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cynatnite

(31,011 posts)
Fri Jun 8, 2012, 08:12 PM Jun 2012

Teacher tells student, "How about black boy? Go sit down, black boy."

Kathleen Pyles, a math teacher at North End Middle School in Waterbury, Conn., is on paid leave while school officials investigate allegations that she addressed a black student with a racist remark.

Parents and the NAACP spoke out during a Board of Education meting Thursday, accusing Pyles of inappropriately calling a student "black boy" when she couldn't remember his name, WFSB reports.

Officials told the Waterbury Republican-American that Pyles called the boy by the wrong name, and when the student pointed out the mistake, Pyles responded, "How about black boy? Go sit down, black boy."

The incident allegedly occurred in May, and surfaced when another child reported it to his mother, who then took the issue to the school, according to NECN.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/06/08/kathleen-pyles-connecticu_n_1580779.html

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Teacher tells student, "How about black boy? Go sit down, black boy." (Original Post) cynatnite Jun 2012 OP
Sounds like someone needs a visit from Jane Elliot bluestateguy Jun 2012 #1
She is amazing! cynatnite Jun 2012 #4
My high school had an entire quarter of a class like this Confusious Jun 2012 #12
Excellent video! xfundy Jun 2012 #11
... SammyWinstonJack Jun 2012 #21
Wow. RainDog Jun 2012 #35
Fantastic! goclark Jun 2012 #45
The Right wingers would simply hate this film... AsahinaKimi Jun 2012 #48
Great video... awoke_in_2003 Jun 2012 #62
Ok this is bad enough but Drale Jun 2012 #2
Was it a boy? Was he black? Without enough of the right kinds of information about the teacher and patrice Jun 2012 #3
are you serious ? we are talking about a teacher , why didn't she ask him what his name was ? JI7 Jun 2012 #5
She should have asked his name, but the fact that she didn't does not necessarily mean she is a patrice Jun 2012 #10
The fact that she didn't consider asking him name and called him a black boy like that... cynatnite Jun 2012 #14
it's the fact she called him black boy JI7 Jun 2012 #20
ARE. YOU. FOR. REAL? 2ndAmForComputers Jun 2012 #25
No, it's what came afterwards that was racist LeftishBrit Jun 2012 #30
do you honestly think that if he happened to be white magical thyme Jun 2012 #39
Right she may be insane or off her meds ManyShadesOf Jun 2012 #56
Maybe it just means that she tries to belittle someone if they tell her she is wrong siligut Jun 2012 #64
Excuses do not make what she said any less racist. n/t Jamastiene Jun 2012 #65
You think she would say this to a white child? n/t cynatnite Jun 2012 #7
Not knowing what the mix of the group involved in whatever was going on there, let's patrice Jun 2012 #13
She said it not just once...but twice. The school took her off her job. Verdict is in. n/t cynatnite Jun 2012 #15
school takes teacher out whenever there's a controversy/law suit until it's settled. that the HiPointDem Jun 2012 #31
Your trying to win this argument? Life Long Dem Jun 2012 #47
What a despicable comment. Son of Gob Jun 2012 #8
Let's just see if your point is valid Caretha Jun 2012 #9
This has been in heavy rotation on the tee vee today. I think there might be a problem. MADem Jun 2012 #16
"How about black boy?" marmar Jun 2012 #18
"Politically correct"??? obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #27
Shame on you! n/t Dogtown Jun 2012 #29
At least the way it is stated... LeftishBrit Jun 2012 #33
I think it sounds pretty clear that she was racist RainDog Jun 2012 #36
Usually I agree with you patrice, but this really is something, that if true... joshcryer Jun 2012 #37
Are you a racist? GeorgeGist Jun 2012 #40
Are you a hand-wringer? Do you LOOK for offense? dont hassle the hoff Jun 2012 #50
Are you in the library? Son of Gob Jun 2012 #52
Why? Is that mock-worthy to you? dont hassle the hoff Jun 2012 #54
Why do you waste your time here? Son of Gob Jun 2012 #57
Nevermind, you've been banned already Son of Gob Jun 2012 #59
Are you joking? _ed_ Jun 2012 #46
I agree. While I think her comment sounds vaguely hostile dont hassle the hoff Jun 2012 #49
Patrice ManyShadesOf Jun 2012 #55
Calling a little kid "black boy" is ridiculous and racist Cali_Democrat Jun 2012 #58
good for the kid who told his mother and mother who did something about it JI7 Jun 2012 #6
I would love to see the mother. dont hassle the hoff Jun 2012 #51
Obviously, on little or nothing more than hearsay, the woman is guilty unless proven innocent. patrice Jun 2012 #17
You didn't say "maybe the teacher didn't say that." 2ndAmForComputers Jun 2012 #26
That is correct obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #43
Everything I wrote about this particular instance of WTF is correct. 2ndAmForComputers Jun 2012 #63
Oh my.............. Marrah_G Jun 2012 #19
Sensitivity training danadevin85 Jun 2012 #22
On PAID leave? BlueIris Jun 2012 #23
+1 nt TBF Jun 2012 #28
Maybe they still respect the concept of innocent until proven guilty? HiPointDem Jun 2012 #32
That's typical for public employees. joshcryer Jun 2012 #38
That is SOP obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #44
Ew? Thanks for yet another dont hassle the hoff Jun 2012 #53
There is no excuse for thisr... rubluetoo Jun 2012 #24
The daily 5 minute hate. HiPointDem Jun 2012 #34
The ReTHUGs and the racist hacks on talk radio malaise Jun 2012 #41
...and people come to the racist's defense immediately PCIntern Jun 2012 #42
Amazing is n't it malaise Jun 2012 #61
Fire her. I hope she doesn't have tenure (nt) Nye Bevan Jun 2012 #60
I'd initially refrained from posting, but I have a few thoughts. knitter4democracy Jun 2012 #66

bluestateguy

(44,173 posts)
1. Sounds like someone needs a visit from Jane Elliot
Fri Jun 8, 2012, 08:20 PM
Jun 2012

She is not a nice person, but she gets shit done.

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cynatnite

(31,011 posts)
4. She is amazing!
Fri Jun 8, 2012, 08:37 PM
Jun 2012

I've never seen this before. It was so moving. I teared up more than once watching this.

Confusious

(8,317 posts)
12. My high school had an entire quarter of a class like this
Fri Jun 8, 2012, 09:12 PM
Jun 2012

It was called "holocaust class." guess what it was about.

I never actually took it since there were other things I had to take.

goclark

(30,404 posts)
45. Fantastic!
Sat Jun 9, 2012, 09:05 AM
Jun 2012

I was an Educator for many years ~ she was amazing.

How I wish that the world could have more teachers like Ms. Elliot.

I happen to be African American so it caused me to think of something that AA's can sometimes do....

Not all of course but sometimes AA's that are "lighter" in color will think that a dark in color AA is not as pretty or handsome. Yes, even today. : (

My grandfather had blue eyes and smooth brown hair -- people would say, "
" Your grandfather looks like he is White - is he White?" That seemed to raise him in the "Color Chart" of many people that we knew. He did not understand it and when people would comment about it to him he would say " I am a COLORED Man and I am proud to be a COLORED Man."

No matter how many times he would respond to it -- people would comment that they had never seen a Colored person look so White.

Even in today's world - the insecurity of being "Darker" happens in our race.

* How can I get a link to this video -- it's wonderful.... Update:
I did a google and found it. : )


AsahinaKimi

(20,776 posts)
48. The Right wingers would simply hate this film...
Sat Jun 9, 2012, 12:42 PM
Jun 2012

and call it Liberal and Left wing indoctrination. I do remember seeing this film once.. But years after I graduated High School.

By the way, its amazing... No Green eyed people in that class?

Anyway... in my high school we grew up with all kinds of different people. We had many kinds of Asians, Native Americans, Blacks, Whites, Hispanics.. we all got along. There were never any incidents of racial tension. Yes, there were the occasional fights and squabbles but never about one group against another. No group thought of themselves as better than another. We even had an International cultural fair.. to celebrate our differences.

I loved that fair, and it was the first time I got to taste Malaysian food...or learned about dances from India. The diversity of Music was wonderful.

Drale

(7,932 posts)
2. Ok this is bad enough but
Fri Jun 8, 2012, 08:29 PM
Jun 2012

she couldn't remember the students name? Thats not a good teacher, hell I just finished a 4 week class and by the second week even the T.A. knew everyones name.

patrice

(47,992 posts)
3. Was it a boy? Was he black? Without enough of the right kinds of information about the teacher and
Fri Jun 8, 2012, 08:33 PM
Jun 2012

the situation, we don't know if the reference was a racially motivate diminutive or not.

It does racial equality no good to cry wolf EVERY time, whether or not something is actual racism or just a statement of fact, because it only confuses and antagonizes people whose only crime is that they aren't politically correct enough to avoid the problems that CAN arise from perhaps a somewhat too plain statement.

JI7

(89,271 posts)
5. are you serious ? we are talking about a teacher , why didn't she ask him what his name was ?
Fri Jun 8, 2012, 08:40 PM
Jun 2012

she is the one who made a mistake and when called on it she responded in that way.

patrice

(47,992 posts)
10. She should have asked his name, but the fact that she didn't does not necessarily mean she is a
Fri Jun 8, 2012, 09:06 PM
Jun 2012

racist.

cynatnite

(31,011 posts)
14. The fact that she didn't consider asking him name and called him a black boy like that...
Fri Jun 8, 2012, 09:14 PM
Jun 2012

says she is a racist.

BTW, she didn't just say it once...she fucking said it twice.

LeftishBrit

(41,212 posts)
30. No, it's what came afterwards that was racist
Sat Jun 9, 2012, 03:51 AM
Jun 2012

(assuming of course that the allegation is correct):

'when the student pointed out the mistake, Pyles responded, "How about black boy? Go sit down, black boy."'

 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
39. do you honestly think that if he happened to be white
Sat Jun 9, 2012, 07:33 AM
Jun 2012

she would have responded, "how about white boy? go and sit down white boy?"

Right. planet are you living on?

p.s. I am white. I have no doubt that had he been white, she would have simply asked his name. There is no question this was racist. I just hope the "nappi-headed" expelled child from another thread has his day in court too.

 

ManyShadesOf

(639 posts)
56. Right she may be insane or off her meds
Sat Jun 9, 2012, 01:08 PM
Jun 2012

Ran out of ciggies that morning.

With all the Teach To THe Test crap and blaming teachers, there still are crazy ones.

Wonder why she didn't know his name.

Maybe all black boys look the same to her.

siligut

(12,272 posts)
64. Maybe it just means that she tries to belittle someone if they tell her she is wrong
Sun Jun 10, 2012, 01:45 AM
Jun 2012

Maybe she would call an overweight kid fatso if he corrected her math, or a kid with glasses four-eyes if she dared reminded this teacher what day of the week it really was. Would that be fine with you?

patrice

(47,992 posts)
13. Not knowing what the mix of the group involved in whatever was going on there, let's
Fri Jun 8, 2012, 09:13 PM
Jun 2012

pose a hypothetical group of black children and a boy who happened to be white who was the miscreant in their midst, would it necessarily PROVE racism if the woman had referred to "white boy"?

Is she guilty unless proven innocent?

Insisting that the words "black" and "boy" are ALWAYS racist is the same thing as insisting that the word "fuck" ALWAYS refers to sexual intercourse.

"Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar."

 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
31. school takes teacher out whenever there's a controversy/law suit until it's settled. that the
Sat Jun 9, 2012, 03:57 AM
Jun 2012

school took the teacher out is meaningless beyond that fact, not a proof of guilt.

 

Caretha

(2,737 posts)
9. Let's just see if your point is valid
Fri Jun 8, 2012, 08:55 PM
Jun 2012

okay you! I mean you! Go sit your racist ass down. Btw, what was your name?

Oh, even a small child recognized this as a blatant racist remark that he/she reported it to his mother....amazing, and you must be an adult at least over the age of 18 and you can't recognize one.

Crying "wolf"....for real????

MADem

(135,425 posts)
16. This has been in heavy rotation on the tee vee today. I think there might be a problem.
Fri Jun 8, 2012, 09:16 PM
Jun 2012

The thing is, she called the kid the wrong name--the kid told her that she got it wrong. At that point, the appropriate thing to say is "What IS your name?" Not "I'll call you 'black boy' then..." I mean, really. I don't care if the kid was a surly little shit, or a smart-ass, or whatever. If she called the kid by the wrong name, she should try to get it right, not resort to "I don't know your name so I'll give you an appearance-based moniker."

It reminds me a lot of George Allen's "Macaca moment"--just tone deaf and dumb as dirt.


marmar

(77,091 posts)
18. "How about black boy?"
Fri Jun 8, 2012, 09:21 PM
Jun 2012

Come on, now. That statement isn't just naively unaware, that was malicious.

LeftishBrit

(41,212 posts)
33. At least the way it is stated...
Sat Jun 9, 2012, 04:02 AM
Jun 2012

it wasn't that the teacher called him a 'black boy' because she didn't know his name ('could the black boy in the third row answer this question?'); but that she called him the wrong name; he corrected her; and she apparently took umbrage at the correction and said 'How about 'black boy'?'. I.e. that she was implying 'If you give me orders about how to address you, I'll call you something you REALLY won't like!', in this case a racial epithet. Even if the boy had been rude in the way he corrected her, this is quite unacceptable.

Of course, children and parents have been known to invent allegations about teachers, so it's still possible that this didn't happen. But if the allegation is correct, then it was racism.

RainDog

(28,784 posts)
36. I think it sounds pretty clear that she was racist
Sat Jun 9, 2012, 04:40 AM
Jun 2012

Doesn't seem to be any "crying wolf" about it if a teacher does that sort of thing - and I'm glad another child went to that parent.

joshcryer

(62,276 posts)
37. Usually I agree with you patrice, but this really is something, that if true...
Sat Jun 9, 2012, 05:03 AM
Jun 2012

...is just reprehensible no mater the context.

If it wasn't recorded, though, I expect the teacher will be fine.

Son of Gob

(1,502 posts)
57. Why do you waste your time here?
Sat Jun 9, 2012, 01:08 PM
Jun 2012

I want to know your motivation. Why go to the library and make a new user name to rattle off 20 posts, then do the same thing the next day and the next etc. What kind of jollies does it give you?

_ed_

(1,734 posts)
46. Are you joking?
Sat Jun 9, 2012, 11:58 AM
Jun 2012

Because you forgot to finish the joke with, "my black friend said it wasn't racist, either." Then you would have hit on every single trope racists throw out to argue that they aren't actually racist.

 
49. I agree. While I think her comment sounds vaguely hostile
Sat Jun 9, 2012, 12:55 PM
Jun 2012

I doubt it was racist. What is the whole story here? Was the kid acting up and when she couldn't remember his name, she said that out of anger?

 

ManyShadesOf

(639 posts)
55. Patrice
Sat Jun 9, 2012, 01:06 PM
Jun 2012

as charged as "boy" is already. adding "black" why?

The teacher may be racist or merely crazy. Defensible this really isn't.

 
51. I would love to see the mother.
Sat Jun 9, 2012, 12:56 PM
Jun 2012

I wonder if this kid is a problem and bothers teachers. She didn't use the N-word but noticing that the kid was Black was totally racist, apparently.

patrice

(47,992 posts)
17. Obviously, on little or nothing more than hearsay, the woman is guilty unless proven innocent.
Fri Jun 8, 2012, 09:18 PM
Jun 2012

I hope you all turn down jury duty if you're ever asked and never have to submit yourselves to a jury of such peers.

2ndAmForComputers

(3,527 posts)
26. You didn't say "maybe the teacher didn't say that."
Fri Jun 8, 2012, 11:51 PM
Jun 2012

You defended the teacher's remark AS REPORTED.

Take that faux outrage and... you know the rest.

BlueIris

(29,135 posts)
23. On PAID leave?
Fri Jun 8, 2012, 11:00 PM
Jun 2012

Not unpaid?

Still employed?

Why?

People get fired for a lot less, and many of those aren't working with minors.

Ew. Just ew.

 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
32. Maybe they still respect the concept of innocent until proven guilty?
Sat Jun 9, 2012, 03:59 AM
Jun 2012

In fact, it's pretty standard for public employees accused of crimes as yet unproven to be put on paid leave until the case is settled. It protects the public while not punishing employees for unproven allegations.

Not sure why anyone would have a problem with it.

joshcryer

(62,276 posts)
38. That's typical for public employees.
Sat Jun 9, 2012, 05:05 AM
Jun 2012

And it's fine until a decision is made.

The real problem is that these decisions take so long to make and that it goes through so many channels that she can get paid for quite awhile. If there was a recording she would've been gone by now though, because it would've been cut and dry.

This is one reason why the public sector is filled with cronyism, because you scratch my back, I scratch yours. People fuck up in the general business world they get fired instantly. Do not pass go, do not collect $100.

(I say that working in the public sector.)

obamanut2012

(26,142 posts)
44. That is SOP
Sat Jun 9, 2012, 08:33 AM
Jun 2012

Paid administrative leave while it's investigated.

If it happened exactly as reported, she'll be out of a job relatively soon.

 
53. Ew? Thanks for yet another
Sat Jun 9, 2012, 12:59 PM
Jun 2012

slam on teachers.

You know, that sounds like the mentality of the T-people who voted for Walker. Again. "Hey, at my job at the minimart, I'd be fired in a heartbeat. I don't want THEM to get benefits and protection!"

Yes, she gets paid leave. Because she was still doing a job. We don't know what that student was doing before she uttered that unfortunate phrase. But totally penalizing her for possibly being human? No.

malaise

(269,172 posts)
41. The ReTHUGs and the racist hacks on talk radio
Sat Jun 9, 2012, 07:54 AM
Jun 2012

have sure promoted racism big time since Obama became President

knitter4democracy

(14,350 posts)
66. I'd initially refrained from posting, but I have a few thoughts.
Mon Jun 11, 2012, 07:41 AM
Jun 2012

First of all, I'm a teacher, and I've worked in all kinds of schools with all kinds of blends of socioeconomic levels and races.

I'm hearing a couple of things in this story. First of all, the student was up and walking around when he wasn't supposed to be. If I got a dollar for every time I ask a student to go sit down, I'd make more than my daily wage as a long-term sub. It gets really annoying because I'd be just about to switch the kids to something else but have to wait until those three or four stop trying to flirt with someone on the other side of the room and sit down. So, this student was up when he wasn't supposed to be, and she asked him to sit down.

Secondly, she forgot his name and said the wrong name. I've done this a million times. I had 145 students this last semester, and after subbing in ten different schools over the course of the year, I get the wrong name in my head sometimes. It really offends students when that happens, and I always apologize profusely and try to explain (if they're willing to hear--just apologize again if they're not). It's really easy to get a student's name wrong when it's similar to another student's and even easier if it's similar and the kids are similar in behavior or dress. Of course, students get my name wrong all the time, but I just ignore it and answer them anyway.

He corrected her on getting his name wrong. We don't know what that means. In my experience, there's a good chance it means he was less than respectful about it. We don't know that he was rude or disrespectful, but her response leads me to think that he was. It's easy to lose one's temper in a class where a kid just won't sit down, you're trying to get a million things done, and then he's rude when you ask him to sit down.

I'm not excusing what she did. What she said was racist and wrong. I'm betting, however, that the circumstances in the classroom weren't so cut and dried and that she normally would never say anything like that. She snapped, and it came out wrong. As for saying she wouldn't do it to a white kid, we don't know that. I've been known to tease my white kids by calling them white (school I was just in for a semester had a minority of white students), which the students also do with each other.

I think it's best to give the teacher the benefit of the doubt, write her up for having said something racist and wrong in a difficult moment, and then give her some extra training on classroom management.

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