this, I want to share a direct way you can help the people in a few of the remote villages. Deana is boots on the ground, and the sherpas and porters they work with over there are amazing souls. They want to help them now.
Below is the link to the gofundme campaign set up to do this. (A friend of Deana's set it up on her behalf since Deana obviously doesn't have reliable connection right now.)
If you are looking for a very direct way to help some of the people of Nepal, please consider reading this and helping if you can.
"In the villages where our Sherpa and Rai staff come from, and throughout the region, homes are completely destroyed or so damaged that it would be dangerous to stay inside. Their families are displaced and have no shelter. We want to help them rebuild. The cost to rebuild and repair homes is roughly $5000-$10000 each. We will help as many people as we can."
Deana was in Namche Bazaar in the Everest region when the quake struck, having just left Kathmandu a few days earlier to guide an Everest Base Camp trek for 20 Americans and Canadians. Deana, the trekking group, and 26 Nepali staff are still in remote Nepal. In addition to being an award-winning trekking guide for Mountain Madness, Deana has worked in Nepal for 17 years, first as a Peace Corps Volunteer, and now as a guide and as co-founder of a nonprofit supporting local leaders and sustainable community development. She is deeply connected to the local communities and is in a unique position to hand the donations directly to the people who most need them to rebuild their homes.
NOTE: While Changing Lives Nepal is a donor fund and will continue its work with communities, this fundraising account is being established, which is NOT tax-deductible, in order to directly assist village families. We want the funds to flow as quickly and directly as possible to the hands of those who need them. We continue to be all-volunteer in the U.S. and we do not take any part of your donations for salaries or administration. If you prefer to make a tax-deductible donation to long-term community efforts please go to www.changinglivesnepal.org/donate.
http://www.gofundme.com/rebuildingnepal?fb_action_ids=10203700812830201&fb_action_types=og.shares&fb_ref=fb_cr_n
oldandhappy
(6,719 posts)Thanks anyway. I hope you really do have a daughter there and I hope she continues to be OK. Prayers for all.
OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)Older DUers recognize me as a staple here, and as someone who helped DUers (via Wishadoo) to help one another before it was permitted to post your own fundraisers on here.
No, I'm far from a scammer.
boston bean
(36,221 posts)I offer apologies on the posters behalf. We are suppose to be a bit better than that.
OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)I updated my OP to acknowledge the fact that newer DUers may not recognize me. I've been on DU forever but have been much more silent the last couple of years, though I have tried to re-engage more recently, to little avail.
We're supposed to be better than that, but DU hasn't been that supportive community I remember in a long while, even though I know people continue to rally around members here and there.
Thanks though.
boston bean
(36,221 posts)Take care and I am glad your daughter is ok.
OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)I haven't slept since 5:00 AM on Saturday when a friend in India called to tell me about the quake. I likely won't rest much at all until she is home, though we have no idea when that may be.
But they are obviously not in the immediate danger so many others are in; to say they were lucky is an understatement.
Thanks again.
redwitch
(14,944 posts)I represent a fair trade company based in Nepal. The owner founded it after his stint there in the Peace Corps. It's a women's collective and I was worried sick about the dear ones until I heard this morning that they all survived it and the founder of the company happened to be there when the quake struck and is also ok. I hope his Peace Corps training allows him to be of service to all that he can help.
I can only imagine how this feels for you!
OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)I'm glad they survived as well. Hopefully the risk of intense aftershocks are over now.
This is where my daughter is, and why the aftershocks w/risk of landslides are extra frightening:
redwitch
(14,944 posts)A landslide would be devastating!
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)murielm99
(30,745 posts)You have helped other people here.
Lochloosa
(16,066 posts)OneGrassRoot is not part of a scam.
OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)Lochloosa
(16,066 posts)Response to Lochloosa (Reply #6)
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Lochloosa
(16,066 posts)"ducks in a row"
DisgustipatedinCA
(12,530 posts)I won't vouch for many people on this website, but I will vouch for OneGrassRoot. Check your rudeness at the door next time.
OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)Nice to "see" you. Thanks for that.
mrmpa
(4,033 posts)A Little Weird
(1,754 posts)I can't imagine the fear and confusion that must follow a disaster of this magnitude. It's good to hear there are good people already getting to work on rebuilding in the devastated areas.
OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)the people of Nepal and the tourists (my daughter is the latter) experiencing it and witnessing it.
This will be a life-changing experience for my daughter, that's for certain.
lpbk2713
(42,759 posts)OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)Response to OneGrassRoot (Original post)
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OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)I can't answer your questions other than to say you probably don't want to contribute to this fund and shouldn't give it a second thought.
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OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)But you misinterpreted this from the start, and I don't have the energy to explain everything to you.
My daughter did not set up this fund. You'd have to read my original post again.
I am not directly involved either, but I appreciate and trust the people who are. I posted because I thought my trust of this fundraising campaign may allow others a way to contribute directly to the villagers' needs.
But that requires trust of me, and only older DUers have that.
So it's just not worth it...lol.
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OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)Deana's group is strictly volunteers. The money would be going directly to the rebuilding of the many homes damaged in the villages. She knows a lot of the people impacted directly, and would be helping them -- directly. Providing paying jobs for those who need it there (residents), needed materials, and transport of those materials.
Is there anything else I can try to answer for you?
NM_Birder
(1,591 posts)Send money and be gone !
Your post count is too low to allow you to question the authority of another.
lol sarcasm thingy.....sarcasm thingy.......sarcasm thingy
OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)My nerves are frazzled because my child is on the other side of the globe, in harm's way, and I haven't slept in over 48 hours.
I thought I could be useful by posting this here at DU -- a way to help directly, since most people seek such an opportunity -- and was thrown off guard when the first reply to my post was questioning my legitimacy, as though I'm a scammer.
I don't have the energy or patience at the moment to defend my post or explain details as though I have intimate knowledge; that's why I encouraged sendit to just disregard.
Cha
(297,323 posts)icymist
(15,888 posts)She sounds like a really good and tough woman! We'll get through this!
For all those who question OneGrassRoot's intentions, I can attest that she's the real deal.
OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)And appreciated.
Suich
(10,642 posts)Thanks for the link...gave a little, wish I could give more.
Best wishes for your daughter...she sounds awesome!
Take care of yourself...
OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)I know many people often prefer a direct way to help when they can feel comfortable regarding the source, so I wanted to offer this alternative once I saw the fundraiser set up.
My daughter is awesome, but she isn't a volunteer over there (yet, at least). She is simply there on a three-week trek with her dad when this tragedy struck. I don't want anyone having the mistaken impression that she is doing the volunteer work discussed at the gofundme link. Though I am curious if this experience may cause her to do just that: volunteer abroad.
Thanks so much.
Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)AuntPatsy
(9,904 posts)Octafish
(55,745 posts)Godspeed! Good luck!
Phentex
(16,334 posts)of course I remember you. Your name comes up often when people are looking for help from time to time. I hope you are well.
Sending good vibes for your daughter's (and group's!) safe return.
blm
(113,065 posts)There are a number of major earthquake survivors here at DU, and we understand the emotional demands on everyone involved.
marym625
(17,997 posts)Her father and all others on the trek and in Nepal
NYC_SKP
(68,644 posts)Sienna86
(2,149 posts)Thank you for that. Will check out this GoFundMe account. Would love to give where it will directly help others and not to admin costs. Good thoughts for your family over there.
Bluenorthwest
(45,319 posts)Nice to see you.
oldandhappy
(6,719 posts)I had just seen a warning on TV about people fund-raising on the tragedy in Nepal. Thank you for your edit. It helps. Prayers continue, smile.
kentauros
(29,414 posts)I just donated some and would hope plenty of other DUers donate as well, per their own ability to do so
Prayers and vibes to your daughter and her father!
steve2470
(37,457 posts)Cha
(297,323 posts)Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Good vibes sent, too.
barbtries
(28,799 posts)really feeling for what you must be going through right now. do you have any idea how soon they'll be getting back home? i will donate to help the people rebuild.