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FrodosPet

(5,169 posts)
Thu Dec 31, 2015, 12:55 AM Dec 2015

Rape victim forced to call boyfriend, calls 911 instead

http://www.wsbtv.com/news/news/local/rape-victim-forced-call-boyfriend-calls-911-instea/npsTW/

CLAYTON COUNTY, Ga. — Police say quick thinking by the victim of a frightening abduction and assault helped them catch her attacker in the act.

Officers say Robert Giles, 27, asked the victim to call her boyfriend so he could hear the assault.

Instead of calling her boyfriend, she called 911. Police say the savvy 911 operator also kept his wits about him.

“It was quick thinking on his behalf. In fact, (it) might have saved her life,” Clayton County police Maj. Joe Woodall said.

~ snip ~




Thank goodness she is alive and this (alleged) predator is off the street, if even for a little while.

Peace and healing for this poor woman, and all the victims of sexual assault and abuse.
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Rape victim forced to call boyfriend, calls 911 instead (Original Post) FrodosPet Dec 2015 OP
How very smart of her! CaliforniaPeggy Dec 2015 #1
How evil and sadistic is this guy? Midnight Writer Dec 2015 #2
Quick thinking on her part. Behind the Aegis Dec 2015 #3
Most of the articles about the rape keep saying he "asked" her to call her boyfriend. tblue37 Dec 2015 #4
^^^This^^^n/t Gormy Cuss Dec 2015 #6
Point well made, and almost as bad as the difference in the opening where daybranch Dec 2015 #7
I work for just a few hours a week on a crisis line renate Dec 2015 #5
Holy shit! What presence of mind! Orrex Dec 2015 #8
Maybe he had to pretend he was the boyfriend so as not to alert the rapist ProudToBeBlueInRhody Dec 2015 #12
k&r Liberal_in_LA Dec 2015 #9
Good for the two involved mythology Dec 2015 #10
This is GA. The suspect will admire the inner walls of the Warehouse a long time. Eleanors38 Dec 2015 #11
evil and violent man. i say death penalty. she was lucky. he will do it again trueblue2007 Dec 2015 #13

Midnight Writer

(21,767 posts)
2. How evil and sadistic is this guy?
Thu Dec 31, 2015, 02:27 AM
Dec 2015

Reinforces the fact that rape is not about sex, it is about power and degrading the victim.

Surely it will turn out that this is not his first assault. Thankfully he is caught and hopefully he will pay such a heavy price for this that he will never be a danger to anyone else in the future.

Behind the Aegis

(53,957 posts)
3. Quick thinking on her part.
Thu Dec 31, 2015, 03:27 AM
Dec 2015

Thankfully, Deonte Smith was there and acted professionally. This is yet another example of how rape is not about sex, but about power. The more people understand this, the more victims can become survivors because they will seek the help they need without the stigma.

tblue37

(65,358 posts)
4. Most of the articles about the rape keep saying he "asked" her to call her boyfriend.
Thu Dec 31, 2015, 03:44 AM
Dec 2015

There was no polite "asking" involved! That is almost as infuriating as articles that call rape "having sex."

daybranch

(1,309 posts)
7. Point well made, and almost as bad as the difference in the opening where
Thu Dec 31, 2015, 06:20 AM
Dec 2015

we are told quick thinking by the victim and equating this with same words quick thinking by operator. There is certainly little valid equalization between a hostage victim, under fear of death eventually and rape immediately devising a plan to save herself as she did and the actions of a 911 operator who sitting comfortably and safely on another end of a phone and pretending to be the boyfriend . But then the police and those who work with them constantly work out ego boosting interpretations especially of their own self worth, it allows them like many of us Vietnam combat veterans to avoid reality and support violence, gun rights, and police brutality as justified to protect police over citizens by perceiving their worth to society and the people they are sworn to protect outweighs the value of the everyday citizen and especially poor of color from outside their locale (Walmart shooting of John Crawford) and even poor of color from their area of enforcement (Tamir Rice, Ferguson and too many more to name}.
I would also like to ask people to start using the words poor of color, I think that is the real target, poor blacks and Hispanics, generally recognized as posing no threat to a policeman's life or career when police violate their civil rights.

renate

(13,776 posts)
5. I work for just a few hours a week on a crisis line
Thu Dec 31, 2015, 03:57 AM
Dec 2015

It is exhausting.

I really admire this guy. You never know, when the phone rings, what's going to be on the other end of the line. At any moment, it could be something beyond what your training has prepared you for. (And even when you've been well trained, when it's *real* you're almost as human and jittery and fallible as anyone else.) To be mentally ready to handle ANYTHING at any time... there aren't words for how much I admire these people.

Orrex

(63,212 posts)
8. Holy shit! What presence of mind!
Thu Dec 31, 2015, 08:21 AM
Dec 2015

Remarkable clear-headedness in the midst of a horrible situation!

And the "savvy 911 operator" "kept his wits about him?"
Isn't "keeping one's wits" the bare minimum requirement for a 911 operator? What the hell else was he going to do? "Ma'am, could I speak with your alleged rapist, please?"

The hero here is the would-be victim.



ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
12. Maybe he had to pretend he was the boyfriend so as not to alert the rapist
Thu Dec 31, 2015, 08:08 PM
Dec 2015

If you are trying to get help to someone as a dispatcher and act at the same time.....

 

mythology

(9,527 posts)
10. Good for the two involved
Thu Dec 31, 2015, 12:32 PM
Dec 2015

Hopefully the attacker spends a long time away from the ability to do harm.

trueblue2007

(17,218 posts)
13. evil and violent man. i say death penalty. she was lucky. he will do it again
Thu Dec 31, 2015, 09:01 PM
Dec 2015

and maybe his next victim would not be so lucky. death for rapists.

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