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TeeYiYi

(8,028 posts)
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 08:44 PM Dec 2015

Where is the grandma?...

I just saw on the CBS Evening News that the grandma hasn't been seen... since the attack?... I don't know if I heard that right.

I thought the baby was left with the grandmother.

Anyone know what that's about?... Did I just imagine what I thought I just heard?...that the grandmother is missing?

TYY

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Where is the grandma?... (Original Post) TeeYiYi Dec 2015 OP
I don't know. Very weird shit. TwilightGardener Dec 2015 #1
In hiding for her life? Glitterati Dec 2015 #2
Grandmother was ddetained and interviewed by the FBI nadinbrzezinski Dec 2015 #3
I'm betting our own government will tuck them safely away Glitterati Dec 2015 #4
I would not be too shocked if that is the end result either nadinbrzezinski Dec 2015 #8
I wonder... TeeYiYi Dec 2015 #6
I got no clue, I am quoting the lawyer as of three hours ago nadinbrzezinski Dec 2015 #9
Hopefully someone from the West Coast ... TeeYiYi Dec 2015 #11
I got the prattle of MSNBC just in the off chance we get another presser nadinbrzezinski Dec 2015 #12
I think I found her, nadin pinboy3niner Dec 2015 #15
Ok, that cinches it, if I want the exclusive thake these two things nadinbrzezinski Dec 2015 #16
!... TeeYiYi Dec 2015 #18
I thought it was weird... TeeYiYi Dec 2015 #17
It was an ethics disaster nadinbrzezinski Dec 2015 #19
Agree that the 'journalists'... TeeYiYi Dec 2015 #21
Me too nadinbrzezinski Dec 2015 #23
Grandma was interrogated for seven hours TexasMommaWithAHat Dec 2015 #5
As well she should have been. bklyncowgirl Dec 2015 #20
Absolutely! TexasMommaWithAHat Dec 2015 #22
I found this about the baby, in protective custody uppityperson Dec 2015 #7
I'm not finding... TeeYiYi Dec 2015 #10
Poor baby. That's sad. The parents hated other people more than they loved her. TwilightGardener Dec 2015 #13
It's sad. It appears that nobody cares about this little infant more than they smirkymonkey Dec 2015 #14
 

Glitterati

(3,182 posts)
2. In hiding for her life?
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 08:47 PM
Dec 2015

Seriously, you don't think some crazed freeper would happily blow her AND THE BABY to bits if they were given the opportunity?

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
3. Grandmother was ddetained and interviewed by the FBI
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 08:47 PM
Dec 2015

baby is in CPS custody and they expect to get her back on Monday, per the family lawyers.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
9. I got no clue, I am quoting the lawyer as of three hours ago
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 09:04 PM
Dec 2015

she might be missing from media... but that would be speculating on my part. Nor would I blame her. She lost a son, a daughter in law, they took the kid, they kept her isolated and if you take the two lawyers version of events was threatened if the two daughters and other son did not come.

TeeYiYi

(8,028 posts)
17. I thought it was weird...
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 09:30 PM
Dec 2015

...that so many of the grandmother's personal effects, like IDs and such, were left out in the open for the media vampires to rifle through while they were ravenously ransacking the apartment.

Seriously, that apartment fiasco was one of the most uncomfortable media moments I've seen since OJ 'fled,' going the speed limit in a white Bronco.

TYY

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
19. It was an ethics disaster
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 09:48 PM
Dec 2015

but not necessarily Illegal. Both CNN and MSNBC have been taken apart over it.

One of the problems is... having been in media scrums, the pressure is there to "scoop" each other. A radio guy, or me, have the time to use editorial discretion. the we need to do it NOW types... at times forget about that, and should have been at the very least on a minute delay.

Me... I think I would have had an issue going in. but I know that legally they were invited by the landlord, which gets into the permissions and rights of tenants vs rights of renters And it was left there by the FBI not to be rifled with, but for her to come home and get her stuff and find it.

They also left a list of stuff they took.

This should be in every journalism class as to the at times something might be legal, but not necessarily ethical. Just because you can, does not mean you should. And I think they are in the clear legally. Hubby thinks it is a tad shadier because of the grandmother. Under CA law, 30 days as resident, even if you are not in the lease... you have the rights of a renter. But if anybody opened a whoop ass of liability is the property owner.

TeeYiYi

(8,028 posts)
21. Agree that the 'journalists'...
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 10:02 PM
Dec 2015

...were caught between an ethical rock and a 'save your job' hard place.

I'm just amazed that MSNBC effectively doxxed the grandmother on live television with shots of her personal items, driver's license and social security card.

Here's the DL with strategically placed blurring:



I'm just seriously wondering WHERE she is and why she hadn't retrieved her personal items before the media vulture, carny sideshow was unleashed... I wonder why CBS Evening News said that she is missing...

I hope she's not really missing; or if she's missing, I hope that it is of her own doing.

TYY

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
23. Me too
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 10:08 PM
Dec 2015

in the recent past we have been covering a lot of renter issues, and slum lords.

Every time before we do an interview, we explain to tenants that there might be consequences, like not renewal of leases. Do no harm. We have had a few people cancel these, sometimes as I am on the freeway on the way, one they reached an agreement with the owner without us showing up.

One we did the story... heartbreaking as hell... but the owner took care of the issues.

So this is why I think this should be in every Journalism 101 class, not even higher level.

TexasMommaWithAHat

(3,212 posts)
5. Grandma was interrogated for seven hours
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 08:49 PM
Dec 2015

according to the family lawyer, and he was upset about that.

Baby is now in social services care, I believe.

bklyncowgirl

(7,960 posts)
20. As well she should have been.
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 09:59 PM
Dec 2015

Unless I have it wrong Grandma was living in the apartment with them. She's for some explaining to so.

TexasMommaWithAHat

(3,212 posts)
22. Absolutely!
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 10:04 PM
Dec 2015

That lawyer seems to be doing nothing for the family. He's certainly not gaining much sympathy for them; in fact, I think he's doing just the opposite.

uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
7. I found this about the baby, in protective custody
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 08:55 PM
Dec 2015
http://www.nbcsandiego.com/news/local/Baby-San-Bernardino-Attacks-Malik-360614331.html
Farook's brother-in-law Farhan Khan told NBC News he hopes to adopt the orphaned baby, who's currently in protective custody.

TeeYiYi

(8,028 posts)
10. I'm not finding...
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 09:04 PM
Dec 2015

...anything about the grandmother. Maybe I heard it wrong. Hopefully someone from the West Coast will watch the CBS Evening News and report back...

TYY

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
14. It's sad. It appears that nobody cares about this little infant more than they
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 09:17 PM
Dec 2015

care about themselves. Some people should just be sterilized.

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