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calimary

(81,318 posts)
Thu Jul 9, 2015, 03:41 PM Jul 2015

Let's keep something in mind about ("Saint") nikki haley.

I just see a "canonization" in her future on the GOP side, everybody sucking air and declaring her the - um - sorry, but - "Great White Hope" - the Second Coming, Vice Presidential material for sure, maybe a future Presidential contender, and blah-blah-blah. AHHHHH nikki haley!!!! Heart Heart Heart, Fawn Fawn Fawn.

Bullshit, Bullshit, Bullshit.

Anybody ever heard of "5-Day Deodorant Pads"?

She IS one.

Took her FIVE DAYS to come around to this. She was perhaps gently dragged kicking and screaming to this. This wasn't her idea. There was NO leadership shown here. She was "leading from behind," to steal a meme from the bad guys. She was BEING LED. Against her own personal feelings on this.

Remember that Wednesday night, and that first hastily-called press conference of local officials immediately after the news broke about the massacre at Mother Emanuel Church? Anybody remember that? Think back. There she was, called in like all the other officials and police and other local and state authorities who could be expected to hold a news conference after such a devastating event. She stood there front-n-center, stifling tears, voice shaking, intoning about how horrible it was and how South Carolina was shocked and saddened, and all that other expected stuff. Fine enough. BUT THEN, somebody in that press gaggle asked about taking the flag down, maybe. Her response? LET'S NEVER FORGET THIS. She immediately went back to the default position -
"Oh no, we can't really go there, that's a separate issue..."
"Well, no, that flag is part of our HERITAGE and it still means a lot to so many of our fellow citizens..."
"Well, this is not the time... "
THAT was where she was. Because that is ALWAYS where she was.

REPEAT - That was ALWAYS where she was. That was her first response. Because that was the real one. THAT was the TRUE response and reflected her TRUE, Honest-to-God instinctive feelings about the Dixie Swastika. THAT was the one you could take to the bank.

South Carolina state legislator Vincent Shaheen, who's a Dem, was on MSNBC talking about how a year earlier, he'd brought up taking the hate rag down and she stood adamantly against it. THAT WAS ALWAYS where she was. She's only come around NOW.

Took her FIVE DAYS from that Wednesday night to the following Monday to step up and get onboard with taking the flag down.
It was NOT her first inclination.
It was NOT her original take on the issue.
It was NOT part of her agenda.
It was NOT something she ran on to win the governorship.
It was NOT something she advocated or fought for or blogged about or wrote editorials about, or even brought up on her own.
It was NOT something she ever stuck her own neck out about.
It was NOT showing leadership or taking the bull by the horns or encouraging or gently forcing change and modernity and the 21st Century to her constituents.
It was NOT what she'd ever publicly stood for. Or that she stood for in private or behind the scenes, as far as I know. UNTIL a situation like this arose - wherein she kinda had to. This was no voluntary conversion or naturally-occuring change-of-heart. She didn't have a "Come to Jesus" moment about it several years ago or evolve in her thinking through the years or anything else. Her hand was forced here.

Let's not burn incense to her as some sort of "New South Paragon of Virtue and GREAT and WISE and FORWARD-THINKING Leadership. And let's make sure to beat back all the breathless arguments that she is some sort of New republi-CON Saviorette.

She's nothing of the kind.

She only came around because she had to. It was unavoidable. And she clearly understands how that might have made her look to the greater population of the US, outside her own state borders if she'd dragged her heels on this. That tells me she's thinking about higher office someday and trying to lay some of the personality groundwork now. If she didn't care about that, she wouldn't care about this. She's a republi-CON. NEVER forget that. NEVER FORGET that their motives are ALWAYS suspect.

She's a "5-Day Deodorant Pad." Just like jeb bush. He's a "5-Day Deodorant Pad" too. Took HIM five days, from Monday to Friday inclusive, to grope his way toward mouthing the "correct" answer to the question - "would you have gone into Iraq like your brother did, knowing what you know now?" Remember that? His first answer was the honest one. The true one. THAT'S the one you could actually take to the bank. Just like nikki haley's words and actions tell you what HER real feelings were and are. She watched how the wind blew and THEN decided what stand to take. Just as he did, when he saw the response to his first-response gut reaction was.

The FIRST answer is always the tell. THAT'S one you could actually take to the bank. That's the one that springs forth from their lips instinctively, before they have a chance to watch the windmills and adjust their statements and their speechifying to appeal to the reaction. They react to the reaction. AND THAT'S NO LEADERSHIP!!!! NONE, AT ALL!!!!!

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Let's keep something in mind about ("Saint") nikki haley. (Original Post) calimary Jul 2015 OP
Priebus: Nikki, You're added to VP shortlist if you get flag down before first GOP primary debate. blm Jul 2015 #1
Indeed. I detected a whiff that very night. Two whiffs. calimary Jul 2015 #7
This s another tell mercuryblues Jul 2015 #32
Absofreakinglutely! marble falls Jul 2015 #2
Kicking and screaming. jen63 Jul 2015 #3
This..... CherokeeDem Jul 2015 #4
Oh gosh, and there she is. Stepped to the podium, in her carefully-chosen light beige suit. calimary Jul 2015 #5
Dayum! sheshe2 Jul 2015 #6
I will decline to lionize Gov. Haley gratuitous Jul 2015 #8
What if lionizing her... awoke_in_2003 Jul 2015 #11
LOLOLOLOL!!!!!! blm Jul 2015 #15
Hey gratuitous, you remind me of something I recall that dear stick figure ann coulter calimary Jul 2015 #12
Actually that was a nice touch, the whole pen thing, at the end. calimary Jul 2015 #9
+1000 heaven05 Jul 2015 #10
"The FIRST answer is always the tell" awoke_in_2003 Jul 2015 #13
LOL Calimary-you rock! jalan48 Jul 2015 #14
Agreed. Democrats and progressives should NOT welcome her DinahMoeHum Jul 2015 #16
And I saw this state representative, Vincent Shaheen, on MSNBC and he recalled how he brought calimary Jul 2015 #22
"The FIRST answer is always the tell." < Criminal Minds... n/t. jtuck004 Jul 2015 #17
she "evolved" MisterP Jul 2015 #18
Given the fact that this ONLY happened because... 3catwoman3 Jul 2015 #19
Bwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah malaise Jul 2015 #20
You've summed it Nikki Haley (and Jeb) quite well. SunSeeker Jul 2015 #21
you know it, calimary Skittles Jul 2015 #23
Thank you, calimary octoberlib Jul 2015 #24
Uh-huh! Indeed. I wouldn't be a bit surprised. They're anticipating Hillary as our nominee. calimary Jul 2015 #26
Here's something I noticed this morning, that reinforced one aspect of my OP: calimary Jul 2015 #25
She was backed into a corner and took the easy way out tularetom Jul 2015 #27
But where there's a WILL there's a way.....she might not survive the vetting. MADem Jul 2015 #28
Oh excellent! calimary Jul 2015 #29
I'm sure it is--that's a target rich environment, right there....! nt MADem Jul 2015 #30
Even before I read this post SusanCalvin Jul 2015 #31
Yeh - jumping in front of the parade she is now taking credit for leading. blm Jul 2015 #33
Isn't that really just another form of "leading from behind"? calimary Jul 2015 #34
She was a party aparatchik a month ago, and remains one today. Orsino Jul 2015 #35
Her knee-jerk reaction was to go directly to defending her constituents. calimary Jul 2015 #36

blm

(113,065 posts)
1. Priebus: Nikki, You're added to VP shortlist if you get flag down before first GOP primary debate.
Thu Jul 9, 2015, 03:43 PM
Jul 2015

And THAT is what Nikki did.

Love your 5 day deodorant pad. ; )

calimary

(81,318 posts)
7. Indeed. I detected a whiff that very night. Two whiffs.
Thu Jul 9, 2015, 04:21 PM
Jul 2015

One involved taking note of her initial, instinctive, first-off-the-tip-of-her-tongue response - because somebody in the press gaggle that night brought it up. She STATED, while hemming and hawing, that it was heritage blah-blah-blah, and how well there are so many people in this state who cherish that flag and it's meaningful to them and that's who we are and blah-blah-blah.

Two it struck me that she was keeping in mind that constituency - that wanted the stars 'n' bars to fly free and proudly. Hmmm... why are you hovering so close to them? Building a base for bigger things?


Aha - she went out and got a manicure before this. Beforehand, so to speak!

mercuryblues

(14,532 posts)
32. This s another tell
Fri Jul 10, 2015, 12:48 PM
Jul 2015

She had the full power to remove the flag the day that Pinckney's remains were lying in State. She did not. It showed to me how true her change of heart really was. Not very true at all.

jen63

(813 posts)
3. Kicking and screaming.
Thu Jul 9, 2015, 03:52 PM
Jul 2015

Like some one else mentioned, she could have declared a state of emergency the day after the terror attack and taken that rag down!! She didn't. She's no hero and she's not brave! Some of the comments in her favor after different articles I've read are vomit inducing, by so-called dems.

CherokeeDem

(3,709 posts)
4. This.....
Thu Jul 9, 2015, 04:12 PM
Jul 2015

She is only doing this because she had no other choice. While I'm pleased the flag is going to be removed, it's more hypocrisy from the Republicans.

I will say Jenny Horne gave me hope that some Republicans are not completely loony and racist.

calimary

(81,318 posts)
5. Oh gosh, and there she is. Stepped to the podium, in her carefully-chosen light beige suit.
Thu Jul 9, 2015, 04:13 PM
Jul 2015

Against a backdrop of dark and black business suits. Well, if there was any confusion as to where to look, in that scene, this should put it to rest.

gratuitous

(82,849 posts)
8. I will decline to lionize Gov. Haley
Thu Jul 9, 2015, 04:35 PM
Jul 2015

But once she had exhausted all other options, was run to ground and trapped like a weasel in the corner, she finally, grudgingly, did the right thing so long as the legislature laid down their supine bodies for her to walk across. Which they did. Finally. Grudgingly.

I'm more interested in the end result, and feeling really good that once again, when we fight, we win. Gov. Haley's political fellow travelers are already running the goal posts as far downfield as they can, pooh-poohing the idea that this will end racism forever (nobody said it would); it's a slap in the face to all racist loser bitter-enders across the South (I'd much rather kick 'em in the nuts); and this is all just political correctness run amok (no, it's human beings acting with kindness toward one another for a change, which is probably what threw you).

We fought. We won. But the bitter-enders are absolutely right about one thing: We're not done, and we'll be back again next week to fuck with something you assholes revere. Have a nice weekend!

calimary

(81,318 posts)
12. Hey gratuitous, you remind me of something I recall that dear stick figure ann coulter
Thu Jul 9, 2015, 05:16 PM
Jul 2015

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once said, bless her dark heart (assuming she has a heart, that is) - "we're going to destroy everything you believe in."

Back atcha, annie-baby!

calimary

(81,318 posts)
9. Actually that was a nice touch, the whole pen thing, at the end.
Thu Jul 9, 2015, 04:47 PM
Jul 2015

I'll give her that. (dammit.)

It also tells me something else about her. She's shrewd. OR she has shrewd people around her and the good sense to listen to them.

John McWhorter of Columbia University is on now (MSNBC), talking about how this really kinda is progress. Like that. Maybe this is. But it is dreadfully shameful that it takes a massacre of nine saintly people, and the Actual Living Saints in their families who forgave through choking tears is what it takes to effect some real movement. I kinda really believe this about the families of the Mother Emanual Nine. I was thunderstruck by their open expressions of the most sincere forgiveness, as I watched it live that day. They were trying to follow the Teachings of Jesus through the GREATEST tribulation imaginable, each a kind of modern-day Job in that way. No greater love. And they were abundantly successful. Forgiving THAT. I'm not gonna go all religion-y here, but I think we've all had a Visitation of some sort. Maybe it's the Grace that President Obama spoke and sang about at the memorial. Those people are real live Saints. They're going to go to Heaven when they die. On an Express Elevator).

It's too damn shameful on us all that it takes THAT to get HERE. Shame on us all that we somehow can't push it over to the other approach - like these genuine saints showed us a few Fridays ago. Or maybe we as a collective political body, complete with an active lizard brain, are just that by nature? It's sad that things are so desperate and divided and devolved in this country that we're forced to take a forward movement any way we can get it.

And I blame all of us. Everybody. Me too. The mentality and stubbornness and closed-mindedness and bigotry and sexism that we see on display too often, and we who just haven't yet found a way to stop it, change it, reverse it, and obliterate it. Send it back to the Dark Ages where it belongs. We all bear responsibility. Cuz we ARE all in this together.

 

awoke_in_2003

(34,582 posts)
13. "The FIRST answer is always the tell"
Thu Jul 9, 2015, 05:17 PM
Jul 2015

Yep, that is why following Lincoln's advice is prudent (It is better to be silent and thought a fool than to open your mouth an remove all doubt- ok, that is paraphrased)

DinahMoeHum

(21,794 posts)
16. Agreed. Democrats and progressives should NOT welcome her
Thu Jul 9, 2015, 05:30 PM
Jul 2015

. . .into their ranks anytime soon.

Both she and Louisiana governor Bobby Jindal made a deal with the devil in becoming part of the GOP. They're now learning the hard way that the GOP in the South really doesn't give a shit about anybody who is not WASP.

calimary

(81,318 posts)
22. And I saw this state representative, Vincent Shaheen, on MSNBC and he recalled how he brought
Thu Jul 9, 2015, 08:08 PM
Jul 2015

this idea up a year ago, and she was staunchly and quite publicly against it. That was her FIRST response, her initial reaction, her gut talking - it's tell. It's a blurt. It's the first thing you blurt out when you're asked something - BEFORE you've had a chance to think about it (or think better of it). It's what you say, immediately off the top of your head, that's for real. THAT'S the one you can take to the bank. THAT'S the one that would pass a polygraph test.

Whatever comes after that - PARTICULARLY if it's different or even, with both nikki and jebbie, 180 degrees different - is just BS. Vetting, rewriting, weatherizing, reinterpreting, homogenizing, spinning, correcting, laundering, disinfecting. Foot-removal. Prophylactic, if you will. Political chiropractic. Sanitized, for the speaker's protection.

3catwoman3

(24,007 posts)
19. Given the fact that this ONLY happened because...
Thu Jul 9, 2015, 05:52 PM
Jul 2015

...9 South Carolinians were slaughtered, I thought the celebratory/congratulatory bill signing ceremony was a little "off." I would have preferred a more somber tone.

In contrast to an opinion above, I found the pen gesture distasteful. Good stagecraft, perhaps, but rather exploitative, IMO. If I were one of the surviving family members, I would not want one. (Nothing personal, calimary - just a different reaction.)

octoberlib

(14,971 posts)
24. Thank you, calimary
Fri Jul 10, 2015, 05:17 AM
Jul 2015

I read that Priebus promised her a spot on the VP shortlist if she'd go along with removing the Confederate flag.

calimary

(81,318 posts)
26. Uh-huh! Indeed. I wouldn't be a bit surprised. They're anticipating Hillary as our nominee.
Fri Jul 10, 2015, 11:05 AM
Jul 2015

And they think having a woman on the ticket would help blunt some of that. "Well, WE'VE got one TOO!!!!!"

calimary

(81,318 posts)
25. Here's something I noticed this morning, that reinforced one aspect of my OP:
Fri Jul 10, 2015, 11:03 AM
Jul 2015

Sure enough, our miss nikki showed up at that flag lowering ceremony in a blindingly white suit. What? Does she have a whole wardrobe full of these? They're camera-catchers. Your eye is immediately, and reflexively, and almost helplessly drawn toward the bright shiny object, the glaringly obvious color difference - again, a tableau of men in dark respectable business suits and a few women here and there who were wearing other dark colors, an occasional red, or other color - but nikki haley comes sashaying in, wearing her blindingly white suit to set herself off from all that, and make her easier to see. You could literally spot her in the crowd from the overhead shots. Anybody notice? Aerial views from some news helicopter hovering overhead, but there was no mistaking where nikki haley was. EVERYBODY could pick her out in the crowd. That white suit made her stand out. That was no accident.

nancy reagan used to have her social secretary send word around before big state dinners and other events - what mrs. reagan would be wearing, to all the VIPs and their friends and fancy society folks to make sure no other woman would dare arrive wearing the same designer outfit or gown or similar color, and rain on her parade. That way SHE would stand out. I saw a photo in a book about the Duchess of Windsor, where milady was at some glitzy social event and OH MY GOODNESS there was another woman there who was wearing the very same elegant designer dress. And much was made of this whispered tittering social blunder. Hello, Faux-Pas! Major OOPS Factor! That's one reason why all the bridesmaids in the wedding party are dressed in a different color - so the bride, in her white gown, will stand out.

nikki haley gets this, big time. I suspected it before. Now I KNOW it for sure. Watch how she dresses. Maybe she has a stylist or maybe not. But she understands this and, wanting to be the center of attention and - I suspect - wanting to have this whole flag-lowering event be just a weeeeee little bitty bit about her, too, and what a great brave bold leader she is and how wonderful and modern and forward-thinking and conciliatory she is to "lead the way on this and blah-blah-blah..." and other versions of "Oh Isn't She Wonderful!!!" In that nice attention-getting blindingly white suit. It allows her to play cute and coy and allow her words to say - "oh, this isn't about MOI!!! (Cue the eyelash-batting!) This is about South Carolina and blah-blah-blah." But meantime you don't even need lights on that camera because in that blindingly white suit, she positively glows on her own. She's utterly incandescent... saint nikki! Saint nikki!

All hail "saint nikki."

Yeah, okay, sure. Fine. Whatever.

tularetom

(23,664 posts)
27. She was backed into a corner and took the easy way out
Fri Jul 10, 2015, 11:08 AM
Jul 2015

Is any Democrat actually praising what she did?

You're 110% correct here but I think you are preaching to the choir.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
28. But where there's a WILL there's a way.....she might not survive the vetting.
Fri Jul 10, 2015, 11:13 AM
Jul 2015


And by WILL, I mean Will Folks.... http://www.huffingtonpost.com/news/nikki-haley-affair-allegations/

There was another guy too--she's just wild about Larry as well, apparently.


Further, I'm not one to make fun of peoples' names, like the GOP did with Barack HUSSEIN (didja hear that, Marge??? HOOOOOOOOOO SAAAAAAYNE!!! Foreigner!!! DARKSIDED!!!) Obama, but Nikki's first name is NOT Nikki--it's Nimrata, which is awfully close to Nimrod, and can be made to be an object of ridicule by those who are not high minded on that score.

The vetting hasn't even begun with her, but I have a feeling there's plenty there.

calimary

(81,318 posts)
29. Oh excellent!
Fri Jul 10, 2015, 11:44 AM
Jul 2015

That just might put some dingy discoloration on that blinding white suit. That "Look at ME! suit." Or as my husband often says - "More ME, please!"

I hope the opposition research is already crankin'.

SusanCalvin

(6,592 posts)
31. Even before I read this post
Fri Jul 10, 2015, 12:23 PM
Jul 2015

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I figured she'd be lauded for something she was just a bystander to. She deserves no credit for that flag being gone. None. She was simply there when it happened.

calimary

(81,318 posts)
34. Isn't that really just another form of "leading from behind"?
Fri Jul 10, 2015, 01:07 PM
Jul 2015

Her side of the aisle should know all about that one.

Orsino

(37,428 posts)
35. She was a party aparatchik a month ago, and remains one today.
Fri Jul 10, 2015, 01:36 PM
Jul 2015

They won't do anything good unless we force them to.

calimary

(81,318 posts)
36. Her knee-jerk reaction was to go directly to defending her constituents.
Fri Jul 10, 2015, 02:18 PM
Jul 2015

That was her default position. That she came around and started dancing to the tune of the opposite side - the ones both black AND white who wanted that hate rag taken down. They're many of the same potential "constituency" that is OUTSIDE the South Carolina borders. She suddenly became mindful of that, I suspect, and "adjusted" her talking points accordingly. All of a sudden she's Miss Magnanimous toward changing times and social mores. All of a sudden she's all about that whole "togetherness" thing and that whole "let's all unite" thing. Because she IS mindful of her career and where she thinks it could lead her. She's ambitious enough to consider herself a potential Presidential material, and shrewd enough to understand some psy-ops that can help her get there. White Suit et al. Of Course she wants to keep on her career's upward track.

She's on a roll now, to be sure. Stay awake and aware!

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