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kpete

(72,022 posts)
Thu Jun 16, 2016, 08:38 AM Jun 2016

Her Grandson Was Killed in Orlando. What These Passengers Did On Her Flight to His Funeral? TEARS!

What these JetBlue passengers did for the grandmother of a man slain in the Orlando shooting at Pulse will restore your faith in humanity.

Funerals are beginning for the victims of this week’s tragic mass terrorist shooting in Orlando, and family members from across the country have begun their sad journeys to say goodbye. In the midst of their great grief, the support of their communities and even strangers are bringing much comfort to these bereft relatives of lost loved ones. Perhaps the most shining example thus far, one that truly restored faith in humanity, is the treatment of victim Luis Omar Ocasio-Capo’s grandmother on her JetBlue flight to Orlando. JetBlue employee Kelly Davis Karas detailed the extraordinary event in a Facebook post, saying:


Kelly Davis Karas
June 14 at 12:23pm · Kennebunk, ME ·

Below is a picture of Luis Omar Ocasio-Capo. Omar, as his friends and family called him, was a Latino man gunned down at an LGBTQ bar in Orlando last weekend. He was 20-years-old.

Today my dear friend Melinda and I had the sad privilege of attending to his grandmother on our flight as she made her journey to Orlando to join her family during this unspeakable time.

Knowing she was making this hard journey alone, JetBlue employees made sure to be at her side every step of the way. Melinda stood quietly by her wheelchair while we waited until it was time to board. Kellie, the gate agent, boarded with her and helped get her settled. Melinda and I gave her a blanket, a pillow, a box of tissues and water so she could be as comfortable as possible. She was understandably distraught, but met us with kindness and gentleness. And gratitude.

But here’s where our flight got truly inspiring. I had the idea to pass around a piece of paper to everyone on board and invite them to sign it for this grieving grandmother. I talked it over with Melinda and she started the process from the back of the plane. As we took beverage orders, we whispered a heads up about the plan as we went.

Halfway through, Melinda called me, “Kel, I think you should start another paper from the front. Folks are writing PARAGRAPHS.” So I did. Then we started one in the middle. Lastly, running out of time on our hour and fifteen minute flight, we handed out pieces of paper to everyone still waiting.

When we gathered them together to present them to her, we didn’t have just a sheet of paper covered in names, which is what I had envisioned. Instead, we had page after page after page after page of long messages offering condolences, peace, love and support. There were even a couple of cash donations, and more than a few tears.

When we landed, I made an announcement that the company had emailed to us earlier in the morning to use as an optional addition to our normal landing announcement, which states “JetBlue stands with Orlando.” Then with her permission and at the request of a couple of passengers, we offered a moment of silence in Omar’s memory.

As we deplaned, EVERY SINGLE PERSON STOPPED TO OFFER HER THEIR CONDOLENCES. Some just said they were sorry, some touched her hand, some hugged her, some cried with her. But every single person stopped to speak to her, and not a single person was impatient at the slower deplaning process.

I am moved to tears yet again as I struggle to put our experience into words. In spite of a few hateful, broken human beings in this world who can all too easily legally get their hands on mass assault weapons – people ARE kind. People DO care. And through our customers’ humanity today, and through the generosity of this wonderful company I am so grateful to work for, I am hopeful that someday soon we can rally together to make the world a safer place for all.

I will never forget today. ‪#?Orlandoproud‬

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http://www.foreverymom.com/orlando-shooting-pulse-jetblue-passengers/

https://www.facebook.com/kelly.karas/posts/10208014748299487
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Her Grandson Was Killed in Orlando. What These Passengers Did On Her Flight to His Funeral? TEARS! (Original Post) kpete Jun 2016 OP
Great story Gothmog Jun 2016 #1
Good morning Gothmog kpete Jun 2016 #5
Powerful, such senseless killings, I can't even imagine the hurt and heartbreak of these families. Thinkingabout Jun 2016 #2
Just wow... such a heart-warming story when we needed one most. InAbLuEsTaTe Jun 2016 #3
It's dusty in here rjsquirrel Jun 2016 #4
I'm having a similar problem. Damned pollen! 11 Bravo Jun 2016 #6
No other explanation for me, I cried. TNNurse Jun 2016 #9
Same here. 2naSalit Jun 2016 #31
Individuals can be kind angrychair Jun 2016 #7
Wonderful response. Hoppy Jun 2016 #8
And yet there is this.... LoverOfLiberty Jun 2016 #16
I love this story mcar Jun 2016 #26
That was wonderful n/t 2theleft Jun 2016 #32
Not all "religious fundies" are complete assholes. MH1 Jun 2016 #34
AWESOME NoMoreRepugs Jun 2016 #10
I am crying. gademocrat7 Jun 2016 #11
K&R Sissyk Jun 2016 #12
Kick, kick, kick! Heidi Jun 2016 #13
Heartwarming and lovely. Duval Jun 2016 #14
k and r, with tears. niyad Jun 2016 #15
K&R Thank you for posting this, kpete. There has been far to much diversion from the victims. JudyM Jun 2016 #17
Most people are good souls. AngryOldDem Jun 2016 #18
kick ailsagirl Jun 2016 #19
Just so tragically sad. Hulk Jun 2016 #20
"People DO care." People don't care..... AlbertCat Jun 2016 #21
This puts a face on it. What an amazing effort by the JetBlue employees. libdem4life Jun 2016 #22
this made me cry lunatica Jun 2016 #23
Beautiful progressoid Jun 2016 #24
Tears mcar Jun 2016 #25
Crying all over again. calimary Jun 2016 #27
Beautiful story! We need to hear more of those. smirkymonkey Jun 2016 #28
Absolutely beautiful nt LostOne4Ever Jun 2016 #29
So many of those young people were malaise Jun 2016 #30
Humans are capable of such beautiful love... MrMickeysMom Jun 2016 #33
I read this yesterday-Oh My Gods dlwickham Jun 2016 #35

kpete

(72,022 posts)
5. Good morning Gothmog
Thu Jun 16, 2016, 09:24 AM
Jun 2016

Thanks for joining me this a.m. and all the OTHERs

You must be a morning person too!

peace,
kp

angrychair

(8,733 posts)
7. Individuals can be kind
Thu Jun 16, 2016, 09:41 AM
Jun 2016

And inspired. True to the image we have of ourselves.

The human race, large groups of people (of any political or religious types), many individual humans, very much less so.
Why? Because it to often becomes about agendas, objectives, ideals and compromise. It becomes less about the human and more about the race. Not race, the tone of your skin, race as in 'to win'. To be right. To be richer. To be better. It truly is our greatest fault.



It's easy to talk about the virtues of compromise when you are not the one being compromised.

 

Hoppy

(3,595 posts)
8. Wonderful response.
Thu Jun 16, 2016, 10:13 AM
Jun 2016

Caveat -- this could have backfired. Religious fundies ride in planes. Not just good people.

MH1

(17,607 posts)
34. Not all "religious fundies" are complete assholes.
Thu Jun 16, 2016, 09:32 PM
Jun 2016

I unfortunately have some close relatives who are religious fundies. But they actually aren't assholes. I think what they would have done here is either written nothing or a short condolence, but acted graciously when it was their turn to deplane - quietly offered their condolences and not raised "the gay issue" at all. They would see this woman lost her grandson, and handle it purely in that sense.

I just feel compelled to point this out because while many of their beliefs are abhorrent to me, they really don't support outright violence and murder. They are all for "pray away the gay" and withholding civil rights and lots of other really bad ideas ... but when it comes to gunning down people for being at a gay bar? No way, they would say the murderer is a murderer and sinner just like any other murderer.

I think there are too many "religious fundies" who fit your stereotype, but we should keep in mind that that group, like any other cultural group, is not homogeneous and has many variations, and lots of them actually believe in the whole idea of loving others and not murdering them. Well their ideas of how to "love others" when it comes to gays, are a bit warped. But they still don't extend to murder.

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
21. "People DO care." People don't care.....
Thu Jun 16, 2016, 04:20 PM
Jun 2016

..... if anyone is gay or not...not anymore!

Are you listening conservatives????

 

libdem4life

(13,877 posts)
22. This puts a face on it. What an amazing effort by the JetBlue employees.
Thu Jun 16, 2016, 04:59 PM
Jun 2016

That grandmother will have an amazing addition for her memories.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
23. this made me cry
Thu Jun 16, 2016, 05:48 PM
Jun 2016

The thing about kindness is that it's quiet and gentle. It's easily missed in a world of raging anger. But it is everywhere.

mcar

(42,376 posts)
25. Tears
Thu Jun 16, 2016, 06:22 PM
Jun 2016

What a wonderful, uplifting, HUMAN story. Thank you for sharing it. I feel a bit better about humanity as a result.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
28. Beautiful story! We need to hear more of those.
Thu Jun 16, 2016, 07:23 PM
Jun 2016

Thank you for posting - it has restored my faith in humanity and I'm sure many others can say the same.

MrMickeysMom

(20,453 posts)
33. Humans are capable of such beautiful love...
Thu Jun 16, 2016, 09:17 PM
Jun 2016

... and such horrible things.

This story is where I take my faith to a higher expectation.

Thanks,
MMM

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