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OneGrassRoot

(22,920 posts)
Mon Apr 27, 2015, 03:24 PM Apr 2015

My daughter is in Nepal. Here is a very direct way to help:

Last edited Mon Apr 27, 2015, 05:40 PM - Edit history (7)

EDIT TO ADD: My daughter and her group are not out of harm's way. Good vibes are most appreciated.

I used to be a staple on DU. There are plenty of people here who can vouch for the fact that I'm not a scammer. (The first response to my post is what prompts this paragraph.) This is me -- https://about.me/denapatrick -- or you can see my DU journal. People really should do a little due diligence (looking at post count, the journal, etc.) before questioning someone's legitimacy, though I do understand there have been scammers here and this community feels inundated with requests for help. Still...

My daughter (Taylor) is NOT the person who set up this fundraiser, nor is she a volunteer there. It is the trek guide (Deana) leading her group in Nepal who is in charge of this fundraiser and the work to be done with the funds.

* * *

My 22-year-old daughter, Taylor, is on a three-week base camp trek with her dad (my ex); his dreamed of trip of a lifetime.

They left Kathmandu two days before the quake hit and were in a village called Namche when it hit. They're still there.

The company that organized the trek -- Mountain Madness -- has been absolutely fabulous about staying in touch with me and other family members. Even before losing contact, I knew Deana -- the trek guide -- must be amazing when my ex praised her, saying that the entire groups knows they are in good hands with her guiding them.

Knowing this, I want to share a direct way you can help the people in a few of the remote villages. Deana is boots on the ground, and the sherpas and porters they work with over there are amazing souls. They want to help them now.

Below is the link to the gofundme campaign set up to do this. (A friend of Deana's set it up on her behalf since Deana obviously doesn't have reliable connection right now.)

If you are looking for a very direct way to help some of the people of Nepal, please consider reading this and helping if you can.

"In the villages where our Sherpa and Rai staff come from, and throughout the region, homes are completely destroyed or so damaged that it would be dangerous to stay inside. Their families are displaced and have no shelter. We want to help them rebuild. The cost to rebuild and repair homes is roughly $5000-$10000 each. We will help as many people as we can."

Deana was in Namche Bazaar in the Everest region when the quake struck, having just left Kathmandu a few days earlier to guide an Everest Base Camp trek for 20 Americans and Canadians. Deana, the trekking group, and 26 Nepali staff are still in remote Nepal. In addition to being an award-winning trekking guide for Mountain Madness, Deana has worked in Nepal for 17 years, first as a Peace Corps Volunteer, and now as a guide and as co-founder of a nonprofit supporting local leaders and sustainable community development. She is deeply connected to the local communities and is in a unique position to hand the donations directly to the people who most need them to rebuild their homes.

NOTE: While Changing Lives Nepal is a donor fund and will continue its work with communities, this fundraising account is being established, which is NOT tax-deductible, in order to directly assist village families. We want the funds to flow as quickly and directly as possible to the hands of those who need them. We continue to be all-volunteer in the U.S. and we do not take any part of your donations for salaries or administration. If you prefer to make a tax-deductible donation to long-term community efforts please go to www.changinglivesnepal.org/donate.



http://www.gofundme.com/rebuildingnepal?fb_action_ids=10203700812830201&fb_action_types=og.shares&fb_ref=fb_cr_n
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My daughter is in Nepal. Here is a very direct way to help: (Original Post) OneGrassRoot Apr 2015 OP
I'm sticking with the tried and true regular agencies. oldandhappy Apr 2015 #1
I forget newer DUers don't recognize my name... OneGrassRoot Apr 2015 #2
That post to you was plain old rude. boston bean Apr 2015 #4
You may remember me, boston bean... OneGrassRoot Apr 2015 #5
Well, just doing a little rallying around you. boston bean Apr 2015 #7
It's appreciated. :) They're not out of harm's way... OneGrassRoot Apr 2015 #11
Prayers for all in the affected areas. redwitch Apr 2015 #30
What amazing work... OneGrassRoot Apr 2015 #32
Wow! Dizzying photo! redwitch Apr 2015 #40
WOW. Warren DeMontague Apr 2015 #49
I know you. murielm99 Apr 2015 #36
OneGrassRoot has helped many here. I understand the hesitance but you can be assured Lochloosa Apr 2015 #6
Thanks much, Lochloosa. :) n/t OneGrassRoot Apr 2015 #13
... Lochloosa Apr 2015 #20
Message auto-removed Name removed Apr 2015 #14
I'll try one more time. OneGrassRoot's would not have posted without the proverbial Lochloosa Apr 2015 #19
Do what you will, but OneGrassRoot is the real deal. DisgustipatedinCA Apr 2015 #9
Hey there... OneGrassRoot Apr 2015 #15
ditto.eom mrmpa Apr 2015 #38
I'm glad she's ok! A Little Weird Apr 2015 #3
Thanks. I can't imagine what they're going through... OneGrassRoot Apr 2015 #28
I hope they remain safe. lpbk2713 Apr 2015 #8
Thank you. So do I! n/t OneGrassRoot Apr 2015 #29
Message auto-removed Name removed Apr 2015 #10
No, my daughter didn't set it up. OneGrassRoot Apr 2015 #12
Message auto-removed Name removed Apr 2015 #16
It is. OneGrassRoot Apr 2015 #18
Message auto-removed Name removed Apr 2015 #21
Materials and to provide an income to locals (labor in the process of rebuilding... OneGrassRoot Apr 2015 #23
how dare you ask peritnent questions !? NM_Birder Apr 2015 #34
My apologies to you and sendit... OneGrassRoot Apr 2015 #37
Yeah, they were so "pertinent" he got his name removed. Cha Apr 2015 #48
I don't have money to give at the moment, but prayers, vibes, good thoughts are with you. icymist Apr 2015 #17
Thanks, icymist...prayers, vibes and good thoughts are priceless. OneGrassRoot Apr 2015 #24
It's great to see you again, OneGrassRoot! Suich Apr 2015 #22
You're very kind... OneGrassRoot Apr 2015 #26
kick Liberal_in_LA Apr 2015 #25
Sorry to hear about your daughter and Husband, hope they come home safely... AuntPatsy Apr 2015 #27
Great to read she's OK, OneGrassRoot! Octafish Apr 2015 #31
You helped many, many people here at DU... Phentex Apr 2015 #33
Glad to see you again, 1GR - sorry it's because of such devastation. blm Apr 2015 #35
As many good vibes as is possible for your daughter, marym625 Apr 2015 #39
Recommended. (nt) NYC_SKP Apr 2015 #41
Hi OneGrassRoot! You've been so helpful to others on DU through the years. Sienna86 Apr 2015 #42
I add my endorsement of OneGrassRoot Bluenorthwest Apr 2015 #43
I stand corrected. oldandhappy Apr 2015 #44
Thanks for promoting this, OGR! kentauros Apr 2015 #45
kick and rec! nt steve2470 Apr 2015 #46
Mahalo, OneGrassRoot~ Cha Apr 2015 #47
K&R Warren DeMontague Apr 2015 #50
i've been checking your fb several times a day. barbtries Apr 2015 #51

oldandhappy

(6,719 posts)
1. I'm sticking with the tried and true regular agencies.
Mon Apr 27, 2015, 03:32 PM
Apr 2015

Thanks anyway. I hope you really do have a daughter there and I hope she continues to be OK. Prayers for all.

OneGrassRoot

(22,920 posts)
2. I forget newer DUers don't recognize my name...
Mon Apr 27, 2015, 03:40 PM
Apr 2015

Older DUers recognize me as a staple here, and as someone who helped DUers (via Wishadoo) to help one another before it was permitted to post your own fundraisers on here.

No, I'm far from a scammer.

boston bean

(36,221 posts)
4. That post to you was plain old rude.
Mon Apr 27, 2015, 03:42 PM
Apr 2015

I offer apologies on the posters behalf. We are suppose to be a bit better than that.

OneGrassRoot

(22,920 posts)
5. You may remember me, boston bean...
Mon Apr 27, 2015, 03:45 PM
Apr 2015

I updated my OP to acknowledge the fact that newer DUers may not recognize me. I've been on DU forever but have been much more silent the last couple of years, though I have tried to re-engage more recently, to little avail.

We're supposed to be better than that, but DU hasn't been that supportive community I remember in a long while, even though I know people continue to rally around members here and there.

Thanks though.

OneGrassRoot

(22,920 posts)
11. It's appreciated. :) They're not out of harm's way...
Mon Apr 27, 2015, 03:50 PM
Apr 2015

I haven't slept since 5:00 AM on Saturday when a friend in India called to tell me about the quake. I likely won't rest much at all until she is home, though we have no idea when that may be.

But they are obviously not in the immediate danger so many others are in; to say they were lucky is an understatement.

Thanks again.

redwitch

(14,944 posts)
30. Prayers for all in the affected areas.
Mon Apr 27, 2015, 04:35 PM
Apr 2015

I represent a fair trade company based in Nepal. The owner founded it after his stint there in the Peace Corps. It's a women's collective and I was worried sick about the dear ones until I heard this morning that they all survived it and the founder of the company happened to be there when the quake struck and is also ok. I hope his Peace Corps training allows him to be of service to all that he can help.

I can only imagine how this feels for you!

OneGrassRoot

(22,920 posts)
32. What amazing work...
Mon Apr 27, 2015, 04:51 PM
Apr 2015

I'm glad they survived as well. Hopefully the risk of intense aftershocks are over now.

This is where my daughter is, and why the aftershocks w/risk of landslides are extra frightening:







Lochloosa

(16,066 posts)
6. OneGrassRoot has helped many here. I understand the hesitance but you can be assured
Mon Apr 27, 2015, 03:46 PM
Apr 2015

OneGrassRoot is not part of a scam.

Response to Lochloosa (Reply #6)

 

DisgustipatedinCA

(12,530 posts)
9. Do what you will, but OneGrassRoot is the real deal.
Mon Apr 27, 2015, 03:50 PM
Apr 2015

I won't vouch for many people on this website, but I will vouch for OneGrassRoot. Check your rudeness at the door next time.

A Little Weird

(1,754 posts)
3. I'm glad she's ok!
Mon Apr 27, 2015, 03:40 PM
Apr 2015

I can't imagine the fear and confusion that must follow a disaster of this magnitude. It's good to hear there are good people already getting to work on rebuilding in the devastated areas.

OneGrassRoot

(22,920 posts)
28. Thanks. I can't imagine what they're going through...
Mon Apr 27, 2015, 04:19 PM
Apr 2015

the people of Nepal and the tourists (my daughter is the latter) experiencing it and witnessing it.

This will be a life-changing experience for my daughter, that's for certain.





Response to OneGrassRoot (Original post)

OneGrassRoot

(22,920 posts)
12. No, my daughter didn't set it up.
Mon Apr 27, 2015, 03:51 PM
Apr 2015

I can't answer your questions other than to say you probably don't want to contribute to this fund and shouldn't give it a second thought.

Response to OneGrassRoot (Reply #12)

OneGrassRoot

(22,920 posts)
18. It is.
Mon Apr 27, 2015, 03:56 PM
Apr 2015

But you misinterpreted this from the start, and I don't have the energy to explain everything to you.

My daughter did not set up this fund. You'd have to read my original post again.

I am not directly involved either, but I appreciate and trust the people who are. I posted because I thought my trust of this fundraising campaign may allow others a way to contribute directly to the villagers' needs.

But that requires trust of me, and only older DUers have that.

So it's just not worth it...lol.

Response to OneGrassRoot (Reply #18)

OneGrassRoot

(22,920 posts)
23. Materials and to provide an income to locals (labor in the process of rebuilding...
Mon Apr 27, 2015, 04:08 PM
Apr 2015

Deana's group is strictly volunteers. The money would be going directly to the rebuilding of the many homes damaged in the villages. She knows a lot of the people impacted directly, and would be helping them -- directly. Providing paying jobs for those who need it there (residents), needed materials, and transport of those materials.

Is there anything else I can try to answer for you?

 

NM_Birder

(1,591 posts)
34. how dare you ask peritnent questions !?
Mon Apr 27, 2015, 04:59 PM
Apr 2015


Send money and be gone !
Your post count is too low to allow you to question the authority of another.


lol sarcasm thingy.....sarcasm thingy.......sarcasm thingy

OneGrassRoot

(22,920 posts)
37. My apologies to you and sendit...
Mon Apr 27, 2015, 05:07 PM
Apr 2015

My nerves are frazzled because my child is on the other side of the globe, in harm's way, and I haven't slept in over 48 hours.

I thought I could be useful by posting this here at DU -- a way to help directly, since most people seek such an opportunity -- and was thrown off guard when the first reply to my post was questioning my legitimacy, as though I'm a scammer.

I don't have the energy or patience at the moment to defend my post or explain details as though I have intimate knowledge; that's why I encouraged sendit to just disregard.

icymist

(15,888 posts)
17. I don't have money to give at the moment, but prayers, vibes, good thoughts are with you.
Mon Apr 27, 2015, 03:55 PM
Apr 2015

She sounds like a really good and tough woman! We'll get through this!

For all those who question OneGrassRoot's intentions, I can attest that she's the real deal.

Suich

(10,642 posts)
22. It's great to see you again, OneGrassRoot!
Mon Apr 27, 2015, 04:07 PM
Apr 2015

Thanks for the link...gave a little, wish I could give more.

Best wishes for your daughter...she sounds awesome!

Take care of yourself...

OneGrassRoot

(22,920 posts)
26. You're very kind...
Mon Apr 27, 2015, 04:16 PM
Apr 2015

I know many people often prefer a direct way to help when they can feel comfortable regarding the source, so I wanted to offer this alternative once I saw the fundraiser set up.

My daughter is awesome, but she isn't a volunteer over there (yet, at least). She is simply there on a three-week trek with her dad when this tragedy struck. I don't want anyone having the mistaken impression that she is doing the volunteer work discussed at the gofundme link. Though I am curious if this experience may cause her to do just that: volunteer abroad.

Thanks so much.

Phentex

(16,334 posts)
33. You helped many, many people here at DU...
Mon Apr 27, 2015, 04:56 PM
Apr 2015

of course I remember you. Your name comes up often when people are looking for help from time to time. I hope you are well.

Sending good vibes for your daughter's (and group's!) safe return.

blm

(113,065 posts)
35. Glad to see you again, 1GR - sorry it's because of such devastation.
Mon Apr 27, 2015, 05:01 PM
Apr 2015

There are a number of major earthquake survivors here at DU, and we understand the emotional demands on everyone involved.

marym625

(17,997 posts)
39. As many good vibes as is possible for your daughter,
Mon Apr 27, 2015, 05:18 PM
Apr 2015

Her father and all others on the trek and in Nepal

Sienna86

(2,149 posts)
42. Hi OneGrassRoot! You've been so helpful to others on DU through the years.
Mon Apr 27, 2015, 05:33 PM
Apr 2015

Thank you for that. Will check out this GoFundMe account. Would love to give where it will directly help others and not to admin costs. Good thoughts for your family over there.

oldandhappy

(6,719 posts)
44. I stand corrected.
Mon Apr 27, 2015, 06:43 PM
Apr 2015

I had just seen a warning on TV about people fund-raising on the tragedy in Nepal. Thank you for your edit. It helps. Prayers continue, smile.

kentauros

(29,414 posts)
45. Thanks for promoting this, OGR!
Mon Apr 27, 2015, 10:41 PM
Apr 2015

I just donated some and would hope plenty of other DUers donate as well, per their own ability to do so

Prayers and vibes to your daughter and her father!

barbtries

(28,799 posts)
51. i've been checking your fb several times a day.
Tue Apr 28, 2015, 07:06 AM
Apr 2015

really feeling for what you must be going through right now. do you have any idea how soon they'll be getting back home? i will donate to help the people rebuild.

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