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Wow - yesterday was such an emotionally powerful day! I remember reading my twitter timeline late in the morning as some folks were struggling with the desire to celebrate the SCOTUS ruling making marriage equality the law of the land - and yet preparing themselves for the home-going service of a minister/public servant who had been gunned down by a white racist. And then came the amazing sermon by our Rev. President Barack Obama. OH MY!!!!!
The juxtaposition of these two long struggles for equality in our country reminded me of another day when the two came face-to-face. On November 4, 2008 this country elected our first African American president. But on that same day, California said "yes" to Proposition 8 - a constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriage. I will never forget what terrance - a black gay man - wrote in response.
It has been a strange couple of weeks. Just last week, I saw something that I never thought Id see in my lifetime, and felt like I was witnessing it for all my ancestors who didnt live to see a hope fulfilled. But with a twoness of being that DuBois probably didnt imagine when he coined the term it was a deeply conflicted moment.
As a Black man, in that moment I felt like more of an American than I ever had before, like a barrier to full citizenship and belonging had been raised. As a gay man with a husband and a family, however, I ended up feeling like less of an American than I ever had before; divorced from the celebrating and even the historic significance of the moment by a barrier to citizenship and belonging that fell more firmly into place even as another one was lifted.
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In other words, as long as we continue to show up:
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AuntPatsy
(9,904 posts)malaise
(269,157 posts)sheshe2
(83,875 posts)Listening now malaise.
BumRushDaShow
(129,382 posts)Gotta keep the momentum going.
indeed~
Hate Won't Win!
frazzled
(18,402 posts)it's definitely that hate doesn't win. And, as a corollary, that honey catches more flies than vinegar.
Think about it: what truly brought this nation together and brought the flags down was not just the hate of the crime that was committed but the loving forgiveness of the victims' families and the dignified behavior of the church and the entire Charleston community in the wake of the tragedy. Honey caught the flies. Love made it happen.
The same may be said about the great strides that the LGBT community has made. What made America change its mind? People coming out and declaring their love for each other and their children, and the desire to form families. Not angry marches or burning cars. Love.
Honey.
So often I see people wanting our politicians and leaders to be "angry." I see language that revels in violent terms to describe mere arguments: someone "slayed" a Republican on TV, or "decimated" them. Anger doesn't win. Love wins.
I'm convinced of that.