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jaysunb

(11,856 posts)
Sat May 30, 2015, 11:48 PM May 2015

I'm not usually the sentimental type, but, at this

moment I'm feeling overwhelming sorrow for Joe Biden.
As someone who has been on my life's radar for so many years, a guy I've admired, identified with, cheered for...I'm hurt for him. As a guy my age, a parent, a sharer of decent human values, my heart is broken for him.

I can't imagine losing even one of my children......

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Cha

(297,655 posts)
10. Oh yes you can, J17.. Their hearts are aching with grief.. So much history..
Sun May 31, 2015, 12:49 AM
May 2015

Blake Hounshell
✔ ?@blakehounshell
Beau Biden, age 4, watches from his hospital bed as did Joe is sworn in to the Senate. RIP. http://politi.co/1RA91d4
4:54 PM - 30 May 2015

http://theobamadiary.com/2015/05/30/rip-beau-biden/

applegrove

(118,778 posts)
4. I get hit these days when I hear of someone young dying
Sun May 31, 2015, 12:17 AM
May 2015

because my mom passed away a month ago after a long illness at the age of 83. We were lucky that she had a full life. I'm sad she's not here. The world is scary without her in it. But we had her for a full life. And someone like Beau Biden's death juxtaposes with those feelings and I feel grief for his family. Those poor kids. What they must be feeling tonight.

DesertFlower

(11,649 posts)
16. i lost my husband of 42 years 3 years
Sun May 31, 2015, 11:11 PM
May 2015

ago to an inoperable brain tumor. my world is scary without him.

lost my mom in '08, but i lost her a few years before that to dementia.

i miss them both.

applegrove

(118,778 posts)
17. My mom had dementia for years. Still I cherished the time
Sun May 31, 2015, 11:20 PM
May 2015

I had with her at the end. We are a quiet lot my family. It isn't that she and I had long talks ever in our relationships. My mom loved with her actions not her words. And in thinking about her whole life these past weeks I have reconnected to the good advice she gave me when I was a tween. And how I wish I had listened instead of following friends. I have figured out that advice about myself recently. It is now my bliss. And I'll think of her as that young mum often as I live it.

DesertFlower

(11,649 posts)
18. after my tumultuous teen years,
Sun May 31, 2015, 11:25 PM
May 2015

when i drove my mom crazy, she became my best friend. we were able to talk about everything. losing her to dementia hurt especially when she didn't recognize me. the interesting thing is the last time i saw her she knew me.

she really liked my husband too and he was great with her.

applegrove

(118,778 posts)
19. So sorry for all your losses. It is not that they are gone, it is just that your
Sun May 31, 2015, 11:34 PM
May 2015

relationship to them has changed ...... one more time I have been saying to myself.

 

SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
7. I have two grown sons, and I can't begin to imagine
Sun May 31, 2015, 12:37 AM
May 2015

what it would be like to lose either of them.

Recently, there was a crisis with my younger son. The details don't matter, but I spent time with him trying very hard to make him understand how much I love him, and how devastated I'd be to lose him.

It's hard to imagine anything worse than losing a child. About the only comfort here is that at least Beau Biden had 46 years of life. Not long enough, I know. But the pain of losing a young child must be even worse.

 

SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
13. My sons are 32 and 28,
Sun May 31, 2015, 02:44 AM
May 2015

significantly younger than Beau Biden. They are adults, and were I to lose either of them, I'd console myself with how long they've already lived. I also believe in an afterlife (don't expect you to, that's okay) which helps me. But even with that belief, I'd be devastated to lose them.

eissa

(4,238 posts)
12. No parent should bury their child
Sun May 31, 2015, 01:34 AM
May 2015

I can't imagine the pain the Bidens are suffering through. My heart aches for them.

Siwsan

(26,289 posts)
15. Reading this news has put my empathy into hyper drive
Sun May 31, 2015, 08:43 AM
May 2015

I've been crying since I first read about his death. I lost both my sister and mother, in the past 5 months, so I have a good idea what this family is going through.

RebelOne

(30,947 posts)
20. I am 76 and my son is 53 and my daughter is 58.
Sun May 31, 2015, 11:42 PM
May 2015

And I am worried that I may outlive them as they are both overweight which could cause health problems. I am not overweight, and my only health problem is high blood pressure which is genetic in my family.

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