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Could snuggling up in bed and reading a bedtime story to your children ever be a bad thing?
An ABC Radio National program about whether Having a loving family is an unfair advantage has questioned whether bedtime reading is causing an uneven playing field for more unfortunate children.
British academic Adam Swift told ABC presenter Joe Gelonesi the benefits of the time-honoured custom were greater than a private school education.
Evidence shows that the difference between those who get bedtime stories and those who dont the difference in their life chances is bigger than the difference between those who get elite private schooling and those that dont, Mr Swift said.
According to Mr Swift, the devilish twist was whether bedtime stories should be restricted.
Read more at http://www.9news.com.au/national/2015/05/05/09/44/bedtime-reading-could-disadvantage-other-children-academic-says#4QfXyedfVOuq05pE.99
SheilaT
(23,156 posts)I read to them during the day. So I guess they weren't unfairly advantaged over other kids.
winter is coming
(11,785 posts)In general, kids love being read to, and it's a great way to transition them from physical activity into something calmer.
Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)bravenak
(34,648 posts)angstlessk
(11,862 posts)"When the red red robin comes a bob bob bobbin along..." head under floorboard
JI7
(89,250 posts)instead of viewing it as disadvantaging other kids why not encourage it for all kids ?
frazzled
(18,402 posts)I feel like I'm living in the middle of crazy. I like crazy if it's something meant to be crazy. But not news, and not health or education "studies."
yeoman6987
(14,449 posts)Who thought of this dumb study? I guess a person who was not read to as a child. Every child is read too. If not bought books then books from the library. Such nonsense study.
No thought given as to why parents might not read at bedtime, either. Exhausted from working multiple jobs? Not that well-educated themselves, so they never became a reader? Can't afford books and can't get to the library when it's open?
SheilaT
(23,156 posts)I happened not to ever have a story at bedtime as part of my routine either as a child or as a parent. Although I did love reading to them, and had the time and energy to do it during the day.
Because of the things you offered as to why a parent might not read to a child, many elementary teachers have regular reading to kids as part of the day. I was fortunate enough to have teachers doing that as late as 6th grade. I was in a classroom full of excellent readers, and we all loved being read to.
winter is coming
(11,785 posts)We'd come in from afternoon recess (yes, we had recess twice a day, so clearly I'm a dinosaur) and the teacher would read to us while we cooled down or warmed up from being outside.
cali
(114,904 posts)To even entertain the idea that bedtime reading disadvantages other children is moronic. Hey, I must have been especially bad as I read my kid such elitist material as TS Eliot
hedda_foil
(16,375 posts)Because he sure reads like the famous satirist.
whatchamacallit
(15,558 posts)this may be the dumbest thing I ever have
Tierra_y_Libertad
(50,414 posts)My older bro and sisters taught me to read because they were tired of reading to me.
When I started school I had to skip kindergarten because I was too "advanced".
I bless them for being lazy and teaching me to read. I've been a reader all my life and still love books.
pnwmom
(108,978 posts)who have less careful or nurturing parents.
So I guess all children should be neglected, just to be fair.
lumberjack_jeff
(33,224 posts)The remedy for "too much privilege" is to bring everyone to the least common denominator.
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)jump an ocean full of sharks.
Adrahil
(13,340 posts)What. The. Fuck?
HappyMe
(20,277 posts)Christ on a cracker, this is about the stupidest pile of crap ever.
philosslayer
(3,076 posts)Parents SHOULD be aware of the advantages that are conveyed upon their children, and be compassionate and supportive of those who don't get that type of support from their parents. Its all about being aware of privilege. Be it white, academic, or whatever.
exboyfil
(17,863 posts)I explained this to my daughter once when she thought that Affirmative Action was unfair. I told her to think about all the advantages that we have given her to start her life when compared to another child. I was glad that she did her CNA class at a satellite campus that was in an impoverished area of our metro area. She met struggling single mothers who were trying to get qualified to do a very hard job without enough pay. It was far better for my daughter to be in class with these women than at the high school with others privileged like herself.
LeftInTX
(25,342 posts)Wake the **** Up
Go the **** to Sleep
PowerToThePeople
(9,610 posts)they would both make it just fine.
yeoman6987
(14,449 posts)france, Italy, Greece just to name a few.
PowerToThePeople
(9,610 posts)nice try though.
former9thward
(32,012 posts)So many think they are socialist. I guess that is as far as we can agree though.
seveneyes
(4,631 posts)Tom said Swiftly.
Iggo
(47,554 posts)That's an argument for NOT reading to your kids?
Kookooville, next stop.
REP
(21,691 posts)Outraged I say!
gollygee
(22,336 posts)unblock
(52,240 posts)gollygee
(22,336 posts)You have to allow parents to engage in bedtime stories activities, in fact we encourage them because those are the kinds of interactions between parents and children that do indeed foster and produce these (desired) familial relationship goods.
But parents should be mindful of the advantage provided by bedtime reading, he said.
unblock
(52,240 posts)Pooka Fey
(3,496 posts)Parents, please keep reading to your kids. Your kids, your responsibility.
Co-dependant boundary-lacking neurosis-inducing crap. The article was written to get you to click and see the ads. Period.
jonno99
(2,620 posts)(fyi - I employ pop-up & "Flash" blockers on my browser, so I can't speak to what this site generates)
http://www.abc.net.au/radionational/programs/philosopherszone/new-family-values/6437058
The "money" quote:
The evidence shows that the difference between those who get bedtime stories and those who dontthe difference in their life chancesis bigger than the difference between those who get elite private schooling and those that dont, he says.
Pooka Fey
(3,496 posts)Not interested in this framing mechanism. I try to avoid insanity-inducing gas-lighting academics who depend on shock-value to bolster book sales and word-cloud false outrage internet discussions.
Thanks anyway, though.
jonno99
(2,620 posts)dig a little deeper in an attempt to get the "real" story.
IMO, the author of the OP (ninemsn?) did us a disservice and twisted the intent of the of the two philosophers "work".
Overall, their conclusions are fairly well reasoned and not so fantastic as we we led to believe - by the OP.
tifwiw...
PowerToThePeople
(9,610 posts)is the same as "love their children" vs neglect their children.
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MisterP
(23,730 posts)Generic Other
(28,979 posts)Everyone is equal.