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MoonRiver

(36,926 posts)
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 02:34 PM Dec 2015

How many, or your family members, have served in the military?

I became curious about this while reading how little t-Rump has done for his country. My bet is that more Dems than Repubs have served.

For me it was great grandfather (Union Army, Civil War); paternal uncle (WWI); maternal aunt (WWII); and father and mother (WWII). Dad was in China. Mom and aunt were stateside.

My father was 18 years younger than his brother, which is how they served in both world wars.


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I served.
3 (8%)
One or more in my family and I served.
10 (27%)
Someone in my family served.
1 (3%)
More than one person in my family served.
22 (59%)
No one in my family has ever served.
1 (3%)
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How many, or your family members, have served in the military? (Original Post) MoonRiver Dec 2015 OP
About that... Buzz Clik Dec 2015 #1
Thanks for the clarrification. MoonRiver Dec 2015 #3
Weirdly my grandfathers didn't yeoman6987 Dec 2015 #7
My great grandfather was of the age to fall between WWI and WWII. Never served. Buzz Clik Dec 2015 #8
Mine were born in 1915 and 1912. Maybe they were too old yeoman6987 Dec 2015 #10
Me, my father and my brother. nt hack89 Dec 2015 #2
Myself, my father, sarisataka Dec 2015 #4
I've had family in most wars, Revolutionary (23), Civil War (Union), shraby Dec 2015 #5
Me snpsmom Dec 2015 #6
Someone went back to the Revolutionary War. MoonRiver Dec 2015 #14
I was an Infantry Officer (70s-90s) and kairos12 Dec 2015 #9
My grandpa served... a la izquierda Dec 2015 #11
Grandpa was in WWII, The Big One. KamaAina Dec 2015 #12
Me, my brother, my father and my mother WWII Agnosticsherbet Dec 2015 #13
My dad and uncle were both Marines. sufrommich Dec 2015 #15
Giving them all their due zipplewrath Dec 2015 #16
As far as I know/knew personally, WWII, Korean, Vietnam. closeupready Dec 2015 #17
My father, 3 uncles, and my brother-in-law. SamKnause Dec 2015 #18
My father and brother were in the Navy. trackfan Dec 2015 #19
Other than my developmentally disabled brother and physically unqualified cousins FrodosPet Dec 2015 #20
I served (USN, Ret), dgibby Dec 2015 #21
A few of us. 3catwoman3 Dec 2015 #22
American Revolution to WWII in this country REP Dec 2015 #23
Me, my husband, historylovr Dec 2015 #24
My father, 2 brothers, exhusband. 1 brother killed in Korea. broiles Dec 2015 #25
Just pointing out, the date of immigration to the US of your first US ancestor affects answers to merrily Dec 2015 #26
None in the US military whatthehey Dec 2015 #27
Going back to grandfather about 6. Kingofalldems Dec 2015 #28
Lots in our extended family sdfernando Dec 2015 #29
Many past and current gwheezie Dec 2015 #30
My Father, three uncles.... Delmette Dec 2015 #31
My brother and son- one is Navy and the other is AFNG Marrah_G Dec 2015 #32
My maternal side of the family has been here since the 1750's. Adsos Letter Dec 2015 #33
Very interesting MoonRiver Dec 2015 #38
From the Revolutionary War onward Sherman A1 Dec 2015 #34
Lots... Liberal Jesus Freak Dec 2015 #35
Just since WWII: panader0 Dec 2015 #36
I think I had a cousin who did during Vietnam sakabatou Dec 2015 #37
I was in the Air Force for 21 years. cpwm17 Dec 2015 #39
Grandpa is retired Air Force OriginalGeek Dec 2015 #40
Most of the men. Iggo Dec 2015 #41
Other. Myself and every other male member of my family ... 11 Bravo Dec 2015 #42
My dad, my wife's dad, our grandfathers... hunter Dec 2015 #43
yes, back to the revolutionary war shanti Dec 2015 #44
 

Buzz Clik

(38,437 posts)
1. About that...
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 02:36 PM
Dec 2015

All the males in my generation or older served in the military in some capacity. Some returned missing body parts.

The younger generations are a bit less inclined to serve, but the family remains heavily represented in the military.

(edited post to reflect the update OP)

MoonRiver

(36,926 posts)
3. Thanks for the clarrification.
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 02:37 PM
Dec 2015

It would take a very long poll to include all the variations of this theme.

 

yeoman6987

(14,449 posts)
7. Weirdly my grandfathers didn't
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 02:44 PM
Dec 2015

But my father and uncle did Vietnam. I served and some cousins have served.

 

yeoman6987

(14,449 posts)
10. Mine were born in 1915 and 1912. Maybe they were too old
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 02:47 PM
Dec 2015

Just weird to me when most of my peers grandfathers and even some grandmothers served.

sarisataka

(18,769 posts)
4. Myself, my father,
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 02:41 PM
Dec 2015

father in law, all grandfathers, eleven uncles served and my brother in law is currently serving.

All except my father in law are Democrats

shraby

(21,946 posts)
5. I've had family in most wars, Revolutionary (23), Civil War (Union),
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 02:42 PM
Dec 2015

Grandfather in WWI, Father and his brothers in WWII, Uncle in Korean, Cousins in Iraq 1 and 2 and a Granddaughter in the Marines right now.

I do not advocate the draft. It is not equal across all the country, the poor serve, the rich and people in congress with eligible progeny get deferments.
It never has been equal and never will be. The best thing that happened is the draft was abolished.

snpsmom

(684 posts)
6. Me
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 02:43 PM
Dec 2015

my husband, two of our sons, one of our two daughters, my father, an uncle, five of my husband's uncles; how far back do you want me to go?

MoonRiver

(36,926 posts)
14. Someone went back to the Revolutionary War.
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 02:54 PM
Dec 2015

I guess it depends on how much you know about the family history.

a la izquierda

(11,797 posts)
11. My grandpa served...
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 02:49 PM
Dec 2015

my dad was too young for Vietnam.

A member of every generation of my husband's family has served, in some capacity, going back to the Revolution.

 

KamaAina

(78,249 posts)
12. Grandpa was in WWII, The Big One.
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 02:53 PM
Dec 2015

</archie-bunker> Of course, he taught typing in the Navy. Stateside.

Dad decided to join the reserves so as not to get drafted. That worked great right up until his unit got called up.

Agnosticsherbet

(11,619 posts)
13. Me, my brother, my father and my mother WWII
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 02:53 PM
Dec 2015

four of my uncles (WWII)
Both my grandfather's (WWI) and 14 of the their brother's WWI (1 died)
At least 2 great grandfather's (Civil War).

sufrommich

(22,871 posts)
15. My dad and uncle were both Marines.
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 02:56 PM
Dec 2015

I have 5 cousins and one uncle who were Army. All of them except one cousin are/were democrats.

zipplewrath

(16,646 posts)
16. Giving them all their due
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 03:24 PM
Dec 2015

Father: WWII Army
Uncle: Vietnam Air Force
Brother: Air Force (during a relatively "peaceful" time, only got called up to standby for Grenada)

Honorable mention to my Mother who worked the Manhattan Project along side alot of guys in uniform. She was one of those women who would have jumped at a chance to wear the uniform.

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
17. As far as I know/knew personally, WWII, Korean, Vietnam.
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 03:28 PM
Dec 2015

But since parts of my family go back hundreds of years in the US, it's likely I've got relatives who served in almost every major US war.

More specifically, a sailor in WWII in the Pacific, a pilot in the Korean War, and a marine who earned a purple heart in Vietnam.

trackfan

(3,650 posts)
19. My father and brother were in the Navy.
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 03:30 PM
Dec 2015

I'm a "peace baby" - never had to register for the draft. This only applies to those born between 3/29/1957 and 12/31/1959.

FrodosPet

(5,169 posts)
20. Other than my developmentally disabled brother and physically unqualified cousins
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 03:32 PM
Dec 2015

I and almost all of my close male relatives (father, uncles, grandfather). Fortunately, only one of us were in hot combat. Unfortunately, one of us (my youngest uncle) was in hot combat (Vietnam).

dgibby

(9,474 posts)
21. I served (USN, Ret),
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 04:04 PM
Dec 2015

as did both of my brothers, my dad, my g. grandfathers, etc. I also have 2 g.g. nephews currently on active duty.

3catwoman3

(24,038 posts)
22. A few of us.
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 04:10 PM
Dec 2015

A paternal great grandfather was in the Union army. I have several letters he wrote to his mother while serving, a couple of which mention battles and seeing "the Rebs" across the fields.

My dad and his brother in the Army and Navy respectively during WWII.

My husband - AF Academy grad (class of 68) and 20+ year career as a pilot.

Me, too - 4 years active duty as a pediatric nurse practitioner in the AF nurse corps, and 8 years in the reserves.

My husband's son and his daughter-in-law. Both AF lieutenant colonels. He's a cop, she's a nurse. She outranks him by a few months.

An uncle by marriage to an aunt from my mom's side - career army officer/ buried in Arlington.

REP

(21,691 posts)
23. American Revolution to WWII in this country
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 04:27 PM
Dec 2015

Before coming here, fought for William III and was awarded a silver sword for service at the Battle of Boyne, which his son, my great x 7 grandfather carried with him as a General in the Continental Army.

My uncle was the last member to serve; he was 16 when he became an Army Airforce Navigator in WWII. Even later in life, when he was deep into his mental illness and very right-wing, he was very much anti-war.

historylovr

(1,557 posts)
24. Me, my husband,
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 04:39 PM
Dec 2015

all four of his siblings, my father-in-law (Vietnam), my father, my paternal grandfather, (WWII), his father (Spanish-American War), a paternal second cousin and two maternal uncles, one with Purple Heart and Bronze Star with Valor, plus an uncle by marriage (WWII), a paternal great uncle and paternal great-grand uncle (WWI), paternal 2nd and paternal and maternal 3rd great-grandfathers, and several 3rd great-grand uncles (Civil War, both sides), paternal 2nd great-grandfather (Mexican-American War ), maternal 5th great uncle, paternal 3rd great-grandfather, with Jackson, and maternal 4th great-grandfather (War of 1812), and 13 ancestors who fought in the Revolutionary War, one with the Green Mountain Boys and one with Washington, and there's one French and Indian War veteran as well. Oh, and one of my earliest ancestors in Virginia was a captain in the British Army. Those are the ones I know of.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
26. Just pointing out, the date of immigration to the US of your first US ancestor affects answers to
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 05:17 PM
Dec 2015

questions like this.

If your family came to this continent on the Mayflower, you are likelier to have had more ancestors in the military. If they came ten years ago, not so much. Also not so much if your first US ancestor arrived here after abolition of the draft.

I also tend to have a problem with questions like this because they imply that having had someone serve in the Revolutionary War or the Civil War somehow gives someone today some kind of bragging rights over the rest of us and I don't get that.

Finally, being non-violent, I'm sorry I know of no conscientious objectors in my family.

whatthehey

(3,660 posts)
27. None in the US military
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 05:22 PM
Dec 2015

And I think the closest I have in any military was a great uncle. I'm not entirely sure only the military can be said to have "done anything for the country" however. It's an honorable profession of course, but you do what the leaders tell you to and sometimes that's not genuinely in the best interests of the country.

sdfernando

(4,941 posts)
29. Lots in our extended family
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 05:35 PM
Dec 2015

My Dad in WWII, Korea, Vietnam. Regular Army and went from Private to Colonel during his career. 2 brothers, 1 Army, 1 Marines. So many uncles and cousins, I can can't count them all...but I'd hazard a guess at close to 20...I would have served but I'm gay and they wouldn't take me at the time....now I'm too old.

Delmette

(522 posts)
31. My Father, three uncles....
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 05:45 PM
Dec 2015

All three brothers and at least 5 cousins and my hisband. We start with WWII, VietNam and the first Gulf War.

Adsos Letter

(19,459 posts)
33. My maternal side of the family has been here since the 1750's.
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 05:50 PM
Dec 2015

There were supposedly male relatives who served during the Seven Years War, the Revolution, and War of 1812. The Revolution is the only conflict of that set for which we have any real proof.

As a detour, my dads side had a relative (GGGGG Grandfather who was with Wellington's army at Waterloo.

Had a father/son combo (my GGG and GG Grandfathers) who enlisted in a Minnesota infantry regiment during the winter of 1861/62; the father was wounded and disabled at Vicksburg in 1863, the son served through the end.

Don't know about the Spanish-American War, but represented in WWI, WWII, Korea, Vietnam, and Cold War (me).

All men, no women served.

EDIT: My wife's aunt served as a WAC in WWII. So, at least one woman wore the uniform.

MoonRiver

(36,926 posts)
38. Very interesting
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 06:13 PM
Dec 2015

My mom and her sister both served in WWII. I've always been proud of that, because obviously they didn't have to.

Liberal Jesus Freak

(1,451 posts)
35. Lots...
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 06:06 PM
Dec 2015

My dad, 5 uncles, brother-in-law, a cousin all served; my niece is currently serving in the Army. All democrats except my poor, misguided niece

panader0

(25,816 posts)
36. Just since WWII:
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 06:07 PM
Dec 2015

Father, three uncles, my brother, and two sons (Coast Guard).
Many more before that. As an old hippie, I registered as a conscientious objector. (denied)
I don't want to kill anyone.

 

cpwm17

(3,829 posts)
39. I was in the Air Force for 21 years.
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 06:21 PM
Dec 2015

My brother was in the Marines for 7 years. My father was drafted in the Army for Korea for 2 years. To complete the set, my grandfather was in the Navy before and during WWII.

The majority of the military is Republican. Many come from conservative rural America where job opportunities are more limited.

OriginalGeek

(12,132 posts)
40. Grandpa is retired Air Force
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 06:27 PM
Dec 2015

WWII and Korea. Brother did 8 years in the Army, including the first Gulf war. Other brother was asked politely to leave the Navy not long after boot camp. Not a good fit lol.

11 Bravo

(23,926 posts)
42. Other. Myself and every other male member of my family ...
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 06:48 PM
Dec 2015

(at least on my Dad's side) dating back to the War of 1812. My family had not just service members, but combatants in that war, the Mexican-American War, the Civil War (on both sides), WWI, WWII, Korea, and Vietnam.

In a related-to-the-OP note, I would not piss on Donald Trump if he was fully engulfed in flames in my front yard, and I had just consumed a six-pack of Bud Light.

hunter

(38,326 posts)
43. My dad, my wife's dad, our grandfathers...
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 07:00 PM
Dec 2015

One of my grandpas was an Army Air Force officer in World War II. It must have been some sketchy stuff because he never talked about it. He was later an engineer for the Apollo Project. He'd always talk about that.

My other grandfather was a Conscientious Objector in World War II. The draft board gave him choices: military service, prison, or building Liberty and Victory ships. He built ships. He also got beat up by the police one day protesting the internment of his Japanese neighbors.

My dad and my wife's dad were in the military in non-combatant roles. My wife's dad by pure random chance avoided service in Korea, but he was used as a lab rat in atomic bomb testing, witnessing an atomic explosion up close from a hole in the ground, marching to ground zero past things that were still burning. My dad's an artist, wore thick glasses (until he had cataract surgery) and was an Army clerk. Imagine Radar in MASH, but my dad is taller.

My wife's uncle was killed in Europe in the very last days of World War II and is buried in Arlington Cemetery. His family didn't learn he'd been killed until after they'd celebrated Victory Europe. They'd all thought he was coming home. My wife's grandma never recovered from that.

I flirted a bit with the Navy, they even offered me a civilian job in Europe at one point (because my various health problems prevented regular service) but the pacifist tradition of my mom's family asserted themselves, and I eventually declined. Or maybe I'm just crazy.


shanti

(21,675 posts)
44. yes, back to the revolutionary war
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 07:04 PM
Dec 2015

nobody currently, but grandfather, father, brother, 1 son and 1 nephew also served, as well as several uncles. my dad was the only lifer/career military though.

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