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KamaAina

(78,249 posts)
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 01:02 PM Aug 2015

Woman freely bleeds running London Marathon without tampon

I know, I know, this sounds like a Lounge post , but read on.

http://blog.sfgate.com/sfmoms/2015/08/10/woman-freely-bleeds-running-london-marathon-without-tampon/

The night before the London Marathon, Kiran Gandhi started to menstruate. The 26-year-old Harvard Business School graduate decided wearing a tampon during the race would be uncomfortable.

“Running 26.2 miles with a wad of cotton material wedged between my legs just seemed so absurd,” Gandhi wrote on Medium. “Plus they say chaffing is a real thing.”

On August 7, she ran with blood freely flowing down her legs and used her story to raise awareness about women who don’t have access to feminine products and to encourage women to not be ashamed of their periods.

“If there’s one person society can’t eff with, it’s a marathon runner,” Gandhi shared on Medium. “You can’t tell a marathoner to clean themselves up, or to prioritize the comfort of others. On the marathon course, I could choose whether or not I wanted to participate in this norm of shaming.




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Woman freely bleeds running London Marathon without tampon (Original Post) KamaAina Aug 2015 OP
One tough lady...K & R...nt Wounded Bear Aug 2015 #1
She goes to Harvard and is kind of a rocket scientist and a Think Leader. She's also a professional underahedgerow Aug 2015 #126
I'll forgive her for the Harvard piece KamaAina Aug 2015 #134
I think qwlauren35 Aug 2015 #2
Good for her! Glorfindel Aug 2015 #3
Personally, qwlauren35 Aug 2015 #5
No, it was posted at 10:02 AM KamaAina Aug 2015 #6
^^^^WINNER!!!!!^^^^ wendylaroux Aug 2015 #76
I stand corrected. I am SHOCKED at what has happened here. qwlauren35 Aug 2015 #160
:) nt Mojorabbit Aug 2015 #117
lol beergood Aug 2015 #229
Glad I could give you a chuckle! Welcome to DU Glorfindel Aug 2015 #240
thank you beergood Aug 2015 #246
This is hilarious! n/t prayin4rain Aug 2015 #245
Blood running down your leg can be a health hazard. Deadshot Aug 2015 #4
That was my first thought as well nt Lee-Lee Aug 2015 #8
Oh lordy. Daemonaquila Aug 2015 #11
Your argument makes no sense. Deadshot Aug 2015 #22
Then don't participate in sports kcr Aug 2015 #25
When people bleed in sports, there's doctors or personal trainers that take care of it. Deadshot Aug 2015 #26
No, not in a marathon. Here, go get your smelling salts PeaceNikki Aug 2015 #44
I guess these delicate flowers don't know about "runner's shits" REP Aug 2015 #199
Blood was not flowing down her leg. n/t demmiblue Aug 2015 #45
From the article: Deadshot Aug 2015 #47
look at the photo at the link. Blood in her crotch area only Beaverhausen Aug 2015 #48
From the article: Deadshot Aug 2015 #50
I don't care what it says. Look at the photo from the end of the race at the link. Please Beaverhausen Aug 2015 #53
Just providing you with what was written. Deadshot Aug 2015 #57
are you unable to click links? Beaverhausen Aug 2015 #62
Again, from paragraph three: Deadshot Aug 2015 #66
But did you look at the photo? JustABozoOnThisBus Aug 2015 #71
I decided to stop feeding the troll Beaverhausen Aug 2015 #87
Inside of running tights. Gormy Cuss Aug 2015 #161
The article was exaggerating. Jamastiene Aug 2015 #213
Oh for crying out loud! elias49 Aug 2015 #88
let what go? Beaverhausen Aug 2015 #92
if she had worn black tights no one would have noticed Liberal_in_LA Aug 2015 #99
Trainers apply bandages AFTER blood has been exchanged ... JustABozoOnThisBus Aug 2015 #54
But they don't take care of it right that instant kcr Aug 2015 #59
Yep. Daemonaquila Aug 2015 #136
LOL flowing down her leg? Do you think our periods are like a cut wound that bleeds without clotting underahedgerow Aug 2015 #103
I was far above average. No I won't detail. alphafemale Aug 2015 #173
Lol, this is what happens when we shield men from the Jamastiene Aug 2015 #214
Not sure what sports you follow jberryhill Aug 2015 #108
There's a difference between getting hurt by accident and purposefully letting blood drip. Deadshot Aug 2015 #112
She was not "letting blood drip," and her blood did not "go all over the place." City Lights Aug 2015 #121
THIS IS NOT ALL OVER THE FUCKING PLACE!!! PeaceNikki Aug 2015 #122
Purposefully bleeding in public is not okay. Deadshot Aug 2015 #124
This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceNikki Aug 2015 #127
So call a fucking cop, I am done with you. PeaceNikki Aug 2015 #128
I'm not the one calling people idiots because I disagreed with them. Deadshot Aug 2015 #129
:* PeaceNikki Aug 2015 #130
Because there is nothing wrong with it. Daemonaquila Aug 2015 #142
Yeah, tell that to people who don't have HIV or Hep A, B, or C. Deadshot Aug 2015 #147
Wow, you truly are making a fool of yourself. BeanMusical Aug 2015 #219
!!! Kali Aug 2015 #170
Sure. Women have our periods on purpose. Jamastiene Aug 2015 #215
No, there really isn't jberryhill Aug 2015 #131
you gotta be a man. Ignorant or you just wanna argue? I'M A GAL, I DON'T BLEED GALLONS OF BLOOD! trueblue2007 Aug 2015 #167
Trollin' PeaceNikki Aug 2015 #169
Can you imagine bleeding "gallons"? Arugula Latte Aug 2015 #190
You apparently are fact-deprived. Do you think she was spraying blood? She wasn't. pnwmom Aug 2015 #223
I'm with you 100%. 840high Aug 2015 #133
Looking at someone's blood doesn't transmit those illnesses. Syzygy321 Aug 2015 #180
You can't contract Hepatitis, HIV, or any other blood-borne Jamastiene Aug 2015 #211
Get real. You're not going to get HIV by stepping, in your shoes, in blood with HIV. pnwmom Aug 2015 #222
Any boxing match or at least boxing card, anyone near the ring is going to get blood brewens Aug 2015 #39
I presume boxers are tested for bloodborne pathogens. LisaL Aug 2015 #146
I went and looked and it seems they have been tested for several years now. n/t brewens Aug 2015 #163
The late Grete Waitz ran Boston in shorts while suffering from a bout of diarrhea. Gormy Cuss Aug 2015 #159
exactly why I would not participate in such an event Skittles Aug 2015 #196
Actually, men do it all the time while running marathons. Quackers Aug 2015 #67
Did you bother looking at the picture? Warpy Aug 2015 #83
She wasn't wearing shorts, so nothing ran down her leg, City Lights Aug 2015 #84
I don't see the big deal. Chemisse Aug 2015 #178
This message was self-deleted by its author Nye Bevan Aug 2015 #7
You must be thinking of Bay to Breakers KamaAina Aug 2015 #9
you sound sort of ill informed on women's anatomy, lol. bettyellen Aug 2015 #13
That's an understatement PeaceNikki Aug 2015 #14
Sounds as gross as people sweating in public LanternWaste Aug 2015 #18
You clearly don't know much about menstruation, nor distance running. nt City Lights Aug 2015 #81
Grete Waitz. Gormy Cuss Aug 2015 #162
See post 159 upthread. KamaAina Aug 2015 #177
Are you joking Nye? Texasgal Aug 2015 #187
Sounds like a first-timer Daemonaquila Aug 2015 #10
You nailed it. KamaAina Aug 2015 #17
Well, there are... Daemonaquila Aug 2015 #23
She ran without protection on purpose. Brickbat Aug 2015 #20
So what? Daemonaquila Aug 2015 #21
Easy there, tiger. Brickbat Aug 2015 #33
Yeaah, as an experienced runner I cringed at the thought of bloody thighs, for whatever reason. sir pball Aug 2015 #97
She could have at least worn black running tights. nt B2G Aug 2015 #12
Except on football Sundays when a mere drop of blood is little more than a badge of honor. LanternWaste Aug 2015 #19
As a 4 timer I can tell you - you never switch gear on race day underpants Aug 2015 #35
OMG, MEN WERE BLLEEEEEDING ALL OVER THE PLACE!?!??! HIV! HEPITITIS!! PeaceNikki Aug 2015 #38
No no no underpants Aug 2015 #89
HOW DARE THEY. Brickbat Aug 2015 #46
Nipple chafing -- that's no laughing matter. Ask Andy. Arugula Latte Aug 2015 #191
Never saw nipple bleeding before LOL, didn't he ever hear of fucking cotton snooper2 Aug 2015 #247
That's why I keep band aids in my tiny running bag thing Nevernose Aug 2015 #192
Why? So she wouldn't hurt your eyes? Don't look at her crotch then. n/t pnwmom Aug 2015 #225
My eye's aren't sore B2G Aug 2015 #234
It is obvious that some men here don't understand menstruation. demmiblue Aug 2015 #15
I figured it would issue forth like an obscuring fog or a smokescreen Orrex Aug 2015 #34
Mario Kart Women's Marathon Edition... demmiblue Aug 2015 #69
You're a fool if you don't copyright that idea immediately Orrex Aug 2015 #73
It comes out of Megyn Kelly's eyes, from what I read in the papers jberryhill Aug 2015 #135
Some of the responses on here show why girls drop out of school when they get their periods. Brickbat Aug 2015 #16
Really? On a progressive site like DU? KamaAina Aug 2015 #27
EXCUSE ME, please put a pad on that emoticon. It's unhygienically leaking all over. Brickbat Aug 2015 #30
O.M.G. demmiblue Aug 2015 #31
Win! Daemonaquila Aug 2015 #37
Oh no you di'int! KamaAina Aug 2015 #80
LOL! City Lights Aug 2015 #86
Oh My! johnp3907 Aug 2015 #152
HAHAHAHA laundry_queen Aug 2015 #204
BWHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! Kali Aug 2015 #188
I will never look at the sarcasm tag the same again tammywammy Aug 2015 #197
OH NOES! Yer gonna get the HIV looking at that Jamastiene Aug 2015 #216
That's a bit of a hyperbole. Deadshot Aug 2015 #32
pffffffffffffffftt, it's day 1 period, which is not squirting blood 10 ft out of her vagina. PeaceNikki Aug 2015 #36
Maybe next time when I get a cut on my head in public Deadshot Aug 2015 #40
You're being fucking dramatic. PeaceNikki Aug 2015 #42
A wound and menstruation are different things. PeaceNikki Aug 2015 #49
More hyperbole of yours... this time illustrated by false equivalency. LanternWaste Aug 2015 #70
*cough* Deadshot Aug 2015 #74
I suppose we merely imagine the blood stained uniforms and players on Sunday afternoons football gam LanternWaste Aug 2015 #79
Gah! BeanMusical Aug 2015 #224
Ha ha ha! progressoid Aug 2015 #51
I *wish* we could make it squirt 10 ft. Starry Messenger Aug 2015 #93
No shit, right!? PeaceNikki Aug 2015 #101
It would make the olympics more interesting. johnp3907 Aug 2015 #155
With SloMo! Starry Messenger Aug 2015 #157
This message was self-deleted by its author u4ic Aug 2015 #208
Bwaaaaaaaahhhhh! montana_hazeleyes Aug 2015 #228
And would make a great idiot repellant u4ic Aug 2015 #209
Speaking of hyperbole... Brickbat Aug 2015 #43
No doubt, you are as concerned with sweating runners too, yes? LanternWaste Aug 2015 #52
You don't get Hepatitis from sweat. Deadshot Aug 2015 #55
You then are not concerned with sweat born illnesses? LanternWaste Aug 2015 #58
You can't get Hepatitis or any bloodborne disease through sweat. Deadshot Aug 2015 #64
Geez, part II LanternWaste Aug 2015 #68
Unless someone actually touches her crotch, no one is going to come into tblue37 Aug 2015 #150
There are THOUSANDS of bloody nipples in every marathon. I hope you're as verklempt about them! PeaceNikki Aug 2015 #60
Bleeding nipples don't cause one to have blood flowing down ones leg or body: Deadshot Aug 2015 #75
lol, keep it up. You know NOTHING about woman's anatomy. PeaceNikki Aug 2015 #77
Neither does the person who wrote the article. Deadshot Aug 2015 #78
Bleeding nipples causes one to have blood running down one's chest, City Lights Aug 2015 #96
When I ran while still unfit exboyfil Aug 2015 #107
This message was self-deleted by its author CTyankee Aug 2015 #100
You don't get it from someone running past you Jamastiene Aug 2015 #217
Unless you were running in unusual proximity to her, you'll be fine Orrex Aug 2015 #63
Bwahahahahah that's the one that sent me over the edge into giggles of hysteria... after reading underahedgerow Aug 2015 #105
Menstrual flow provides an unfair turbo boost in the final miles. Orrex Aug 2015 #171
LOL! nt City Lights Aug 2015 #174
Also, she must be like 20 or 30 pounds lighter after all that bleeding Orrex Aug 2015 #175
Rofl! BeanMusical Aug 2015 #218
OH STOP REPEATING YOURSELF !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! trueblue2007 Aug 2015 #172
I don't care what anyone says about this, it's gross. Vinca Aug 2015 #24
Much like the "fatally stained" football uniforms we see on Sundays... LanternWaste Aug 2015 #56
Exactly. Vinca Aug 2015 #95
The outfits! Stinkles Aug 2015 #28
Amazing! haikugal Aug 2015 #29
Just curious - what's her nationality got to do with anything? Nt demwing Aug 2015 #181
Ha! Absolutely nothing!!....lol haikugal Aug 2015 #182
I've seen it twice but from the nipples underpants Aug 2015 #41
Stupid is as stupid does. closeupready Aug 2015 #61
Some background exboyfil Aug 2015 #65
But, you know, she was being a warrior! Deadshot Aug 2015 #72
Much as pro football players in America are... every weekend. LanternWaste Aug 2015 #91
When a person bleeds in football, he's taken off the field and tended to by doctors. Deadshot Aug 2015 #106
While the NFL has not passed a blood rule exboyfil Aug 2015 #111
No official rule, but it happens. Deadshot Aug 2015 #113
So, the NFL is bleeding over itself. What specific illnesses has it led to? LanternWaste Aug 2015 #116
This story isn't about the NFL. Deadshot Aug 2015 #119
You're moving the goalposts. Either it's concern across the board or it's not. LanternWaste Aug 2015 #132
Bringing the NFL into this is the logical fallacy of appealling to hypocrisy. Deadshot Aug 2015 #137
NFL players purposefully stay on the field during play, hence your movement of goalposts. LanternWaste Aug 2015 #141
The OP is about a woman purposefully bleeding to prove something. Deadshot Aug 2015 #145
Bernie supporter? Kingofalldems Aug 2015 #148
What does that have to do with the price of oil in ND? Deadshot Aug 2015 #149
In fact... BeanMusical Aug 2015 #221
No risk as long as those others refrain from touching her crotch. nt tblue37 Aug 2015 #151
Incorrect. Bleeding players stay on the field. LanternWaste Aug 2015 #118
Should this Blood Rule apply to pro football? LanternWaste Aug 2015 #90
Yes. exboyfil Aug 2015 #104
It's not. LanternWaste Aug 2015 #123
Clean clothing is required for running cross country? City Lights Aug 2015 #109
In clean I mean without blood on the clothing exboyfil Aug 2015 #115
Ok, thanks for clarifying that you were referring to blood. nt City Lights Aug 2015 #125
This message was self-deleted by its author Butterbean Aug 2015 #82
some seem to be confusing a woman's menstrual flow with a whales spout. grossproffit Aug 2015 #85
26 mile long trail, I tells ya!!!! LanternWaste Aug 2015 #94
The End elias49 Aug 2015 #98
I literally lol'ed PeaceNikki Aug 2015 #102
I think I'm getting vagina envy! elias49 Aug 2015 #114
! Gormy Cuss Aug 2015 #164
Once again, the men getting all worked up over a chick's uterine functions. underahedgerow Aug 2015 #110
Strange, isn't it? johnp3907 Aug 2015 #158
Oh my. You're talking about women stuff. gollygee Aug 2015 #120
I didn't think it would tilt quite so far into the 'Ew, that's yucky!' crowd. randome Aug 2015 #138
It's funny how deeply ingrained the idea of women being unclean is. gollygee Aug 2015 #140
I'm a dame, and I think it's nasty. Since when has "free bleeding" been something to support???? WinkyDink Aug 2015 #184
You don't have to necessarily 'support' something to see it as a natural part of biology. randome Aug 2015 #233
Yeah. And while we're at it, why did women have to start wearing pants??? kcr Aug 2015 #235
Whatever. As a rear-eschelon runner, I know I won't get lost. n/t lumberjack_jeff Aug 2015 #139
ROFL! KamaAina Aug 2015 #144
this is great ! olddots Aug 2015 #143
I know a woman got thrown out in 1967 and was allowed to run in '68. nolabear Aug 2015 #153
True generally HassleCat Aug 2015 #154
Wouldn't be any worse if a person cut their finger and was bleeding. I doubt if she.. BlueJazz Aug 2015 #156
Hahahaha! Are you male? WinkyDink Aug 2015 #185
Of course. Couldn't you tell by my idiotic answer ? BlueJazz Aug 2015 #186
you want I should kick your idiotic ass, BlueJazz? Skittles Aug 2015 #206
In my book she's pathetic. Boudica the Lyoness Aug 2015 #165
I thought that's what Donald Trump did. KamaAina Aug 2015 #166
lol Boudica the Lyoness Aug 2015 #168
Have you ever run a marathon? Gravitycollapse Aug 2015 #226
I've competed in endurance sports gwheezie Aug 2015 #176
It's been years ago but I remember that uncomforable feeling...there was no help CTyankee Aug 2015 #179
As a female, i see zero reason to "applaud" this woman. Bodily fluids ought remain out of public WinkyDink Aug 2015 #183
sorry, no Skittles Aug 2015 #189
I would imagine that if she had Texasgal Aug 2015 #194
She clearly has a highly noticeable stain. LisaL Aug 2015 #198
They might have thought it was sweat, maybe. n/t Jamastiene Aug 2015 #220
Yes, it's gross. alarimer Aug 2015 #231
Ok, everyone knows the "free bleeding" thing came from 4chan? AngryAmish Aug 2015 #193
Apparently the blogger from "The Mommy Files" did not KamaAina Aug 2015 #200
This message was self-deleted by its author 1000words Aug 2015 #195
I thought of that story, as well, in relation to this one. Lots of mentally ill people out there. closeupready Aug 2015 #241
What if she started AFTER the race began. I don't think she should be expected to ALBliberal Aug 2015 #201
Ok, I guess I just don't get it. As a man, as a person, if I were bleeding and had the opportunity Ed Suspicious Aug 2015 #202
I'm not quite sure how a tampon causes chafing AndreaCG Aug 2015 #203
Dislodging while running.....it may not stay in place. nt msanthrope Aug 2015 #227
So she has never heard of a moon cup? They are widely available now. KittyWampus Aug 2015 #205
So how comfortable are they while running? dilby Aug 2015 #207
as comfortable as having a diaphragm in while having sex…. KittyWampus Aug 2015 #230
She's Indian, 26 and attends Harvard. randome Aug 2015 #237
I have never wanted to run... 3catwoman3 Aug 2015 #210
Why the judgmentalism and the shaming?! What right have YOU closeupready Aug 2015 #242
blood coming out her...wherever HFRN Aug 2015 #212
Some people need to get a grip IVoteDFL Aug 2015 #232
Right on! K&R GliderGuider Aug 2015 #236
Apology: I posted upthread about "leaving a trail of blood". Nye Bevan Aug 2015 #238
Thanks, Nye Bevan! City Lights Aug 2015 #243
I will not applaud this disgusting degenerate behavior 951-Riverside Aug 2015 #239
Jesus fucking Christ. She's not exposing others to her body fluids. Gravitycollapse Aug 2015 #244

underahedgerow

(1,232 posts)
126. She goes to Harvard and is kind of a rocket scientist and a Think Leader. She's also a professional
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 03:49 PM
Aug 2015

percussionist and has done a lot of amazing things.

She interesting things to say. I like her! I think she might do some great things.

http://kirangandhi.com/

qwlauren35

(6,150 posts)
2. I think
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 01:20 PM
Aug 2015

the wetness would have been uncomfortable, but when I think about it, she didn't have a lot of options. Those things don't last 14 hours, especially if she had a heavy flow.

I think I might have worn a mini skirt and gone commando. Or just worn SOMETHING and dealt with the leaking.

No matter how you spin it, the woman must have been uncomfortable, because she would have soaked her clothes.

She was a very brave and determined woman. Makes me wonder how other women cope with the situation.

Glorfindel

(9,733 posts)
3. Good for her!
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 01:22 PM
Aug 2015

To quote Gloria Steinem:

"So what would happen if suddenly, magically, men could menstruate and women could not?

Clearly, menstruation would become an enviable, worthy, masculine event:

Men would brag about how long and how much.

Young boys would talk about it as the envied beginning of manhood. Gifts, religious ceremonies, family dinners, and stag parties would mark the day.

To prevent monthly work loss among the powerful, Congress would fund a National Institute of Dysmenorrhea. Doctors would research little about heart attacks, from which men would be hormonally protected, but everything about cramps.

Sanitary supplies would be federally funded and free. Of course, some men would still pay for the prestige of such commercial brands as Paul Newman Tampons, Muhammad Ali's Rope-a-Dope Pads, John Wayne Maxi Pads, and Joe Namath Jock Shields- "For Those Light Bachelor Days."

Statistical surveys would show that men did better in sports and won more Olympic medals during their periods.

Generals, right-wing politicians, and religious fundamentalists would cite menstruation ("men-struation&quot as proof that only men could serve God and country in combat ("You have to give blood to take blood&quot , occupy high political office ("Can women be properly fierce without a monthly cycle governed by the planet Mars?&quot , be priests, ministers, God Himself ("He gave this blood for our sins&quot , or rabbis ("Without a monthly purge of impurities, women are unclean&quot .

Male liberals and radicals, however, would insist that women are equal, just different; and that any woman could join their ranks if only she were willing to recognize the primacy of menstrual rights ("Everything else is a single issue&quot or self-inflict a major wound every month ("You must give blood for the revolution&quot .

Street guys would invent slang ("He's a three-pad man&quot and "give fives" on the corner with some exchenge like, "Man you lookin' good!"

"Yeah, man, I'm on the rag!"

TV shows would treat the subject openly. (Happy Days: Richie and Potsie try to convince Fonzie that he is still "The Fonz," though he has missed two periods in a row. Hill Street Blues: The whole precinct hits the same cycle.) So would newspapers. (Summer Shark Scare Threatens Menstruating Men. Judge Cites Monthlies In Pardoning Rapist.) And so would movies. (Newman and Redford in Blood Brothers!)

Men would convince women that sex was more pleasurable at "that time of the month." Lesbians would be said to fear blood and therefore life itself, though all they needed was a good menstruating man.

Medical schools would limit women's entry ("they might faint at the sight of blood&quot .

Of course, intellectuals would offer the most moral and logical arguements. Without the biological gift for measuring the cycles of the moon and planets, how could a woman master any discipline that demanded a sense of time, space, mathematics-- or the ability to measure anything at all? In philosophy and religion, how could women compensate for being disconnected from the rhythm of the universe? Or for their lack of symbolic death and resurrection every month?

Menopause would be celebrated as a positive event, the symbol that men had accumulated enough years of cyclical wisdom to need no more.

Liberal males in every field would try to be kind. The fact that "these people" have no gift for measuring life, the liberals would explain, should be punishment enough.

And how would women be trained to react? One can imagine right-wing women agreeing to all these arguements with a staunch and smiling masochism. ("The ERA would force housewives to wound themselves every month": Phyllis Schlafly)

In short, we would discover, as we should already, that logic is in the eye of the logician. (For instance, here's an idea for theorists and logicians: if women are supposed to be less rational and more emotional at the beginning of our menstrual cycle when the female hormone is at its lowest level, then why isn't it logical to say that, in those few days, women behave the most like the way men behave all month long? I leave further improvisation up to you.)

The truth is that, if men could menstruate, the power justifications would go on and on.

If we let them."

qwlauren35

(6,150 posts)
5. Personally,
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 01:25 PM
Aug 2015

I'm just waiting to see how fast this thread sinks.

Any bets? I say a half hour. It was posted at 1:22pm.

qwlauren35

(6,150 posts)
160. I stand corrected. I am SHOCKED at what has happened here.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 04:52 PM
Aug 2015

There's very little difference between this woman running with a soaked pad and with no pad. Clearly she didn't know about 24 hour tampons, but it may be that in her culture, women don't wear them. So, she didn't see much in the way of options, and she chose to go "commando" and let her garments catch the blood. This is very different from someone bleeding from exposed tissue, and comparable to the nipple bleeding.

This has educated me about the reality of marathons. Where does the pee go? Don't think about it. Where does the poo go? Don't think about it. Where does the menses go? Don't think about it.

These people want to win the race, or place in the race, or just get to the end of the race, ***without stopping***.

So don't check their pants. It might gross you out.

beergood

(470 posts)
229. lol
Tue Aug 11, 2015, 08:20 AM
Aug 2015

"In short, we would discover, as we should already, that logic is in the eye of the logician. (For instance, here's an idea for theorists and logicians: if women are supposed to be less rational and more emotional at the beginning of our menstrual cycle when the female hormone is at its lowest level, then why isn't it logical to say that, in those few days, women behave the most like the way men behave all month long? I leave further improvisation up to you.)"

loved this part.

btw a cis-male.

 

Daemonaquila

(1,712 posts)
11. Oh lordy.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 01:43 PM
Aug 2015

This is so silly. You must never have run an obstacle or endurance race. We're covered in sweat, OFTEN in blood from some gash or other if it's a good obstacle race (and *gasp* we all wind up in the same mud or water or what have you... TOGETHER... with lots of people in that same shape), or even barf or poop or urine. None of these things are a big deal. We have to stop being so terrified of this stuff as a society. I can think of many, many worse things that people are exposed to pretty routinely, and they don't even think about it. But they've been told that blood on someone is THE WORST OMG, and freak out.

Deadshot

(384 posts)
22. Your argument makes no sense.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 02:09 PM
Aug 2015

I don't want to get Hepatitis, HIV, or any other blood-borne illness because someone wanted to be a political warrior.

BTW, you can't contract any of those things through sweat.

kcr

(15,320 posts)
25. Then don't participate in sports
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 02:12 PM
Aug 2015

Because you realize there are other ways that blood happens in sports? Right? If the notion that you might come in contact with blood freaks you out that much.

Deadshot

(384 posts)
26. When people bleed in sports, there's doctors or personal trainers that take care of it.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 02:13 PM
Aug 2015

She ran for 26.5 miles, on purpose, with blood flowing down her leg.

Again, your argument makes no sense.

Deadshot

(384 posts)
50. From the article:
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 02:30 PM
Aug 2015
On August 7, she ran with blood freely flowing down her legs


Third paragraph in the block quote in the excerpt in the OP.

Beaverhausen

(24,472 posts)
62. are you unable to click links?
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 02:34 PM
Aug 2015

seriously, it will take you 5 seconds to see that no blood went any farther than her crotch.

Deadshot

(384 posts)
66. Again, from paragraph three:
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 02:36 PM
Aug 2015
On August 7, she ran with blood freely flowing down her legs


Yes. I did read the article. The question is: did you?

JustABozoOnThisBus

(23,364 posts)
71. But did you look at the photo?
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 02:41 PM
Aug 2015

By the end of the race, she maybe lost an ounce of blood, none of it "flowing down her legs", none of it left on the pavement (the horror).

Probably less "precious bodily fluids" than some of the other runners let loose during their run.

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
161. Inside of running tights.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 04:53 PM
Aug 2015

Absorbent material. So yes, it ran out of her body as is normal but instead of being absorbed by a sanitary pad it was absorbed by her clothing. Most adult women have had that happen at least once by accident.

JustABozoOnThisBus

(23,364 posts)
54. Trainers apply bandages AFTER blood has been exchanged ...
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 02:31 PM
Aug 2015

... as well as the sweat and tears of the colliding athletes.

I'm not sure how the blood from a marathoner would get on anyone else. Unless it was a three-legged race, then her partner would be in danger.



kcr

(15,320 posts)
59. But they don't take care of it right that instant
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 02:33 PM
Aug 2015

Making the blood instantly disappear the second the wound happens. For example, a woman in the World Cup this year played with blood dripping down her face in rivlets. She was put back into the game in this condition. There is a chance you will come into contact with it. So it is your argument that makes no sense.

 

Daemonaquila

(1,712 posts)
136. Yep.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 04:00 PM
Aug 2015

See, let's delve into the "problem" a bit more. Blood on a male rugby player's face? Cleaning that up would be sissy. After all, "Give blood, play rugby." Blood on a male hockey or football player's jersey? All part of the game. Blood on a boxer? Expected, to be mopped up between rounds to avoid vision problems, choking, etc.

Oh, but this is VAG blood. The HORROR!!!!

underahedgerow

(1,232 posts)
103. LOL flowing down her leg? Do you think our periods are like a cut wound that bleeds without clotting
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 03:32 PM
Aug 2015

or something? It's more like a couple of teaspoons at its best, 3 or 4 tablespoons when it's rough -- as an average. Her period blood was just in her crotch fercryinoutloud, not puddling in her shoe.

Geez, it's not a big deal.

(Please note I stated on average, not the exceptions, no need to share all the stories please!)

 

alphafemale

(18,497 posts)
173. I was far above average. No I won't detail.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 05:26 PM
Aug 2015

But let's just say that when I was done with that monthly horror show I celebrated.

What this woman did was not a big deal in any way.

She knew her body and knew what to expect.

There is no way I could have done this.

Of course, there is also no way I am capable of running a marathon so, touche'.

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
214. Lol, this is what happens when we shield men from the
Tue Aug 11, 2015, 01:10 AM
Aug 2015

horrible truth about, (insert suspenseful music here) a woman's period. Men who are not such wimps about it and actually learn about it can handle the truth. The others, I'm not so sure. They seem to have all kinds of crazy notions.

Although, I admit, this guy's ignorance on the topic is at least admirable. He states what I have always begrudged (the cost) about having to have a period:

http://www.dumpaday.com/funny-pictures/women-walking-their-men-through-buying-tampons-via-text-messages-4-pics/

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
108. Not sure what sports you follow
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 03:40 PM
Aug 2015

In bike racing, this is normal:



Cyclists get severe bloody injuries and keep going.

Deadshot

(384 posts)
112. There's a difference between getting hurt by accident and purposefully letting blood drip.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 03:42 PM
Aug 2015

The woman chose to let her blood go all over the place because she didn't want to be uncomfortable.

Why can't people see the difference?

City Lights

(25,171 posts)
121. She was not "letting blood drip," and her blood did not "go all over the place."
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 03:47 PM
Aug 2015

Why can't you understand that? People all over this thread are pointing it out to you, and you refuse to see it. Do you truly not understand, or are you purposefully being difficult?

Just for argument's sake...what do you think she should have done had she gotten her period DURING the race rather than BEFORE? Should she have dropped out so as not to offend you?

Response to Deadshot (Reply #124)

 

Daemonaquila

(1,712 posts)
142. Because there is nothing wrong with it.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 04:05 PM
Aug 2015

You've said the same thing several times about "purposefully bleeding." That sounds more like trolling than trying to make a point. Blood is blood. Athletic injuries mean blood. But so does a period. It doesn't matter why. If it was a huge "health hazard," people would be doing something about it in every sport. But it isn't, and they're not. This is about your personal squeamishness, and that has no place in a discussion about whether she was acting appropriately. It's no different than shaming her because she chose not to shave, she's wearing those tight little running pants while weighing 185, or she puked a little on herself and didn't decide to give up the race.

Deadshot

(384 posts)
147. Yeah, tell that to people who don't have HIV or Hep A, B, or C.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 04:10 PM
Aug 2015

I don't bleed in public on purpose because I don't want to put people in unnecessary risk.

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
215. Sure. Women have our periods on purpose.
Tue Aug 11, 2015, 01:14 AM
Aug 2015

We do it *just* to make you squeamish.

We bleed in public all the time. You just don't always know when we are doing it. Most of the time, we deal with the leaks and other issues once we get home, and yes, leaks do happen, to most women.



trueblue2007

(17,237 posts)
167. you gotta be a man. Ignorant or you just wanna argue? I'M A GAL, I DON'T BLEED GALLONS OF BLOOD!
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 05:07 PM
Aug 2015

Just shut up will you. You have no idea what you are talking about. We (women) don't bleed cups, pints, gallons of blood when we have our period. YOU CAN'T WIN THIS ARGUMENT SO JUST STIFLE YOURSELF PLEASE.

(Archie Bunker remark lolol)

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
190. Can you imagine bleeding "gallons"?
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 09:45 PM
Aug 2015

Most people have a little more than one gallon of blood in their entire body. So if you bleed gallons -- plural -- you are, well, either dead or some sort of new super-human freak of nature.

pnwmom

(108,991 posts)
223. You apparently are fact-deprived. Do you think she was spraying blood? She wasn't.
Tue Aug 11, 2015, 02:22 AM
Aug 2015

Do you have any idea how much menstrual blood is shed over the whole course of a typical menstrual period, over the course of several days?

The average over a cycle is between 4 to 12 teaspoons. That means, up to 4 tablespoons over several days.

That means, between a teaspoon and a tablespoon per day, in a 4 day cycle.

For most women, it looks (and feels) worse than it is. Are you still afraid of all that blood?

http://www.webmd.com/women/guide/menstrual-blood-problems-clots-color-and-thickness

 

Syzygy321

(583 posts)
180. Looking at someone's blood doesn't transmit those illnesses.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 06:21 PM
Aug 2015

You would have to have sex with her on the marathon course, or at minimum grab at her bloody clothes with your hands while you had an open wound.

And even if you did that
and if she had a bloodborne virus
and if she were untreated,
it's still a real long shot.

Still: don't do that! Are you nuts?



Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
211. You can't contract Hepatitis, HIV, or any other blood-borne
Tue Aug 11, 2015, 01:00 AM
Aug 2015

illness watching someone run a marathon either.

pnwmom

(108,991 posts)
222. Get real. You're not going to get HIV by stepping, in your shoes, in blood with HIV.
Tue Aug 11, 2015, 02:19 AM
Aug 2015

Not that there's any realistic chance she has it.

brewens

(13,620 posts)
39. Any boxing match or at least boxing card, anyone near the ring is going to get blood
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 02:24 PM
Aug 2015

on them and probably little tiny droplets in their eyes. You only need to see a few quality pics of what happens when someone lands a good blow and the light is right. You see the explosion of tiny droplets of sweat flying everywhere! It's worse than a sneeze and someone always gets cut or is bleeding from the nose.

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
159. The late Grete Waitz ran Boston in shorts while suffering from a bout of diarrhea.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 04:49 PM
Aug 2015

I don't recall anyone on or off the course worrying about that health hazard. Clearly, menstrual blood flowing into full length running tights is much more dangerous.

Warpy

(111,338 posts)
83. Did you bother looking at the picture?
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 02:54 PM
Aug 2015

It soaked into her athletic wear, didn't drip on any squeamish males. It wasn't any more of a health hazard than a sanitary napkin or tampon. It would just go into the laundry instead of the bin at the end of the day.

City Lights

(25,171 posts)
84. She wasn't wearing shorts, so nothing ran down her leg,
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 03:02 PM
Aug 2015

despite what the writer of the article claims. Any blood she lost during the race was absorbed by the tights she wore.

Chemisse

(30,817 posts)
178. I don't see the big deal.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 06:11 PM
Aug 2015

So what if it did stream down and gets on the track (which apparently it didn't)? People aren't leaning down and touching the blood with their own open wounds. It can't go through shoes, socks, and skin.

It would be quite a trick to catch a disease under these circumstances.

Response to KamaAina (Original post)

 

KamaAina

(78,249 posts)
9. You must be thinking of Bay to Breakers
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 01:34 PM
Aug 2015

Fecal matter is far from uncommon on San Francisco streets.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
18. Sounds as gross as people sweating in public
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 01:58 PM
Aug 2015

Sounds as gross as people sweating in public. The horror. The horror...

 

KamaAina

(78,249 posts)
177. See post 159 upthread.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 06:04 PM
Aug 2015

The esteemed Gormy Cuss and champion marathoner Grete Waitz put the fork to that line of attack.

Texasgal

(17,047 posts)
187. Are you joking Nye?
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 08:17 PM
Aug 2015

I guess you have no idea how mensuration works! Blood does not gush or leave a fucking trail! We are talking teaspoons here! UGH!

 

Daemonaquila

(1,712 posts)
10. Sounds like a first-timer
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 01:38 PM
Aug 2015

I run with a tampon all the time, even long runs like half marathon or more. You just have to choose the right one - or you CAN chafe or have it dislodge and be horribly uncomfortable. I'd be much more uncomfortable with the wetness down my gear, since that can chafe too. But hey, I'd do it if I ran into problems during the race, and regardless, to each her own. We're covered in sweat, and sometimes when things go wrong in barf, or as someone mentioned some people's stomachs get upset because they ate wrong that morning and they wind up having an accident. It's part of your race plan. You just go with it.

 

KamaAina

(78,249 posts)
17. You nailed it.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 01:56 PM
Aug 2015
This was Gandhi’s first marathon and she spent a year training for it. Gandhi, who has played drums for singer M.I.A., hit a wall at mile 18.5 but got her strength back in the final stretch.


One would think there'd be sports tampons designed for precisely this purpose.
 

Daemonaquila

(1,712 posts)
23. Well, there are...
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 02:11 PM
Aug 2015

But they're really hard to get in a lot of stores. You'd think that everyone would wear those all the time, right? Less leaks are good. All I know is that I would NEVER wear your basic straight Tampax for a long race. That way madness lies.

 

Daemonaquila

(1,712 posts)
21. So what?
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 02:08 PM
Aug 2015

Is there a reason that anyone else should have a say in this? Is there any reason that people should get offended by how she runs? Or is it just a bunch of goody-goodies tut-tutting their way into her business? What else do they want to get offended by? Her sweat? Whether she shaved that morning? Whether she peed herself a little on mile 22? Just because most of us wouldn't make the same choice for comfort, doesn't mean it isn't a valid choice for someone else.

sir pball

(4,758 posts)
97. Yeaah, as an experienced runner I cringed at the thought of bloody thighs, for whatever reason.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 03:16 PM
Aug 2015

I don't have the necessary equipment to menstruate during a race, but I have more than once had my upper thighs chafe bloody, and regardless of the source or gender, having a sticky, clotting fluid coating skin rubbing on skin for 26 or even 13 miles (done one full, but more halves than I can count - I speak from experience) is hellish. I've outright poured cups from the water stations down my shorts in a desperate attempt to clean up, much to the courseworkers' amusement..

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
19. Except on football Sundays when a mere drop of blood is little more than a badge of honor.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 02:03 PM
Aug 2015

I imagine many people with delicate sensibilities, to better protect their fragile awareness feel the same-- except on football Sundays when a mere drop of blood is little more than a badge of honor.

underpants

(182,877 posts)
35. As a 4 timer I can tell you - you never switch gear on race day
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 02:21 PM
Aug 2015

Whatever you've trained in you wear. Some people get a new pair of shoes a week or two out but they break them in. I saw two guys bleeding through new running shirts in my first two marathons. Bleeding from the nipples. Nipple tape became a regular thing for me after that.

Nevernose

(13,081 posts)
192. That's why I keep band aids in my tiny running bag thing
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 09:54 PM
Aug 2015

Foot blisters and nipple chafing. Some days I must look like a freak: really hairy chest but little clear strips next to the nipples.

Other things to have in the little invisible pouch:
Neosporin ointment
Room/car key
Credit card
Two twenties, for bus or cab fare
Nicotine pills (at least I don't smoke anymore)
Advil
Leftover hydrocodone from the dentist
A joint
A matchbook

 

B2G

(9,766 posts)
234. My eye's aren't sore
Tue Aug 11, 2015, 12:14 PM
Aug 2015

I don't care that she made the choice that she made. It just seems it was more a bid for attention that anything else.

demmiblue

(36,885 posts)
15. It is obvious that some men here don't understand menstruation.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 01:54 PM
Aug 2015

Leaving a trail of blood?!

A woman's uterus during menses is not like an open wound.

The average blood loss is really not all that much.

P.S. Good on her!


Edit: maybe some women, too!

Orrex

(63,223 posts)
34. I figured it would issue forth like an obscuring fog or a smokescreen
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 02:20 PM
Aug 2015

In other words, it's clearly an unfair advantage over her competitors running behind her.

The trickery!

demmiblue

(36,885 posts)
69. Mario Kart Women's Marathon Edition...
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 02:40 PM
Aug 2015

pick up an egg, then shoot the field with a slick, bloody stream of back-the-fuck off!

Orrex

(63,223 posts)
73. You're a fool if you don't copyright that idea immediately
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 02:44 PM
Aug 2015

Beats the shit out of a blue shell, that's for sure.

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
216. OH NOES! Yer gonna get the HIV looking at that
Tue Aug 11, 2015, 01:28 AM
Aug 2015

emoticon. Turn away. Turn away now before it is too late.

Some people in this thread are way too squeamish to be in the adult world.

Deadshot

(384 posts)
32. That's a bit of a hyperbole.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 02:20 PM
Aug 2015

Some of us don't want to contract Hepatitis, HIV, or any other bloodborne infections. She was purposely running while bleeding and exposing others to potential infections because she didn't want to be uncomfortable.

PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
36. pffffffffffffffftt, it's day 1 period, which is not squirting blood 10 ft out of her vagina.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 02:22 PM
Aug 2015

At worst, her pants were stained. Don't stick your face into her stained sweaty crotch and you'll be fine.

Deadshot

(384 posts)
40. Maybe next time when I get a cut on my head in public
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 02:24 PM
Aug 2015

I'll just let it bleed, you know, to show that it's okay for people with head wounds to bleed. I wouldn't want to put on a hat or bandage because it could be uncomfortable.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
70. More hyperbole of yours... this time illustrated by false equivalency.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 02:40 PM
Aug 2015

More hyperbole of yours... this time illustrated by false equivalency.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
79. I suppose we merely imagine the blood stained uniforms and players on Sunday afternoons football gam
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 02:49 PM
Aug 2015

Hope your cough didn't develop from following a jogger so closely you both collided in a pool of her blood. That would be almost as awkward as rationalizing absolutely no concern for a small amount of blood on an athlete... except when she's a she.

I suppose we merely imagine the blood stained uniforms and players on Sunday afternoons football games (please continue-- your logical fallacies are bemusing)

(BTW: serious lack of citations in the wiki entry you rest your cases on)

BeanMusical

(4,389 posts)
224. Gah!
Tue Aug 11, 2015, 02:33 AM
Aug 2015

You just coughed in public!1!! Now I risk being infected with Hepatitis, HIV, or the pneumonic plague!

Response to johnp3907 (Reply #155)

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
52. No doubt, you are as concerned with sweating runners too, yes?
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 02:30 PM
Aug 2015

No doubt, you are as concerned with sweating runners too, yes (as sweat may also pass along many diseases, e.g., Hep B)? Or (and I find this somewhat more likely) you're practicing the same hyperbole you indict others for...

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
58. You then are not concerned with sweat born illnesses?
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 02:33 PM
Aug 2015

You then are not concerned with sweat born illnesses or diseases transmitted by saliva after people spit?

(I'm going with the "your own hyperbole matches that with which you indict others for&quot

Deadshot

(384 posts)
64. You can't get Hepatitis or any bloodborne disease through sweat.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 02:35 PM
Aug 2015

Geez.

That's why they're called "bloodborne disease".

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
68. Geez, part II
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 02:39 PM
Aug 2015

It begs the question: How many people have fallen ill after following a menstruating jogger lacking sanitary pads-- that being the premise of your concern?

Geez, part II

tblue37

(65,483 posts)
150. Unless someone actually touches her crotch, no one is going to come into
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 04:26 PM
Aug 2015

contact with that blood. (LOOK at the picture!)

And anyone in the race or watching the race who goes out of their way (which is what it would take) to come into contact with that blood would be too busy dealing with sexual assault charges to have much time or energy left over to fret about all the "dangers" you seem so concerned about.

Deadshot

(384 posts)
75. Bleeding nipples don't cause one to have blood flowing down ones leg or body:
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 02:47 PM
Aug 2015
On August 7, she ran with blood freely flowing down her legs

City Lights

(25,171 posts)
96. Bleeding nipples causes one to have blood running down one's chest,
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 03:15 PM
Aug 2015

as evidenced by the picture in Post #67. Last time I checked, one's chest was considered to be part of one's body.

exboyfil

(17,865 posts)
107. When I ran while still unfit
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 03:39 PM
Aug 2015

I would get severe enough chafing on my legs to actually bleed through my undershorts and some through my cotton running shorts.

If you can see the blood through the shirt or shorts then you probably should be pulled from the race if you want to be completely safe. Droplets definitely should lead to being pulled.

Response to Deadshot (Reply #75)

Orrex

(63,223 posts)
63. Unless you were running in unusual proximity to her, you'll be fine
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 02:35 PM
Aug 2015

Do you commonly make a habit of maintaining contact with a fellow marathoner's genitals while running?

underahedgerow

(1,232 posts)
105. Bwahahahahah that's the one that sent me over the edge into giggles of hysteria... after reading
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 03:36 PM
Aug 2015

all the hysteria from the men folk here.... THANK YOU!!!!!

Orrex

(63,223 posts)
175. Also, she must be like 20 or 30 pounds lighter after all that bleeding
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 05:40 PM
Aug 2015

So that's another unfair advantage! Shocking!

Vinca

(50,303 posts)
24. I don't care what anyone says about this, it's gross.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 02:12 PM
Aug 2015

It's hard to believe any woman in London is shamed because she's having her period. IMO, this is just "look at me, look at me" and a fatally stained running outfit.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
56. Much like the "fatally stained" football uniforms we see on Sundays...
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 02:32 PM
Aug 2015

"a fatally stained running outfit..."

Much like the "fatally stained" football uniforms we see on Sundays...

haikugal

(6,476 posts)
29. Amazing!
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 02:18 PM
Aug 2015

What incredible strength! Running a marathon on her period AND using it for a social good! I notice she's also Indian...you GO GIRL!!!!

Thanks for posting this Kama!

K&R

underpants

(182,877 posts)
41. I've seen it twice but from the nipples
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 02:25 PM
Aug 2015

My first two marathons. Two guys with,they admitted, with brand new wicking shirts bleeding through them. I made nipple tape (strips of athletic tape) a regular part of my gear on longer training runs. Gruesome.

exboyfil

(17,865 posts)
65. Some background
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 02:35 PM
Aug 2015
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blood_rule
https://www.iahsaa.org/Sports_Medicine_Wellness/Comm/Sport_Blood_Rules.pdf

Would be allowed to continue race under Iowa rules. No marathon for high school athletes though - much shorter races (up to 3 miles in cross country).

In general requirement is to also have clean clothing.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
91. Much as pro football players in America are... every weekend.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 03:09 PM
Aug 2015

Much as pro football players in America are... every weekend.

Though no doubt, calling her a warrior was not hyperbole on your part, merely a well-rationalized adjective.

Deadshot

(384 posts)
106. When a person bleeds in football, he's taken off the field and tended to by doctors.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 03:37 PM
Aug 2015

Again, why is this woman considered a hero? She chose to be unsanitary.

exboyfil

(17,865 posts)
111. While the NFL has not passed a blood rule
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 03:41 PM
Aug 2015

but it is a hot topic of discussion. In high school you definitely will be pulled.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
116. So, the NFL is bleeding over itself. What specific illnesses has it led to?
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 03:45 PM
Aug 2015

So, the NFL is bleeding over itself. What specific illnesses has it led to?

Deadshot

(384 posts)
119. This story isn't about the NFL.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 03:47 PM
Aug 2015

It's about someone who willingly bled to prove some cause while putting others in potential risk.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
132. You're moving the goalposts. Either it's concern across the board or it's not.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 03:58 PM
Aug 2015

You're moving the goalposts, and I certainly understand your desire to so so. However, either it's concern across the board or it's not at all.

And, as NFL players willingly stay on the field while bleeding-- "putting others in potential risk", you may wish to take your alleged concern up with those that offend it the most-- that being the NFL.

As a matter of fact, we have a sports and and NFL board on DU. You should really take your alleged concern theere also and get their take on it... unless of course, the concern for sport safety is in fact, simply an allegation to better mask a somewhat less noble sentiment which applies only to women.

Deadshot

(384 posts)
137. Bringing the NFL into this is the logical fallacy of appealling to hypocrisy.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 04:01 PM
Aug 2015

The OP isn't about accidental bleeding in the NFL. It's about a woman who purposefully bled to prove something.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
141. NFL players purposefully stay on the field during play, hence your movement of goalposts.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 04:05 PM
Aug 2015

NFL players purposefully stay on the field during play. Willfully placing others, as you allege, at risk. There is no relevant and precise difference between the runner or the fullback who both play while bleeding at this point.

Consistency is not a logical fallacy. Pretending it is though, is rather irrational.


You keep moving those goalposts though...

Deadshot

(384 posts)
145. The OP is about a woman purposefully bleeding to prove something.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 04:09 PM
Aug 2015

It's not about bleeding in the NFL, nipple bleeding while running, or any other type of accidental bleeding.

Nice try, though.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
118. Incorrect. Bleeding players stay on the field.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 03:46 PM
Aug 2015

Incorrect. Bleeding players stay often on the field. Injured players often stay on the field.

Why are football players considered heroes? They choose to be unsanitary.

exboyfil

(17,865 posts)
104. Yes.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 03:34 PM
Aug 2015

Risk is no less in football than the other sports involved. Either it is a valid concern or it is not. It may take someone contracting an illness before the NFL does something.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
123. It's not.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 03:48 PM
Aug 2015

"Either it is a valid concern or it is not."

It's not. Else we would have heard numerous and collective discussions regarding NFL players all over each other prior to this intance. Let's not pretend it's a valid concern... though I realize we use the word concern to hide less noble sentiments.

City Lights

(25,171 posts)
109. Clean clothing is required for running cross country?
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 03:40 PM
Aug 2015

Not around here. Kids run in the rain (not lightning) or mud all the time and they are filthy before, during, and after the race. One time, the mud was so thick that my son's shoe stuck in it and he finished the race wearing one shoe and one sock.

exboyfil

(17,865 posts)
115. In clean I mean without blood on the clothing
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 03:44 PM
Aug 2015

That is the rule at least in Iowa. You can finish a race with blood on you (note three miles max distance), but you cannot start one with blood on you. In some sports you have to be pulled immediately (see link).

Obviously unless a rule exists in advance, then the competitor should be able to continue to race. No matter what the cause of the blood it should be handled in a consistent fashion.

Response to KamaAina (Original post)

underahedgerow

(1,232 posts)
110. Once again, the men getting all worked up over a chick's uterine functions.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 03:40 PM
Aug 2015

Sigh.

I did like her point though... Billions of women around the world don't have any access to sanitary products, and much worse, are ostracized and made by men to feel as though menstruating is a dirty thing because it's vaginally related.

The weirdest thing I see routinely in shops here is muslim men supervising their wives' purchase of sanitary products. Took me ages to figure out just what the deal was with that. Creeps me out.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
120. Oh my. You're talking about women stuff.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 03:47 PM
Aug 2015

I knew where this would go before reading the rest of the thread. LOL.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
138. I didn't think it would tilt quite so far into the 'Ew, that's yucky!' crowd.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 04:02 PM
Aug 2015

[hr][font color="blue"][center]"There is a crack in everything. That's how the light gets in."
Leonard Cohen, Anthem (1992)
[/center][/font][hr]

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
140. It's funny how deeply ingrained the idea of women being unclean is.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 04:05 PM
Aug 2015

There have been hundreds, in fact thousands of years to teach our society how icky we are. Sigh.

 

WinkyDink

(51,311 posts)
184. I'm a dame, and I think it's nasty. Since when has "free bleeding" been something to support????
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 07:02 PM
Aug 2015
 

randome

(34,845 posts)
233. You don't have to necessarily 'support' something to see it as a natural part of biology.
Tue Aug 11, 2015, 12:09 PM
Aug 2015

Geeze, marathon runners don't pay much attention to such niceties when they're commanding their bodies to keep working. Who would have thought?

It's not women's fault they were made like this any more than it's men's fault we have such exposed genitalia. We all work with what we've been given.

Or, to put it another way, go with the flow.
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kcr

(15,320 posts)
235. Yeah. And while we're at it, why did women have to start wearing pants???
Tue Aug 11, 2015, 03:18 PM
Aug 2015

If you ask me, that was the beginning of the end

Yes, that was over the top. But number one, who is advocating for "free bleeding"? The point is menstrual blood is no different than any other blood. The only reason people thing this is disgusting is the notion that women are unclean. It's about time that idea were relegated to the past, the same past that didn't like women in pants. And it starts when we stop seeing something like this as sooooo outrageous!! She had a blood stain on her pants. Big deal.

 

olddots

(10,237 posts)
143. this is great !
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 04:07 PM
Aug 2015

do you know the year women were allowed to run in the Boston Marathon ? As a man I gotta admit men are fucking morons .

 

HassleCat

(6,409 posts)
154. True generally
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 04:39 PM
Aug 2015

She can bleed in public anytime, anywhere. I'm not sure it's a blow for feminism anything like that.

 

BlueJazz

(25,348 posts)
156. Wouldn't be any worse if a person cut their finger and was bleeding. I doubt if she..
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 04:40 PM
Aug 2015

...was dripping sulfuric acid on the ground...

 

Boudica the Lyoness

(2,899 posts)
165. In my book she's pathetic.
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 05:03 PM
Aug 2015

All women bleed when they are menstrating and this one wanted us to see it. How pathetic is that? She could have worn a longer top and black bottoms - but she needed the extra attention. You're not doing anything clever or unique when you're menstrating - unless you're a bloke.

In my opinion she's pretty fucking disgusting. What's next - having our favorite turds bronzed and wearing them as hats?

gwheezie

(3,580 posts)
176. I've competed in endurance sports
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 05:49 PM
Aug 2015

I competed for my best time. Blood, piss or shit would not have stopped me. I would never wear a pad and I've had tampons wind up in the most uncomfortable places. I never started a competition without a tampon but I have reached down and pulled them out on a moving horse during a competition There's nothing more uncomfortable than competing in a 50 mile race on horseback and having your tampon half out. Really nothing.

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
179. It's been years ago but I remember that uncomforable feeling...there was no help
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 06:12 PM
Aug 2015

for it until you could get where you could take it out and replace it. And obviously, you can't do that in a race of any sort.

It's funny but my daughter never reports that my granddaughters are in the least bit concerned about their periods. I credit the women's movement for that...and also, ahem, my good genes for passing along some healthy reproductive health to my female grandchildren...

 

WinkyDink

(51,311 posts)
183. As a female, i see zero reason to "applaud" this woman. Bodily fluids ought remain out of public
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 07:01 PM
Aug 2015

sight, whether spittle, urine, or menstrual blood.

#sorrynotsorry

Oh, and for any of you "You GO, girl!" males? FYI: It doesn't always look like or comprise "nice" blood.

Texasgal

(17,047 posts)
194. I would imagine that if she had
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 09:57 PM
Aug 2015

not said anything no one would have noticed.

To me this is a non issue.

alarimer

(16,245 posts)
231. Yes, it's gross.
Tue Aug 11, 2015, 11:08 AM
Aug 2015

I've always found it gross. Then again, everything about humans and their bodily effluvia is gross (to me). I acknowledge that I am a bit too easily disgusted by humans, though.

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closeupready

(29,503 posts)
241. I thought of that story, as well, in relation to this one. Lots of mentally ill people out there.
Tue Aug 11, 2015, 04:30 PM
Aug 2015

Who knows where we'll end up with this kind of thing - where did it start? Whatev.

ALBliberal

(2,344 posts)
201. What if she started AFTER the race began. I don't think she should be expected to
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 11:11 PM
Aug 2015

Stop for a tampon and the correct pair of tights. I am fine with her decision. It's nature.

Ed Suspicious

(8,879 posts)
202. Ok, I guess I just don't get it. As a man, as a person, if I were bleeding and had the opportunity
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 11:28 PM
Aug 2015

to keep it from running down my legs as I ran or whatever I were to be doing, I would take advantage of the tools to stop that from happening. I really do not see how this advances any cause. Educate me.

Also, holy shit, bloodborne pathogens are a real thing.

AndreaCG

(2,331 posts)
203. I'm not quite sure how a tampon causes chafing
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 11:30 PM
Aug 2015

And those menstrual cups seem like they might have been a good option, although supposedly they're a little tricky to learn how to insert. One of them would have lasted for the duration of the race. I suppose she may have felt the dripping of blood down her legs would be no more uncomfortable than the sweat that occurs while running. I don't think I would have done it but whatever. As long as her blood's not toxic with aids or hepatitis I guess it's ok.

dilby

(2,273 posts)
207. So how comfortable are they while running?
Tue Aug 11, 2015, 12:19 AM
Aug 2015

I don't think I would be doing very comfortable with some foreign object inserted in any orifice in my body and running 26 miles.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
237. She's Indian, 26 and attends Harvard.
Tue Aug 11, 2015, 03:32 PM
Aug 2015

I think it's safe to assume she may not know everything that you or I might take for granted. And anyways, even if she did know about a moon cup, she can choose to not wear one. No big deal, IMO.
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3catwoman3

(24,039 posts)
210. I have never wanted to run...
Tue Aug 11, 2015, 12:57 AM
Aug 2015

...a marathon, for a variety of reasons. Now I have one more. I am an intensely private person, especially about bodily functions, and have no wish to have anything publicly "leaking" from me under any circumstances.

A related question. Would this be acceptable if done by female swimmers or the women's Olympic gymnastics teams? How about ballet dancers?

IVoteDFL

(417 posts)
232. Some people need to get a grip
Tue Aug 11, 2015, 11:58 AM
Aug 2015

She didn't wear a tampon! End of the world. Oh noes.


I can't count how many times I've been wearing a tampon at work (I Unload trucks) and it comes loose and blood is "running down my legs". Not to mention all of those OOPS! before I learned how to tell when my period was coming and would get blood on my clothing, furniture, car seats etc. One time it happened on a friend's new sun chair, another time on one of my bf's suede lay-z boys. My car, my grandma's car, friend's cars. I really did bleed all over. This was over a couple of years before my twenties, not in one week. Sad that has to be pointed out here.


Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
238. Apology: I posted upthread about "leaving a trail of blood".
Tue Aug 11, 2015, 03:36 PM
Aug 2015

I have never really taken much of an interest in the details of menstruation, as several DUers pointed out. But I consider myself now better educated and have self-deleted the post in question. Sorry folks.

 

951-Riverside

(7,234 posts)
239. I will not applaud this disgusting degenerate behavior
Tue Aug 11, 2015, 03:41 PM
Aug 2015

If she wants to run on a treadmill in her own house bleeding then so be it but blood whether it's coming out of someone neck or feet is a bio hazard and if she used her hands to check herself during the race then touched other people, surfaces or objects like cups her blood poses a risk to the public.

This is not brave or "sticking it to the man", it's stupid because it poses a risk to the public that might come in contact with her blood, it's selfish because she has zero disregard for the public and it's disgusting, I don't care if its blood or feces, you just don't go around in a public place exposing others to your bodily fluids.

Blood Borne pathogens are very much real https://www.osha.gov/SLTC/bloodbornepathogens/

Gravitycollapse

(8,155 posts)
244. Jesus fucking Christ. She's not exposing others to her body fluids.
Tue Aug 11, 2015, 09:26 PM
Aug 2015

She's not spraying blood all over the place. She isn't letting blood drip onto surfaces that others touch. She's wearing clothing that absorbs the already small amount of blood that actually exits her body.

Even if some blood was to fall to the ground, can you even fathom how unlikely it would be that you would somehow come into contact with it in a fashion that would allow for absorption into your blood stream? It's so insignificant a risk that it isn't statistically a risk at all. You're vastly more likely to get sick from all of the coughed out particles floating around in the air. And I don't see you running around calling all the maskless people around you degenerates.


Your rhetoric is deeply reactionary and totally uninformed. Get a clue.

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