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marym625

(17,997 posts)
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 07:46 AM Jun 2015

A Judge in Dallas County, Texas stayed at the Courthouse all day to perform marriages

Judge Dennise Garcia sent the tweet below out yesterday morning after THE decision

@kdgarcia


Then, the first marriage she performed, the first same sex wedding in Dallas County, Texas, was between two members of her church, Jack Evans, 85, and George Harris, 82, together for 54 years.

Two beautiful, brave souls, finally united, legally, in marriage.



54 years together. Imagine how much they faced, the bigotry, the hate, the adversity in 1961 Dallas County, Texas.

After waiving the 72 hour waiting period,

Dallas County issued 170 marriage licenses to same-sex couples Friday following a landmark U.S. Supreme Court ruling on equality that allows same-sex couples in all states to get married.


Meanwhile, gay couples across the state began lining up for marriage licenses within hours of the Supreme Court ruling they had the right to wed. Some counties, including Denton, denied the applications saying they needed guidance from their district attorney or the attorney ge]neral.


That was good news for Kristy Johnson and Ingrid Snelling, a lesbian couple who, after 22 years together, rushed to the county clerk's office after hearing the Supreme Court's ruling.

“I just broke down and bawled when I heard it. There will be more tears. She’s the love of my life. My sun and my moon and my best friend. We’ve traveled together for 22 years," said Johnson. “And to now be able to take that step and make it official, legally. No more being turned away from hospitals and feeling humiliated when I needed to care for her — which has happened to me. This means a whole lot.”


Much more at link, including video of some of these unions taking place. Such a joyful day. We are alive to witness one of the most beautiful decisions in US history.

NBCDFW

Here's an argument to use against the religious zealots that advocate for breaking the law and refusing to marry same sex couples

1 Peter 2:13-17New International Version (NIV)

13 Submit yourselves for the Lord’s sake to every human authority: whether to the emperor, as the supreme authority, 14 or to governors, who are sent by him to punish those who do wrong and to commend those who do right. 15 For it is God’s will that by doing good you should silence the ignorant talk of foolish people.16 Live as free people, but do not use your freedom as a cover-up for evil; live as God’s slaves. 17 Show proper respect to everyone, love the family of believers, fear God, honor the emperor.


Just in case you hadn't noticed, I'm a little happy and excited about this decision.


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A Judge in Dallas County, Texas stayed at the Courthouse all day to perform marriages (Original Post) marym625 Jun 2015 OP
sweet that some judges can rise above their state government. hollysmom Jun 2015 #1
I love it! marym625 Jun 2015 #2
something is in my eye Botany Jun 2015 #3
. marym625 Jun 2015 #4
and I am a straight dude too Botany Jun 2015 #6
I don't think they're done hating us yet marym625 Jun 2015 #8
You are no doubt right but they will not be able to do it in public just like they ..... Botany Jun 2015 #16
I am pretty sure that the percentage of the LGBT will increase marym625 Jun 2015 #20
you might have more closet cases coming out but the % of GLBT should ..... Botany Jun 2015 #24
Awe, thank you! marym625 Jun 2015 #25
Mine too. n/t prayin4rain Jun 2015 #13
More tears. myrna minx Jun 2015 #5
. marym625 Jun 2015 #9
This post brings tears to my eyes. longship Jun 2015 #7
Thank you marym625 Jun 2015 #11
Probably the best vacation day she'll ever have! winter is coming Jun 2015 #10
yes! marym625 Jun 2015 #12
No matter how long I live I'll never understand mountain grammy Jun 2015 #14
+1000 marym625 Jun 2015 #15
That is beautiful mcar Jun 2015 #17
It is beautiful! marym625 Jun 2015 #21
They really do mary mcar Jun 2015 #30
coming in off vacation, no less! That speaks volumes. rurallib Jun 2015 #18
It sure does! Beautiful! marym625 Jun 2015 #22
And she has a guaranteed spot in history. nt awoke_in_2003 Jun 2015 #33
Helps to remind us tht there are phenomenal people in the reddest of red states etherealtruth Jun 2015 #19
Amen to that! marym625 Jun 2015 #23
County officials HassleCat Jun 2015 #26
Amen to that! marym625 Jun 2015 #27
K&R What a wonderful person..she sounds happy to be working over time. n/t Jefferson23 Jun 2015 #28
Yes, she is and she does marym625 Jun 2015 #29
Of course..I took her statement to mean..I want to do this now for these good people. Jefferson23 Jun 2015 #31
Thank you! marym625 Jun 2015 #32
Good on ya, Judge Garcia!! hifiguy Jun 2015 #34
Mazel! marym625 Jun 2015 #35
Good on her! burrowowl Jun 2015 #36
Amazing the difference in judges marym625 Jun 2015 #37

marym625

(17,997 posts)
2. I love it!
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 09:25 AM
Jun 2015

And I have so much respect for those that understand the importance of this decision both legally and emotionally

Botany

(70,567 posts)
6. and I am a straight dude too
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 10:03 AM
Jun 2015

seeing that old coulpe get married does my heart good along w/the judge's
skipping her vacation to go marry people all day long is nice too.

I wonder who the republicans will find to hate on now? .... my money is on the
Muslims and that Obama can't stop ISIS.

marym625

(17,997 posts)
8. I don't think they're done hating us yet
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 10:07 AM
Jun 2015

But I agree that Muslims are probably next. Although I think it might be the elderly.

Yes, it's heartwarming and inspiring that it took 54 years and they never gave up!


Botany

(70,567 posts)
16. You are no doubt right but they will not be able to do it in public just like they .....
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 10:39 AM
Jun 2015

.... think about brown and black people in private. However the demographics*
are brutal to them now and in the future. A huge % of people under 30 support
"the gays" and see hating on them as sign #1 for being an asshole. As for the
haters over the next 20 years many will have to take their "dirt naps."

BTW for having Gay and Lesbian neighbors for years I never got why anybody
would fall for the bull shit lie about the threat from the gays.

BTW part 2 ..... I have come to think that many of the people who are haters
tend to have their own issues too.



* that is why they have cheat, flip votes, gerrymander districts, and have a
dirty media push their talking points ..... how many times do they have to have
Lindsey Graham or John McCain on those useless Sunday Morning shows?

marym625

(17,997 posts)
20. I am pretty sure that the percentage of the LGBT will increase
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 10:50 AM
Jun 2015

Dramatically with this ruling. People who have been too afraid will start coming out.

Yes, they'll have a harder time being bigots in public, thankfully. But, unfortunately, it won't stop many. I am ready for an increase in attacks for a while too.

But we're getting there!

Botany

(70,567 posts)
24. you might have more closet cases coming out but the % of GLBT should .....
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 11:06 AM
Jun 2015

.... in the population should be a constant that is governed by genetics.

And yes we might have a spike in attacks and vile speech on the GLBT
community now just like all the bigots came out after Obama was elected
in 2008.

BTW how could anybody hate on my marym625? And if they do I would like
a word or two w/them.

I am going to our 40 year plus local Comfest today and it should be awesome ....
something I learned a long time ago .... gays know how to party.

http://www.comfest.com/

marym625

(17,997 posts)
25. Awe, thank you!
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 11:15 AM
Jun 2015

How sweet! Well, here on DU you would have to talk with more than a few. But that's OK. It's not my problem, it's their's.

I honestly believe that all the studies are wrong. Because they really don't have a genetics, yet, nailed down on this and that I believe there are some people that just haven't been completely truthful in studies, with friends and family and even with themselves. I believe that the actual percentage is closer to 20% Especially when you factor in bi and pan.

I hope you have a beautiful, wonderful time!



And yes, we do know how to party!

marym625

(17,997 posts)
11. Thank you
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 10:10 AM
Jun 2015

It's just so inspiring. It's so wonderful that we've all come together in such happiness. I know it won't last too long, but for now, I'm thrilled


etherealtruth

(22,165 posts)
19. Helps to remind us tht there are phenomenal people in the reddest of red states
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 10:48 AM
Jun 2015

Congratulations to the entire United States .... on our way to putting one more instance of bigotry behind us!

 

HassleCat

(6,409 posts)
26. County officials
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 11:39 AM
Jun 2015

Any county official who declines to issue a marriage license should face discipline. Our public servants have a duty to uphold the law and perform their jobs in the public interest. If they want to practice religion, they should quit their county clerk jobs and become full time ministers.

Jefferson23

(30,099 posts)
31. Of course..I took her statement to mean..I want to do this now for these good people.
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 11:59 AM
Jun 2015

They've waited long enough.

I am thrilled for you marym and all the people this will directly impact. I understand
there is more to forge against bigotry against gay people..but it is good to celebrate
too. I like the way this judge is celebrating it.

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