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babylonsister

(171,075 posts)
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 10:16 AM Jul 2016

I was a cop – but I still don't know how to survive a police stop

I was a cop – but I still don't know how to survive a police stop
Michael A Wood, Jr

Philando Castile did nothing that should have jeopardized his life, and still he died. Here’s how policing needs to change if we want to escape the nightmare

Monday 11 July 2016 14.46 EDT

I am often asked: how can I make sure I get home safe after I am pulled over by the police? Following the killings of Alton Sterling and Philando Castile, I feel I should know the answer to that question – but I don’t.

You might think I’m the ideal person to answer: I served four years in the US Marine corps’ version of Swat, and 11 years as a Baltimore police officer, detective, sergeant and shift commander. I’ve participated in innumerable car stops, 400-plus arrests and every training event that I could. And yet, I have no idea how to respond to that basic question.

Following Castile’s death, my friend, Frank MacArthur tweeted: “Brother got gunned down for no reason. He had a burned out tail light. Complied. Did EVERYTHING cop asked. STILL not good enough. For America.” He is right. Based on what we know from available reports, Mr Castile did nothing that could have jeopardized his life. There is nothing he could have done differently.

It is frustrating that I cannot offer foolproof advice on how to stay safe from taxpayer-funded state-sanctioned violence. You can run, or not run. Make eye contact, or avoid eye contact. Assert civil rights, or be submissive. There simply is no rule on how to stay alive when you interact with the police. And that is a problem.


Police legitimacy is built upon trust from the community and is what enables the rule of law. The very fabric of our society depends on all of us caring about the victimization of others. That is why I cannot answer the question of what the oppressed should do when engaged by the police to ensure they do not get killed. The question is irrational. It is up to the privileged and the oppressors to ensure the question is never asked.

The thin blue line is supposed to be what holds society together, but it has become what divides us. The country needs the good cops to make a stand. They swore, just like I did, to protect and serve. But too many fail to do that.

more...

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2016/jul/11/i-was-a-cop-dont-know-how-survive-police-stop?CMP=fb_us#link_time=1468329247

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I was a cop – but I still don't know how to survive a police stop (Original Post) babylonsister Jul 2016 OP
This needs repeated. puffy socks Jul 2016 #1
True malthaussen Jul 2016 #2
Cops never miss the opportunity to let you know katsy Jul 2016 #28
And police officers are far down from the top in terms of dangerous professions. maddiemom Jul 2016 #42
Not to denigrate at ALL the police that do their job.. BobTheSubgenius Jul 2016 #51
Some years ago, locally, a well-known character who wandered around town ((white) was shot dead in maddiemom Jul 2016 #55
obvious answer: Gabi Hayes Jul 2016 #3
When 9 good cops cover for 1 bad cop, Mendocino Jul 2016 #4
So true ... and it would only take a couple of instances of firing all 10 ... 1StrongBlackMan Jul 2016 #7
Bingo Hekate Jul 2016 #21
exactly! Thanks for sharing. eom LittleGirl Jul 2016 #23
Sadly, I don't see this happening in my lifetime. Exilednight Jul 2016 #24
The police "unions" would oppose such a policy, tooth and nail ... 1StrongBlackMan Jul 2016 #31
My bigger problem is why put the onus on the public. The public doesn't need to change, the Exilednight Jul 2016 #46
I'm not sure how that is putting the onus on the public; but, ... 1StrongBlackMan Jul 2016 #47
It may be tougher than that. You know what happened to Frank Serpico? tclambert Jul 2016 #29
Yes. That is the threat that keeps the cover up culture thriving ... 1StrongBlackMan Jul 2016 #32
Yep, and police unions are rife with that cover-up culture. geardaddy Jul 2016 #12
That's a terrible truth to swallow, but I sadly agree with you. nt LanternWaste Jul 2016 #40
True and it's not as hard as it looks gwheezie Jul 2016 #53
I have had an issue on one traffic stop, pretty serious but still show respect on other stops Thinkingabout Jul 2016 #5
I have an intermittent license plate light short that only happens when police want to stop me uppityperson Jul 2016 #30
oddly enough I used to have the same problem 8 track mind Jul 2016 #36
this must have been discussed at some point: given the insanely dangerous nature Gabi Hayes Jul 2016 #6
Recent tragedies aside... Salviati Jul 2016 #10
understood, and I probably should have mentioned that...btw, the most life-threatening job Gabi Hayes Jul 2016 #14
I grew up on a farm and worked there as a teen most summers. Jerry442 Jul 2016 #39
I think you'd be shocked at how many cab drivers are murdered in a year Nevernose Jul 2016 #49
But how dangerous is it, really? bullsnarfle Jul 2016 #15
your last sentences hit the nail on the head. I don't know what sort of pysch screening Gabi Hayes Jul 2016 #18
I think it's relevant to differentiate the origins of the danger. LanternWaste Jul 2016 #43
Lots of cops in lots of countries Nevernose Jul 2016 #50
Shorten it to American culture. the_sly_pig Jul 2016 #52
that this individual heaven05 Jul 2016 #8
Why do we have to go the Guardian out of the UK to read this article??? NoMoreRepugs Jul 2016 #9
Why malaise Jul 2016 #19
Because the American Media doesn't want us to know these things. eom LittleGirl Jul 2016 #25
^^^AMEN to this!^^^ Surya Gayatri Jul 2016 #11
I was just getting ready to quote that exact same passage! Moostache Jul 2016 #22
They choose to protect each other over protecting us, the citizens lostnfound Jul 2016 #48
You can't control or predict someone else's fears IronLionZion Jul 2016 #13
step a WAY from the placard! on your knees! hands behind your head! BANG! Gabi Hayes Jul 2016 #17
NBC News: "Blacks in Blue: African-American Cops React to Violence Towards and From Police" Night Watchman Jul 2016 #16
thoughts on what being a good cop entails, from the cops themselves: Gabi Hayes Jul 2016 #20
I would recommend walking and driving only while white. guillaumeb Jul 2016 #26
Here's what I find interesting; the majority of the recent spree killers have all been wanna-be underahedgerow Jul 2016 #27
How many cops are veterans with PTSD? WHEN CRABS ROAR Jul 2016 #41
As actors good or bad will tell you, the costume changes and hardens the hearts and mindset. ancianita Jul 2016 #33
kick Angry Dragon Jul 2016 #34
The truth! nt MrScorpio Jul 2016 #35
Did the cop in the Castile soothing get charged? frankieallen Jul 2016 #37
No and that's my biggest issue; there's going to be mistakes but when they happen the leadership ... uponit7771 Jul 2016 #38
Did you watch Dr Brian Williams yesterday at the hospital press conference malaise Jul 2016 #44
advice I got from a cop friend jtunes Jul 2016 #45
I was a cop too Curtis Jul 2016 #54
 

puffy socks

(1,473 posts)
1. This needs repeated.
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 10:32 AM
Jul 2016

The country needs the good cops to make a stand. They swore, just like I did, to protect and serve.


Until then nothing will change.

malthaussen

(17,205 posts)
2. True
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 10:36 AM
Jul 2016

But, uncomfortable with the fact that life is a crap shoot, the apologists will still push the idea that "compliance" lowers the risk, even if it cannot eliminate it.

And they will never quite absorb the reality that it is the person holding the firearm who has the sole power to determine life or death.

Kinda reminds me of all the "how to survive a mugging" advice that was given in years past -- which amounted to the person with a firearm pointed at their faces telling the person who held the weapon to stay calm -- which, oddly enough, led to all those "Stand Your Ground" laws that have cropped up since.

-- Mal

katsy

(4,246 posts)
28. Cops never miss the opportunity to let you know
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 01:11 PM
Jul 2016

They "put their lives on the line". I want to know for who if not for that innocent they just shot dead?

You don't get bragging rights for bravery when you are killing people for a "perceived", not actual, threat.

In a country where people are considered innocent until proven guilty... our LE has managed to turn that on its head to shoot 1st determine innocence or guilt never.

BobTheSubgenius

(11,564 posts)
51. Not to denigrate at ALL the police that do their job..
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 09:44 PM
Jul 2016

...or those that go beyond even that, but the numbers don't lie, and this is as troubling AS HELL.

Last year, both the CDC and FBI statistics showed that toddlers are more likely to be shot to death than an on-duty cop. 3 times more likely.

maddiemom

(5,106 posts)
55. Some years ago, locally, a well-known character who wandered around town ((white) was shot dead in
Wed Jul 13, 2016, 11:00 AM
Jul 2016

front of the high school by a borough cop an hour after the kids had been dismissed. I don't remember what he was carrying (maybe a broom), but I lived close by and had just returned from substitute teaching in the same building when police and television 'copters were hovering everywhere overhead. The man was obviously mentally disturbed, but had never caused problems to anyone. The saddest result of the situation was that the victim had a reputable family elsewhere in the state who were embarrassed by him and had totally written him off. They never caused so much as a raised eyebrow and the local cop (don't get me started as to some of their training) was just given a pass. This episode will always stick with me.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
7. So true ... and it would only take a couple of instances of firing all 10 ...
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 10:55 AM
Jul 2016

for the culture to begin to change.

Earlier in my HR career, I worked for a company that had a "cover-up" culture. After a couple of investigations where I could clearly demonstrate that witnesses lied or intentional withheld information to frustrate the investigation, I went to the company's top leadership and I convinced them to institute a policy/practice of terminating anyone who (it can be determined) lied or, intentionally, withheld material information during an investigation ... even if the offense being investigated did not merit the subject of the investigation being terminated.

The policy/practice was announced via company email to each employee (who had to click on the email and click an acknowledgement that they read it).

It only took one termination to change the company's "cover up" culture.

Exilednight

(9,359 posts)
24. Sadly, I don't see this happening in my lifetime.
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 12:46 PM
Jul 2016

This is the answer, but no one has the fortitude to do it.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
31. The police "unions" would oppose such a policy, tooth and nail ...
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 01:40 PM
Jul 2016

that's where the public relations part of the roll out comes in. Cultural change comes from internal, as well as external forces.

Exilednight

(9,359 posts)
46. My bigger problem is why put the onus on the public. The public doesn't need to change, the
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 06:05 PM
Jul 2016

Police are the one the ones that need to change.

No politician will stand up and say that for fear of backlash from police, but until that happens nothing is going to change.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
47. I'm not sure how that is putting the onus on the public; but, ...
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 06:14 PM
Jul 2016

a public announcing of a "punish the cover-upers" policy is exactly what a politician would do ... the louder the better. How is the police union and its membership going to oppose that publically? ...

"No. Ms. Politician We need/want the ability to go unpunished when we lie and/or withhold information from in investigators!"

Not trying to be flip ... but setting these type of policies and making them stick, in a very political environment, is what I do for a living.

tclambert

(11,087 posts)
29. It may be tougher than that. You know what happened to Frank Serpico?
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 01:38 PM
Jul 2016

He blew the whistle on dirty cops. Later, he got shot in the face when fellow cops didn't support him going through a door. And then his fellow cops did not even call for medical assistance. Another resident of the building called it in, and saved his life.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
32. Yes. That is the threat that keeps the cover up culture thriving ...
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 01:54 PM
Jul 2016

but, there was no institutional support for honesty ... where everyone faces firing for lying or withholding material information, that changes.

I think you misunderstand what I am talking about ... I'm not talking about punishing officers for failing to whistleblow; but rather, for lying/withholding information when asked. In reality, there will be very few that would come forward and volunteer information; but, in most cases, investigators know who was there ... and the sanctions for lying would be imposed for those asked (and who lie).

Bottom-line, no one is easily willing to lose their livelihood for someone else's wrong ... when the institution is committed to supporting them.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
40. That's a terrible truth to swallow, but I sadly agree with you. nt
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 04:26 PM
Jul 2016

That's a terrible truth to swallow, but I sadly agree with you.

Thinkingabout

(30,058 posts)
5. I have had an issue on one traffic stop, pretty serious but still show respect on other stops
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 10:52 AM
Jul 2016

After that time. Try to keep all lights, etc in order, I work second shift and try not to attract any attention. So far not another incident.

uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
30. I have an intermittent license plate light short that only happens when police want to stop me
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 01:39 PM
Jul 2016

When I walk around the car to check it, it goes back on. Friends driving behind me never see it out, only our local small town police. Never the county sheriffs, just the city police.

Odd, isn't it?

Out of 4 stops in recent yrs, the only polite cop was the one who stopped me the a legitimate reason.

Again, odd.

8 track mind

(1,638 posts)
36. oddly enough I used to have the same problem
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 03:16 PM
Jul 2016

So, I built a tag light out of 10 ultrabright LED's. The kind you can't stare at directly. Bright enough that I can see it from the side view mirror, I mean this thing just lights up the road.

I dare them to tell me the damn thing is out

 

Gabi Hayes

(28,795 posts)
6. this must have been discussed at some point: given the insanely dangerous nature
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 10:53 AM
Jul 2016

inherent in being a cop, in which you could be killed at ANY moment, what sort of a person buys into that sort of an existence?

dunno what sort of psychological profiles have been done via mass studies, or the like, but, in my limited exposure to cops (even the ones who worked at the jr. highs where I was for 9 years), every single one of them was on some sort of a weird power trip or other (despite projecting a usually benign outward countenance), not accepting disagreement on any subject, and always having to be in charge, even when dealing with administrators. you can imagine what that sort of mindset would be like in a more hostile environment than a school setting

just sayin.....others' thoughts on this?

Salviati

(6,008 posts)
10. Recent tragedies aside...
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 11:10 AM
Jul 2016

Being a cop doesn't even break the top 10 most dangerous jobs in America. It's safer than being a taxi driver.

I totally agree that a lot of the issues that we're seeing with bad cops stem from authoritarian personalities drawn to the job, and feel that abuse of authority should be more severely punished in lower stakes cases, so that it doesn't escalate to the degree that we're seeing today.

http://time.com/4326676/dangerous-jobs-america/

 

Gabi Hayes

(28,795 posts)
14. understood, and I probably should have mentioned that...btw, the most life-threatening job
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 11:42 AM
Jul 2016

in the US is......PRESIDENT. if you're unfortunate enough to be roped into that dangerous job, you can look forward to a one in 9 chance of leaving office in a box, not counting the one or two who croaked on their own

beyond that, I don't think the dangerous jobs you mention, afaik, carry the risk of being MURDERED at any moment, not to mention other instances generated by the inherent risk of being a cop

1 Logging workers, mortality rate of about .1 %
2 Fishers and related fishing workers
3 Aircraft pilots and flight engineers
4 Roofers
5 Refuse and recyclable material collectors
6 Farmers, ranchers, and other agricultural managers
7 Structural iron and steel workers
8 Driver/sales workers and truck drivers
9 Electrical power-line installers and repairers
10 Taxi drivers and chauffeurs


Time shows cops in 15th place; don't see dodging bullets or other weapons as one of the dangers in this list, except cabbies

that said, I disagree with the premise of your argument, respectfully, of course. I've talked to cops about this death over the shoulder concept, and they say they refuse to think about it, but that it's ALWAYS there, and it concerns them more now, since they NEVER know when somebody is going to be strapped, or have a surprise in glove compartment, or purse

Jerry442

(1,265 posts)
39. I grew up on a farm and worked there as a teen most summers.
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 04:02 PM
Jul 2016

Suppose I should go up to the customers at Burger King, put on my best Dirty Harry sneer, and say, "I put my life on the line for that burger!"

Nevernose

(13,081 posts)
49. I think you'd be shocked at how many cab drivers are murdered in a year
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 08:27 PM
Jul 2016

Far more cab drivers are the victims of violent crime than a reasonable person could expect.

bullsnarfle

(254 posts)
15. But how dangerous is it, really?
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 11:43 AM
Jul 2016

Time magazine recently listed "police/sheriff's officers" as 15th in U.S. dangerous jobs. They were way behind everything from fishermen to garbage collectors. You don't see fisherman and garbage collectors having paranoid meltdowns and blowing people away.

And do you know (at least in my neck of the woods) that they count things like traffic accidents and other incidental misadventures while on the job as "killed in line of duty"? I could understand counting traffic accidents if you were, say, a truck driver, but cops record every "casualty" just like they were shot to death. Really skews the numbers.

But I agree with you, cop-types do seem to be on pathological superiority trips. Makes me wonder, how many of them do you think were bullies in school?

 

Gabi Hayes

(28,795 posts)
18. your last sentences hit the nail on the head. I don't know what sort of pysch screening
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 11:53 AM
Jul 2016

prospective cops undergo, but I do know that the three cops from my HS graduating class were the lowlifes of our grade: drugs, theft, general aholishness, but none of them were big enough to be physical bullies. wiseass intimidators, when they could get away with it

one of them got busted for selling the dope he confiscated. that was the last I heard of him.

I understand about the stats side of things, but, as I said in one of my other posts, other circumstances of the nature of the job don't account for the mindset inherent in copness....much more similar to that of a soldier than anything else I can think of. and we all know how much more militarized the police have become in this age of terror

I gotta go, but a quick gagagoogle yields this> when I get a chance, I'll check it out.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
43. I think it's relevant to differentiate the origins of the danger.
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 04:46 PM
Jul 2016

I think it's relevant to differentiate the origins of the danger.

The fisherman, logger or roofer's dangers (I've done two of the three in my past) are predicated mainly on safety issues rather than other people.

Granted, a dangerous job is a dangerous job, yet the death of co-workers from nature or an accident or a safety issue doesn't instill in us a hard heart as would death from another person would.

The logger (my grandfather) lost friends (and family) from accidents, but never perceived an unknown tree as his enemy. The policeman who loses friends from a willful shooting may have his perception altered, and begin to see anyone around him as an enemy.

Nevernose

(13,081 posts)
50. Lots of cops in lots of countries
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 08:30 PM
Jul 2016

DON'T have their perception altered, and they carry guns and are under the same threat from criminals and psychos. The problem, it seems to me, is therefore not because of the inherent nature of the job, but Anerican police culture.

the_sly_pig

(741 posts)
52. Shorten it to American culture.
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 09:52 PM
Jul 2016

As a 911 dispatcher I work with cops every day. I know not one has ever come into work thinking, "I'm gonna kill someone today". A quick google search shows 24.6 million traffic stops occurred in 2011.

I don't make excuses for any officer actions. Incidents will be investigated and determinations made based on the law.

Calling people 'apologists' shows a fundamental misunderstanding of the serious issues we have in this country. It's not just cop culture, it's our culture and all the idiosyncrasies that go along with it.

Respectfully,
TSP

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
8. that this individual
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 10:56 AM
Jul 2016

cannot provide an adequate answer to a potentially life threatening situation, for PoC mainly, just shows me how "frayed the fabric of this society" has become. And the holes are getting larger..............

NoMoreRepugs

(9,436 posts)
9. Why do we have to go the Guardian out of the UK to read this article???
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 10:59 AM
Jul 2016

Is our media that afraid of the NRA and Reich Wing to print stories like this?

Unfortunately that's a rhetorical question my friends....

 

Surya Gayatri

(15,445 posts)
11. ^^^AMEN to this!^^^
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 11:14 AM
Jul 2016
The country needs the good cops to make a stand. They swore, just like I did, to protect and serve. But too many fail to do that.

Moostache

(9,897 posts)
22. I was just getting ready to quote that exact same passage!
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 12:45 PM
Jul 2016

It is time for police to stop doing things like quitting their OT security gigs at Minnesota Lynx games in a fit of pique over the T-shirts the team wore in support of the victims, BLM AND the Dallas PD, or whining vociferously like they did in St. Louis after the Rams WRs came out for pre-game introductions in a symbolic "Hands up, Don't Shoot" pose.

The police in these cases are fueling discord by making a public show of how "disrespected" they feel and how they feel "targeted" by protests. They SHOULD be singling out the officers in their midst that are CAUSING the protests in the first place. Attacking the aggrieved and demanding that they stop hurting your feelings is a losing move, period.

First, it ignores the video tape evidence seen, and first hand experiences of those protesting, by making it seem super-duper unfair to police that they would face discord for the actions of some in their ranks.

Second, it fails to acknowledge that there IS a problem with the things we have clearly seen....Tamir Rice, gunned down in SECONDS....Walter Scott, shot in the back while fleeing AND suspicious actions of the officer in regards to planting an object near his body BEFORE he was even dead....Eric Garner, illegally choked to death by police on camera....the names and victims list goes on and on and on.

Finally, there is no greater outrage than to sit silently and allow the actions of a minority of officers to tar and feather the profession out of some misplaced loyalty or code that exists across all police forces. The fellow officers racially profiling drivers for traffic stops, the brutish abusers who look for ways to dehumanize people during questioning, the ones who DO plant evidence, who DO abuse their authority, who DO besmirch the profession....THESE should be the ones that the police call out in angry new conferences and in statements to the press.

The least popular members of every police department are the Internal Affairs officers. Until that is no longer the case, there will remain a problem in the police departments across the nation...regardless of how many media-assisted blow-jobs they get from the Fox News crowd.

lostnfound

(16,184 posts)
48. They choose to protect each other over protecting us, the citizens
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 07:13 PM
Jul 2016

I don't mean the ones that do the shooting; I mean the ones that cover it up.
Why do they hate America?

IronLionZion

(45,463 posts)
13. You can't control or predict someone else's fears
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 11:39 AM
Jul 2016

Which is why the paranoia among some on the right is so dangerous. If you think someone is coming to kill you, you tend to do very irrational things as that adrenaline is pumping and you believe you need to survive by putting down a perceived deadly threat.

If cops hear on the police radio that a Costco was just robbed by an armed and dangerous couple with thin pointy noses wearing yoga pants, Crocs with socks, driving a Prius with a Democratic Underground bumper sticker and a vegan pit bull in the back seat, some of the colorblind DUers here might start to see color. It doesn't matter if you're a good person. The cops think you look like someone else who did a bad thing. They don't know you.

Having cops from the communities they serve can go a long way towards less killings. Back in the day, people were concerned that cops would be corrupt if they were from their communities, and they used this as a racist excuse to keep out the Irish and Italians from serving in police for example. But once those communities started to trust the police and see their own people become patrol officers then organized crime actually decreased in those communities.

This is your brain on hugs

 

Gabi Hayes

(28,795 posts)
17. step a WAY from the placard! on your knees! hands behind your head! BANG!
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 11:46 AM
Jul 2016

oops! sorry bout that.

and why didn't Fred Hampton get out of bed and answer the door, anyway?

not very neighborly of him

 

Night Watchman

(743 posts)
16. NBC News: "Blacks in Blue: African-American Cops React to Violence Towards and From Police"
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 11:44 AM
Jul 2016

Perry Tarrant has 34 years of experience in law enforcement, and he's tackled assignments that include the SWAT team, anti-gang initiatives and the bomb squad.

Despite all of that, the veteran African-American officer admits that his heart pounds a bit faster when he's pulled over by a fellow cop, particularly if they're white.

"I get anxious in those situations, even more so because I'm legally carrying a gun," says Tarrant, an assistant police chief in Seattle, who heads the Special Operations Bureau, which includes Homeland Security. "The potential for things to go sideways makes you well aware of who you are. And I don't think my situation is unique."

For the nation's African-American police officers, being both black and "blue" can mean being caught in the midst of a cultural crossfire.

Full Ariticle

underahedgerow

(1,232 posts)
27. Here's what I find interesting; the majority of the recent spree killers have all been wanna-be
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 12:59 PM
Jul 2016

cops, wanna-be military, and / or ex-military. They've been rejected from these occupations for various reasons. It's part of the psych profile of these guys; the obsession with being in a position of aggression and authority. You'll find similar psych profiles among bouncers, security guards, private military, etc.

So, it begs the question of how many of the unstable men are getting into the policing and military jobs?

I have to say that a cop who panics at just seeing a black man up close and in person and shoots him point blank, isn't entirely stable.

Clearly more in-depth vetting during the recruitment process and during training is in order, and consistent psychological evaluation over the course of their occupation.

That being said, I had to undergo a psych evaluation at a place of work, due to a string of circumstances not necessarily within my control, including a car accident, a workplace accident and an upper echelon boss who was determined to rid the workplace of me. She just had it in for me and literally was the workplace bully. At any rate, I was under a huge amount of stress, and utterly miserable, but daily put on my best face. Now, I'm not a normal person, but I have no rage, no acting out, no bizarre behavior, but I don't have what the average person would consider to be the normal thought process and I can make people uncomfortable. I have learned to adapt and do well enough and in polite company keep my mouth shut and go with the flow and have good control of my self-editor. (I'm FINE!)

My psych eval turned out to be with an official LAPD Psychologist whose speciality was dealing with cops in stressful situations and deciding if they were fit for duty. Granted, I didn't have any weapons and have never posed or made a threat to anyone or anything ever, but figured out pretty quick that my neck was on the line there. I sure as shit knew better than to reveal too much about my paranoia with this boss of mine, and literally just played dumb, sweet, intelligent and kind, with few cares in the world other than the chronic pain I was enduring due to my accidents.

Had I revealed the depths of my paranoia and how utterly tormented I was by this boss, nearly to the breaking point, I would have been in a deeper world of hurt than I was already in at the office. I passed the eval with flying colors, so that was all fine.

She won ultimately in the end, I took a long leave of absence and eventually quit, but on my terms, not hers. She was a pox on the workplace and bullied several of us, very specifically until her retirement. I met up with a fellow co-worked a couple years back who was also one of her victims, and we both cried about our treatment.... a bit cathartic being justified in my paranoia. That boss was the one who needed the psych eval, not me!

My point is that if I could fool a police psych evaluation then other people can too. More stringent standards need to be employed by any agencies issuing weapons that can result in death or harm, and who have the public safety in their hands. Regular strict evaluations, regular training, and more stringent upper management oversight of agencies with a history of cover up and obstruction of justice within the ranks. You know that shit rolls uphill too.

WHEN CRABS ROAR

(3,813 posts)
41. How many cops are veterans with PTSD?
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 04:33 PM
Jul 2016

Is this a factor with wanting to reach for your gun, or expecting a citizen to immediately follow, or obey any order without any hesitation.

ancianita

(36,109 posts)
33. As actors good or bad will tell you, the costume changes and hardens the hearts and mindset.
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 02:19 PM
Jul 2016

The role of the costume and props compels the person to act the way the trappings compel him or her.

This is an issue of "hearts and minds" about who will the police really serve -- the bosses or The People.

The role with all its trappings of power and 'good guy' service-protection -- THAT is the thin, blue line.

I say they serve The Money. Directly it seems like they serve their bosses who pay it. Bosses who get all the costumes and props of power which all of them use to validate themselves with. How? By using those props to display power regularly and randomly.

Give a human a gun, and the feelings of power enter them. Add to that the trappings of a paid role on another's stochastic stage, and these costumed players get to force them into roles that validate their own.

The psyops done on cops as powerful enforcers, is part of the wide range of psyops that makes larger population into the bad guys, all. Race has driven the script for millennia, but raw jungle prey-predator hunting practices can bring it all out, as well. Killing for the sheer joy of feeling powerful. Protecting gets no credit. Killing gets attention, even when pulled from a show for 'stealing the limelight,' the "thin blue line" keeper still gets paid, like members of a repertory.

Doesn't matter who directs, it's who writes, controls and pays for this script. The money and the thrall of the roles trap the players. Who wants to walk off the stage and out of this theater. If the enthralled audience walks out on such a bad story, refuses to pay for it, will the actors perhaps walk out of the theater with them.

But, as Twain said, it's easier to continue fooling someone than to convince them they have been fooled.

People more often want "the story" more than they want the truth.

uponit7771

(90,347 posts)
38. No and that's my biggest issue; there's going to be mistakes but when they happen the leadership ...
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 03:57 PM
Jul 2016

... usually is the ones who allow for the most covering.

For instance , we know damn well the probability of BOTH body cams coming off in BRLA at the same time is really low... and... the audio from those body cams and the video from the store camera that are in police possession have NOT been shown.

How are people in that community supposed to trust the police?

Transparency and accountability are lacking from the LEADERSHIP of these depts. so trust is lowered in the community... that's a natural human reaction.

A non LE citizen would NOT get that kind of benefit of the doubt if the audio or video showed the citizen in a bad light, the leadership in the depts would "leak" or just give evidence that showed the citizen in negative light as soon as possible to the media

 

jtunes

(74 posts)
45. advice I got from a cop friend
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 05:04 PM
Jul 2016

1) when lighted up, put turn signal on, and pull over at first safe place to do so (the cop probably waited to light you up until there was one)

2) turn on dome light if at night, take off sun glasses if during day

3) turn off engine, pull keys out of ignition

4) driver window down, have hands on wheel - ask permission before reaching for anything

5) whatever you do, don't make eye contact while reaching for anything

you're helping the officer determine

1) that you're not going to run

2) that you're not going to attack

which allows him to back off the adrenaline he/she needs to deal with either of the two issues above - your judgment in helping in the safety of the stop doesn't guarantee you a warning instead of a ticket, but it helps make you a candidate for a warning

(he didn't say this, it's my own observation, but a dome light can be seen for about a block at night (by witnesses) - harder to justify force on a subject that turns on the dome light, it's a highly visible sign of cooperation - both my cop friend and I are white, and he thought a white friend should know this)




Curtis

(348 posts)
54. I was a cop too
Wed Jul 13, 2016, 02:42 AM
Jul 2016

I'm a white guy, but I have no idea what advice to give either. Since leaving the force, I did work as an EMT and firefighter, but some of the most rewarding was to help some groups like Cop Block. I wanted to shine a light on the bad cops cause there are a lot of good cops out there. I ended up losing a lot of friends and family in that process because they didn't agree, but too bad. Kinda goes with a lot of other work I've done in my life.

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