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By David Akadjian
Students from Texas Tech University build a house for Habitat for Humanity in 2010.
At the Robbers Cave Boy Scout camp, Sherif wanted to test whether he could take a group of people, without any inherently hostile attitudes towards each other, and create conflict by introducing competition.
What Sherif found was not only that he could, but that he could also resolve the conflict if he introduced a shared goal. As I talk to people about politics and work for change, I always try to remember the importance of fighting with someone on something.
What happened at the Robbers Cave
Sherif and his researchers recruited 22 boys for a three-week summer camp at Robbers Cave State Park. None of the boys were told they were going to be a part of an experiment.
The boys were broken up into two groups called the Rattlers and the Eagles. During the first week of camp, in their separate groups, they did what most kids do at summer camp: They hiked, they swam, they canoed, and they cooked out. By the end of the first week, both groups had become cohesive teams.
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Gregorian
(23,867 posts)We're split between Hillary and Bernie, and yet the bigger picture is banking corruption, election problems, and tons of stuff we can't afford to lose sight of.
Igel
(35,320 posts)Others just unite larger factions against other factions and constitute another instance of competition.
People revel in competition, and often "let's have a shared goal" = "here's my goal, feel free to fall in behind me, loser."
It's a way of appearing to be a uniter while sowing division and discord. Those already sharing the goal find it fair, those who didn't have that goal find it insulting. In the end, those who don't fall in line are seen as unreasonable, and those who don't fall in are uncomfortable, resentful. It's often hard to find the reason for their discomfort because on the surface, where most people do their thinking, it all seems reasonable.