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"SAN FRANCISCOGawker drew heavy criticism Friday from online readers after the news and gossip site ran a story about the CFO of Conde Nast allegedly soliciting sex from a gay porn star.
David Geithner, a married father of three and brother of former Treasury Secretary Timothy Geithner, denied the allegations.
Gawker nevertheless reported that Geithner planned to go to Chicago to meet a gay porn star and escort and was prepared to pay $2,500 for the encounter. David Geithner cancelled the meet-up after the escort tried to get him to use his political connections to help with a housing dispute. Previously, the anonymous escort had asked Republican Sen. Ted Cruz for help with his housing dispute, the online article said.
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Readers pointed out that publicizing Geithner's possible sexual orientation did nothing for the public good: he's not a public official or political candidate who has advocated against gay rights, for instance.
"This guy is not an antigay politician whose hypocrisy needs to be outed. Why would anyone care if he wants to hire an escort?" wrote reader Mike Johnson of Los Angeles on Gawker's Facebook page."
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"Natasha Vargas-Cooper, senior reporter for Gawker affiliate Jezebel, also defended its publication. "Stories don't need an upside. Not everyone has to feel good about the truth. If it's true, you publish."
http://www.usatoday.com/story/money/2015/07/17/gawkers-apparent-outing-cfo-meets-internet-backlash/30280505/
Apparently gay men don't have a right to privacy anymore. You really think that if this was a straight guy this would be on a major news website like Gawker? This is gay shaming. Ted Cruz is the "hero" of the story" and a random gay man not using his "political influence" (isn't that essentially cronyism?) to intervene in an apartment dispute means his sexuality is fair game.
I'm not linking directly to the article. If you really want to find it you can.
randys1
(16,286 posts)Kurska
(5,739 posts)He also sought help from his local senator, Ted Cruz. On April 7 of this year, Cruzs office sent Ryan a letter telling him that they had initiated an inquiry with HUD on Ryans behalf. On May 6, Ryan received another letter from Cruzs office, stating that HUD had made a final determination on his case in May 2014, at which point HUD closed his case. Enclosed was a letter from a HUD field office director, stating that HUD could not initiate any further investigation into Ryans case unless he provided new and relevant information. Ryan felt this response was insufficient, and that several government agencies had sided with his landlord in discriminating against him because of his sexuality. (Cruzs office has continued to stay in touch with Ryan, he tells us. He says that an employee of Cruzs called him this afternoon to say that the senator had personally called the HUD director on his behalf. It seems as if Cruz, in the midst of his Presidential campaign, sees an opportunity to help a veteran with PTSD who has been crushed by Washington bureaucracy.)
This in a story about a gay man, whom they out and give anonymity to the outer as part of a failed blackmail plan on the part of the outer. .
randys1
(16,286 posts)Really important for us to understand what your typical teapartier thinks about them.
I need to do a thread about it.
Calista241
(5,586 posts)951-Riverside
(7,234 posts)or their family members like this.
This escort's life will never be the same.
...Interesting. I wonder how he got into contact with Cruz.
Kurovski
(34,655 posts)He is also a rw born-again birther gun nut, per his Facebook timeline.
This also can be found out by using our internets.
BTW, prostitution is still illegal.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)So is marijuana in most states. Your point?
Kurovski
(34,655 posts)And marijuana is hardly the same as prostitution, where abuses such as trafficking, beatings, slavery, and psychological abuse abounds.
They both should be decriminalized and regulated for everyone's protection. until such time, stop pretending it's a fair exchange between consenting adults.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)That's my opinion too.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)So there!
postulater
(5,075 posts)Who pays the withholding tax? and the FICA?
Sounds a little under-the-table to me. Regardless of the activity, it is probably a taxable interaction just like paying your maid or your lawn service.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Can't anyone have a little privacy these days? If some average Joe, not related to anyone in a position of power, had hired an escort, would anyone (other than his immediate family) care?
Kurska
(5,739 posts)Maybe he is Bi. Maybe they have an open relationship.
Gawker gets to come in and essentially destroy the lives on an entire family without any evidence of any wrong doing on the guy's part.
Blue_Adept
(6,399 posts)Didn't we have reams and reams of pages about how johns should be outed for their behavior in making this entire industry exist?
Kurska
(5,739 posts)Especially when the only reason they are doing this is they failed to black mail the person to get their government connections on an apartment dispute.
Blue_Adept
(6,399 posts)Kurska
(5,739 posts)Health and safety procedures in registered brothels.
Bring it out of the shadows, sunlight is the best disinfectant.
Blue_Adept
(6,399 posts)NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)My humble opinion.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Yes, we've seen countless posts expounding on this "evil."
jeff47
(26,549 posts)But in the end, you'll have your wish. This prostitute won't have any johns anymore.
Hell Hath No Fury
(16,327 posts)I do not find it appropriate in this case.
Hassin Bin Sober
(26,335 posts)AngryAmish
(25,704 posts)NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)gvstn
(2,805 posts)They had some really clever writers but when this gets recognized and they have a following and presumably ask for a raise then they are gone. Replaced by the next desperate college grad that needs a job.
Gawker has become just an aggregator getting most of its "news" from the Daily Mail and the rest from HuffPo and Reddit. Virtually no original pieces anymore. Unless you call this an original piece. Ugh.
I still read because the commenters are still witty but this type of crap might change my mind.
I don't know if Geithner did it or not but even if he did it from their account he paid the guy even though he cancelled the appointment, paid for his airfare for a flight he didn't take, paid for his hotel. The guy is clearly unhinged, yet they print his account of the story with very little evidence. The whole thing is to go against the owners of Reddit.
Rex
(65,616 posts)"Whether the issue is marriage or protection from discrimination, Sen. Ted Cruz has consistently opposed equality for LGBT Americans. And hes gone even further, attacking fellow Republicans for marching in pride parades, and using his opposition to marriage to win his first Senate campaign."
I guess even an evil bastard like Cruz, can show some compassion? Seems very out of character for one that hates the LGBT community, but good on him for doing something positive.
MADem
(135,425 posts)Rex
(65,616 posts)Given the level of escort we are talking about. Maybe he had no idea, find that real hard to believe.
Prism
(5,815 posts)Nothing in the outing article paints the guy as anti-gay. In fact, he comes out looking fairly decent in not using his political connections.
So what was the point? We don't know his marital arrangements. Maybe his wife is fine with it. The gay escort certainly isn't a victim. He is apparently getting paid big money in a chosen profession (well, maybe not after this).
So . . .
Why is being gay still being reported as a shameful, scandalous secret? If I questioned every single person's reasons for being in the closet, I'd get nothing done.
closeupready
(29,503 posts)Prism
(5,815 posts)Apparently the escort is volatile and probably mentally ill. Lots of certifiable insanity on his facebook page - that Gawker knew about.
And they still ran the story. Blergh.
stevenleser
(32,886 posts)Brickbat
(19,339 posts)MADem
(135,425 posts)the purchase of sexual congress, but then the individual selling the 'product' found out his client had clout and tried to use him to solve his legal problem. When that didn't work, he outed the guy.
If Mr. Geithner/Gardner doesn't have an "open" relationship with his wife (and if I had to place a bet, I'd guess that he doesn't), his marriage is probably over and his spouse and children have to deal with a broken home.
I think there's a family in Orleans MA who isn't enjoying their summer holiday on the Cape very much at all....
The villian in this piece is the film star/prostitute. Ted Cruz is no hero, he's just a footnote to this dumb, mean mess--I'm betting he didn't even know his constituent's line of work.
LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)Apparently his lawsuit, if it is successful, represents a monetary amount that is a de facto death sentence for Gawker. They published a sex tape and refused to take it down, so he's suing for $100m in damages. During the trial preliminary procedures it was discovered they're registered in a tax shelter in the Caymans lol.
Tabloid trash
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)would be even richer and more insufferable.
A conundrum, it is.
LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)No matter who wins, society loses
Blue_Tires
(55,445 posts)snagglepuss
(12,704 posts)sexuality and his extracurricular activities than he is scum.