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Coexistence, is it possible and is it desirable? (Original Post) Cary May 2016 OP
It's entirely possible. Iggo May 2016 #1
Mandatory unless a Drumpf presidency is OK with anybody. Jackie Wilson Said May 2016 #2
Hard to coexist with religious or political whackos who want to kill you just because you exist. Throd May 2016 #3
Even harder to make them magically vanish jberryhill May 2016 #4
Between human being and fish? muriel_volestrangler May 2016 #5
Good lawd... unrec. demmiblue May 2016 #6
Thank you for the invaluable feedback Cary May 2016 #10
Do you feel like specifying what groups (or species) you're talking about muriel_volestrangler May 2016 #12
I said nothing of the sort. Cary May 2016 #13
That's the problem - you've said too little muriel_volestrangler May 2016 #14
I was intentionally vague Cary May 2016 #15
Intentional vagueness makes no sense pinboy3niner May 2016 #18
Who appointed you to be the judge? Cary May 2016 #20
I blame others for a lack of clarity on my part as well... LanternWaste May 2016 #50
No, not possible angrychair May 2016 #7
Our species isn't that old, as species go Cary May 2016 #8
I agree angrychair May 2016 #11
Possible TrappedInUtah May 2016 #9
Would this be peaceful or unpeaceful coexistence? nt bemildred May 2016 #16
I don't know. Cary May 2016 #21
No idea, it just seemed relevant. nt bemildred May 2016 #23
It's a perfectly good question Cary May 2016 #25
Ah, private quarrel. nt bemildred May 2016 #26
I am having a private quarrel? Or I am avoiding one? Cary May 2016 #28
Well, if your only weapons are verbal it can be any Hortensis May 2016 #30
No, it's always a fight and a struggle Quantess May 2016 #17
Wasn't coexistence part of our own evutionary adaptation? Cary May 2016 #22
Yes, but look how far we've come. Quantess May 2016 #24
Species go extinct Cary May 2016 #29
It's quite a bit like getting old Fumesucker May 2016 #19
You don't suddenly get old or die Cary May 2016 #27
I've seen people die very suddenly Fumesucker May 2016 #37
I stand corrected on the dying. Cary May 2016 #41
It depends. Deadshot May 2016 #31
Have you ever seen a group that is to your eyes homogenous, Cary May 2016 #32
Of course. Deadshot May 2016 #36
I'm reminded of an Emo Philips joke Fumesucker May 2016 #38
Ah yes, that was along the lines of what I was reminded of as well Cary May 2016 #39
Of course it's possible--well wait a minute ismnotwasm May 2016 #33
No ryan_cats May 2016 #34
I was taught that our Founding Fathers set up a system to accomodate that. Cary May 2016 #40
By its definition, no. LanternWaste May 2016 #51
I used the word "essentially" with precision Cary May 2016 #56
No society can exist without coexistence. rug May 2016 #35
True Cary May 2016 #43
Yes. Yes. And Yes! Dont call me Shirley May 2016 #42
Probably not. Yes. Yes. Chan790 May 2016 #44
"Neoliberal," as opposed to non-"Neoliberal?" Cary May 2016 #45
You are aware that neolibs are just neocons that are inside the Democratic party, right? Chan790 May 2016 #46
You're entitled to your opinion Cary May 2016 #47
It was a direct answer...just one you don't like. Chan790 May 2016 #48
Not exactly Cary May 2016 #49
Er... no, actually Scootaloo May 2016 #54
You're correct, and that's why I was trying to steer the conversation back Cary May 2016 #57
Co-existence IMHO requires a degree of mutual respect.... JPnoodleman May 2016 #52
seems the trend lately DustyJoe May 2016 #53
Nice job, 54 replies to a complete vague frankieallen May 2016 #55
Oh good, "franikeallen" with 100 posts Cary May 2016 #58

muriel_volestrangler

(101,320 posts)
12. Do you feel like specifying what groups (or species) you're talking about
Thu May 26, 2016, 06:26 PM
May 2016

for this thread? Your reply here makes it look like you think we should be able to tell it from your OP and that you want a serious discussion.

muriel_volestrangler

(101,320 posts)
14. That's the problem - you've said too little
Thu May 26, 2016, 07:28 PM
May 2016

Your reply seems to show that you expect serious answers to your OP, but what it is about? What group(s) coexisting with what group(s)? Until you specify that, you won't get serious discussion - just things like 'unrec'.

Cary

(11,746 posts)
15. I was intentionally vague
Thu May 26, 2016, 10:24 PM
May 2016

Different people interpreted my statement in different ways, as I intended. If you have a problem with that then it's your problem not mine.

pinboy3niner

(53,339 posts)
18. Intentional vagueness makes no sense
Fri May 27, 2016, 03:00 AM
May 2016

Either you're serious in asking a specific question, or you're not.

To paraphrase another DUer, I do not coexist with you!

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
50. I blame others for a lack of clarity on my part as well...
Fri May 27, 2016, 02:38 PM
May 2016

Often, when more than a few people are unable to understand my meaning, I blame myself for lack of clarity rather than blaming others simply to feel more clever or better about myself.

Clarity. You should attempt it more often. "If you have a problem with that then it's your problem not mine..."

angrychair

(8,699 posts)
7. No, not possible
Thu May 26, 2016, 02:55 PM
May 2016

It seems to go against our very DNA. Our culture has always had a fixation on conflict, death and an after-life. The only reason we haven't killed ourselves off yet is not because for lack of effort but lack of means.

As we have progressed technologically, we now have the means, so it is no longer a question of "if" but "when".

Until then, I'll be the best person I can be and teach my children to be the best they can be. It's all anybody can do. While there are good people in the world who do good things, as a race, that is not our destiny.

Cary

(11,746 posts)
8. Our species isn't that old, as species go
Thu May 26, 2016, 02:59 PM
May 2016

We have 150,000 years or so to go before we can claim to be a successful adaptation.

angrychair

(8,699 posts)
11. I agree
Thu May 26, 2016, 04:08 PM
May 2016

We have a long way to go before we have any conclusive proof we are evolutionary superior or another failed evolutionary off-shot.

Cary

(11,746 posts)
25. It's a perfectly good question
Fri May 27, 2016, 07:53 AM
May 2016

And relevant, of course. But as I stated my own question is intentionally vague. Coexistence between whom? I was in my own mind referring to Sanders supporters and Democrats. But you perhaps can see why I was vague? I knew if I tried to define that I would get posters going off on my definitions.

I'm not interested in that. It.was better to ask a vague question because from the answers I can easily spot the individual interpretation and the choice of how to interpret the question is in fact the most telling information.

I am more interested in hearing others' answers than playing mind games with people who invariably insist upon changing the subject to "Cary sucks." That doesn't answer your question, sorry. But it does reveal something about me.

Cary

(11,746 posts)
28. I am having a private quarrel? Or I am avoiding one?
Fri May 27, 2016, 07:59 AM
May 2016

Do you want to have "bewildered sucks" discussions?

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
30. Well, if your only weapons are verbal it can be any
Fri May 27, 2016, 08:03 AM
May 2016

kind of quarrel you guys want, exchange addresses as needed, etc. If you're equipped with weapons of mass destruction, I suggest coexistence is critical, as well as keeping your actual identities and locations secret.

Quantess

(27,630 posts)
17. No, it's always a fight and a struggle
Fri May 27, 2016, 02:55 AM
May 2016

Invasive species take over and displace the native species, permanently altering the system. Winners take all, and damage their environment in the process.

Cary

(11,746 posts)
27. You don't suddenly get old or die
Fri May 27, 2016, 07:56 AM
May 2016

You have thousands of moments where you get older in negligible increments.

Fumesucker

(45,851 posts)
37. I've seen people die very suddenly
Fri May 27, 2016, 09:32 AM
May 2016

Also seen people die slowly.

Neither one has much to recommend it.

Cary

(11,746 posts)
41. I stand corrected on the dying.
Fri May 27, 2016, 10:43 AM
May 2016

I wasn't thinking it fully through, of course people die suddenly.

I still have a problem with your analogy though. I don't think it's like growing older and dying but I have to run off to court now.

That's a little like growing old and dying.

Deadshot

(384 posts)
31. It depends.
Fri May 27, 2016, 08:14 AM
May 2016

With whom are we coexisting? Bigots? Liars? Thieves? Murderers? Rapists? Donald Trump supporters? Muslims? Christians? Wiccans? Buddhists?

Fumesucker

(45,851 posts)
38. I'm reminded of an Emo Philips joke
Fri May 27, 2016, 09:34 AM
May 2016
I was walking across a bridge one day, and I saw a man standing on the edge, about to jump off. So I ran over and said "Stop! don't do it!" "Why shouldn't I?" he said. I said, "Well, there's so much to live for!" He said, "Like what?" I said, "Well...are you religious or atheist?" He said, "Religious." I said, "Me too! Are you christian or buddhist?" He said, "Christian." I said, "Me too! Are you catholic or protestant?" He said, "Protestant." I said, "Me too! Are you episcopalian or baptist?" He said, "Baptist!" I said,"Wow! Me too! Are you baptist church of god or baptist church of the lord?" He said, "Baptist church of god!" I said, "Me too! Are you original baptist church of god, or are you reformed baptist church of god?" He said,"Reformed Baptist church of god!" I said, "Me too! Are you reformed baptist church of god, reformation of 1879, or reformed baptist church of god, reformation of 1915?" He said, "Reformed baptist church of god, reformation of 1915!" I said, "Die, heretic scum", and pushed him off. -- Emo Phillips

Cary

(11,746 posts)
39. Ah yes, that was along the lines of what I was reminded of as well
Fri May 27, 2016, 10:39 AM
May 2016

I was thinking of the ultra orthodox Jews in the neighborhood I grew up in. It was similar to your story.

But beyond just religion I was thinking of the dialogue between Neil Young and Stephen Stills. Neil wrote the song "Helpless." Stephen responded with this:

We are not helpless we are men
What lies between us
It can be set aside and ended

Everyday we learn more how to hate
Shut the door
And then we'll tell ourselves we can't relate
Only to the ones who are the same
Yet even they are different
And ever so they shall remain

All are strangers, all are friends, all are brothers
Open up my friend and learn to hear
For even lying
When it has nothing you should fear

ismnotwasm

(41,986 posts)
33. Of course it's possible--well wait a minute
Fri May 27, 2016, 09:03 AM
May 2016

I think successful co-existence could exist in a framework of basic rights. Start with something like Maslow's hierarchy of needs. Once the minimal for survival is considered satisfied, building on those needs would lead to healthier competition, which doesn't have to be greedy disruptive and destructive behavior, but rather a catalyst for the mind.

What is very necessary, in my opinion, and a for instance, is to co-exist with what's left of environmental culture, if we don't stop fucking with the ecosystems, we will pay, are already paying, a price far higher that what ensures survival.

Once you stop ensuring basic needs, or deny the need to co-exist with the environment in a healthier way. the question of co-existence is moot. Survival is essential to ponder existential questions.

So yes to all three parts of your question.

ryan_cats

(2,061 posts)
34. No
Fri May 27, 2016, 09:16 AM
May 2016

No, no we cannot.

There have been brief instances where humanities's existence was at stake where we put aside our differences to fight such as the Superbowl or March Madness.

We always return to then fighting for our own self interests which I have zero problem with. What I do have a problem with is people who loftily bleat on and on about the children or how they want to help people but are the biggest d-bags you will ever meet, not to mention selfish. I always fight for my own selfish interests first, if it comes out, that entirely by accident, that it helps someone else's problem, that is a happy coincidence as I am a lover of humanity.

Cary

(11,746 posts)
40. I was taught that our Founding Fathers set up a system to accomodate that.
Fri May 27, 2016, 10:41 AM
May 2016

Every couple of years we essentially have a coup de etat, do we not?

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
51. By its definition, no.
Fri May 27, 2016, 02:42 PM
May 2016

"Every couple of years we essentially have a coup de etat, do we not?"

By its definition, no. Definitions, unlike hiding behind implication, are specific and with meaning.

Cary

(11,746 posts)
43. True
Fri May 27, 2016, 10:47 AM
May 2016

But again look at it from different perspectives. Our existence as a species is about 50,000 years, whereas the universe is 13.777 billions of years old. In the scheme of things a few hundred thousand years, even, is nothing. So if we managed to co-exist for a few hundred thousand years (which I doubt) have we actually co-existed?

Perhaps. I'm not sure where to draw that line.

 

Chan790

(20,176 posts)
44. Probably not. Yes. Yes.
Fri May 27, 2016, 10:48 AM
May 2016

It's unfortunate, but the only path to coexistence is the one where neoliberals capitulate entirely on what they believe and turn their fire on destroying the vampire squid within the Democratic party too. That's not going to happen.

So, there won't be coexistence and we all really need there to be. I'm not entirely sure why neoliberals value destroying America above victory...but they do.

Cary

(11,746 posts)
45. "Neoliberal," as opposed to non-"Neoliberal?"
Fri May 27, 2016, 11:04 AM
May 2016

Maybe it's not the fault at all of "Neoliberals?" Maybe non-"Neoliberals" themselves are incompetent holders of the truth and too dysfunctional to administer that truth?

I would think the truth would be a powerful thing, and that one who commands that power would have to be mighty incompetent to screw that up.

Don't you think?

 

Chan790

(20,176 posts)
46. You are aware that neolibs are just neocons that are inside the Democratic party, right?
Fri May 27, 2016, 11:36 AM
May 2016

I think that it is factually their fault...is an inherent first-principle that is beyond dispute.

Non-neolibs would be progressives. That's a much less awkward term than non-neoliberal and it makes clear that which seems to confuse some...neoliberals are incapable of being progressive. It's just another label they want to co-opt to make resistance to their seizure of this party and coup e'tat more difficult.

Incompetent? No.

Victims of subterfuge and oppression by the the alliance between neo-liberals and their kindred conservatives in the other party? Yes.

Cary

(11,746 posts)
47. You're entitled to your opinion
Fri May 27, 2016, 12:12 PM
May 2016

I'm not sure what that stuff you post has to do with my question except to say that alienating people for any reason or no reason at all is easy. I have to remind myself that reacting to nonsense is easy too.

 

Chan790

(20,176 posts)
48. It was a direct answer...just one you don't like.
Fri May 27, 2016, 12:17 PM
May 2016

No, we probably can't coexist. (Not within the same party anyways.)
Yes, it's desirable.
Yes, it's pretty necessary...which makes the fact it's probably impossible unfortunate.

 

Scootaloo

(25,699 posts)
54. Er... no, actually
Fri May 27, 2016, 02:57 PM
May 2016

Neoliberalism (and neoconservativism) have nothing to do with partisan alignment.

Neoliberalism refers to economic liberalism - that is, lasseiz-faire economics. The difference between neoliberlaism and traditional liberal economics is that classical liberal economics is a philosophy divorced from the state, while neoliberalism advances the use of a strong state to create and enforce lasseiz-faire economic policy. Yes, there is a deep irony to it.

Neoconservativism is unrelated to neoliberlaism (though most neoconservatives are also neoliberals.) It is contrasted against traditional conservativism (or "paleoconservatism) because traditional conservativism is protectionist, isolationist, and disfavors a strong state. Neoconservativism on the other hand is socially conservative, yes, but favors a state that is strong in areas aside from economics, interventionist policy, and lacks even the slightest sprinkling of populism. Donald Trump and Ted Cruz are actually closer to Paleoconservatives like Pat Buchanan then they are to neconservatives like Dubya or Paul Ryan.

Cary

(11,746 posts)
57. You're correct, and that's why I was trying to steer the conversation back
Fri May 27, 2016, 03:25 PM
May 2016

The name calling is a diversion.

Anyway, in terms of economics I am and adherent of modern mainstream neoclassical synthesis, salt water variety. People who actually understand economics will know exactly what that is. If people wish to brand that as "neoliberal" lotsa luck with that one.

JPnoodleman

(454 posts)
52. Co-existence IMHO requires a degree of mutual respect....
Fri May 27, 2016, 02:45 PM
May 2016

Some things can co-exist better than other things, and while I believe it is possible I would qualify by saying its more likely that co-existence will fail or brake down over time.

Co-existence takes a lot of work and mutual respect as well as an acceptance that it might not last.

DustyJoe

(849 posts)
53. seems the trend lately
Fri May 27, 2016, 02:49 PM
May 2016

Seems to be a LOT of folks, cultures, groups etc. that subscribe to the credo of;

I'm not a bigot, I hate everyone equally

Cary

(11,746 posts)
58. Oh good, "franikeallen" with 100 posts
Fri May 27, 2016, 03:27 PM
May 2016

I put my question out there just so I could get your approval. It means the world to me.

Ciao ciao.

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