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The Polack MSgt

(13,191 posts)
Sat May 28, 2016, 01:38 AM May 2016

Just a reminder on Memorial Day weekend

This Holiday is meant to respect the men and women who died in service. So, I'm asking, respectfully, that the "thanks for your service" and reunion posts be held back until Veterans day.

Please let us honor our war dead on the day set aside to honor our dead.

Honor our living veterans on Veterans Day in a couple months, please stop mixing it up.

I know - Daddy and Mommy coming home videos are awesome, but this weekend?

They just amount to a whitewash of the cost of war and do not honor our war dead.

RIP Uncle Robert, we still remember.

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Just a reminder on Memorial Day weekend (Original Post) The Polack MSgt May 2016 OP
I agree. I did 24 years and don't want to hear anything but honoring the dead. yeoman6987 May 2016 #1
Thank you The Polack MSgt May 2016 #2
Well said... Wounded Bear May 2016 #3
Thank you The Polack MSgt May 2016 #4
This message was self-deleted by its author TM99 May 2016 #5
Thank you The Polack MSgt May 2016 #7
I never knew that there was a difference(hang my head in shame) 4now May 2016 #6
The distinction isn't made The Polack MSgt May 2016 #8
rest in peace, uncle david hopemountain May 2016 #9
RIP Uncle Robert C Moon May 2016 #10
Thank you JustAnotherGen May 2016 #11
K&R Scuba May 2016 #12
Thank you. n/t Wilms May 2016 #13
Yes. Aristus May 2016 #14
It feels a little rote now doesn't it. Nt The Polack MSgt May 2016 #15
Indeed. Aristus May 2016 #16
thank you Skittles May 2016 #17
 

yeoman6987

(14,449 posts)
1. I agree. I did 24 years and don't want to hear anything but honoring the dead.
Sat May 28, 2016, 01:48 AM
May 2016

You are awesome to put this friendly reminder out.

The Polack MSgt

(13,191 posts)
4. Thank you
Sat May 28, 2016, 02:06 AM
May 2016

I appreciate the response.

I hate to push back against people who want to show support. My father and surviving uncle served in Vietnam, and I much prefer the current climate than what they came home to - BUT - That ain't a free pass

I really dislike this muddying of the water regarding Memorial Day - it seems like America is trying to down play the deaths of all combatants so it will be easier to fight in the future

Maybe I'm just paranoid.

Maybe we are aware, but I do believe a day of honest reflection regarding the cost of war is good for America's collective soul

Response to The Polack MSgt (Original post)

4now

(1,596 posts)
6. I never knew that there was a difference(hang my head in shame)
Sat May 28, 2016, 02:37 AM
May 2016

Now I will never forget.
Thanks for the information.

The Polack MSgt

(13,191 posts)
8. The distinction isn't made
Sat May 28, 2016, 02:45 AM
May 2016

In mass media, not nearly often enough...

Almost as if they don't want people to reflect.

Peace

hopemountain

(3,919 posts)
9. rest in peace, uncle david
Sat May 28, 2016, 03:39 AM
May 2016

korean war -

and my schoolmates who never made it back from vietnam - and those who did but were never the same, haunted, their spirits stolen or left behind.

JustAnotherGen

(31,828 posts)
11. Thank you
Sat May 28, 2016, 05:52 AM
May 2016

My father died August 2011 - Lung, Pancreatic, Liver Cancer - October 2011 Fed Gov acknowledged it was due to Agent Rainbow of Colors exposure and switched his partial disability in 1978 to full disability.

Korea and Vietnam killed him - it just took a really long time for the time bomb to go off inside of him.

Aristus

(66,403 posts)
14. Yes.
Sat May 28, 2016, 03:30 PM
May 2016

Anyway, "Thank you for your service!" is just "Have a nice day!" with its 'ain't I a great patriot?' hat on.

No outrage, please, DU-ers; third-generation veteran here.

Skittles

(153,169 posts)
17. thank you
Sat May 28, 2016, 10:56 PM
May 2016

I try to set people straight too - they don't mean any harm, but they need to learn the difference

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