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While I'm driving can I... (Original Post) packman Nov 2015 OP
I don't know about illegal but it certainly is rude to pass a funeral procession. That is why cars monmouth4 Nov 2015 #1
Practically every car has it's headlights on now. NutmegYankee Nov 2015 #2
Don't know about it being illegal to pass a funeral procession madokie Nov 2015 #3
Speaking of culture shock - almost killed me packman Nov 2015 #5
How utterly moronic jberryhill Nov 2015 #7
Well I agree with you on that madokie Nov 2015 #9
I was with my Great Grandpa in Midwest City and there was a funeral procession going the other way. cherokeeprogressive Nov 2015 #13
That was a long time ago though madokie Nov 2015 #14
A very long time ago indeed. cherokeeprogressive Nov 2015 #15
Same to you madokie Nov 2015 #16
I'd like to understand this.... jberryhill Nov 2015 #6
Funerals are for the living. tazkcmo Nov 2015 #8
So, the living get upset if anyone doesn't treat them as "road kings of the day" jberryhill Nov 2015 #10
You don't have to give a shit tazkcmo Nov 2015 #12
I guess you missed my point jberryhill Nov 2015 #21
It's rude to interrupt the parade Gormy Cuss Nov 2015 #19
My general rule is Don't Fuck With The Dead Guy's Friends. (I've been on both sides of that fight.) Iggo Nov 2015 #20
I once got a ticket in Chicago for cutting in a funeral procession. Hassin Bin Sober Nov 2015 #11
Now, now, now packman Nov 2015 #17
That organization doesn't exist. It's de-funk-ed Hassin Bin Sober Nov 2015 #18
I think it's illegal in many states. NV Whino Nov 2015 #4

monmouth4

(9,708 posts)
1. I don't know about illegal but it certainly is rude to pass a funeral procession. That is why cars
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 12:10 PM
Nov 2015

usually have their headlights on, so you don't make that mistake..

madokie

(51,076 posts)
3. Don't know about it being illegal to pass a funeral procession
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 12:15 PM
Nov 2015

but it sure is assholeree to do so. Shame on whoever is guilty of that

 

packman

(16,296 posts)
5. Speaking of culture shock - almost killed me
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 12:22 PM
Nov 2015

Driving 60+ MPH on a DIVIDED 4 lane highway headed north . Going around a bend and two cars stopped dead on the highway. Thank god or whoever for seat belts and brakes.

The reason - a funeral procession on THE OTHER FRICKIN' side of the highway.

Seems it is a Southern thing to stop regardless of it being a street, a road or a divided highway for a funeral procession. I NEVER passed a funeral procession on my side of the road, but I sure as hell would not stop on a high speed divided highway for one either.

madokie

(51,076 posts)
9. Well I agree with you on that
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 12:36 PM
Nov 2015

on our two lane roads I pull off the road so as not to be rear ended if I'm in a place where I can't be seen for a ways. No way do I stop on a four lane though.
I just did this the other day, me an my golf cart IE mushroom hunting vehicle on a trailer and I meet a funeral procession so I continue until I get to the drive way I see a hundred yards in front of me so I can get both my ass and my trailer off the road.

Around here most times there will be a police car with his light on leading the procession as was the case here

 

cherokeeprogressive

(24,853 posts)
13. I was with my Great Grandpa in Midwest City and there was a funeral procession going the other way.
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 12:44 PM
Nov 2015

He pulled off the road, got out of his pickemup truck, took the Stetson off and placed it over his heart. He stood still as a statue until it passed.

madokie

(51,076 posts)
14. That was a long time ago though
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 12:49 PM
Nov 2015

You don't see that anymore around here. Used to though, Some of the older folks did that.

 

cherokeeprogressive

(24,853 posts)
15. A very long time ago indeed.
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 12:53 PM
Nov 2015

The reason it stuck with me was it was something I'd never seen in CA.

Hope you're enjoying the day!

madokie

(51,076 posts)
16. Same to you
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 01:10 PM
Nov 2015

gotta run right now but later I'll send you a PM to update you on things Locust Grove, family and stuff.

Peace

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
6. I'd like to understand this....
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 12:24 PM
Nov 2015

So, because the typical American post mortem ritual involves having to drive from a funeral home to a cemetery, instead of on-site church burials which used to be the norm, then it has become rude to pass a dead guy in a fancy car, when you could have passed him every morning on your commute when he was alive?

Because, somehow, unknown dead people deserve some sort of "respect" which unknown living people don't?

I guarantee you the guy in the back of the lead car of the procession doesn't give a shit.

tazkcmo

(7,300 posts)
8. Funerals are for the living.
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 12:31 PM
Nov 2015

The dead are in no need of anything but disposal. It's part of the grieving process. I agree, though, in this case stopping was just stupid even if intended to be respectful to those in mourning.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
10. So, the living get upset if anyone doesn't treat them as "road kings of the day"
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 12:38 PM
Nov 2015

I still need help with this.

A loved one of mine dies. We have a service at a funeral home and then a drive to a cemetery.

I'm supposed to give a great shit what traffic does on the way to the cemetery? Why?
 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
21. I guess you missed my point
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 03:05 PM
Nov 2015

Wouldn't it be nice to treat people with respect when they are alive.

Mourning my loved ones just never struck me as an opportunity to get pissed off at people on the road, but I suppose there are those who can't go a day without being upset at how someone else is behaving.

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
19. It's rude to interrupt the parade
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 02:26 PM
Nov 2015

Just as it would be rude to drive through the Macy's parade on Thanksgiving.

Sure, you can be a self-absorbed twit and cut through the middle of it if there's no law against it in your state.

Iggo

(47,558 posts)
20. My general rule is Don't Fuck With The Dead Guy's Friends. (I've been on both sides of that fight.)
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 02:34 PM
Nov 2015

But I definitely share your frustration.

Hassin Bin Sober

(26,330 posts)
11. I once got a ticket in Chicago for cutting in a funeral procession.
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 12:40 PM
Nov 2015

I beat the ticket when I told the judge I didn't see the hearse. It was a mafia funeral. The body was in a trunk.

 

packman

(16,296 posts)
17. Now, now, now
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 02:02 PM
Nov 2015

You know that isn't politically correct - It's comments like that that make people think the Mafia are bad people.




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NV Whino

(20,886 posts)
4. I think it's illegal in many states.
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 12:19 PM
Nov 2015

But, I believe it applies only to a two-lane road. If there are other lanes, it is perfectly okay to pass the funeral procession in the right lane.

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