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FreakinDJ

(17,644 posts)
Fri Jul 10, 2015, 01:44 AM Jul 2015

Here in the Philippines - in way over my head

I 'm on the island of Cebu and while traveling by bus to Moalboal this little kid started following me.

I think he snuck on the bus in Cebu City because I remember seeing one of his crutches as it slid under my seat.

When me and my wife got off in Moalboal she remembers seeing him trying to crawl down the isle of the over crowded bus. At the bus stop he showed me an obviouly botched amputation of one of his feet just below the ankle and motioned asking for a hand out.

I only had 1.5 pesos in coins and gave him that but my wife had 20 pesos that she gave and he seemed to satisfied. She reminded me of a few chocolates we had in camera bag and I gave him those too.

He was so hungery he couldn't even wait to unwrap the Hershey's Kisses - instead just squeezing the foil until the half melted chocolate oozed out and sucking them clean.

We immediately took him across the street to a traditional Filipino eatery and got him a proper meal of rice fish and vegtables topped off with an orange fanta. Now this is small boy perhaps 9 or 10 but he did his best to finish the entire meal. What he couldn't finish the cook helped put it in a plastic bag to save for later.

By now me and my wife like this little guy so now we have a local carpenter building him some properly sized crutches. The ones he had must have been from the original accident and were so short I was afraid he might become permenetly hunched over from trying to use them.

I'm going to try and take him back to Cebu and see about getting him into a doctor to look at that leg. I'm no doctor - but even I can tell the amputation of his foot was badly botched if performed by a doctor at all

God I wish they had a Shriner's Hospital here

Sorry for spelling - I'm on my phone

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Here in the Philippines - in way over my head (Original Post) FreakinDJ Jul 2015 OP
Damn !! n/t jaysunb Jul 2015 #1
Thanks for helping, FreakingDJ. elleng Jul 2015 #2
Wow- poor little guy KT2000 Jul 2015 #3
Good for you. Turbineguy Jul 2015 #4
you and your wife have hearts that are truly golden.... chillfactor Jul 2015 #5
Thank you for doing so much. Live and Learn Jul 2015 #6
Thank you for those kind words FreakinDJ Jul 2015 #7
Welcome to the Philippines.. Oldenuff Jul 2015 #8
Not my first time in the Philippines FreakinDJ Jul 2015 #11
Have you contacted this place? Spitfire of ATJ Jul 2015 #9
Most of those here are "In Name Only" FreakinDJ Jul 2015 #12
I bet they accept donations from all over the planet though.... Spitfire of ATJ Jul 2015 #13
I'll try and get him into a doctor and go from there FreakinDJ Jul 2015 #14
Well, good luck. Kindness is it's own reward. Spitfire of ATJ Jul 2015 #15
It pains me to say it,but Oldenuff Jul 2015 #16
You're Wonderful. This is what real dems do! Duppers Jul 2015 #10
I've been to the Philippines four times davidpdx Jul 2015 #17
Good on you Person 2713 Jul 2015 #18

chillfactor

(7,576 posts)
5. you and your wife have hearts that are truly golden....
Fri Jul 10, 2015, 02:24 AM
Jul 2015

how heart-warming to know that the little boy found the two of you...

Live and Learn

(12,769 posts)
6. Thank you for doing so much.
Fri Jul 10, 2015, 03:38 AM
Jul 2015

I know you don't feel that you can do enough but I am more than certain that what you have done already is a dream come true for that little boy. And your good deeds touch not only him but those of us who hear about it.

 

Oldenuff

(582 posts)
8. Welcome to the Philippines..
Fri Jul 10, 2015, 04:45 AM
Jul 2015

If someone wanted to see what a country ruled by Republicans was like,all you have to do is come visit this country.

There is no safety net here.You are on your own if you are poor and Filipino.

What you are stating FreakinDJ is played out a 100,000 times a day.Especially difficult for the poor during rainy season when there is virtually no work to be had.Those who do have jobs,don't earn enough to feed themselves.That is largely why you see multiple generations all living together.They all do what they can to contribute to the families well being.

Here in Northern Luzon,we are currently experiencing Tropical Storm after Tropical Storm.Flooding to the roofs in some ares,and water over the roadway chest deep only yesterday.

This morning,3 young brothers drowned collecting firewood by the river when the saturated bank gave way.This is the Philippines.

The best you can do is "adopt" a family or 2,or some of the local destitute kids...as you are led,and can afford of course.

edited for grammar...and edited again for grammar.Lol.Grammar seems to be my failing..well that, and being able to see a corporate suit running for office under the Democratic banner.

 

FreakinDJ

(17,644 posts)
11. Not my first time in the Philippines
Fri Jul 10, 2015, 05:36 AM
Jul 2015

Yes I'm very aware of the conditions and like most Kano who fall in love with the place the people and the beauty here wish there was something we could do to help

The Street Kids way out in the provinces usually come up to a Kano who wonders into town. I joke with them calling them bandits and then ask them "Pila ice cream" and send them off to get an ice cream

Maybe this kid is coached. 3 1/2 hrs stowed away on a bus seems a bit much

He has got the crutches a few pesos and a full stomach. If he'll follow me back to Cebu I'll take him in for an Xray and a doctors visit

And I'll go from there

 

FreakinDJ

(17,644 posts)
12. Most of those here are "In Name Only"
Fri Jul 10, 2015, 05:40 AM
Jul 2015

I pass by a "Boys Home" close to my wife's house daily

Never have I seen 1 child playing on the grounds behind those locked gates

 

Spitfire of ATJ

(32,723 posts)
13. I bet they accept donations from all over the planet though....
Fri Jul 10, 2015, 05:44 AM
Jul 2015

There's always UNICEF. That's legit. They can point to someone.

 

Oldenuff

(582 posts)
16. It pains me to say it,but
Fri Jul 10, 2015, 06:25 AM
Jul 2015

you really do have to be wary here,as there is a new scam born every minute as you are no doubt well aware.There were those who suggested going to the local Barangay and asking about who is most in need,but you are just as likely to get directed to a Barangay officials relatives. It's just as easy to watch people.The poor are pretty obvious..but you know that already.I do commend you on your willingness to help FDJ.Many expats do help,and just as many don't.

Duppers

(28,125 posts)
10. You're Wonderful. This is what real dems do!
Fri Jul 10, 2015, 04:58 AM
Jul 2015

It's what I'd do and probably what many others here would do in your shoes. We want to help, especially the most vunerable.

The poor street child is orphaned, I assumed?

If you need advice or help, there's a U.S.Consulate at Waterfront Cebu City Hotel Bldg, Lahug. 63 32 231-1261.
http://wikitravel.org/en/Cebu_City

Good luck!! Keep us posted.

On Edit: posted before I saw Oldenuff's post above. Sounds as if you could private message Oldenuff for any general advice.





davidpdx

(22,000 posts)
17. I've been to the Philippines four times
Fri Jul 10, 2015, 06:54 AM
Jul 2015

Two of the times I have been in places where I have encountered poor or homeless children asking for money. When I was in Puerto Princesa last January and walking down town near a Catholic church and there were four young Filipino children asking for money.

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