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davidn3600

(6,342 posts)
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 05:56 PM Sep 2015

Some German girls being told to cover up to prevent "misunderstandings" concerning migrant's culture

Mrs Merkel’s offer last month to accept all refugees from war-ravaged Syria opened the floodgates. More than a million migrants are expected this year alone, the bulk of them far from genuine asylum seekers. There is now deepening disquiet in this Christian country, dotted with churches, that it is being overwhelmed by people of a different religion and culture.

Yesterday, the Mail reported how social workers and women’s groups in Giessen wrote a letter to the local state parliament claiming that rape and child abuse were rife in the refugee camp. The allegations were corroborated by Atif over his curry. ‘The camp is dangerous,’ he agreed. ‘Men of different nationalities fight and women are attacked.’

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Controversially, the letter suggests that in the migrants’ culture, women are viewed differently: ‘It is a fact that women and children are unprotected. This situation is opportune for those men who already regard women as their inferiors and treat unaccompanied women as “fair game”.’


Many migrant women have fled here to escape forced marriages or female genital mutilation, which are rife in some African and Middle Eastern countries. ‘They believe they have found safety in Germany,’ says the letter, ‘and realise it’s not the case.’

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Police in the Bavarian town of Mering, where a 16-year-old girl was reportedly raped this month, have warned parents not to allow their children outside unaccompanied.

Girls and women have been told not to walk home alone from the railway station because it is near a migrant centre where the rapist may live.

At Pocking, another well-kept Bavarian town, the headmaster of the grammar school wrote to parents telling them not to let their daughters wear skimpy clothing. This was to avoid ‘misunderstandings’ with 200 migrants who were put up in the school’s gymnasium over the summer, before being moved on this month.

The letter to parents said the migrants were ‘mainly Muslim, and speak Arabic. They have their own culture. Because our school is directly next to where they are staying, modest clothing should be warn... revealing tops or blouses, short skirts or miniskirts could lead to misunderstandings.’


http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3249667/Germany-state-SIEGE-Merkel-cheered-opened-floodgates-migrants-gangs-men-roaming-streets-young-German-women-told-cover-mood-s-changing.html

It's apparently racist to suggest immigrants should assimilate to the culture of the country they are immigrating to. But apparently it's OK to demand Germans to change their lives to accommodate immigrants? How exactly do you think this cultural integration is going to work when some Germans inevitably start pushing back?

Not only do you have a cultural clash between the migrants and Germans, but you have also starting to see clashes between different nationalities of migrants. So there is fighting even between migrants within the refugee camps as they are from different countries and different religious sects. These camps are going to eventually turn into high-crime slums, if they haven't already.

I wouldnt want to be in Merkel's shoes. This is a mess.
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Some German girls being told to cover up to prevent "misunderstandings" concerning migrant's culture (Original Post) davidn3600 Sep 2015 OP
Muslim immigrants in Europe do not want to assimilate. Dawson Leery Sep 2015 #1
Abso-fuckin'-lutely. hifiguy Sep 2015 #10
+1000. whathehell Sep 2015 #104
i am far Left and do not at all support religious lunacy. JanMichael Sep 2015 #12
Amen! NT Elmergantry Sep 2015 #17
+1000 smirkymonkey Sep 2015 #19
Damn straight! romanic Sep 2015 #21
"Muslim immigrants in Europe do not want to assimilate." "Muslim immigrants in America do want pampango Sep 2015 #22
Schools in America routinely insist that students dress modestly. cheapdate Sep 2015 #28
Since when is the EU a part of America? Just because you love snagglepuss Sep 2015 #89
Complete misread of the question... cheapdate Sep 2015 #92
Trite "Christians are just as bad!" meme. Quantess Sep 2015 #161
That's not the way I would frame question I asked, cheapdate Sep 2015 #165
There are many EU countries, including the UK, that are much stricter on average about school dress LeftishBrit Sep 2015 #101
nope, no school uniforms in Germany reorg Sep 2015 #143
I was born and raised in England. Boudica the Lyoness Sep 2015 #151
What else, other than the NHS reorg Sep 2015 #158
What else? Boudica the Lyoness Sep 2015 #164
They should integrate not assimilate davidpdx Sep 2015 #47
They need to do both. Xithras Sep 2015 #180
I think with integration one can still eliminate those values that are not acceptable davidpdx Sep 2015 #186
Of course they don't, but they always do treestar Sep 2015 #95
Absolutely. nt thereismore Sep 2015 #111
...^ that 840high Sep 2015 #154
Let's face it, in the US they don't have to assimilate far, unlike in Europe. KitSileya Sep 2015 #187
I lived in Germany for 3 years underpants Sep 2015 #2
Not only is it a mess, but it's going to get worse Binkie The Clown Sep 2015 #3
It's a numbers game unless flamingdem Sep 2015 #38
Maybe it is karma from what the Vandals did? artislife Sep 2015 #57
Just look at what the Europeans did to the Native Americans. nt avebury Sep 2015 #72
Send security forces katsy Sep 2015 #4
That was my first thought too. Dyedinthewoolliberal Sep 2015 #134
The men in those camps need to be immediately educated in German law, pnwmom Sep 2015 #5
Is it that different in Syrian law? 6chars Sep 2015 #8
Yes. pnwmom Sep 2015 #9
Damn 6chars Sep 2015 #20
How about an ass kicking for every person they rape, then deportation snooper2 Sep 2015 #35
True though I wonder if this idea comes from treestar Sep 2015 #96
Think about all the incidents that happen to women in India pnwmom Sep 2015 #108
I've been saying this all along DFW Sep 2015 #6
Many don't seem to understand the cultural impacts davidn3600 Sep 2015 #14
I have read that Ichigo Kurosaki Sep 2015 #37
You read correctly DFW Sep 2015 #61
If you live in Germany right now you'd know that the Far Righters there are already using the refuge KittyWampus Sep 2015 #83
Coming to you live and in color from Düsseldorf DFW Sep 2015 #128
There's no conflict here. Don't rape any woman or girl, anywhere. Do it in Germany, go to jail REP Sep 2015 #7
Why should German women and girls hifiguy Sep 2015 #11
Most likely the only people actually saying that are far right agitators trying to foment resentment KittyWampus Sep 2015 #84
I tend to agree... however, it seems to working LanternWaste Sep 2015 #125
The direct quote speaks for itself. hifiguy Sep 2015 #182
Our Culture has been named white supremacist. Shandris Sep 2015 #13
No they don't - women have had autonomy a very long time in Germany and they aren't going to Hestia Sep 2015 #15
Please see reply #25, my post did not come across as intended n/t Shandris Sep 2015 #26
Wait wait wait romanic Sep 2015 #23
No shit. hifiguy Sep 2015 #24
GAH! No, I'm sorry...I made a bad estimation on whether the... Shandris Sep 2015 #25
You're fine. romanic Sep 2015 #29
"German girls will just have to accept the new morality..." cherokeeprogressive Sep 2015 #30
Gah, think I'm going to have to edit the original post. Shandris Sep 2015 #32
Okay... I get you. Sometimes I'm a bit slow on the uptake LOL. cherokeeprogressive Sep 2015 #33
you want I should kick your slow ass, cherokeeprogressive? Skittles Sep 2015 #44
The Daily Mail also reported gleefully on Trump's "illegal Mexican rapists" remarks. rug Sep 2015 #16
Shhh! JackRiddler Sep 2015 #58
No really, it's so wonderful that fundamentalist muslim culture is horribly misogynistic! Quantess Sep 2015 #118
Right! It's HATEFUL to say that THEIR hatred and shitty treatment of women is wrong! Arugula Latte Sep 2015 #122
+1000 smirkymonkey Sep 2015 #190
It's almost funny. Marr Sep 2015 #126
+100000 B2G Sep 2015 #138
Watching the ultra-PC contort themselves into pretzels about this hifiguy Sep 2015 #152
Exactly! rollin74 Sep 2015 #162
Its the daily fail, I doubt the situation is as dire as portrayed here. Will there be a culture... Humanist_Activist Sep 2015 #18
You doubt it? Learn fluent German, come live here for a while and doubt no longer DFW Sep 2015 #68
Europe is becoming a powder keg again Marrah_G Sep 2015 #73
It was nice while it lasted DFW Sep 2015 #78
Do you think Merkel made an error in inviting them? flamingdem Sep 2015 #135
It was done at great haste and she will end up regretting inviting so many of them DFW Sep 2015 #137
I speak German and have family/friends there. Germany is building new apartment blocks. KittyWampus Sep 2015 #85
+1 rug Sep 2015 #112
Noble intentions, cruel reality DFW Sep 2015 #130
Why are you assuming all of them are sharia-minded fundamentalists? Humanist_Activist Sep 2015 #147
I'm assuming about half of them are fully convinced their religion is the true one DFW Sep 2015 #153
So they are acting like everyone else, and that makes them a problem? Humanist_Activist Sep 2015 #173
Acting like everyone else WHERE? Not here in Western Europe. In Syria, maybe. DFW Sep 2015 #176
You seem to know an awful lot about what's in the minds of the Syrian refugees. Humanist_Activist Sep 2015 #181
I was curious, so I looked it up... Humanist_Activist Sep 2015 #183
I predict that this is going to create a massive problem down the line. smirkymonkey Sep 2015 #191
It is that dire. 840high Sep 2015 #155
The Daily Mail reports that immigrants are rapists and a school principle cheapdate Sep 2015 #27
Yeah but it's women's groups and social workers making the rape claims, not right-wingers davidn3600 Sep 2015 #31
No, they shouldn't. cheapdate Sep 2015 #34
You want to create ultranationalists? This is how you do it. AngryAmish Sep 2015 #36
Bingo, this will fill the coffers of UKIP in England flamingdem Sep 2015 #39
yup Marrah_G Sep 2015 #74
Fairly insightful reporting in Luton, England on Muslim extremism - this includes a protest flamingdem Sep 2015 #40
Many conservatives believe that tax cuts for the wealthy will create jobs Binkie The Clown Sep 2015 #43
It's past liberal vs conservative when the numbers keep growing flamingdem Sep 2015 #45
Who do you mean by "us"? Donald Ian Rankin Sep 2015 #67
Existential? Possibly not. Dire? yes. Erich Bloodaxe BSN Sep 2015 #80
The vast majority of human beings from Syria (or Mexico or the US or Germany or anywhere) are good pampango Sep 2015 #75
You got that right! Binkie The Clown Sep 2015 #140
It's terrible that there are rapists in refugee camps, however I would argue they dilby Sep 2015 #41
Here's a bowl of 100 M&M's. One has cyanide in it. Recursion Sep 2015 #54
Do we blame an entire group of people for the 1% who are bad? n/t pampango Sep 2015 #70
This is running dangerously close to #notallmigrants Recursion Sep 2015 #71
is it 1% , 5% or 18% snooper2 Sep 2015 #91
In the M&M analogy it was 99 good ones and 1 bad one. So 1%. pampango Sep 2015 #117
Maybe you should profile the brown ones first. rug Sep 2015 #114
I'd rather not Recursion Sep 2015 #116
Islamophobic BS mwrguy Sep 2015 #42
honestly, when I read it Skittles Sep 2015 #46
Thank you philosslayer Sep 2015 #48
I'm a bit shocked with the responses here. cheapdate Sep 2015 #52
Murfreesboro? Go Vols Sep 2015 #123
Murfreesboro. cheapdate Sep 2015 #127
This message was self-deleted by its author Duppers Sep 2015 #64
From the Daily Mail!!??! Recursion Sep 2015 #55
Are you of the Islam faith? Or Muslim? Duppers Sep 2015 #62
Wow, seems like a lot of nativist, anti-immigrant hysteria in this thread. Comrade Grumpy Sep 2015 #49
Right? a la izquierda Sep 2015 #53
I wonder what it was like... JackRiddler Sep 2015 #59
And lets all remember what the Daily Mail is. artislife Sep 2015 #60
+1 uponit7771 Sep 2015 #77
God help me, I am going to agree with you... randys1 Sep 2015 #177
while there are issues, a lot of this is exaggerated BS , women in Syria are not forced to Cover up JI7 Sep 2015 #50
Lot of culture shock at first. These are refugees, some may come from Germany to America soon. Sunlei Sep 2015 #51
THANK GOD. WE MUST RESPECT ALL DERPLY HERLD RELERGERS BERLERFS. Warren DeMontague Sep 2015 #56
+1 (and cracking up) Lizzie Poppet Sep 2015 #106
The Daily Mail should NOT be trusted on anything, especially anything to do with immigration LeftishBrit Sep 2015 #63
Thanks.. Duppers Sep 2015 #66
+A googolplex! n/t Turborama Sep 2015 #97
I enjoy the Daily Mail. Boudica the Lyoness Sep 2015 #166
For those complaining about the obvious because the OP cited the Daily Mail, branford Sep 2015 #65
And a very few LOCAL incidents cited have been inflated to something that isn't a larger reality KittyWampus Sep 2015 #86
Thank you, branford. sibelian Sep 2015 #131
As a German, I say FUCK THEIR CULTURE!!! DetlefK Sep 2015 #69
I also live in europe, and I agree with you. Quantess Sep 2015 #76
Doing otherwise Erich Bloodaxe BSN Sep 2015 #79
I find the reasoning very weird. DetlefK Sep 2015 #81
Sweden. Quantess Sep 2015 #87
Well, DU'er falling for this this anti-immigrant rightwing garbage don't sound very savvy KittyWampus Sep 2015 #88
Ok, putting the Daily Mail part of this aside, should Germans now be accomodating Syrian culture? nt ChisolmTrailDem Sep 2015 #93
OK, except for one local incident that is being exaggerated, who is saying Syrian culture KittyWampus Sep 2015 #100
I'm sorry, did you answer the question? And what's up with the "Hmmm?"? nt ChisolmTrailDem Sep 2015 #102
You wanna talk about MY anti-Muslim juices? DetlefK Sep 2015 #105
All of which sounds eminently reasonable and practical. hifiguy Sep 2015 #168
As a Brit I agree with you. Boudica the Lyoness Sep 2015 #163
An invasion, really? Didn't know we had BNP members on this board. n/t Humanist_Activist Sep 2015 #174
+1000 smirkymonkey Sep 2015 #193
The Daily Mail is a rightwing rag. The Far Right in Europe is actively using the refugees to stoke KittyWampus Sep 2015 #82
You just don't want to believe it. Quantess Sep 2015 #90
Apparently you WANT to believe. What was "reported" were 2 local incidents blown out of proportion. KittyWampus Sep 2015 #98
Our media is not like the US's Quantess Sep 2015 #107
Interesting insights Quantess flamingdem Sep 2015 #120
No it isn't. Boudica the Lyoness Sep 2015 #167
It's not racist to figure they are not going to assimilate overnight treestar Sep 2015 #94
When DU starts looking like the comments under Daily Heil articles you know it's time to step away Turborama Sep 2015 #99
Well, hm. sibelian Sep 2015 #132
Might be what you're talking about. Turborama Sep 2015 #185
OK....I guess that is an observation I shall not venture to deny... sibelian Sep 2015 #189
You cannot trust the Daily Fail. alarimer Sep 2015 #103
Wait until the climate refugees become reality it will make these war refugees a walk in the park. gordianot Sep 2015 #109
disgusting rollin74 Sep 2015 #110
OMINOUS UNKNOWN FOREIGNER STILL AT LARGE NuclearDem Sep 2015 #113
Why can't we just get along? Texas Blues Sep 2015 #115
One million Central American children have been stopped at the border flamingdem Sep 2015 #121
You're absolutely right philosslayer Sep 2015 #133
Hello, this is a shitty culture to be imported to europe! Quantess Sep 2015 #148
Most of us oppose all of that too, we are also nuanced enough to know to not stain all the refugees. Humanist_Activist Sep 2015 #175
I wish the USA would take in a larger share of the muslim asylum seekers! Quantess Sep 2015 #142
It's time that this planet moved beyond the idiotic, primitive, paternalistic Abrahamic mythologies. Arugula Latte Sep 2015 #119
You think giving up religion is going to change how they treat women and gays? Township75 Sep 2015 #179
Welcome to Germany (or France, Canada, UK or US) bklyncowgirl Sep 2015 #124
France needs to make a statue with that engraving on the pedestal. randome Sep 2015 #129
Fine. Agree with that... but not with pre-emptively punishing people before they've broken the law LeftishBrit Sep 2015 #141
I do think that all of these people should undergo some sort of "Welcome" training. bklyncowgirl Sep 2015 #146
Concur MosheFeingold Sep 2015 #172
No concern about the rapes though, eh? Well at least you're consistent! bettyellen Sep 2015 #136
Yeah, that's why I made an entire thread on the topic and bolded those parts davidn3600 Sep 2015 #139
Titling the OP for maximum burka- hysteria... bettyellen Sep 2015 #144
burka-hysteria? davidn3600 Sep 2015 #156
You're planning to call me out on your foolish assumptions of me? I'm shocked! bettyellen Sep 2015 #184
10000 refugees in Gießen, 15 alleged cases of abuse reorg Sep 2015 #145
15 *reported* cases B2G Sep 2015 #150
Why would you assume that there are cases going unreported? reorg Sep 2015 #159
Because rape is THE most underreported crime out there B2G Sep 2015 #160
That's a lot of assumptions reorg Sep 2015 #169
They are turning around the Kosovos very quickly B2G Sep 2015 #171
That's just not true reorg Sep 2015 #178
That is starting to change B2G Sep 2015 #188
I have always thought this open borders, free trade crap is insane. Waiting For Everyman Sep 2015 #149
....x10+ 840high Sep 2015 #157
Nearly 40% of Germans are full or partial nudists. Xithras Sep 2015 #170
Paging Femen. nt Zorra Sep 2015 #192
"Refugees" terrorizing German people didact Sep 2015 #194
If they're so offended, then perhaps they need to find shelter WestSeattle2 Sep 2015 #195

Dawson Leery

(19,348 posts)
1. Muslim immigrants in Europe do not want to assimilate.
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 06:02 PM
Sep 2015

Unlike the ones who come to America who do assimilate.

DU can scream at me all you want, I will not back down. If these refugees give any trouble, send them back.

The far left is always making excuses for the behavior of traditional muslims. This has to stop. So yes, Harris and Dawkins have a point.

I will NEVER accept any religious zealot of ANY background telling people what do wear.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
10. Abso-fuckin'-lutely.
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 07:15 PM
Sep 2015

Assimilate to generally held cultural norms in the country or LEAVE.

"When in Rome do as the Romans do" has been sound advice for centuries.

JanMichael

(24,890 posts)
12. i am far Left and do not at all support religious lunacy.
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 07:21 PM
Sep 2015

should women fear new residents? fuck no.

watch kino eye to see how the real far left approached the burka forcing education prohibbiting nuttiness in the 'stans' that enforced sharia in the 20's.

the real left makes no excuses for radical islam or christianity or judaism or sumarianism ir whatever nuttiness is in play.

thanks.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
19. +1000
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 08:04 PM
Sep 2015

This is bullshit! The Germans were kind enough to take them in and this is how they are repaid? Eff that!

pampango

(24,692 posts)
22. "Muslim immigrants in Europe do not want to assimilate." "Muslim immigrants in America do want
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 08:40 PM
Sep 2015

to assimilate." Europe sure gets the short end of those stereotypes.

If these refugees give any trouble, send them back. The far left is always making excuses for the behavior of traditional muslims.

The far-right sure does not do that. They want to keep them out with walls. They burn their refugee centers down. The push their governments not to accept any share of the refugees.

Liberal national laws should be enforced and violators punished. My assumption is the vast majority of human beings from Syria are good people and will adapt to live in Europe or the US.

cheapdate

(3,811 posts)
28. Schools in America routinely insist that students dress modestly.
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 09:09 PM
Sep 2015

Happens every day. That religious sensibility isn't a factor is really indisputable. What about that?

snagglepuss

(12,704 posts)
89. Since when is the EU a part of America? Just because you love
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 08:48 AM
Sep 2015

pious idiocy in the US doesn't meant the rest of the world has to march in step with the US.

cheapdate

(3,811 posts)
92. Complete misread of the question...
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 09:37 AM
Sep 2015

which was a response and a valid challenge to an earlier post.

Furthermore, the question itself in no way expressed or implied a belief on my part of either of the claims you make; 1) that the EU is part of America, or 2) that I "love pious idiocy in the US."

The earlier post proposed that religious based rules and accommodations in schools of the kind mentioned in the Daily Mail article were completely unacceptable. My question highlights the fact that a similar practice regularly takes place in American schools. Furthermore, that the practice is so common and ubiquitous that the religious aspect is rarely noticed.

American schools from coast to coast are quietly filled with Christian accommodations. So before anyone loses his shit over a tabloid story about a principle in a German town who asked a student to dress more modestly, I suggest they should take a look closer to home.

Quantess

(27,630 posts)
161. Trite "Christians are just as bad!" meme.
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 03:58 PM
Sep 2015

Just how old are you, 20? No offense intended, it's just so typical.

cheapdate

(3,811 posts)
165. That's not the way I would frame question I asked,
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 04:41 PM
Sep 2015

and from my perspective that's the wrong way to understand it. The point was not whether one religion is better or worse than another. The point was whether the subtle but pervasive ways our schools accommodate (for lack of a better word) Christian religious sensibility is comparable to the example from the Daily Mail article.

Furthermore, the question was a specific challenge to a specific proposition made by another poster and should be understood in that context.

LeftishBrit

(41,205 posts)
101. There are many EU countries, including the UK, that are much stricter on average about school dress
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 10:08 AM
Sep 2015

codes than many places in America. I don't know what is the case in Germany.

reorg

(3,317 posts)
143. nope, no school uniforms in Germany
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 02:02 PM
Sep 2015

nor anywhere else in Europe as far as I know, except in the UK (the ultra-conservative outlier where they still haven't done away with kings, lords and knighthoods, duh):

In modern Europe, Britain stands out as the only country with a nationwide school uniform policy.

 

Boudica the Lyoness

(2,899 posts)
151. I was born and raised in England.
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 03:06 PM
Sep 2015

School uniforms are a great idea. I raised my children in the US and it was awful trying to buy clothes that they wouldn't be teased or bullied about.

We went to school dressed to study/learn, not make a fashion statement, turn the boys on.

I loved our school colours.

America separated from Great Britain a few years ago so you don't have to concern yourself about Lords and Knights or Doctor Who. Or the NHS.

reorg

(3,317 posts)
158. What else, other than the NHS
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 03:32 PM
Sep 2015

did New 'Labour' leave intact?

I happen to have been raised in Germany and was never teased about my clothes, nor anybody else as far as I remember - I guess we had other problems in the sixties than to worry about who could or couldn't afford designer clothes. Distribute wealth more equally and such problems will disappear.

 

Boudica the Lyoness

(2,899 posts)
164. What else?
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 04:38 PM
Sep 2015

For the people who don't want to work for a living - free housing, free eye glasses, free bus passes, free legal services etc.

Maybe Germany is better than the US if you didn't have to wear expensive clothes to avoid teasing/bullying. My children are adults now. One middle-aged.

davidpdx

(22,000 posts)
47. They should integrate not assimilate
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 12:14 AM
Sep 2015

There is a big difference. Assimilation means giving up your culture and adopting the host-culture (Rudmin, 2009). Integration is where relationships are sought between groups while maintaining ones culture and identity (Berry, 2009, 2011).

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(Berry, 2011)

When I think of assimilation I think of Star Trek (seriously). I have actually had an email exchange with Dr. Rudmin and he is very kind, but I disagree with his findings. In my opinion you can't just throw aside what you have learned all your life and become culturally something you aren't. I have lived overseas for almost 11 years and have a bit of experience with this. I also recently finished my doctoral degree in which my dissertation dealt with how foreigners adapt in South Korea.

As to what you are saying about the article, I agree that having to warn children to dress modestly is a big much. Whether instances of rape will occur is yet to be seen. Certainly if it does, there is going to be a rather large backlash.

Xithras

(16,191 posts)
180. They need to do both.
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 07:29 PM
Sep 2015

They need to integrate with their new homeland, but they DO need to assimilate when it comes to cultural concepts of freedom and equality. Some middle eastern cultural baggage, including viewing women as subservient and the notion that public displays of "objectionable" behavior be confronted or attacked, need to be eliminated. Discrimination and abuse wrapped in a cloak of "culture" is unacceptable and should always be confronted.

Not all cultural values should be protected. Those that are wholly incompatible with the liberal European worldview need to be educated out of existence.

davidpdx

(22,000 posts)
186. I think with integration one can still eliminate those values that are not acceptable
Tue Sep 29, 2015, 12:18 AM
Sep 2015

in the host-country. In my opinion, it is an either or not both.

I agree that people would have to change some of their cultural values to fit in. Treating women like a piece of meat is not acceptable in western countries. Obviously rape would be illegal and the laws of the host-country would trump the person's cultural values.

My point is assimilation, which is telling people to change all their values to adapt to the host-country's culture, is not the way to go.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
95. Of course they don't, but they always do
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 09:51 AM
Sep 2015

In the US it is not the immigrants but the people already here. We are used to assimilating new groups, that's what we are.

Europeans have a harder time accepting the new people, since they are way more attached to their original culture. Germany especially.

KitSileya

(4,035 posts)
187. Let's face it, in the US they don't have to assimilate far, unlike in Europe.
Tue Sep 29, 2015, 12:41 AM
Sep 2015

In the US the religious right is forcing society towards the same norms and values as these traditional Muslims want. Women as property, check; unaccompanied women as fair game, check; girls have to dress modestly, check; women need to be punished if they choose to have sex, check.... The religious right in the US is a misogynistic, homophobic authoritarian group of people, and so are these groups of Muslim men. It makes sense that the Muslim men do assimilate, it's not as if they have to change very much.

In Europe, however, we are actually making strides when it comes to not only changing the rights of women and how society views them. We have come a step further than the US, and are actually challenging how culture views men and masculine roles. We are actively trying to change toxic masculinity, for example by mandating paternal leave so that men have a chance to participate in raising children beyond "babysitting" them. That is a bigger change for Muslim men to swallow, and of course they are resisting assimilation.

In other words, what you are saying isn't something to be proud of. It is rather an admittance of defeat from America's side.

underpants

(182,807 posts)
2. I lived in Germany for 3 years
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 06:07 PM
Sep 2015

They are great at knowing the rules and taking orders but not that. Please.

Binkie The Clown

(7,911 posts)
3. Not only is it a mess, but it's going to get worse
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 06:08 PM
Sep 2015

as climate change, drought, and hunger pushes even more refugees north. When any culture, ours included, reaches a certain critical mass in a foreign land, it begins to push that native culture toward being more like its own. When enough Americans retire and move into a village in Mexico, they start pushing American culture on the natives, and the village becomes Americanized. And when enough Muslims move into Germany they will start pushing Muslim culture on the Germans. And when that happens, women will be second-class citizens to be owned and exploited.

This is NOT a racist anti-Muslim sentiment, because it is ALSO not a racist anti-American sentiment, because not only Muslims, and not only Americans, but every culture that reaches that certain saturation point of immigrant population begins to force its own culture on the natives.

katsy

(4,246 posts)
4. Send security forces
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 06:08 PM
Sep 2015

Identify the criminals and send them back from which they came. Or try them under German law.

To ask that German, non-Muslim women change their attire is enabling rapists. Not acceptable.

Dyedinthewoolliberal

(15,575 posts)
134. That was my first thought too.
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 12:34 PM
Sep 2015

Assign police to that area, arrest anyone caught breaking the law and prosecute accordingly. If there has to be a class or something to tell the immigrant men that in Germany things are done differently and if you break the law, you go to jail, then they should do it.

pnwmom

(108,978 posts)
5. The men in those camps need to be immediately educated in German law,
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 06:19 PM
Sep 2015

so there won't be any "misunderstandings" that lead to sexual assault.

And if they don't follow the law, they should be treated like any German would -- no cultural excuses allowed.

6chars

(3,967 posts)
8. Is it that different in Syrian law?
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 06:43 PM
Sep 2015

I would think there are harsh penalties for sexual assault there.

pnwmom

(108,978 posts)
9. Yes.
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 06:51 PM
Sep 2015

Their religious law requires that there be male witnesses to a sexual assault, in order to convict the rapist.

And they also blame the victims of assault, sometimes even sending them to prison.

6chars

(3,967 posts)
20. Damn
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 08:06 PM
Sep 2015

Better educate them ASAP and make sure they understand the seriousness of it. I guess this is a challenge with a large number of immigrants coming at one time. I would say if they don't have the capacity to handle that, they really ought to slow down their intake.

 

snooper2

(30,151 posts)
35. How about an ass kicking for every person they rape, then deportation
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 09:40 PM
Sep 2015

via parachute - air drop over the country they claimed of origin?

treestar

(82,383 posts)
96. True though I wonder if this idea comes from
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 09:52 AM
Sep 2015

the Germans themselves - have the refugee men really shown any tendency to go after German girls at all? Perhaps this is a made up concern.

pnwmom

(108,978 posts)
108. Think about all the incidents that happen to women in India
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 10:29 AM
Sep 2015

in clashes between Muslim men and non-Muslim women.

Women who are not covered up are targeted.

I think they should be educating the men about German law.

DFW

(54,387 posts)
6. I've been saying this all along
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 06:32 PM
Sep 2015

I even got compared to the Nazis right here on DU because of it (even though I live right here in Germany and speak the language fluently, and they don't)--all because I predicted the obvious.

The Germans will not put up with being told to change their culture to accommodate these people for long. Nobody who invites guests over expects them to move into the master bedroom. There will be a reaction, and the radical right will be grinning from ear to ear.

 

davidn3600

(6,342 posts)
14. Many don't seem to understand the cultural impacts
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 07:40 PM
Sep 2015

That's what people here seem to not understand because they have never seen this kind of mass immigration before and clashing of cultures that are this wide apart. This is not anything like the types of immigration that we have seen in America.

If they cannot follow the laws of Germany and cannot respect the customs and beliefs of the western world...then they can go back to Syria. That's my opinion. Like you said, when someone is having a hard time and you invite them in your home...what do you do when they try to take it over, change your religion, and tell your daughters how to dress? You kick their ass out. That's got nothing to do with racism.

Ichigo Kurosaki

(167 posts)
37. I have read that
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 09:51 PM
Sep 2015

some people have been evicted from their rental flats to make room for refugees and at least in one town suspected arson to a school gym to keep refugees out happened in Germany.
IIRC I read it on the RT news website.

DFW

(54,387 posts)
61. You read correctly
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 03:04 AM
Sep 2015

The rental flats that were mentioned were short-term shelter for poorer Germans. Who do you imagine will be easy pickings for the radical right here?

In order to make it easy for the first few, the Germans have made it potentially awful for the rest. The Greeks haven't helped, in many cases because they can't. Overwhelmed by lack of space, equipment and personnel, they have not fingerprinted all arrivals as is normal procedure. They just send them on as fast as they can to make room for the next boat. The Bulgarians, Romanians, Serbians and Hungarians send them on to Austria ASAP, and we are swamped here in Germany. In my town, the music school has been evicted from its building, as have a few small sport complexes. The people here have taken it in stride, though with some grumbling. We have a large mosque here. So far, it does not send loud calls to prayer 5 times a day through the town--a wise compromise on the Muslims' part, and there have been no incidents in the years since it was built. The local Turkish population here is well integrated, and I am on friendly terms with the ones I know. I speak a little Turkish, and that always goes a long way.

One thing that WILL send things over the top is telling German young people that they have to adapt their behavior and dress to accommodate Muslim men from another continent. That will go over about as well as telling Saudi Arabia or Iran that they must deal with the opening of strip clubs with billboard advertising in Mecca or Qom. The Germans will not react favorably to it, and anyone who can't predict that is either very naïve, or is deliberately looking the other way, hoping the storm will pass them by (it won't). The few educated and linguistically capable among the arrivals get welcomed with open arms.

But take somewhere between dozens and thousands of young men, speaking only Arabic, knowing only traditional Muslim mores, unable to work or communicate, having only minimal spending money--put these guys in the midst of an affluent (to them) society of people who let their women dress any way they want to, and who have seemingly unlimited pocket money, and whose stores seem stocked with unending luxuries (again--from their point of view). What does anyone THINK will happen? These guys are not Buddhist monks who eschew comfort and learn to purge jealousy from their psyche. They will get frustrated, bored, and envious. They will act on their emotions. Who wouldn't? The radical right is frothing at the mouth here, waiting for just that to happen to swell their ranks.

 

KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
83. If you live in Germany right now you'd know that the Far Righters there are already using the refuge
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 08:37 AM
Sep 2015

situation to stoke fear and paranoia and the article is from an English rightwing rag is simply playing to that more than anything else.

Oh, and Germany is building new apartment complexes right now:

Germany is building new apartment blocks and refitting old ones to accommodate an unprecedented wave of refugees -- an expected 800,000 this year, four times last year's figure and many more than in any other European nation. Volunteers are turning out in large numbers to help. As a response to human suffering, this should be a source of national pride.

DFW

(54,387 posts)
128. Coming to you live and in color from Düsseldorf
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 12:16 PM
Sep 2015

The papers here are full of everything that is being done. But you can't throw together space for 800,000 people to live overnight. Not even in the States. It won't be done anywhere nearly as quickly as these people will arrive. The intentions are all fine and dandy, but the social conflicts are real, and the upsurge in resentment is real. The upsurge in votes for the most odious of fringe movements on the right here will be just as real.

REP

(21,691 posts)
7. There's no conflict here. Don't rape any woman or girl, anywhere. Do it in Germany, go to jail
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 06:34 PM
Sep 2015

And then go back from whence you came.

Native and immigrant Germans don't have to do anything. Not Raping is literally not doing something.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
11. Why should German women and girls
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 07:17 PM
Sep 2015

have to change the way they dress in their own country in order to not "offend" these backwards fuckwits?

 

KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
84. Most likely the only people actually saying that are far right agitators trying to foment resentment
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 08:39 AM
Sep 2015
 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
125. I tend to agree... however, it seems to working
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 12:00 PM
Sep 2015

"far right agitators trying to foment resentment..."

I tend to agree-- the isolated reactions we're reading of don't seem to be a collective German sentiment; yet stirring emotions and agitating does seem to working.

Simply by reading so many responses leading with "it isn't racist of me to say this, but...," illustrates your premise as rather accurate.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
182. The direct quote speaks for itself.
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 07:33 PM
Sep 2015

The letter to parents said the migrants were ‘mainly Muslim, and speak Arabic. They have their own culture. Because our school is directly next to where they are staying, modest clothing should be warn... revealing tops or blouses, short skirts or miniskirts could lead to misunderstandings.’

 

Shandris

(3,447 posts)
13. Our Culture has been named white supremacist.
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 07:31 PM
Sep 2015

Last edited Sun Sep 27, 2015, 09:25 PM - Edit history (1)

Expecting them to join with European culture is impossible because they're not white, so they can't fit in no matter what they do. In addition to their views on alcohol, women, work, and other non-obvious but important things, German girls will just have to accept the new morality as a new culture has joined with them.



What did everyone think 'multicultural' meant? That it meant 'your culture is perfect and worthy of respect once you adopt this list of things we wealthy white men and women believe in'?

Edited from original to add Sarcasm tag where necessary. I apologize to those who posted before I added it in - I thought (wrongly) that it would be evident.


 

Hestia

(3,818 posts)
15. No they don't - women have had autonomy a very long time in Germany and they aren't going to
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 07:43 PM
Sep 2015

just give it up because.

There are 80 million +/- people in Germany - are 1 million really going to change things that much?

Personally, they should make single male & single female camps to shut that shit down until calm prevails. There isn't a thing wrong with single gender camps. I would think it would make the women feel safe for the time being.

Go into the male camp and teach them the rule of law of Germany & Europe. Can't assimilate? Then here is your ticket home or wherever takes you in.

 

Shandris

(3,447 posts)
26. Please see reply #25, my post did not come across as intended n/t
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 09:02 PM
Sep 2015

)Edited twice because Shandris is apparently incapable of locating Reply numbers. )

romanic

(2,841 posts)
23. Wait wait wait
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 08:42 PM
Sep 2015

Are you being serious with the "German girls will just have to accept the new morality as a new culture has joined with them."???

I mean, just look back at that sentence and THINK about what you just implied there.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
24. No shit.
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 08:46 PM
Sep 2015

We wouldn't want to "offend" people who are only there because of the generosity of the German people.

Accept the dominant cultural norms of the place that has offered you asylum or go the fuck back home.

 

Shandris

(3,447 posts)
25. GAH! No, I'm sorry...I made a bad estimation on whether the...
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 09:00 PM
Sep 2015

...sarcasm would be obvious or not. No, in no way do I actually believe that! Bad Shandris!

That's why my second set of comments ("What did you think...&quot were at odds with the meaning of the first set. I apologize that it wasn't clear.

In short, we have to choose between one or the other. Given the options, we simply can't choose 'multiculturalism' by any definition I can think of (which implies there might be one I can't think of), even if the alternative is presently being considered 'white supremacy'.

I hope that clarifies my post, and I'll try to use that technique a lot less; it clearly didn't read to others as it did to me.

romanic

(2,841 posts)
29. You're fine.
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 09:10 PM
Sep 2015

It is hard to detect sarcasm with topics like these because there is a fine line in regards to migrant situations such as the one present in Europe.

 

Shandris

(3,447 posts)
32. Gah, think I'm going to have to edit the original post.
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 09:21 PM
Sep 2015

Please see the other follow-up post I made in this chain, CP. It was intended to be read satirically, and I failed to make it hit home properly.

Quantess

(27,630 posts)
118. No really, it's so wonderful that fundamentalist muslim culture is horribly misogynistic!
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 11:13 AM
Sep 2015

It's just all made up lies that muslims have a wildly different culture which says that women who don't cover their hair and ankles (and maybe even their faces) are whores who deserve whatever they get!

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
122. Right! It's HATEFUL to say that THEIR hatred and shitty treatment of women is wrong!
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 11:41 AM
Sep 2015

I mean -- they're MEN! of FAITH! How dare we criticize them?!

 

Marr

(20,317 posts)
126. It's almost funny.
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 12:06 PM
Sep 2015

Islam is an issue that modern, mainstream liberal political correctness just cannot seem to get a grip on. On the one hand, there's this kneejerk need to defend the 'other'; the 'outsider'. On the other hand, Islam is an undeniably misogynistic force, and arguably one that promotes or at the very least accepts violence in a way that other faiths do not.

It's as if that tired and pathetic old right-wing line of 'you're the intolerant one because you won't accept my intolerance!' actually works on this topic. You get liberals who are adamantly on the side of gays, women, minorities, etc., and strongly opposed to domestic fundamentalism, lining up to defend fundamentalist, misogynist, anti-gay societies.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
152. Watching the ultra-PC contort themselves into pretzels about this
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 03:11 PM
Sep 2015

is something I find highly amusing. Sam Harris is totally right in this case. Traditional Islam is a very nasty set of beliefs. So is traditional christianity, but the civilizing forces of liberalism and the Enlightenment - which never touched most of the Islamic world - have marginalized a lot of the worst in it, particularly in western Europe, though certainly not all of it.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
18. Its the daily fail, I doubt the situation is as dire as portrayed here. Will there be a culture...
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 07:53 PM
Sep 2015

clash? Absolutely, but level heads on all sides can come to agreement and assimilation policies that a palpable to those who will choose to stay.

DFW

(54,387 posts)
68. You doubt it? Learn fluent German, come live here for a while and doubt no longer
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 04:40 AM
Sep 2015

There are no level heads when people are told to modify their way of life to accommodate people coming in from another culture, who are there because they say their lives are in danger at home. They'll all choose to stay. They didn't book a vacation cruise to get here. But generosity dissipates very rapidly when it is abused.

There is only one agreement, and that is one that will not be reached: that all those who come here learn German and accommodate the German way of life. There is no way a million people a year will all do this. Is the USA prepared to accept four million Muslims a year who don't speak English, and accept only Muslim culture? That is the kind of proportion in play here. Add to that the fact that German has about 85% the land mass of California. Where are we supposed to put these people? Are you people back home prepared to tell young America it can no longer dress how it wants, entertain itself how it wants, have the social life it wants, all because it might offend the sensibilities of 4 million people taken in from another continent and culture? That's a sure way to insure about 30 million new angry Teabagger voters in one very swift blow. The German far right, long dormant, is rubbing its hands in glee at the sudden breath of life this issue is offering them.

Marrah_G

(28,581 posts)
73. Europe is becoming a powder keg again
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 06:45 AM
Sep 2015

I'm pretty sure this will not end peacefully. Heck, we cannot even discuss it here, on a message board an ocean away, without it becoming an argument.

Eventually the refugees will have to assimilate or at least accept the local culture and traditions or it is inevitable that they will be asked to leave.

DFW

(54,387 posts)
78. It was nice while it lasted
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 07:25 AM
Sep 2015

In a way, the collapse of the Soviet Empire was the first step. After the euphoria of Berlin 1989 was over, some in West Germany were joking that Honecker should be given a medal for keep the East Germans out of the West for so long. Their whole mentality needed a big adjustment. And they are Germans! Example--a family from the former east was on vacation in the west, and asked the hotel what time they were to have breakfast. The hotel said that breakfast was served between 7 and 10 in the morning. The Easterners said, yes, OK, but what time was THEIR breakfast. The patient receptionist explained again: between 7 and 10. The Easterners said, yes they got that, but at what time was breakfast for THEM? In East Germany, people on vacation were assigned specific hours when they could have breakfast. The concept that it was up to them when they wanted to have breakfast was completely foreign to them. They thought the receptionist was playing with them, and the receptionist thought he was dealing with functional idiots. And these people all spoke the same language and had no religious issues!

West Germany, a country of roughly 60 million people, absorbed East Germany, a country of just under 20 million people, who spoke the same language, had roughly the same social views on gender-related issues, and had their own land to live on. This land, now with 80 million people, still had less square miles than California, even with a population a quarter the size of the USA.

These people are now being asked to absorb a 1.25% increase in their population (and that's just this year!). The increase consists of people who do not speak the language, for the most part have no job skills, adhere to the Muslim religion, with radically different views on gender issues, and have nowhere to live. The weather here is still relatively good. In 4 months, it will be cold. Up in Sweden, where there is a lot of empty land, it will be brutally cold. It gets on my nerves going up to Sweden in the winter just for a few days, and I see friends, speak Swedish, get to stay in a decent hotel, and have enough to eat. I can't imagine what it would be like to stay in sub-standard housing, have crappy food, speak no Swedish, and be rejected by the locals who have social mores I can't begin to understand.

We're sort of coping for now, as the majority of the migrants are not here yet. In three months or less, things will get ugly, and your prediction is on track to come true--it probably will not end peacefully. You can ask a few thousand to leave. You can't ask a million to leave--where could Germany possibly send them?

flamingdem

(39,313 posts)
135. Do you think Merkel made an error in inviting them?
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 12:43 PM
Sep 2015

Seems like many Germans are welcoming them so it's hard to know what's going on there.

DFW

(54,387 posts)
137. It was done at great haste and she will end up regretting inviting so many of them
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 12:56 PM
Sep 2015

Last edited Mon Sep 28, 2015, 01:57 PM - Edit history (1)

If Obama had invited 3.5 million of these people a year, sent them on the various states and told the governors "deal with it," how do you think that would have gone down? That's pretty much what we're faced with here.

What you see are the headlines Germany wants you to see. And plenty of them, especially the first wave, ARE being welcomed. These was an article in our local paper about five new arrivals. All university educated, some of them Christian, all speaking good English and a couple of them even speaking passable German. All with marketable job skills. What's not to like? THESE people are welcome. Mexicans fluent in English with doctorates in biochemistry are welcome in Texas, too.

It's the coming masses you DON'T see in the headlines that will be the problem. There was one group of young men on the way here, chanting in Arabic how they were going to transform Germany into a Muslim state. How do you think they'll be welcomed, once they get here and proudly make their intentions known?

 

KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
85. I speak German and have family/friends there. Germany is building new apartment blocks.
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 08:44 AM
Sep 2015

Germany is building new apartment blocks and refitting old ones to accommodate an unprecedented wave of refugees -- an expected 800,000 this year, four times last year's figure and many more than in any other European nation. Volunteers are turning out in large numbers to help. As a response to human suffering, this should be a source of national pride.

DFW

(54,387 posts)
130. Noble intentions, cruel reality
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 12:19 PM
Sep 2015

The living space won't be ready in time for the winter, not anywhere near all of it anyway. Quickly thrown together apartments are always in danger of collapse, but maybe we'll get lucky and not see that. But turning half a million Muslim men into tolerant European-minded "gentlemen," THAT is a task that won't be accomplished overnight, even if you put them all up in the Ritz-Carlton and have it catered by Die Vier Jahreszeiten.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
147. Why are you assuming all of them are sharia-minded fundamentalists?
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 02:31 PM
Sep 2015

Seriously, what's with this prejudice?

DFW

(54,387 posts)
153. I'm assuming about half of them are fully convinced their religion is the true one
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 03:15 PM
Sep 2015

I have seen the immigrants of predominantly Muslim countries here in Germany and in Spain, Belgium, France, the Netherlands, etc. I also speak German, Spanish, Catalan, Dutch and French. I live here, visit these countries every month. The people arriving are not ashamed of who they are. They display it with the same pride the locals display for their own culture. However, when one is indigenous and one is foreign, and the foreign one declares itself to be the righteous one and the indigenous one to be inferior, there will be conflict. Just ask any Belgian who "the Swedes" are.

Seriously, what's with this sticking your head in the sand? You think a problem will go away just because you don't need to confront it every day? We do our best. Ask the people at that Belgian Jewish museum or at Charlie Hebdo if our best is always good enough.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
173. So they are acting like everyone else, and that makes them a problem?
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 06:38 PM
Sep 2015

I'm sorry, I live in the middle of little Bosnia, here in the United States, surrounded by mostly Muslims(about 50 thousand of them). Sometimes when I go to the grocery store, I see women in hijabs and even full burqas, sometimes not, and everything in between.

Are there problems, yes, but they are manageable, its a drastically different culture than what we are used here, but we are getting along, more or less. We do have plenty of people who display your attitude, but they live in the exurbs, far away from the "problem peoples" they don't like.

Integration should be the goal, not necessarily assimilation. What do you want? For them to convert to Christianity first or something?

DFW

(54,387 posts)
176. Acting like everyone else WHERE? Not here in Western Europe. In Syria, maybe.
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 06:59 PM
Sep 2015

I am no friend of any religion. I'm with Maher and Lenin on that theme.

These people are uprooted from their home by necessity, not by choice. They had no intention of joining a western society nor adopting its ways. All they wanted was to survive. But they have been plopped down in a society which they neither know nor understand nor respect. They know the society they came from, which is fine back there, but not here in Germany. Try to tell 1 million people that they can stay Muslim but must respect that the place they live in considers the way they treat women at home to be criminal, and they don't get it. How could they? That's when the trouble starts. This is not "Little Bosnia" or even "Little Kosovo." This is more like "Little Syria," and if you think that is the same as a million European Muslims moving across the street, you've never been here. We have a few people who display your attitude here too. "Take these people, house and feed them. It'll be just fine."

Until it isn't, but they leave that part out.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
181. You seem to know an awful lot about what's in the minds of the Syrian refugees.
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 07:32 PM
Sep 2015

Are they all just evil people who are invading your country to take advantage of your generous social services?

They are, in your words, people who will never respect your culture, are uneducated, all of them, and will commit crimes, rather than adapt to their circumstances.

If all that's true, what should be done with them?

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
183. I was curious, so I looked it up...
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 08:00 PM
Sep 2015

Since you keep pointing out the misogyny in Syria as one of the points where they will never compromise, well, they did, in their own country.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women_in_Syria

I mean, obviously, since the civil war, things have gotten a whole lot worse for women, and even before that, it wasn't ideal, far from it, but Syria isn't Saudi Arabia. Also, bear in mind that many of the refugees are fleeing Islamic extremism, some, I don't doubt, are fundamentalists or extremists themselves, but I'm sure many others are far from that. Hell, some aren't even Muslim, shocker, I know.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
191. I predict that this is going to create a massive problem down the line.
Tue Sep 29, 2015, 12:20 PM
Sep 2015

I just can't see this working out harmoniously for all parties involved. It is a train wreck waiting to happen.

cheapdate

(3,811 posts)
27. The Daily Mail reports that immigrants are rapists and a school principle
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 09:06 PM
Sep 2015

asked a female student to dress more modestly.

 

davidn3600

(6,342 posts)
31. Yeah but it's women's groups and social workers making the rape claims, not right-wingers
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 09:21 PM
Sep 2015

Should the media ignore it?

cheapdate

(3,811 posts)
34. No, they shouldn't.
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 09:31 PM
Sep 2015

And law enforcement should do whatever is within their power to apprehend and prosecute the guilty.

flamingdem

(39,313 posts)
40. Fairly insightful reporting in Luton, England on Muslim extremism - this includes a protest
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 10:00 PM
Sep 2015

and around Minute 10 you'll see a woman attack the reporter for being underdressed - as in not wearing full coverage! Looks at the right wingers in the area as well.

Binkie The Clown

(7,911 posts)
43. Many conservatives believe that tax cuts for the wealthy will create jobs
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 11:00 PM
Sep 2015

even though the evidence says they're wrong.

Many liberals believe that everybody will sit down with you and sing kuymbaya if you're nice to them, even though the evidence says they're wrong.

We believe whatever it is that we want to be true.

Conservatives who keep believing tax cuts will fix the economy have their heads in the sand.

Liberals who believe that radical Islam is not a dire threat to us have their heads in the sand.

I'm a liberal, maybe even extremely liberal, but I refuse to believe any fantasies that are contradicted by facts just because I wish they were true.

flamingdem

(39,313 posts)
45. It's past liberal vs conservative when the numbers keep growing
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 11:32 PM
Sep 2015

and this is seen at the US border with the children of Central America. If anyone deserves a break due to US intervention it's them - but one million have been prevented from entering and that's just at the Mexican border not the US border.

Sheer numbers, and no way to fund them - no one looks good when it gets that bad.

Is Merkel a liberal? I think she may have erred in inviting people to settle in Germany without being very careful about the process.

Donald Ian Rankin

(13,598 posts)
67. Who do you mean by "us"?
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 04:09 AM
Sep 2015

If you mean "people in the West", then no, Islam, radical or otherwise, is absolutely not a dire threat to us (although admittedly not through want of trying).

If you mean people in Islamic-majority or near-majority countries then you are right, but you should probably make that clearer.

Erich Bloodaxe BSN

(14,733 posts)
80. Existential? Possibly not. Dire? yes.
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 08:08 AM
Sep 2015

With a few piddly plane hijackers, they destroyed our economy for decades and eroded our civil liberties, albeit largely because it was already a wobbly house of cards, and we had fools in office. But we always have fools in office, and often they're in control, so we continue to be a soft target for terrorist acts that result in fascistic overreactions by our plutocratic overlords.

pampango

(24,692 posts)
75. The vast majority of human beings from Syria (or Mexico or the US or Germany or anywhere) are good
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 06:51 AM
Sep 2015

people who will try to live a good life. That is why liberals are historically pro-refugee and pro-immigrant. Conservatives always seem to be anti-immigrant and now anti-refugee because they do not believe the essential goodness of the most people entering a country.

Are there some 'bad apples' in the 'barrel' of refugees? Sure. Just like there are among a host of whites, Blacks, Hispanics or any other large group. We make and enforce laws to deal with the 'bad apples' in any group rather than treating the entire group as bad people.

Liberals who believe that radical Islam is not a dire threat to us have their heads in the sand.

How about this? Liberals who believe that radical religion is not a dire threat to us have their heads in the sand. Liberal societies have to be vigilant about radical, fundamentalist religions of all persuasions. To remain 'liberal' a society has to ensure that secular society makes and enforces the laws and not 'radical' religious groups.

Conservatives thrive on the belief that "radical Islam" (THEM) is a "dire threat to us" (US). Every anti-refugee and anti-immigrant group seems to single out Muslims today. In the 19th century those same types of groups focused on Catholic immigrants and for much the same reasons: foreign religion that is anti-democratic, unable to assimilate, 'strange' customs and religious practices, etc.

Binkie The Clown

(7,911 posts)
140. You got that right!
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 01:04 PM
Sep 2015

Even if I believed that "god" created the world (which I don't), I'd have to believe that the devil created religion. "By their works you shall know them." Well the works of religion, viewed over the long run, have never been anything but a bad influence on humanity.

dilby

(2,273 posts)
41. It's terrible that there are rapists in refugee camps, however I would argue they
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 10:00 PM
Sep 2015

Are the exception and not the norm. I am pretty sure there are German men rapping women as well, this is an issue with men and we should not assume it's just because they are refugees.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
54. Here's a bowl of 100 M&M's. One has cyanide in it.
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 02:36 AM
Sep 2015

Want an M&M? Cyanide is the exception, you know?

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
71. This is running dangerously close to #notallmigrants
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 05:51 AM
Sep 2015

I mean, first off, we have no idea if the actual rapist there is a migrant, a native German, or something else (IIRC there have been no arrests). Lang's M seems appropriate to keep in mind.

What I think about this ultimately isn't important, though; the issue is that Germany is set to take on 1% of its current population in migrants this year alone. And I specifically say "migrant" because there's no real talk right now of anybody going back to where they came from. Suddeutsche Zeitung has interviewed several and either by chance or decision all were originally from Syria but had fled to either the Gulf or Turkey and from there sought to reach the EU and said explicitly it's because they can't find jobs in the country they fled from Syria too. Now, like I said that could very well be an editorial choice or just some bad luck, but then again SZ is not exactly a hack rag or anything. We've already seen the Schengen rules suspended between Austria and Hungary, and now Germany and Austria; this is a huge development that could bode a lot of things.





pampango

(24,692 posts)
117. In the M&M analogy it was 99 good ones and 1 bad one. So 1%.
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 11:07 AM
Sep 2015

In reality the vast majority of refugees are good people since the vast majority of people in general are good.

I would not want to punish any group for the sins of a few.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
116. I'd rather not
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 10:58 AM
Sep 2015

I'd remind you I live in the developing world and do a shit ton of work with trying to get refugees settled somewhere.

As I said below we have a rape case, but absolutely no evidence whether the rapist was a migrant, a native German, or someone else.

Skittles

(153,160 posts)
46. honestly, when I read it
Sun Sep 27, 2015, 11:32 PM
Sep 2015

that is the first thing I thought - it sounds like something you throw out to get the hatred flowing.....I doubt people experiencing this kind of trauma are going around making demands

still, there is no denying the extreme misogyny in their homeland

 

philosslayer

(3,076 posts)
48. Thank you
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 01:02 AM
Sep 2015

And reading this thread has been a bit depressing. Amazing how some Progressives are reacting to unsubstantiated propaganda.

cheapdate

(3,811 posts)
52. I'm a bit shocked with the responses here.
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 01:31 AM
Sep 2015

All this hardline bullshit. ("Damn Straight!" "Abso-fucking-lutely!" "Amen!&quot There was a controversy in my hometown over the local mosque when they sought approval from the planning commission to build a new center. The brouhaha went on for two years, went to federal court (which upheld the civil liberties of the Muslim Americans.) A documentary was made, etc. etc.

Anyway, the comments here are very familiar to me, I'm just surprised to see essentially the same sentiments here as the ones that emerged from some of my neighbors back home.

cheapdate

(3,811 posts)
127. Murfreesboro.
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 12:13 PM
Sep 2015

I was pleasantly surprised by the reasonableness of the Planning Commission members, Republican County Mayor Burgess, and the extensive support of the citizens of Rutherford County. I made some good friends as a result.

Response to philosslayer (Reply #48)

Duppers

(28,120 posts)
62. Are you of the Islam faith? Or Muslim?
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 03:22 AM
Sep 2015

Do you know any conservative Muslim men really well? I do. Some are reasonable but others are the most misogynistic entitlement creeps I've ever known.


 

Comrade Grumpy

(13,184 posts)
49. Wow, seems like a lot of nativist, anti-immigrant hysteria in this thread.
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 01:10 AM
Sep 2015

Based on a report from the sensationalist right-wing tabloid the Daily Mail.

A girl got raped. No mention of by whom.

Conditions could be ugly in refugee camps. Really?

Some local officials tried to be culturally sensitive.

The Daily Mail is trying to whip up Islamophobic, anti-immigrant hysteria. And many are buying.

a la izquierda

(11,795 posts)
53. Right?
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 01:39 AM
Sep 2015

Thought I took a wrong turn somewhere.

Similar things have been said about Mexicans. It's unsubstantiated, racist BS.

JI7

(89,250 posts)
50. while there are issues, a lot of this is exaggerated BS , women in Syria are not forced to Cover up
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 01:14 AM
Sep 2015

by state.

it's mostly saudi arabia and iran which have the strict rules on covering up. but i know a lot of people who have immigrated from iran and they have no issue with women wearing less clothing.

this reminds me of all the crap about the zones where non muslims aren't allowed.

Sunlei

(22,651 posts)
51. Lot of culture shock at first. These are refugees, some may come from Germany to America soon.
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 01:25 AM
Sep 2015

They will have to sort people out through the Embassies.

Some may be ex.-IS fighters, I read many are trying to leave/flee from that life.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
56. THANK GOD. WE MUST RESPECT ALL DERPLY HERLD RELERGERS BERLERFS.
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 02:38 AM
Sep 2015

Anyway, everyone should cover up. Always.

Sex is bad, remember?

LeftishBrit

(41,205 posts)
63. The Daily Mail should NOT be trusted on anything, especially anything to do with immigration
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 03:23 AM
Sep 2015

Something like this may have happened; but the Daily Mail will always select and adapt any news to demonize immigrants. Nowadays, especially Muslim immigrants, but they will demonize any immigrants!

They also demonize benefit claimants, single mothers, anyone on the left and often even moderate Conservatives, and anything that happened since the 1950s except for Margaret Thatcher. And in another context, they would probably have applauded the headteacher's letter, as several of their columnists also hate feminism, secularism, any form of social liberalism, and have been known to blame 'teenage Lolitas' for being sexually abused.

 

branford

(4,462 posts)
65. For those complaining about the obvious because the OP cited the Daily Mail,
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 03:34 AM
Sep 2015

here are other sources, including in the original German,

http://www.thelocal.de/20150626/refugee-school-calls-for-uniform-modesty

http://www.welt.de/vermischtes/article143128131/Miniroecke-koennten-zu-Missverstaendnissen-fuehren.html

http://www.pnp.de/region_und_lokal/stadt_und_landkreis_passau/pocking_bad_fuessing_bad_griesbach/1724472_Pocking-Rechte-nutzen-Elternbrief-fuer-Auslaenderhetze.html

The reasons why sources like the Daily Mail are reporting these issues, while more liberal sources are not, is obvious. Just like in the USA, the political ideologies of various media determine what stories to cover, and given that issues like that in the OP justify and support the right-wing in Europe, you'll rarely read them in liberal press like the Guardian.

However, as thousands, hundreds of thousands, and possibly millions more migrants, many of whom are not actually refugees from Syria (as detailed in numerous sources across the political spectrum), continue to flood into Europe, these types of stories will increase in frequency and will not be able to be ignored from even the preferred European news sources on DU.

sibelian

(7,804 posts)
131. Thank you, branford.
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 12:20 PM
Sep 2015

The time has come to completely disentangle the problems of hatred of the West, hatred of the Middle East, misogyny, Islamophobia and, I suppose, migraphobia in general.

This can't really be done when people aren't really willing to agree what they actually mean by any of these terms by establishing a common set of behaviours that can be confidently identified.

It's becoming almost impossible to adhere to the assumption that there is any good faith attempt on any side in these discussions to reach even that shared understanding.

DetlefK

(16,423 posts)
69. As a German, I say FUCK THEIR CULTURE!!!
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 04:57 AM
Sep 2015

You want to live in Germany? Fine.

You leave that Sunni-Shia shit at the door. If you got a problem with that, you can leave right-away or expect to go to jail for that shit.

You treat women as equals, as per german culture. If you got a problem with that, you can leave right-away or expect to go to jail for that shit.

German women will not start covering up to adapt to your culture. In Germany, women wear whatever THEY want. You will adapt to GERMAN culture. If you got a problem with that, you can leave right-away.





--------------------------------------------

This will not end well. This will definitely not end well.

They won't integrate. They won't. They will stay among themselves and form parallel societies. I expect many, many, many, many more cases of honor-killings when a muslim woman tries to live by german culture instead of their parallel culture.

Quantess

(27,630 posts)
76. I also live in europe, and I agree with you.
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 07:02 AM
Sep 2015

This is looking bad and it's only going to get worse.

Erich Bloodaxe BSN

(14,733 posts)
79. Doing otherwise
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 08:04 AM
Sep 2015

gives tacit acceptance to the notion that women dressing in 'scanty' (ie, not fully covered) outfits are 'asking for it'.

'Covering up' might result in fewer attacks, but it is a societal subservience to the cultural dictates of those who are not even citizens. What country in the world really allows non-citizens to dictate what citizens are able to do?

DetlefK

(16,423 posts)
81. I find the reasoning very weird.
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 08:31 AM
Sep 2015

Men are better than women. But women should cover up because men turn into animals if they see a woman.

Not kidding, that's what a muslim educator (forgot which country) said to defend gender-segregated schools. "These boys have never learned how to behave around girls, that's why we have to keep our young men separated from young women."

 

KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
88. Well, DU'er falling for this this anti-immigrant rightwing garbage don't sound very savvy
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 08:48 AM
Sep 2015

Any incident, blown out of proportion, is enough to get some DU'ers anti-Muslim juices flowing.

 

KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
100. OK, except for one local incident that is being exaggerated, who is saying Syrian culture
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 10:07 AM
Sep 2015

should be accommodated? Hmmm?

Furthermore, the majority of Syrian refugees are MODERATES.

DetlefK

(16,423 posts)
105. You wanna talk about MY anti-Muslim juices?
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 10:16 AM
Sep 2015

(article in german)
http://www.welt.de/politik/deutschland/article146090865/Arabisch-gepraegter-Islam-wird-kuenftig-sichtbarer.html

- The head of the "Zentralrat der Muslime in Deutschland" ("Central Council of Muslims in Germany&quot mentioned in an interview how important it is for the muslim volunteers involved in helping the refugees to show them that it's possible to be german and muslim at the same time. (Many german Muslims know some High Arabic, which in turn most refugees understand.)

- He demanded that the german government step up integration-programs to give the refugees German-courses and civics-classes to explain to them the values of the german constitution. Especially, he emphasized, the refugees have to learn quickly what life in Germany is like: How to buy a bus-ticket, how to send your kids to school, what a constitutional state with freedom of religion is, or that a respectful contact with unbelievers is considered normal. Or the german stance on liberalism and homosexuality.
(e.g. Germany has gay-marriage and religion is a personal business that does not belong in the public sphere. You will never hear german politicians talk about how much they love the Bible, because it would just be weird.)

- An example he mentioned: When a Syrian hears "Shurta" (syrian for "police&quot he immediately associates the Gestapo-like police of Assad with that. They have to learn that german law-enforcement is different from syrian law-enforcement.

- He continued, that the refugees must learn to leave the conflicts of their home-countries behind, or they will never find a new home in Germany.

 

KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
82. The Daily Mail is a rightwing rag. The Far Right in Europe is actively using the refugees to stoke
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 08:34 AM
Sep 2015

fear and paranoia.

I question the legitimacy of the article's information.

Quantess

(27,630 posts)
90. You just don't want to believe it.
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 09:28 AM
Sep 2015

It isn't only RW rags reporting events such as these (and this is far from the only event). I live in Sweden and it's really not a pretty situation, for anyone. The article feels like reality to me.

 

KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
98. Apparently you WANT to believe. What was "reported" were 2 local incidents blown out of proportion.
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 10:05 AM
Sep 2015

The incidents were local stories, exaggerated and as far as the rape… there is no indication who was actually involved.

And Sweden has its share of far-right agitators sympathizers. You shouldn't fall for their half-truths, exaggerations and lies.

Quantess

(27,630 posts)
107. Our media is not like the US's
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 10:20 AM
Sep 2015

I read mostly the standard left-of-center widespread newspapers that are overwhelmingly pro-immigration, but even they can't edit out all the bad news.

One aspect that is being overlooked, is that different immigrant populations from the middle east are bringing their fights here. I have a co-worker, a christian immigrant from Syria, who is very upset about the influx of Syrian muslims. They fight amongst themselves, here in Sweden, now. Plus we don't have much of a police or military force to deal with the problems.

flamingdem

(39,313 posts)
120. Interesting insights Quantess
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 11:33 AM
Sep 2015

and it made me think of the huge drug war problem in Costa Rica - the cartels know that Costa Rica doesn't have an army and now it's the favored shipping point.

I had no idea that Sweden was being impacted so much by ME immigration.

sibelian

(7,804 posts)
132. Well, hm.
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 12:22 PM
Sep 2015

What we're talking about is the freedom of German women to benefit from the rights afforded them by the efforts of their feminist ancestors.

I don't really see how that's a right wing position.

Turborama

(22,109 posts)
185. Might be what you're talking about.
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 08:50 PM
Sep 2015

But there are a lot of other comments here too, and many of them have gone in a direction that does very much look like what can be found under DM articles.

sibelian

(7,804 posts)
189. OK....I guess that is an observation I shall not venture to deny...
Tue Sep 29, 2015, 08:42 AM
Sep 2015

One might hope also that SOME of these migrants are ordinary people running away from horrible circumstances...

This is one of those discussions I always end up hanging my head in despair at. If we examine it only in terms of identity and culture clash it becomes a "good guys v good guys" kinda story.

It's one of the reasons I have problems with identity politics, which is constantly lurching into that kind of territory and generating vast amounts of mess.

alarimer

(16,245 posts)
103. You cannot trust the Daily Fail.
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 10:12 AM
Sep 2015

This is sure some inflammatory bullshit. Criminals will be prosecuted, I'm sure, regardless of their immigration status. And refugee camps are always somewhat dangerous, no matter where they are or who is in them.

gordianot

(15,238 posts)
109. Wait until the climate refugees become reality it will make these war refugees a walk in the park.
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 10:32 AM
Sep 2015

Unable to deal with religious conflict, this is what awaits, when even the questionable rumors of cultural clashes are not true.

Get more millions of starved refugees as land is flooded, economies infrastructure collapse, water dries up, and weather disasters make life impossible, the good old days of war refugees will be nostalgic.

When humans move around they carry their baggage not all of it is physical.

rollin74

(1,974 posts)
110. disgusting
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 10:36 AM
Sep 2015

they should either assimilate or go back

no one should have to change their ways to accommodate religious lunatics

 

Texas Blues

(55 posts)
115. Why can't we just get along?
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 10:57 AM
Sep 2015

Please don't argue about this. The migrants have every right to enter Germany and that includes bringing their culture with them. As Westernerers we have to adapt, otherwise we are no better than the racists we deplore.

Please think about this: Substitute Texas for Germany, arabs for Latinos. If you use the same argument, you would be no better than Ted Cruz. So please let's just get alone.

flamingdem

(39,313 posts)
121. One million Central American children have been stopped at the border
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 11:37 AM
Sep 2015

Do they have the right to continue entering the US?

No one seems to be advocating for them. Did you ever hear about the classroom sizes in Southern California? It's a numbers problem that is getting in the way of human rights.

 

philosslayer

(3,076 posts)
133. You're absolutely right
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 12:23 PM
Sep 2015

Cultures evolve as new people enter. Putting up a hand to new immigrants and saying "assimilate or else" instead of seeking to find what we can learn from THEIR culture is nativism at is worse. Astounding to see how many here are vehemently defending that mindset.

Quantess

(27,630 posts)
148. Hello, this is a shitty culture to be imported to europe!
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 02:34 PM
Sep 2015

Apparently you approve of extreme misogynism, religious fundamentalism, and the violence that is all too common in the middle east.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
175. Most of us oppose all of that too, we are also nuanced enough to know to not stain all the refugees.
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 06:49 PM
Sep 2015

with prejudice based on the actions of a few, and the actions of those that a lot of people people are fleeing from.

Quantess

(27,630 posts)
142. I wish the USA would take in a larger share of the muslim asylum seekers!
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 01:42 PM
Sep 2015

And actually, no, it actually isn't the exact same for asylum seekers in each country. Some countries have far more generous welfare packages than other countries. You can guess for yourself whether Sweden and Germany have more generous welfare benefits to asylum seekers than the USA does.

Please take in more asylum seekers, USA!

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
119. It's time that this planet moved beyond the idiotic, primitive, paternalistic Abrahamic mythologies.
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 11:30 AM
Sep 2015

People need to abandon their fundamentalism and "faith" in absolute nonsense that provides cover for treating women and gay people like shit.

Township75

(3,535 posts)
179. You think giving up religion is going to change how they treat women and gays?
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 07:20 PM
Sep 2015

Take a look at how women and gays are treated in athiest countries like Russia, the Ukraine, China, etc.

This is cultural.

bklyncowgirl

(7,960 posts)
124. Welcome to Germany (or France, Canada, UK or US)
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 11:47 AM
Sep 2015

You are a guest in our country.

You are required to respect our laws and customs.

Do not expect us to change our laws and customs to accommodate your beliefs.

You may practice your religion freely but if your religious beliefs and practices conflict with our laws, you are required to follow the law.

Any violation of our laws will result in a stay in one of our many fine penal institutions followed by your being sent back to the hellhole from which you came.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
129. France needs to make a statue with that engraving on the pedestal.
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 12:19 PM
Sep 2015

[hr][font color="blue"][center]I'm always right. When I'm wrong I admit it.
So then I'm right about being wrong.
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LeftishBrit

(41,205 posts)
141. Fine. Agree with that... but not with pre-emptively punishing people before they've broken the law
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 01:16 PM
Sep 2015

Some of the comments on this thread remind me of the White Queen's 'justice' in Alice in Wonderland, letting the punishment precede the crime.



bklyncowgirl

(7,960 posts)
146. I do think that all of these people should undergo some sort of "Welcome" training.
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 02:27 PM
Sep 2015

This would help to prevent misunderstandings among well meaning people who may not understand the norms of western society and give a stern warning to people who may not be so well meaning. This would include what the rights of women and girls including their wives and daughters will be in their new country.

If you do not like the laws and customs in your host country find a country that is more compatible with your cultural values or go back from whence you came.

MosheFeingold

(3,051 posts)
172. Concur
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 06:20 PM
Sep 2015

My family was observantly Jewish and my my mom packed me a kosher lunch every day for school. We did not demand special meals.

When Jewish holidays came up, they were normal school days. We had to scramble and do double-work and take tests early.

At work, my father would make sure he would work Christmas and Easter so Christians could have their family time.

In short, we were courteous and respectful to the people that were kind enough to save our lives as our homes were destroyed.

I am not anti-immigrant, but this is just nonsense.

 

davidn3600

(6,342 posts)
139. Yeah, that's why I made an entire thread on the topic and bolded those parts
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 01:03 PM
Sep 2015

You got several DUers on this thread saying the rapes are no big deal. Yet you try to twist the thread in order to attack me. Typical.

 

davidn3600

(6,342 posts)
156. burka-hysteria?
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 03:21 PM
Sep 2015

I'm not even quite sure what that's supposed to mean coming from someone who claims to be a feminist. Isn't feminism supposed to fight against burkas? I make a thread about how women are raped and unsafe in these refugee camps and how a school tells girls to cover up... and all you do is attack me?

I am assuming you are one of those that think Islam should be immune to criticism for some strange reason. I'll remember to call you out on this the next time you bash Christianity's treatment of women. Neither one of these religions should be immune to scrutiny.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
184. You're planning to call me out on your foolish assumptions of me? I'm shocked!
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 08:41 PM
Sep 2015

But thanks for the heads up, lol.

reorg

(3,317 posts)
145. 10000 refugees in Gießen, 15 alleged cases of abuse
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 02:26 PM
Sep 2015

since January, which is presumably the precursor of total chaos in the FRG, what else!

And the miniskirt warning by a school principal in Bavaria, thrown in here for good measure by the newspaper, although it took place already in June - yes, some school principals in Bavaria are idiots. Never had an original thought in their lives, and when they try, it goes awry ...

reorg

(3,317 posts)
159. Why would you assume that there are cases going unreported?
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 03:45 PM
Sep 2015

The number 15 was reported in 'Bild Zeitung', a right-wing mass-circulation gossip rag that couldn't hold back a good slander against foreigners even if they wanted to.

The Ministry of the Interior in Hesse (the German state where Gießen is located) says in Gießen there were only FOUR known cases of alleged abuse since January where the suspect was a refugee.

Statewide (Hesse has some 10 million inhabitants) a "low double-digits number" of cases has been reported since January where "the suspect OR the victim" was an asylum seeker.

Source: FAZ, September 27
http://www.faz.net/aktuell/rhein-main/fluechtlingsunterkunft-giessen-berichte-ueber-missbrauch-13826814.html

 

B2G

(9,766 posts)
160. Because rape is THE most underreported crime out there
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 03:52 PM
Sep 2015

And if you factor in a population that is trying to gain asylum and not draw negative attention to themselves, coupled with coming from male-dominated societies where abuse of women and children is the norm, you can probably multiply that statistic by a significant factor.

reorg

(3,317 posts)
169. That's a lot of assumptions
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 04:54 PM
Sep 2015

and has little to do with the fake news in question. It vaguely mentions 'abuse', it's not about rape per se.

The largest single group among those currently seeking asylum in Germany is from Kosovo, BTW. Their asylum requests are all fake. The economic situation in their home country is apparently as miserable as it ever was, our helpful bombings notwithstanding, and therefore they come to Germany for a few months until they get sent back, just to milk the German taxpayers for a few thousand euros. You might find quite a few common criminals and possibly wife-beaters among them. No doubt the same is true for a number of 'refugees' from African and Asian countries. Notably, many alleged refugees from Syria have arrived without a passport and from what I heard some of them look suspiciously African rather than Arabic ...

So you have about 10,000 so-called and real refugees combined in one place, where the average stay is about four weeks until they get sent to another place. What do you think would be the 'normal' number of abuse incidents to be expected in 9 months? Four reported cases seems surprisingly little to me, regardless of 'cultural' background.

 

B2G

(9,766 posts)
171. They are turning around the Kosovos very quickly
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 06:07 PM
Sep 2015

They aren't even making it to the refugee camps.

Try again.

reorg

(3,317 posts)
178. That's just not true
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 07:13 PM
Sep 2015

Only 0.2 percent of all asylum seekers from Kosovo are accepted, but the others can stay for quite a while. Not only as long as the legal procedure is ongoing (several months, sometimes years) but even when asylum is refused, they can stay and still receive their monthly stipend.

Here is the official statistics (in German, lower pie chart on page seven), total number of asylum seekers between January 1 and August 31, 2015 according to country of origin:

Kosovo: 30,720
Albania: 37,669
Serbia: 13,096
Macedonia: 6,447
Syria (allegedly, but many without passports): 52,892
...

https://www.bamf.de/SharedDocs/Anlagen/DE/Downloads/Infothek/Statistik/Asyl/statistik-anlage-teil-4-aktuelle-zahlen-zu-asyl.pdf?__blob=publicationFile

According to this ARD news article, about 9000 asylum seekers from Kosovo were refused in the first quarter of 2015. Yet only 304 of those refused asylum seekers were actually sent back - despite the promise by the Bundesländer (states) to act promptly. Of the 41,044 asylum seekers that were refused in 2014, 62.6 percent were still in Germany on February 28, 2015.

(in German): Abgelehnt, aber nicht abgeschoben (Refused, but not expelled)
August 18, 2015
https://www.tagesschau.de/inland/fluechtlinge-zahlen-103.html

Waiting For Everyman

(9,385 posts)
149. I have always thought this open borders, free trade crap is insane.
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 02:46 PM
Sep 2015

The left is just as looney about its globalism fairy tale as the right is about its trickle down economics.

But it will just have to get bad enough for people to be forced to admit that, because they just won't listen to common sense.

Masses of migrant people simply cannot be floating around the globe crashing into wherever. If something needs to be done where they're coming from, then do that, but this is not a solution.

And btw, contrary to what I saw mentioned above, no one has a "right" to enter any given country.

Xithras

(16,191 posts)
170. Nearly 40% of Germans are full or partial nudists.
Mon Sep 28, 2015, 05:04 PM
Sep 2015

Germany has a very long and storied history with nudism stretching back to the 1800's. Nearly 40% of the country acknowledges going fully or partially nude on occasion, 15% goes fully nude in public regularly, and the portion of the population that DOESN'T go nude overwhelmingly sees it as socially acceptable.

Telling Germans that they need to cover up to avoid "offending" migrants isn't going to go over well. Telling German women that they need to cover up to avoid being raped is political suicide. The Nazi's tried...and failed...to ban public nudism for "moral" reasons. The communists attempted to ban it in East Germany without any luck. I don't see the Germans suddenly embracing modesty to avoid offending migrants.

Remember, Germany is the same nation where a grocery chain recently offered free groceries at a stores grand opening to the first 100 shoppers who showed up naked. They expected a few dozen, and HUNDREDS showed up. If the migrants have a problem living in a society that allows women and men to wear "revealing" clothing, they're REALLY going to dislike Germany.

WestSeattle2

(1,730 posts)
195. If they're so offended, then perhaps they need to find shelter
Tue Sep 29, 2015, 01:41 PM
Sep 2015

and safety elsewhere. Absolutely no need for locals to change ANYTHING to appease immigrant sensibilities.

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