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Solly Mack

(90,767 posts)
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 11:23 PM Sep 2015

About the horrible letter sent to Bravenak.

I've read a lot of the comments and for me this is easy.

Bravenak was sent a threatening, hate-filled letter. A member of the DU family is under attack, and not just the usual BS found on the internet, but in real life.

That's all that matters. I don't care who the asshole who sent the letter supports or doesn't support. I don't care if they're a troll or an actual member.

I want the person exposed and banned from Democratic Underground. I want the authorities to look into the matter and prosecute the POS to the fullest extent of the law.

I want Bravenak and her family to be safe.

This is an easy one. A family member is under attack. Our family is under attack.







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About the horrible letter sent to Bravenak. (Original Post) Solly Mack Sep 2015 OP
This message was self-deleted by its author onehandle Sep 2015 #1
bs Skittles Sep 2015 #3
I honestly didn't get that from what was posted. Solly Mack Sep 2015 #5
100%. Very upsetting and very fucked up. And I just realized that she can still receive PMs Luminous Animal Sep 2015 #2
+1 n/t Admiral Loinpresser Sep 2015 #10
How can I PM her? n/t Admiral Loinpresser Sep 2015 #12
…. Luminous Animal Sep 2015 #15
Thx. Admiral Loinpresser Sep 2015 #18
that letter shocked roguevalley Sep 2015 #36
great post steve2470 Sep 2015 #4
There is more than one Blue_In_AK Sep 2015 #16
mind boggling that there's more than one steve2470 Sep 2015 #21
I spoke with her on the phone last night Aerows Sep 2015 #6
Last night I gave her some pointers on how to secure her nadinbrzezinski Sep 2015 #7
Good for both of you... SoapBox Sep 2015 #14
Aerows, if you speak with her again soon, please pass on my best wishes and support for her and her myrna minx Sep 2015 #58
Aerows, how did the sender get her home address? FourScore Sep 2015 #115
I don't know. Aerows Sep 2015 #118
Very disturbing. n/t FourScore Sep 2015 #125
I hope she has some big, intimidating dogs! passiveporcupine Sep 2015 #141
Don't jump to conclusions. HooptieWagon Sep 2015 #8
+1 nt Joe the Revelator Sep 2015 #19
IT does't matter who wrote the letters with regard to DU. Raine1967 Sep 2015 #20
Well, I would love to know who wrote the letter MrScorpio Sep 2015 #23
She did not jump to any conclusions- but thanks for your concern, about THAT. Says it all. bettyellen Sep 2015 #26
What matters is that a DUer is being harassed now in RL Aerows Sep 2015 #102
Exactly, and we don't need to have it pointed out that LEO will not investigate or take it seriously.... bettyellen Sep 2015 #103
This message was self-deleted by its author 840high Sep 2015 #30
They could tell us any time they wanted to, couldn't they? Starry Messenger Sep 2015 #40
It's irrelevant -other than the craven writer is a creep. What's relevant is someone in our DU family is under attack. THAT's what matters. myrna minx Sep 2015 #57
I totally support the OP, but I do want to know who wrote the letter. Disgusting. They GoneFishin Sep 2015 #59
You think bravenak wrote it Renew Deal Sep 2015 #75
I don't know who wrote it. HooptieWagon Sep 2015 #76
Bollocks. Hooptie never said or implied that. A caver or troll easily could have sent it. snagglepuss Sep 2015 #77
You think bravenak wrote it AlbertCat Sep 2015 #85
Deleted. HooptieWagon Sep 2015 #92
WOW. Way to minimize stalking. Way to go! bettyellen Sep 2015 #104
Way to minimize stalking. AlbertCat Sep 2015 #120
by mailing it to their home? Absolutely. As do most DUers who unlike you, are disgusted by it. bettyellen Sep 2015 #121
unlike you, are disgusted by it. AlbertCat Sep 2015 #122
Look at whoever benefits the most from it. Right wingers are at the top of the list. Bernie GoneFishin Sep 2015 #83
Motive can be a clue, though not with certainty. HooptieWagon Sep 2015 #91
There's some food for thought there for sure. GoneFishin Sep 2015 #100
This message was self-deleted by its author Luminous Animal Sep 2015 #9
Great post Gothmog Sep 2015 #11
K&R... spanone Sep 2015 #13
Thank you Solly. Raine1967 Sep 2015 #17
Word. nt geek tragedy Sep 2015 #22
This. (nt) a2liberal Sep 2015 #24
Yup. Agschmid Sep 2015 #25
I nwill help her as much as I can. Half-Century Man Sep 2015 #27
Bravenak told me on Twitter she recieved a second yuiyoshida Sep 2015 #28
She got another one ?!! Aerows Sep 2015 #119
yes,two letters in the mail so far yuiyoshida Sep 2015 #135
I think it was a Freeper troll whose only goal is to disrupt DU. totodeinhere Sep 2015 #29
I dunno about that. The letter was well written and spelled correctly, even if laden with underahedgerow Sep 2015 #41
How do you know it's a he? n/t totodeinhere Sep 2015 #45
It's the odds. Statistically females aren't as aggressive as males or inclined to make threats underahedgerow Sep 2015 #51
That's nothing but mere speculation. N/t totodeinhere Sep 2015 #66
Well observed! underahedgerow Sep 2015 #68
The signature gaspee Sep 2015 #124
Yes, because the culprit would certainly be honest enough to RiffRandell Sep 2015 #130
The person sent it anonymously. Why would he deceive about his gender? n/t pnwmom Sep 2015 #140
Anything to throw off a scent? RiffRandell Sep 2015 #150
Most stalkers and online harassers are male. Odds are high he is who he says he is. nt pnwmom Sep 2015 #139
I don't think the odds are high enough to call the person "he" without knowing for sure. totodeinhere Sep 2015 #146
Worse than a Freeper. Tommy_Carcetti Sep 2015 #64
I meant that it was probably some right wing racist, whether from the site I mentioned totodeinhere Sep 2015 #93
Nope, you are not nadinbrzezinski Sep 2015 #142
without giving it away passiveporcupine Sep 2015 #143
Hmmm... Tommy_Carcetti Sep 2015 #152
Thanks, maybe I don't want to know anyway. passiveporcupine Sep 2015 #153
There are only about 20 regulars over there. Tommy_Carcetti Sep 2015 #154
exactly DonCoquixote Sep 2015 #89
I agree passiveporcupine Sep 2015 #144
I hope she stays safe. ohheckyeah Sep 2015 #31
This is totally unacceptable. jalan48 Sep 2015 #32
She can report it to law enforcment, and the post office... but not much more. Bubzer Sep 2015 #39
I think we do a diservice to DUers by being quick to say nadine_mn Sep 2015 #33
A truly threatening letter as this is said to be should have been reported to the authorities vkkv Sep 2015 #34
It was postmarked Tampa, Florida. Blue_In_AK Sep 2015 #37
That is news to me and I'd guess others here as well vkkv Sep 2015 #44
Pardon me, I was not meaning to be "snotty" Blue_In_AK Sep 2015 #48
There have been 5 or more posts on this. sheshe2 Sep 2015 #50
Well, there are NOW, but NOT before I made my comment late last night! vkkv Sep 2015 #101
W.A.S. vkkv Sep 2015 #132
thunfortunately there are remailing services that enable anonymous mail from unknown locations magical thyme Sep 2015 #61
Interesting. I didn't know that. Blue_In_AK Sep 2015 #88
This didn't come from someone who knew her exact address B2G Sep 2015 #94
Almost like they've done it before, Blue_In_AK Sep 2015 #95
wow...I noticed the 2 different zips and wondered why magical thyme Sep 2015 #99
Yes, and I told her she might expect a third one nadinbrzezinski Sep 2015 #123
Absolutely. Tsiyu Sep 2015 #35
I completely agree, my dear Solly Mack. CaliforniaPeggy Sep 2015 #38
I still don't get the hype hfojvt Sep 2015 #42
The threat is implied, not directly stated Scootaloo Sep 2015 #46
Definitely an implied threat. Ms. Toad Sep 2015 #73
Thank you. You raise some very good points. totodeinhere Sep 2015 #131
well somebody else said hfojvt Sep 2015 #78
"you are going to get alerted and suspended again"" definitely creepy, but a Federal crime? vkkv Sep 2015 #47
Yes, federal crime leftofcool Sep 2015 #62
Not to offend, but what exactly would they investigate, and for what? The only threats made underahedgerow Sep 2015 #70
I doubt the sender is a current DUer. HooptieWagon Sep 2015 #80
I've gotten "threatening" letters from the HOA saying they'll fine me if I leave my garbage cans out Warren DeMontague Sep 2015 #112
Whether they US Attorney decides to file charges or not nadinbrzezinski Sep 2015 #126
Nope, that is NOT what they do! Nice try! You have no clue.. See here:: vkkv Sep 2015 #134
For someone who was wailing about being treated unkindly on DU just upthread passiveporcupine Sep 2015 #145
Leftofcool attempted to show my comment as incorrect vkkv Sep 2015 #148
woosh passiveporcupine Sep 2015 #149
Yes... so PASSIVE. vkkv Sep 2015 #151
The hype is somewhat "out there" Android3.14 Sep 2015 #72
If the person who sent the letter is not a DU member I don't know what totodeinhere Sep 2015 #137
you know, you never know how might be crazy DonCoquixote Sep 2015 #90
but that is always true hfojvt Sep 2015 #105
the folks in Charleston DonCoquixote Sep 2015 #114
This is more than an "implied" threat. bvar22 Sep 2015 #98
well the trouble is hfojvt Sep 2015 #106
I'm sure Bravenak feels that she has been stalked, and her home has been invaded. bvar22 Sep 2015 #108
Whoever created the letter does not want to gain serious interest of the police, greyl Sep 2015 #136
Maybe YOU wouldn't worry about it, bvar22 Sep 2015 #138
That letter was disgusting. gordianot Sep 2015 #43
Breavenak is a friend. raven mad Sep 2015 #49
Kicked and recommended. Uncle Joe Sep 2015 #52
I'd like them to get a dose of the real world.... Spitfire of ATJ Sep 2015 #53
K&R octoberlib Sep 2015 #54
Agree -- doesn't matter who the letter-writer supports politically, DU member or not. nt betsuni Sep 2015 #55
I just learned about what happened to her. I'm just speechless. myrna minx Sep 2015 #56
+1 million geardaddy Sep 2015 #74
The letters and sender are despicable and repulsive aikoaiko Sep 2015 #60
I suggest to err on the side of caution & take it seriously because it crosses the line to send, Sunlei Sep 2015 #63
All I needed to know about that letter is that it was anonymous. Really brave - anonymous threats. marble falls Sep 2015 #65
Exactly !!! WillyT Sep 2015 #67
Mic drop. blackspade Sep 2015 #69
Now that is a sentiment that makes sense Android3.14 Sep 2015 #71
K&R suffragette Sep 2015 #79
Absolutely right, Solly, sadoldgirl Sep 2015 #81
You don't need her e-mail address passiveporcupine Sep 2015 #147
K&R. jwirr Sep 2015 #82
Had many run-ins and disagreements with her romanic Sep 2015 #84
pseudonymous hatemongering is a feature, not a bug carolinayellowdog Sep 2015 #86
Thank you for saying this DonCoquixote Sep 2015 #87
+1,000 malaise Sep 2015 #96
k & r. Thanks for posting. nm rhett o rick Sep 2015 #97
THIS. IS. AN. OBSCENITY. Raster Sep 2015 #107
Is there a quick summary of the Bravenak story? Helen Borg Sep 2015 #109
not quick but as quick as it gets, here ya go steve2470 Sep 2015 #113
This message was self-deleted by its author ohheckyeah Sep 2015 #110
Hear, hear. K&R. nt awoke_in_2003 Sep 2015 #111
I stand with Bravenak stonecutter357 Sep 2015 #116
Whoever is doing this... deathrind Sep 2015 #117
Damn straight! cer7711 Sep 2015 #127
Agree 100%. This is an easy and disturbing one. morningfog Sep 2015 #128
Absolutely. eom LiberalElite Sep 2015 #129
Thank you all for your kinds words and added good thoughts to Bravenak. Solly Mack Sep 2015 #133
Beware Internet addiction, or "I'm more concerned about Manti Te'o's girlfriend" uhnope Sep 2015 #155
Maybe you haven't had a deep connection with anyone here, PeaceNikki Sep 2015 #156
KMA. :) Solly Mack Sep 2015 #157
Known Medical Allergies? PeaceNikki Sep 2015 #158
Yes. I'm allergic to bullshit. Solly Mack Sep 2015 #159
Touche PeaceNikki Sep 2015 #161
There are worse things than IAD, for example TNAD... hunter Sep 2015 #160
Kick for sunshine FlatBaroque Mar 2016 #162

Response to Solly Mack (Original post)

Solly Mack

(90,767 posts)
5. I honestly didn't get that from what was posted.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 11:38 PM
Sep 2015

For the usual BS, ignore can work wonderfully.

This isn't the usual BS, and EarlG wasn't addressing what happened to Bravenak.

steve2470

(37,457 posts)
4. great post
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 11:38 PM
Sep 2015

I want Bravenak and her family to stay safe, too. I think the culprit is one of those DU-obsessed fools on the site that shall not be named. If that person is here, then absolutely, they need to be IP address-banned from DU forever.

Blue_In_AK

(46,436 posts)
16. There is more than one
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 12:02 AM
Sep 2015
site that shall not be named, and I find it much more likely that the threats are coming from one of them rather than DU, even if she does have her detractors here. As she told me last night, if people here are pissed at her, they just send her an angry PM.

steve2470

(37,457 posts)
21. mind boggling that there's more than one
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 12:08 AM
Sep 2015

We're just so uber-awesome, we have these admirers. I hope the culprit is caught and faces justice.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
6. I spoke with her on the phone last night
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 11:46 PM
Sep 2015

to make sure she had some security precautions against a sick individual that would such a thing.

I'm pretty sure her family and herself know how to secure their homes.

I hope they stay safe, and whoever sent that with a Bernie logo at the bottom should realize that it does nothing to support his campaign.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
7. Last night I gave her some pointers on how to secure her
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 11:49 PM
Sep 2015

online persona... and gave her really basic personal security tips too.

myrna minx

(22,772 posts)
58. Aerows, if you speak with her again soon, please pass on my best wishes and support for her and her
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 06:53 AM
Sep 2015

family. Thank you for reaching out. I feel so sick about this. Just sick.

If there's anything I can do to help...

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
118. I don't know.
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 08:28 PM
Sep 2015

She is making sure her neighbors, her husband and her dogs are on the look out.

I suspect it's one of the rightwing idiot sites trying to upset our members.

passiveporcupine

(8,175 posts)
141. I hope she has some big, intimidating dogs!
Sat Sep 12, 2015, 08:25 PM
Sep 2015

I live alone and would not be without one (I have two, but one is not very intimidating).

Bravenak, I hope you are back soon, and that this culprit is disclosed and banned from any site you participate in.

Be safe and be well, and hurry back.

MrScorpio

(73,631 posts)
23. Well, I would love to know who wrote the letter
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 12:18 AM
Sep 2015

But, too bad that they're too much of a coward to ever reveal themselves. 

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
102. What matters is that a DUer is being harassed now in RL
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 03:15 PM
Sep 2015

and that absolutely should not be tolerated. It's probably that bunch or freepers or somebody like that who has nothing better to do than screw with Democrats.

Idiots.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
103. Exactly, and we don't need to have it pointed out that LEO will not investigate or take it seriously....
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 03:22 PM
Sep 2015

Stalky behavior like this should not be minimized or joked about here.
It is really fucked up that people feel the need to do those things here. What one freak does isn't a reflection on good people here or any candidate. Sheesh.

Response to HooptieWagon (Reply #8)

Starry Messenger

(32,342 posts)
40. They could tell us any time they wanted to, couldn't they?
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 01:24 AM
Sep 2015

Or wait, people who send anonymous creepy letters to people are probably cowards who wouldn't do that.

myrna minx

(22,772 posts)
57. It's irrelevant -other than the craven writer is a creep. What's relevant is someone in our DU family is under attack. THAT's what matters.
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 06:43 AM
Sep 2015

We need to support her.

If you're hit by a car, it doesn't matter the make and model, it's that you were hit by a car.

We stand united with her and her family.

GoneFishin

(5,217 posts)
59. I totally support the OP, but I do want to know who wrote the letter. Disgusting. They
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 06:59 AM
Sep 2015

knew the letter would be distributed on the internet, so all of it's content and the inferences that will be drawn from it are deliberate and calculated.

I am guessing that it is a from a Republican troll.

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
85. You think bravenak wrote it
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 01:04 PM
Sep 2015

I think it's a real possibility.


And even if it were "real".... threatening to have posts hidden is not too serious.

Knowing where she lives is not too serious ether since she is all over the internet apparently.

But it does make for some nice drama and sounds all persecute-y.... very popular these days.

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
120. Way to minimize stalking.
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 08:42 PM
Sep 2015

Writing an obnoxious letter about a message board from FL to someone in AK is stalking?

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
122. unlike you, are disgusted by it.
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 08:57 PM
Sep 2015

What about "obnoxious letter" makes you think I'm OK with it?

I don't know that I'm up to "disgusted".... because the facts are few and far between and I think there's a real possibility it's a PR stunt....

But it sure is stupid, obnoxious and sophomoric.

GoneFishin

(5,217 posts)
83. Look at whoever benefits the most from it. Right wingers are at the top of the list. Bernie
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 12:31 PM
Sep 2015

supporters have the most to lose.

 

HooptieWagon

(17,064 posts)
91. Motive can be a clue, though not with certainty.
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 01:35 PM
Sep 2015

Letter 1 has a wingnuttish air about it, as does the name "Mr. Citizen". I rather doubt a DUer or Bernie supporter would call themself out by stating such. Most likely that was to discredit DU or Bernie supporters.
The second letter is a puzzle. I have not seen it posted. The two envelopes in the posted picture have the same postmark date. It's very likely they were mailed together, I wonder why? They were 99% probability in the same mail bag on plane to west coast for forwarding to Ak. It would be unexpected to be delivered on separate days, imo, and if there was a snafu that caused them to be delivered different days, how could the sender know which would be delivered first, or opened first if delivered together? That seems odd.

Response to Solly Mack (Original post)

Raine1967

(11,589 posts)
17. Thank you Solly.
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 12:03 AM
Sep 2015

I have been trying to say basically the very same thing.

Bravenak is a member of our family — and at a certain point, that is what matters most. I don't want to read that this could not be a DU member or any other excuse/justification —

SHE IS FAMILY.




totodeinhere

(13,058 posts)
29. I think it was a Freeper troll whose only goal is to disrupt DU.
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 12:38 AM
Sep 2015

If it's not a DU member then obviously it won't be possible to ban them. But I do hope that we get to hear if the complaints to the USPS and the police bear any fruit.

underahedgerow

(1,232 posts)
41. I dunno about that. The letter was well written and spelled correctly, even if laden with
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 01:35 AM
Sep 2015

expletives. That's flat-out impossible for a freeper. He keeps referring to 'we' and 'us' and no physical threats of any sort were made, thank goodness, just general passive aggression and vague threats of 'alerts' and 'hides'.

The little letter writer is a genuinely nasty weak little person, but basically a total wuss who's entire persona is based on the couch he lays on while posting on the internet. He'll expose himself for who he is, soon enough. He's gloating on his little bit of attention right now, but it won't last long.

You can bet he's got a profile at both discussionist and on DU, look for similar writing patterns and vernacular.

underahedgerow

(1,232 posts)
51. It's the odds. Statistically females aren't as aggressive as males or inclined to make threats
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 03:58 AM
Sep 2015

unless it involves, sorry, affairs of the heart, so to speak, unless of course they're totally deranged.

Most of the members here are male, so the odds are more likely it's a male aggressor. Look for someone on the Bernie boards who is just a wee bit OTT in their love of all things Bernie.

RiffRandell

(5,909 posts)
130. Yes, because the culprit would certainly be honest enough to
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 10:03 PM
Sep 2015

reveal their gender after sending such a hateful letter!

RiffRandell

(5,909 posts)
150. Anything to throw off a scent?
Sun Sep 13, 2015, 11:56 PM
Sep 2015

I would like to think most here are at least as smart as Encyclopedia Brown.

Tommy_Carcetti

(43,182 posts)
64. Worse than a Freeper.
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 09:06 AM
Sep 2015

Most likely a member of RightWingNeanderthalDwellingPlace.com.

That's not the real name of the website. I don't want to give them any free publicity. But you can extrapolate from there.

They are psychopaths. Literally, psychopaths. As in mocking someone who is sick or has died psychopaths. And I only wish I was making that up.

totodeinhere

(13,058 posts)
93. I meant that it was probably some right wing racist, whether from the site I mentioned
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 01:49 PM
Sep 2015

or some other. The Internet is infested with several of them.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
142. Nope, you are not
Sat Sep 12, 2015, 08:29 PM
Sep 2015

they take grave dancing to a new level... but I suspect it is actually from even further afield, still in RW land.

Tommy_Carcetti

(43,182 posts)
152. Hmmm...
Tue Sep 15, 2015, 10:52 AM
Sep 2015

1. People on the right describe themselves as _______ in terms of their political ideology (but not in terms of party label.)

2. Neanderthals and other paleolthic members of the Homo genus were said to live in ____ where they would draw on the walls.

Put those two together and there you have it. I refuse to mention it by name and give them free press. Extremely disgusting members of the human race over there.

passiveporcupine

(8,175 posts)
153. Thanks, maybe I don't want to know anyway.
Tue Sep 15, 2015, 01:22 PM
Sep 2015


I'm guessing their initials are CC, and I am curious, but maybe not that curious. I've never heard of them, if I have that name right.

Tommy_Carcetti

(43,182 posts)
154. There are only about 20 regulars over there.
Tue Sep 15, 2015, 03:31 PM
Sep 2015

Because frankly, most people have more to do in their lives than obsess over the daily postings of another internet message board on their own board. So it takes a true special breed of loser to create a message board pretty much dedicated solely for that purpose.

And these are indeed losers. And possibly psychopaths based on their sickening reactions to other people's illness and death. Does anyone at DU actually care what X poster on Free Republic posted about on a specific topic on specific day, or what illness or misfortune he or she might be suffering? Of course not. We have more important things to discuss.

But there are billions of people on the internet on a daily basis, so it's inevitable that there will be slimy corners of the internet where the sick filth gather, small in number but incessant in their dark obsessions. See child pornography, animal abuse and racial supremacists.

It's probably not worth a visit or giving them the satisfaction of a page view. I've gone over there a couple of times just to see if there's been any mention of me, and there have been a few, but they have mainly focused on a few selected DUers on a regular basis.

DonCoquixote

(13,616 posts)
89. exactly
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 01:24 PM
Sep 2015

It does not matter if it was Rush Limbaugh, Bernard Sanders or some 18yrd old their momma';s basement. It was a threat delivered over the mail , a CRIME, and possibly a FEDERAL CRIME. We want whoever did this to have the law come down on them. In the meantime, this is the time to circle wagons.

passiveporcupine

(8,175 posts)
144. I agree
Sat Sep 12, 2015, 08:46 PM
Sep 2015

Last edited Sun Sep 13, 2015, 05:43 PM - Edit history (1)

And while some may suspect it is a PR stunt, they have nothing to go on and at this point, it's kinda like accusing someone of murdering their wife...yes, it's possible they did it, but what if they didn't...now they have the crush of dealing with a loved-one's death and an accusation of being the perp at the same time, even if there is no evidence to support it.

Save that crap for the police.

jalan48

(13,867 posts)
32. This is totally unacceptable.
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 12:47 AM
Sep 2015

Does anyone know if the Feds can get involved in this? Is there an agency she can report it to?

Bubzer

(4,211 posts)
39. She can report it to law enforcment, and the post office... but not much more.
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 01:09 AM
Sep 2015

The feds generally wont deal with harassment issues unfortunately.

nadine_mn

(3,702 posts)
33. I think we do a diservice to DUers by being quick to say
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 12:48 AM
Sep 2015

Oh it must be some troll or someone from another site.

No one wants to think some cowardly asshole sending shitty letters is from OUR community..it must be one of "them".

I agree with the OP... the person who sent it should be banned and exposed.

But by saying to ourselves that this asshole is not a "real" DUer, is to ignore what too many on this forum have been trying to say for a long time: that there are some nasty people on DU who stalk, harass, threaten and bully others...and yes some of these people are trolls, but sadly some are real DUers. DUers we may have had great conversations with or even liked, who may have had something valuable to contribute to the discussion but for some reason, someone or some issue triggered their inner asshole and they do stupid nasty shit.

The more we call out this behavior openly, the safer we will all be. But we can't hide from it.

And we can't fight over the who's and the why's. It has been happening.
And in Bravenak's case it has escalated and crossed over from Internet world to the real world. We need to support her 100% and be ready to face the ugly in our own community.


 

vkkv

(3,384 posts)
34. A truly threatening letter as this is said to be should have been reported to the authorities
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 12:58 AM
Sep 2015
immediately & I certainly hope that was done when it was received.

Did Bravenak have any other questionable contact with a neighbor or someone else in their town, or perhaps a "letter to the editor" of their locally printed media that would have caused this response from a 'crazy' person?

It just strikes me odd that someone from D.U. would carry out such a threat. How and why is Bravenak so sure that the letter came from a D.U. member?

A neighbor dispute seems FAR more likley as it neighbor disputes happen everyday. Just a thought...

Yes, bring the police on board if this is such a serious matter.

Please let us know the outcome.
 

vkkv

(3,384 posts)
44. That is news to me and I'd guess others here as well
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 02:06 AM
Sep 2015

Yes, I do know some geography, no need to be snotty about it. Isn't part of the issue about people here on D.U. being CIVIL to each other?
Nowhere in the original post "About the horrible letter sent to Bravenak." is any info about that at all.

37. """ It was postmarked Tampa, Florida. Brave lives here in Anchorage, Alaska. Hardly a neighbor. ""

Blue_In_AK

(46,436 posts)
48. Pardon me, I was not meaning to be "snotty"
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 02:39 AM
Sep 2015

and sorry if you interpreted my comment that way. I assumed - incorrectly, I guess - that you were aware of where the letters were coming from and where bravenAK lives. My intention was to point out that it is unlikely that this is a neighbor dispute, given the distance involved between where the letter was postmarked and where Brave lives.

My apologies.

 

vkkv

(3,384 posts)
101. Well, there are NOW, but NOT before I made my comment late last night!
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 03:10 PM
Sep 2015

WTF?

LOOK AT THE DATES AND TIMES

Copy me any of the details that I questioned that were posted on the matter on this very page BEFORE my comment on Thursday, Sept. 10 at 11:06 PST.

See, now there is a problem where there wasn't one before. Good job!

Sorry for being snotty, but I think you've harrassed me before.

JFC!

 

vkkv

(3,384 posts)
132. W.A.S.
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 11:40 PM
Sep 2015

WEAK ASS S**T!

Thank you for making D.U. such a pleasant place!

FACT:: African-Americans are approx 13% of our population, yet..

http://www.prisonpolicy.org/graphs/raceinc.html

 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
61. thunfortunately there are remailing services that enable anonymous mail from unknown locations
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 08:09 AM
Sep 2015

so even though it's postmarked Florida, it actually could have come from anywhere and some also include "delayed" remail so it could have been sent a while ago.

Here are a few I found:

http://rapidremailer.com/
http://texasremail.com/
http://chicagoremailingservice.com/
http://www.remailing.us/about.html

Blue_In_AK

(46,436 posts)
88. Interesting. I didn't know that.
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 01:20 PM
Sep 2015

I still doubt that it was anyone local, though. There just aren't that many DUers in Alaska (assuming the perp is a DUer) and we don't seem to have the racial issues that some places do, especially toward AAs. (Disclaimer - I'm white, so can't verify from personal experience.). Whenever racism comes up here, it's usually directed towards immigrants, young Asian or Samoan gangs, for instance, who get in trouble, or Native street people who have alcohol issues. Over the past few years Anchorage has become much more diverse - in fact, some of our schools are the most diverse in the country - with everybody all mixed up together throughout the city, no pockets predominantly one race or another, so most of us seem to get along pretty well across racial lines and don't even think about it. Even Brave herself has told me that there's a lot less racism here than other places she's lived.

But I do definitely hope that someone gets to the bottom of who did this to Brave. It's really unacceptable.

 

B2G

(9,766 posts)
94. This didn't come from someone who knew her exact address
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 02:12 PM
Sep 2015

There are 2 addresses listed for her in whitepages. Whoever sent it addressed it to one address and put the other one in the return address, so it would end up with her one way or another.

Clever, but sick.

Blue_In_AK

(46,436 posts)
95. Almost like they've done it before,
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 02:21 PM
Sep 2015

or maybe there's a handbook out there.

Hopefully, this will be the end of it, now that they've accomplished their purpose of harassing Brave and sowing discord on the forum. Mission accomplished!

 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
99. wow...I noticed the 2 different zips and wondered why
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 02:56 PM
Sep 2015

too clever by a half, and very disturbed person.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
35. Absolutely.
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 01:03 AM
Sep 2015

Only cowards send letters like that, so it's a nasty, lowlife troll, whether from here or "abroad" as it were.

You have our support bravenak. No one should be harassed or stalked by anyone on this site.

Whoever you are, asshole, may karma bite you in your filthy booty.

(I love Bernie, BTW, but I hate this sort of BS.)

If this person were as much a threat as they claim, why are they too chicken shit to admit who they are? That is a real yellow-bellied coward right there, too afwaid to claim their own BS.

Peace and Strength to you, Bravenak.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,625 posts)
38. I completely agree, my dear Solly Mack.
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 01:08 AM
Sep 2015
This is an easy one. A family member is under attack. Our family is under attack.

May Bravenak and her family be safe from any further attacks from anyone.

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
42. I still don't get the hype
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 01:39 AM
Sep 2015

The only threat in the letter was "you are going to get alerted and suspended again"

Another threat between the lines maybe - we know your name and we know where you live, but really that is a threat known to anybody who ever wrote a letter to the editor, and I have written a number of them.

I found it funny, every time I wrote a letter to the Des Moines Register, I would get an anonymous letter from Sioux City with a couple of Bible tracts in it. When I wrote to the KC Star a couple of times I got letters with cut and paste headlines telling me how great George W. Bush was, and what an idiot I was for not liking him. Anonymous again.

Those are not serious threats like a rock through the window would be. Fortunately it seems that almost all newspaper readers believe in free speech.

As for "hate filled". Well, there are some f-bombs and the l-word, but I kinda think I have seen worse, posted to me on DU.

My funniest anecdote was when I was a newbie with maybe 25 posts, the DUer Wonk called me a 'good little Nazi'.

Because I had used the word 'weltanschauung'.

I replied to him "keiner ist ohne fehler" ( meaning - nobody's perfect, or literally - nobody is without mistakes).

I will not link to the latest dogpile where people were posting that they PMed the admin demanding my head on a silver platter (or is that a bad metaphor for a frozen pizza delivery?)

I actually feel bad about pissing people off, and I know when I am doing it. I have a number of unpopular opinions/points of view.

When the tribe is convinced "X is true", I will often argue that "X is false". Too many times the "counter argument" is "I hate you. Why are you even on this site?"

That's politics on the internet, I guess, and that's on a MODERATED site.

But I always liked Bravenak, perhaps because I always liked Boondocks.

 

Scootaloo

(25,699 posts)
46. The threat is implied, not directly stated
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 02:19 AM
Sep 2015

Some random Florida Guy apparently managed to scoop enough info from Bravenak's posts - and who knows what else - to send the letter straight to her. Who knows what else could be sent. Or what other info might has been obtained.

Just the notion that some asshole a literal continent away took the time to dig up her mailing address and used to t o send some piece of shit letter like that is disturbing all on its own. But the rest of what is implied by it is plenty unsettlign as well.

Ms. Toad

(34,073 posts)
73. Definitely an implied threat.
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 11:01 AM
Sep 2015

No less scary than an express threat, but harder to take legal action over.

That said, it (still) only takes one search to find her real name, and only a couple more to find her address. This creep isn't a genius. He took advantage of deliberate or inadvertent disclosures she made.

I'm not blaming her - it would take a bit more to find me, but I have no illusions that it would take any experienced sleuth more than 30 minutes to find me.

This comment is more to make people aware that they reveal a lot even by fairly innocuous things like using the same handle on two different sites, linking to a privately hosted photo, copying text from a site on which your real name (or other handle) is used.

Being transparent, or not, is a choice. Being transparent doesn't give creeps (or worse) a license to stalk or threaten you. But you need to know what you are revealing so that you can make the choice rather than doing it inadvertently.

I would recommend everyone go to a computer they have not worked on before (so your past isn't cached), and see what you can find out by yourself using your pseudonyms, texts, and images you have posted online. If you believe you have kept your handles completely separate - do a search with two of them together and see if you ever used one when referencing the other. I consider myself very deliberate in my choices - but had completely forgotten when I used one (now dead) pseudonym from another site on DU. Using that I was able to retrieve pretty detailed medical conversations I had in 1998 on another site that no longer existed on the original site, but existed on a foreign archive of that site.

Those don't link to my real name, but I have made two posts here that will get you my real name very easily. One I deleted after it had been up a month or so. The other is still up. I knew, in making those posts, that it made it trivially easy to find me - and consciously chose to make them. Which is the point of this point: Know what risks you are taking and consciously choose to take them, or not.

totodeinhere

(13,058 posts)
131. Thank you. You raise some very good points.
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 11:06 PM
Sep 2015

If you link to your own domain be sure that you have enabled domain privacy. It's usually only a few dollars more. Otherwise anyone knowing your domain name can get your name, address and phone number.

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
78. well somebody else said
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 11:44 AM
Sep 2015

that she blogs under her own name

So her name, if she has ever linked to her own blog, is no harder to find than William Pitt's.

Of course, I, myself, did not know about her blog, but that does not mean it is not fairly common knowledge, or all that hard to find. Neither is an address all that hard to find in the internet age. I just googled myself, name and city, and what do you know, for some reason the Chamber of Commerce has my name, address and phone number on their website. Plus there are apparently some articles about me that I never read - about my attempts to get elected in 2012.

I am also hearing now about "a continent away" and something about Alaska. Which makes it even less of a real threat if the letter comes from a long way away. Hate mail from Sioux City when you live in Mason City is not as much of a threat as hate mail from Mason City or Forest City.

 

vkkv

(3,384 posts)
47. "you are going to get alerted and suspended again"" definitely creepy, but a Federal crime?
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 02:19 AM
Sep 2015

This is all news to me. I don't see the police wanting to take this on.
Please let logic and common sense prevail here, emotions can really stir the better side of us.

NOW I see why it is a likely D.U. sender. I doubt the crazy person will make the flight to Anchorage from Florida.

Best thing would be to blow it off, who hasn't got flipped off at least once while just driving a car.

leftofcool

(19,460 posts)
62. Yes, federal crime
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 08:14 AM
Sep 2015

Have you ever heard of postal inspectors? This is what they do, ya know, investigate.

underahedgerow

(1,232 posts)
70. Not to offend, but what exactly would they investigate, and for what? The only threats made
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 10:37 AM
Sep 2015

were about alerting on a website.

I can find pretty much anyone's address in the world and send them something in the mail. So long as it's not a toxic substance, something that can cause harm or a direct threat of violence or some other type of harm or crime, it's not a crime.

I think that law enforcement can find better ways to spend their time. Could do to dust the letter itself for fingerprints if someone takes an interest at the police station, but given that the person is most likely a DUer, there's not much chance of them being in the database. And I'm not sure that the police are obligated to disclose the name of the person if they turned up in the data base. And the fact remains that the letter in and of itself is not a criminal act. Creepy, but not criminal.

If it escalates, that's different but I'm sure the DUer who wrote that sad little thing is reading every word here with excitement and a little bit of tingling in their happy parts. They're not even interesting, just creepy and sad.


Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
112. I've gotten "threatening" letters from the HOA saying they'll fine me if I leave my garbage cans out
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 05:53 PM
Sep 2015

Similar to hfojvt's experience upthread, I've had the experience of writing letters to the newspaper editor and 3 weeks later finding some nasty screed telling me to come to jesus, burn in hell, fuck off, whatever, in my mailbox.

I'd get phone calls occasionally, too.

While I understand Bravenak being upset by this, and condemn whoever did it in the strongest terms possible -- (the takeaway I get here is, this is what happens when people take DU too seriously, which happens all too much) --I suspect a Federal Prosecutor would have a little trouble actually making "if you come back to DU your posts will be alerted on" stand up as a threat of violence in a court of law. Certainly I can understand why she would be really bothered, simply because someone knows where she lives, but that is not the same thing as an actual written threat, so I suspect real legal action is less likely.

Whoever did this has way too much fucking time on their hands, and I'm sure some here can (and will) spend all sorts of time trying to figure out which group is responsible and what it means for DU and what immediate action must be taken by the administrators, usually something that amounts to "everyone who doesn't agree with me is part of the problem and needs to be banned, stat!"

My solution is to suggest that any people inclined to do so, not take a fucking message board so damn seriously.

Personally, I come to DU for political discussion, and not DU-discussing-DU-in-lieu-of-Political Discussion, so that's the extent to which I want to get into what I envision will be the inevitable navel gazeriffic back and forth about "See what you've done, Bernie people" "no we didn't" "yes you did" "you're the problem" "no you're the problem".

If I wanted to hear that type of thing I would take my kids on a long road trip. "He hit me first!" "he took my kindle!"

And to bravenak, nothing but and you have a community of people who condemn this thing.



 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
126. Whether they US Attorney decides to file charges or not
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 09:27 PM
Sep 2015

will depend on a slew of things, including the number of letters, a threat assessment and the rest. If the person who sent them has a history of doing this it raises the possibility by the way.

The most likely scenario is that a file will be opened, and that is the end of it as far as law enforcement is concerned. Filing is critical for that to be opened, in the off chance that this escalates.

If charges are actually filed this is a felony... which you can bet will be pled down to a misdemeanor.

We watch courts too often, but a lot really depend on what the PI finds out. But by procedure they have to do do it.

 

vkkv

(3,384 posts)
134. Nope, that is NOT what they do! Nice try! You have no clue.. See here::
Sat Sep 12, 2015, 01:35 AM
Sep 2015


The United States Postal Inspection Service (or USPIS) is the law enforcement arm of the United States Postal Service. Its jurisdiction is defined as "crimes that may adversely affect or fraudulently use the U.S. Mail, the postal system or postal employees."

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_States_Postal_Inspection_Service

Give us ALL a FUCKING breakl

passiveporcupine

(8,175 posts)
145. For someone who was wailing about being treated unkindly on DU just upthread
Sat Sep 12, 2015, 09:06 PM
Sep 2015

You sure have learned quickly.

 

vkkv

(3,384 posts)
148. Leftofcool attempted to show my comment as incorrect
Sun Sep 13, 2015, 12:31 PM
Sep 2015

LeftofCool should LOOK UP things before she/he uses them as an OPPOSING argument.

Result: There is a problem now where there wasn't one before - good job!

Dumb, dumber, dumbest.

 

vkkv

(3,384 posts)
151. Yes... so PASSIVE.
Mon Sep 14, 2015, 11:25 AM
Sep 2015

Bernie will get my vote, but you kinda suck.

Do you always inject yourself into other peoples business?

Is being some kind of internet cop with motives based on your personal perspective and moral evaluation the best that you can do, really?

You are really wasting both of our time.

Welcome to my blacklist.

 

Android3.14

(5,402 posts)
72. The hype is somewhat "out there"
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 10:55 AM
Sep 2015

But unsurprising.

It is the nature of DU-ers to rally, and the implication that someone somehow hacked the mailing address is reason for concern.

I doubt law enforcement will do much, but if our Admin(s) figures out some details, I hope Skinner let's us know.

totodeinhere

(13,058 posts)
137. If the person who sent the letter is not a DU member I don't know what
Sat Sep 12, 2015, 12:07 PM
Sep 2015

Skinner can do. I guess he could try to file charges against the person but it looks like somebody else already did that.

But on second thought maybe there is something that Skinner could do. Perhaps he could post an article providing tips to all of us on how to stay anonymous on the Net.

DonCoquixote

(13,616 posts)
90. you know, you never know how might be crazy
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 01:32 PM
Sep 2015

Last edited Fri Sep 11, 2015, 04:26 PM - Edit history (1)

enough to do something.

I am not saying this guy is some serial killer, but then again, when you look at serial killers, they all looked normal, the sort of people that never would have been suspected of picking bar fights, much less killing someone. This person may look stupid, funny, and worthless, but frankly, so did Son of Sam, John Wayne Gacy, and Jeffrey Dahmer. The point is not to assume the worst, but to show that yes, people should be concerned, and that if someone wants to play like being a threat, they need to be treated the same, lest this one turn out to be another of those "I never thought they would be violent" types you read about.

and no, "alerted and suspends" does not seem like a lot, but you have no idea what else this idiot is thinking ion their little mind. I used the examples above because, again, all of those little men looked HARMLESS, one of them famous for being a CLOWN at children's parties.

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
105. but that is always true
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 03:43 PM
Sep 2015

it's true of you and it's true of me. You cannot extrapolate from a non-threat, like this post, (or that letter) and say "well, it could be a more serious threat" or "it could escalate" or "your toes could all explode".

She was called a "fucking liar"
told to shut her "fucking mouth"

or else

or else, what?

NOT or else you are gonna get hurt
NOT or else you are gonna regret it
NOT or else I am gonna find you and beat the crap out of you

NOT anything rising to the level of a real threat.

The whole threat and nothing but the threat was basically "next time we play mortal dragon combat, your character is toast".

It's about as scary as somebody threatening to throw a marshmallow at you.

And trust me dude, I've got a whole bag of marshmallows here, and I am ready to use them.

DonCoquixote

(13,616 posts)
114. the folks in Charleston
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 06:11 PM
Sep 2015

might disagree, or any of the many who thought so and so was harmless, until GUNS get involved.

bvar22

(39,909 posts)
98. This is more than an "implied" threat.
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 02:55 PM
Sep 2015

These letters say:

*I know where you live.

*I am a sick person.

*I will invade your home, your privacy, and your boundaries without hesitation or guilt.

*I get my kicks making you afraid and feeling insecure in your own home.

....this is a very sick individual, and there is NOTHING I wouldn't put past him.
His sociopathy will go to the next level when writing anonymous letters no longer feeds his sickness.

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
106. well the trouble is
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 04:16 PM
Sep 2015

that is all reading between the lines

"I know where you live" lots of people know where I live, or can easily find out.

And that's a silly threat anyway. One guy said that to me at work after another guy got fired. He said "he knows where you live" and I laughed at that. I said "so what? He's gonna attack me there? Where do you think I keep all my weapons?" If somebody is gonna come after me, I hope they decide to come to my house, I really do. I don't want anyone to come after me, but I like my chances better in my home than in any place on earth. (Well, my SUV is a pretty deadly weapon too, big enough to not be easily pushed around.)

a sick person? Not much of a sickness. All we know is that they sent an anonymous letter with a few cuss words and a pretty mild 'threat'. It's not like Bravenak woke up with a horse's head in her bed or something.

"I will invade your home, your privacy, and your boundaries without hesitation or guilt."

There was no home invasion, and people do not generally have boundaries to prevent them from getting mail. Privacy? Well, if she blogs under her name, she has pretty much surrendered that already.

"I get my kicks making you afraid and feeling insecure in your own home."

Well, if that is true, then I would say 'don't give him the satisfaction'. To paraphrase Eleanor 'nobody can make you feel afraid or insecure without your consent'.

Seems to me that we played into his hands by hyping and over-reacting. Maybe that is what the internet is for - manufacturing drama.

bvar22

(39,909 posts)
108. I'm sure Bravenak feels that she has been stalked, and her home has been invaded.
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 04:35 PM
Sep 2015

I'm a big guy..survived some bar fights,
and if someone sends ME anonymous Hate Mail,
I WILL feel that my home sanctuary has been invaded.

Maybe you haven't lived through a situation like that to maintain such a naive viewpoint.
Maybe you can't step into a woman's shoes for a minute to help you understand being stalked.
Maybe you don't understand that this stalking pathology doesn't stop with sending a letter.

I stand by my post.

greyl

(22,990 posts)
136. Whoever created the letter does not want to gain serious interest of the police,
Sat Sep 12, 2015, 01:56 AM
Sep 2015

so I wouldn't worry about it much. It probably starts and stops with that letter.

bvar22

(39,909 posts)
138. Maybe YOU wouldn't worry about it,
Sat Sep 12, 2015, 02:44 PM
Sep 2015

but bravenak does,
and, like I said above, I would too.
It IS "Stalking",
and it is meant to be threatening.

Perhaps you should talk to some women who have been stalked,
or received anonymous hate mail at their home.

gordianot

(15,238 posts)
43. That letter was disgusting.
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 01:48 AM
Sep 2015

Those who write such things do not contemplate getting caught. When their do get they also fail consequences.

myrna minx

(22,772 posts)
56. I just learned about what happened to her. I'm just speechless.
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 06:38 AM
Sep 2015

Bravenak is family and this is not acceptable. I agree - The coward who did this needs to be exposed and banned. Stalking and threats are not who we are - we are FAMILY. This isn't about primaries and candidates, this is about standing with FAMILY.

To Bravenak, Whatever you need, I have your back. You are a DU treasure.

I just don't even know what to type, I'm so upset.

aikoaiko

(34,170 posts)
60. The letters and sender are despicable and repulsive
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 07:00 AM
Sep 2015

Last edited Fri Sep 11, 2015, 08:26 AM - Edit history (1)

Clearly it was someone who is famiar with recent DU drama so there probably is a DU account, but I suspect not much can be done except banning.

I too think this person is a coward, but is now reveling in this perfect shitstorm of his creation whether it be a RW troll who frequents DU or some misguided, hate-filled democrat/liberal/Bernie supporter (which I have a hard time believing, but cannot say is impossible).

Whoever it is - stop! Go away!

Sunlei

(22,651 posts)
63. I suggest to err on the side of caution & take it seriously because it crosses the line to send,
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 09:00 AM
Sep 2015

a letter to a home address. This implies the threat "I know where you live"

I would not take the letter literally that the 'letter alone' is from a group, or even from someone on DU message board. Could be a lone person who noticed/participated in the online drama that targeted a more outspoken AA person. IMO, some lone person crossed the line with the letter through the mail.

I see Bravenak contacted this message board admin. I suggest, asap she call her local field office and discuss with them what to do. They probably will want to have the emails from every person who contacted Bravenak privately about this issue.

FBI Anchorage 101 East Sixth Avenue Anchorage, Alaska 99501-2524 (907) 276-4441

sadoldgirl

(3,431 posts)
81. Absolutely right, Solly,
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 12:20 PM
Sep 2015

This kind of think cannot be tolerated, and
Bravenak IS FAMILY!
I wished I had her e-mail address on this forum
to let her know that many of us support her and
want to see her safe. Precautions are better
than regrets.
If you PM her, give her my love!

romanic

(2,841 posts)
84. Had many run-ins and disagreements with her
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 12:37 PM
Sep 2015

but sending threats IRL over online forums is straight up crazy and I would not wish that on anybody. I hope she alerted authorities about it.

carolinayellowdog

(3,247 posts)
86. pseudonymous hatemongering is a feature, not a bug
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 01:07 PM
Sep 2015

I was glad that Bravenak revealed her real name, in that it allowed me to friend her on FB, but that was only days before the shitstorm of her suspension, followed by the Clinton supporters' appropriation of the conflict to attack all Sanders supporters, and then this madness of the attack from the yet-unidentified Mr. Citizen. Which has been celebrated on two different anti-DU websites to attack us all.

Having revealed only a bit of personal info this year, I was immediately besieged by lies and insults from what appeared to be a mixture of Clinton and Sanders supporters on the basis that anyone who sympathized with any religion present or past as a writer or scholar was fair game for denunciation whether or not he or she was actually a believer.

The bottom line with all these accusations about stalking-- with the experiences of Bravenak, Nadin, and Will Pitt as evidence-- is that if you reveal your real name or any personal details there will be awful consequences with not just "alert stalking" but harassment. No matter where you stand on the continuum of Democratic intra-party conflict, you will be ganged up on by an unpredictable mixture of people motivated by political, religious, or regional hatreds to be "made an example of."

DonCoquixote

(13,616 posts)
87. Thank you for saying this
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 01:15 PM
Sep 2015

If I could own these words, I would gladly, as they express exactly what I know, not feel, KNOW.

Raster

(20,998 posts)
107. THIS. IS. AN. OBSCENITY.
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 04:28 PM
Sep 2015

This is NOT DU. Expose the perpetrator(s). Ban them for life. Turn over all pertinent information to the authorities. Prosecute to the fullest extent of the law.

Response to Solly Mack (Original post)

deathrind

(1,786 posts)
117. Whoever is doing this...
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 07:07 PM
Sep 2015

Needs to be identified and prosecuted to the full extent of law. This is way out of line and this person should be treated with zero tolerance.

cer7711

(502 posts)
127. Damn straight!
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 09:30 PM
Sep 2015

Last edited Sat Sep 12, 2015, 03:42 AM - Edit history (1)

That letter was pure untrammeled id. The sender doesn't even have the excuse that "e-mail is so damnably quick and easy to fire off; I sincerely regret that I let my emotions get the better of me and . . ."

No. Wild-eyed, gritted-teeth malice both afore- and post-mailing. (Because no apology.)

We have your back, Bravenak!

I guess this particular rage-aholic never heard the expression, "I may disagree with your arguments, but I will fight to the death for your right to express them."

Signed: A fervent Bernie supporter who also happens to believe that black lives matter. Sad that we now seem to have come to a point where some question whether these two positions are mutually-exclusive.







Solly Mack

(90,767 posts)
133. Thank you all for your kinds words and added good thoughts to Bravenak.
Sat Sep 12, 2015, 12:44 AM
Sep 2015

I hope she sees the thread and knows that she isn't alone.

I've been traveling all day and I am very tired.

I'm sorry for the "response to all" type reply.

 

uhnope

(6,419 posts)
155. Beware Internet addiction, or "I'm more concerned about Manti Te'o's girlfriend"
Wed Sep 23, 2015, 11:17 PM
Sep 2015

It's not a family! It's an anonymous chat forum! Grip, be kept.

The "attack" involves anonymous person claiming to get a letter from anonymous person. Hey Lennay Kekua RIP!

Not saying this was a hoax, per se. I'm saying it's very wrong to think your "family" are the people you've never met on a website. OMFG I can't believe I have to write that. HEY please read up about Internet addiction disorder: Virtual online friends start to gain more communication and importance over time to the person becoming more important than real-life family and friends

PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
156. Maybe you haven't had a deep connection with anyone here,
Wed Sep 23, 2015, 11:28 PM
Sep 2015

but many of us have formed close friendships IRL that started here. Many of us have met each other and other friendships have developed long distance.

I've been here for eleven years and hugged dozens and dozens of these people. Dated one for a while, another dear friend passed away, several I see on a regular basis. And that's not unique.

But, please continue, Dr First.


hunter

(38,313 posts)
160. There are worse things than IAD, for example TNAD...
Wed Sep 23, 2015, 11:35 PM
Sep 2015

... Television News Addiction Disorder, especially the Fox News sort.

That stuff will rot your brain quicker than porn.

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