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sheshe2

(83,786 posts)
Mon Aug 3, 2015, 05:41 PM Aug 2015

Dear White America: Your Toxic Masculinity is Killing You

Dear White America,

I am your friend. I have written several letters of this type to you before. It pains me to have to do so again. What I am going to share in this letter may be commonsense for many white brothers and sisters. Other White Americans may be surprised. Because our society is so segregated, people of color often do not have many opportunities to talk with white people in a direct way regarding our sincere worries about the problems in your community. I hope that this open letter can be part of a broader conversation in that regard.

When a person suffers from chronic pain they often find ways to compensate for it. Some people self-medicate with drugs or alcohol. Others develop the mental discipline necessary to compartmentalize their physical suffering. Others cocoon themselves in a bubble of denial. Because I am your friend, I am going to be honest with you. White America is suffering from a type of cancer. It is hurting you; it is killing your children; it is damaging families; it hurls shrapnel in many directions, maiming and otherwise bringing an end to the lives of those people who are unfortunate enough to be in its blast radius. If you want the truth, this is it: toxic white masculinity, and the backward right-wing politics which nurture and protect it, are hurting millions of you every year.

Snip//


Toxic white masculinity defaults to violence as a means of maintaining social and political control. It clings to guns as a symbol of “real” male identity. It fears women as equals; it lashes out at non-whites who are somehow “stealing” white men’s jobs and power. Toxic white masculinity sees “liberals,” “progressives,” “social justice,” and “feminism” as enemies — out of a fear that “white masculinity” will somehow be made obsolete or extinct. The dream worlds and paranoid fantasies of angry white men are distractions that look to some type of Other as the preeminent threat to America’s safety and security. The reality is of course, very different.

Snip//

In the Age of Obama, the Republican Party has found itself increasingly dysfunctional as its politics are seemingly unable to evolve beyond “hate the black guy in the White House and anything that he proposes,” however reasonable. In many ways — the fetishistic embrace of guns, hostility to women’s rights, Islamophobia, symbolic and overt racism against black people the policies and talking points of the contemporary Republican Party are toxic white masculinity as a campaign platform.Together with the alternate reality created by the right-wing media, the Republican Party has become so radicalized, breaking many of the standing norms of consensus politics in modern American politics, that it no longer functions as a responsible political organization.

Read More http://www.chaunceydevega.com/2015/08/dear-white-america-your-toxic.html#more

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Dear White America: Your Toxic Masculinity is Killing You (Original Post) sheshe2 Aug 2015 OP
#NotAllwhitePeople, in 3 ... 2 ... 1 ... eom 1StrongBlackMan Aug 2015 #1
Probably. sheshe2 Aug 2015 #5
That train is never late, and it has an "I don't see color" caboose. betsuni Aug 2015 #9
Oooh! Oooh! Want the Chris Rock version? It has bad words but it's hilarious. n/t freshwest Aug 2015 #39
Do men find it hilarious when he calls women "bitches:? whathehell Aug 2015 #129
TBH, I think he's posting again. Everywhere. n/t freshwest Aug 2015 #31
Lol! bravenak Aug 2015 #72
Amazing. His friend 'Name Removed' is also posting a lot on this thread, too! n/t freshwest Aug 2015 #163
. XemaSab Aug 2015 #82
You noticed that too? JTFrog Aug 2015 #179
And found a Profile with the same info, too. But been here a long time. So was the other one. n/t freshwest Aug 2015 #200
heh *sucks teeth* nt Quayblue Aug 2015 #32
So #AllWhitePeople ? Nuclear Unicorn Aug 2015 #77
That was my exact point ... 1StrongBlackMan Aug 2015 #78
Keep banging away. It's pretty much a binary formula. Nuclear Unicorn Aug 2015 #79
Okay. ... 1StrongBlackMan Aug 2015 #80
Smilies are evasions. Nuclear Unicorn Aug 2015 #83
Because you are not interested in my being "helpful" ... 1StrongBlackMan Aug 2015 #88
What cute little word play. Nuclear Unicorn Aug 2015 #95
Okay. n/t 1StrongBlackMan Aug 2015 #99
You cant win, white people are so privileged and blinded to their privilege, that a reasonable AllFieldsRequired Aug 2015 #153
Message auto-removed Name removed Aug 2015 #155
I can see holding all whites responsible for confronting and fighting white racism. Ken Burch Aug 2015 #213
If white people heaven05 Aug 2015 #227
Okay here's an old one for you heaven05 Aug 2015 #225
What shoe is supposed to be fitting? The OP is about toxic white racism. Nuclear Unicorn Aug 2015 #230
did I? heaven05 Aug 2015 #246
You said -- Nuclear Unicorn Aug 2015 #251
I think the #NotAllWhiteFolks thing is mainly used by white conservatives,not anti-racist whites. Ken Burch Aug 2015 #212
If you xcome out your bubble heaven05 Aug 2015 #224
I never said racism doesn't exist so figure out something else to be upset about. Nuclear Unicorn Aug 2015 #229
I am the farther heaven05 Aug 2015 #245
The article sounds like it's talking about white people who believe this: gollygee Aug 2015 #86
+1 ... 1StrongBlackMan Aug 2015 #90
Then why did you make the response, "#NotAllwhitePeople, in 3 ... 2 ... 1 ... eom"? aikoaiko Aug 2015 #101
Your inability to understand the point of his saying "not all white people" in this context AllFieldsRequired Aug 2015 #157
Which I why I'm asking him to explain. He appears contradictory aikoaiko Aug 2015 #159
The two points are not contradictory. n/t 1StrongBlackMan Aug 2015 #172
If you say so, but on the face they do appear contradictory to me. aikoaiko Aug 2015 #173
Don't worry ... 1StrongBlackMan Aug 2015 #181
be offended, so what? heaven05 Aug 2015 #228
Well, this thread was basically over on Tuesday and most people moved on...but not you. aikoaiko Aug 2015 #237
you're still here heaven05 Aug 2015 #247
well, I'm very grateful that you're concerned now. My life is richer for it. aikoaiko Aug 2015 #252
I think he was anticipating such a response. stone space Aug 2015 #214
Sure, but 1SB later admits it's not all white people. aikoaiko Aug 2015 #218
Some "admission". stone space Aug 2015 #221
Is this toxic white masculinity -- Nuclear Unicorn Aug 2015 #93
What percentage of white Americans respond to "the Southern strategy?" gollygee Aug 2015 #97
Message auto-removed Name removed Aug 2015 #103
Welcome to DU gollygee Aug 2015 #106
"I'm thinking it's less than half but more than 'not many.'" Nuclear Unicorn Aug 2015 #112
Yes, but again, saying "#notallwhitepeople" doesn't mean it's actually all white people gollygee Aug 2015 #120
"it's only talking about complaints that articles and/or posts should have to specify" Nuclear Unicorn Aug 2015 #122
no one need explain anything about male toxicity heaven05 Aug 2015 #232
It's amazing how many people want to weasel their way into a false sense of moral superiority. Nuclear Unicorn Aug 2015 #243
you've done very well heaven05 Aug 2015 #248
"Concerned, sometimes, that some racist pig will hate my color and try to kill me because of it" Nuclear Unicorn Aug 2015 #253
Funny, I thought I would die from the nachos I am eating. Eleanors38 Aug 2015 #133
This thread needs more guns! stone space Aug 2015 #215
What's wrong with POC having guns? Nuclear Unicorn Aug 2015 #217
You habitually use Black folks just like you use Women. stone space Aug 2015 #219
I unequivocally support people of color exercising their inherent human right of self-defense. Nuclear Unicorn Aug 2015 #220
toxicity heaven05 Aug 2015 #231
Thank you gollygee. sheshe2 Aug 2015 #123
Right-wing white folks moreso, though. Ken Burch Aug 2015 #211
0-7 Jury Flagging. Result: LEAVE IT ALONE - Some people are too sensitive and abuse this feature. TheBlackAdder Aug 2015 #160
#NotAllAlertWhiners Nuclear Unicorn Aug 2015 #161
but plenty of whiners still heaven05 Aug 2015 #233
Message auto-removed Name removed Aug 2015 #100
Whoosh. n/t 1StrongBlackMan Aug 2015 #102
Message auto-removed Name removed Aug 2015 #104
What's name removed talking about? He keeps on talking to you and me but I don't see it. n/t freshwest Aug 2015 #162
exactly heaven05 Aug 2015 #234
All masculinity, regardless of color, can be toxic hack89 Aug 2015 #2
Gender expectations and stereotypes are damaging in general. Kurska Aug 2015 #3
Not really DustyJoe Aug 2015 #6
There's definitely a gender distinction that can be made XemaSab Aug 2015 #81
Yes! In fact just yesterday Syzygy321 Aug 2015 #249
This message was self-deleted by its author Go Vols Aug 2015 #13
This message was self-deleted by its author William769 Aug 2015 #14
Ha! (nt.) Starry Messenger Aug 2015 #16
It would help if you read the article. sheshe2 Aug 2015 #24
ty,I will delete Go Vols Aug 2015 #25
Thanks. sheshe2 Aug 2015 #27
What about run of the mill shootings? hack89 Aug 2015 #41
Who is manufacturing the guns? Who is flooding our communities with them? stone space Aug 2015 #216
try as you may to deny the truth heaven05 Aug 2015 #235
What exactly is the truth? hack89 Aug 2015 #254
many are uniquely racist heaven05 Aug 2015 #255
But not more violent then other races hack89 Aug 2015 #256
all pretty pretty violent I would agree heaven05 Aug 2015 #257
There are plenty of violent war loving governments in the world hack89 Aug 2015 #258
Governments are led by people heaven05 Aug 2015 #259
White men may commit 63% of mass killings virgogal Aug 2015 #54
I missed where this was stated. sheshe2 Aug 2015 #67
I wonder where he gets that figure from? aikoaiko Aug 2015 #69
And lost, apparently in all of this, is the point of the piece ... 1StrongBlackMan Aug 2015 #113
Lost because, the article was not read. nt sheshe2 Aug 2015 #127
The point of this piece is to trash white masculinity aikoaiko Aug 2015 #166
Okay. n/t 1StrongBlackMan Aug 2015 #167
You may be okay with that, but I'm not. aikoaiko Aug 2015 #168
Okay. n/t 1StrongBlackMan Aug 2015 #169
Well, since your taking the time to respond to this subthread, how about this one? aikoaiko Aug 2015 #171
+1000 smirkymonkey Aug 2015 #201
true heaven05 Aug 2015 #236
Since I pulled this up to make a point about gender, I may as well repost it here: XemaSab Aug 2015 #85
more to the point hfojvt Aug 2015 #198
single white males kill/murder heaven05 Aug 2015 #238
That says that they commit mass shootings at exactly the expected rate XemaSab Aug 2015 #84
Never let science, math or logic get in the way of righteous outrage. hifiguy Aug 2015 #158
Post removed Post removed Aug 2015 #96
A mass shooting means there were multiple victims sulphurdunn Aug 2015 #98
Bullshit sulphurdunn Aug 2015 #30
I never thought you would say something like this. The gun stuff threw me off. Yes I agree. JanMichael Aug 2015 #33
The toxic comes here, post 24 sheshe2 Aug 2015 #68
Exactly. Skin color & ethnicity doesn't matter, particularly in USA statistics. It's the gender underahedgerow Aug 2015 #89
if you were my 'friend', you wouldn't be addressing me by my skin color HFRN Aug 2015 #4
She's only addressing you if you fit in one of these categories: freshwest Aug 2015 #37
Thank you freshwest! sheshe2 Aug 2015 #42
I don't think you can deflect this essay so easily. aikoaiko Aug 2015 #55
Not all white males have that overwhelming machismo Jamastiene Aug 2015 #65
If one is a white male with any degree of masculinity aikoaiko Aug 2015 #66
"If one is a white male with any degree of masculinity" BeanMusical Aug 2015 #74
I agree that it's silly but that's what the essay is about aikoaiko Aug 2015 #75
you're deflecting, distracting from and diminishing the truth heaven05 Aug 2015 #239
Message auto-removed Name removed Aug 2015 #140
Message auto-removed Name removed Aug 2015 #150
substitute 'Toxic white' for something else, and you could be reading a 1930s German article HFRN Aug 2015 #7
Oh please shenmue Aug 2015 #20
Dear black dude, you lost me with your opening. Comrade Grumpy Aug 2015 #8
That is probably because you never bothered reading the rest. sheshe2 Aug 2015 #44
NEVER does heaven05 Aug 2015 #240
I imagine that happens quite often. LanternWaste Aug 2015 #128
Chauncy Devega says “white privilege" is a distracting term but toxic white masculinity is friendly. aikoaiko Aug 2015 #10
Oh cheeses! We're finally turning a corner. Smarmie Doofus Aug 2015 #11
. Nye Bevan Aug 2015 #12
That's interesting. cwydro Aug 2015 #91
I knew it would not be long before someone ... 1StrongBlackMan Aug 2015 #156
Dead is dead. Boudica the Lyoness Aug 2015 #180
True. Dead is dead ... 1StrongBlackMan Aug 2015 #183
Way to blame the victim! XemaSab Aug 2015 #184
How am I blaming the victim? ... 1StrongBlackMan Aug 2015 #185
But in the latter situation, the cause of the death doesn't/didn't die with the individual killed XemaSab Aug 2015 #187
No. I thought I said ... 1StrongBlackMan Aug 2015 #189
Keep digging that hole XemaSab Aug 2015 #194
Okay. I am NOT blaming the victim ... 1StrongBlackMan Aug 2015 #195
Try again XemaSab Aug 2015 #196
I'm done ... 1StrongBlackMan Aug 2015 #197
I wouldn't waste time with you heaven05 Aug 2015 #244
what?????????? heaven05 Aug 2015 #242
there is a career heaven05 Aug 2015 #241
They should have also added reading comprehension. nt William769 Aug 2015 #15
... sheshe2 Aug 2015 #17
Because Toxic Masculinity only kills white Americans seveneyes Aug 2015 #18
Got it, ya never read the article. sheshe2 Aug 2015 #45
hmmm generalized negative remarks about an entire group based on skin color. Yes, that's racist Amishman Aug 2015 #19
They're not "generalized negative remarks", they clearly observations based on experience. George II Aug 2015 #21
funny, i hear a lot of racists justify their opinions the same way Amishman Aug 2015 #29
Sir, you misunderstand what "racism" means nt ismnotwasm Aug 2015 #28
Well ... It HAS been a couple of months since we last did that dance ... 1StrongBlackMan Aug 2015 #114
Remember, Chauncey DeVega is a friend of white America seveneyes Aug 2015 #22
Had the same friendly letter sulphurdunn Aug 2015 #34
Actually melman Aug 2015 #50
There is no misogyny in any black culture Syzygy321 Aug 2015 #71
LOL! whathehell Aug 2015 #147
Interesting how some people don't --or won't read past the title and the excerpt ismnotwasm Aug 2015 #23
Thank you for actually reading ism! sheshe2 Aug 2015 #26
an identifier such as "white" shuts down the parietal lobe eom Quayblue Aug 2015 #176
Makes one wonder why the title was entitled as such and why that part was excerpted. aikoaiko Aug 2015 #178
I'm leaving the west to avoid WHITE TOXIC MASCULINITY LittleBlue Aug 2015 #35
Because white colonialism had nothing to do with any of them! ismnotwasm Aug 2015 #36
Yes, why can't those countries be like Ethiopia and Liberia LittleBlue Aug 2015 #38
Message auto-removed Name removed Aug 2015 #108
I know right! Those evil white bastards brought FGM to Africa as well snooper2 Aug 2015 #121
Yeah you white men suck. Syzygy321 Aug 2015 #207
I sure hope you are satirizing someone. Syzygy321 Aug 2015 #206
Oh good lord Egnever Aug 2015 #40
Got it........... sheshe2 Aug 2015 #51
Why would I? Egnever Aug 2015 #56
You are not interested in seeing the GOP & Baggers trashed.... sheshe2 Aug 2015 #57
At the expense of the whole white race? Egnever Aug 2015 #58
No comments until you read it. sheshe2 Aug 2015 #60
I read it, I'm white and yes it singles out whites from top to bottom. Nuclear Unicorn Aug 2015 #115
Anyone who groups me with Republicans can...start over. DisgustipatedinCA Aug 2015 #43
If you read the whole thing.... sheshe2 Aug 2015 #47
I got that from the excerpt alone. DisgustipatedinCA Aug 2015 #48
The excerpt specifically says gollygee Aug 2015 #87
Yes, I know. The topic of the article is clear to me. DisgustipatedinCA Aug 2015 #107
Actually it trashes white masculinity as toxic and uses the GOP as an example. aikoaiko Aug 2015 #165
I'd really like to be able to say, "IT'S NOT TRUE!" GitRDun Aug 2015 #46
I was at a newish client's house artislife Aug 2015 #52
Amen n/t GitRDun Aug 2015 #53
I'm going to have to steal your reply. johnp3907 Aug 2015 #177
This is pretty spot on nt artislife Aug 2015 #49
I am curious if the author Syzygy321 Aug 2015 #59
It's funny that you can't accept that people read it and some reject it. aikoaiko Aug 2015 #61
There's nothing that I can add to this... MrScorpio Aug 2015 #62
Good to see you MrScorpio. sheshe2 Aug 2015 #64
It's true. Jamastiene Aug 2015 #63
My thanks Jamastiene. nt sheshe2 Aug 2015 #70
Toxic masculinity is just as deadly for black America. nt BreakfastClub Aug 2015 #73
Ever heard the song, "Bitches Ain't Shit but Hos and Tricks"? Nuclear Unicorn Aug 2015 #76
Shhhhh! XemaSab Aug 2015 #92
Yeah, but what about Penicillin? The Personal Computer? The Apollo program? Calculus. Philosophy. Romulox Aug 2015 #111
Actually ... That's exactly how it works ... 1StrongBlackMan Aug 2015 #116
Then don't do that. Nuclear Unicorn Aug 2015 #118
He kinda skipped over the part where *he himself* is the one doing that, didn't he? nt Romulox Aug 2015 #125
So...I get credit for Penicillin, then? That pretty much evens the score. Romulox Aug 2015 #124
How about credit for -- Nuclear Unicorn Aug 2015 #117
#NotAllConstitutionalAmendments Romulox Aug 2015 #126
Why do you work so hard to be the victim ... 1StrongBlackMan Aug 2015 #130
So, some internet crank posts "the problem with white people is..." screed and when Nuclear Unicorn Aug 2015 #135
That's not what the OP said. n/t 1StrongBlackMan Aug 2015 #136
Are you seriously suggesting that if someone wrote -- Nuclear Unicorn Aug 2015 #148
You still haven't read the OP, have you? 1StrongBlackMan Aug 2015 #151
Yes, I did. Nuclear Unicorn Aug 2015 #152
Okay. it's difficult to tell ... 1StrongBlackMan Aug 2015 #154
No 'toxic masculinity' there, right? whathehell Aug 2015 #145
not to be that guy but retrowire Aug 2015 #94
This is the silliest thing I have read in along time. Puddy Aug 2015 #105
Well, you're new here so give it a minute. Nuclear Unicorn Aug 2015 #119
Blammo. hifiguy Aug 2015 #186
OMG, we really need to stop blaming America’s problems on a certain race or gender. Chapter2 Aug 2015 #109
You too are tired of identity politics? Ace Rothstein Aug 2015 #164
Same here. romanic Aug 2015 #170
Amen brother/sister. hifiguy Aug 2015 #188
Do the statistics bear out the OP though? Pretty sure they don't. nt Romulox Aug 2015 #110
Spot fucking on. Starry Messenger Aug 2015 #131
Right, because men of color don't have any of that going on whathehell Aug 2015 #132
'that there is such a thing as toxic white masculinity is both surprising and enraging' Rex Aug 2015 #134
Message auto-removed Name removed Aug 2015 #137
I'm glad my point pissed you off so much that you signed up to write to me. Rex Aug 2015 #138
Message auto-removed Name removed Aug 2015 #139
Keep trying! Rex Aug 2015 #141
Message auto-removed Name removed Aug 2015 #144
Hi, Rex sheshe2 Aug 2015 #142
You too sheshe2 thanks for the great article! Rex Aug 2015 #143
Lol~ sheshe2 Aug 2015 #149
Spot on Rex. Ilios Meows Aug 2015 #174
Because the article does not refer to conservative male masculinity -- just toxic white masculinity aikoaiko Aug 2015 #175
Yes it does, all one has to do is READ it. Rex Aug 2015 #190
Let me put it this way, if I wrote, "it is Rex's toxic white masculinity that defaults to violence.. aikoaiko Aug 2015 #193
IF 'Rex' was some idiot RWing militia type that wants to end the federal government then yeah. Rex Aug 2015 #226
Well I'm not white so half of this doesn't apply to me. romanic Aug 2015 #146
Some people are bad because they're unlike me. They're a different color and whatnot. n/t lumberjack_jeff Aug 2015 #182
That's the gist. nt pecwae Aug 2015 #191
So this is where that thread came from Coolest Ranger Aug 2015 #192
Hey CR... sheshe2 Aug 2015 #203
FYI.... sheshe2 Aug 2015 #204
Hey, now that I read it... sheshe2 Aug 2015 #205
It may have been paradody Coolest Ranger Aug 2015 #208
Hugs, CR. sheshe2 Aug 2015 #210
I initially thought, "Dear Violent Racist White America," would have been a better title, Dark n Stormy Knight Aug 2015 #199
I have to laugh when "hostility to women's rights" Syzygy321 Aug 2015 #202
Good read, but why is the author oblivious to homophobia as part of the Betty Karlson Aug 2015 #209
Can we please just distinguish between Shankapotomus Aug 2015 #222
This is a succinct, concise heaven05 Aug 2015 #223
My dear friend, heaven. sheshe2 Aug 2015 #250

sheshe2

(83,786 posts)
5. Probably.
Mon Aug 3, 2015, 06:15 PM
Aug 2015

It's actually a good read and indeed describes The GOP, Tea party and Faux News to a T.

Check you the comments section, 1SBM.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
129. Do men find it hilarious when he calls women "bitches:?
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 11:46 AM
Aug 2015

Me, as a woman? Not so much.

Chris Rock rants about Racism, but routinely shits on women of all races and couldn't care less.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
79. Keep banging away. It's pretty much a binary formula.
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 07:56 AM
Aug 2015

If you're mocking "Not all white people" that tends to lean towards "Yes, all white people." Perhaps you meant, "The Overwhelming Majority of White People" or even "A Scant Few White People" I don't know as smilies are more a tool of evasion than exposition.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
83. Smilies are evasions.
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 08:08 AM
Aug 2015

Try to be helpful. What segment of white society/culture/race is responsible? All? Most? Around half? Some? A few?

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
88. Because you are not interested in my being "helpful" ...
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 08:19 AM
Aug 2015

you want to do exactly what the #NotAll meme represents.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
95. What cute little word play.
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 08:40 AM
Aug 2015

Not.

You deride "not all white people" which pretty much says "all white people" and when called on it you run away and hide behind smilies and "you don't want to be helpful."

So every time someone sees you being derisive of all white people you get blame them rather than have the backbone to actually explain what you mean. And then you get hostile and whiny about being asked to explain what you mean.

That epitomizes "not helpful."

Stop hiding behind memes and actually have the courage to say what you mean. If you're afraid to say it because it sounds really racist maybe the problem isn't with the people noting the fact that is sounds really racist.

Go ahead and say it. Is it all white people? An overwhelming majority? Half? Some? A few?

AllFieldsRequired

(489 posts)
153. You cant win, white people are so privileged and blinded to their privilege, that a reasonable
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 01:48 PM
Aug 2015

exchange about these issues is rare with MOST white people, yes MOST.

Now, the masculinity issue is ALL males, to one degree or another.

If not all very close to all males.



Response to AllFieldsRequired (Reply #153)

 

Ken Burch

(50,254 posts)
213. I can see holding all whites responsible for confronting and fighting white racism.
Thu Aug 6, 2015, 02:53 AM
Aug 2015

We do bear that responsibility. We have often failed to take it, and there is no excuse for that.

But do you really believe we can only be spurred to fight racism by using a formulation(#YESALLWHITEFOLKS)that implies that all of us are actively supporting the perpetuation of racism?

What would you think of #WhiteFolksAgainstWhitePrivilege as an alternative hashtag?

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
227. If white people
Fri Aug 7, 2015, 05:36 PM
Aug 2015

Last edited Fri Aug 7, 2015, 10:13 PM - Edit history (1)

in a majority had moved, at some time in the last 250 right up to today, and had stood up and said, this black man, woman is my brother, sister and you must stop treating them as 2nd class citizens, racism would have been a manageable problem.

White people do not care about stopping racism because they don't want it stopped. To have it stop would mean everyone would truly be entitled to the goodies only a certain segment of this society has always enjoyed. Lord knows, that privilege cannot EVER be threatened by something as inconsequential, to a majority of white people, as racial equality and justice. It's not a complicated truth or is it able to be diminished as a generations old TRUTH, no matter how hard you try.

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
225. Okay here's an old one for you
Fri Aug 7, 2015, 05:28 PM
Aug 2015

Last edited Sun Aug 16, 2015, 09:41 PM - Edit history (1)

"if the shoe fits"........ and it seems to fit many, many, many of the "toxic" very well. There are a lot of shoes fitting actually, here and there .....

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
230. What shoe is supposed to be fitting? The OP is about toxic white racism.
Fri Aug 7, 2015, 05:43 PM
Aug 2015

Are you calling me a toxic white racist?

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
251. You said --
Fri Aug 7, 2015, 06:35 PM
Aug 2015
"if the shoe fits"........ and it seems to fit many, many, many of the "toxic" very well. There are a lot of shoes fitting actualyly, here and there


The thread is about toxic racism. You were addressing me saying the shoe fits.
 

Ken Burch

(50,254 posts)
212. I think the #NotAllWhiteFolks thing is mainly used by white conservatives,not anti-racist whites.
Thu Aug 6, 2015, 02:44 AM
Aug 2015

That said...while it's absolutely right to call out racism in all forms, why is it important to you to seemingly indict every individual white person in the racist systen rather than focusing on the white power structure?

Yes, whites as a group have benefited and still benefit from racism...obviously...I think we all agree here on that...but how does it hell to imply that every individual white is somehow intentionally complicit in preserving racism? What harm does it do to at least accept that some of us are trying to resist and end "white skin privileges"?

It's not as if racism can be defeated or even effectively resisted through separatism. Majority support is needed for that prject to succeed.

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
224. If you xcome out your bubble
Fri Aug 7, 2015, 05:25 PM
Aug 2015

for 10 seconds that's all the time you would probably need to find a racist incident in amerikkka involving a POC and one of the toxic white male and female supremacists extolling the right of white dominance over POC. You're joking, right? I didn't think so.... Part of the OP showed up. excellent....

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
245. I am the farther
Fri Aug 7, 2015, 06:22 PM
Aug 2015

from upset that you could ever realize. I am Laughing at the twisting, turning, distraction and how people on here are making themselves victims because they cannot deal with the truth of one of the major cause of racism....white male need to asserts white supremacy and control over POC. They do this by killing, murdering, summarily executing, men women and children of color. I am LAUGHING...LOUD....... AT SOME OF THESE RESPONSES.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
86. The article sounds like it's talking about white people who believe this:
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 08:16 AM
Aug 2015

copied from OP:

Toxic white masculinity defaults to violence as a means of maintaining social and political control. It clings to guns as a symbol of “real” male identity. It fears women as equals; it lashes out at non-whites who are somehow “stealing” white men’s jobs and power. Toxic white masculinity sees “liberals,” “progressives,” “social justice,” and “feminism” as enemies — out of a fear that “white masculinity” will somehow be made obsolete or extinct.

It's talking about the people "the Southern strategy" works with.

And I think 1SBM said "#notallwhitepeople" because threads like this get a bunch of replies saying "not all white people" often by people who obviously haven't read the article, not because it's about all white people. An article that says a problem exists in white America isn't saying that every individual white American has that problem. It only says that a problem exists somewhere in white America. A segmet of white America is like this, and it isn't just a few people, though I don't know the percentage. Maybe equal to the percentage of white people who like Donald Trump as a candidate.

But 1SBM seems to pick up alerts and hides easily, even when his posts aren't particularly controversial, so he can't freely reply.

aikoaiko

(34,170 posts)
101. Then why did you make the response, "#NotAllwhitePeople, in 3 ... 2 ... 1 ... eom"?
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 09:13 AM
Aug 2015

Last edited Tue Aug 4, 2015, 11:46 AM - Edit history (1)

So which is it?

Is this article about all white people and in denial by saying "not all white people" (as your first reply to the OP would indicate) or is this article only about some white people (e.g., GOPers, RWers, and teapartiers)?

Hmmmm?

AllFieldsRequired

(489 posts)
157. Your inability to understand the point of his saying "not all white people" in this context
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 02:00 PM
Aug 2015

is in and of itself an illustration of the problem.

Not picking on you, many seem incapable of understanding why 1sB would say what he said in this context.

aikoaiko

(34,170 posts)
159. Which I why I'm asking him to explain. He appears contradictory
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 02:12 PM
Aug 2015

Last edited Tue Aug 4, 2015, 03:53 PM - Edit history (1)


In one response he mocks white people who might say "not all white people"

But in response to complaints about the OP being too broad brushed and someone says its not about all white but about conservatives, he gives that response a +1 and "I couldn't have responded better"

Which is it? Since he isn't explaining the contradiction, I welcome your explanation of 1SB

aikoaiko

(34,170 posts)
173. If you say so, but on the face they do appear contradictory to me.
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 03:53 PM
Aug 2015

And if you have the ability to see that from my perspective you might understand why the article is offensive.

Or maybe that's the point -- to offend white males. That would make sense.
 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
181. Don't worry ...
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 05:00 PM
Aug 2015

Over time you develop a thick skin (that is why you see so few "#NoAllBlackPeople" or "#NotAllWomen" or "#NotAllHispanics/Latinos" posts. And take heart, and it should be relatively easy to develop, as beyond being "offended", is the only no ill-effect you are likely to experience.

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
228. be offended, so what?
Fri Aug 7, 2015, 05:38 PM
Aug 2015

been offended all my life by the very toxic type people in the article. Dry your tears and move on, nothing to see here, move on.

aikoaiko

(34,170 posts)
237. Well, this thread was basically over on Tuesday and most people moved on...but not you.
Fri Aug 7, 2015, 06:00 PM
Aug 2015

So maybe you need to move on.

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
247. you're still here
Fri Aug 7, 2015, 06:26 PM
Aug 2015

still trying to give orders, huh. Sorry I missed Tuesday...I've been busy this week with other things and not concerned with people who make themselves victims.

aikoaiko

(34,170 posts)
252. well, I'm very grateful that you're concerned now. My life is richer for it.
Fri Aug 7, 2015, 06:42 PM
Aug 2015

Enjoy this thread for all its worth.
 

stone space

(6,498 posts)
214. I think he was anticipating such a response.
Thu Aug 6, 2015, 04:31 AM
Aug 2015
Then why did you make the response, "#NotAllwhitePeople, in 3 ... 2 ... 1 ... eom"?


He risked looking foolish by doing so, if nobody had followed thru and said it, and his post had been left just hanging there. (After all, they had fair warning!)

But somebody did.



Come on guys!

If folks would show just a little restraint when somebody anticipates what they are thinking and don't immediately validate the predictions in public, then the person making the prediction ends up looking silly, rather than the person proving the prediction to be a valid one.



Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
93. Is this toxic white masculinity --
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 08:32 AM
Aug 2015


I mean, it's guns and all and they look fairly monochromatic. But since the topic at hand is whether or not its "not all white people" what segment of white men suffer from sufficient quantities of Toxic White Masculinity to fear these "women as equals" particularly the "'real' male identity"?

So, if my previous interlocutor derides the idea of #NotAllWhitePeople what portion of white people are we talking about? All white people? An overwhelming majority? Around half? Not many?

An article that says a problem exists in white America isn't saying that every individual white American has that problem. It only says that a problem exists somewhere in white America.

Problems exist everywhere and that which is self-destructive seems to carry the hazards of being more immediate and lesser admitted.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
97. What percentage of white Americans respond to "the Southern strategy?"
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 08:44 AM
Aug 2015

I'm not sure of the percentage but I'm thinking it's less than half but more than "not many."

And yes, there are problems among all groups of people everywhere in the world. This article is just about one particular problem that exists among a segment of people in one particular group. There are other articles about other problems.

Response to gollygee (Reply #97)

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
120. Yes, but again, saying "#notallwhitepeople" doesn't mean it's actually all white people
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 11:15 AM
Aug 2015

it's only talking about complaints that articles and/or posts should have to specify that something is not referring to all white people. That people will respond with "Not all white people!" If I say, "White people like peanut butter and jelly sandwiches," that doesn't mean that I've done a survey and every single white person likes PB&J. And this didn't even say "white people." It talked about "toxic white masculinity," which I've sometimes heard called hyper-masculinity, where people try to appear super masculine to hide some kind of anxiety or something. Whatever you call it, there's a certain type of masculinity that causes some dysfunction. I read downthread that people of color can have problems with certain types of masculinity too. I don't doubt that, but this article is about a type of masculinity some white people have that causes them to be racist and sometimes violently racist.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
122. "it's only talking about complaints that articles and/or posts should have to specify"
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 11:28 AM
Aug 2015

Oh, bull crap. Peddle that trash to someone dumb enough to buy it.

I gave 1SBM multiple opportunities to explain what he means. He has made dogged effort to avoid doing just that so specificity is not the issue. Specificity is the last thing these racist screeds masquerading as commentary want to delve in to because as soon as we start talking actual facts and stats the "we just want a conversation" crowd screams "SHUT-UP!"


It talked about 'white masculinity,' which I've sometimes heard called hyper-masculinity

Which is in no way contingent on skin color, see: Honor Killings, Female Genital Mutilation, drowning baby girls, machismo, bride burning etc. get rid of white male sexism and you're still going to have a world drowning in male sexism.

But wait. Just down-thread we're informed all those misogynist customs in other cultures are to blame because -- wait for it -- white colonialism! Apparently whites created and propagated misogyny across the globe and all other cultures were gender-egalitarian paradises until those dreaded white people showed up.


this article is about a type of masculinity some white people have that causes them to be racist and sometimes violently racist.

Why? Because it's race-baiting bull crap. It's the same sort of shallow hypocrisy that says, "Look at the mote in your eye" while ignoring the beam in its own eye.
 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
232. no one need explain anything about male toxicity
Fri Aug 7, 2015, 05:49 PM
Aug 2015

racial toxicity to you because it is evident you know exactly what 1SBM says and means and that's why you think someone has to explain to you why you are the way you are and are offended because of it. NO ONE owes you anything, anytime. But I understand privilege does really blind one to their own foibles.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
243. It's amazing how many people want to weasel their way into a false sense of moral superiority.
Fri Aug 7, 2015, 06:16 PM
Aug 2015

If someone sarcastically/derisively says, "not all white people" the implication is "all white people." That is racist. It's just as racist as sarcastically claiming "not all Jews" or sarcastically claiming "not all Muslims" or sarcastically claiming "not all Hispanics" or sarcastically claiming "not all Asians."

I'm struck curious about the obsession over white racism as if other racism doesn't exist and should not be dealt with. What the hell is wrong with ending racism, period?



I understand privilege does really blind one to their own foibles.

Ah yes, the privilege to be bridled with the sins of all racists for all time for no reason beyond sharing skin color.

Not to be confused with those who get to slander people with implications of racism just so they can whine their way out of actually having to defend their own comments. That is a privilege I would never embrace even if it were offered to me.
 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
248. you've done very well
Fri Aug 7, 2015, 06:34 PM
Aug 2015

digging your own hole. White racism is the cause of the major race problem in amerikkka. Period. Obsessed, no. Concerned, sometimes, that some racist pig will hate my color and try to kill me because of it, distinct possibility in this society. The only whining I am aware of is the self immolated victims who are offended by the truth of white racism. But they never surprise me. Always provide me with amusement to pass a few hours in a day.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
253. "Concerned, sometimes, that some racist pig will hate my color and try to kill me because of it"
Fri Aug 7, 2015, 06:47 PM
Aug 2015

And that's wrong. It's an offense to humanity and God. All racism, wherever it is, whoever imposes.

The only thing that matters is judging people about who they are, not their skin color.

 

stone space

(6,498 posts)
215. This thread needs more guns!
Thu Aug 6, 2015, 04:39 AM
Aug 2015


Come on...you can do better than that!

Don't you have any photos of Black folks with guns?

 

stone space

(6,498 posts)
219. You habitually use Black folks just like you use Women.
Thu Aug 6, 2015, 07:24 AM
Aug 2015

In defense of white male ammosexuals.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1172&pid=173403

But this thread is no more about women than the thread I linked to is about Black folks.

Just pointing out your usual MO, that's all.

It gets annoying after a while.



Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
220. I unequivocally support people of color exercising their inherent human right of self-defense.
Thu Aug 6, 2015, 07:46 AM
Aug 2015

In many instances throughout history it has been absolutely essential for them to do so in defense of themselves and their families and their rights. I recognize that in many episodes throughout history the threat to black Americans has arisen from racists who held positions of power in the government, i.e. judges, the police, etc and this condition is far too prevalent, even today. As such I believe it would be foolish in the extreme for blacks to disarm and now, more than ever, they should exercise their rights as codified in the 2nd Amendment of the Constitution.

I recognize that the many stains on American history the Dred Scott decision sought to prevent African Americans from obtaining arms for fear of "insubordination" and policies such as "stop and frisk" have targeted African Americans to keep them disarmed. Such things fly in the face of the right to self defense.

I also unequivocally support women exercising their rights to self-defense. No woman has a duty to be disarmed when confronted by a violent attacker who more than likely possesses every advantage in physical strength.

I absolutely and unabashedly support the right to self defense and I recognize that people of color and women are more susceptible to the predations of the violent than other groups thus my support for their rights finds emphasis.

How about you?

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
231. toxicity
Fri Aug 7, 2015, 05:44 PM
Aug 2015

toxicity knows no gender boundary, neither does racism.....#notallwhitepeople show up, constantly, hence the saying....it's true, people get offended if told there are millions of racist, privileged whites who could give a damn less if race prejudice, lethal racist murders or systemic and institutional racism is ever solved.. Get over it, move on, move on, nothing to see here.

 

Ken Burch

(50,254 posts)
211. Right-wing white folks moreso, though.
Thu Aug 6, 2015, 02:24 AM
Aug 2015

The white left pretty much agrees with the OP. While we have our flaws, we aren't the ones oppressing PoC.

TheBlackAdder

(28,208 posts)
160. 0-7 Jury Flagging. Result: LEAVE IT ALONE - Some people are too sensitive and abuse this feature.
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 02:17 PM
Aug 2015

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Response to 1StrongBlackMan (Reply #1)

Response to 1StrongBlackMan (Reply #102)

hack89

(39,171 posts)
2. All masculinity, regardless of color, can be toxic
Mon Aug 3, 2015, 05:46 PM
Aug 2015

Last edited Mon Aug 3, 2015, 09:15 PM - Edit history (1)

unless you want to argue that white men are significantly more violent then men of other races. There are numerous toxic sub-cultures in America, all with men at their center.

Kurska

(5,739 posts)
3. Gender expectations and stereotypes are damaging in general.
Mon Aug 3, 2015, 05:52 PM
Aug 2015

Your gender shouldn't guide your behavior.

DustyJoe

(849 posts)
6. Not really
Mon Aug 3, 2015, 06:16 PM
Aug 2015

Every single race has violence prone members in it, none can be excluded or singled out by race or even gender.
It's more of an age distinction than a gender or race one.
 

Syzygy321

(583 posts)
249. Yes! In fact just yesterday
Fri Aug 7, 2015, 06:34 PM
Aug 2015

I heard that the local men's DV shelter needed more donations...

The sexual assault responders had arrested five college girls for gang rape...

...a female pimp was caught trafficking young men across the border for sex slavery

An armed woman carjacked an elderly couple in a Lexus...

A drunk female in her thirties got into a brawl over a parking spot and knifed the other driver...

...and a man was found dead alongside his three dead children, all shot by the abusive ex-girlfriend he had dared to run away from.

Happens every day!

Response to hack89 (Reply #2)

Response to Go Vols (Reply #13)

sheshe2

(83,786 posts)
24. It would help if you read the article.
Mon Aug 3, 2015, 08:06 PM
Aug 2015
White men are approximately 31 percent of the United States population. And yet, white men are nearly 63 percent of those people who commit mass shootings. Such behavior, among any other group, would be considered pathological and a public health crisis.


Dylann Roof turned his toxic white racist masculinity on a black church in Charleston. And John Houser — a white, right-wing, conservative, Christian fundamentalist, an anti-feminist, woman-hating Nazi sympathizer — directed his rage towards a movie theater in Lafayette last month, where he killed three people and wounded eight others.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
41. What about run of the mill shootings?
Mon Aug 3, 2015, 09:03 PM
Aug 2015

They outnumber mass shootings by an order of magnitude. What do they say about race and culture?

 

stone space

(6,498 posts)
216. Who is manufacturing the guns? Who is flooding our communities with them?
Thu Aug 6, 2015, 04:49 AM
Aug 2015

Guns are a plague on every community.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
254. What exactly is the truth?
Fri Aug 7, 2015, 07:00 PM
Aug 2015

That white males are uniquely violent? Because we know that is not true.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
256. But not more violent then other races
Sat Aug 8, 2015, 09:15 AM
Aug 2015

There are many leathally violent sub groups in America. White racists are one of them.

We are both right.

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
257. all pretty pretty violent I would agree
Sun Aug 9, 2015, 08:12 AM
Aug 2015

except one can perpetrate wars based on lies......"Operation:Iraqi Freedom" was pretty violent I would say.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
258. There are plenty of violent war loving governments in the world
Sun Aug 9, 2015, 09:17 AM
Aug 2015

If another race was dominant in America we would not be any less likely to start wars based on lies.

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
259. Governments are led by people
Sun Aug 9, 2015, 09:26 AM
Aug 2015

and one particular sub-group has ALWAYS led this government...and, in particular, when RW members of that sub group are leading our government, that usually means woe to the world. Our present POTUS hasn't initiated any wars. He has taken out alleged members of groups and civilians associated with those groups who are avowed enemies of the "american way of life". That's war that is precise and not killing millions of innocents in defense of the "american way of life" and oil.

 

virgogal

(10,178 posts)
54. White men may commit 63% of mass killings
Mon Aug 3, 2015, 10:24 PM
Aug 2015

but I doubt that they commit 63% of all murders.

The author is really reaching to make a point.

sheshe2

(83,786 posts)
67. I missed where this was stated.
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 12:12 AM
Aug 2015

Will you please post where that was said, I missed it. Thanks.

but I doubt that they commit 63% of all murders.


I know they said this.

White men may commit 63% of mass killings


 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
113. And lost, apparently in all of this, is the point of the piece ...
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 10:56 AM
Aug 2015

that these mass killings aren't over drug territory or gang beefs, killings in the commission of another crime (e.g., robbery), or even specific beefs with specific parties (which account for, by far, the vast majority of the number of killing that people are referencing - without referring them, i.e., Black on Black killings) ... these mass killings are a/the expression of a (political) narrative.

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
236. true
Fri Aug 7, 2015, 05:58 PM
Aug 2015

but, it's a common tactic we all know, to distract from the article to personal offense and thusly it's about them, which is the truth. The article is about them.

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
198. more to the point
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 06:51 PM
Aug 2015

with, let's say 52 mass shootings a year and perhaps 20,000,000 white males in this country.

It seems like quite a stretch to smear 19,999,948 people because of the actions of 52 of us.

Does 99.99974% count as "not all white people"?

Seems to me like it oughta.

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
238. single white males kill/murder
Fri Aug 7, 2015, 06:01 PM
Aug 2015

single white males also. It's not just the fact that mass shooting kings come overwhelmingly from one subgroup.

XemaSab

(60,212 posts)
84. That says that they commit mass shootings at exactly the expected rate
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 08:09 AM
Aug 2015

If white men are 31% of the US population, and women are statistically 0% of mass shooters, then one would expect white men to commit 62% of mass shootings. 63% is a rounding error.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
158. Never let science, math or logic get in the way of righteous outrage.
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 02:04 PM
Aug 2015

The fundys never do, and neither do some here.

Response to sheshe2 (Reply #24)

JanMichael

(24,890 posts)
33. I never thought you would say something like this. The gun stuff threw me off. Yes I agree.
Mon Aug 3, 2015, 08:27 PM
Aug 2015

Hyper masculinity sucks and I am a white male.

sheshe2

(83,786 posts)
68. The toxic comes here, post 24
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 12:26 AM
Aug 2015

The rest is in the link.

White men are approximately 31 percent of the United States population. And yet, white men are nearly 63 percent of those people who commit mass shootings. Such behavior, among any other group, would be considered pathological and a public health crisis.


Dylann Roof turned his toxic white racist masculinity on a black church in Charleston. And John Houser — a white, right-wing, conservative, Christian fundamentalist, an anti-feminist, woman-hating Nazi sympathizer — directed his rage towards a movie theater in Lafayette last month, where he killed three people and wounded eight others.

underahedgerow

(1,232 posts)
89. Exactly. Skin color & ethnicity doesn't matter, particularly in USA statistics. It's the gender
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 08:21 AM
Aug 2015

that's causing havoc.

If you look into DOJ statistics, no one particular skin color has any dominance in their violence, only in how they're prosecuted for it.

Why are men so angry?

 

HFRN

(1,469 posts)
4. if you were my 'friend', you wouldn't be addressing me by my skin color
Mon Aug 3, 2015, 05:58 PM
Aug 2015

as it's rude to do that me, same as it is to everyone else

freshwest

(53,661 posts)
37. She's only addressing you if you fit in one of these categories:
Mon Aug 3, 2015, 08:42 PM
Aug 2015

Do you eschew 'backward right-wing politics?'

If not, the OP does not apply to you.


Do you 'hate the black guy in the White House and anything that he proposes?'

If not, the OP does not apply to you.

Do you possess or promote a 'fetishistic embrace of guns, hostility to women’s rights, Islamophobia, symbolic and overt racism?'

If not, the OP does not apply to you.

Going after rightwingers is a cherished passtime at DU so you should be excluded from feeling you are being singled out. No one is going to make an issue of your self-definition of a white male.

It's not a crime, nor is anyone blaming you for an accidental of birth into a demographic society calls 'white' and 'male.' You could be gay and still be born a white male.

There is no privilege in being born a minority. Aas far as being a 'friend' of anyone here, that is a word of encouragement from a member of the 'white race,' and not an insult to most white men.

I am a white female, and nothing on this board offends me because of my personal race and gender. In fact, I refer to myself as a CCWP (card carrying white person). You may call me that, because I am not ashamed of it.

Please, and I mean this in love, just think about who you really are, not what you fear is being said about you personally, so you won't be offended.

sheshe2

(83,786 posts)
42. Thank you freshwest!
Mon Aug 3, 2015, 09:13 PM
Aug 2015
"There is no privilege in being born a minority. Aas far as being a 'friend' of anyone here, that is a word of encouragement from a member of the 'white race,' and not an insult to most white men.

I am a white female, and nothing on this board offends me because of my personal race and gender. In fact, I refer to myself as a CCWP (card carrying white person). You may call me that, because I am not ashamed of it.

Please, and I mean this in love, just think about who you really are, not what you fear is being said about you personally, so you won't be offended."


Beautiful.

aikoaiko

(34,170 posts)
55. I don't think you can deflect this essay so easily.
Mon Aug 3, 2015, 10:26 PM
Aug 2015

Its addressed to white america -- not conservative america.

The problem isn't toxic conservatism, but white male masculinity.

This essay is directed at all white males and not just some white males.



Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
65. Not all white males have that overwhelming machismo
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 12:08 AM
Aug 2015

that causes the violence that some white males perpetrate. So, no, it is not addressed to all white males, only those who seem to have a machismo problem and problems controlling their homicidal urges.

aikoaiko

(34,170 posts)
66. If one is a white male with any degree of masculinity
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 12:12 AM
Aug 2015

This article is targeting that person. Sure there may be degrees but that doesn't exclude a white male from this accusation piece.

BeanMusical

(4,389 posts)
74. "If one is a white male with any degree of masculinity"
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 02:14 AM
Aug 2015

What a silly thing to say. And it it reeks of homophobia.

aikoaiko

(34,170 posts)
75. I agree that it's silly but that's what the essay is about
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 06:54 AM
Aug 2015


And I'm not sure how you can see what I wrote as homophobic. Gender and sexual orientation are two very different things.
 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
239. you're deflecting, distracting from and diminishing the truth
Fri Aug 7, 2015, 06:07 PM
Aug 2015

Last edited Sun Aug 16, 2015, 10:06 PM - Edit history (1)

about the toxicity of white males who want to maintain white supremacy, white privilege and white control over POC, men, women and children. And will murder/summarily execute, men women and children of color to maintain that illusion of control in their own sick, twisted worlds.

Response to freshwest (Reply #37)

Response to freshwest (Reply #37)

 

HFRN

(1,469 posts)
7. substitute 'Toxic white' for something else, and you could be reading a 1930s German article
Mon Aug 3, 2015, 06:17 PM
Aug 2015

(except for it being in English)

a particular group, to blame for everything

sheshe2

(83,786 posts)
44. That is probably because you never bothered reading the rest.
Mon Aug 3, 2015, 09:26 PM
Aug 2015

It is a take down of a dying breed of GOP and Baggers.

You must feel the hate of the GOP. Their right over us all. Article talks about how...

Toxic white masculinity defaults to violence as a means of maintaining social and political control. It clings to guns as a symbol of “real” male identity. It fears women as equals; it lashes out at non-whites who are somehow “stealing” white men’s jobs and power. Toxic white masculinity sees “liberals,” “progressives,” “social justice,” and “feminism” as enemies — out of a fear that “white masculinity” will somehow be made obsolete or extinct.


The GOP is scared shitless. They are very white extremely hateful and controlling. They hate women, they hate LGBT and PoC. They hate that they are losing power.

Census has it, we will no longer be a White America in 30 years. They are scared and I rejoice when we are the United States of all America.

aikoaiko

(34,170 posts)
10. Chauncy Devega says “white privilege" is a distracting term but toxic white masculinity is friendly.
Mon Aug 3, 2015, 06:28 PM
Aug 2015


Some friend.
 

Smarmie Doofus

(14,498 posts)
11. Oh cheeses! We're finally turning a corner.
Mon Aug 3, 2015, 06:49 PM
Aug 2015

Racist OPs are finally being recognized as such and being publicly called out.






 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
156. I knew it would not be long before someone ...
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 01:59 PM
Aug 2015

Cited to the FBI reportage.

Do you see a difference between one person killing another person (and maybe others caught in the crossfire), because of an individualized beef or in the commission of anot her crime ... and one person going somewhere and indiscriminately shooting people in that place ... to make a public statement.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
183. True. Dead is dead ...
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 05:12 PM
Aug 2015

for the individual killed. But in the latter situation, the cause of the death doesn't/didn't die with the individual killed.

Understand?

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
185. How am I blaming the victim? ...
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 05:16 PM
Aug 2015
Do you see a difference between one person killing another person (and maybe others caught in the crossfire), because of an individualized beef or in the commission of anot her crime ... and one person going somewhere and indiscriminately shooting people in that place ... to make a public statement.


How is that blaming the victim?

XemaSab

(60,212 posts)
187. But in the latter situation, the cause of the death doesn't/didn't die with the individual killed
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 05:20 PM
Aug 2015

You're saying that people who get murdered:

1) Did something to cause their own deaths

and

2) End the problem with their deaths.

WOW.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
189. No. I thought I said ...
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 05:34 PM
Aug 2015

in the first set of situations, i.e., individualized beef or death as a part of another crime, the person killed was singled out ... if the victims weren't there, it is likely NO ONE would have dead; whereas, in the latter situation, they were killed because they were there ... if they had not been there, others still would have been killed.

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
244. I wouldn't waste time with you
Fri Aug 7, 2015, 06:16 PM
Aug 2015

trying to help you see any truth...it's wasted effort, completely. Not worth the time, really.

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
241. there is a career
Fri Aug 7, 2015, 06:12 PM
Aug 2015

made by people on here who want to deny their culpability and/or responsibility to the full human race. They distract and diminish with skewed reports and numbers. Much amusement is gained from their twisting and turning.

George II

(67,782 posts)
21. They're not "generalized negative remarks", they clearly observations based on experience.
Mon Aug 3, 2015, 07:52 PM
Aug 2015

Not racist.

Amishman

(5,557 posts)
29. funny, i hear a lot of racists justify their opinions the same way
Mon Aug 3, 2015, 08:17 PM
Aug 2015

I have heard plenty of whites rant about other groups based on 'observations' and 'experiences'. Sometimes they will try to quote crime statistics or other out of context convenient facts to back it up. They are still smearing an entire group of people because of preconceived notions and skin color. Sounds a lot like the OP, and a lot like racism.

racism can come from any group towards any group, that is a lesson that sometimes is lost.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
114. Well ... It HAS been a couple of months since we last did that dance ...
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 11:02 AM
Aug 2015

"That's racist!"

"No ... Racism is ..."

"That's not what my dictionary says"

"The understanding of racism and how it operates has been advanced since the 20th century ... Here is an update.

"Well ... We'll just have to agree to disagree."

Wait a month ... get filthy and repeat.

 

seveneyes

(4,631 posts)
22. Remember, Chauncey DeVega is a friend of white America
Mon Aug 3, 2015, 07:58 PM
Aug 2015

His understanding of the issue is obvious with his closing remarks...

"White America, I end this open letter as I began it. I am your friend. I care deeply about your health and well-being. You can make a better way. But first, you must choose to do so."

That's really special.

 

sulphurdunn

(6,891 posts)
34. Had the same friendly letter
Mon Aug 3, 2015, 08:31 PM
Aug 2015

been addressed to the faults of black hyper masculinity from a white man, cries of 'racism' would reverberate for a thousand posts.

 

Syzygy321

(583 posts)
71. There is no misogyny in any black culture
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 12:55 AM
Aug 2015

anywhere. None in brown cultures. None among Asians and none in native cultures. Travel the world, and you will see that outside the white bastions of Europe and the English-speaking countries, women are men's equals - same freedoms, respect, and status - in beautiful cultures where men are not white, never violent, and utterly nontoxic.

C'mon girls! India, Iran, Saudi Arabia, Somalia, South Africa, Egypt, China, Turkey, Kazakhstan, Colombia, Iraq, Laos, Bangladesh, North Korea, or Nigeria? So many feminist paradises to choose from, once ya ditch these toxic white dudes.

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
35. I'm leaving the west to avoid WHITE TOXIC MASCULINITY
Mon Aug 3, 2015, 08:38 PM
Aug 2015

Looking for peaceful, nonwhite places to live where masculinity is peaceful.

Africa.... ah... the Middle Ea wait no........ Asia! As long as it's not Malaysia with their slave camps. Or China. No India or Pakistan either, not the way they treat women. Or any other Asian country that will execute me for possession of recreational drugs.

Damn u white men why u make the world so violent and evil!

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
38. Yes, why can't those countries be like Ethiopia and Liberia
Mon Aug 3, 2015, 08:46 PM
Aug 2015

Famously the two African countries that resisted all attempts at colonialism by white men. The former did, you know the latter's history and why it wasn't colonized by whites.

Why didn't China learn from them? Hong Kong? Singapore?

Response to ismnotwasm (Reply #36)

 

snooper2

(30,151 posts)
121. I know right! Those evil white bastards brought FGM to Africa as well
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 11:21 AM
Aug 2015

That shit never existed before the fucking assholes came over on ships!


 

Syzygy321

(583 posts)
207. Yeah you white men suck.
Wed Aug 5, 2015, 01:00 AM
Aug 2015

Forget genital mutilation - don't think I have forgotten how your colonizing forebears came into those peaceful egalitarian cultures and imposed

child marriage,
forced marriage,
forced polygyny,
forced female seclusion,
bride kidnapping,
honor killing,
forced veiling,
widow-burning,
widow-trying,
widow-inheriting,
Newborn-daughter-killing
Sex slavery
Women and girls as war booty
Females denied inheritance rights
Girls denied education
Male-only chiefdom
Male-only religious rites
Footbimding
menstruation taboos
Son-preference

and ten million other misogynist injustices that the non-white folks had to be taught.

We are clearly the most unjust place on earth, and white Republicans have created the most woman-hating culture on the planet.

Oops - gotta go to bed! Stayed up late kissing my boyfriend, writing a check to Planned Parenthood and the local women's shelter, doing no housework, and enjoying equal rights under US law. Come morning I will wear what I want and drive my car to my workplace where i have the respect of my colleagues - male and female - and where anyone who pinches my ass is gonna be fired. What a crap country this is!

***

And now, a final word, with no sarcasm beyond this point:.

You white males aren't perfect.
Almost all of you are apathetic toward the injustices and threat of violence that women live with every day.
Some of you are worse than merely apatheticc. And some minority of you are true resenters or haters of women. Some of you get your self-respect from insulting us, controlling us, raping us, killing us.

But as a whole, you have - in the past 50 years - given up a huge chunk of the privileges that used to come with being male (not always happily, but you did it ) You did it to create a more just America. And while you have a hella long way to go, i recognize ypur sacrifice and I appreciate your (often half-assed or clueless) efforts.

White American males: just this once, I salute you!

 

Syzygy321

(583 posts)
206. I sure hope you are satirizing someone.
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 11:41 PM
Aug 2015

If you actually think that India was a feminist paradise until those awful Brits came in and started burning widows alive...

or that Arabia was ruled by matriarchs until Lawrence of A. taught the local women they must be walled out of government and public life...

or that Confucius say "Wife and husband are equal" until Marco Polo imposed footbinding...

or that aboriginal women played the didgeridoo until white Aussies insisted it was taboo...

Heh heh. Okay.

sheshe2

(83,786 posts)
60. No comments until you read it.
Mon Aug 3, 2015, 11:49 PM
Aug 2015
At the expense of the whole white race?"


The whole white race was mentioned? Really???? Not. I know. I read it. I am WHITE.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
115. I read it, I'm white and yes it singles out whites from top to bottom.
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 11:05 AM
Aug 2015

Unless someone is dumb/deceitful enough to suggest ending sexism amongst white males will end sexism every where I'm curious to know why the focus on white male sexism.

 

DisgustipatedinCA

(12,530 posts)
43. Anyone who groups me with Republicans can...start over.
Mon Aug 3, 2015, 09:26 PM
Aug 2015

And yes, I saw the inevitable "3, 2, 1..." countdown at the top of the thread,many I've seen the disclaimers about how this only applies to the guilty. But that's not how it's worded. By all means, post this on a Republican site if you'd like. They won't listen, but they're in need of the message.

 

DisgustipatedinCA

(12,530 posts)
48. I got that from the excerpt alone.
Mon Aug 3, 2015, 09:34 PM
Aug 2015

If the piece had started, "Dear Republican men", no one would be saying a word.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
87. The excerpt specifically says
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 08:18 AM
Aug 2015
Toxic white masculinity defaults to violence as a means of maintaining social and political control. It clings to guns as a symbol of “real” male identity. It fears women as equals; it lashes out at non-whites who are somehow “stealing” white men’s jobs and power. Toxic white masculinity sees “liberals,” “progressives,” “social justice,” and “feminism” as enemies — out of a fear that “white masculinity” will somehow be made obsolete or extinct.

So that's who it's about.

GitRDun

(1,846 posts)
46. I'd really like to be able to say, "IT'S NOT TRUE!"
Mon Aug 3, 2015, 09:29 PM
Aug 2015

but it is.

It's not just the politicians. It's my neighbors, regular people in my community.

The guy that towed my truck the other day made some unintelligible slur against Latinos & immigrants. We were having a perfectly normal conversation about how expensive college is and he blurbs something. If I had understood what he said I would have called him on it.

Within 24 hours, a friend of a friend made some rude FB comment on a post about a POC killed by a cop that amounted to "obey or die". I called him out. His excuse was his son in law is a cop in "the projects". That's the second friend of this friend I've called out on this topic.

We're a mixed community suburb. It's 2015 for heaven's sake! This is sadly what life is like here, at least in my mostly white community. I don't hang with people that think this way, but they are a part of my daily life.

To be honest, I don't really know what to do about it other than confront it when I see it...raised my kids to not think that way. I think we'll finally figure out it's not so bad once we are a minority. Likely, we won't be treated as badly as we treated minorities.

 

artislife

(9,497 posts)
52. I was at a newish client's house
Mon Aug 3, 2015, 09:46 PM
Aug 2015

He is a 40ish something white tech guy. His wife is actually a German born naturalized American. He had just come back from buying an RV in CA bringing it back up to Seattle.
Somehow, he says he may look like a liberal but then laid into people asking for money on the side of the freeways. And how he had heard from liquor store cashiers that as soon as they make enough, they come in and buy a single malt liquor.

I am sitting here thinking, I need these clients. But where the hell did this come from. His wife said never to judge someone's situation. That why someone is there, you have no idea.

I remained quiet.
For about half an hour.

They kind of looked at me and asked me if I would give money knowing it was going to drink, probably. I said I would have to consider my motive. If it was charity, then whatever they did with the money was of no concern. If I wanted to control the person, I would tell them not to use it for drink.

They both kind of paused.

She loved the answer and he softened up. But he must be hearing sh*t that people are trying to take advantage of him and he isn't going to take it.

It is the nice ones that really disappoint.

johnp3907

(3,731 posts)
177. I'm going to have to steal your reply.
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 04:20 PM
Aug 2015

"If it was charity, then whatever they did with the money was of no concern. If I wanted to control the person, I would tell them not to use it for drink."
That's excellent!

 

Syzygy321

(583 posts)
59. I am curious if the author
Mon Aug 3, 2015, 11:49 PM
Aug 2015

thinks the problems of misogyny, racism and militarism are specific to whites who are male who are American.

I look around the world and see racism in many places, whether in Hungary. australia or Ecuador. I see misogyny in most countries - and it is far worse in non-western countries (that is, non "white" ones): anyone here want to be a woman in Afghanistan or Sierra Leone? As for violence, I see it run amok from Mexico to the DR Congo to Pakistan.

The author seems to believe in some sort of American exceptionalism. A quick look around the world shows that there is nothing particularly exceptional about whiteness (as opposed to other-raceness) or Americanness (as opposed to anywhere-elseness).

The one defensible position (sorry guys) is the attack on maleness. All over the world, males do subjugate females to varying degrees. Black white or yalla, and American, Russian or Yemeni... that's one thing you can count on.

aikoaiko

(34,170 posts)
61. It's funny that you can't accept that people read it and some reject it.
Mon Aug 3, 2015, 11:59 PM
Aug 2015

You say toxic white masculinity is just about the GOP and tea parties but the author writes that white masculinity leads to or defaults to the conservative types. If you read his words you'd see that he is saying they are different things. The same thing can't lead to itself, logically.

It must be hard for you to realize how deeply flawed and bigoted this author is.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
76. Ever heard the song, "Bitches Ain't Shit but Hos and Tricks"?
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 06:59 AM
Aug 2015

It could probably be considered an example of what you speak.

XemaSab

(60,212 posts)
92. Shhhhh!
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 08:30 AM
Aug 2015

You're not supposed to point out that every single race/culture has asshole men who screw things up for everyone else!

Whites? Check.

Blacks? Check.

Latinos? Check.

Arabs? Check.

Native Americans? Check.

India Indians? Check.

Australian Aborigines? Check.

Eskimos? Check.

Easter Islanders? Check.

And right on down the line....

Romulox

(25,960 posts)
111. Yeah, but what about Penicillin? The Personal Computer? The Apollo program? Calculus. Philosophy.
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 10:35 AM
Aug 2015

Since we men collectively share the blame for all the bad stuff that's ever happened, then surely we collectively share in the credit for all the good stuff we have wrought!

Wait...it doesn't work that way???

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
116. Actually ... That's exactly how it works ...
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 11:12 AM
Aug 2015

The individual bad acts by a member of a subordinate sub-population are ascribed to the entire sub-population; while, the bad acts of a member of the dominate sub-population are individualized to THAT person.

And it works the other way, too ... The individual good acts of a member of a subordinate sub-population are individualized to THAT person; whereas, the good acts of a member of the dominate sub-population are ascribed to the entire dominate sub-population.

That is a facet of institutionalized bigotry (racism).

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
117. How about credit for --
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 11:14 AM
Aug 2015

the 13th and 14th Amendments, Brown v Board of Education, the Civil Rights Acts, participating in civil rights protests, the Great Society programs, etc.?

To hear some tell it not only is it all white people but white people have imposed all sexism across the world and never made any positive contributions ever, anywhere at any time.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
130. Why do you work so hard to be the victim ...
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 12:00 PM
Aug 2015

When is not the case. Which, BTW, is what the #NotAll ... is,all about.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
135. So, some internet crank posts "the problem with white people is..." screed and when
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 12:37 PM
Aug 2015

people who are white complain about the fact the article makes unqualified blanket accusations based on nothing but skin color they are mocked with #NotAllWhitePeople.

Either the racist screed is meant apply to people who are white based on their skin color or it doesn't. If it is meant to assign collective guilt then people are entitled to take umbrage with blanket accusations for offenses they are not party to. If it doesn't apply to them then #NotAllWhitePeople is out of line because it mocks the truth in order to impose collective guilt where none exists.

You can complain "I'm not trying to impose collective guilt" yet so many are telling you "This sounds like collective guilt." The only rebuttal we haven't seen from the derisive use of #NotAllWhitePeople is "I'm not racist, I have white friends."

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
148. Are you seriously suggesting that if someone wrote --
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 01:32 PM
Aug 2015

"Dear Black America" that would not be seen as an unqualified slur against all African Americans?

retrowire

(10,345 posts)
94. not to be that guy but
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 08:34 AM
Aug 2015

this is more about male toxicity disorder than it is about race.

feminism is an equalizer. not a dominator. feminism is for helping women and men. to remove the ideas of toxic masculinity would aid us all.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
186. Blammo.
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 05:18 PM
Aug 2015

Just search DU for "Spider-Woman comic cover" or "moon bombing" or "fried chicken wars" and you will see some spectacular silliness that makes this look tame,though the chicken wars were in part a huge circle-troll in the name of humor that got out of hand. Spider Woman and the moon bombing being threads of particular distinction in terms of the utterly indescribable batshit, freeper-worthy insanity on display.

Chapter2

(1 post)
109. OMG, we really need to stop blaming America’s problems on a certain race or gender.
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 10:24 AM
Aug 2015

There are approx. 330 million people in the USA. The percentages are going to have a fair amount with mental problems. Of those, most will not get the help they need. Do you really think a person just wants to be evil? Do you really think a person without mental defects would just stand up in a movie theater and shoot people? If you really want to write something about something that can make a difference, write about the lack of mental care that is available in the USA. Stop blaming race, culture or sexual orientation on all our issues.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
188. Amen brother/sister.
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 05:23 PM
Aug 2015

Sick to death of it. And while these pointless fights are going on, neo-fascism continues happily towards its goals, snickering at the distracted people who could be actively opposing it instead of fighting these sideshows. Forest/trees.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
132. Right, because men of color don't have any of that going on
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 12:11 PM
Aug 2015

do they?

Please --- I've never heard women referred to as "bitches" anf 'hos' more than I have from minority men.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
134. 'that there is such a thing as toxic white masculinity is both surprising and enraging'
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 12:35 PM
Aug 2015

I see a lot of complaining in this thread by white people. When the article CLEARLY points out which white people it is refering to. Gee, bring up RIGHT WING DOMESTIC TERRORISTS and some here go bonkers with rage and anger. Why is that?



Wake


the


fuck


UP


PEOPLE!

Some of the replies in here are cringe worthy and they obviously did NOT read the article.




Response to Rex (Reply #134)

Response to Rex (Reply #138)

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
141. Keep trying!
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 01:14 PM
Aug 2015

Maybe third time is a charm!? I LOVE watching RWing morons like yourself makes excuses for white domestic terrorists...which are just one shade away from being like ISIS.

Are you one of them? A stupid RWinger that loves his guns and is scared of the dark?

Anyway...keep trying and I am glad you are so pissed off that I am SPOT on about your kind.

Response to Rex (Reply #141)

sheshe2

(83,786 posts)
142. Hi, Rex
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 01:15 PM
Aug 2015

Your images are spot on. I thank you for that and for reading the article, where others did not.

have a great day

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
143. You too sheshe2 thanks for the great article!
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 01:17 PM
Aug 2015

Looks like I have a RWinger crybabying all about it! You would think they could find something productive to do.

Have a great day sheshe2!

aikoaiko

(34,170 posts)
175. Because the article does not refer to conservative male masculinity -- just toxic white masculinity
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 04:00 PM
Aug 2015

Last edited Tue Aug 4, 2015, 04:32 PM - Edit history (1)


And I do not believe Chauncey cares an iota for white people given his bigotry.
 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
190. Yes it does, all one has to do is READ it.
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 05:44 PM
Aug 2015

"Toxic white masculinity defaults to violence as a means of maintaining social and political control. It clings to guns as a symbol of “real” male identity. It fears women as equals; it lashes out at non-whites who are somehow “stealing” white men’s jobs and power. Toxic white masculinity sees “liberals,” “progressives,” “social justice,” and “feminism” as enemies — out of a fear that “white masculinity” will somehow be made obsolete or extinct. The dream worlds and paranoid fantasies of angry white men are distractions that look to some type of Other as the preeminent threat to America’s safety and security. The reality is of course, very different."

"In reality, right-wing domestic terrorists and mass shooters are the number one threat to America’s safety and security since September 11, 2001."

That sure seems to be a problem for some here.

aikoaiko

(34,170 posts)
193. Let me put it this way, if I wrote, "it is Rex's toxic white masculinity that defaults to violence..
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 06:14 PM
Aug 2015

...blah, blah, blah...

Would you agree?

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
226. IF 'Rex' was some idiot RWing militia type that wants to end the federal government then yeah.
Fri Aug 7, 2015, 05:33 PM
Aug 2015

You of course have no leg to stand on here so now you just have to try and make stuff up. SORRY, if an article about WHITE DOMESTIC TERRORISTS bothers you so much...maybe you need to do some self reflection.

romanic

(2,841 posts)
146. Well I'm not white so half of this doesn't apply to me.
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 01:20 PM
Aug 2015

But I don't think being "masculine" is toxic; it seems like the article is talking more about ego and machismo (masculine pride) within the Republican party and the white guys it caters too. Just my take on it.

Coolest Ranger

(2,034 posts)
192. So this is where that thread came from
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 05:57 PM
Aug 2015

in the African American community. Someone thought they were being cute writing a similar thread to yours Sheshe. I got offended as hell on that one and they think it's funny. God the insensitivity of some people.

sheshe2

(83,786 posts)
203. Hey CR...
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 11:08 PM
Aug 2015

I worked til 10, so I haven't seen it. Would you PM me a link?
It's getting late and I have to go soon.

Thanks, so good to see here.

sheshe2

(83,786 posts)
205. Hey, now that I read it...
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 11:34 PM
Aug 2015

It's okay, the poster is doing a parody. Someone did make the comment of what if? So they posted their own response. When you sit back and read it twice you will see that.

I trust BainsBane and JustAnotherGen implicitly. Bains is an ally and JAG, AA.

Even the Op, I have liked what I have seen from them so far.

Coolest Ranger

(2,034 posts)
208. It may have been paradody
Wed Aug 5, 2015, 06:18 AM
Aug 2015

but given the current state of race relations today I did not find it funny at all. That thread really offended me. I don't mind humor but joking about it like the way it was written like I said that offended me. Good to see you Sheshe, missed you

Dark n Stormy Knight

(9,760 posts)
199. I initially thought, "Dear Violent Racist White America," would have been a better title,
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 06:57 PM
Aug 2015

as it would have been more specific about which whites it was addressing. However, that could easily have been misinterpreted as calling all white Americans racist and violent.

While I doubt that anyone DeVega is describing will take this to heart and change their ways, he was spot on in his diagnosis of their illness, and it may help others understand the gravity of the situation. And he gives one of the best characterizations of the modern Republican party I've see in the last paragraph your excerpted in the OP.

Also, he included links to some other great articles. I thought one of the best was his own Salon article. in which he says:

The overt white supremacist websites that taught Dylann Roof his racist beliefs, and the more “polite” and “respectable” right-wing media outlets such as Fox News, are part of the same political communication ecosystem. Both Dylann Roof and Donald Trump are channeling the racist political values and talking points that are generated on a daily basis by Fox News and the right-wing propaganda machine. There, ideas circulate back and forth between the “mainstream” media and its peers within the white supremacist political community. Talking points are refined and developed; the issue or controversy of the day is circulated; trolls (often hired by right-leaning public relations firms) are deployed to online comment sections in an effort to create the illusion of consensus on the part of the “silent majority” and “real Americans” on any given issue — all while silencing dissent and harassing those people they do not agree with.

Experts in political communication and media have described the denseness of ties, shared links, and the alternate reality created in the right-wing media (both traditional and digital) as exhibiting a condition of “epistemic closure.” What that means is this: Because contemporary conservatism has created a bizarre and twisted reality for those who consume its news media and other information sources, a state of extreme political polarization has been created. If citizens cannot come to agreement about basic facts, they are crippled in their ability to solve common problems of shared public concern. This crisis is made even more acute by how recent research has demonstrated that those people who listen to Fox News and other right-wing media outlets are more likely to hold erroneous beliefs about the nature of political and social reality. In essence, Fox News is not “news”—it functions as an organized disinformation campaign that propagandizes its followers into accepting right-wing lies and distortions as empirical fact.

~Snip~

In “The Paranoid Style in American Politics,” historian Richard Hofstader famously wrote about the dangers posed by such an impenetrable bubble. Hofstadter’s essay was published during the 1950s, at the conclusion of McCarthy’s witch hunt, at the dawn of an ideological revolution that would manifest, in the short term, in movements such as the John Birch Society, and culminate decades later in the presidency of Ronald Reagan. Now, in the age of Obama, this paranoid style has been mainstreamed and amplified by the 24/7 cable news cycle, the power of instantaneous communication offered by digital media, and a weak fourth estate that treats all ideas—however absurd, without empirical merit, or unmoored from reality—as “facts” to be debated and discussed.

With that DeVega clearly illustrates one of the most significant obstacles to actualizing real social and economic justice in this country. If the left wing can figure out how to exorcize that demon, America might just fulfill its promise.
 

Syzygy321

(583 posts)
202. I have to laugh when "hostility to women's rights"
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 10:48 PM
Aug 2015

is lumped next to "Islamophobia."

If you believe women and men should have the same rights and responsibilities and be governed by the same laws,

you certainly SHOULD be phobic toward any religious-legal ideology that teaches (and enforces) rigid sex roles and a male-over-female hierarchy to vast numbers of people.

Especially as hardly any of those people are free to reject the roles thrust upon them, or the religion thrust into them.

Hatred of misogyny and religious coercion is not "toxic".

Kowtowing to religious dogma is not liberal.

Criticizing religion is neither bigotry nor blasphemy.

Yelling "Islamophobes!" at those who criticize Islam - while also yelling "misogynists!" at those who cheer the Christian right - is too silly for words.


 

Betty Karlson

(7,231 posts)
209. Good read, but why is the author oblivious to homophobia as part of the
Wed Aug 5, 2015, 06:35 AM
Aug 2015

white heterosexual toxic affliction?

Shankapotomus

(4,840 posts)
222. Can we please just distinguish between
Thu Aug 6, 2015, 08:48 AM
Aug 2015

white conservatives and white liberals?

There's a reason there are liberals who happen to be white and that is because they don't, and in many cases, have never bought into the kind of racist and misogynist thinking all white people are periodically accused of on this board.

White liberals do not deserve to be insensitively and invisibly lumped in with right wing racists and misogynists. There is a reason - often many good reasons - they have chosen to be politically left.



 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
223. This is a succinct, concise
Fri Aug 7, 2015, 05:19 PM
Aug 2015

Last edited Fri Aug 7, 2015, 09:51 PM - Edit history (1)

description of racial dysfunction in the privileged communities of america. Thank you for this. I couldn't have said it better...damn good!!!!!!

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