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Eugene

(61,910 posts)
Thu May 12, 2016, 12:22 PM May 2016

A London receptionist refused to wear heels and was dismissed from her job. Now she’s petitioning...

Source: Washington Post

A London receptionist refused to wear heels and was dismissed from her job. Now she’s petitioning Parliament.

By Ben Guarino May 12 at 7:39 AM

When Nicola Thorp showed up at PwC, a finance company in London, late last year, she was wearing flats — what she thought were smart, sensible shoes for her first day on the job as a receptionist.

But the 27-year-old temp worker was told by PwC that she would have to put on something a little taller. Specifically, footwear with 2- to 4-inch heels.

Thorp refused, countering she’d have to spend the day on her feet. “I said ‘I just won’t be able to do that in heels’,” Thorp told BBC Radio London in an interview Wednesday. “I said ‘if you can give me a reason as to why wearing flats would impair me to do my job today, then fair enough’, but they couldn’t.”

When she pointed out that men wouldn’t be expected to do the same work in heels, she says her new colleagues laughed at her and dismissed her from work without pay.

Portico, the outsourcing company that had hired Thorp for the PwC job, argued she had agreed to a dress code. It later told the BBC that, “with immediate effect all our female colleagues can wear plain flat shoes.” PcW said that such heels were not a part of its rules, the BBC also reported Wednesday.

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Source: BBC

London receptionist 'sent home for not wearing heels'

11 May 2016 London

A London receptionist was sent home from work after refusing to wear high heels, it has emerged.

Temp worker Nicola Thorp, 27, from Hackney, arrived at finance company PwC to be told she had to wear shoes with a "2in to 4in heel".

When she refused and complained male colleagues were not asked to do the same, she was sent home without pay.

Outsourcing firm Portico said Ms Thorp had "signed the appearance guidelines" but it would now review them.

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Read more: http://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-london-36264229
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A London receptionist refused to wear heels and was dismissed from her job. Now she’s petitioning... (Original Post) Eugene May 2016 OP
Meh. Agree to the dress code then complain about it? bunnies May 2016 #1
Meh. Did you see what they were asking her to do? yellowcanine May 2016 #4
Ive had jobs that required being on my feet in heels. bunnies May 2016 #9
Her action resulted in change. They dropped the policy. yellowcanine May 2016 #21
Thats good then. bunnies May 2016 #22
I'd love companies to change the dress code for men to yeoman6987 May 2016 #33
Does a tie actually endanger your health MattBaggins May 2016 #59
It does make the body heat rise but you know that already. yeoman6987 May 2016 #66
We men do like to find the smallest oppression possible and pretend it's equivalent. LanternWaste May 2016 #93
Yes it can. -none May 2016 #71
Wearing a tie may be physically uncomfortable during the duration one wears it etherealtruth May 2016 #91
It is a big deal for many women. Ilsa May 2016 #83
Meh. Bullshit. Dress codes should not be injurious to health or demeaning cali May 2016 #5
I worked at a bar that required low cut shirts. bunnies May 2016 #10
That is entirely different cali May 2016 #26
Can low cut shirts damage your back? yellowcanine May 2016 #28
No. Just your self-worth. nt bunnies May 2016 #31
How did your feet feel at the end of your shift? Feet and breasts are two different things. valerief May 2016 #78
The post I responded to referenced dress codes that were demeaning. bunnies May 2016 #92
Agreed tammywammy May 2016 #23
Yep. Heels are for decoration. They are not meant for standing for hours on end or lots of walking. kcr May 2016 #87
What? They attacked her for being a woman scscholar May 2016 #34
Attacked her? What? nt bunnies May 2016 #35
LibertarianUnderground---------------------------------------------------------> MattBaggins May 2016 #57
There are a lot of people posting this kind of thing here these days. SalviaBlue May 2016 #64
I've noticed. That's why I find myself avoiding the place more and more. Crunchy Frog May 2016 #95
You seem to have snide and dismissive down pretty well yourself. nt bunnies May 2016 #74
Take it as a positive. It's another (your noun here) to put on Ignore. I am. nt valerief May 2016 #79
Heh. The company collapsed like a house of cards in a breeze. yellowcanine May 2016 #2
I suspect if anyone notices her it won't be beneficial Egnever May 2016 #13
Where did she tell her employer "how to run their business"? cui bono May 2016 #29
There is no right to accept a job with a dress code Egnever May 2016 #37
You are completely incorrect MattBaggins May 2016 #61
Right, but that's hardly telling them how to run their business. cui bono May 2016 #63
Big difference between fighting for better conditions Egnever May 2016 #69
Whenever anyone takes a job they make an agreement. So your argument is stating that one can cui bono May 2016 #88
It's your right to think workers don't have rights kcr May 2016 #84
A lot of people agree Donald trump would make a great president. Egnever May 2016 #85
A lot of Trump supporters wouldn't know a picket line if it hit them in the face. kcr May 2016 #86
Um... Orrex May 2016 #36
"an entry level employee" yellowcanine May 2016 #48
Actually, I'm not blaming her. She's the whistleblower. Orrex May 2016 #73
Clearly that finance company hires receptionists to add the bjo59 May 2016 #3
"public-school-boy thing" So men from private schools are not smirking sexists? yellowcanine May 2016 #7
In Britain Public Schools ARE private schools whatthehey May 2016 #11
In England 1939 May 2016 #12
Actually, I could be wrong but in the UK "public school" is what we call smirkymonkey May 2016 #14
Even so, still not good to stereotype that way? yellowcanine May 2016 #18
The Donald and george W bush are the stereotypical examples in the US. IF the stereotype fits wear Vincardog May 2016 #32
Ah well, some think Sidwell Friends is "elite" also...... yellowcanine May 2016 #39
You might want to ask bjo59 Vincardog May 2016 #40
Those heels are gonna make a lot women JustAnotherGen May 2016 #6
Exactly so. I knew a woman whose toes were twisted into a point from years suffragette May 2016 #17
Is her employer is the temp agency or the finance company? Orrex May 2016 #8
Well said Egnever May 2016 #15
She did not claim immunity. She just wants it changed. yellowcanine May 2016 #16
Wait so you sign a dress code then ignore it and that is the company's fault? Egnever May 2016 #19
Yes and pretty soon people will be working naked! yellowcanine May 2016 #25
People actually ARE working naked - in Times Square, for one. closeupready May 2016 #68
I agree--it should be changed. Orrex May 2016 #24
Good points with a couple of caveats yellowcanine May 2016 #38
I agree that that *is* an issue to be addressed. Orrex May 2016 #42
I doubt that OSHA safety standards would ban 2 inch heels. yellowcanine May 2016 #44
A dress item that endangers ones health is not legally permissive MattBaggins May 2016 #62
About time malaise May 2016 #20
She has already won, in a sense. yellowcanine May 2016 #41
Another woman tax. WhiteTara May 2016 #27
Yes, men obviously have far more freedom in corporate dress codes than women whatthehey May 2016 #43
That's not what this is about. DLevine May 2016 #45
Exactly. What people are missing is that high heels are not healthy. yellowcanine May 2016 #49
Sure, but the post I responded to raised an expanded issue whatthehey May 2016 #50
I'll trade you my high heels for your necktie mainer May 2016 #51
Sounds kinky. How's Tuesday? jberryhill May 2016 #52
High heel regs are rare enough to generate news articles, and fleeting enough whatthehey May 2016 #60
It's a bit more complicated Major Nikon May 2016 #82
Ladies - I am totally baffled by the resurgance of high heels. They were popular when I was younger jonno99 May 2016 #30
Was this dress code put in place by male managers? mainer May 2016 #47
HR usually comes up with these policies whatthehey May 2016 #53
No, I don't blame it on the women. But then again this story is the first I can jonno99 May 2016 #54
"Sex And The City". closeupready May 2016 #67
Makes as much sense as anything else. I don't recall Carrie ever "falling off" her heels - jonno99 May 2016 #72
High heels have never gone away. You might have not been in a high-heels milieu. WinkyDink May 2016 #70
High heels are instruments of torture. mainer May 2016 #46
And discriminatory if they said only their female employees needed to smoke TDale313 May 2016 #58
High heel accident statistics mainer May 2016 #55
This message was self-deleted by its author WillowTree May 2016 #56
Image if I had worn 4 inch heels in my civilian police uniform behind bullet proof glass Omaha Steve May 2016 #65
Most women wear them so that they will appear taller...and its about fashion davidn3600 May 2016 #75
She didn't care about appearing taller, she wanted to be comfortable and without injury. cui bono May 2016 #89
Actually I meant to post that under one of the above responses asking why davidn3600 May 2016 #90
The word "fashion" was mentioned so I was referring the world of fashion, cui bono May 2016 #94
I'd like to see the men who are responsible for that dress code SheilaT May 2016 #76
She probably didn't wear her push-up bra and low-cut blouse either. Fuckin' assholes. nt valerief May 2016 #77
Good grief A Little Weird May 2016 #80
Some jobs have a silent code of conduct and dress. AgadorSparticus May 2016 #81

yellowcanine

(35,699 posts)
4. Meh. Did you see what they were asking her to do?
Thu May 12, 2016, 12:48 PM
May 2016

"I was expected to do a nine-hour shift on my feet escorting clients to meeting rooms. I said 'I just won't be able to do that in heels'."

Sometimes common sense trumps dress codes. This is one of them. The fact that the company reviewed its policy and changed it almost immediately proves that.

 

bunnies

(15,859 posts)
9. Ive had jobs that required being on my feet in heels.
Thu May 12, 2016, 12:53 PM
May 2016

It wasnt that big of a deal, really. Point is, she agreed to it. She shouldnt have.

yellowcanine

(35,699 posts)
21. Her action resulted in change. They dropped the policy.
Thu May 12, 2016, 01:22 PM
May 2016

Not everyone can wear heels and be comfortable. She had being doing similar work and did not have to wear them.
And she is actually not faulting the company. Just wanted them to change. She should be praised, not criticized, for speaking up and causing a positive change. I suspect she didn't see the "heels" part when she signed the paper. Many of these boiler plate agreements are out of date and not enforced, it appears.

"I don't hold anything against the company necessarily because they are acting within their rights as employers to have a formal dress code, and as it stands, part of that for a woman is to wear high heels," Ms Thorp said.
"I think dress codes should reflect society and nowadays women can be smart and formal and wear flat shoes.
"Aside from the debilitating factor, it's the sexism issue. I think companies shouldn't be forcing that on their female employees."


Also I would rather have this young woman working for me than for a rival company. She isn't afraid to speak up when she sees something which needs to be changed. Employers should value that.

 

bunnies

(15,859 posts)
22. Thats good then.
Thu May 12, 2016, 01:26 PM
May 2016

Looks like she handled it well. The job where I had to wear heels was a venture capital company. Seems that general industry has a thing for them.

These days, Im lucky if I can wear heels long enough to go out to dinner. My job now requires steel-toed boots. BIG difference.

 

yeoman6987

(14,449 posts)
33. I'd love companies to change the dress code for men to
Thu May 12, 2016, 01:56 PM
May 2016

I hate having to wear a suit everyday and a tie. Ugh!!!!

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
93. We men do like to find the smallest oppression possible and pretend it's equivalent.
Fri May 13, 2016, 09:39 AM
May 2016

We men do like to find the smallest oppression possible and pretend it's equivalent.

But you knew that already, part deaux.

etherealtruth

(22,165 posts)
91. Wearing a tie may be physically uncomfortable during the duration one wears it
Fri May 13, 2016, 06:33 AM
May 2016

Many uniforms are uncomfortable for the time a person wears them.

Wearing heals is uncomfortable in the immediate term and does pose increased risk of injury (ties, lanyards, etc pose some elevated risk) .... wearing high heals pose health risks and cause harm long after the wearer has traded them in for more comfortable foot wear (unlike 'ties" in which any increase in risk is gone the moment they are taken off .... but then again, I think everyone already knew that)


http://www.osteopathic.org/osteopathic-health/about-your-health/health-conditions-library/womens-health/Pages/high-heels.aspx

Over time, wearing high heels can shorten the muscles in your calves and in your back, leading to pain and muscle spasms. "Any time you wear shoes that restrict the natural shape of your foot, you’re at risk for experiencing pain," Dr. Nevins points out. According to Dr. Nevins, many women who wear high heels often suffer a shortening of the Achilles tendon because once the heel is pointed upwards, it tightens up. Stretching it again or switching to flats can be very painful; it can even lead to plantar fasciitis. "This tendon is designed to be flexible, so the foot can lie flat or point. With repetitive wear, you can develop unhealthy patterns that can persist even when you’re not wearing high heels," adds Dr. Nevins.



http://www.cbsnews.com/news/high-heels-cause-muscle-damage-change-walk-even-after-taken-off/

The daily high heel-wearers walked with shorter and more forceful strides, compared to the controls. The heel wearers were also found to constantly have their feet in a flexed, toes-pointed position - so much so, that it became "default" for their feet, Cronin told the Times. This position - along with the shortened stride - actually caused the women's calf muscles to shorten, the study found, leading them to put more strain on their muscles

Cronin said that when these women will slip on more comfortable shoes like sneakers or flip-flops, they face an even greater injury risk since they're introducing their permanently deformed feet into a different environment. And since the women in the study were young - 25, on average - the toll the heels take on feet may happen fairly quickly, and the impact could be even worse for older women.

That doesn't surprise Dr. Orly Avitzur, medical adviser for Consumer Reports. She's written about high heels dangers for years, and she told HealthPop that she's heard from many women they simply can't wear high heels once they reach their 40s because their feet are too damaged.

Ilsa

(61,695 posts)
83. It is a big deal for many women.
Thu May 12, 2016, 11:12 PM
May 2016

Many of those stylish shoes ruin the bone structure in the feet, causing cramps, deformities and years of pain. I stopped wearing them when I turned 30, except for rare special occasions.

I'm glad she stuck it out and pushed for change. Their request to wear ridiculous shoes 9 hours a day was cruel, absurd, and sexist.

 

bunnies

(15,859 posts)
10. I worked at a bar that required low cut shirts.
Thu May 12, 2016, 12:54 PM
May 2016

I agreed to it. I wore the shirts. Had I not been willing to do it, I should not have agreed to do it. Yeah?

yellowcanine

(35,699 posts)
28. Can low cut shirts damage your back?
Thu May 12, 2016, 01:43 PM
May 2016

Companies, at least in the U.S. are required to provide "reasonable accommodation" for employees who are disabled or might be injured by a work requirement. Substituting flat shoes for heels would seem to be a reasonable accommodation, imo.

valerief

(53,235 posts)
78. How did your feet feel at the end of your shift? Feet and breasts are two different things.
Thu May 12, 2016, 07:07 PM
May 2016

Breasts don't support your weight. Feet do.

 

bunnies

(15,859 posts)
92. The post I responded to referenced dress codes that were demeaning.
Fri May 13, 2016, 09:24 AM
May 2016

I wasnt talking about feet.

tammywammy

(26,582 posts)
23. Agreed
Thu May 12, 2016, 01:28 PM
May 2016

I know women that have had extensive foot surgery to repair years of wearing heels damage. I work in a business professional environment and I wear flats for two reasons: 1. I have a bad back and 2. Heels hurt my feet. Wearing heels in no way improves job performance unless that job is to model high heeled shoes.

kcr

(15,317 posts)
87. Yep. Heels are for decoration. They are not meant for standing for hours on end or lots of walking.
Fri May 13, 2016, 12:02 AM
May 2016

They will cause permanent damage if worn that way. It's a work safety issue.

It's like telling construction workers that it isn't putting on a professional appearance to wear hard hats.

 

scscholar

(2,902 posts)
34. What? They attacked her for being a woman
Thu May 12, 2016, 01:59 PM
May 2016

They wouldn't have done this to a man, and they admitted that. They did this. Did this.

MattBaggins

(7,904 posts)
57. LibertarianUnderground--------------------------------------------------------->
Thu May 12, 2016, 04:00 PM
May 2016

perhaps you would do well over there with the snide dismissive attitude

SalviaBlue

(2,917 posts)
64. There are a lot of people posting this kind of thing here these days.
Thu May 12, 2016, 04:16 PM
May 2016

All I can do is or or

or maybe just

yellowcanine

(35,699 posts)
2. Heh. The company collapsed like a house of cards in a breeze.
Thu May 12, 2016, 12:43 PM
May 2016
Portico, the outsourcing company that had hired Thorp for the PwC job, argued she had agreed to a dress code. It later told the BBC that, “with immediate effect all our female colleagues can wear plain flat shoes.” PcW said that such heels were not a part of its rules, the BBC also reported Wednesday.

Meanwhile I suspect Ms. Thorp has come to the attention of other employers who will value her good sense and intelligence and would be willing to hire her and compensate her accordingly.

"I was expected to do a nine-hour shift on my feet escorting clients to meeting rooms. I said 'I just won't be able to do that in heels'."
 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
13. I suspect if anyone notices her it won't be beneficial
Thu May 12, 2016, 12:58 PM
May 2016

This was on her first day on the job. Not a quality employers are looking for and now her name can be googled for this story.

This is not going to work out well for her.

I don't disagree with her outright but the idea you are going to come in on your first day and tell your employer how to run their business is not a quality in high demand.

To make it worse she ran to the press. Also not a quality highly desired.

cui bono

(19,926 posts)
29. Where did she tell her employer "how to run their business"?
Thu May 12, 2016, 01:45 PM
May 2016

She was standing up for health concerns.

Are you against workers' rights?

.

 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
37. There is no right to accept a job with a dress code
Thu May 12, 2016, 02:34 PM
May 2016

and chose to ignore it.

She agreed to this dress code then balked when they enforced it.

I may disagree with their dress code but I have no right to dictate it. I do have a right to refuse the job because I don't want to adhere to it.

There is no law against requiring high heels. It certainly is not a right.

MattBaggins

(7,904 posts)
61. You are completely incorrect
Thu May 12, 2016, 04:06 PM
May 2016

Employees have every right to ensure their own safety and health in the work place, up to and including to refuse a dress code that endangers their health.

A woman does indeed have every right to refuse to destroy her feet and back. This is not LibertarianUnderground.

cui bono

(19,926 posts)
63. Right, but that's hardly telling them how to run their business.
Thu May 12, 2016, 04:15 PM
May 2016

Personally, I don't think that type of dress code should be allowed as it is sexist and it is harmful to one's health. My feeling is that she's fighting for better working conditions.

What about the workers who agreed to certain wages and terrible working conditions because they needed a job, needed money to survive, should they never fight to improve their work place? This is what's being lost here. You don't sign away your rights when you take a job. You don't give the company carte blanche to treat you any way they like. That's why we have laws and unions and OSHA, etc...

.

 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
69. Big difference between fighting for better conditions
Thu May 12, 2016, 05:34 PM
May 2016

And having a right to ignore agreements you made.

If this is the fight she wants to have more power to her but she has no right to remain in the job while she has that fight.

cui bono

(19,926 posts)
88. Whenever anyone takes a job they make an agreement. So your argument is stating that one can
Fri May 13, 2016, 02:12 AM
May 2016

never try to improve one's workplace.

Do you believe in strikes?

.

kcr

(15,317 posts)
84. It's your right to think workers don't have rights
Thu May 12, 2016, 11:34 PM
May 2016

Because of course, it's your right to think any old thing you want to. Some people think the world is only 6000 years old, for example. What can you do?

Anyway, thankfully a lot of people disagree, and a lot of people have for a long time. Otherwise we wouldn't have things like minimum wage, child labor laws, concepts like overtime. It's a shame we have to fight for the scraps we have left because people are forgetting how and why we have these things and the concept of worker's rights. What a shame.

 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
85. A lot of people agree Donald trump would make a great president.
Thu May 12, 2016, 11:38 PM
May 2016

Doesn't make them right nor does it make ignoring dress codes you agreed to a right.

What a shame you can't figure out the difference.

kcr

(15,317 posts)
86. A lot of Trump supporters wouldn't know a picket line if it hit them in the face.
Thu May 12, 2016, 11:41 PM
May 2016

Even more of them would, and wouldn't give a shit. In fact, they would cross it with glee.

Orrex

(63,216 posts)
36. Um...
Thu May 12, 2016, 02:04 PM
May 2016
Meanwhile I suspect Ms. Thorp has come to the attention of other employers who will value her good sense and intelligence and would be willing to hire her and compensate her accordingly.
Well, that's an optimistic way to look at it. Most companies don't like exposing themselves to public relations risk for the sake of an entry level employee.

I'm glad that she got this done, but there's no basis for assuming a positive impact on her future employability.

yellowcanine

(35,699 posts)
48. "an entry level employee"
Thu May 12, 2016, 03:21 PM
May 2016

Okay, you are blaming the employee for a "public relations risk." I don't think that is fair. She actually did very little at first until she found out that others had been treated the same way. Only then did she launch the petition - not to force this company to do anything but to ask that companies not be able to discriminate in this way. A reasonable request, it seems to me.

Does it matter whether she is entry level or senior management when it comes to a respectful and safe workplace? I don't think so either.

The company almost immediately changed the police which tells me that
(1) It was not an important enough policy that they wanted to defend.
(2) She was exactly right in the wisdom of the policy.

Entry level employees are potentially senior management employees if they are treated with respect, offered professional development opportunities, and most of all, listened to when they have a good idea - which this young woman did.

Orrex

(63,216 posts)
73. Actually, I'm not blaming her. She's the whistleblower.
Thu May 12, 2016, 06:25 PM
May 2016

The company with the retrograde dress code was off base here, even if they're within their rights to set their own dress code.

But I find it hard to believe that a company will look at a field of generically equivalent employees and say "let's hire the one who exposed that other company's stupidity." In fact, nothing at all in my entire professional life suggests that a company is likely to do so. If you know of such a company eager for an unplanned and public revelation of its unflattering policies, please tell us about it.

The company almost immediately changed the police which tells me that
(1) It was not an important enough policy that they wanted to defend.
(2) She was exactly right in the wisdom of the policy.
I agree on point 1, but I'm reluctant to embrace point 2 because "seeing the immediately obvious" doesn't imply particular wisdom.

Entry level employees are potentially senior management
Sure, in the same way that a particular lump of coal is destined to become a diamond. Do you have a lot of examples of entry-level temps who went on to become senior management of the companies that hired them as temps?

You have what I would charitably describe as a rose-colored view of the corporate world and management structure.

bjo59

(1,166 posts)
3. Clearly that finance company hires receptionists to add the
Thu May 12, 2016, 12:43 PM
May 2016

"sexy" element in their offices. Now that this is in news I'm thinking those laughing jerks at PwC are wiping the smiles off their faces. (I worked as a secretary to a vice president of a London investment bank back in the 80s and got to experience that smirking, sexist, public-school-boy thing that is so rampant in those kinds of institutions for myself.)

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
14. Actually, I could be wrong but in the UK "public school" is what we call
Thu May 12, 2016, 01:00 PM
May 2016

"private school" over here.

Vincardog

(20,234 posts)
32. The Donald and george W bush are the stereotypical examples in the US. IF the stereotype fits wear
Thu May 12, 2016, 01:55 PM
May 2016

It.

yellowcanine

(35,699 posts)
39. Ah well, some think Sidwell Friends is "elite" also......
Thu May 12, 2016, 02:48 PM
May 2016

Where the Obama daughters attend. Are the boys there "smirking sexists" as a group?

JustAnotherGen

(31,828 posts)
6. Those heels are gonna make a lot women
Thu May 12, 2016, 12:51 PM
May 2016

Feel a lot of pain in 20 years. My mom had to contend with those 'high heel policies' in the hotel industry in the late70's and early 80's and she's up for some knee and hip surgery as a result at the young age of 67.

suffragette

(12,232 posts)
17. Exactly so. I knew a woman whose toes were twisted into a point from years
Thu May 12, 2016, 01:12 PM
May 2016

Of wearing pointy toed heels.

Her feet were in instant pain, yet she still had to go to work and stand all day to do her job.

Orrex

(63,216 posts)
8. Is her employer is the temp agency or the finance company?
Thu May 12, 2016, 12:51 PM
May 2016

If it's the temp agency, then she's bound by the employment terms of that company as well as those of the finance company, including dress code.

If her employer is the finance company, then she's bound by the employment terms of the finance company, including dress code.

Having said that, I think that it's stupid and oppressive to require employees to wear high heels. If employees want to wear them, then that should be their choice. But if an employee agrees to a legally permissible dress code, then the employee can't afterwards claim immunity from that dress code.

 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
15. Well said
Thu May 12, 2016, 01:01 PM
May 2016

Agree on both counts.

If you agree to the dress code complaining about it after the fact is silly.

If you can't abide by the dress code then don't accept the job.

yellowcanine

(35,699 posts)
16. She did not claim immunity. She just wants it changed.
Thu May 12, 2016, 01:08 PM
May 2016
"I don't hold anything against the company necessarily because they are acting within their rights as employers to have a formal dress code, and as it stands, part of that for a woman is to wear high heels," Ms Thorp said.
"I think dress codes should reflect society and nowadays women can be smart and formal and wear flat shoes.
"Aside from the debilitating factor, it's the sexism issue. I think companies shouldn't be forcing that on their female employees."

I fault the supervisor a lot here. Apparently Ms. Thorp did sign the dress code. But let's face it, many of these dress codes are out of date and often not strictly enforced. Heels for a woman working in an office may have been standard in the mid to late 20th century but this is 2016. Ms. Thorp is correct. Demanding that women wear heels is sexist and there is plenty of evidence that they are not healthy for a woman who has to be on her feet a lot. Sometimes common sense trumps dress codes.
 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
19. Wait so you sign a dress code then ignore it and that is the company's fault?
Thu May 12, 2016, 01:20 PM
May 2016

So where does that end? Uniforms are no longer necessary?

yellowcanine

(35,699 posts)
25. Yes and pretty soon people will be working naked!
Thu May 12, 2016, 01:36 PM
May 2016

What part of this paragraph was unclear?
"I don't hold anything against the company necessarily because they are acting within their rights as employers to have a formal dress code, and as it stands, part of that for a woman is to wear high heels," Ms Thorp said.
"I think dress codes should reflect society and nowadays women can be smart and formal and wear flat shoes.
"Aside from the debilitating factor, it's the sexism issue. I think companies shouldn't be forcing that on their female employees."


She is trying to get the company to change. And they did. That is a good thing. Who said anything about uniforms?

Slippery slope arguments are quite often a logical fallacy, by the way. http://www.garlikov.com/philosophy/slope.htm

Orrex

(63,216 posts)
24. I agree--it should be changed.
Thu May 12, 2016, 01:32 PM
May 2016

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Unfortunately, as a temp worker (i.e. a low-value disposable employee), she has little hope of getting them to change their policy unless they want to.

I fault the supervisor a lot here. Apparently Ms. Thorp did sign the dress code.
Full stop. That's the end of it. A temp worker agreed to the terms of employment and now wants them changed. She doesn't have much more leverage to call for that change than I do. It speaks well of the company that they decided to implement the change.

But let's face it, many of these dress codes are out of date and often not strictly enforced.
I'm not sure that's accurate, or at any rate I'd like to review your sample pool. My office will send someone home for a dress code violation, with repeated violations resulting in termination. A temp who knowingly (i.e., after signing) violates dress code will not be invited back, and a very new hire or provisional employee will likely be given one warning before dismissal. I don't imagine that my office is unique in this regard, though obviously many places are more flexible in their dress codes.

Heels for a woman working in an office may have been standard in the mid to late 20th century but this is 2016. Ms. Thorp is correct. Demanding that women wear heels is sexist and there is plenty of evidence that they are not healthy for a woman who has to be on her feet a lot.
I agree completely, and I already stated as much.

Sometimes common sense trumps dress codes.
Maybe, but common sense does not trump one's acceptance of legally permissible terms of employment.

yellowcanine

(35,699 posts)
38. Good points with a couple of caveats
Thu May 12, 2016, 02:38 PM
May 2016

There is some question as to when and if this requirement was being consistently enforced.

Ms Thorp said she would have struggled to work a full day in high heels and had asked to wear the smart flat shoes she had worn to the office in Embankment.
http://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-london-36264229

Also, I would draw a distinction between strictly "professional appearance" dress codes - no jeans, t shirts etc. and something like heels, which have health implications, when I suggest that some parts of dress codes may not be enforced. And there actually is evidence here that this might be the case.

Ms. Thorp appears to be a temp who had worked at other offices and wore flat shoes with no problem, whether for the same agency or not, hard to tell. When she showed up at this particular office, (a company which did not actually have this as a requirement), it suddenly became an issue. That in itself seems a bit odd to me, almost as if someone had some kind of agenda here (Such as a male who "likes" women in heels?). I say I fault the supervisor because requiring heels has health implications. If someone tells me they cannot wear heels for nine hours, I would want to pay attention to that. With ADA, we talk about "reasonable accommodation." It is not an ADA issue - different country and the woman did not claim a disability. But there is a common law or at least a common sense principle here. A good supervisor does not knowingly force an employee to choose between their health and being able to work that day. For moral and practical reasons if not for legal ones. A reasonable accommodation would be to allow flat shoes to be worn. The woman can still do the job and there is nothing to say that she is not professional in appearance. If the woman were to wear the heels as required by the supervisor and gets injured as a result, that supervisor has now unnecessarily exposed his/her company to legal liability - maybe not as serious an issue in the U.K. which has National Health Insurance - not sure how workplace accidents are handled there - but in the U.S. this could create serious problems with Workman's Comp - at the least there would be an investigation as to why a reasonable accommodation was not offered the employee when she stated she could not work in the heels. The insurance company would be justified in raising rates for this kind of behavior. And good companies and good supervisors do not elevate appearance over employee health.

Orrex

(63,216 posts)
42. I agree that that *is* an issue to be addressed.
Thu May 12, 2016, 02:53 PM
May 2016

I can see how different sites might maintain different dress codes (my company's office in PA has different requirements than the office in AZ). It's entirely possible that the Embankment location has different requirements. If all sites are the same, though, then the fault is with the site that created the confusion. In this case, it's ultimately a good fault, but still a fault in terms of consistency.

Also, I would draw a distinction between strictly "professional appearance" dress codes - no jeans, t shirts etc. and something like heels, which have health implications, when I suggest that some parts of dress codes may not be enforced. And there actually is evidence here that this might be the case.
I'm down with that, but I think that enforcement would be a problem. If a given dress code is permitted by law and by OSHA safety standards, then it might be up to the employee to demonstrate that a given factor represents a health risk.

Certainly one would hope that the employer recognizes that professionalism and safety/comfort are not mutually exclusive!

yellowcanine

(35,699 posts)
44. I doubt that OSHA safety standards would ban 2 inch heels.
Thu May 12, 2016, 03:07 PM
May 2016

But for me as a supervisor, simply having an employee say to me that they have difficulty wearing heels when the are going to be traipsing around the building for 9 hours would be a good enough reason to offer to relax the rule for that individual and to recommend to the company that the rule be changed. We make a big deal out of making employees be responsible for their health and fitness to help keep health care costs down and we are going to turn around and second guess them for something like heels? I don't think so.

MattBaggins

(7,904 posts)
62. A dress item that endangers ones health is not legally permissive
Thu May 12, 2016, 04:11 PM
May 2016

One would swear you people think this is LibertarianUnderground

yellowcanine

(35,699 posts)
41. She has already won, in a sense.
Thu May 12, 2016, 02:52 PM
May 2016

The company changed the policy very quickly when the sh*t hit the fan.

Suggesting that this may have been selective enforcement of an outdated policy. My suspicion is that a male supervisor "likes" to see women in heels. Say it isn't so!

WhiteTara

(29,718 posts)
27. Another woman tax.
Thu May 12, 2016, 01:41 PM
May 2016

Men can be comfortable but women must look sexy at the expense of their health and well being.

whatthehey

(3,660 posts)
43. Yes, men obviously have far more freedom in corporate dress codes than women
Thu May 12, 2016, 03:02 PM
May 2016

We get to choose between flat fronted or pleated pants after all. Women are forced into wearing dresses. Or skirts. Or pants. Or culottes. Or leggings. Or saris. Bastard men have all the choice...

DLevine

(1,788 posts)
45. That's not what this is about.
Thu May 12, 2016, 03:12 PM
May 2016

No man or woman should be forced to wear shoes that can cause physical damage. It's ridiculous.

yellowcanine

(35,699 posts)
49. Exactly. What people are missing is that high heels are not healthy.
Thu May 12, 2016, 03:32 PM
May 2016

Jeez, what if men had to wear ??????? - wait, there is nothing required for men which can cause physical damage aside from requiring a man to wear a tie while operating a lathe - when have you ever heard of that being required?

whatthehey

(3,660 posts)
50. Sure, but the post I responded to raised an expanded issue
Thu May 12, 2016, 03:38 PM
May 2016

Claiming that men can remain comfortable at work. Would it were so.

whatthehey

(3,660 posts)
60. High heel regs are rare enough to generate news articles, and fleeting enough
Thu May 12, 2016, 04:05 PM
May 2016

to be gone when those articles appear.

Nobody is too likely to write articles about the several orders of magnitude greater number of policies which restrict male clothing far more than female, simply because they are too common to be newsworthy.

Really what choices do most office men get? Short or long sleeves (as long as you have no tattoos) and flat or pleated pant fronts is about it. We cannot wear shoes that are more open or legwear that allows airflow in the heat. We cannot go sleeveless or have more than a couple of inches of open shirt placket (in places that have ditched ties, else we can have none)

jonno99

(2,620 posts)
30. Ladies - I am totally baffled by the resurgance of high heels. They were popular when I was younger
Thu May 12, 2016, 01:48 PM
May 2016

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and it seemed they mostly faded away - giving place to more practical, comfortable shoes. As I recall, the "casting off" of heels was due to women reclaiming there bodies and wardrobes (ala the whole burning of the bras thing).

Now - in the last decade, they're back with a vengeance - what gives?

mainer

(12,022 posts)
47. Was this dress code put in place by male managers?
Thu May 12, 2016, 03:19 PM
May 2016

I'm not sure you can blame it on women that this was required in this company.

jonno99

(2,620 posts)
54. No, I don't blame it on the women. But then again this story is the first I can
Thu May 12, 2016, 03:53 PM
May 2016

recall involving any push-back on the part of the ladies (of course there may be many stories - and I've just missed them).



jonno99

(2,620 posts)
72. Makes as much sense as anything else. I don't recall Carrie ever "falling off" her heels -
Thu May 12, 2016, 06:13 PM
May 2016

She makes it look soooo easy...

mainer

(12,022 posts)
46. High heels are instruments of torture.
Thu May 12, 2016, 03:17 PM
May 2016

Men who complain about neckties should try heels someday.

They cause permanent anatomical damage to feet.
They change posture, resulting in back strain.
They hamper a woman's ability to walk safely.
They hamper a woman's ability to drive safely.

If some company said that it was MANDATORY for all employees to do something harmful like smoke cigarettes, wouldn't we all agree this should be illegal?

TDale313

(7,820 posts)
58. And discriminatory if they said only their female employees needed to smoke
Thu May 12, 2016, 04:01 PM
May 2016

Because it projected the right image.

mainer

(12,022 posts)
55. High heel accident statistics
Thu May 12, 2016, 03:56 PM
May 2016

Such dress code rules should result in lawsuits whenever a female employee gets hurt tottering around on heels she's forced to wear.

(And yes, with that number of injuries, OSHA would probably be involved.)


U.S. emergency rooms treated 123,355 high-heel-related injuries between 2002 and 2012, say researchers from the University of Alabama at Birmingham. More than 19,000 of those injuries occurred in 2011 alone.


http://www.cbsnews.com/news/injuries-from-high-heels-on-the-rise/

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Omaha Steve

(99,665 posts)
65. Image if I had worn 4 inch heels in my civilian police uniform behind bullet proof glass
Thu May 12, 2016, 04:27 PM
May 2016



I look like this.


OS
 

davidn3600

(6,342 posts)
75. Most women wear them so that they will appear taller...and its about fashion
Thu May 12, 2016, 06:54 PM
May 2016

Studies consistently show people view tallness as a good quality. And it's something that stretches across many different cultures. Someone who is tall is perceived with authority. Some women wear heels simply to appear taller and match the height of their male co-workers.

It's also fashion. 90% of female celebrities wear heels. And they showcase it all over the media. And that sets the fashion trends.

cui bono

(19,926 posts)
89. She didn't care about appearing taller, she wanted to be comfortable and without injury.
Fri May 13, 2016, 02:17 AM
May 2016

I don't even know why you brought that up but I disagree with it anyway.

And who do you think sets fashion trends? Mostly white males. And it's all about marketing. Women have plenty of body issues and it's because they are bombarded with "fashion". We are told how sexy we should be, how skinny we should be etc, etc, etc... It's not healthy for our minds and our bodies.

This OP has nothing to do with any woman wishing to be taller for any reason. It has to do with a woman who didn't want to wear high heels at a job where she will be on her feet all day because it is uncomfortable and leads to injury/health issues.

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davidn3600

(6,342 posts)
90. Actually I meant to post that under one of the above responses asking why
Fri May 13, 2016, 06:12 AM
May 2016

Oh, and it's WHITE MALES that set female fashion trends? Black males and Hispanic males play no part in the patriarchy, right? Don't women wear heels in other countries? Women wear heels in Brazil and in Mexico. Is it white men forcing women there too?

Muslim males in the mid-east play no part in forcing women to wear head coverings and burqas. That's those white, European, heterosexual Christian men who are forcing those women to wear that.

It's those white men dictating what women wear all over the world!

And those poor women who do wear heels have no choices at all. They have no power or control over their fashion? No choices at all? Interesting.

cui bono

(19,926 posts)
94. The word "fashion" was mentioned so I was referring the world of fashion,
Sat May 14, 2016, 03:27 PM
May 2016

not cultural dress. You are, of course, correct when you mention middle eastern oppression of women regarding attire.

My mention of white males was regarding the fashion industry and the advertising industry that accompanies it. Most people running both of those when these "standards" such as high heels were implemented were white males.

And if you think advertising and the fashion world doesn't affect what a woman/girl (girls are where these impressions start) chooses and gives them body issues and low self-esteem you must think advertising and marketing doesn't work. In which case you would either be wrong or there are a lot of stupid people spending billions on advertising and PR campaigns for nothing.

It is a fact that white males tend to be the oppressors in general as they are the ones usually in power, again, especially when these fashions began but still today, in western cultures, of course.

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SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
76. I'd like to see the men who are responsible for that dress code
Thu May 12, 2016, 07:02 PM
May 2016

walk around all day in 4 inch heels themselves. Or even 2 inch heels.

I was an airline employee who wore high heels for ten years, and for ten years my feet hurt every single day. I stood the entire shift, and often had to walk to the farthest reaches of the airport and back again, a good quarter mile hike in each direction. After I left that job, I didn't wear any kind of a heel for several years. I occasionally wear a shoe or sandal with a heel these days, but I don't stand in them for 8 or more hours at a stretch.

A Little Weird

(1,754 posts)
80. Good grief
Thu May 12, 2016, 08:42 PM
May 2016

What kind of troglodytes require high heels these days? I have worn heels exactly once (to a wedding) in the last 20 years. Even among my friends that like heels, I don't know anyone who wears them every day. It is ridiculous to think an employer could require them.

AgadorSparticus

(7,963 posts)
81. Some jobs have a silent code of conduct and dress.
Thu May 12, 2016, 08:51 PM
May 2016

They don't care if it is detrimental or not. It is the norm and expectation. And if you don't conform, you get silently pushed out the door.

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