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Brickbat

(19,339 posts)
Tue Oct 13, 2015, 10:53 AM Oct 2015

'When are you going to use the steel ball?': The First Legal Abortion Providers Tell Their Stories

http://nymag.com/thecut/2015/10/first-legal-abortionists-tell-their-stories.html


Pretty recently I had this young woman, 15 maybe, and we did the procedure. I said, ‘Your uterus is empty, the procedure is over. I have to go check to make sure we got everything,’ and I left the room to examine the tissue. Then I came back and told her, ‘Everything’s fine, your uterus is healthy.’ And she said, ‘So … when are you going to use the steel ball?’ I picked my jaw up off the floor and said, ‘Steel ball?’ She said, ‘Well, I went to the crisis pregnancy center and they told me you’re going to put a steel ball that’s covered with sharp blades into my uterus and twirl it around.’ And this kid still came! I was thinking, How did you ever make yourself walk in the office believing I was going to do that?


“There have been a number of attempts on my life, but I don’t wear a bulletproof vest anymore. They have been very clear in their letters, saying, ‘Don’t bother with the vest, we’ll go right for a head shot.’ That’s what they did with George. You just never know what’s going to happen.”


“Half a dozen years after Roe, I did my training in New York. I did a public-health residency and then became the director of what was then called the Bureau of Maternal Services and Family Planning for New York City’s Health Department. I met all the heads of the ob-gyn and pediatric departments around the city. I once had a conversation with the man who was the head of ob-gyn at Lenox Hill; he was a devout and very conservative Catholic. But he’d seen women die of botched abortions resulting in gas gangrene of the uterus. He told me, ‘Anybody who has ever seen a 13-year-old die like that has to support abortion.’"


“After Roe, I didn’t think about the backlash. We were so busy fixing things and setting up good services. I just want people to realize that it’s not a question of whether abortion is legalized or not, it’s a question of whether women are going to have one that’s medically safe or terribly unsafe. Every society that we know of, there have been abortions. Women are just as desperate not to have children as they are to have children.”


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'When are you going to use the steel ball?': The First Legal Abortion Providers Tell Their Stories (Original Post) Brickbat Oct 2015 OP
Wish I could rec this 100 times. Thank you for posting. CrispyQ Oct 2015 #1
Women will always seek abortions. Always. No matter what. Brickbat Oct 2015 #2
K&R Solly Mack Oct 2015 #3
Kick. Brickbat Oct 2015 #4
K & bookmarked to read whole article later. nt raccoon Oct 2015 #5
Kick. Brickbat Oct 2015 #6
Really important, and why are it's essential to have a Democrat in the White House. yardwork Oct 2015 #7
and we are told that there is NO war on women!! niyad Oct 2015 #8
Kick, kick, kick! Heidi Oct 2015 #9
Women are just as desperate not to have children as they are to have children REP Oct 2015 #10
Well said!!! hamsterjill Oct 2015 #12
K&R demmiblue Oct 2015 #11
Some younger folks are unaware the anti-choice extremists Will kill. And have. Eleanors38 Oct 2015 #13
K&R, see my sig line. People need reminding that the choice is NOT whether or not to get one, but uppityperson Oct 2015 #14

CrispyQ

(36,501 posts)
1. Wish I could rec this 100 times. Thank you for posting.
Tue Oct 13, 2015, 11:14 AM
Oct 2015
“I performed the abortions in the hospital, which was legally mandated at the time. The women were unbelievably relieved that they didn’t have to try find someone who would do it on someone’s kitchen table. . . . Women are just as desperate not to have children as they are to have children."



"Abortion in the U.S. has become a victim of its own success; an entire generation of Americans have grown up without seeing or understanding what the dark days of before Roe were like. Without understanding that history, you can’t fully appreciate what the right to choice means.

“When I was in medical school in North Carolina, I got a page one night to tend to a patient with a 106 degree fever. I assumed that number was made in error. It wasn’t. When I examined her I found a red rubber catheter protruding from her cervix. Another day, I was paged for a young co-ed in septic shock with barely any blood pressure. There was a fetal foot protruding from her cervix. The first had gotten an illegal abortion, the second had tried to do it herself."


"As a medical student in the early '60s, I was regularly taking care of women who were suffering and dying from the complications of illegal abortions. There was a woman who had been turned down for an abortion at a nearby hospital. She went home and shot herself in the uterus and then drove herself back to the hospital."


Women are just as desperate not to have children as they are to have children.

We're not going back there, you hypocritical, fundie, self-righteous, zealot assholes.

Kick & rec.

Brickbat

(19,339 posts)
2. Women will always seek abortions. Always. No matter what.
Tue Oct 13, 2015, 11:21 AM
Oct 2015

Some people want to make women suffer when they get abortions, no doubt about it.

yardwork

(61,698 posts)
7. Really important, and why are it's essential to have a Democrat in the White House.
Tue Oct 13, 2015, 06:16 PM
Oct 2015

People who think there is no difference should read these reports.

REP

(21,691 posts)
10. Women are just as desperate not to have children as they are to have children
Wed Oct 14, 2015, 12:50 PM
Oct 2015

That's the thing all the handwringers saying, "oh I hate abortion ..." just don't get. For some women, there's nothing, just nothing, that would make this the right time to have a(nother) child. Not more money. Not more support. Not a partner. Nothing. Women who want children will do almost anything to have those children. Women who do not want to be pregnant will do almost anything to stop being pregnant. Let's make sure that "anything" is a safe, simple medical procedure, without undue obstacles or any shame.

hamsterjill

(15,223 posts)
12. Well said!!!
Wed Oct 14, 2015, 01:02 PM
Oct 2015

I will never stop fighting for access to safe, legal abortion rights for all women! It is NOT as simple as making it illegal as the Republican crazies want to have everyone think. It's time to take this issue back to a common sense basis.

 

Eleanors38

(18,318 posts)
13. Some younger folks are unaware the anti-choice extremists Will kill. And have.
Wed Oct 14, 2015, 01:08 PM
Oct 2015

Gun-control is not a hot topic at some clinics.

uppityperson

(115,678 posts)
14. K&R, see my sig line. People need reminding that the choice is NOT whether or not to get one, but
Wed Oct 14, 2015, 01:28 PM
Oct 2015

"I just want people to realize that it’s not a question of whether abortion is legalized or not, it’s a question of whether women are going to have one that’s medically safe or terribly unsafe."

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