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markpkessinger

(8,401 posts)
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 11:51 PM Jun 2016

Can we just be honest about what was really going on with the Orlando shooter?

Look, as a gay man, I know the classic signs of a repressed closet case when I see them. The shooter's own father said his son had become angry a few weeks back after seeing two men kissing in public, the guy was apparently a regular at the club he shot up, and Gawker has reported he had a profile on a gay dating site. The whole ISIS bit was nothing than a covet for him. This was a disturbed individual who couldn't handle the feelings that were stirring inside himself, and acted out in a violent, murderous rage. It's a scenario all too familiar to those of us in the LGBT community. FFS, already, to turn this into some grand example of 'Jihad' against the U.S. is to glorify it far beyond what it deserves!

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Can we just be honest about what was really going on with the Orlando shooter? (Original Post) markpkessinger Jun 2016 OP
Exactly. Like the workplace shooting in San Bernardino. But if you can conflate it with "terrorism," villager Jun 2016 #1
That one was most certainly terrorism metroins Jun 2016 #110
Except that he most certainly targeted *his workplace*. He was conflating his own act. villager Jun 2016 #145
I don't think so metroins Jun 2016 #215
Doesn't matter what you "think." He worked there, he came back angrily, he shot up the place. villager Jun 2016 #219
You're wrong metroins Jun 2016 #225
I'm sure you do defer to the authorities for most of your thinking. Nonetheless... villager Jun 2016 #245
Which of the Farooks spoke with ISIL directly? When and under what circumstances? mhatrw Jun 2016 #213
Google it metroins Jun 2016 #216
When someone says "google it" instead of providing a link, it's usually a bad sign. mhatrw Jun 2016 #227
The San Bernardino killers were gay, too??? PDittie Jun 2016 #138
That conflicts with what some want to see here jberryhill Jun 2016 #2
+10000000000000!!! 2naSalit Jun 2016 #153
or a large part of a group. MariaThinks Jun 2016 #190
Looking like oswaldactedalone Jun 2016 #3
Due Process metroins Jun 2016 #111
We lose voting rights every single year Boomer Jun 2016 #149
But dynamo99 Jun 2016 #178
The 5th Amendment takes a daily beating in this, a liberal web site. Eleanors38 Jun 2016 #232
Exactly philosslayer Jun 2016 #4
Homophobic terrorism is still terrorism I think eom rjsquirrel Jun 2016 #127
Sure it is . . . markpkessinger Jun 2016 #164
his religion believes that homosexuals should be killed. MariaThinks Jun 2016 #191
If only more than just a few could see and admit this. elleng Jun 2016 #5
+1 n/t markpkessinger Jun 2016 #47
I think his family had a lot to do with it passiveporcupine Jun 2016 #202
Yes, a combo with lots of 'blame' on family. elleng Jun 2016 #204
Remember all the homophobe congress people Protalker Jun 2016 #229
A closet case radicalized by an outdated, anti gay religion ram2008 Jun 2016 #6
Exactly. n/t markpkessinger Jun 2016 #10
yes, thank you Amishman Jun 2016 #91
anything but that!!! 6chars Jun 2016 #192
many visits to club MFM008 Jun 2016 #7
He'd rather die with people thinking he was a terrorist TexasBushwhacker Jun 2016 #33
+1 baldguy Jun 2016 #83
Pretty fucked up. Agschmid Jun 2016 #101
I believe you have hit the nail square on the head! annabanana Jun 2016 #113
I don't understand what you mean passiveporcupine Jun 2016 #203
This is quite possible. People want celebrity-through-terrorism/mass murder... Eleanors38 Jun 2016 #233
isn't it more likely he was a regular to check the place out for attack ? and went to Orlando JI7 Jun 2016 #8
Read up on the arson of the Upstairs Lounge in New Orleans . . . markpkessinger Jun 2016 #13
I was gonna post that Roy Rolling Jun 2016 #39
Rachel Maddow just covered the story and included events like New Orleans, appalachiablue Jun 2016 #42
James Byrd Jr. wasn't gay cannabis_flower Jun 2016 #146
+1 n/t ejbr Jun 2016 #209
Possible, but oswaldactedalone Jun 2016 #14
Once or twice would have been plenty to case the joint. HooptieWagon Jun 2016 #17
What would your head be like if you were raised in a family that gives you two choices - straight or jtuck004 Jun 2016 #41
I love that poem; it is so true. potone Jun 2016 #143
there are reports he went more than a dozen times drray23 Jun 2016 #186
He liked going to gay bars. He was on gay dating apps. mhatrw Jun 2016 #214
Yes, what good is a profile in "casing?" Eleanors38 Jun 2016 #234
Homophobia, taught by his father, justified by religion, enabled by the NRA. targetpractice Jun 2016 #9
NRA? HoustonDave Jun 2016 #135
enabled, not endorsed passiveporcupine Jun 2016 #208
Thanks... targetpractice Jun 2016 #228
"...reluctant to engage gun enthusiasts." Seems like you were first in line. Eleanors38 Jun 2016 #235
I don't follow... I don't see how the NRA enabled the Boston bombings. targetpractice Jun 2016 #242
You'll have to go back to archives, I guess. But the NRA was blamed in many, many posts. Eleanors38 Jun 2016 #259
It's often better not to engage. passiveporcupine Jun 2016 #248
Pink Pistols would like a word with you. Ikonoklast Jun 2016 #136
+1. Though ... 1StrongBlackMan Jun 2016 #183
Thanks. n/t targetpractice Jun 2016 #226
As I pointed out earlier today, an angry, isolated man, who sought to shock his listeners . . . Journeyman Jun 2016 #11
I think there is a deep connection to terrorism with this situation Laha Jun 2016 #118
I Was Thinking the Same Thing-Without the ISIS Cover He Might Have Felt Death Would Reveal Shame Stallion Jun 2016 #12
Exactly, IMO. HooptieWagon Jun 2016 #18
Exactly. The ISIS cover was fake. He also pledged to Al Queda. Two opposite extremist groups. Midnight Writer Jun 2016 #28
+1 n/t markpkessinger Jun 2016 #34
And claimed to be Hezbollah too. bullsnarfle Jun 2016 #109
+1 harun Jun 2016 #117
yep . . . n/t annabanana Jun 2016 #115
This is what I think also. DawgHouse Jun 2016 #182
thank you for this post KT2000 Jun 2016 #15
'Evidence' elleng Jun 2016 #16
Tragically funny that classmate comments of him celebrating after 911 attacks are questioned MariaThinks Jun 2016 #60
Omar Mateen was 14 years old when 9/11 happened . . . markpkessinger Jun 2016 #188
How do you ignore someone revelling in the death of 3000 Americans? MariaThinks Jun 2016 #189
.."14 year olds know what they are doing." Seriously??? NoMoreRepugs Jun 2016 #193
Apparently his opinions didnt change as he grew older. 7962 Jun 2016 #211
The sympathies he expressed as a 14-year-old . . . markpkessinger Jun 2016 #194
I strongly suspect... MountainMama Jun 2016 #205
Don't forget the way he despised anything female Warpy Jun 2016 #19
Your post makes me wonder if he isn't a deluded jilted lover AgadorSparticus Jun 2016 #20
even then it would usually result in attacking one or both of that couple JI7 Jun 2016 #22
Not necessarily. He feels stupid. Rejected. A wounded animal lashes out. AgadorSparticus Jun 2016 #27
With the information and insights coming forth it seems there was definitely appalachiablue Jun 2016 #51
He allegedly told his father he was offended by two guys kissing. HooptieWagon Jun 2016 #77
I think most of his motivation was self-hatred Doctor Jack Jun 2016 #21
On Hayes tonight he reported an academy mate claims of the shooter hitting on him after they'd gone uponit7771 Jun 2016 #23
Doesn't diminish the horror in the slightest . . . markpkessinger Jun 2016 #25
Not only aggandizes it, but also........ socialist_n_TN Jun 2016 #106
Exactly! n/t markpkessinger Jun 2016 #162
Yes, let's be honest. Behind the Aegis Jun 2016 #24
This doesn't get hetero-normative culture off the hook in the least . .. markpkessinger Jun 2016 #30
I agree, but you said "let's be honest," so let's be honest... Behind the Aegis Jun 2016 #32
How does this feed into hetero privilige? thx in advance for any input uponit7771 Jun 2016 #37
Because, once again, they don't have to think about homophobia. Behind the Aegis Jun 2016 #46
like those insisting if it was about the guy being a self hating gay it had nothing to do with JI7 Jun 2016 #50
DING! DING! DING! Behind the Aegis Jun 2016 #64
+10000 eom Arazi Jun 2016 #121
ok, thx... uponit7771 Jun 2016 #92
Your second paragraph is spot on. Hong Kong Cavalier Jun 2016 #48
"after all, who really gives a shit about gay people getting murdered?" FrodosPet Jun 2016 #49
Not IMO. Behind the Aegis Jun 2016 #69
People who have a murderous hatred don't need to be in a majority, and aren't. Eleanors38 Jun 2016 #236
That's not realistic Ash_F Jun 2016 #62
You can't possibly know that. Behind the Aegis Jun 2016 #68
There is this too Ash_F Jun 2016 #98
A lot of people on this board are not comfortable dealing with the subject of Islamist terrorism. David__77 Jun 2016 #63
As witnessed by many posts in this thread. Behind the Aegis Jun 2016 #66
I'm disgusted in that I swear I hear a collective sigh of relief. David__77 Jun 2016 #70
You heard it too? Behind the Aegis Jun 2016 #71
"It certainly has nothing to do with concern for gay people." markpkessinger Jun 2016 #196
I dare observe what I observe and share my viewpoint. David__77 Jun 2016 #201
Thank you. (no text) Quantess Jun 2016 #84
Thanks for your posts. Puglover Jun 2016 #100
Yes melman Jun 2016 #76
I'm not comfortable using the verbiage the bigots use to describe anything, I'd like to stay far... uponit7771 Jun 2016 #96
^^^^This ^^^^ Arazi Jun 2016 #122
Completely agree. nt Dreamer Tatum Jun 2016 #134
As a gay man, I hardly see classifying it as a hate crime as "downgrading" it n/t markpkessinger Jun 2016 #157
I understand. David__77 Jun 2016 #173
But imagine of this guy had attended a RW christian church? 7962 Jun 2016 #210
A lot of Christians are far too comfortable demeaning Muslim bigotry. mhatrw Jun 2016 #218
That's possible. David__77 Jun 2016 #222
I knew it would not take long for this horseshit Puglover Jun 2016 #99
Yes, religions and bigots teach non gays to hate gays and this is tragic and criminal. mhatrw Jun 2016 #217
In YOUR opinoin. Behind the Aegis Jun 2016 #250
Sure, he was Muslim. But he was am American born Muslim who liked to get shitfaced in gay bars. mhatrw Jun 2016 #252
Reports from his wife. Behind the Aegis Jun 2016 #253
It's what I thought all along. Cracklin Charlie Jun 2016 #26
I Think You Are Correct, Sir Night Watchman Jun 2016 #29
I thought that almost immediately after the news broke Lint Head Jun 2016 #31
Absolutely spot on, mark! He didn't like ISIS, he liked OSIRIS. Dont call me Shirley Jun 2016 #35
Islam is a scapegoat for the right mwrguy Jun 2016 #36
I refuse to call Orlando "terrorism" unless and until . . . markpkessinger Jun 2016 #38
There is a lot of green (as in profits for the MIC) in terror. PatrickforO Jun 2016 #40
the most relevant thing....he was a gun owner with a WMD nt msongs Jun 2016 #43
Indeed . . . markpkessinger Jun 2016 #44
Let's not forget that the victims were all regular people just enjoying their lives. GumboYaYa Jun 2016 #207
I thought this from the beginning LittleGirl Jun 2016 #45
Why do people think every homophobe has to be a closested homosexual themself? LostOne4Ever Jun 2016 #52
Because his ex-wife said he had gay tendencies. He spent time on gay hook up apps. writes3000 Jun 2016 #54
I been looking this up and it seems pretty sketchy LostOne4Ever Jun 2016 #74
Um . . . no large newspaper is publishing this? markpkessinger Jun 2016 #174
First off, that article says nothing about his wife or classmate calling him gay LostOne4Ever Jun 2016 #195
He was at the same club he attacked a dozen+ times,... HooptieWagon Jun 2016 #78
Because a lot of people here melman Jun 2016 #56
Well because... Behind the Aegis Jun 2016 #73
Its sad how often that happens. The most dubious sources become "iron clad" truth. LostOne4Ever Jun 2016 #75
I agree! Behind the Aegis Jun 2016 #80
Straight men don't usually ask other men out for a date noiretextatique Jun 2016 #82
Thanks for a reasoned, alternative point of view. King_Klonopin Jun 2016 #53
Religion can be used as a weapon. Isis preys on isolated outsiders. writes3000 Jun 2016 #55
True. But, I don't consider ISIS is to be a religion. They are a hate group. King_Klonopin Jun 2016 #59
Yes, I agree. ISIS itself isn't a religion. writes3000 Jun 2016 #185
Any philosophy that tells you to turn off your mind and accept it without question is bad Fumesucker Jun 2016 #88
Speaking of flawed logic... Dark n Stormy Knight Jun 2016 #155
why don't you be honest then, instead of the sanitized explanation. MariaThinks Jun 2016 #57
What on Earth is "sanitized" about it? markpkessinger Jun 2016 #238
This was a hate crime, but where did the hate come from? MariaThinks Jun 2016 #239
I never disputed that his religion (or rather, his particular strain of his religion) . . . markpkessinger Jun 2016 #241
One Doesn't Have To Be Gay To Understand DallasNE Jun 2016 #58
I'm gay and I understand that this was an adherent of Islamic State who committed an act of terror. David__77 Jun 2016 #61
You know....the deeply cynical part of me wonders if an FBI agent didn't uncover the fact that he msanthrope Jun 2016 #67
One was after he said he knew the Boston bombers and the FBI found no proof. I think the 2nd uppityperson Jun 2016 #79
Preaching in support of the death penalty for homosexuals is very American. Demit Jun 2016 #137
Yes. But still, I don't want any foreigners allowed to come here and add to the vicious bigotry. Dems to Win Jun 2016 #240
Yes, he was twice investigated for ties to terrorist organizations . . . markpkessinger Jun 2016 #170
As I said in a prior thread....he hated gays. He chose a religion to bolster that hate.... msanthrope Jun 2016 #65
He chose a religion? oberliner Jun 2016 #102
Religion is a choice. He was an adult, wasn't he? nt msanthrope Jun 2016 #107
He chose to stay in the religion he was raised in oberliner Jun 2016 #108
No....no one is born into a religion. It's like Republicanism....once you are an adult, it's a msanthrope Jun 2016 #130
Yes, of course people are born into a religion oberliner Jun 2016 #131
Children are not born Muslim or Catholic, or whatever. That is imposed on them. msanthrope Jun 2016 #152
Yes, they are oberliner Jun 2016 #158
No...children are not "born" any religion. That's just acceptance of what authoritarians msanthrope Jun 2016 #163
Yes, they are oberliner Jun 2016 #168
And changing your thinking about the religion you are raised Ilsa Jun 2016 #198
Exactly oberliner Jun 2016 #255
You may have conflated culture and religion. AtheistCrusader Jun 2016 #154
You didn't choose to be a Christian oberliner Jun 2016 #159
No, I was never a chrisitan. AtheistCrusader Jun 2016 #167
You did not believe in God even though your parents did and instructed you to do so as well? oberliner Jun 2016 #169
Correct. AtheistCrusader Jun 2016 #171
That is impressive oberliner Jun 2016 #181
You are completely wrong. Your statement is akin to saying that no one is born into a language.... xocet Jun 2016 #148
No...that's you accepting an authoritarian mindset that predetermines children. msanthrope Jun 2016 #151
I think you're saying the same thing actually. AtheistCrusader Jun 2016 #172
"...into a religion..." means something different to each of us then. I agree religion is... xocet Jun 2016 #176
I totally agree with you, mark ReRe Jun 2016 #72
Check out the "Bath School Killings" sometime. 1939 Jun 2016 #86
Thanks... I will look that up now. eom ReRe Jun 2016 #87
I totally agree...never bought the ISIS angle noiretextatique Jun 2016 #81
Well said oswaldactedalone Jun 2016 #89
Let's all jump to conclusions! GeorgeGist Jun 2016 #85
So we're dismissing the terrorist watch list and FBI check thing now? ileus Jun 2016 #90
Don't forget the two trips to Saudi Arabia forthemiddle Jun 2016 #197
I think it's an example of how religion can screw people up... MellowDem Jun 2016 #93
the shooter fits the classic case of the "closeted gay"....who in a last fit of a breakdown to prove beachbum bob Jun 2016 #94
Totally agree. DCBob Jun 2016 #95
Plus he had tendencies to be violent and you get this result. Thinkingabout Jun 2016 #105
Yes agree. DCBob Jun 2016 #125
It is sad how many supposed "liberals" have bought the RW "Clash of Civilizations" BS. Odin2005 Jun 2016 #97
If this weren't suggested every single time there's a hate crime against gay people gollygee Jun 2016 #103
I agree people are often too quick to attribute every act of anti-gay violence . . . markpkessinger Jun 2016 #179
He didn't have to be tied to a terrorist group to do it for religious reasons Nt gollygee Jun 2016 #180
I never said religion wasn't a factor . . . markpkessinger Jun 2016 #199
I never said it was unique to Islam gollygee Jun 2016 #206
I agree with you. hertopos Jun 2016 #104
tormented ellennelle Jun 2016 #112
People can have more than one motivation. yellowcanine Jun 2016 #114
Makes the most sense to me but the media get's more ratings with the other narratives. harun Jun 2016 #116
I think it is indeed a complex case. alarimer Jun 2016 #119
He could have had MORE THAN ONE motive. n/t Herman4747 Jun 2016 #120
People are scrambling to find a reason for Politicub Jun 2016 #123
Here's an MSN article that has more detail on motivations and.... socialist_n_TN Jun 2016 #124
K&R.. disillusioned73 Jun 2016 #126
My suspicion exactly Mira Jun 2016 #128
Palm Beach Post is confirming your theory he was closeted gay, asked classmate out in hs. catbyte Jun 2016 #129
Seems to declare ISIS gives a kind of permission to kill and hides the real reason. Kablooie Jun 2016 #132
The "fear factor" in tying it to "jihad" is just what the doctor ordered for an NorthCarolina Jun 2016 #133
+1 FailureToCommunicate Jun 2016 #139
Could not agree more vlyons Jun 2016 #140
I'm not gay, but reached the same conclusion. He was sinkingfeeling Jun 2016 #141
+1000 heaven05 Jun 2016 #142
If your father's view is that you shouldn't kill gays because god will do it for you... brooklynite Jun 2016 #144
Seems reasonable to consider the idea that the shooter was filled with self-loathing ... Scuba Jun 2016 #147
Possible, but let's wait and see. Android3.14 Jun 2016 #150
You're getting shit from the usual suspects, but I agree with you. closeupready Jun 2016 #156
Or a toxic clash of both? progressoid Jun 2016 #160
I think that a major personality disorder was part of the equation milestogo Jun 2016 #161
"A Well-Regulated Militia..." does NOT = ... modestybl Jun 2016 #165
155+ Recs as I write this.. We know it.. we know it.. phazed0 Jun 2016 #166
Whats another example of this scenario? ErikJ Jun 2016 #175
The arson of the Upstairs Lounge in New Orleans in 1973 markpkessinger Jun 2016 #187
Islam is what made him feel that way though. nm mr_liberal Jun 2016 #177
Perhaps ... markpkessinger Jun 2016 #184
Unlike Christianity, which would have taught him love instead. mhatrw Jun 2016 #220
The Tao: "If you want to shrink something, you must allow it to expand" Miles Archer Jun 2016 #200
The whole 911 call pledge to ISIS smells like bullshit to me. mhatrw Jun 2016 #212
The point wasn't to convince the 911 operator Ruby the Liberal Jun 2016 #221
Do we even know whether he was Sunni or Shiite? mhatrw Jun 2016 #223
We'll never know Ruby the Liberal Jun 2016 #224
We'll never know only because actual journalism is long dead in our society. mhatrw Jun 2016 #231
The great majority of Afghans are Sunni . . . markpkessinger Jun 2016 #237
Do we even know if he was Muslim? L. Coyote Jun 2016 #244
You may be right ábout this. Eleanors38 Jun 2016 #230
Why isn't everyone talking about this aspect: L. Coyote Jun 2016 #243
Had he been to the club more than once PRIOR to seeing the men kissing? rocktivity Jun 2016 #246
I'm concerned about Mateen's widow living with his father... targetpractice Jun 2016 #247
DING DING DING! Rocktivity, you're our grand prize winner! rocktivity Jun 2016 #249
uh oh melman Jun 2016 #251
A law enforcement official who dare not speak his name? rocktivity Jun 2016 #254
lol melman Jun 2016 #256
He may very well be lying rocktivity Jun 2016 #258
Whether or not he said this to his wife ... markpkessinger Jun 2016 #257
so are you suggesting that there is no threat from ISIS? RussBLib Jun 2016 #260
Hello? Where did I ever say anything like that? markpkessinger Jun 2016 #262
Agreed... He made a big display of his homophobia in recent months... targetpractice Jun 2016 #261
To answer your originally posted question, rocktivity Jun 2016 #263
 

villager

(26,001 posts)
1. Exactly. Like the workplace shooting in San Bernardino. But if you can conflate it with "terrorism,"
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 11:52 PM
Jun 2016

...you can scare more people, while ignoring root causes, getting license to peel away more peoples' rights, etc...

metroins

(2,550 posts)
110. That one was most certainly terrorism
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 09:10 AM
Jun 2016

San Bernadino shooters spoke with ISIL directly. They had more targets lined up, the guy planned an attack years earlier and I think he went and got trained by them when he picked up his wife.

Orlando is starting to sound like the OP is portraying it, but he also "claimed" to speak to ISIL surrogates in the past. It does sound like an angry self loathing person who is using terrorism to up his grandeur.

 

villager

(26,001 posts)
145. Except that he most certainly targeted *his workplace*. He was conflating his own act.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 11:39 AM
Jun 2016

We've just been cooperating with the shooter's self-mythologizing.

 

villager

(26,001 posts)
219. Doesn't matter what you "think." He worked there, he came back angrily, he shot up the place.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 06:39 PM
Jun 2016

Classic workplace violence.

With the shooter trying to conflate it to a noble act with his presumed ISIL ideology/contacts.

Which is the issue: Deranged shooters imagining their derangement serves a higher cause than their own psychopathology (which is often the case with governments themselves, but I digress...)

metroins

(2,550 posts)
225. You're wrong
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 07:08 PM
Jun 2016

Read the FBI statement and President.

I don't even need to argue, they are the authority on what happened.

 

villager

(26,001 posts)
245. I'm sure you do defer to the authorities for most of your thinking. Nonetheless...
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 09:14 PM
Jun 2016

...this was a workplace shooting that was conflated.

And it not only puts the shooter on a higher pedestal, in his mind, but allows our own special interests certain "benefits" to think of it as only terrorism, while ignoring the other aspects.

mhatrw

(10,786 posts)
213. Which of the Farooks spoke with ISIL directly? When and under what circumstances?
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 06:25 PM
Jun 2016

Could you provide me with a link to where you read this?

Thanks.

mhatrw

(10,786 posts)
227. When someone says "google it" instead of providing a link, it's usually a bad sign.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 07:37 PM
Jun 2016
https://nypost.com/2016/04/20/fbi-san-bernardino-terrorists-did-not-contact-isis/

I think your claim is total bullshit. I googled it and came up with nothing. Please provide a link or admit your mistake.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
2. That conflicts with what some want to see here
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 11:53 PM
Jun 2016

Apparently, there are those who cannot fathom the idea of an individual being responsible for his or her own actions.

oswaldactedalone

(3,491 posts)
3. Looking like
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 11:53 PM
Jun 2016

you're probably right. Still, we should not be allowing people on terrorist watch lists and no fly lists, to be purchasing weapons. Hope the Dems will use this to beat the Thuglicans over the head with it.

metroins

(2,550 posts)
111. Due Process
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 09:12 AM
Jun 2016

I don't want the government taking away rights without due process.

There needs to be a court proceeding where the accused can defend themselves before taking away rights.

Boomer

(4,168 posts)
149. We lose voting rights every single year
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 12:08 PM
Jun 2016

I wish there half as much concern over taking away our right to vote as there is for taking away our right to own assault weapons.

dynamo99

(48 posts)
178. But
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:36 PM
Jun 2016

if someone is arbitrarily put onto such a list, we should require the government to set forth in court the precise reasons they ended up on the list, and permit it to be challenged.

In the past, the reason has sometimes been "checked the wrong box on the form", or (from circumstantial evidence) "opposes the government position", or "is suing the government". Only the very naive think that the government doesn't sometimes use the lists to harrass opponents.

markpkessinger

(8,401 posts)
164. Sure it is . . .
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 01:43 PM
Jun 2016

. . . But then, so is racially motivated terrorism still terrorism, as in the case of the Charleston shootings. Yet the Justice Department resolutely refused to label that incident 'terrorism.' As I've stated downthread, both Orlando and Charleston meet the definition of domestic terrorism under federal law, so there's a fair argument that can be made that we should call both 'terrorism.' But applying the label selectively, using it only in those cases where the perpetrator happens to be Muslim, as both our media and government continue to do, is dishonest -- it is a tool for manipulating public hysteria and for ginning up support for our endless misadventures in the Middle East.

And worse, the whole 'terrorism' label distracts the public from discussion of one of the most obvious contributing factors to all of these incidents, namely the availability of high-capacity assault weapons.

passiveporcupine

(8,175 posts)
202. I think his family had a lot to do with it
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 04:47 PM
Jun 2016

His father supported the Taliban, who hate and kill gays. How could he come out in a family like that? So he was repressed because of his Father's hatred of gays...not driven by radical Islam so much as how his parents grew up...he wasn't religious, and I doubt his family was either. But I strongly believe that his family passed on their hatred of gays to him, so he hated himself and lived in a rage.

I didn't know, until now, that he frequented that club, or had a profile on a gay dating site, but I already posted my observations...that is was his family that pushed him to this, and his rage that made him beat his wife and everything.

His father has rambling youtube videos speaking out against Pakistan and in favor of Taliban. You know he had to be pretty screwed up as a kid.

I'm not saying he isn't responsible, but I put some of the blame on his family.

Protalker

(418 posts)
229. Remember all the homophobe congress people
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 07:43 PM
Jun 2016

They cruise restrooms or pay off men they had sex with when they were kids. They vote down all bills for LGBT people. I think he had what Jung would refer to as his shadow. The Jihad was a cover for dad and wife. On the otherhand, if it was legit he may have 50 virgins. I think it is a proper Hell for him.
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ram2008

(1,238 posts)
6. A closet case radicalized by an outdated, anti gay religion
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 11:58 PM
Jun 2016

Fear + hate and this is the result. Terrorism, hate crime, two in one

Amishman

(5,559 posts)
91. yes, thank you
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 07:07 AM
Jun 2016

deny what you want but THIS WAS A HATE CRIME BY A SELF RADICALIZED ISLAMIC TERRORIST

The guy's history of sympathizing with jihadists goes back years.

His issues with homosexuality likely made him pick his target, but the decision to attack was rooted in jihadi craziness.

MFM008

(19,818 posts)
7. many visits to club
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 11:59 PM
Jun 2016

where he participated,
hanging out on gay dating sites.
I believe your spot on OP,
no wonder he made a last minute call about ISIL
so he could "macho" his way out...

annabanana

(52,791 posts)
113. I believe you have hit the nail square on the head!
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 09:15 AM
Jun 2016

Pity that this serves the narrative of those who would shut our society down completely.

 

Eleanors38

(18,318 posts)
233. This is quite possible. People want celebrity-through-terrorism/mass murder...
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 08:01 PM
Jun 2016

and they get it. So, why not take out a bunch of "heathens," and cleanse your soul at the same time? 'Trouble is, the little fuckers leave a bad odor which drifts out despite their machinations with the innertubes.

JI7

(89,264 posts)
8. isn't it more likely he was a regular to check the place out for attack ? and went to Orlando
Mon Jun 13, 2016, 11:59 PM
Jun 2016

because he wanted to attack Disney World also but saw it would be difficult compared to the nightclub.

there have been closeted hypocrites that we see all the time. but to fucking murder a bunch of innocent people ?

also if he was going there because he was gay how come we haven't heard of him getting involved in any actual relationships ? maybe it's because he went there to plan his attack.

markpkessinger

(8,401 posts)
13. Read up on the arson of the Upstairs Lounge in New Orleans . . .
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 12:03 AM
Jun 2016

. . . Depending on someone's upbringing, culture and state of mind, people can and do act out like this. It has happened before. In the case of Upstairs Lounge, the arsonist (never arrested or convicted, but confessed to friends) was a deeply conflicted hustler, a regular at the place, who repeatedly sought "conversion" therapy to no avail. And police records around the country are full of incidents of gay bashing, in some cases ending in death, over the perception that someone is gay. And then there was Dan White's assassination of Harvey Milk and George Moscone. Not to mention Matthew Shepherd and James Byrd, Jr. in Texas (dragged to death behind a truck because he was gay). This stuff happens.

Roy Rolling

(6,933 posts)
39. I was gonna post that
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 01:30 AM
Jun 2016

The first thought in my mind was the Upstairs Lounge. It smelled like a rejected and oppressed person getting his revenge on the world.

appalachiablue

(41,170 posts)
42. Rachel Maddow just covered the story and included events like New Orleans,
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 01:37 AM
Jun 2016

the attack on a lesbian club in Orlando, a man who tore up a gay bar in Roanoke, Va. from harassment for having the last name Gay, and other violent public incidents. I recall the horrible treatment that killed the man in Texas some years ago.

Thanks for adding perspectives on anger, shame and self destructive behavior and examples of the appalling violence and abuse against LGBTQ people in more recent US history. The Orlando tragedy makes us think of and miss our cherished little brother even more, a FL then NYC resident who was lost way too young. From an early age he faced adversities in life not of his making with great courage and spirit, and was one of the smartest, most secure, generous and beloved members of his family and large circle of friends.

cannabis_flower

(3,765 posts)
146. James Byrd Jr. wasn't gay
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 11:43 AM
Jun 2016

He was dragged behind a truck because he was black. I had never heard he was gay so I did a search and didn't find anything to suggest that the Jasper killing was motivated by homophobia. But it did happen around the same time as the Matthew Shepard killing so that might be where the confusion comes in.

oswaldactedalone

(3,491 posts)
14. Possible, but
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 12:04 AM
Jun 2016

he had been going there for at least three years. Seems like he could've cased the joint and planned his attack in much less time.

 

HooptieWagon

(17,064 posts)
17. Once or twice would have been plenty to case the joint.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 12:17 AM
Jun 2016

It sounds like he visited a few dozen times over several years.

The whole bit about pledging to ISIS was one last attempt to repress and cover up his sexuality. He wasn't a radical Islamic terrorist, he was just a fucked up dude who finally exploded in rage. Terrorist watch list isn't geared to detect that.

 

jtuck004

(15,882 posts)
41. What would your head be like if you were raised in a family that gives you two choices - straight or
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 01:33 AM
Jun 2016

dead? Virtually everyone who grew up in the culture your family came from treats you the same way. Where there is no such thing as the homosexual son. If the daughter does something wrong, they might kill her, but the son they would ignore, never even believing it was possible in their world. You would be dead to them - they would deny that part of you even existed, like a climate denier being drowned by a rising tide.

Outside the house it's a crap shoot as to whether you will be treated respectfully or spit on.

Conversion therapy? Great - like getting medicine from doctors that hate you.

I'm not excusing his behavior, didn't know the fella or his victims.

But I've seen a lot of pain, and I have seen this world isn't kind to certain people. Sometimes they hurt so bad they break.

We could do more for each other and lessen the possibility of such tragedies, find leaders that are interested in investing in the people.


This Be The Verse

They fuck you up, your mum and dad.
They may not mean to, but they do.
They fill you with the faults they had
And add some extra, just for you.

But they were fucked up in their turn
By fools in old-style hats and coats,
Who half the time were soppy-stern
And half at one another's throats.

Man hands on misery to man.
It deepens like a coastal shelf.
Get out as early as you can,
And don't have any kids yourself.

Philip Larkin

potone

(1,701 posts)
143. I love that poem; it is so true.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 11:22 AM
Jun 2016

As for the slaughter in Orlando, there is no doubt that the man was seriously disturbed. He had a history of being a wife beater. I suspect that he was, in fact, a self-hating gay man who combined his repressed sexuality with his religion. I wonder if he was on a suicide mission and wanted to take down as many as possible of the people he hated as he hated himself. We'll probably never know exactly what he was thinking, but we sure do know the results. Horrifying!

drray23

(7,637 posts)
186. there are reports he went more than a dozen times
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:58 PM
Jun 2016

You do not need to go twelve times to a place to "case the joint". So, no, I do not think he was going there just for that.

mhatrw

(10,786 posts)
214. He liked going to gay bars. He was on gay dating apps.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 06:27 PM
Jun 2016

So I'm guessing he was cruising not casing.

HoustonDave

(60 posts)
135. NRA?
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 10:39 AM
Jun 2016

Please cite an example of NRA endorsed homophobic publication? While I am sure there are both anti-homosexuals and homosexuals among the NRA's considerable membership, I don't believe I have ever seen anyone speaking for the organization advocating homophobia or violence against homosexuals.

targetpractice

(4,919 posts)
228. Thanks...
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 07:40 PM
Jun 2016

I thought my meaning was obvious... I am so reluctant to engage gun enthusiasts, because I cannot wrap my head around why anyone needs a machine gun.

 

Eleanors38

(18,318 posts)
235. "...reluctant to engage gun enthusiasts." Seems like you were first in line.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 08:13 PM
Jun 2016

The NRA was blamed for the Boston Bombing (devices constructed from Black Cat black powder firecrackers.)

targetpractice

(4,919 posts)
242. I don't follow... I don't see how the NRA enabled the Boston bombings.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 09:01 PM
Jun 2016

However, the NRA is quite responsible for lobbying for policies that enabled Mateen to buy an assault weapon so easily.

 

Eleanors38

(18,318 posts)
259. You'll have to go back to archives, I guess. But the NRA was blamed in many, many posts.
Wed Jun 15, 2016, 02:29 PM
Jun 2016

For the Boston Bombing. This was before the killers even got a hold of gun. NRA is the all-purpose enemy in a broad culture war which extends way beyond gun control. Got a roach infestation problem? Who ya gonna call?......

passiveporcupine

(8,175 posts)
248. It's often better not to engage.
Wed Jun 15, 2016, 12:58 AM
Jun 2016

My ignore list has been growing for some time for political reasons. Now it's growing for hate/bigotry/gun nuts. It's really not worth the energy to deal with some people here.

Journeyman

(15,038 posts)
11. As I pointed out earlier today, an angry, isolated man, who sought to shock his listeners . . .
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 12:03 AM
Jun 2016
rather than communicate his pain. Unable to adequately define what he was angry about, or why others should heed his warnings, he could only lash out, rudely and crudely, seeking to anger others by claiming solidarity with what he perceived they would detest.

Ultimately, his inability to find release for his anger boiled over into murderous rage and we, as a society, had to deal with it.

If this picture that's emerging proves accurate, I've no idea how we can deal with such situations going forward.

This was before the info of his being a regular at the club, and putting his name on various hookup sites, came to light. At first, I thought maybe he was just casing the place, but your perspective makes much greater sense, and explains the anger. If true, a tragedy in so many ways. And again, one I've no idea how to deal with going forward, other than recognizing it may not be terrorism.

Laha

(408 posts)
118. I think there is a deep connection to terrorism with this situation
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 09:25 AM
Jun 2016

But as the details emerge it seems to be a bit of an abstract aspect.. Maybe we need to think about holding the people who taught him these things accountable.. Apparently his father has already come out and made some other horrible 'death to gays' comment..

I don't think there's much room for argument about where his self-loathing came from. Men speaking words from so-called holy books are a well known source of the twisted logic needed to incite people to violence, while the priests cower in their shiny towers of gold.

The words I am giving it are religious terrorism. And I think his father is a terrorist.

Stallion

(6,476 posts)
12. I Was Thinking the Same Thing-Without the ISIS Cover He Might Have Felt Death Would Reveal Shame
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 12:03 AM
Jun 2016

because in his mind he would be perceived as homosexual. Instead he dies for what he considers a "just cause"

Midnight Writer

(21,795 posts)
28. Exactly. The ISIS cover was fake. He also pledged to Al Queda. Two opposite extremist groups.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 12:43 AM
Jun 2016

Why the hell would he make THREE phone calls to 911 DURING the attack to claim a religious ideological justification for his acts?

It is clear from his father's podcasts that he was raised to hate gays. The whole Islamic terrorist claim was to allow him to "save face".

bullsnarfle

(254 posts)
109. And claimed to be Hezbollah too.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 09:01 AM
Jun 2016

Sounds like he was just claiming any/every terrorist-related organization he had read about on the internet.

KT2000

(20,586 posts)
15. thank you for this post
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 12:09 AM
Jun 2016

because this is what I concluded as well. ISIS was his cover so no one would know.

MariaThinks

(2,495 posts)
60. Tragically funny that classmate comments of him celebrating after 911 attacks are questioned
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:39 AM
Jun 2016

as unreliable, but a comment from 'someone' he knew that makes him gay is acceptable because it moves the responsibility of Islamic radicalization away until the next terrorist attack.

markpkessinger

(8,401 posts)
188. Omar Mateen was 14 years old when 9/11 happened . . .
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 03:13 PM
Jun 2016

. . . and whatever a 14-year-old might or might not have said is hardly a reliable guide to his activities as a 29-year-old!

MariaThinks

(2,495 posts)
189. How do you ignore someone revelling in the death of 3000 Americans?
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 03:19 PM
Jun 2016

14 year olds know what they are doing.

NoMoreRepugs

(9,456 posts)
193. .."14 year olds know what they are doing." Seriously???
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 04:12 PM
Jun 2016

All of them? Mateen in particular? Both my adult kids are very successful and excellent human beings - but at 14 they were KIDS...

 

7962

(11,841 posts)
211. Apparently his opinions didnt change as he grew older.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 06:15 PM
Jun 2016

Ask his coworkers.
Read his writings
This didnt come out of nowhere.

markpkessinger

(8,401 posts)
194. The sympathies he expressed as a 14-year-old . . .
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 04:24 PM
Jun 2016

. . . may or may not be those he held as an adult. But even if they were, merely having such sympathies, reprehensible though they may be, is not, per se, evidence of operational ties to terrorist organizations. And reprehensible sympathies are not against the law. And even if it were, how on Earth would we ever police individual consciences?

As 14-year-olds knowing what they are doing, that is seriously debatable. Research in nueropsychology suggest that a young man's capacity for judgment doesn't fully develop until the mid-20s. But whether or not they "know what they are doing," the adolescent/pubescent brain of a 14-year-old is hardly that of a 29-year-old. I know of no one (perhaps you are an exception) whose judgment, ethics, morality, etc. wasn't significantly different at age 29 from that of their 14-year-old selves.

MountainMama

(237 posts)
205. I strongly suspect...
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 04:58 PM
Jun 2016

I think if he was "celebrating" 9/11, it was because that was what he was hearing at home. JMHO. 14-year-olds are very impressionable.

Warpy

(111,338 posts)
19. Don't forget the way he despised anything female
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 12:19 AM
Jun 2016

That's classic, also.

"Jihad" might have given him the idea if he could slaughter a bunch of people just like himself, he could get his ticket punched for heaven. Who knows? He despised something within himself and projected it onto women and out gays.

AgadorSparticus

(7,963 posts)
20. Your post makes me wonder if he isn't a deluded jilted lover
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 12:26 AM
Jun 2016

He has been going to this club for 3 years. That's not casing anymore. That is a vested interest. It makes me wonder if became enrage after seeing the 2 men kissing because he was infatuated with one of them and felt jilted. I guess we will never know....

JI7

(89,264 posts)
22. even then it would usually result in attacking one or both of that couple
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 12:30 AM
Jun 2016

but attacking an entire club full of people is something else.

AgadorSparticus

(7,963 posts)
27. Not necessarily. He feels stupid. Rejected. A wounded animal lashes out.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 12:38 AM
Jun 2016

I have had rejected men lash at me even though I was being as kind and sensitive as I could on establishing boundaries and not leading them on. They just could not handle the no. Some emotionally stumped, mysogynistic men are like this.

I can see him getting so frustrated with having these feelings in the first place and just wanting to tear it all down. True Islam would never condone this sort of violence so he found something to rationalize his actions. And hell, he can be a hero, too.

appalachiablue

(41,170 posts)
51. With the information and insights coming forth it seems there was definitely
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:17 AM
Jun 2016

something of strong interest about that particular club as you say. His familiarity, possible personal anticipation and disappointment and unsubstantiated Isis affiliations might eventually come out big in the public sphere. How very tragic and painful for the innocent victims and their loved ones.

 

HooptieWagon

(17,064 posts)
77. He allegedly told his father he was offended by two guys kissing.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 03:45 AM
Jun 2016

He probably witnessed it hundreds of times during the times he was at the club. He said it offended him to hide his sexuality from his father.

Doctor Jack

(3,072 posts)
21. I think most of his motivation was self-hatred
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 12:26 AM
Jun 2016

The question I have is did he really become radicalized and "join" ISIS or did he just say that on the phone with the police to distract from his real motives? Already the government is saying he didn't appear to have any real ties or communication with ISIS. He mentioned them and they applauded the attack but from what I am inferring from the experts, there wasn't much beyond that.

Don't take what I say about this as any kind of truth or evidence of anything. Homosexuality, psychology, terrorism, none of these are things that I am an expert in. But I will be interested to see what the FBI finds as his motivation.

uponit7771

(90,363 posts)
23. On Hayes tonight he reported an academy mate claims of the shooter hitting on him after they'd gone
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 12:30 AM
Jun 2016

... to multiple gay bars over a period of time.

Still doesn't diminish the fact that the shooter committed a horrible hate crime

markpkessinger

(8,401 posts)
25. Doesn't diminish the horror in the slightest . . .
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 12:35 AM
Jun 2016

. . . but elevating this to the level of an ISIS terrorist attack certainly aggrandizes it!

socialist_n_TN

(11,481 posts)
106. Not only aggandizes it, but also........
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 08:56 AM
Jun 2016

allows the supporters of permanent war in the political class another excuse for imperial intervention in the middle east. And they need only the FLIMSIEST of excuses anyway.

Behind the Aegis

(53,983 posts)
24. Yes, let's be honest.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 12:35 AM
Jun 2016

We know HE said via a call he was allied with ISIS. Could be bullshit? Of course. We also know OTHERS are making claims he was gay based on observations, and nothing is better than taking the word of others about someone's sexual orientation.

Let's be even MORE honest, let's say these RUMORS eventually have some validity, then we know this turns into a conversation about black-on-black...er...gay on gay crime, and the homophobia of the heterosexual population skates by many people.

Let's also be honest that some homophobes aren't closeted, self-loathing gays, and actually just hate-filled assholes and his trips to the club and his alleged gay dating apps were nothing more than hunting ground material; after all, who really gives a shit about gay people getting murdered?

markpkessinger

(8,401 posts)
30. This doesn't get hetero-normative culture off the hook in the least . ..
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 12:48 AM
Jun 2016

. . . In fact, it's a product of it.

Behind the Aegis

(53,983 posts)
32. I agree, but you said "let's be honest," so let's be honest...
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 12:51 AM
Jun 2016

...this feeds right into heterosexual privilege (heterosexism)!

Behind the Aegis

(53,983 posts)
46. Because, once again, they don't have to think about homophobia.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:04 AM
Jun 2016

"Self-loathing" is a "gay" thing, so they don't think it is worthy of attention from them. They don't realize it is their attitudes, laws, and behaviors which feed into "self-loathing".

JI7

(89,264 posts)
50. like those insisting if it was about the guy being a self hating gay it had nothing to do with
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:12 AM
Jun 2016

religion.

FrodosPet

(5,169 posts)
49. "after all, who really gives a shit about gay people getting murdered?"
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:09 AM
Jun 2016

Most people.

Not everybody, but I believe most people care about it. Perhaps they don't hit a prerequisite standard of time and emotional commitment, but even among the mass of "horrible" people who call themselves "Christians", there is not a lot of support for what happened.

Behind the Aegis

(53,983 posts)
69. Not IMO.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:55 AM
Jun 2016

And not from some of what I have seen. Many are doing what they always do, make it about their pet concern. But, as a gay man, I really don't need to have someone 'splain to me how much people care about gay people...I already know the answer.

Ash_F

(5,861 posts)
62. That's not realistic
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:44 AM
Jun 2016

If true, it's not realistic that he went there for three years of "hunting" before taking action. Same with dating sites. He would have either been doing attacks over the years, or have struck sooner.

I am sorry, but this man was gay.


That does not make this simply a "gay on gay" crime though.

Behind the Aegis

(53,983 posts)
68. You can't possibly know that.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:53 AM
Jun 2016

The "three years" is still unconfirmed gossip.

"I am sorry, but this man was gay."

Sure.

Ash_F

(5,861 posts)
98. There is this too
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 08:34 AM
Jun 2016
http://www.palmbeachpost.com/news/news/orlando-shooter-omar-mateen-was-gay-former-classma/nrfwW/

"The classmate said that he, Mateen and other classmates would hang out, sometimes going to gay nightclubs, after classes at the Indian River Community College police academy. He said Mateen asked him out romantically."

David__77

(23,501 posts)
63. A lot of people on this board are not comfortable dealing with the subject of Islamist terrorism.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:45 AM
Jun 2016

It is so, so much more comfortable to be downgraded to a "hate crime" or this apparent new twist of a crime motivated by self-hatred. There are organizations dedicated to wiping out homosexuals, and states actually run by such people abroad. There are ideologies being propagated in this country, including by foreigners. All that, I think, is too much for some people to look at.

Behind the Aegis

(53,983 posts)
66. As witnessed by many posts in this thread.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:51 AM
Jun 2016

They "assure" us there is NO connection, NONE WHATSOEVER, to religion, but rumors about his trolling gay bars, that is TRUTH! It is all so fucking predictable and disgusting. Even more disgusting is if one were to take trip down memory lane (advanced search) and then we will really see "truth will out!"

David__77

(23,501 posts)
70. I'm disgusted in that I swear I hear a collective sigh of relief.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:56 AM
Jun 2016

I think it's repulsive. It certainly has nothing to do with concern for gay people.

markpkessinger

(8,401 posts)
196. "It certainly has nothing to do with concern for gay people."
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 04:35 PM
Jun 2016

Right -- I, myself a 55-year-old, out-since-1980 proud gay man, have no concern for gay people. The the fuck dare you presume to know what concerns lay behind the opinions people hold?

David__77

(23,501 posts)
201. I dare observe what I observe and share my viewpoint.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 04:46 PM
Jun 2016

I don't expect agreement or disagreement. People have the power to make their own assessments.

That said, my statement would have been precise had I said that it occurs to me as having nothing to do with concern for gay people.

Puglover

(16,380 posts)
100. Thanks for your posts.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 08:42 AM
Jun 2016

As soon as this happened I thought "How long before the experts on DU diagnose this monster as a closeted "gay"?

And sure enough. Fucking disgusting.

 

melman

(7,681 posts)
76. Yes
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 03:42 AM
Jun 2016

Then there's stuff like this http://www.democraticunderground.com/10027493276


People couldn't wait to call that terrorism. They couldn't get enough of calling it terrorism.


Meanwhile this motherfucker kills 50 people and somehow many posters will insist it's not terrorism.

uponit7771

(90,363 posts)
96. I'm not comfortable using the verbiage the bigots use to describe anything, I'd like to stay far...
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 08:23 AM
Jun 2016

... removed from their mindset

David__77

(23,501 posts)
173. I understand.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:23 PM
Jun 2016

I understand that to be downgrading from the viewpoint of many and certainly not all people in this country. I don't see it as either a downgrade or upgrade - the crimes are what they are. I'm more interested in the intention/viewpoint of people in conveying that this is not terrorism and it is a hate crime.

 

7962

(11,841 posts)
210. But imagine of this guy had attended a RW christian church?
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 06:12 PM
Jun 2016

THEN there would be 50 OPs on the backwards-assed christians and their followers.
The backround of this man is going to show a LOT more connection to the Islamists than what we knew from the beginning, I'll bet.

You also point out, correctly, that there are entire countries where simply being gay could get you a death sentence. And remember Ahmadamnnutjob's statement about Iran? "There are no gay people in Iran"

And has anyone mentioned that the Imam that spoke at the crime scene on Sunday is also in a video saying that gay should be killed for their own good??

It just amazes me the lengths some will go to in order to continue to excuse the elephant in the room

mhatrw

(10,786 posts)
218. A lot of Christians are far too comfortable demeaning Muslim bigotry.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 06:37 PM
Jun 2016

“Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye?"

David__77

(23,501 posts)
222. That's possible.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 06:48 PM
Jun 2016

I think that self-evaluation can be useful. I also think that speaking what one knows to be true is a matter of personal integrity.

mhatrw

(10,786 posts)
217. Yes, religions and bigots teach non gays to hate gays and this is tragic and criminal.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 06:34 PM
Jun 2016

But this murderer was not an Islamic terrorist, IMHO.

Admitting the obvious doesn't diminish Muslim or Christian prejudice against homosexuals or give it a free pass.

Behind the Aegis

(53,983 posts)
250. In YOUR opinoin.
Wed Jun 15, 2016, 01:56 AM
Jun 2016

What I do care about is the attempt to make this about him being gay. There is a hell of lot more proof that he was Muslim and possibly radicalized (even if "self&quot than there is he was gay. Was he also an Islamic terrorist? Seems the info is stacking that way, but more will come out in the wash and some will be disproved and other info will shine more light.

"Admitting the obvious"

How ironic.

mhatrw

(10,786 posts)
252. Sure, he was Muslim. But he was am American born Muslim who liked to get shitfaced in gay bars.
Wed Jun 15, 2016, 02:44 AM
Jun 2016

What is the "evidence" that he was a radicalized Islamic fundamentalist?

Behind the Aegis

(53,983 posts)
253. Reports from his wife.
Wed Jun 15, 2016, 02:59 AM
Jun 2016

She is claiming he wasn't to wage "jihad" and was planning an attack, she just didn't know where or when.

"American born Muslim who liked to get shitfaced in gay bars." So? That magically means he couldn't also be a self-radicalized jihadist? Talk about "No True Scotsman", perhaps we need to change it to reflect the current culture which is filled with "he couldn't possibly be a Muslim (not you, but others are still saying this) or a jihadist because "No True..."

Cracklin Charlie

(12,904 posts)
26. It's what I thought all along.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 12:36 AM
Jun 2016

I, being a heterosexual woman, can hardly begin to imagine what a tortured life that young man must have been living. Human beings should not have to endure such pain, especially if the source is some artificial religious taboo. Love is love.

But, really, this rush to stamp "radical jihad" on this tragedy is disturbing. I can't watch the coverage.

I get the feeling that a story about a tortured young man committing mass murder wouldn't sell as many guns as a story about a radical jihadist committing mass murder. Now, that's a story that people would line up at the gun store for!

Maybe I'm just tired of hearing about people dying, for no good reason, in ways that could be prevented.

 

Night Watchman

(743 posts)
29. I Think You Are Correct, Sir
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 12:45 AM
Jun 2016

I remember reading an article in Esquire two decades ago stating that most gay-bashing men are themselves gay, and I've seen several examples since then bearing out that article's point.

Lint Head

(15,064 posts)
31. I thought that almost immediately after the news broke
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 12:48 AM
Jun 2016

the he had visted gay dating sites and was seen regularly at gay nightspots.

markpkessinger

(8,401 posts)
38. I refuse to call Orlando "terrorism" unless and until . . .
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 01:28 AM
Jun 2016

. . . the Justice Department calls Charleston terrorism also! Look, on paper, both meet the legal definition of domestic terrorism, so if we want to label them both as such, fine, there's certainly a reasonable argument to be made for that. But the Justice Department, of course, has resolutely refused to call last year's mass shooting in Charleston 'terrorism.' We all know -- or we all should know by now -- that the reality is that 'terrorism' is applied very selectively by our government and our media, and is used to gin up hysteria and support for our ongoing misadventures in the Middle East! Sorry, not buying!

PatrickforO

(14,587 posts)
40. There is a lot of green (as in profits for the MIC) in terror.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 01:30 AM
Jun 2016

So anytime they can ever conflate something like this with terrorism, they will. Because the forever war on terror is designed for one thing only - to keep us in fear so we will allow our tax dollars to profit companies like Halliburton.

markpkessinger

(8,401 posts)
44. Indeed . . .
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 01:52 AM
Jun 2016

And putting this incident under the 'terrorism' rubric merely serves to muddy the waters of that discussion.

GumboYaYa

(5,952 posts)
207. Let's not forget that the victims were all regular people just enjoying their lives.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 05:01 PM
Jun 2016

Gay, straight, black, white, latino, it doesn't matter. They were all innocent victims of a madman, whatever his motivation. Reading the reports of family members reaching out to their loved ones moments before their murders is as heart wrenching thing as I have seen.

I really hate all of the focus on the madman. We wil never know what motivated him and every time we debate it in the public arena it just gives that crazy man more attention that he does not deserve.

LittleGirl

(8,291 posts)
45. I thought this from the beginning
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 01:53 AM
Jun 2016

and when I saw his selfies, I felt like there was something about those that made me think...he's gay.

Those poor people that died or witnessed that horror...

LostOne4Ever

(9,290 posts)
52. Why do people think every homophobe has to be a closested homosexual themself?
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:18 AM
Jun 2016

[font style="font-family:'Georgia','Baskerville Old Face','Helvetica',fantasy;" size=4 color=#009999]Why can't people possibly consider someone like this to be a straight bigot? Its almost like some people can't accept that straight people can be homocidal bigots. Only LGBTQIA+/MOGaI people.

This man had two different wives, why should we supposed that he was gay? Or LGBTQ+ in anyway?[/font]

writes3000

(4,734 posts)
54. Because his ex-wife said he had gay tendencies. He spent time on gay hook up apps.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:22 AM
Jun 2016

His male friend from academy said he asked him out years ago. Etc, etc, etc.

LostOne4Ever

(9,290 posts)
74. I been looking this up and it seems pretty sketchy
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 03:21 AM
Jun 2016

[font style="font-family:'Georgia','Baskerville Old Face','Helvetica',fantasy;" size=4 color=#009999]Almost no large newpaper is publishing this, which makes me have alot of doubt. It mainly Gawker and a bunch of Right Wing Tabloids like the Daily Mail.

Further, the report wasn't from the ex-wife but hearsay from her husband talking to the Brazilian News. It even has a conspiracy theory aspect in that he claims the FBI asked her not to speak about this to the American Media?

And the classmate is anonymous.

I have no doubt that homophobia was the primary motivation, but people are way too quick to say the shooter was closeted gay in my humble opinion.

I just find this all a little too convenient...[/font]

LostOne4Ever

(9,290 posts)
195. First off, that article says nothing about his wife or classmate calling him gay
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 04:34 PM
Jun 2016

[font style="font-family:'Georgia','Baskerville Old Face','Helvetica',fantasy;" size=4 color=#009999]Secondly, even had it said so it was published today and I made my comments last night.

Please try not to treat me that way.[/font]

 

melman

(7,681 posts)
56. Because a lot of people here
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:30 AM
Jun 2016

are desperate to find a way to make it not about...that other thing.

Behind the Aegis

(53,983 posts)
73. Well because...
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 03:03 AM
Jun 2016

...every white racist is "secretly" black or wants to be...
...every misogynist is "secretly" female or wants to be...
...every anti-Semite is "secretly" Jewish or wants to be...
...every Islamophobe is "secretly" Muslim or wants to be...
...every transphobe is "secretly" transgender or wants to be...

Oh wait...that's fucking absurd! But somehow...
...every homophobe is "secretly" gay or wants to be...

Yeah, that's the ticket!



Don't forget "the study" and don't forget that poster's who swears some of his/her "best gay friends were former homophobes!"

TRUTH!

LostOne4Ever

(9,290 posts)
75. Its sad how often that happens. The most dubious sources become "iron clad" truth.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 03:27 AM
Jun 2016

[font style="font-family:'Georgia','Baskerville Old Face','Helvetica',fantasy;" size=4 color=#009999]I remain skeptical.

The yellow press is too quick to push this homophobic meme, and I think it is disgusting!

[/font]

Behind the Aegis

(53,983 posts)
80. I agree!
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 03:53 AM
Jun 2016

Of course, some couldn't wait and proclaimed their "wisdom" with...

"I knew it!"

"I could tell with all those duck face selfies!"

"No real Muslim would be in a gay bar on Ramadan."

"He was abusive to his first wife, and we know that is an indicator of his being gay too."

It never fails!

King_Klonopin

(1,306 posts)
53. Thanks for a reasoned, alternative point of view.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:20 AM
Jun 2016

I agree with your analysis. This seems to be a self-hating gay man who resolved
his ego-dystonic sexuality by killing people who were the reflection of the part of
himself which he hated so much. He was predisposed to this heinous act because
of his psychological make-up. It is why he beat his wife.

All Jihadists and religious fundamentalists are angry, disturbed, pathological and --
often times -- evil people.
They distort selected parts of a religious doctrine as a cover and a justification for
their own core pathology. This man, and those who identify with groups like ISIS,
would kill others regardless of the existence of God or any organized religion.

There are many people on DU who will never give up the talking point that religion
is bad and that these tragedies occur because people believe in God. In other words,
if we all agreed to be atheists and ban all religion, then things like this would never
happen.
This is flawed logic. It uses cause-and-effect where it does not apply. It also confuses
affect and effect. This man's disturbed psyche AFFECTED his relationship with people
and his concept of God. If you want an angry god who condones your desire to murder,
you can find one -- or create one of your own making.

Let's consider the opposite: perhaps, without God and religious beliefs, things like this
would be MORE prevalent. There are many depressed people who don't kill themselves
because it is anathema to their religious beliefs. Same idea applies to murder, rape,
theft, abuse and a bunch of other antisocial tendencies inherent to the human species.

It takes just a small effort of an open mind to see past the Muslim/God/religion in a story,
but these words are irresistible bait to a lot of DUers. I am surprised that more people
haven't lashed back at you because you did not echo the "let's blame god!" meme.

Donald Trump blames this all on Islam. What does that tell you?



writes3000

(4,734 posts)
55. Religion can be used as a weapon. Isis preys on isolated outsiders.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:24 AM
Jun 2016

In this case, I think all the factors combined.

Religion itself isn't bad. How people choose to apply it runs the gamut.

King_Klonopin

(1,306 posts)
59. True. But, I don't consider ISIS is to be a religion. They are a hate group.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:38 AM
Jun 2016

ISIS certainly helped him "express" his horrible feelings, if you will.

And, when religion is used as a weapon (to justify murdering doctors at
reproductive clinics or abusing little children, for example) then it isn't
"religion's" fault.
Twisted people corrupt the words of God all the time. I don't blame the
religion; I blame the individuals who corrupt it and those who allow it --
and so does God, according to what I have read.

I hope the public doesn't get tricked into focusing on Islamic fundies
instead of the real issue -- gun violence and the need to change gun laws --
which includes us here in the DU society. Keep your eye on the ball everyone.

Fumesucker

(45,851 posts)
88. Any philosophy that tells you to turn off your mind and accept it without question is bad
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 06:15 AM
Jun 2016

And when such a philosophy also tells you that normal human behavior and sexual desires are evil you have a potent recipe for pain.

Even if the killer turns out to be gay it was still Islam fomenting the pain and anger in his brain by denying his normal human self to him.

Dark n Stormy Knight

(9,771 posts)
155. Speaking of flawed logic...
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 12:53 PM
Jun 2016
This man, and those who identify with groups like ISIS, would kill others regardless of the existence of God or any organized religion.

All Jihadists and religious fundamentalists are angry, disturbed, pathological and --
often times -- evil people.

You provide no proof of these claims.

There are many people on DU who will never give up the talking point that religion is bad and that these tragedies occur because people believe in God. In other words, if we all agreed to be atheists and ban all religion, then things like this would never happen.

You conveniently didn't specify an important term. If by "these tragedies" you mean mass killings in general, then do please provide evidence of the "many people" claiming they would "never" happen. I don't believe your you can. Strawman.

If you can, then those people are wrong. But atheism itself does not claim that.

If, by "these tragedies" you mean killings by people who believe their religion tells them to kill, then, logically, no religion=none of "these tragedies." Ironclad argument.

This man's disturbed psyche AFFECTED his relationship with people and his concept of God. If you want an angry god who condones your desire to murder, you can find one -- or create one of your own making.

And, logic will tell you that if there were no belief in god--either one they made up themselves or one someone else made up for them--this scenario could not occur.

Let's consider the opposite: perhaps, without God and religious beliefs, things like this would be MORE prevalent. There are many depressed people who don't kill themselves because it is anathema to their religious beliefs. Same idea applies to murder, rape, theft, abuse and a bunch of other antisocial tendencies inherent to the human species.

How about we consider the opposite of the ludicrous idea that we need god to have a belief system to which suicide, rape, theft, abuse, etc. is anathema.

It really doesn't take much effort at all.

markpkessinger

(8,401 posts)
238. What on Earth is "sanitized" about it?
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 08:34 PM
Jun 2016

It's still a hate crime, a mass murder, and the largest mass shooting in U.S. history. The dead aren't any more dead. and the people aren't any more injured, by calling this 'terrorism.'

MariaThinks

(2,495 posts)
239. This was a hate crime, but where did the hate come from?
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 08:38 PM
Jun 2016

The killer's father talked about how wrong homosexuality was to their faith

sharia law and islam calls for the death of homosexuals

The killer acted out what he was taught. Now apparently his wife knew and did nothing.

markpkessinger

(8,401 posts)
241. I never disputed that his religion (or rather, his particular strain of his religion) . . .
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 08:47 PM
Jun 2016

. . . played a role here. What I dispute is seeing this as an example of ISIS-driven terrorism or part of some Jihadist agenda. There is scant evidence of that beyond a profession of loyalty a few days prior to the shootings. There is much more evidence pointing to this as a very troubled individual acting on his personal demons.

DallasNE

(7,403 posts)
58. One Doesn't Have To Be Gay To Understand
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:37 AM
Jun 2016

The truthfulness of what you say. When I saw the article that he was a regular at the club he shot up my first thought was that ISIS was something that he made up at the last minute to cover up his identity crisis. I was already confused by his supposed loyalty to both Hezbollah and ISIS since those two groups can't stand one another.

David__77

(23,501 posts)
61. I'm gay and I understand that this was an adherent of Islamic State who committed an act of terror.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:42 AM
Jun 2016

The killer was twice under FBI investigation. I want to know why the FBI closed the investigation and why this country is allowing people into the country who preach in support of the death penalty for homosexuals.

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
67. You know....the deeply cynical part of me wonders if an FBI agent didn't uncover the fact that he
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:53 AM
Jun 2016

was gay...and make an assumption that they should not have.

uppityperson

(115,679 posts)
79. One was after he said he knew the Boston bombers and the FBI found no proof. I think the 2nd
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 03:52 AM
Jun 2016

investigation was something about people act a mosque being checked out. I read something yesterday, sorry no links.

 

Demit

(11,238 posts)
137. Preaching in support of the death penalty for homosexuals is very American.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 11:04 AM
Jun 2016

There's Steven Anderson, a Baptist pastor in Arizona, who calls for the death of all gays. There's Kevin Swanson, preacher from Colorado, who says homosexuality should be punished with death. There's Pastor Charles Worley, in North Carolina, who says we should lock gays in a pen with an electrified fence until they die out.

All adherents of religion. And I know there are more. Potential mass-murderers don't have to go outside the country to get megadoses of hate. It's all around us already.

 

Dems to Win

(2,161 posts)
240. Yes. But still, I don't want any foreigners allowed to come here and add to the vicious bigotry.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 08:46 PM
Jun 2016

We have enough homegrown crazies, we don't need to add to the pot. We need to be able to count on the immigration system to only allow in people who will not be a threat to Americans living in a free society.

markpkessinger

(8,401 posts)
170. Yes, he was twice investigated for ties to terrorist organizations . . .
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 01:57 PM
Jun 2016

. . . and was twice found not to have such ties. Maybe that means she didn't actually have any ties to terrorist groups.

His proclamation of loyalty to ISIS came only a few days before the shooting, but his gay activities are of much longer standing.

One person in this thread said I was "jumping to conclusions." But actually, I think it has been the FBI and the media that have jumped to conclusions, instantly concluding this was an act of terror related to ISIS, based solely the fact that he was Muslim and his fairly recent statement of loyalty to ISIS. People can claim all sorts of loyalties for all sorts of reasons, but that doesn't, in itself, constitute an actual link to a particular organization.

Meanwhile, more and more evidence seems to support the theory I've put forward here.

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
65. As I said in a prior thread....he hated gays. He chose a religion to bolster that hate....
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:50 AM
Jun 2016

That he hated himself, too, is not surprising to anyone who can acknowledge that hate is complex.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
108. He chose to stay in the religion he was raised in
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 09:00 AM
Jun 2016

I think if he was raised in one religion and then converted to another in adulthood, that would constitute choosing a religion.

I would point out that leaving Islam can be dangerous to one's health, as they have the death penalty for apostasy.

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
130. No....no one is born into a religion. It's like Republicanism....once you are an adult, it's a
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 10:22 AM
Jun 2016

choice.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
131. Yes, of course people are born into a religion
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 10:25 AM
Jun 2016

If one's parents are a certain religion, you don't get a say in how you are raised.

Republicans don't kill you if you become a Democrat in your adulthood.

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
152. Children are not born Muslim or Catholic, or whatever. That is imposed on them.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 12:21 PM
Jun 2016

Children are not born a religion.

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
163. No...children are not "born" any religion. That's just acceptance of what authoritarians
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 01:40 PM
Jun 2016

have told you.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
168. Yes, they are
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 01:55 PM
Jun 2016

You wrote that religion is a choice. A child does not choose their religion. The choice is made by their parents.

A child born to devout Muslim parents will be raised a Muslim whether they want to or not.

The same goes for a child north to Orthodox Jewish parents, and so on.

When they grow up, they can choose a different religion, but they did not get to make the initial choice.

Ilsa

(61,698 posts)
198. And changing your thinking about the religion you are raised
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 04:42 PM
Jun 2016

In is very difficult. There's the cognitive dissonance, and the issue of telling your parents you don't believe as they do. No wonder he was messed up emotionally.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
255. Exactly
Wed Jun 15, 2016, 10:11 AM
Jun 2016

Especially if the religion you are raised in has particularly harsh rules against apostasy.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
154. You may have conflated culture and religion.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 12:37 PM
Jun 2016

Not exactly the same thing. One can be more pervasive than the other.

My parents were Christian, raised me in a Christian household. I was immune to it, by choice. But I bear the indelible markings of having been raised in a western, Christian culture.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
159. You didn't choose to be a Christian
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 01:22 PM
Jun 2016

You were a Christian as a child because your parents were. Is that not fair to say?

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
167. No, I was never a chrisitan.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 01:52 PM
Jun 2016

Not for one second. I've been an atheist my entire life.

Culturally, I carry some tell-tale signs of having been raised in that culture. Like an accent. It's not stuff you choose or promote as active identity.

For instance, some fucker stole my foreskin. I was raised deeply inculcated in Christian mythology, with a deep working knowledge of western Christian history. My historical outlook was initially colored through the lens of Christian dominionism. That affects personality at a very deep, non-conscious level. I behave very differently than someone raised in... ugh. Strongest contrast I could pick would be someone raised in a middle caste in India. I question authority, rules, traditions in ways someone raised there might be very unlikely to. 'Lean in' culture. Just an example. (I'm not implying superiority, just highlighting contrasts, and there are no absolutes, right, not everyone in my example will behave that way)

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
169. You did not believe in God even though your parents did and instructed you to do so as well?
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 01:56 PM
Jun 2016

You were able to defy your parents in this way even as a small child?

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
171. Correct.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:03 PM
Jun 2016

Among some of my earliest memories were refusing to say 'under god' in the pledge in Kindergarten, and in pre-school, starting a ruckus in class because none of the other kids tripped to the 'god killed everyone' underlying message to our 'Flood' coloring book.

Apparently, I've always been an asshole too.

xocet

(3,872 posts)
148. You are completely wrong. Your statement is akin to saying that no one is born into a language....
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 12:05 PM
Jun 2016
To wit - "It's like English....once one is an adult, it's a choice."
 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
151. No...that's you accepting an authoritarian mindset that predetermines children.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 12:20 PM
Jun 2016

No one is born Muslim or Catholic...it is imposed on them.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
172. I think you're saying the same thing actually.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:09 PM
Jun 2016

Other poster's point seems to be that the imposition has lasting effects. (Some undesired by the person it was imposed on)

xocet

(3,872 posts)
176. "...into a religion..." means something different to each of us then. I agree religion is...
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:33 PM
Jun 2016

imposed on children. No child is inherently religious: however, often children are born into a religious environment that has the potential to make them religious to varying degrees.

ReRe

(10,597 posts)
72. I totally agree with you, mark
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:59 AM
Jun 2016

... except I'll take it a little further: He had religious baggage from when he was a kid growing up, also he was classical psycho and maybe he stirred in some drugs with the final scene to boot. Otherwise, how could he have killed so many people? That's the one thing I can't comprehend: why do these mass murderers need to take so many unarmed innocent people out with them in a final blaze of glory? Is it wrapped up in the total psychosis in their mind, which you or I or even a trained psychiatrist have not the ability to fathom?

1939

(1,683 posts)
86. Check out the "Bath School Killings" sometime.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 06:11 AM
Jun 2016

You can see how a psychosis is hidden and becomes deadly.

noiretextatique

(27,275 posts)
81. I totally agree...never bought the ISIS angle
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 05:29 AM
Jun 2016

Mainly because the media was furiously spinning as soon as this tragedy was reported. Disturbed closet-case who took his envious rage out on the people he could never dream of being like.

oswaldactedalone

(3,491 posts)
89. Well said
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 06:50 AM
Jun 2016

I don't have a dog in this fight regarding whether it was a hate crime with ISIS "cover" or an actual act of terrorism. Just trying to objectively looks at the facts as they are currently known and interpret what actually happened. It's becoming clear the guy was gay and comes from a religious background which says that gays should be done away with. He can claim the religious high ground while using terrorism as a cover, all while expressing his self-hatred in the most repugnant of ways.

ileus

(15,396 posts)
90. So we're dismissing the terrorist watch list and FBI check thing now?
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 06:59 AM
Jun 2016

and running with he was a oppressed gay???




forthemiddle

(1,382 posts)
197. Don't forget the two trips to Saudi Arabia
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 04:39 PM
Jun 2016

In the past 5 years for religious vigils. Those were just gay jaunts.

MellowDem

(5,018 posts)
93. I think it's an example of how religion can screw people up...
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 07:36 AM
Jun 2016

It's not anything new that people raised with homophobic religions and cultures are going to have some serious internal issues, not of their own making. Some people can handle them and some people can't, and some people take it all the way to this extreme, but it's very clear who should feel the most shame about it, people who identify with bigoted religions, and people who try to excuse these mainstream bigoted religions as "the norm".

 

beachbum bob

(10,437 posts)
94. the shooter fits the classic case of the "closeted gay"....who in a last fit of a breakdown to prove
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 07:59 AM
Jun 2016

his "manliness" claims to be following ISIS to murder innocent people....so his father can be pleased that his son is now a martyr enjoying the 70 virgins in heaven....

mental illness amplified by religion, culture and society.....and open access to weapons of mass destruction



what possibly could go wrong??

DCBob

(24,689 posts)
95. Totally agree.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 08:21 AM
Jun 2016

This guy was tormented by the conflict between his inner feelings and his religious rules and was attracted to the ISIS crap in a way to "resolve" the conflict. I think he hated himself and felt he didnt fit in anyone's world so might as well go out in a blaze of "glory".

DCBob

(24,689 posts)
125. Yes agree.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 09:46 AM
Jun 2016

Also, I think he saw in doing what he did in Orlando would be some sort of "atonement" for his perceived "sins". Clearly a deeply confused unstable troubled individual.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
103. If this weren't suggested every single time there's a hate crime against gay people
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 08:51 AM
Jun 2016

I might see your point.

But every single time there's an anti-gay hate crime, we hear about how the person must have been a closeted gay person. Every single time.

Are anti-gay hate crimes sometimes committed by gay people? Probably, given statistical realities. But most of the time, again given statistics, they're probably straight people who are just plain full of hate. Lots of straight people hate gay people and are capable of violence.

And then, when there was first an indication that he could possibly be gay, there were a bunch of people saying, "Oh, well I was wondering . . . " and "I suspected that." That shows that the immediate assumption is always that the killer must also be gay.

There's just no excuse for people to always make that assumption. And then you couple that with people always trying to explain away the possibility of it being because of religious terrorism. People always assume a killer of gay people must be gay, but people (at least here at DU) try very hard to not assume a killer who blames Islam killed because of Islam.

Anyway, to sum up, I think the issue is the general way these things go more than this particular situation.

markpkessinger

(8,401 posts)
179. I agree people are often too quick to attribute every act of anti-gay violence . . .
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:38 PM
Jun 2016

. . . to internalized homophobia. But it <i>is</i> a known phenomenon, and this case, there appears to be a great deal of information coming forward about the shooter that supports it. Meanwhile, there have still been no direct ties to any terrorist groups established.

And here's the thing: if this had been an act carried out by Al Qaeda or ISIS, those groups would have rushed to take credit for it. ISIS gloated about the event having occurred, but stopped short of taking credit for it. Terrorist organizations WANT the world to know when they are responsible for an act of terrorism -- otherwise, there's little point in doing it in the first place.

markpkessinger

(8,401 posts)
199. I never said religion wasn't a factor . . .
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 04:43 PM
Jun 2016

I made reference to the shooter's father's statement to that effect, but I didn't assert that claim as my own. Indeed, I think his family's very conservative brand of Islam was likely a major contributor to the internalized homophobia of the shooter. But there are millions of Muslims in this country and elsewhere who don't commit mass murder, and there has likewise been violence committed against gay people in the name of Christianity. So please let's not pretent this is unique to Islam.

hertopos

(833 posts)
104. I agree with you.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 08:52 AM
Jun 2016

This shooting and the last CA shooting are different breed of terrorism.

They were not directed by anyone. They are self-radicalized.

I am not getting into why he did it. However, it is important to emphasize that focusing on
international terrorism is not the right direction.

It is all about trickle down hate and racism enabled by weapon of war.

So, the focus should be

1. Assault weapon ban.
2. Counter Trickle down hates and racism.

This is my take on this.

I have too many friends in LGBT community and I do not want to mince my words right now when
I text to my friends.

I want to focus on Assault weapon ban.

hertopos

ellennelle

(614 posts)
112. tormented
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 09:14 AM
Jun 2016

by the inability - or freedom - to be true to himself.

the specter of his father's opinions about homosexuality must have haunted him, on top of those from his religion (little different from most others, really), and society at large had to have contributed to his clearly fundamental mental instability.

it does seem the negative and aggressive male impulses in general are too often tangled up in fears of one's own homosexuality. that remarkable nude "wrestling" scene in borat certainly leaps to mind.
interesting the female parallel does not have the same expression.

i've long been wondering why no one has mentioned the "lavender scare" mccarthy perpetrated along with his "red scare," or why there is not more recognition that religiously sanctioned persecution of homosexuals has long been the hallmark of dictatorships, from justinian to ted cruz.

of course, religious foundations of hatred are perceived as "righteousness" in their beholders' eyes.

so why does no one ever quote the matthew passage: "if thine eye offends thee, pluck it out"?

yellowcanine

(35,701 posts)
114. People can have more than one motivation.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 09:16 AM
Jun 2016

I agree the guy might have been a self hating gay.
I also think he may have been mentally disturbed but may have been able to hide it from coworkers etc.
And I think he took some inspiration from radical websites.

These are not mutually exclusive.

alarimer

(16,245 posts)
119. I think it is indeed a complex case.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 09:26 AM
Jun 2016

Many different factors at play here.

But, yeah, the media is completely irresponsible in trying to turn this into a pure terrorism case. Which it is, but it is more than that.

Politicub

(12,165 posts)
123. People are scrambling to find a reason for
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 09:39 AM
Jun 2016

an irrational act of violence.

You could be right or wrong, op. Just as right or wrong as the people falling over themselves to get their pet theory out there.

 

disillusioned73

(2,872 posts)
126. K&R..
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 09:52 AM
Jun 2016

Watching all the new information about this guy, it really painted a new picture... still disturbing - but not what the media and the Trumps of the world want to talk about..

Mira

(22,380 posts)
128. My suspicion exactly
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 10:06 AM
Jun 2016

I started thinking along those lines yesterday, and then I began to see the various bits that are confirming it. I do think that the ISIS connection and attraction can co-exist in this man, which then makes the repression worse.

catbyte

(34,447 posts)
129. Palm Beach Post is confirming your theory he was closeted gay, asked classmate out in hs.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 10:15 AM
Jun 2016

The whole "allegiance to ISIS" thing sounds like a bullshit rationalization to mask his true motives.

Kablooie

(18,641 posts)
132. Seems to declare ISIS gives a kind of permission to kill and hides the real reason.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 10:28 AM
Jun 2016

If he was closeted he probably wouldn't want people to know even after he was dead.

 

NorthCarolina

(11,197 posts)
133. The "fear factor" in tying it to "jihad" is just what the doctor ordered for an
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 10:30 AM
Jun 2016

otherwise wholly uninspiring Clinton campaign.

vlyons

(10,252 posts)
140. Could not agree more
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 11:19 AM
Jun 2016

When I heard about this guy's cruising gay dating sites, right away I thought repressed in-the-closet gay, or bi at the least. He could have attacked other sites, like a church, a sports venue, a store, a public bldg. But he chose an LGBT social center. Why? I'll give you 3 guesses and the first 2 don't count. Also this was ultimately a suicide, because surely, he must have known that mass shooters end up killed by cops. So he could end his suffering in (in his mind) a glorious heroic death of righteous Islamic indignation and martyrdom. But in reality, he was just a sick hateful frustrated closeted loser. IMHO

sinkingfeeling

(51,471 posts)
141. I'm not gay, but reached the same conclusion. He was
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 11:22 AM
Jun 2016

gay brought up in an anti-gay religion, full of self-hatred, and used ISIS as a cover.

brooklynite

(94,727 posts)
144. If your father's view is that you shouldn't kill gays because god will do it for you...
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 11:26 AM
Jun 2016

...I can see what that might be a traumatic environment for a gay religious person to grow up in.

 

Scuba

(53,475 posts)
147. Seems reasonable to consider the idea that the shooter was filled with self-loathing ...
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 11:52 AM
Jun 2016

... and that self-loathing was caused by religions and other social mores that consider gays to be sub-human.

 

Android3.14

(5,402 posts)
150. Possible, but let's wait and see.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 12:11 PM
Jun 2016

Maybe two men kissing failed to make him just angry, but if he knew one of the men, it may have been jealous anger. I'm curious to read about the investigation.

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
156. You're getting shit from the usual suspects, but I agree with you.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 12:59 PM
Jun 2016

He was weird, and sent out weird vibes, and as a gay person, I know, that will turn people off at clubs or in many other gay arenas in the US. So he wasn't getting laid, or not getting what he wanted, and got pissed off at the world.

milestogo

(16,829 posts)
161. I think that a major personality disorder was part of the equation
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 01:27 PM
Jun 2016

He was completely calm after shooting dozens of people. No empathy at all.

 

modestybl

(458 posts)
165. "A Well-Regulated Militia..." does NOT = ...
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 01:44 PM
Jun 2016

... any random nut job can get their hands on any weapon regardless of the danger to themselves or fellow citizens.

Unlike the current NRA, I'm a big believer in the 2nd Amendment... it's about time that people take it seriously and NOT ignore the first full half of the sentence.

Whatever this guy's reason/motive, no one outside of a well-regulated militia (Nat'l guard or U. S. Military) should have access to these kinds of military guns or ammo. End of story.

 

phazed0

(745 posts)
166. 155+ Recs as I write this.. We know it.. we know it..
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 01:52 PM
Jun 2016

Great post... my heart goes out to those people that could accept themselves for who they are.

markpkessinger

(8,401 posts)
187. The arson of the Upstairs Lounge in New Orleans in 1973
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 03:01 PM
Jun 2016

. . . carried out by a young hustler who was a regular at the lounge, but who was deeply conflicted over his sexual identity, having sought "conversion" therapy several times to no avail.

markpkessinger

(8,401 posts)
184. Perhaps ...
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:55 PM
Jun 2016

.. . but neither Islam in particular, nor religion in general, have any monopoly on homophobia.

Miles Archer

(18,837 posts)
200. The Tao: "If you want to shrink something, you must allow it to expand"
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 04:46 PM
Jun 2016

I don't know this guy's story. What I do know is that the things a parent...and society...attempts to suppress, especially if it's done in a demeaning or threatening manner, are the things that are most likely to be met with rebellion. And if he had repressed gay feelings, those feelings in an unstable individual are likely to end badly.

He may have been U.S. born, but his father wasn't, and I don't feel I am making a bigoted statement when I say that being gay isn't something that is embraced in Afghanistan.

Was he stalking gays on that dating site, going to the club to stalk more victims and "scope the place out?"

Given everything we know, I think your scenario is more likely.

mhatrw

(10,786 posts)
212. The whole 911 call pledge to ISIS smells like bullshit to me.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 06:17 PM
Jun 2016

It's too pat. And not one journalist has asked the obvious questions such as when these 911 calls went down. what exactly was said, who took the calls, and what response was made by those taking these calls.

Was the guy even a Sunni Muslim? Did he even know the difference between Sunni and Shiite Muslims? The whole "he's an Islamic terrorist" angle seems more likely wholly contrived to me.

Ruby the Liberal

(26,219 posts)
221. The point wasn't to convince the 911 operator
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 06:43 PM
Jun 2016

The point was to be absolved. He declared allegiance to some Sunni/Shia street gang (since he reportedly didn't know the difference) as a get into paradise free card.

There is an Persian word for that, but I don't recall what it is.

Rachel did a segment on this last night that was really interesting.

mhatrw

(10,786 posts)
223. Do we even know whether he was Sunni or Shiite?
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 06:49 PM
Jun 2016

Do we even know how much he practiced Islam or believed in Muslim teachings?

I mean, we know he got blitzed at gay clubs. Not sure how that jibes with being a radically fundamentalist Muslim terrorist.

It seems more likely to me that the 911 calls were made by someone who was trying to exploit this heinous crime for political ends.

mhatrw

(10,786 posts)
231. We'll never know only because actual journalism is long dead in our society.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 07:43 PM
Jun 2016

What we get now is 100% official and anonymous sources, breathlessly reported and vacuously dissected, all without any asking of any questions, no matter how obvious these questions are.

markpkessinger

(8,401 posts)
237. The great majority of Afghans are Sunni . . .
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 08:27 PM
Jun 2016

. . . on the order of 80-90%. And if he had any sympathy at all towards ISIS, then it would be extremely odd indeed for him to have been a Shia.

L. Coyote

(51,129 posts)
243. Why isn't everyone talking about this aspect:
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 09:09 PM
Jun 2016

Mildred ?@MildredVon Jun 12

998 shootings since Sandy Hook. Two involved Muslims. 998 involved males. But yeah, must be a Muslim problem, not a male violence problem.

rocktivity

(44,577 posts)
246. Had he been to the club more than once PRIOR to seeing the men kissing?
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 09:25 PM
Jun 2016

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It would explain his father's insisting that he wasn't a radical fundie. And now, a tale of two wives:

TMZ: ...The wife of...Omar Mateen...reportedly told the FBI she tried to talk Omar out of the crime, but it doesn't appear she ever went to authorities. She also admitted to dropping him off at the club at least once prior to the shooting, so he could scope out the venue.

TMZ: Amid reports the Orlando mass murderer had been to Pulse nightclub multiple times...Omar Mateen's ex-wife...Sitora Yusufiy and her current fiance, Marco Dias, were asked by a Brazilian reporter if Mateen was gay.

Dias said Sitora believed Omar had "homosexual tendencies." Dias also said Sitora told him she witnessed Mateen's father calling him gay several times. Dias claims the FBI told Sitora to keep mum about Mateen's homosexuality in interviews with "American media" ...Sitora said when she and Mateen married in 2009 he "confessed to me about his past, and he very much enjoyed going to clubs"...

Now why would the FBI tell Sitora "to keep mum about Mateen's homosexuality" -- because it would change the narrative from Muslim radical fundie to closeted self-hating homophobe?




rocktivity

targetpractice

(4,919 posts)
247. I'm concerned about Mateen's widow living with his father...
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 10:29 PM
Jun 2016

I'll bet that his father is the root cause of Mateen's homophobia...

I've seen a version of this sad tale before, but never ending in such tragedy.

I am not excusing his behavior in any way, but Mateen was seemingly rejected on all fronts... by his father, his religion, and by a gay community he pursued for years that probably shunned him due to his baggage and being closeted.

rocktivity

(44,577 posts)
249. DING DING DING! Rocktivity, you're our grand prize winner!
Wed Jun 15, 2016, 01:42 AM
Jun 2016
Had he been to the club more than once PRIOR to seeing the men kissing?

AmericanNewsX:
Multiple reports tell us that the shooter has cited various terrorist groups that are actually bitter rivals of each other as his "connection." When investigated, more than once, it was found that he had no such ties and was more than likely trash talking when he felt threatened...(T)his guy really doesn’t seem to have any real connections to any real terrorists at all...

On the other hand, a consistent pattern of him being a regular at the Pulse (club) for about three years has emerged. Witnesses are coming forward who had interactions with him and are swearing to the terrorist being a gay man. He also had a profile on a gay dating site...

So far, the patterns of a secret life-leading, self-loathing gay Muslim are much more consistent than anything directed by any of the rival terrorist groups that the terrorist claimed to be with at various times and seeking any kind of religious martyrdom. If this turns out to be factual, many of those demanding we ban and scrutinize Muslims more in America will have egg on their face, yet again.

Telegraph UK:
...Sitora Yusufiy...(a) former wife of Mateen...has said he was mentally unstable and beat her...(S)he fled their home after four months of marriage...A neighbour said Noor Salman only visited her mother once after she married Mateen...

Orlando residents...say that Mateen was a regular at the club and a homosexual seeking to pick up men. Jim Van Horn, said he once struck up a conversation with Mateen, but his friends pulled him away – saying there was “something strange” about him...Another couple, who work together as drag-dancing performers, said they had seen Mateen as many as a dozen times at Pulse, and that he went to the club to escape his home life.

Chris Callen, who goes by the stage name of Kristina McLaughlin, said Mateen began showing up about three years ago..."It could be he just went crazy. Maybe he got radicalised and hated who he was.”

Hooray for me. Oh, and how long between his two marriages?


rocktivity

 

melman

(7,681 posts)
251. uh oh
Wed Jun 15, 2016, 02:08 AM
Jun 2016
The wife of Orlando nightclub shooter told the FBI that Omar Mir Seddique Mateen said he wanted to carry out a jihadist attack, though she denied knowledge of his plans to launch the deadliest mass shooting in U.S. history, a law enforcement official told CNN on Tuesday.

http://www.cnn.com/2016/06/14/us/orlando-gunman-omar-mateen-wife-fbi/

rocktivity

(44,577 posts)
254. A law enforcement official who dare not speak his name?
Wed Jun 15, 2016, 10:10 AM
Jun 2016

Why would he be unofficially leaking information from the FBI? All that accomplishes is giving credence to the report that the FBI told Mateen's previous wife to "keep mum to the American media" about his homosexual tendencies and the conflict they may have caused with his religion. The real conflict seems to be between keeping the jihadist narrative alive and the possibility that Mateen was more likely a lone wolf who literally tried to blow his homophobia away.


rocktivity

rocktivity

(44,577 posts)
258. He may very well be lying
Wed Jun 15, 2016, 01:40 PM
Jun 2016

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but at least HE dared to speak his name...


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markpkessinger

(8,401 posts)
257. Whether or not he said this to his wife ...
Wed Jun 15, 2016, 01:02 PM
Jun 2016

...it still isn't evidence of any operational ties to any terrorist organization. And if, as I suggest in my OP, he was using the whole ISIS/Jihadist thing as a cover (because he couldn't deal with his own gay temdencies), then one would fully expect that he would use this same cover when speaking to, of all people, his wife. This doesn't counter my narrative in the least -- in fact, it supports it.

RussBLib

(9,035 posts)
260. so are you suggesting that there is no threat from ISIS?
Wed Jun 15, 2016, 03:01 PM
Jun 2016

are you suggesting that all of these attacks here in the US labeled as "terrorism" were actually all covers for something else, manipulated by TPTB to maintain their dominance?

Would you also say that we are not dropping any bombs on Syria, Iraq, or anywhere else in that area? Is that just a fabrication of the military-industrial complex too?

Is ISIS itself just a fabrication?

markpkessinger

(8,401 posts)
262. Hello? Where did I ever say anything like that?
Wed Jun 15, 2016, 11:53 PM
Jun 2016

But we do know that a number of the FBI's "foiled terror plots" were really cases in which the FBI found some marginal individual, essentially talked the person into hatching a terror plot, and then provided the means to do so (which the person otherwise would likely never have had), only to then arrest the person and loudly proclaim that they had once again "savedd America from the Muslim menace!"

targetpractice

(4,919 posts)
261. Agreed... He made a big display of his homophobia in recent months...
Wed Jun 15, 2016, 03:07 PM
Jun 2016

He let his father know how two men kissing was disgusting. He asked his wife to drive him to Purge after he'd been going there numerous times. Perhaps, all for show to keep him closeted after death.

I wonder if he feared being outed against his will by someone he may have met at Purge... Or, was he rejected too many times at the clubs or on hookup apps he frequented (i.e., imagine... who would want to become involved with an unpleasant, very closeted, married gay father with his own strict Muslim father? Sorry to say, but that's a lot of baggage).

Because of his, his father's, and his religion's homophobia... He was rejected from all directions.

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