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Photographer

(1,142 posts)
Thu Dec 10, 2015, 05:36 PM Dec 2015

Did You Do Any of These 6 Activities Today? Then You’ve Got Class Privilege

http://everydayfeminism.com/2015/12/everyday-class-privilege/?utm_source=twitter&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=SocialWarfare

When I landed my first-ever full-time, salaried job, I experienced firsthand what class mobility felt like. Just like that – in what felt like an instant – everything changed.

I could finally go out to happy hour without counting my drinks. I could budget to buy really good gifts for my family during the holidays. I could afford to buy fresh produce every week at the grocery store.

But I never stopped being aware of how different life had been when I was underemployed, underpaid, overworked, and stretched for cash.

Class privilege can show up in really big, visible ways in our world.

...

2. You Paid for Convenience

You’re running late, so you scrap your plan to make coffee and run to Starbucks instead. You’re working late hours, so you pay a little extra for Instacart delivery to grab groceries for dinner. You’re applying for jobs and going to interviews, so you hire a sitter. It’s late and you’re hungry, so you order take-out.

The ability to choose convenience – even in moderation – despite its added costs is very common in our culture.

Nobody thinks it’s gaudy to be seen with a pizza box, and people aren’t going to be shocked and awed by the fact that you hire a nanny for the weekends. These are seen as normal, everyday choices.

But for lots of folks, they’re experiences that are financially out of reach.

Most parents earning minimum wage or working in other low-wage jobs can’t afford child care. Some folks budget so tightly that even that $2.50 iced coffee will break the bank. And close to 50 million Americans are food insecure.

<SNIP> The entire piece at the above link. Worth the read if only for a reminder.
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Did You Do Any of These 6 Activities Today? Then You’ve Got Class Privilege (Original Post) Photographer Dec 2015 OP
They should have made it seven Warpy Dec 2015 #1
Majority have good tap water but still use bottled water. yeoman6987 Dec 2015 #4
Something I've always considered to be utterly insane Warpy Dec 2015 #5
Oh gosh so true. yeoman6987 Dec 2015 #8
Same here -utterly insane, to pay for something you can get for pennies out of the tap.Plus TERRIBLE kath Dec 2015 #10
Nestle and other mega-international corps are looking at how to monetize the world's thirst erronis Dec 2015 #22
Those litle water bottles with the "valve" on top... bvar22 Dec 2015 #76
Yeah, they do! Warpy Dec 2015 #95
i use bottled water w0nderer Dec 2015 #25
I hav great tap water and have a large cup for water. It's the first thng we ohheckyeah Dec 2015 #61
Thank science and r&d development for that Matthew28 Dec 2015 #38
Poo in the Loo AngryAmish Dec 2015 #47
It's a very good article and it makes a great reminder. Thanks, Photographer. n/t CaliforniaPeggy Dec 2015 #2
I heartily object to calling these things privilege. FiveGoodMen Dec 2015 #3
I was just about to post that these s/b rights, not privileges, and then I read your post. valerief Dec 2015 #6
But calling them privileges suggests that they should NOT be expected as rights FiveGoodMen Dec 2015 #7
It's being done anyway no matter what adverb you use. If we can't sue for them, they're not rights. valerief Dec 2015 #9
Starbucks is a basic right? lol EX500rider Dec 2015 #11
You stole my post lol! cwydro Dec 2015 #12
Maybe not Starbucks - but stopping at a diner for coffee and breakfast hedgehog Dec 2015 #15
I know , right? Spoiled Americans, I hear most of us have microwaves!!! randys1 Dec 2015 #79
1st world problems are SO sad... EX500rider Dec 2015 #88
Your pic and point only matters if you gave a shit about these kids before you USED randys1 Dec 2015 #96
No, Starbucks isn't, but Dunkin' Donuts is... Zing Zing Zingbah Dec 2015 #59
Damn right !!!!!!!! Marrah_G Dec 2015 #65
We also apparently have a right-to-takeout and a right-to-babysitters. (nt) jeff47 Dec 2015 #63
Viva la Charbucks! Major Nikon Dec 2015 #89
I strongly agree Matthew28 Dec 2015 #39
I think that is the point of the article. They are privileges precisely because everyone doesn't Live and Learn Dec 2015 #77
That's what I got from it. Pacifist Patriot Dec 2015 #93
Still think that's a very poor choice of words FiveGoodMen Dec 2015 #105
Bu,t if you look at it that way they are privileges. You can't sue for most of the listed. nt Live and Learn Dec 2015 #114
Well, okay then. On with the decline of the middle class! n/t kcr Dec 2015 #119
The term, "privilege", in this context ... 1StrongBlackMan Dec 2015 #151
useless self-flagellating Maoist shit MisterP Dec 2015 #13
"Maoist"??? eom LiberalElite Dec 2015 #36
. Squinch Dec 2015 #37
More like a Race To The Bottom Victim Contest Matariki Dec 2015 #54
Don't use words you don't really know the meaning of. Avoids a lot of embarrassment. n/t nomorenomore08 Dec 2015 #138
1. No (I hardly ever do) bigwillq Dec 2015 #14
Let's keep defining new groups of privileged people B2G Dec 2015 #16
It's like Bill O'Reilly complaining about poor people having appliances. Matariki Dec 2015 #53
Oh I feel so dirty and guilty. ileus Dec 2015 #17
shame on you and me - 840high Dec 2015 #23
Hopefully not in that order. Nt B2G Dec 2015 #27
lol - no - on different days. I'm tired - long day. 840high Dec 2015 #29
You are privileged to be so tired. B2G Dec 2015 #31
Poor you. It's so offensive when people point out that others have difficult lives. Because when Squinch Dec 2015 #40
You think poor me....I'm on call for the second week this month. ileus Dec 2015 #43
And the scumbags called me in to the ER at 12am. ileus Dec 2015 #56
what about breathing privilege? that's denied to all the non-breathing people nt msongs Dec 2015 #18
Disagree STRONGLY about the items regarding work. Coventina Dec 2015 #19
No, they were not wrested by the workers, because then the workers would actually have them. jeff47 Dec 2015 #64
That ANYONE has paid sick time, or overtime, or weekends, etc. is NOT BASED ON CLASS. Coventina Dec 2015 #91
Um. Why did those workers fight for them, then? kcr Dec 2015 #120
They fought for them, because workers can't afford to be sick without pay. Coventina Dec 2015 #121
Exactly. Taking a privilege and acknowledging it for the right it should be. kcr Dec 2015 #122
I think we agree, but I will confess to being tired. It's been a long week. Coventina Dec 2015 #125
I think we do. kcr Dec 2015 #126
Many employer ignore those rights and employees don't feel they can complain. nt Live and Learn Dec 2015 #71
Which is horrible, and we should continue fighting to change that. n/t Coventina Dec 2015 #92
I am so tired of hearing about class privilege, white privilege, etc NightWatcher Dec 2015 #20
I join you. I am what I am. 840high Dec 2015 #24
the comparison is not just to "3rd world hell holes" Skittles Dec 2015 #35
Step 1 is to realize it's not about you and how you feel. jeff47 Dec 2015 #66
"We can work to move the bottom up." nomorenomore08 Dec 2015 #140
Well, you could help fight to ensure everyone gets these privileges. Live and Learn Dec 2015 #72
It makes me very angry, but I do not dare express the anger here. randys1 Dec 2015 #81
I know. nt Live and Learn Dec 2015 #84
It must be so hard to be you... randys1 Dec 2015 #80
K... TipTok Dec 2015 #21
This all just click bait for guilt addicts Android3.14 Dec 2015 #26
Excellent points. NT. Doctor Who Dec 2015 #134
Bravo!! Kilgore Dec 2015 #141
"click bait for guilt addicts" Lizzie Poppet Dec 2015 #142
Insipid - I love that word Android3.14 Dec 2015 #143
Yawn. Throd Dec 2015 #28
oh I totally do. Jester Messiah Dec 2015 #30
Yes, this! Boomer Dec 2015 #33
I'm 6 for 6 Boomer Dec 2015 #32
hey, something obliquely addressed at me! but, yes, I've had way too much experience MisterP Dec 2015 #41
I only did one of them - drove an 11 year old car Skittles Dec 2015 #34
Chronic Insomniac ProfessorGAC Dec 2015 #60
do you have coma days? Skittles Dec 2015 #130
Many of the responses in this thread are indistinguishable from posts in Freeperville. Squinch Dec 2015 #42
I concur with your response. malokvale77 Dec 2015 #44
I rolled a 6 dice yahtzee! GummyBearz Dec 2015 #45
If you don't agree around here you're always a troll or freeper. ileus Dec 2015 #57
Or, of course, you can pout about how terrible and mean it is that people sometimes mention Squinch Dec 2015 #102
Awww. Life sucks, doesn't it? n/t kcr Dec 2015 #123
Divisive is insisting the only solution is to tear everyone down. Which is what you're doing. jeff47 Dec 2015 #68
So. You got that out of your system. Feel better? Because, after all, it's all about you. Squinch Dec 2015 #100
This message was self-deleted by its author ileus Dec 2015 #127
It's from decades of right-wing bullshit. jeff47 Dec 2015 #67
The only thing that will work is to bring the bottom up. I am shocked at the imbeciles in this Squinch Dec 2015 #101
If you are looking for liberals, there are a handful of us here. randys1 Dec 2015 #83
It seems you are right, randys1. It is just a handful these days. Squinch Dec 2015 #131
+ 1 Person 2713 Dec 2015 #87
I was scrolling through with my mouth handing open. Pacifist Patriot Dec 2015 #94
I don't know if I think they are trolls, or if I think they are actually what the Squinch Dec 2015 #108
1/20/2009 Fumesucker Dec 2015 #137
5/6 AngryAmish Dec 2015 #46
The overwhelming majority of people are privileged. Igel Dec 2015 #48
Tearing everyone down to the same level is not required to fix this. jeff47 Dec 2015 #70
neither is scolding someone who drives to work Doctor_J Dec 2015 #153
It's not scolding to point out they have an advantage. jeff47 Dec 2015 #155
6 of 6 when I worked,still does Go Vols Dec 2015 #49
Congrats on 500 posts! bigwillq Dec 2015 #50
Isnt privilege relative? Travis_0004 Dec 2015 #51
Correct me if I'm wrong, but the undercurrent of this article seems to suggest Matariki Dec 2015 #52
You have to know what advantages you have in order to spread those advantages to more people. jeff47 Dec 2015 #69
For some of us, privilege is a word that reminds us that we have work to do if we want Squinch Dec 2015 #104
Everyone has some kind of 'privelege' romanic Dec 2015 #55
You mean like the privilege to worry about your next meal or how to pay the rent? nt Live and Learn Dec 2015 #73
Well, "well-rested" almost never happens to me. alarimer Dec 2015 #58
Lack of sleep also leads to mental health issues which often leads to jail. nt Live and Learn Dec 2015 #74
#7: Has free time to read this on the DU. Throd Dec 2015 #62
K&R nt Live and Learn Dec 2015 #75
Does making lists as these bring people together or does it create more silos to segregate? eom yawnmaster Dec 2015 #78
That all depends on the hearer. For example, do you read this and think, "This post is all about me, Squinch Dec 2015 #107
See how the title is written? That puts it about the reader. It makes it yawnmaster Dec 2015 #144
The fact of class privilege is just that: a fact. It is not an accusation. It is a description of Squinch Dec 2015 #146
If the point is missed it is because of poor presentation. eom yawnmaster Dec 2015 #147
The presentation was straightforward: if you have those 6 advantages, you have a class privilege. Squinch Dec 2015 #148
check out this link... yawnmaster Dec 2015 #149
and this one ... Squinch Dec 2015 #150
Putting the onus on "the hearer" for any problems with the article is disingenuous Matariki Dec 2015 #145
Manual labor, repairing torn-up lawn ... JustABozoOnThisBus Dec 2015 #82
I am privileged gwheezie Dec 2015 #85
Do we really need to talk "privilege?" More money enables you to pay for more stuff. merrily Dec 2015 #86
I read somewhere DFW Dec 2015 #98
No, but I'd have to get corny to make my case. nt merrily Dec 2015 #99
Ah, go ahead! DFW Dec 2015 #103
Okay. You need enough money for food, shelter and basic clothing. merrily Dec 2015 #106
You forgot to mention another basic need--health care. raccoon Dec 2015 #115
Sure. Add in any basic I missed. merrily Dec 2015 #116
HA! Don't I know it. DFW Dec 2015 #133
You got me to preach your sermon, you slyboots! merrily Dec 2015 #135
And you have a Bernie sig? Does not compute n/t kcr Dec 2015 #124
Why not? merrily Dec 2015 #136
I took a shit in a warm bathroom with a flush toilet and now I feel guilty Major Nikon Dec 2015 #90
I'm getting a pension & a magnificent 401k as well. Boy, I'm crazy privilaged. GOLGO 13 Dec 2015 #97
7. You have a working Internet connection and leisure time to NYC Liberal Dec 2015 #109
Anyone other than me noticing that the petulant children in this thread - the ones who Squinch Dec 2015 #110
Nah, it's just most intelligent people recognize and appreciate their privilege. Throd Dec 2015 #112
That is how I feel about this article. Chemisse Dec 2015 #132
Bullshit Major Nikon Dec 2015 #113
I have a pet chicken named "Houdini" because she somehow keeps escaping the dinner table. GOLGO 13 Dec 2015 #117
Feel better now? Squinch Dec 2015 #118
She got away...again. GOLGO 13 Dec 2015 #129
The only one I can answer YES to is #1. bvar22 Dec 2015 #111
Bull, this is pure click bait, I have no guilt Kilgore Dec 2015 #128
Good. Guilt is useless anyway. n/t nomorenomore08 Dec 2015 #139
Excellent find JustAnotherGen Dec 2015 #152
Mary woke up in her car today. Kalidurga Dec 2015 #154

Warpy

(111,300 posts)
1. They should have made it seven
Thu Dec 10, 2015, 05:42 PM
Dec 2015

7. You have water piped to your house and can drink it right out of the tap.

Most of the world's population can't say that. Our neighbors to the south can't say that, they either boil their water or use a water service to deliver potable water by the 5 gallon jug, mostly because their infrastructure is old and needs extensive repair and the country just can't afford it.

I've had to use a water service when the military contaminated town wells. It's a pain in the ass.

Warpy

(111,300 posts)
5. Something I've always considered to be utterly insane
Thu Dec 10, 2015, 06:00 PM
Dec 2015

When you've been forced to use a water service for a while, the thought of using bottled water as conspicuous consumption becomes repellent. I do use a filter because I'm close to a pumping station and it comes out of the tap smelling like Clorox and makes my tea weird. But bottled water? No way. It's just laying privilege on top of privilege.

kath

(10,565 posts)
10. Same here -utterly insane, to pay for something you can get for pennies out of the tap.Plus TERRIBLE
Thu Dec 10, 2015, 06:58 PM
Dec 2015

For the planet, all those gazillions of plastic bottles.

How on earth Madison Ave (orwhatever) convinced Murkans that it made sense to pay good money for what they could get nearly for free is utterly beyond me. Stupid, stupid people to be conned into this.

erronis

(15,313 posts)
22. Nestle and other mega-international corps are looking at how to monetize the world's thirst
Thu Dec 10, 2015, 08:12 PM
Dec 2015

Everybody's seen how a 5-cent cuppa has become a $5 superchai. Given the propensity of the empty empathy ##-somethings to spend money on total non-necessities, the corps would really like to help out.

Asanti or Fuji (pardon me if I don't remember the spellings) for $1.xx/pint! Anybody remember when Perrier was caught taking tap water and adding CO2 and calling it special? Or Coors piss coming from Rocky Mountain streams?

With the Middle East set to ramp up its temperatures to 130-140(F), water will be worth more than gold. Arizona, Mexico, San Diego? There will be corps ready to sell it to you.

bvar22

(39,909 posts)
76. Those litle water bottles with the "valve" on top...
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 02:56 PM
Dec 2015

...look just like Baby Bottles. I have always found that laughable to see an adult drinking from a Baby Bottle.

Warpy

(111,300 posts)
95. Yeah, they do!
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 05:06 PM
Dec 2015

However if you're ever out and have to get a bottle of water because you're parched and far from home, get one with the valve. They fit on the tops of some other bottles, most notably cider vinegar, and can be very useful that way.

w0nderer

(1,937 posts)
25. i use bottled water
Thu Dec 10, 2015, 08:23 PM
Dec 2015

see here: takes stainless steel canteen to tap, fills canteen, drinks mmmhmmm!

i have however lived places where filtration or boiling was needed

:-p

bought bottled water is such a waste

ohheckyeah

(9,314 posts)
61. I hav great tap water and have a large cup for water. It's the first thng we
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 10:17 AM
Dec 2015

cheched when buying. I didn't want to deal with the stench of sulfur water, not to mention the horrible taste.

Matthew28

(1,798 posts)
38. Thank science and r&d development for that
Thu Dec 10, 2015, 09:25 PM
Dec 2015

along with hard work.

THANK STABLE GOVERNMENT is probably the most important!

FiveGoodMen

(20,018 posts)
3. I heartily object to calling these things privilege.
Thu Dec 10, 2015, 05:50 PM
Dec 2015

By most people's definition, a privilege is an 'extra' that one should not expect.

These things should be basic rights.

The fact that some cannot avail themselves of these rights is what we need to correct.

valerief

(53,235 posts)
6. I was just about to post that these s/b rights, not privileges, and then I read your post.
Thu Dec 10, 2015, 06:00 PM
Dec 2015

I do disagree with you, because these things sadly are privileges and not rights. They s/b but they're not.

FiveGoodMen

(20,018 posts)
7. But calling them privileges suggests that they should NOT be expected as rights
Thu Dec 10, 2015, 06:23 PM
Dec 2015

"That's a privilege, not a right" is a typical way of telling people that whatever's under discussion can be legitimately taken away from them if they don't follow some protocol or other.

valerief

(53,235 posts)
9. It's being done anyway no matter what adverb you use. If we can't sue for them, they're not rights.
Thu Dec 10, 2015, 06:42 PM
Dec 2015

They should be but they're not. We don't have a good enough government to make them rights.

hedgehog

(36,286 posts)
15. Maybe not Starbucks - but stopping at a diner for coffee and breakfast
Thu Dec 10, 2015, 07:35 PM
Dec 2015

on the way to work is an old tradition in this country. It used to be you could actually sit down and eat in place rather than gulp your food while driving your car!

randys1

(16,286 posts)
96. Your pic and point only matters if you gave a shit about these kids before you USED
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 05:11 PM
Dec 2015

them in this thread.

Otherwise, those of us who help these type of people no matter what else is going on, will continue to.

Matthew28

(1,798 posts)
39. I strongly agree
Thu Dec 10, 2015, 09:26 PM
Dec 2015

Everyone should have them and to argue that it is a privilege is to allow the super rich to take them away.

Live and Learn

(12,769 posts)
77. I think that is the point of the article. They are privileges precisely because everyone doesn't
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 02:57 PM
Dec 2015

have a basic right to them right now.

FiveGoodMen

(20,018 posts)
105. Still think that's a very poor choice of words
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 05:46 PM
Dec 2015

If these are privileges, then no one has a right to expect them.

Therefore, if you don't have them ... tough shit, they are privileges, not rights.

Put it this way, you can sue for violation or denial of your civil rights.

You cannot sue for violation or denial of ANY privileges.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
151. The term, "privilege", in this context ...
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 09:35 PM
Dec 2015

Has taken on the meaning of: " benefits afforded based on status" (whatever that status might be, i.e., race, gender, economic standing).

Matariki

(18,775 posts)
54. More like a Race To The Bottom Victim Contest
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 02:52 AM
Dec 2015

Which helps no one. But apparently assuages guilt though some sort of post-modern confessional.

 

bigwillq

(72,790 posts)
14. 1. No (I hardly ever do)
Thu Dec 10, 2015, 07:32 PM
Dec 2015

2. No, not yet. Going soon to a Diner by my work.
3. No. At work now.
4. Yes. I have a car.
5. I work more hours than I am paid for.
6. No
7. Not really sure how a yes answer to any of these means that I have class privilege.

 

B2G

(9,766 posts)
16. Let's keep defining new groups of privileged people
Thu Dec 10, 2015, 07:37 PM
Dec 2015

Eventually everyone will belong to at least one group.

Of course then we'll need a cheat sheet to see who has the higher hand in the game.

Squinch

(50,958 posts)
40. Poor you. It's so offensive when people point out that others have difficult lives. Because when
Thu Dec 10, 2015, 09:26 PM
Dec 2015

they talk about others' lives, they aren't talking about YOU! What's wrong with them???

Coventina

(27,140 posts)
19. Disagree STRONGLY about the items regarding work.
Thu Dec 10, 2015, 07:56 PM
Dec 2015

These are rights that we have thanks to UNIONS and the literal blood they shed to get us those rights.

They have nothing to do with class privilege, they are benefits wrested by the workers for the workers from capital.

THAT SHOULD NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!



on edit: typo

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
64. No, they were not wrested by the workers, because then the workers would actually have them.
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 02:09 PM
Dec 2015

Or is it all those low-wage, part-time workers fault that they don't have a union?

Coventina

(27,140 posts)
91. That ANYONE has paid sick time, or overtime, or weekends, etc. is NOT BASED ON CLASS.
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 04:36 PM
Dec 2015

Those came to us (workers) because of workers fighting for rights.

All workers SHOULD have them, but that ANYONE has them has to do with workers fighting for it.
They are not due to "privilege."

kcr

(15,318 posts)
120. Um. Why did those workers fight for them, then?
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 08:45 PM
Dec 2015

I would guess many of those workers that fought would disagree mightily with you.

Coventina

(27,140 posts)
121. They fought for them, because workers can't afford to be sick without pay.
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 08:56 PM
Dec 2015

It was never an issue for those with capital. They could work, or not, as they chose.

kcr

(15,318 posts)
122. Exactly. Taking a privilege and acknowledging it for the right it should be.
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 08:59 PM
Dec 2015

And fighting so everyone has it. If everyone has it, it's no longer a privilege. Acknowledging and reinforcing the ideal that they're privileges, which everyone already knows, isn't the way to convince people they should be rights.

ETA you can see how that affects people. Look at the number of people scoffing at the OP in this thread. It's ingrained that these are privileges that not everyone should have.

Coventina

(27,140 posts)
125. I think we agree, but I will confess to being tired. It's been a long week.
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 09:07 PM
Dec 2015

Workers' rights, in my mind, should never be thought of as privileges.
Too many fought, suffered, and even died for them.

And, has been pointed out on this thread, far too many still labor without them.

kcr

(15,318 posts)
126. I think we do.
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 09:21 PM
Dec 2015

There was just a lot of "they're privileges get over it just work harder duh" in this thread for various different reasons. I think class does have a lot to do with it. The stronger our Unions, the healthier and more robust our middle class is.

NightWatcher

(39,343 posts)
20. I am so tired of hearing about class privilege, white privilege, etc
Thu Dec 10, 2015, 07:58 PM
Dec 2015

What am I supposed to do, self flagellate daily to punish myself?

Yes, I know I have it better than most people on the planet but I'm tired of apologizing for not living in a 3rd world hell hole where you can't drink the water.

Skittles

(153,170 posts)
35. the comparison is not just to "3rd world hell holes"
Thu Dec 10, 2015, 09:10 PM
Dec 2015

much of the comparisons are applicable to the poor in America

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
66. Step 1 is to realize it's not about you and how you feel.
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 02:14 PM
Dec 2015

Instead of "punishing yourself", the point would be to try and get those "privileges" for more people. For example, by supporting politicians who fight for a living wage, or paid sick days.

People pointing out these advantages are not demanding everyone be torn down to the lowest common denominator. That's the claim the right makes in order to continue the fight between different groups.

In reality, we do not need to rip everyone down to the bottom. We can work to move the bottom up.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
140. "We can work to move the bottom up."
Sat Dec 12, 2015, 04:49 AM
Dec 2015

Which the self-centered whiners never seem to have any interest in doing.

Live and Learn

(12,769 posts)
72. Well, you could help fight to ensure everyone gets these privileges.
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 02:51 PM
Dec 2015

Or you could sit back and whine about having to read posts about your privilege.

 

Android3.14

(5,402 posts)
26. This all just click bait for guilt addicts
Thu Dec 10, 2015, 08:24 PM
Dec 2015

Define class privilege.

1. You Woke Up Well Rested - Gee, after a 12 hour work day I went to bed at 10 p.m. and woke up at 4:30, well rested, and started work by 6 a.m.. A good night's sleep isn't privilege. It's planning and common sense.

2. You Paid for Convenience - Define convenience. A flush toilet is a convenience. In the woods, a latrine with a roll of toilet paper on a nearby branch is a convenience.

3. You Called in Sick - I called in sick a few weeks ago. I didn't get paid for the sick day. This isn't class privilege; it's the reason we fucking have unions.

4. You Used Your Car or Took Reliable Public Transit - This is just stupid. This isn't class privilege, it's living within walking distance of a bus station or carpooling or just keeping your shit together so you can make it to work.

5. You Got Paid for All Your Hours at Work - Not a class privilege, but a fucking reason to be in a union. As a small business owner, I can guarantee you I rarely receive pay for all the hours I work. In fact, fuck this shit. Today was fucking payday, and I am the lowest paid employee in my company and guess what? I didn't pay myself today, because I had to make sure the paychecks I did sign wouldn't bounce. When an employer pays you for all the hours you worked, it is because that employer has integrity, not because of class privilege.

6. You Bought Fresh, Healthy Food at the Grocery Store - Define fresh. Is unspoiled milk fresh? Is raman that is sold before its sell by date fresh? Fresh vegetables are cheaper than convenience food. Buying quality food isn't privilege, it's about making smart choices. I can buy six cans of Hormel chili, but instead I purchase the ingredients for much less and make a better chili.

This OP is stupid (the article. I don't know enough about the person who posted it to determine what ther deal is). Feel guilty if you want about "class privilege" when all you are doing is what everyone else is doing, trying to make your way with as much dignity as you can muster and the resources available.

 

Android3.14

(5,402 posts)
143. Insipid - I love that word
Sat Dec 12, 2015, 11:53 AM
Dec 2015

I should have used that rather than "stupid". Thanks. I'll write better next time.

Boomer

(4,168 posts)
33. Yes, this!
Thu Dec 10, 2015, 08:38 PM
Dec 2015

I'm thankful to be in a comfortable financial position. I'd like more people to share that security, and that's what drives my support for Bernie Sanders.

Boomer

(4,168 posts)
32. I'm 6 for 6
Thu Dec 10, 2015, 08:36 PM
Dec 2015

I am fortunate and I feel blessed, not guilty. This isn't about self-flagellation, it's about acknowledging there are widespread inequities that are pretty basic, that affect daily quality of life, and being thankful if you can say yes to most, if not all, the items listed.

The bristling self-defensiveness in this thread is really puzzling. Nobody is calling on the fortunate to throw themselves off a bridge in remorse, or even to give up their benefits. What is so difficult about saying "I'm really blessed to not have to worry about these six things."?

You can be one of the fortunate without being scum. Stop acting as if it's a slur on your honor.

MisterP

(23,730 posts)
41. hey, something obliquely addressed at me! but, yes, I've had way too much experience
Thu Dec 10, 2015, 09:27 PM
Dec 2015

with campus Hoxhaites to let something go without examining the ways in which it's used as a vehicle for Avakian-style vicarious guilt ...

Skittles

(153,170 posts)
34. I only did one of them - drove an 11 year old car
Thu Dec 10, 2015, 09:04 PM
Dec 2015

other than that I am a chronic insomniac, eat processed foods, haven't called in sick since 2001, etc.

ProfessorGAC

(65,106 posts)
60. Chronic Insomniac
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 10:10 AM
Dec 2015

Same here, Skittles. I sleep in short bursts that add up to around 3 and a half hours a night. It doesn't drag me down, but i'm guessing it will shorten my life.

Skittles

(153,170 posts)
130. do you have coma days?
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 09:47 PM
Dec 2015

I routinely work 12 hour night shifts on 4 or 5 hours of sleep, but every three or four weeks on a night off I will sleep 9 -11 hours - I think that is how I survive

Squinch

(50,958 posts)
42. Many of the responses in this thread are indistinguishable from posts in Freeperville.
Thu Dec 10, 2015, 09:34 PM
Dec 2015

When did it become fashionable on DU to make fun of the idea that there are those in this country who have lives that are unnecessarily difficult?

When did DU stop acknowledging that it is a Democratic value to try and address those unnecessary difficulties that others experience?

There are a bunch of petulant freaks in this thread complaining, "I'm so tired of hearing that I have advantages that other people don't?" Well too damn bad.

 

GummyBearz

(2,931 posts)
45. I rolled a 6 dice yahtzee!
Thu Dec 10, 2015, 10:01 PM
Dec 2015

Does that make me a freeper even though I am voting for Bernie? Responses like yours are divisive... when did that become fashionable on DU?

Please tell me more about my advantages, even though I already know them... I want to hear you say it. It gets me all revved up

ileus

(15,396 posts)
57. If you don't agree around here you're always a troll or freeper.
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 08:09 AM
Dec 2015

It's how we roll...

Agree or die.

Squinch

(50,958 posts)
102. Or, of course, you can pout about how terrible and mean it is that people sometimes mention
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 05:34 PM
Dec 2015

your entitlements. That seems to be how some here roll.

The DU club of petulant infants.

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
68. Divisive is insisting the only solution is to tear everyone down. Which is what you're doing.
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 02:21 PM
Dec 2015

We don't have to bring everyone down to the bottom. We can work to bring "the bottom" up.

That requires understanding what advantages you have, so we can work to get those advantages to more people.

Response to Squinch (Reply #100)

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
67. It's from decades of right-wing bullshit.
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 02:19 PM
Dec 2015

The people on the right claim that the only solution to these kinds of inequality is to rip everyone down to the bottom. Because that way they can keep lots of groups fighting each other.

The reality is we can also work to bring the bottom up. Mandatory paid sick days do not take away your paid sick days.

As for when it infected our party, that would be the late 1980s and early 1990s when the DLC infested the party.

Squinch

(50,958 posts)
101. The only thing that will work is to bring the bottom up. I am shocked at the imbeciles in this
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 05:29 PM
Dec 2015

thread who can't seem to understand that.

randys1

(16,286 posts)
83. If you are looking for liberals, there are a handful of us here.
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 03:05 PM
Dec 2015


handful, being the key word.

This is my way of agreeing with your post.

Squinch

(50,958 posts)
108. I don't know if I think they are trolls, or if I think they are actually what the
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 05:58 PM
Dec 2015

Democratic Party has become.

I hope they are trolls. But I don't think so.

 

AngryAmish

(25,704 posts)
46. 5/6
Thu Dec 10, 2015, 10:03 PM
Dec 2015

Maybe 4/6, does having a mild hangover count as well rested?

Did not call in sick. Actually worked today.

Working sucks. See the end, tho.

Igel

(35,323 posts)
48. The overwhelming majority of people are privileged.
Thu Dec 10, 2015, 11:28 PM
Dec 2015

Meaning that a smaller group is just average. In fact, not just a smaller group, but an overlapping set of smaller groups.

Odd semantic shift--the disadvantaged are now viewed as the norm, and the majority viewed as above average.

A semantic shift that I reject as an unwieldy, unnecessary imposition, as an attempt to redefine things in such a way as to manipulate others. Don't like manipulation.

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
70. Tearing everyone down to the same level is not required to fix this.
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 02:29 PM
Dec 2015

We can also work to get those advantages to more people.

I never lived in a very poor urban setting, so "food deserts" was not something I knew about growing up. Someone had to point them out to me in order for me to learn about the problem, so that I can work to do something to eliminate them.

Learning about food deserts did not require me to create more of them, or move to one.

 

Doctor_J

(36,392 posts)
153. neither is scolding someone who drives to work
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 10:26 PM
Dec 2015

just because they drive to work. And trying to make such people feel guilty is unlikely to help much imo

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
155. It's not scolding to point out they have an advantage.
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 11:15 AM
Dec 2015

Again, they are not required to give up their advantage.

Go Vols

(5,902 posts)
49. 6 of 6 when I worked,still does
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 01:26 AM
Dec 2015

and my son enjoys the same at his current position.

Union Privilege FTW,some College Grads made more,but it was like 2%.

If you are capable of building tall buildings efficiently,you can make a ton of money in months,years ...

 

Travis_0004

(5,417 posts)
51. Isnt privilege relative?
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 02:04 AM
Dec 2015

If I have access to clean water, that is privilege compared to the 1 billion people without that luxury.

If I own a computer or cell phone and use it to get online and complain about lack of privilege, I have privilege over somebody without electricity.

Matariki

(18,775 posts)
52. Correct me if I'm wrong, but the undercurrent of this article seems to suggest
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 02:46 AM
Dec 2015

feeling bad for getting to eat vegetables at dinner or get a full night's sleep? Because in spite of protestations to the contrary, 'privilege' has certainly become a code word for stuff people are supposed to feel vaguely bad about. Tossing the word about does absolutely nothing to address the injustices that abound in our society - none of which are fixed by going without vegetables, coffee, or sleep.

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
69. You have to know what advantages you have in order to spread those advantages to more people.
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 02:25 PM
Dec 2015

Having never lived in an extremely poor urban environment, I didn't know vegetables were an advantage I had. (Not due to this article, I learned it long ago, but there was a time I didn't know it)

That doesn't make me bad for having them. It means I need to work to get that advantage to more people.

Squinch

(50,958 posts)
104. For some of us, privilege is a word that reminds us that we have work to do if we want
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 05:42 PM
Dec 2015

our society to be decent to all its citizens.

But for those who think everything is about them, and who can't see beyond themselves, you are right. Entitlement must seem like a word that is used to make them feel guilty.

Because they think everything is about themselves, it is not surprising that a reminder that there are people who don't have access to sleep or vegetables would be seen as a criticism of themselves.

It is not surprising that they would never give a thought to those people who don't have access to sleep and vegetables.

romanic

(2,841 posts)
55. Everyone has some kind of 'privelege'
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 07:55 AM
Dec 2015

It's the dirty little secret the identity politicos don't want you to know.

alarimer

(16,245 posts)
58. Well, "well-rested" almost never happens to me.
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 09:55 AM
Dec 2015

Lots of people have sleep issues that have nothing to do with their economic situation. In my case, it's probably my own damn fault (too much screen time before bed, maybe), which is a privilege, I guess. But for a lot of people, because they work too much or have a long commute or whatever, "well-rested" doesn't really happen. So the first one I would say is not entirely correct. We are all chronically sleep-deprived, for whatever reason.

I would also add #7:

Being able to afford surprise medical bills. Even with insurance, the copays and such can be outrageous. I'm facing that myself, but it is still within the realm of affordability. A year ago, it might not have been.

Squinch

(50,958 posts)
107. That all depends on the hearer. For example, do you read this and think, "This post is all about me,
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 05:54 PM
Dec 2015

and it is trying to make me feel guilty for having the basics in life."

Or do you read this and think, "There are people out there who don't have these basics that I may not have thought about. When I deal with my employees, I will be more conscious of this." Or, "I had not even thought of these ramifications of poverty. I will take income inequality reduction into account when I vote, because the current levels of income inequality are even more damaging than I though."

Up to you.

yawnmaster

(2,812 posts)
144. See how the title is written? That puts it about the reader. It makes it
Mon Dec 14, 2015, 01:37 PM
Dec 2015

shaming might occasionally be effective, but I believe there are better ways, ways that don't need to segregate.
For instance, your reply is thought provoking without creating class silos.

Squinch

(50,958 posts)
146. The fact of class privilege is just that: a fact. It is not an accusation. It is a description of
Mon Dec 14, 2015, 04:13 PM
Dec 2015

the relative condition of those who have advantages and those who do not.

If you see it as a criticism of you or as shaming toward you or segregating you from others, you are missing the point.

Squinch

(50,958 posts)
148. The presentation was straightforward: if you have those 6 advantages, you have a class privilege.
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 05:39 PM
Dec 2015

The point is missed because those missing it can't stop seeing themselves as the most important term in every equation.

Matariki

(18,775 posts)
145. Putting the onus on "the hearer" for any problems with the article is disingenuous
Mon Dec 14, 2015, 02:00 PM
Dec 2015

There are better ways to talk about (and do something about) poverty than to post dumb lists that imply 'privilege' (and deny all you want but that word is currently used disparagingly) because you eat fresh vegetables.

There's a common wisdom about communicating effectively where using 'you statements' immediately puts the listener on the defensive and thus generally shuts down communication.

It seems the word 'privilege' is more often than not used for what *should* be basic rights or a decent standard of living for everyone. The problem isn't that some people are granted those rights but that others are denied them. I agree that there needs to be awareness of that fact, but calling Rights a privilege has a whole lot of problems starting with the implication that they are something that can be taken away if a person isn't behaved.

JustABozoOnThisBus

(23,355 posts)
82. Manual labor, repairing torn-up lawn ...
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 03:05 PM
Dec 2015

... at a local polo match.

It's not easy, repairing holes in the lawn while not spilling the champagne.

No class privilege here.

gwheezie

(3,580 posts)
85. I am privileged
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 03:06 PM
Dec 2015

I know it. I'm not defensive about it, I am thankful. I realize my privilege has much to do with where I was born and my skin color and nothing to do with my value as a human being.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
86. Do we really need to talk "privilege?" More money enables you to pay for more stuff.
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 03:08 PM
Dec 2015

Some people don't have enough money to pay for a lot of stuff, maybe not even rent or food. Film at 11.

Before anyone starts lecturing me, whoever you are, I bet I grew up with a lot less than you did.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
106. Okay. You need enough money for food, shelter and basic clothing.
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 05:46 PM
Dec 2015

After that, the best things in life really are free and money can be detrimental.

Through work and activism, I've met a lot of the trust fund crowd. I did grow up poor. I am not poor now. However, I don't have a fraction of what they have. As best I can tell, I am much happier than, on the whole, they are. If you think people whine and are neurotic on DU, you ain't heard nuthin' yet.

DFW

(54,415 posts)
133. HA! Don't I know it.
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 11:25 PM
Dec 2015

For a few years I went to school with some of those kids. Some of the more messed up heads I've ever run into. The only ones who weren't were the few who realized that your worth as a person has no relation to your net worth as stated on your net worth (or, more often, their parents') balance sheet. Just as whining and neurotic as the ones on DU. But I always had the option of going my own way, as, indeed I do on or off DU.

No one can impress me with how opulently or modestly they live. What impresses me is someone who has managed to get to the point where they feel good about whatever it is they have made of themselves.

GOLGO 13

(1,681 posts)
97. I'm getting a pension & a magnificent 401k as well. Boy, I'm crazy privilaged.
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 05:13 PM
Dec 2015

My guilt is getting the best of me so I'll pour myself a nice whiskey highball & a cigar to remind me not to be so high & mighty about my good looks & my proud ways.

NYC Liberal

(20,136 posts)
109. 7. You have a working Internet connection and leisure time to
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 06:12 PM
Dec 2015

post on a message board. (Which also means you have access to reliable electricity, and a computer.)

Squinch

(50,958 posts)
110. Anyone other than me noticing that the petulant children in this thread - the ones who
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 06:12 PM
Dec 2015

are insisting that this is all about making them feel guilty, the ones who are completely missing the point that this is about people who live in really difficult situations - many of the pouting ones are the very same people who feel they are being persecuted when anyone mentions gun control?

Things that make you go, "hmmmm."

Throd

(7,208 posts)
112. Nah, it's just most intelligent people recognize and appreciate their privilege.
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 06:21 PM
Dec 2015

They don't need a constant barrage of reminders which assume them to be self-entitled ignoramuses.

Chemisse

(30,813 posts)
132. That is how I feel about this article.
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 10:55 PM
Dec 2015

We all have 'privileges'. There is always someone who is worse off in some way. Good people recognize that, appreciate what they have, and try to do something to help others less fortunate.

An article like this seems like it is saying we are all assholes who don't realize we have things that others don't. It's mildly insulting, patronizing, and clearly meant to induce guilt.

I refuse to feel guilty for what I have in life (which really isn't a whole heck of a lot, but it's more than some have). What I would feel guilty about is if I did nothing to help others who were less fortunate. I think that's what really counts.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
113. Bullshit
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 06:27 PM
Dec 2015

The suggestion that this entire article wasn't about anything other than making people feel guilty is ridiculous. Even if you didn't make it past the title of the thread you can derive this is all about the collective guilt. There's not one single suggestion about what to do "about people who live in really difficult situations" other than to feel guilty about it if you don't.

Using namecalling to make your point is childish and petulant, BTW.

GOLGO 13

(1,681 posts)
117. I have a pet chicken named "Houdini" because she somehow keeps escaping the dinner table.
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 07:51 PM
Dec 2015

I have a pet chicken named "Houdini" because she somehow keeps escaping the dinner table.

Should I check my petulant privilege to justify keeping "Houdini" as a pet or be done with her and try to serve her for dinner on Thursday night, again?

bvar22

(39,909 posts)
111. The only one I can answer YES to is #1.
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 06:18 PM
Dec 2015

I sleep well, probably because of all the exercise and quiet country living.

*I drove no car, rode in no car, used no gasoline, or any public transportation.
My transportation today was strictly leg work.

*Starbucks?....LOL, at least a 100 mile drive, but paid for no other "conveniences" today,
unless you consider a shovel a convenience, but it was paid off over 10 years ago.

*Did not buy fresh, healthy food at a grocery.
We grow our own. We have canned veggies and fruit preserves for Winter.
We do supplement some in the Winter, but not today or tomorrow.

*My "pay" for today was absolutely $ZERO, but the sweat I invested in cleaning and preparing our Veggie Garden will pay off in a degree of satisfaction impossible to buy. If the weather holds, I will plant Garlic tomorrow, trim down the asparagus stalks, and clean and compost some other beds.

*Called in sick???? LOL. If I'm too sick to work, stuff just goes to hell all by itself, or doesn't get done.

*Our Water source is a spring that bubbles up in the back yard...cold, clear, pure mountain spring water.

We are cash poor, but consider ourselves to be among the luckiest (and richest) people in the World.
We haven't regretted leaving the city and choosing this lifestyle for a single day.

Kilgore

(1,733 posts)
128. Bull, this is pure click bait, I have no guilt
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 09:42 PM
Dec 2015

Just the satisfaction that working my ass off for 30 years, saving until it hurts, and living frugally has finally allowed me and the wife to enjoy life a bit.

Kalidurga

(14,177 posts)
154. Mary woke up in her car today.
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 12:12 AM
Dec 2015

She got evicted after losing her job of 20 years. She didn't call in sick because she hasn't had a job for going on five years now. She doesn't sleep well because she has depression, which makes a job search nearly impossible. She eats several of her meals from fast food joints because she has no cooking facilities. Sometimes she gets a hot meal from a local charity, but most days her sleep schedule is too erratic to allow for that. She gets a monthly stipend of 200 dollars a month because her doctor thinks she has major depression and can't work. She gets food stamps as well she buys only food that doesn't need to be cooked, this includes things like apples and oranges. But, it also includes a couple of 14 ounce bags of chips each month.

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