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DemocratSinceBirth

(99,714 posts)
Sun Jan 10, 2016, 01:45 PM Jan 2016

Dolly Parton and her 'lack of judgment'






Matthew 7:1
Judge not, that ye be not judged.



The fact that Dolly Parton has become such a beloved entertainer across so wide a spectrum of American audiences is a unique story. She is one of country music's brightest stars, but she is so much more. That big hair floating above her flamboyant outfits straining to contain those epic boobs, Dolly is a talent bursting at the seams. Dolly Parton is loved for many reasons, but most of all she is loved for her authenticity.
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To the surprise of absolutely no one, she has long been an icon to the gay community. Her blazing talent aside, we are drawn in by her high camp and charmed by her deep heart. She is able to laugh at herself while being unapologetically exactly who she is. We just get that and love her for it. She has long acknowledged her gay fan base and shown us many signs of support over the years. Never was that support more pronounced than during an interview she gave to PrideSource last spring:




It's more than just you being non-judgmental. You said growing up you felt different, something many gay people can empathize with. Do you sense that relationship?
Yes, I do. I've always felt that. I've always felt that's one of the things that's drawn my gay fans to me. They do know that I do feel different, and all of my life I will be different. I always have been. But I enjoy and appreciate and respect that difference in myself just like I do in other people. God made me the way that I am and it's my business to be true to that.

You were one of the first major country artists to advocate for gay rights. Why did you decide to take that step and stand up for LGBT equality?

Why wouldn't I stand up for everybody, for all people? In the country field, we're brought up in spiritual homes, we're taught to "judge not lest you be judged," and it's always been a mystery to me how people jump all over things just to criticize, condemn and judge other people when that is so un-Christian - and they claim to be good Christians! We're supposed to love one another. We're supposed to accept and love one another. Whether we do or not, that's a different story. But that's what we're supposed to do.



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Dolly Parton and her 'lack of judgment' (Original Post) DemocratSinceBirth Jan 2016 OP
DSB, I saw the subject line with saltpoint Jan 2016 #1
I would have helped you firebomb the house, saltpoint Samantha Jan 2016 #6
You can bend it any damn time you saltpoint Jan 2016 #8
Well, for those Trump moments at DU, here is an online video for you to hum along with Samantha Jan 2016 #9
Yep -- There it is, and I hope saltpoint Jan 2016 #10
I had a Friend tell me Mbrow Jan 2016 #12
Thank you for that! Manifestor_of_Light Jan 2016 #15
I was not familiar with this piece, and I really enjoyed listening to it Samantha Jan 2016 #17
Have you heard the Alvin version of 9-5? snooper2 Jan 2016 #16
Well, I have now Samantha Jan 2016 #18
Dolly is a class act, and a Southern treasure. n/t ms liberty Jan 2016 #2
Saw her every week as a very young teen... 40RatRod Jan 2016 #3
My grandparents listened to that program as asjr Jan 2016 #5
I remember Cas Walker! Samantha Jan 2016 #19
Did you see her on the Colbert Report? Cracklin Charlie Jan 2016 #4
k&r Liberal_in_LA Jan 2016 #7
K&R betsuni Jan 2016 #11
Thank you for sharing. And for fun.... NCTraveler Jan 2016 #13
here is a fun one SoLeftIAmRight Jan 2016 #14

saltpoint

(50,986 posts)
1. DSB, I saw the subject line with
Sun Jan 10, 2016, 01:50 PM
Jan 2016

"and her 'lack of judgment'" and I thought, Oh hell, this is some attempt to besmirch Dolly Parton, and I was ready to firebomb your house.

But lo, I read the whole post and it gives us Dolly as the generous-spiritied human being she is. Phenomenally successful but true to her purposes.

And she's given us some very fine music over a long time. Long may she run.

Samantha

(9,314 posts)
6. I would have helped you firebomb the house, saltpoint
Sun Jan 10, 2016, 09:15 PM
Jan 2016

Dolly Parton is, as they say in the South, my first cousin once removed. Put more simply, my mom and Dolly Parton were first cousins. My mother's mother and Dolly Parton's mom were sisters. I saw pictures of them with their families whenever I visited my grandmother's home.

Dolly Parton, as you might know, has taken a lot of her income and invested it in jobs for Tennesseans via Dollywood. She also buys books for the schools. Her generosity has known no bounds.

One of the many songs she has written, "I will always love you" is one of my most-loved songs.

But the most amazing thing I have found about her is that I have pretty much the same outlook on life as she. I am totally non-judgmental, and I find it hard to understand why everyone is not the same.

Sorry to bend your ear, saltpoint....

Sam

saltpoint

(50,986 posts)
8. You can bend it any damn time you
Sun Jan 10, 2016, 10:28 PM
Jan 2016

want to, Sam.

And I love your assessment of Dolly Parton.

I have some of her recordings, especially the Nine to Five album. On that recording she does an astonishing job of "And You Know That I Love You," not as famous as her own composition "I Will Always Love You," but this version is just so fine.

As well she covers the Woody Guthrie / Martin Hoffman song "Plane Wreck at Las Gatos." I hum that song in my head during these many dark months of Trump's threat to build a wall on our southern border. The song argues for the dignity of all people, no matter the country of their origin, their faith, or their native tongue.

When Dolly records songs like this, she probably upsets some very conservative listeners out there. But at the same time, she gets many of us progressives to stop what we're doing and give her our best ears.

Samantha

(9,314 posts)
9. Well, for those Trump moments at DU, here is an online video for you to hum along with
Mon Jan 11, 2016, 12:20 AM
Jan 2016

and keep nearby:








I wasn't familiar with this song, but looked it up when you mentioned it. It is a haunting song, and she sings it beautifully.

With kind regards,

Sam










saltpoint

(50,986 posts)
10. Yep -- There it is, and I hope
Mon Jan 11, 2016, 06:11 AM
Jan 2016

several others will give it a listen. Thanks for putting it up for us.

Mbrow

(1,090 posts)
12. I had a Friend tell me
Mon Jan 11, 2016, 10:21 AM
Jan 2016

that when he moved to Pigeon Forge (?) the school where Dolly grew up at, she would pay for the first two years of college for kids who could make it in. Not sure if it's true or not but it sound like something she would do. Great Lady.

Samantha

(9,314 posts)
17. I was not familiar with this piece, and I really enjoyed listening to it
Mon Jan 11, 2016, 03:15 PM
Jan 2016

As I said in the above post, I found it haunting. I am glad others are listening to it.

Sam

40RatRod

(532 posts)
3. Saw her every week as a very young teen...
Sun Jan 10, 2016, 03:51 PM
Jan 2016

...when she was just getting a start singing on the weekly Cas Walker TV show in Knoxville, Tenessee. She was about 12 years old and had a voice of gold. Cas was the owner of several grocery stores in the area and gave her a start to stardom.

asjr

(10,479 posts)
5. My grandparents listened to that program as
Sun Jan 10, 2016, 04:43 PM
Jan 2016

long as it lasted! They lived 45 miles away and loved it. Those were the "good old days".

Samantha

(9,314 posts)
19. I remember Cas Walker!
Mon Jan 11, 2016, 03:21 PM
Jan 2016

My family is from Knoxville, on my fathers side. I did not know she got started signing on his television show. Good to know, 40RatRod.

Sam

Cracklin Charlie

(12,904 posts)
4. Did you see her on the Colbert Report?
Sun Jan 10, 2016, 04:15 PM
Jan 2016

It has been quite a while back. Stephen would often sing with musical guests, and he has a pretty good voice. He seems comfortable singing, and eager to sing with all sorts of different singers.

But when Dolly was there...Stephen could not sing with her. They would start out, he would just break up, and they would try to start over. They re-started several times. It was the most amazing thing. He was completely overwhelmed by singing with Dolly Parton.

I am not sure they ever got through the song.

She is an absolute icon in so very many ways. And, she IS different...wonderfully different.

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