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FlaGatorJD

(364 posts)
Fri Jun 26, 2015, 12:45 PM Jun 2015

I Hope Southern Democrats Have Short Memories

Because a lot of us pissed off right now


We are being attacked daily in the press, and here on DU,
for nothing more than where we were born.
Yes, go ahead and burn every flag, wipe out every
statue, and you'll need to burn every history book which
ever said anything good about the South, ever!

I'm fucking sick of this shit. If you can't stop and make
a distinction between the history of the South, idiot
racist rednecks, and everyone else, then you're no better
than the asshole racists.

I've worked on every Democratic presidential campaign
in some form or another most of my adult life.
However, I'm afraid when it comes time for me to help and to
recruit volunteers next Fall for our Northern candidate,
I will have to do some major soul searching. If the campaign
were tomorrow, you'd have to bring your own damn volunteers,
because I wouldn't be helping, nor would any of my other Democratic friends.

If you continue to bash and denigrate everyone living in the South,
it may make it difficult to win FL or VA, which are
usually considered vital to a presidential win.

Anyone who remains in an abusive situation, without resistance,
is a victim, or they may not have the ability or capacity to speak up.
I am none of these. I am a proud Southerner, and for now,
I'm still a proud Southern Democrat , but I'm struggling
with the Democrat part right now.









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I Hope Southern Democrats Have Short Memories (Original Post) FlaGatorJD Jun 2015 OP
Haven't seen any Democrats attacked. Kingofalldems Jun 2015 #1
today, you are struggling with being a democrat.... Okay..... boston bean Jun 2015 #2
Nobody's bashing all southerners. MineralMan Jun 2015 #3
+1 Orrex Jun 2015 #14
I'm a southern Democrat. mmonk Jun 2015 #4
I can only imagine how difficult life must be for you LanternWaste Jun 2015 #5
I'm only bashing the defenders of that flag and all it represents. Iggo Jun 2015 #6
Actually it is, and that's why the OP is so mad n/t kcr Jun 2015 #22
I am a proud Southern Democrat. NOLALady Jun 2015 #7
++++100000 kelliekat44 Jun 2015 #31
I would hope southern democrats would have the good sense and sound reasoning to understand fishwax Jun 2015 #8
I'm a Democrat born & raised in the south arcane1 Jun 2015 #9
this is putting you in an abusive situation? snooper2 Jun 2015 #10
If their handle is correct, they are surrounded by some of the best fishing in the country. NCTraveler Jun 2015 #24
You're not under attack. Southern Democrats are not under attack. NuclearDem Jun 2015 #11
exactly, no one is attacking the south only the racist flags after black people samsingh Jun 2015 #19
That is absolutely correct. hifiguy Jun 2015 #37
its called critical thinking olddots Jun 2015 #12
How does bashing the slavery flag equate to bashing southerners? Orrex Jun 2015 #13
You're right, I take it back, there's no South bashing going on here. FlaGatorJD Jun 2015 #15
Exactly. One post now and then, but certainly not "daily" arcane1 Jun 2015 #23
If it were occasional, it would be tolerable: It's Not FlaGatorJD Jun 2015 #26
I'm a Southern Dem as well... Whiskeytide Jun 2015 #16
Thanks FlaGatorJD Jun 2015 #27
There is hope. If you - Gator in your name - Whiskeytide Jun 2015 #34
Just tired of this shit, man FlaGatorJD Jun 2015 #35
LOL Cali_Democrat Jun 2015 #17
I've lived in the south my whole life. Third Doctor Jun 2015 #18
shouldn't you be concerned about the black people murdered by a racist supported samsingh Jun 2015 #20
Take a look just east of 441 in Gainsville. NCTraveler Jun 2015 #21
So your feelings are hurt? Get over it. The vast vast majority here understand that you exist and... winstars Jun 2015 #25
Oy - Today of all days you decide to say this...wow randys1 Jun 2015 #28
A great day for America FlaGatorJD Jun 2015 #33
Germany doesn't fly Nazi flags to 'celebrate their history'. Erich Bloodaxe BSN Jun 2015 #29
Youre angry at the North? bunnies Jun 2015 #30
Born and raised in the South. Laffy Kat Jun 2015 #32
Born in Philadelphia, grew up in Miami, RebelOne Jun 2015 #36

MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
3. Nobody's bashing all southerners.
Fri Jun 26, 2015, 12:50 PM
Jun 2015

This is about a flag that has long stood for racism and slavery. Before that, it stood for a treasonous war that cost 100s of thousands of lives. That is what people are talking about.

If you defend that flag, I have to wonder what you think it really means to people.

mmonk

(52,589 posts)
4. I'm a southern Democrat.
Fri Jun 26, 2015, 12:53 PM
Jun 2015

My struggles are that I'm a New Deal one as well. I don't as much care about what others think at this point. I'll gladly take these wins that have come across and still fight the others ahead of us like restoring fully The Voting Rights Act and taking down Citizens United.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
5. I can only imagine how difficult life must be for you
Fri Jun 26, 2015, 12:56 PM
Jun 2015

It's difficult for me to allow any real credibility to anyone who dismisses another simply for place of birth. I can only imagine how difficult life must be for you and anyone else who invests so much emotion into the inconsequential opinions of others, and predicates your party allegiance on irrelevancies.


"I'm afraid when it comes time for me to help and to recruit volunteers next Fall for our Northern candidate, I will have to do some major soul searching..."
Then you merely indict others for something you yourself will be doing... and in doing so, illustrate that your own ethical decisions rests on that of others rather than your own conscience.

I'll kick back on the patio tonight, deep in the heart of Texas and allow everyone who dismisses, insults or trivializes the south en toto no more and no less legitimacy, credibility and validity they indeed and in fact, warrant. Being a southern Democrat myself, I find little pride in the happenstance of birthplace and the imaginary red and blue lines on a map so many invest in.

NOLALady

(4,003 posts)
7. I am a proud Southern Democrat.
Fri Jun 26, 2015, 12:57 PM
Jun 2015

But, I am not struggling with anything.

I know that the attack on the racist flag and racist Southerners is not an attack on me.

fishwax

(29,149 posts)
8. I would hope southern democrats would have the good sense and sound reasoning to understand
Fri Jun 26, 2015, 12:57 PM
Jun 2015

that an attack on the confederate flag is not an attack on all southerners, nor is a critique of the confederacy an attack on all southerners, nor is a review of the sins of Jim Crow an attack on all southerners.

Most of the southern democrats I've known get that, I think, and are likewise critical of the flag, the confederacy, and the racist heritage that they're actually trying really hard to move the south past--not by defending the south against critique with words, but by trying to create a more just and equitable world.

 

arcane1

(38,613 posts)
9. I'm a Democrat born & raised in the south
Fri Jun 26, 2015, 12:58 PM
Jun 2015

And I can't say I've seen any of this. I've seen criticism of the flag, and of those who support what it represents, but nothing to bash "all" from the south. Maybe a poster now and then paints with a broad brush, but they're a small minority based on what I've seen.

And why would you change party affiliation based on things done "in the press, and here on DU"? I don't understand that

 

snooper2

(30,151 posts)
10. this is putting you in an abusive situation?
Fri Jun 26, 2015, 12:58 PM
Jun 2015

LOL

Want to come to Texas and go fishing? Might take your mind off things

 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
24. If their handle is correct, they are surrounded by some of the best fishing in the country.
Fri Jun 26, 2015, 01:18 PM
Jun 2015

Similar to many coastal areas in Texas. Talking about combining the best of fresh and saltwater. In Gainesville one can catch a ten pound Largemouth Bass and a thirty some inch Redfish in the same day. Slightly different locations of course. As a fisherperson it is something Florida and Texas share. Big ass Bass and Redfish, all within miles of one and other.

 

NuclearDem

(16,184 posts)
11. You're not under attack. Southern Democrats are not under attack.
Fri Jun 26, 2015, 01:00 PM
Jun 2015

The fucking Dixie swastika and its neo-Confederate fetishists are.

samsingh

(17,599 posts)
19. exactly, no one is attacking the south only the racist flags after black people
Fri Jun 26, 2015, 01:09 PM
Jun 2015

where murdered by a racist

 

arcane1

(38,613 posts)
23. Exactly. One post now and then, but certainly not "daily"
Fri Jun 26, 2015, 01:13 PM
Jun 2015

And it certainly doesn't justify changing party affiliation just because an occasional offensive post appears on a discussion forum.

FlaGatorJD

(364 posts)
26. If it were occasional, it would be tolerable: It's Not
Fri Jun 26, 2015, 01:44 PM
Jun 2015

Here's a reputable poster calling out South Bashing too,
and this was before the ramped up South hate and the recent flag controversy:

South Bashing

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10026489022

For the record, because I'm defending an onslaught of insults based
on where I was born, one should not infer the following,
as some replies imply:

1. I deny racism or support the flag, I DON"T,
I also DO NOT support burning flags to incite violence.

2. I am not deeply saddened by the events in Charleston, and
to state or imply that, is offensive.

Thank you all for your contributions. Anyone stating this is all
about the flag hasn't been reading the most recent threads.
Believe it or not, region bashing used to be considered a problem
here, when it was just obnoxious. Now, it's become institutionalized
and is no longer unacceptable. That sits well with the overall
angrier tone here.

C'est la vie. I'll spend my time elsewhere





Whiskeytide

(4,461 posts)
16. I'm a Southern Dem as well...
Fri Jun 26, 2015, 01:07 PM
Jun 2015

... and I understand your frustration. I look at it this way: I have no problem with attacking the government sanction of the flag, or the southern racists that, undeniably, are here. They deserve it.

When I see a post that attacks the South or southerners generally, however, I simply consider myself informed that they are likely a bigoted, short sighted and poorly informed individual who is posting on irrational emotion rather than reasoned logic. And, like my momma taught me, I simply say "bless their heart".

Works for me, anyway.

Whiskeytide

(4,461 posts)
34. There is hope. If you - Gator in your name -
Fri Jun 26, 2015, 02:57 PM
Jun 2015

... and I - Tide in mine - can find common ground, there must be a future for mankind! SEC!

 

Cali_Democrat

(30,439 posts)
17. LOL
Fri Jun 26, 2015, 01:07 PM
Jun 2015

Your confederate flag is a symbol of slavery, discrimination and oppression.

If we lose a few southerners over the flag, so be it.

Third Doctor

(1,574 posts)
18. I've lived in the south my whole life.
Fri Jun 26, 2015, 01:08 PM
Jun 2015

My struggle is with being surrounded by intolerant right wingers that want to force their archaic beliefs on the public. I'm focused on social justice. I personally bash the confederate flag for what it represents in modern times . It is a article of history which means it should be in museums and history books not waving on state grounds. Initially it represented treason.

samsingh

(17,599 posts)
20. shouldn't you be concerned about the black people murdered by a racist supported
Fri Jun 26, 2015, 01:09 PM
Jun 2015

by supporters of the confederate battle flag?

 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
21. Take a look just east of 441 in Gainsville.
Fri Jun 26, 2015, 01:10 PM
Jun 2015

The south is still alive and well. Look at the people doing the low paying jobs that serve the university. Yep, all from east of 441. Then keep driving right down the road to Rodman Reservoir. Not a far trip at all. Yep, you will pass plenty of twenty foot wooden crosses in front yards, with extremely poorly treated pitt bulls to protect those crosses, and confederate flags to ensure the meaning of the crosses is not lost. We are making progress all over the state. We are doing it without leadership. But I will not run from many of the stories about the south. Check out Moon Lake in Pasco. It is the exact image conjured by these stories. These little bastions of racism can be found all over the state. I love Florida and will keep working to improve it. I will not be offended at the truth.

I live right down the road from you. Why aren't the people I associate with this pissed off? Oops. Never mind.

winstars

(4,220 posts)
25. So your feelings are hurt? Get over it. The vast vast majority here understand that you exist and...
Fri Jun 26, 2015, 01:43 PM
Jun 2015

we all totally appreciate all your past and future efforts. But, because your are surrounded by fucking jerkoffs, a few here may generalize on the subject of "the South"...

But if your saying that because of some frigging posts on some frigging website have hurt your FeFe's so much that:

"If the campaign
were tomorrow, you'd have to bring your own damn volunteers,
because I wouldn't be helping, nor would any of my other Democratic friends."

Good luck with President Cruz!

Yikes

FlaGatorJD

(364 posts)
33. A great day for America
Fri Jun 26, 2015, 02:26 PM
Jun 2015

and making nonsensical replies, or comparing apples and oranges

Congratulations to all Americans




Erich Bloodaxe BSN

(14,733 posts)
29. Germany doesn't fly Nazi flags to 'celebrate their history'.
Fri Jun 26, 2015, 01:55 PM
Jun 2015

The 'history' being kept alive IS a history of racism and slavery.

That's nothing to be proud of, or celebrated or honored. It should be in a museum, not in the faces of those whose families suffered under it for generations.

You have a choice. Continue to 'honor' the flag of a bunch of traitors fighting to keep people enslaved, or join the rest of the country in a post-slavery world. There is no 'distinction' to be made.

Laffy Kat

(16,383 posts)
32. Born and raised in the South.
Fri Jun 26, 2015, 02:21 PM
Jun 2015

And both parents from Arkansas. For the life of me I cannot understand your angst. Respectfully, the only thing I agree with in your post is that you have some soul-searching to do. I wish you peace and lower blood pressure, FlaGatorJD.

RebelOne

(30,947 posts)
36. Born in Philadelphia, grew up in Miami,
Fri Jun 26, 2015, 03:34 PM
Jun 2015

and have lived in Atlanta since 1989, so I consider myself to be a southerner.

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