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Mon Jun 8, 2015, 10:10 AM Jun 2015

‘I could have died, too’ says driver hit by ‘shamed’ girl who jumped from bridge

‘I could have died, too’ says driver hit by ‘shamed’ girl who jumped from bridge

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By Michael E. Miller June 8 at 4:57 AM
@MikeMillerDC

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Laxamana died on May 30, roughly 24 hours after throwing herself off an interstate overpass in Tacoma, Wash., and onto Frutos’s passing car. ... As tragic as the 13-year-old’s death is, it’s what happened shortly before the suicide that is causing outrage. ... Days before the teen’s death, Laxamana’s father cut off her hair on camera in an apparent attempt to shame his daughter for “getting messed up.”

(Inside Tumblr’s teen suicide epidemic)

Suicides, especially teen suicides, are a complex matter. Experts always caution that it’s usually too simple to blame a single event and that the majority of young people who take their own lives have a mental disorder, often “undiagnosed, untreated or both.”

A message Laxamana posted online last August hinted at deeper troubles. “I feel hated most of the time im in school i feel looked down on and i get judged alot” (sic) she wrote. “In a school with so many people its weird to say ‘i feel alone’ but the truth is that you really do feel alone.”

Still, a local blog directly blamed the shaming video for Laxamana’s suicide. And on a Facebook page called “Justice for Izabel,” commenters called for the father to be prosecuted or publicly shamed himself.
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