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RockaFowler

(7,429 posts)
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 06:50 PM Jun 2016

Orlando Shooter Was Reportedly a Regular at Pulse and Had a Profile on Gay Dating App

Chris Hayes will have this story tonight on his show

http://gawker.com/orlando-shooter-was-reportedly-a-regular-at-pulse-and-h-1781920316

Early Sunday morning, Omar Mateen shot and killed 49 people at a gay nightclub in Orlando, perpetuating the deadliest mass shooting in U.S. history. Mateen, his father explained the next day, had repeatedly been angered by the sight of two men kissing. But according to witnesses, Mateen was also a regular at the club and exchanged messages with at least one gay man on a gay dating app.

“It’s the same guy,” Chris Callen, who performs under the name Kristina McLaughlin, told the Canadian Press. “He’s been going to this bar for at least three years.”

Ty Smith, who also goes by the name Aries, also said he’d seen Mateen being escorted drunk from the club, Pulse, on multiple occasions.

“(He’d get) really, really drunk... He couldn’t drink when he was at home—around his wife, or family. His father was really strict... He used to bitch about it,” Smith told the Canadian Press.

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Orlando Shooter Was Reportedly a Regular at Pulse and Had a Profile on Gay Dating App (Original Post) RockaFowler Jun 2016 OP
I have been expecting this bonemachine Jun 2016 #1
Me too n/t PasadenaTrudy Jun 2016 #5
It played out just a little different in my imagination bonemachine Jun 2016 #25
LIKE TheDebbieDee Jun 2016 #26
And religious repression. /nt Marr Jun 2016 #67
yup... bonemachine Jun 2016 #74
What does this mean? Was he gay? Gomez163 Jun 2016 #2
Yes, a self-hating gay person. brush Jun 2016 #3
This worries me some. lpbk2713 Jun 2016 #6
Yeah, once he finds out his murdering son regularly hung out at a gay club. brush Jun 2016 #14
Just my opinion here RockaFowler Jun 2016 #4
I think you're on to something... tallahasseedem Jun 2016 #7
Larry Craig Aerows Jun 2016 #92
It means that he frequented the venue. sibelian Jun 2016 #76
I'd wondered why he drove 2hrs away Roland99 Jun 2016 #8
There are plenty of gay bars here in this area RockaFowler Jun 2016 #9
Bingo! Roland99 Jun 2016 #12
+1, that also puts the many disputing Islamic factions he supported into perspective... uponit7771 Jun 2016 #40
I also was wondering Strelnikov_ Jun 2016 #13
And a registered lancer78 Jun 2016 #42
Self loathing gay conservative Trajan Jun 2016 #10
Except he was registered Democratic Party. yeoman6987 Jun 2016 #30
No he wasn't, that's brietbart stuff uponit7771 Jun 2016 #41
Oh maybe. I guess some may use that as a sourse yeoman6987 Jun 2016 #52
Unfortunately, Yes, this asshole was a registered Democrat. cureautismnow Jun 2016 #54
Is that an official FL voter registration site? tia uponit7771 Jun 2016 #56
Yes, it is. It includes 14 total states now, too. cureautismnow Jun 2016 #58
thx much uponit7771 Jun 2016 #61
Looks like a site people can edit ck4829 Jun 2016 #120
And the board of elections is in on it too. Travis_0004 Jun 2016 #57
Sure. Breitbart stuff. Sorry to disappoint but... cherokeeprogressive Jun 2016 #59
Just because he was registered D doesn't mean he wasn't conservative. LeftRant Jun 2016 #117
Really? This is the conslusion you drew? That he was a conservative? Ex Lurker Jun 2016 #62
Because that's CHEATING. sibelian Jun 2016 #73
Having a primary focus on gay hatred Trajan Jun 2016 #125
Radical Islam IS conservative Nevernose Jun 2016 #126
This guy used a dating app too.... Bluenorthwest Jun 2016 #11
I guess the question is whether you believe him. nt BootinUp Jun 2016 #16
Who is 'him' and what is he saying? You are the one making an assertion, I offered another Bluenorthwest Jun 2016 #18
It appears he (the guy from your story) targeted gays, just like the Orlando killer BootinUp Jun 2016 #23
He killed others too, they kill gay people becuase they are bigots. Accept that. Bluenorthwest Jun 2016 #28
I love your hate. nt BootinUp Jun 2016 #29
Post removed Post removed Jun 2016 #34
People who murder gay people for being gay are bigots. You do not agree? Bluenorthwest Jun 2016 #35
I don't think you care about BNW's "hate" one way or the other. sibelian Jun 2016 #80
I reject attempts by people to read my mind. Simple as that. nt BootinUp Jun 2016 #82
what i get from this is he was trying to get info for the attacks JI7 Jun 2016 #17
That's what the OP and everyone in this thread are saying. Bluenorthwest Jun 2016 #19
by "anyone" i meant the people who said they saw him JI7 Jun 2016 #21
But there are plenty of Gay Bars in this Area RockaFowler Jun 2016 #22
Yes you and other straights think that way. Note who it is that is finding your position to be not Bluenorthwest Jun 2016 #31
Strange response RockaFowler Jun 2016 #36
His wife knew he went there. Bluenorthwest Jun 2016 #38
It's because of his faith RockaFowler Jun 2016 #39
"blame LGBT people"?? arcane1 Jun 2016 #43
The inference needn't be overt. sibelian Jun 2016 #78
The inference needn't exist either. arcane1 Jun 2016 #83
True, but the propensity to make said inferences sibelian Jun 2016 #87
This is kind of a regular thing gollygee Jun 2016 #102
It soothes them. Behind the Aegis Jun 2016 #127
Because Disney is in Orlando and that's another place he was checking out to attack JI7 Jun 2016 #123
Well, apparently his wife went with him to this place joeybee12 Jun 2016 #15
He didn't take his wife there according to this report RockaFowler Jun 2016 #20
If she didn't go, she did know about it... joeybee12 Jun 2016 #24
Do people stake out a place for three years? n/t malaise Jun 2016 #66
Well well well yeoman6987 Jun 2016 #27
Whatever anyone WANTS it to mean, yeoman. sibelian Jun 2016 #32
I agree. A lot of speculation. I'll watch the show tonight yeoman6987 Jun 2016 #33
DU is full of gay baiting. Bluenorthwest Jun 2016 #37
Blue, he may have been stalking and possibly assaulting or killing gay men prior to this ProudToBeBlueInRhody Jun 2016 #48
He might have been a lizard head under a mask. He might have been a spooky ghost. sibelian Jun 2016 #68
What a dumb thing to say ProudToBeBlueInRhody Jun 2016 #85
I am not interested in WHAT ELSE he did or did not do, or what else he MIGHT have done sibelian Jun 2016 #93
You didn't even read anything I said, did you? ProudToBeBlueInRhody Jun 2016 #97
His college roommate says he asked him out in a romantic way Mojorabbit Jun 2016 #130
This Isn't Gay Baiting. This Is Pursuit Of The Truth...Homophobia Can Kill. writes3000 Jun 2016 #50
It DOES make the killing less the responsibility of the community at large. sibelian Jun 2016 #63
I disagree. It's our problem as a society if someone ecstatic Jun 2016 #96
unnnn, this incident is all of our problem IMHO uponit7771 Jun 2016 #107
How is it gay baiting? Matrosov Jun 2016 #64
I don't know why you're even angry, BNW. sibelian Jun 2016 #70
This message was self-deleted by its author tenderfoot Jun 2016 #122
I heard he was a registered democrat. tenderfoot Jun 2016 #44
Breitbart had that one RockaFowler Jun 2016 #45
He voted at the polls in 2014 in St. Lucie County. cureautismnow Jun 2016 #65
I don't think it would make much sense for any Muslims to be a registered Republican... glowing Jun 2016 #84
That's a good point, there are also plenty of conservative democrats uponit7771 Jun 2016 #110
Yeah that was a real woot! Rex Jun 2016 #129
Check out any murders of gay men in Florida ProudToBeBlueInRhody Jun 2016 #46
He kind of was already RockaFowler Jun 2016 #47
Ok, but you know the difference between a serial and a mass killer, right? ProudToBeBlueInRhody Jun 2016 #49
Oh yeah RockaFowler Jun 2016 #51
Not offended at all, just edgy today. ProudToBeBlueInRhody Jun 2016 #53
. . . RockaFowler Jun 2016 #60
+1 uponit7771 Jun 2016 #55
Looks like from Hayes it should be gay data app(S), multiple apps uponit7771 Jun 2016 #69
This is looking less and less like terrorism philosslayer Jun 2016 #71
Agreed. nt. BootinUp Jun 2016 #72
he called during the attack with allegiance to ISIS JI7 Jun 2016 #75
Think about it.... philosslayer Jun 2016 #77
think about it. he shot and killed a bunch of lgbt people JI7 Jun 2016 #81
I didnt believe that one from the start. Seemed too fabricated. Nt seabeyond Jun 2016 #124
and 4 other conflicting groups uponit7771 Jun 2016 #89
not as conflicting as killing a bunch of gays because one is gay themself JI7 Jun 2016 #91
And also swore allegiance to.... Adrahil Jun 2016 #103
Excellent point philosslayer Jun 2016 #105
Hezbollah is anti gay JI7 Jun 2016 #106
Yes it is. Adrahil Jun 2016 #116
I'll take his words as to what it was. 840high Jun 2016 #121
What a lovely twist of definitions. sibelian Jun 2016 #79
Funny ain't it? Behind the Aegis Jun 2016 #128
Another right wing wet dream goes down in flames tenderfoot Jun 2016 #86
No. One is created: "gay-on-gay violence." David__77 Jun 2016 #131
I really hope your world view is proven true tenderfoot Jun 2016 #133
I don't understand your statement. David__77 Jun 2016 #134
+1 uponit7771 Jun 2016 #88
Go away already, I beg you ProudToBeBlueInRhody Jun 2016 #90
Clearly many on this thread agree with me philosslayer Jun 2016 #95
I'm sure you hate Barney Frank too ProudToBeBlueInRhody Jun 2016 #98
*sigh* philosslayer Jun 2016 #100
When taken in full context, it does seem like, ecstatic Jun 2016 #94
most gay men don't have hated towards women. straight men are more likely to be hateful and attack JI7 Jun 2016 #101
Was referring to homophobic gay men, who in my experience tend to have an anger, not just towards ecstatic Jun 2016 #108
any studies on this ? if we want facts it's straight men who are most likely to attack women JI7 Jun 2016 #109
Well I was ecstatic Jun 2016 #115
Interesting... this puts a new perspective on the situation. DCBob Jun 2016 #99
This thread is amazing, I have people from "both sides" who don't get it. ProudToBeBlueInRhody Jun 2016 #104
Agreed. nt. BootinUp Jun 2016 #111
From the recent reports he wasn't even an ISIS wanna be, he reported supporting multiple factions uponit7771 Jun 2016 #112
There is evidence he was religious. BootinUp Jun 2016 #113
+1 uponit7771 Jun 2016 #114
I find is terrible. This was a terrorist act. David__77 Jun 2016 #132
Sadly, this seems to be what fundamental religion does to people. PatrickforO Jun 2016 #118
ISIS enid602 Jun 2016 #119

bonemachine

(757 posts)
1. I have been expecting this
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 06:51 PM
Jun 2016

I don't know why, but it just had that vibe of homophobia powered by closeted homosexuality...

bonemachine

(757 posts)
25. It played out just a little different in my imagination
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 07:20 PM
Jun 2016

I was expecting the news to break from someone he had slept with. On the other hand, if it was me, I might never want to admit having fucked him...

lpbk2713

(42,761 posts)
6. This worries me some.
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 06:56 PM
Jun 2016



If Dad hears this he might just go over the edge too from what I have heard about him.


RockaFowler

(7,429 posts)
4. Just my opinion here
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 06:53 PM
Jun 2016

I think he may have been a self-hating gay man

His father was very religious and this may have caused him to go over the edge.

Again just my opinion

tallahasseedem

(6,716 posts)
7. I think you're on to something...
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 06:57 PM
Jun 2016

you see in among Republicans a lot as well. The more someone protests LGBTQ issues/people, the more they are likely to be closeted.

sibelian

(7,804 posts)
76. It means that he frequented the venue.
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 08:13 PM
Jun 2016

As there is absolutely no way in which any amount of closeted homosexuality can ever be confirmed or denied, we can make up whatever we like about him, of course.

Why we would wish to do so isn't something I'll speculate on. He made his ideas perfectly clear.

RockaFowler

(7,429 posts)
9. There are plenty of gay bars here in this area
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 07:00 PM
Jun 2016

His father's house is 3 blocks from our house. There was no need to drive to Orlando - the only reason why is because he didn't want anyone in this area knowing he was gay. It's just a feeling, but I can't shake it. Especially after this report.

uponit7771

(90,347 posts)
40. +1, that also puts the many disputing Islamic factions he supported into perspective...
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 07:38 PM
Jun 2016

... it made no sense to Tomey why he would claim support for one that was fighting the other and vs versa

Strelnikov_

(7,772 posts)
13. I also was wondering
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 07:07 PM
Jun 2016

If this was truly a 'terrorist' attack, there were one hell of a lot of targets that would 'strike fear' into the general populace in the Orlando area.

However, the bigger question now is how is the Left going to respond to this. A major league asshole, probably a bit nuts, all wrapped up in a self-hating gay package fueled by religious (Christian, Islam, take you pick) intolerance, with easy access to guns . . . .

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10027905841

cureautismnow

(1,677 posts)
58. Yes, it is. It includes 14 total states now, too.
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 08:00 PM
Jun 2016

Look yourself up. I'm in this database. It used to be a Florida only database, but the link now takes you to this database with 13 other states included.

 

cherokeeprogressive

(24,853 posts)
59. Sure. Breitbart stuff. Sorry to disappoint but...
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 08:01 PM
Jun 2016

"CLAIM: Orlando nightclub shooter Omar Mateen was a Democrat.

WHAT'S TRUE: Omar Mateen registered to vote as a Democrat in the state of Florida back in 2006.

WHAT'S UNDETERMINED: His U.S. political affiliation (if any) at the time of the shooting is unknown.

ORIGIN:On 12 June 2016, security guard Omar Mateen killed a reported 49 people in a mass shooting at Orlando's Pulse nightclub before he was himself shot and killed.

Among claims that spread in the immediate aftermath of the mass shooting event was a rumor that Mateen was a (registered) Democrat, with subsequent versions of that rumor surmising that Mateen was "probably a Bernie supporter" and "hated Donald Trump."

It is true that according to Florida voter registration records, Mateen did register as a Democrat in the state of Florida in 2006:


SOURCES:
Katersky, Aaron et. al. "What We Know About Omar Mateen, Suspected Orlando Nightclub Shooter."
ABC News. 12 June 2016.

Lyons, Kate. "Orlando Pulse Club Attack: Gunman Identified As Police Investigate Motive."
The Guardian. 12 June 2016.

Westbury, Anthony et. al. "Co-worker: Omar Mateen Homophobic, 'Unhinged.'"
Florida Today. 13 June 2016.


Funny. I don't see Breitbart used as a source here anywhere. Try again. Oh, and I already know what direction you're going to move the goal post in... LOL.

LeftRant

(524 posts)
117. Just because he was registered D doesn't mean he wasn't conservative.
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 09:09 PM
Jun 2016

Some people don't even understand the difference and he clearly had some very conservative religious views he was struggling with.

Kim Davis was a Democrat until it was pointed out how that made zero sense.

Ex Lurker

(3,815 posts)
62. Really? This is the conslusion you drew? That he was a conservative?
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 08:04 PM
Jun 2016

Why is it so damn hard to even suggest that radical Islam might have had something to do with it on this site?

sibelian

(7,804 posts)
73. Because that's CHEATING.
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 08:11 PM
Jun 2016

It's CHEATING, Ex Lurker. That's spoiling the fun.

Everyone has to have a chance to choose their favourite story. Otherwise no-one will have anything to say.

If you gobble up all the mystery by taking the shooter's self-attributions at face value, people will have to think that Islam has stupid ideas about gay people and THEN what? You'd have to do something about Islam having stupid ideas about gay people and that's HARD WORK.
 

Trajan

(19,089 posts)
125. Having a primary focus on gay hatred
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 12:11 AM
Jun 2016

Is a hallmark of that pathology ...

Btw ... I am an atheist who is really closer to a quiet anti-theist ... I completely and utterly disagree with either Christianity, Islam, or what have you ...

I already blame these religions for many problems in the world ...

You want more from me? ... A stronger denunciation? ... I wasn't mean enough?

I mean - who the fuck are you to expect that from me? ...

Screw that ... I'll rely on my own schedule, thanks ...

Nevernose

(13,081 posts)
126. Radical Islam IS conservative
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 12:14 AM
Jun 2016

Maybe not Republicans, but ISIS is just Westboro Baptist with more firepower and higher membership.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
11. This guy used a dating app too....
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 07:05 PM
Jun 2016

Seattle Man Confesses to Gay Couple's Murder As 'Vengeance' for Iraq, Syria
A Seattle man has confessed to killing three people in Washington, including a gay couple in Seattle, saying he committed the murders as an act of revenge against American military actions in Afghanistan, Iraq, and Syria, according to the Los Angeles Times.

Ali Muhammad Brown, 29, had already been charged in the June murder of Ahmed Said, 27, and Dwone Anderson-Young, 23, who were gunned down after responding to a dating application meet up request Brown allegedly lured the men with, according to court documents. After police officials circulated Brown's photo as a suspect, he reportedly fled to New Jersey, where he shot and killed 19-year-old college student Brendan Tevlin. He was charged in that incident, but has pleaded not guilty.

And on Wednesday, prosecutors in King County, Wash., charged Brown with the point-blank shooting death of Leroy Henderson, a 30-year-old resident of Skyway, Wash., reports the Times.
http://www.advocate.com/crime/2014/08/23/seattle-man-confesses-gay-couples-murder-vengeance-iraq-syria

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
18. Who is 'him' and what is he saying? You are the one making an assertion, I offered another
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 07:13 PM
Jun 2016

actual fact that challenges the assumptions you are making. I note you make zero comment about the other killer. None at all. Silence.

BootinUp

(47,167 posts)
23. It appears he (the guy from your story) targeted gays, just like the Orlando killer
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 07:18 PM
Jun 2016

I do not know more than that.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
28. He killed others too, they kill gay people becuase they are bigots. Accept that.
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 07:22 PM
Jun 2016

What you are doing here is sickening and that goes for the OP as well.

BootinUp

(47,167 posts)
29. I love your hate. nt
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 07:23 PM
Jun 2016


Response to BootinUp (Reply #23)

Mon Jun 13, 2016, 07:22 PM

Bluenorthwest (44,491 posts)
28. He killed others too, they kill gay people becuase they are bigots. Accept that.

What you are doing here is sickening and that goes for the OP as well.

Response to BootinUp (Reply #29)

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
35. People who murder gay people for being gay are bigots. You do not agree?
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 07:28 PM
Jun 2016

If that's not bigotry I don't know what is. Yeah, those who murder gay people are bigots. Accept that.

sibelian

(7,804 posts)
80. I don't think you care about BNW's "hate" one way or the other.
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 08:17 PM
Jun 2016

I don't think you have the faintest interest in it.

JI7

(89,254 posts)
17. what i get from this is he was trying to get info for the attacks
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 07:12 PM
Jun 2016

I don't think anyone has said he actually was in a relationship with them.

JI7

(89,254 posts)
21. by "anyone" i meant the people who said they saw him
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 07:17 PM
Jun 2016

At the club before or contacted him in the app.

None of these people have said there was any relationship.

RockaFowler

(7,429 posts)
22. But there are plenty of Gay Bars in this Area
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 07:18 PM
Jun 2016

West Palm Beach is less than 50 miles away. Heck Ft Lauderdale is closer than Orlando.

I think he chose Orlando because it was further away from his family. No-one would know him there.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
31. Yes you and other straights think that way. Note who it is that is finding your position to be not
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 07:25 PM
Jun 2016

so logical nor even decent to promote. I find this to be despicable.

RockaFowler

(7,429 posts)
36. Strange response
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 07:31 PM
Jun 2016

Why choose a gay club in Orlando when there are clubs in this area??

My reason is that if one of his family members saw him coming out of the club they would get angry.

He could also be gay. Why is that so wrong to question??

The man had no idea what the difference was between ISIS, Al Qaeda or the Taliban. This may have been a ruse for his family.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
38. His wife knew he went there.
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 07:34 PM
Jun 2016

What do you say about that?

I say a criminal cased a place and then attacked it. You want to blame LGBT people to protect his fucked up faith.

You are part of the problem. This place sucks so badly.

RockaFowler

(7,429 posts)
39. It's because of his faith
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 07:36 PM
Jun 2016

He may not have wanted family members knowing he was gay. Why?? Because their faith does not condone gay people. I think the father's own statements yesterday make this really clear.

sibelian

(7,804 posts)
78. The inference needn't be overt.
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 08:15 PM
Jun 2016

There's no real way of knowing if he was gay. We already know that he declared allegiance to ISIS.

But, interestingly, there seems to be a lot of talk about the thing we don't know instead of the thing we know.

I wonder why.
 

arcane1

(38,613 posts)
83. The inference needn't exist either.
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 08:19 PM
Jun 2016

Mentioning his statements about ISIS doesn't infer all Muslims are to blame. Or all men are to blame. Or any other category he can be placed in.

sibelian

(7,804 posts)
87. True, but the propensity to make said inferences
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 08:22 PM
Jun 2016

on behalf of those making them might lead to inferences regarding them.

We are allowed to say that Islam is homophobic. The shooter described himself. I don't see the need for other factors to be brought into play.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
102. This is kind of a regular thing
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 08:46 PM
Jun 2016

Every time someone commits a hate crime against a gay person or gay people, there are threads about how the violent hateful person must really be gay. Every single time. So yeah, over time, gay people have been blamed for pretty much every hate crime against gay people.

 

joeybee12

(56,177 posts)
15. Well, apparently his wife went with him to this place
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 07:10 PM
Jun 2016

and also to disneyland to scope out as targets...doubt this means he was in the closet. Too easy to jump to the conclusion that every murderer is a self-loathing gay man.

RockaFowler

(7,429 posts)
20. He didn't take his wife there according to this report
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 07:16 PM
Jun 2016
“(He’d get) really, really drunk... He couldn’t drink when he was at home—around his wife, or family. His father was really strict... He used to bitch about it,” Smith told the Canadian Press.



He was going there quite a bit to drink without his wife
 

joeybee12

(56,177 posts)
24. If she didn't go, she did know about it...
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 07:18 PM
Jun 2016

Because she mentioned to police this club specifically and Disneyland as potential targets...if this is true and she knew the purpose, she's in deep doo-doo

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
48. Blue, he may have been stalking and possibly assaulting or killing gay men prior to this
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 07:50 PM
Jun 2016

By dismissing this out of hand, you may be ignoring justice for the LGBT community.

sibelian

(7,804 posts)
68. He might have been a lizard head under a mask. He might have been a spooky ghost.
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 08:07 PM
Jun 2016

Isn't it interesting what sort of things he "might" have been?

Why would it be those things? Because we like the idea?

"By dismissing this out of hand, you may be ignoring justice for the LGBT community."

By asserting it, just a leeeeetle bit of collective responsibility can be shuffled off everyone else and back onto the victims.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
85. What a dumb thing to say
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 08:20 PM
Jun 2016

You DO realize that social dating apps for both men, women, straights and gays have been used to lure victims for rape, assault, robbery and worse, right?

IF HE WAS using an app to victimize members of the LGBT community that we don;t know about, HOW THE FUCK IS THAT PUTTING ANYTHING ON THE VICTIMS?

He could still have very well been a heterosexual killer taking advantage of an app to do his bidding.

What "collective responsibility" am I shuffling off to the victims? Please, go ahead and show me.

Your implication is fucking offensive by the way, and if you follow it up with more snark, this conversation ends.

sibelian

(7,804 posts)
93. I am not interested in WHAT ELSE he did or did not do, or what else he MIGHT have done
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 08:32 PM
Jun 2016

and there is ABSOLUTELY NO FUCKING REASON for ANYTHING being said about him to be said about him AT ALL beyond confirming the prejudices of those making those attributions. It is an utter farce.

I couldn't care LESS what you find offensive, if you're seriously suggesting to me that we're supposed to pore over what this guy did with his fucking dick in his spare time as a significant factor in establishing his motivations when we already know beyond a SHADOW of a doubt that he declared himself an ally of a fucking Middle Eastern death cult that's openly homophobic I suggest YOU come up with some sort of explanation for your requirement of that interest.

"ooooh, he might have been gay himself you know" - it's REVOLTING. Scrabbling around in his PANTS. What do you expect to find?

Even DISCUSSIONIST isn't this fucked up. Fantasizing about creepiness while pretending it isn't creepy and ignoring the plain and obvious facts.

God, this place is a fucking shithole.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
97. You didn't even read anything I said, did you?
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 08:40 PM
Jun 2016

Because otherwise, this is you: "Gee, there's this whole part he wrote that Mateen may have been murdering or abusing gay men prior to the shooting using this app and the club's registry and he did say he might be a straight serial killer............... BUT IM GOING TO IGNORE THAT AND SCREAM THIS POST WAS ABOUT HIS SEX LIFE BECAUSE I JUST GOT FUCKING EMBARRASSED AND DON'T WANT TO ADMIT IT AND I NEED TO CONVINCE MYSELF PROUDTOBEBLUEINRHODY IS A HOMOPHOBE!!!!!!


Have a good day. We're done here.

Mojorabbit

(16,020 posts)
130. His college roommate says he asked him out in a romantic way
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 01:13 AM
Jun 2016

so it is a possibility he was gay. The story will come out as time goes on.

writes3000

(4,734 posts)
50. This Isn't Gay Baiting. This Is Pursuit Of The Truth...Homophobia Can Kill.
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 07:51 PM
Jun 2016

And if it turns out that this man was a closeted gay man, it's another example of homophobia killing. It doesn't make the tragedy less tragic. It doesn't make the victims less blameless.

For what it's worth, I'm a 46 year old gay man.

sibelian

(7,804 posts)
63. It DOES make the killing less the responsibility of the community at large.
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 08:04 PM
Jun 2016

It becomes "their problem".

ecstatic

(32,717 posts)
96. I disagree. It's our problem as a society if someone
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 08:39 PM
Jun 2016

is closeted and self loathing to the point where he kills himself and/or others, not to mention the gun aspect. One person shouldn't be able to kill 50 people so easily.

 

Matrosov

(1,098 posts)
64. How is it gay baiting?
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 08:04 PM
Jun 2016

Nobody is saying that members of the LGBT community are inherently prone to flying off the handle and trying to kill other people.

The point is he may have been gay and hated himself for it. He certainly wouldn't be the first person who'd rather be dead than be gay or lesbian.

But it's not their sexual orientation that's the real problem; rather, something in their environment that makes them feel ashamed and makes them scared to admit their sexual orientation. In his case, he had a very devout Muslim father - who said today that it's up to God and not anyone else to punish homosexuals - so he clearly doesn't approve.

Even if he was gay, I'd blame the religious influence rather than his orientation. The pledge of support to ISIS might have just been a way for him to cover up his true intentions.

..or then again, he might have just been a religious fundamentalist nutjob who thought he'd get a special place in the after life for killing members of the LGBT community.

Response to Bluenorthwest (Reply #37)

RockaFowler

(7,429 posts)
45. Breitbart had that one
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 07:47 PM
Jun 2016

But I did see something on Snopes about it too

http://www.snopes.com/orlando-shooter-was-democrat/

WHAT'S TRUE: Omar Mateen registered to vote as a Democrat in the state of Florida back in 2006.

WHAT'S UNDETERMINED: His U.S. political affiliation (if any) at the time of the shooting is unknown.

 

glowing

(12,233 posts)
84. I don't think it would make much sense for any Muslims to be a registered Republican...
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 08:20 PM
Jun 2016

It's not that he was a Democrat; its that it would be like shooting one's foot to be a member of the Republican party that hates you.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
129. Yeah that was a real woot!
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 12:58 AM
Jun 2016

No proof, but gossip seemed to work okay for some. The RWing blovating machine loved it.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
49. Ok, but you know the difference between a serial and a mass killer, right?
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 07:51 PM
Jun 2016

I mean, come on....you know what I meant. What a nitpick post.

RockaFowler

(7,429 posts)
60. . . .
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 08:03 PM
Jun 2016


I understand

I'm shocked that this happened to friends of friends of mine

We are in this together. It's time to stop the hate

JI7

(89,254 posts)
81. think about it. he shot and killed a bunch of lgbt people
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 08:18 PM
Jun 2016

And revealed himself to having allegiance to ISIS

 

Adrahil

(13,340 posts)
103. And also swore allegiance to....
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 08:47 PM
Jun 2016

Hezbollah... Mortal enemy of ISIS. The "Islamic" part of his terrorism was basically an afterthought.

 

Adrahil

(13,340 posts)
116. Yes it is.
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 09:06 PM
Jun 2016

But the point of is that swearing allegiance to both ISIS and Hezbollah makes no sense since they are fighting each other.

This was an anti-gay hate crime in a thin "righteous Islamic" wrapping.

sibelian

(7,804 posts)
79. What a lovely twist of definitions.
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 08:16 PM
Jun 2016

You seem to assume that the one precludes the other.

Clearly that is not the case.

Behind the Aegis

(53,963 posts)
128. Funny ain't it?
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 12:56 AM
Jun 2016

When his father said he was Muslim, when others said he was Muslim, so many (some of the same people) were quick to say "rumor" it just isn't true. He couldn't be, he was drinking, in a gay club... and other No True Scotsman fallacies. Now, the possibility he is a closeted gay based on SECOND HAND information, and suddenly, it is "truth to power" and "makes more sense."

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
90. Go away already, I beg you
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 08:26 PM
Jun 2016

You are such a one note fraud. All you care about is your protected group on the hierarchy of oppression scale is free from any criticism.

You also claimed Paris wasn't a terror attack, and were nowhere to be found when it was proven it was.

Jury, you want to hide me? If you do you're contributing to the biggest joke on the board. This guy is a FRAUD.

 

philosslayer

(3,076 posts)
95. Clearly many on this thread agree with me
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 08:38 PM
Jun 2016

Yet you save your vitriol for me in particular. I do appreciate the attention. Its nice to feel wanted.

So do you agree with Barney Frank that certain people within the "Islamic Element" should be under surveillance?

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
98. I'm sure you hate Barney Frank too
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 08:43 PM
Jun 2016

Gay and Jewish? Fuck, those are WAAAAAAAAAAAYYYY down on philo's hierarchy as we all know.

Are you going to admit Paris was a terrorist attack now by the way, just for the record?

 

philosslayer

(3,076 posts)
100. *sigh*
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 08:46 PM
Jun 2016
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10141487498#post2

I don't recall ever saying Paris wasn't a terrorist attack. Clearly it was a terrorist attack. It certainly wasn't workplace violence, and doesn't fit the profile of a hate crime. Unlike this particular event.

ecstatic

(32,717 posts)
94. When taken in full context, it does seem like,
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 08:34 PM
Jun 2016

in additional to being mentally ill, this killer was at war with his own feelings:

1. His reaction to seeing men kissing was unusually irate / emotional to the point where his dad remembered it 2 months later.

2. Reports are that he expressed a lot of anger/hatred towards women.

3. Peer reviewed studies have shown that men with extreme homophobia have the biggest sexual arousal/erections in response to being shown gay porn.

JI7

(89,254 posts)
101. most gay men don't have hated towards women. straight men are more likely to be hateful and attack
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 08:46 PM
Jun 2016

Women than gay men.

ecstatic

(32,717 posts)
108. Was referring to homophobic gay men, who in my experience tend to have an anger, not just towards
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 08:49 PM
Jun 2016

women but a lot of different groups.

ecstatic

(32,717 posts)
115. Well I was
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 09:06 PM
Jun 2016

speaking from personal experience, but I just found this study:

http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0191886901001179


"The purpose of the present study was to determine whether homophobia reflects a specific negative sentiment towards gay men or whether it incorporates a broader anti-feminine disposition. As such, convergent validity (i.e. masculinity, anti-feminine attitudes) and discriminant validity (i.e. alcoholism, sexual coercion, depression, and trait anxiety) were investigated. Participants were 385 heterosexual males who completed a questionnaire battery. Results offer information relative to convergent and discriminant validity of homophobia. Findings suggest that homophobia is related to heightened levels of masculinity and may develop in men who feel threatened by individuals whom they perceive to have feminine characteristics (e.g. women, gay men). Consequently, it is possible that such a threat-driven homophobic constitution may explain the increased likelihood of anti-gay and anti-women aggression."

DCBob

(24,689 posts)
99. Interesting... this puts a new perspective on the situation.
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 08:43 PM
Jun 2016

I wonder if he had any relationships... that would further clarify things.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
104. This thread is amazing, I have people from "both sides" who don't get it.
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 08:47 PM
Jun 2016

If there is evidence of this, we follow it.

Just because he used these things to his advantage doesn't mean he was gay.

He may have used them to abuse and kill others. SHOULD WE NOT WORRY ABOUT THAT OR THOSE POSSIBLE VICTIMS?

If he was gay, SO WHAT?

It's likely his religion and nutty father's upbringing is what made him conflicted because that's what religion does. Guilt, shame....

"oh, no, not possible it's one or the other no ISIS wannabe could be gay or conflicted" is what it sounds like from some of you.

He'd rather be known as an Islamic terrorist than a gay man, maybe? HOW FUCKED UP IS THAT?

Religion does that. It does it to many Christians and we have NO PROBLEM calling that out too!

No mistake, he HATED those people in the club. FREE PEOPLE. FREE PEOPLE LIVING THEIR LIVES AND NOT CARING WHO KNOWS IT.

Regardless of who and what made him, he HATED THAT and THEM.

uponit7771

(90,347 posts)
112. From the recent reports he wasn't even an ISIS wanna be, he reported supporting multiple factions
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 08:57 PM
Jun 2016

... of the extremism that were fighting each other over the phone in multiple calls to 911.

I don't see if he was gay diminish the fact that this was a horrid hate crime ... hell, plenty of black folk hate black folk and black culture (see Clarence Thomas)

BootinUp

(47,167 posts)
113. There is evidence he was religious.
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 09:02 PM
Jun 2016

He went to a mosque multiple times a week, and travelled to Saudi Arabia for the minor pilgrimmage. But that doesn't make him a radical jihadist. FBI is still looking into it, so I guess we will know more eventually.

David__77

(23,423 posts)
132. I find is terrible. This was a terrorist act.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:21 AM
Jun 2016

I don't think it matters one bit what the hell he did sexually or not. He was an Islamic State adherent who killed a bunch of people.

PatrickforO

(14,582 posts)
118. Sadly, this seems to be what fundamental religion does to people.
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 09:13 PM
Jun 2016

It uses the fear of hell to twist and torment them. It assures them that they are worms and don't have the right to be here, or to be happy. It tells them that they are miserable sinners and must crawl to the divine but even then are only forgiven through 'grace.'

Oh, sorry. That's Christian fundamentalism. This is Muslim fundamentalism. Either way, anyone who is different suffers untold pain.

enid602

(8,627 posts)
119. ISIS
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 10:20 PM
Jun 2016

Does this new revelation mean that the dudes at ISIS will have to take back their tweets claiming responsability for the attacks?

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