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angrychair

(8,733 posts)
Sun Aug 9, 2015, 12:13 PM Aug 2015

It should be about the people

There is an old saying that the key to getting a problem solved is: "make it about the problem, not about you".

There are very real problems in our society about how police treat people of color. How our entire justice system treats people of color. Way to many black men and women have lost their lives to a police officer way to willing to draw and fire their gun.

I've never agreed with the shock and awe manner that some issue groups like to use ( PETA blood throwing and so on) I feel it draws away from the very real issues ( in PETA's case the fur and industrial farm industries and so on) that need real action.

What happens is, you, as an individual or group, become the story and your issue becomes inconsequential. It becomes about "what new outrageous thing did group X do"? The issue becomes background noise.

That is the case here. The whole story is about the "BLM" people that rushed and controlled the stage and nothing is said about the very real issues that need very real attention. It's devolves into a heated conversation about the action and not the reasons for the actions.

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It should be about the people (Original Post) angrychair Aug 2015 OP
We can walk and chew gum at the same time. Igel Aug 2015 #1

Igel

(35,359 posts)
1. We can walk and chew gum at the same time.
Sun Aug 9, 2015, 02:21 PM
Aug 2015

The response was entirely predictable.

It's sad that it was not predicted. This implies a measure of cultural disconnect and ethnocentrism. "This is our approach to doing things. If you don't like it, if it alienates you, don't tell us how to act. We're going to act in a way that might alienate and turn you off, but we really don't care. You have to accommodate us, and if you misunderstand us, that's entirely your problem. Don't tell us what you feel and think." It's one thing to tell a group what to feel and think; it's another to reject being told how members of a group feel and think and what, therefore, are ways likely to work with that group. Both are offensive, one being condescending and paternalistic the other being close-minded and egotistical. From those that demand much, at least something is to be expected.

Not a good opening salvo in closing wounds or healing. More of a venting or raising an issue in a way that does little justice to the isse but succeeds in making one side pissed and the other side feel powerful without actually having any additional power.

Neither is a good way of getting to yes. That it is repeated with the same results either makes me think people in BLM just aren't paying attention or don't care.

No, the way things were being done didn't work. That doesn't automatically mean that this is the only or best alternative.

In this, BLM || SYRIZA. (|| = 'parallels')

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