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I 'm on the island of Cebu and while traveling by bus to Moalboal this little kid started following me.
I think he snuck on the bus in Cebu City because I remember seeing one of his crutches as it slid under my seat.
When me and my wife got off in Moalboal she remembers seeing him trying to crawl down the isle of the over crowded bus. At the bus stop he showed me an obviouly botched amputation of one of his feet just below the ankle and motioned asking for a hand out.
I only had 1.5 pesos in coins and gave him that but my wife had 20 pesos that she gave and he seemed to satisfied. She reminded me of a few chocolates we had in camera bag and I gave him those too.
He was so hungery he couldn't even wait to unwrap the Hershey's Kisses - instead just squeezing the foil until the half melted chocolate oozed out and sucking them clean.
We immediately took him across the street to a traditional Filipino eatery and got him a proper meal of rice fish and vegtables topped off with an orange fanta. Now this is small boy perhaps 9 or 10 but he did his best to finish the entire meal. What he couldn't finish the cook helped put it in a plastic bag to save for later.
By now me and my wife like this little guy so now we have a local carpenter building him some properly sized crutches. The ones he had must have been from the original accident and were so short I was afraid he might become permenetly hunched over from trying to use them.
I'm going to try and take him back to Cebu and see about getting him into a doctor to look at that leg. I'm no doctor - but even I can tell the amputation of his foot was badly botched if performed by a doctor at all
God I wish they had a Shriner's Hospital here
Sorry for spelling - I'm on my phone
jaysunb
(11,856 posts)elleng
(130,956 posts)KT2000
(20,581 posts)good for you and your wife for helping him.
Turbineguy
(37,337 posts)chillfactor
(7,576 posts)how heart-warming to know that the little boy found the two of you...
Live and Learn
(12,769 posts)I know you don't feel that you can do enough but I am more than certain that what you have done already is a dream come true for that little boy. And your good deeds touch not only him but those of us who hear about it.
FreakinDJ
(17,644 posts)Your right I don't feel like I can do enough for him
Oldenuff
(582 posts)If someone wanted to see what a country ruled by Republicans was like,all you have to do is come visit this country.
There is no safety net here.You are on your own if you are poor and Filipino.
What you are stating FreakinDJ is played out a 100,000 times a day.Especially difficult for the poor during rainy season when there is virtually no work to be had.Those who do have jobs,don't earn enough to feed themselves.That is largely why you see multiple generations all living together.They all do what they can to contribute to the families well being.
Here in Northern Luzon,we are currently experiencing Tropical Storm after Tropical Storm.Flooding to the roofs in some ares,and water over the roadway chest deep only yesterday.
This morning,3 young brothers drowned collecting firewood by the river when the saturated bank gave way.This is the Philippines.
The best you can do is "adopt" a family or 2,or some of the local destitute kids...as you are led,and can afford of course.
edited for grammar...and edited again for grammar.Lol.Grammar seems to be my failing..well that, and being able to see a corporate suit running for office under the Democratic banner.
FreakinDJ
(17,644 posts)Yes I'm very aware of the conditions and like most Kano who fall in love with the place the people and the beauty here wish there was something we could do to help
The Street Kids way out in the provinces usually come up to a Kano who wonders into town. I joke with them calling them bandits and then ask them "Pila ice cream" and send them off to get an ice cream
Maybe this kid is coached. 3 1/2 hrs stowed away on a bus seems a bit much
He has got the crutches a few pesos and a full stomach. If he'll follow me back to Cebu I'll take him in for an Xray and a doctors visit
And I'll go from there
Spitfire of ATJ
(32,723 posts)FreakinDJ
(17,644 posts)I pass by a "Boys Home" close to my wife's house daily
Never have I seen 1 child playing on the grounds behind those locked gates
Spitfire of ATJ
(32,723 posts)There's always UNICEF. That's legit. They can point to someone.
FreakinDJ
(17,644 posts)The doctor should have the right connections
Spitfire of ATJ
(32,723 posts)Oldenuff
(582 posts)you really do have to be wary here,as there is a new scam born every minute as you are no doubt well aware.There were those who suggested going to the local Barangay and asking about who is most in need,but you are just as likely to get directed to a Barangay officials relatives. It's just as easy to watch people.The poor are pretty obvious..but you know that already.I do commend you on your willingness to help FDJ.Many expats do help,and just as many don't.
Duppers
(28,125 posts)It's what I'd do and probably what many others here would do in your shoes. We want to help, especially the most vunerable.
The poor street child is orphaned, I assumed?
If you need advice or help, there's a U.S.Consulate at Waterfront Cebu City Hotel Bldg, Lahug. 63 32 231-1261.
http://wikitravel.org/en/Cebu_City
Good luck!! Keep us posted.
On Edit: posted before I saw Oldenuff's post above. Sounds as if you could private message Oldenuff for any general advice.
davidpdx
(22,000 posts)Two of the times I have been in places where I have encountered poor or homeless children asking for money. When I was in Puerto Princesa last January and walking down town near a Catholic church and there were four young Filipino children asking for money.