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Trying to make a playlist of great songs for a memorial (Original Post) Laura PourMeADrink Aug 2016 OP
Try this Lochloosa Aug 2016 #1
Sad but nice Croney Aug 2016 #2
Sand by Heart tanyev Aug 2016 #3
This... tosh Aug 2016 #4
Thanks T !! Laura PourMeADrink Aug 2016 #15
The Beatles' In My Life snacker Aug 2016 #5
Great Beatles addition - perfect - thanks ! Laura PourMeADrink Aug 2016 #14
Well, there are many... hlthe2b Aug 2016 #6
thank you so much !! I may have given the wrong impression - it's kind of a Laura PourMeADrink Aug 2016 #8
That's a great choice. 2theleft Aug 2016 #7
Hawaiian man? otr...will have to look because this is my favorite rendition Laura PourMeADrink Aug 2016 #9
Holy cow! Her voice... 2theleft Aug 2016 #18
... Lochloosa Aug 2016 #11
Yes!!! I love his version! Thanks for posting it n/t 2theleft Aug 2016 #17
I think you mean Israel Kamakaiwo'ole, Its a Wonderful World/Somewhere Over the Rainbow hlthe2b Aug 2016 #12
I love that version! Vattel Aug 2016 #24
Every Time We Say Goodbye frazzled Aug 2016 #10
Absolutely love Skylark - added. thank you so much ! Laura PourMeADrink Aug 2016 #13
More Upbeat BlueInPhilly Aug 2016 #16
Thanks ! I actually have Lay Me Down - but it's the old country Laura PourMeADrink Aug 2016 #25
If I were ever to have a memorial I'd want this one. librarylu Aug 2016 #19
Very few have as heavenly a voice. do you mean Alice Doesn't Laura PourMeADrink Aug 2016 #27
If you want something that celebrates the life of the deceased (i.e., not sad), try this: Vattel Aug 2016 #20
Great ! Thanks V Laura PourMeADrink Aug 2016 #35
"Wings for Marie Part 2" opiate69 Aug 2016 #21
wow ! thanks for those lyrics too !! Laura PourMeADrink Aug 2016 #37
My pleasure.. opiate69 Aug 2016 #39
wow, just listened to the KD Lang you posted. What a fucking amazing voice! Vattel Aug 2016 #22
KD is the shit. You should see her live. Lochloosa Aug 2016 #26
I like the version of Hallelujah TuxedoKat Aug 2016 #31
It was magnificent! Here you go csziggy Aug 2016 #38
Circle Game-Joni Mitchell Mendocino Aug 2016 #23
Nature Boy Zorro Aug 2016 #28
Satisfied Mind - Jeff Buckley Moostache Aug 2016 #29
Went to one that played both radical noodle Aug 2016 #30
Drift Away csziggy Aug 2016 #32
Kitaro - "The Light Of The Spirit" FuzzyRabbit Aug 2016 #33
"Ghosts That We Knew" Mumford and Sons- was very meaningful cry baby Aug 2016 #34
Beautiful randr Aug 2016 #36
Flaming Lips...Do You Realize?... GReedDiamond Aug 2016 #40
I wrote an article about this once. Here's part of my list: nolabear Aug 2016 #41
This message was self-deleted by its author struggle4progress Aug 2016 #52
Prince - Comeback greyl Aug 2016 #42
Forever Young struggle4progress Aug 2016 #43
Slip Slidin Away struggle4progress Aug 2016 #44
Pack Up Your Sorrows struggle4progress Aug 2016 #45
Be Not Too Hard struggle4progress Aug 2016 #46
Fire and Rain struggle4progress Aug 2016 #47
So Far Away struggle4progress Aug 2016 #48
Circle Game struggle4progress Aug 2016 #49
Can the circle be unbroken struggle4progress Aug 2016 #50
You Got To Walk That Lonesome Valley struggle4progress Aug 2016 #51
Wayfaring Stranger struggle4progress Aug 2016 #53
Come Go with Me struggle4progress Aug 2016 #54
Good Riddance by Green Day JoeOtterbein Aug 2016 #55
God Is Alive -- Magic Is Afoot struggle4progress Aug 2016 #56
Music for the Funeral of Queen Mary struggle4progress Aug 2016 #60
it's a sad one, but DonCoquixote Aug 2016 #57
Jud Strunk - Daisy A Day greyl Aug 2016 #58
Send me on my way lapfog_1 Aug 2016 #59
Ubi caritas struggle4progress Aug 2016 #61
Down By The Riverside struggle4progress Aug 2016 #62
Going Home struggle4progress Aug 2016 #63
That was played at my father's burial malaise Aug 2016 #78
A song by Sweet Honey in The Rock: Ken Burch Aug 2016 #64
Wiz Khalifa and Charlie Puth trixie Aug 2016 #65
Did this a while ago myself. yewberry Aug 2016 #66
I have two for you Tom Kitten Aug 2016 #67
I was just at a memorial where we sang a shortened version of Cohen's Hallelujah Hekate Aug 2016 #68
Gotta suggest some Martin Sexton Egnever Aug 2016 #69
Ode to Joy. The Parting Glass sung by Liam Clancy and Tommy Makem. Hekate Aug 2016 #70
I'm sorry for your loss, and offer this as a possibility. cali Aug 2016 #71
I've spent way too many hours listening to her stuff on youtube....great choice Gabi Hayes Aug 2016 #77
I love her early stuff like this: cali Aug 2016 #79
those are wonderful...have you seen the documentary; the one where she's losing Gabi Hayes Aug 2016 #83
I have seen that- it's actually my favorite version cali Aug 2016 #84
100% perfect !! thanks so much C Laura PourMeADrink Aug 2016 #80
I'm glad, Laura. Here's a version with the full band cali Aug 2016 #81
I'll Fly Away Tanuki Aug 2016 #72
Brokedown Palace by the Grateful Dead Warren DeMontague Aug 2016 #73
Very nice suggestions Soxfan58 Aug 2016 #74
goodbye pork pie hat/icarus.....ralph towner/gary burton Gabi Hayes Aug 2016 #75
mordant 'humor'.....wc fields via donald fagen Gabi Hayes Aug 2016 #76
This is one that Mr BlueMTexpat has BlueMTexpat Aug 2016 #82
I picked the songs for my Dad's service Budgies Revenge Aug 2016 #85
For a Dancer, Jackson Browne GeorgeGist Aug 2016 #86
Dream a little dream of me Loryn Aug 2016 #87

hlthe2b

(102,294 posts)
6. Well, there are many...
Fri Aug 5, 2016, 10:53 PM
Aug 2016

Sarah McLachlan's "Angel" comes to mind

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For sheer emotional release at a funeral memorial, I can not imagine any music better than Barber's Adagio for Strings

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I must have S. Mclachlan on the mind today...
consider also:
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Heavens, I know there are so many good choices... I'll be interested to see what others suggest.
 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
8. thank you so much !! I may have given the wrong impression - it's kind of a
Fri Aug 5, 2016, 11:07 PM
Aug 2016

joyful remembrance....But, think I can't go too somber or too upbeat. Like a mellow,happy?? Hard to describe.

2theleft

(1,136 posts)
7. That's a great choice.
Fri Aug 5, 2016, 11:07 PM
Aug 2016

I would add:

Norah Jones - Come Away with Me

James Taylor - You can close your eyes & Fire and Rain

And, that version by the Hawaiian man, can't remember his name at the moment...but his version of Somewhere over the rainbow.

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
9. Hawaiian man? otr...will have to look because this is my favorite rendition
Fri Aug 5, 2016, 11:09 PM
Aug 2016

Purest, most beautiful voice in my opinion. Eva Cassidy...lots out there - but sadly, she died of a brain tumor

?list=PLqqz-gM0ffg4UyQnYN3JBHKtodkWY8bsl

2theleft

(1,136 posts)
17. Yes!!! I love his version! Thanks for posting it n/t
Fri Aug 5, 2016, 11:22 PM
Aug 2016

Was on my phone and have a hard time posting links and such from that.

hlthe2b

(102,294 posts)
12. I think you mean Israel Kamakaiwo'ole, Its a Wonderful World/Somewhere Over the Rainbow
Fri Aug 5, 2016, 11:12 PM
Aug 2016

Yes... great song.

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frazzled

(18,402 posts)
10. Every Time We Say Goodbye
Fri Aug 5, 2016, 11:09 PM
Aug 2016

I wanted to post the Chet Baker vocal version of this touching song, but couldn't find it. It's the best. But also poignant is the Annie Lennox version. (The child in the home movies in this video was an acquaintance of ours who died of AIDS some years ago. But it's not a song about HIV: it's a standard that's been sung across the decades by Ella Fitzgerald, Tony Bennett, Natalie Cole and many others.)



And here's one I wouldn't mind being played at my own memorial. Don't know why. It is just very spiritual to me:

BlueInPhilly

(870 posts)
16. More Upbeat
Fri Aug 5, 2016, 11:22 PM
Aug 2016

1. TI'll Kingdom Come by Coldplay



2. As I Lay Me Down by Sophie B. Hawkins


3.Spirit in the Sky by Norman Greenback

librarylu

(503 posts)
19. If I were ever to have a memorial I'd want this one.
Fri Aug 5, 2016, 11:32 PM
Aug 2016

I first heard it in the movie Alice's Restaurant, of course, but I like this arrangement.

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
27. Very few have as heavenly a voice. do you mean Alice Doesn't
Fri Aug 5, 2016, 11:48 PM
Aug 2016

Live Here Anymore?" Ellen Burstyn? Loved that movie

 

Vattel

(9,289 posts)
20. If you want something that celebrates the life of the deceased (i.e., not sad), try this:
Fri Aug 5, 2016, 11:33 PM
Aug 2016


If you believe in an afterlife, there is none better than Spirit in the Sky:



 

opiate69

(10,129 posts)
21. "Wings for Marie Part 2"
Fri Aug 5, 2016, 11:36 PM
Aug 2016



We listen to the tales and romanticize,
how we follow the path of the hero.

Boast about the day when the rivers overrun,
How we'll rise to the height of our halo.

Listen to the tales as we all rationalize,
our way into the arms of the savior.
Feigning all the trials and the tribulations.

None of us have actually been there,
Not like you...

Ignorant siblings in the congregation.
Gather around spewing sympathy,
Spare me...

None of them can even hold a candle up to you.
Blinded by choice, these hypocrites won't see.

But enough about the collective Judas.
Who could deny you were the one who illuminated?
Your little piece of the divine.

And this little light of mine, a gift you passed on to me
I'm gonna let it shine
to guide you safely on your way.

Your way home...

Oh, what are they gonna do when the lights go down?
Without you to guide them all to Zion?
What are they gonna do when the rivers overrun?
Other than tremble incessantly.

High is the way,
but our eyes are upon the ground.
You are the light and the way.
They'll only read about.
I only pray heaven knows,
when to lift you out.

10,000 days in the fire is long enough.
You're going home...

You're the only one who can hold your head up high.
Shake your fist at the gates saying,
"I have come home now...!"
Fetch me the spirit, the son and the father.
Tell them their pillar of faith has ascended.

"It's time now!
My time now!
Give me my
Give me my wings...!"

Give me my [x5]

(Give me my wings)

You are the light, the way,
that they will only read about.

Set as I am in my ways and my arrogance.
Burden of proof tossed upon the believers.
You were my witness, my eyes, my evidence,
Judith Marie, unconditional one.

Daylight dims leaving cold fluorescence.
Difficult to see you in this light.
Please forgive this bold suggestion.
Should you see your maker's face tonight,
Look him in the eye.
Look him in the eye and tell him,
I never lived a lie, never took a life,
But surely saved one.

Hallelujah
It's time for you to bring me home.
 

opiate69

(10,129 posts)
39. My pleasure..
Sat Aug 6, 2016, 12:10 AM
Aug 2016

and, condolences, as well...

That song was written for his late, long-suffering but extremely devout mother. If there is a better lyricist in music these days then Maynard James Keenan, I've yet to hear of them.

Mendocino

(7,495 posts)
23. Circle Game-Joni Mitchell
Fri Aug 5, 2016, 11:37 PM
Aug 2016

Wild Mountain Thyme-Fotheringay

Ballad of the Easy Rider-Byrds

Genesis-Jorma Kaukonen



radical noodle

(8,003 posts)
30. Went to one that played both
Fri Aug 5, 2016, 11:55 PM
Aug 2016

What a Wonderful World by Louis Armstrong

and

I Found My Thrill on Blueberry Hill by Fats Domino

They seemed to fit somehow...

cry baby

(6,682 posts)
34. "Ghosts That We Knew" Mumford and Sons- was very meaningful
Sat Aug 6, 2016, 12:01 AM
Aug 2016

to me when a friend passed.

https://m.







[Verse 1]
You saw my pain, washed out in the rain
And broken glass saw the blood run from my veins
But you saw no fault, no cracks in my heart
And you knelt beside my hope torn apart
But the ghosts that we knew will flicker from view
And we'll live a long life
[Chorus]
So give me hope in the darkness that I will see the light
Cause oh they gave me such a fright
But I will hold as long as you like (with all of my might)
Just promise me we'll be all right

[Verse 2]
So lead me back
Turn south from that place
And close my eyes to my recent disgrace
Cause you know my call
And we'll share my all
And our children come and they will hear me roar

[Chorus]
So give me hope in the darkness that I will see the light
Cause oh they gave me such a fright
But I will hold as long as you like (with all of my might)
Just promise me we'll be all right

[Bridge]
But hold me still
Bury my heart on the coals (next to yours)
And hold me still
Bury my heart on the coals (next to yours)

[Chorus]
So give me hope in the darkness that I will see the light
Cause oh they gave me such a fright
But I will hold as long as you like (with all my might)
Just promise me we'll be all right

[Outro]
(Ghosts that we knew made us black and all blue
But we'll live a long life)
And the ghosts that we knew will flicker from view
And we'll live a long life





I'm sorry for your loss.

GReedDiamond

(5,313 posts)
40. Flaming Lips...Do You Realize?...
Sat Aug 6, 2016, 12:10 AM
Aug 2016


Neil Young's After the Goldrush performed by Patti Smith:



I've already selected this version by Patti as the closer for any future "memorial service" there may be for me.

Fortunately so far, that is not on the radar yet, but I guess you could say I'm workin on it.

Response to nolabear (Reply #41)

greyl

(22,990 posts)
42. Prince - Comeback
Sat Aug 6, 2016, 12:25 AM
Aug 2016


"Comeback" - Prince Rogers Nelson

Walking up the stairs
Just the afternoon
Sweet wind blew
Not a moment too soon
(Whooo) I cried when I realized

That sweet wind was you

Spirits come and spirits go
Some stick around for the aftershow
Don't have to say I miss you (don't have to say I miss you)
Cause I think you already know

If you ever lose someone
Dear to you
Never say the words "they're gone"

They'll come back.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.
They'll come back, yeah yeah
They'll come back
Tears go here
Tears go here
Tears go here
Tears go here

greyl

(22,990 posts)
58. Jud Strunk - Daisy A Day
Sat Aug 6, 2016, 01:26 AM
Aug 2016


"Daisy A Day" - Jud Strunk

He remembers the first time he met her
He remembers the first thing she said
He remembers the first time he held her
And the night that she came to his bed

He remembers her sweet way of singin'
Honey has somethin' gone wrong
He remembers the fun and the teasin'
And the reason he wrote her this song

I'll give you a daisy a day
I'll give you a daisy a day
I'll love you until the rivers run still
And the four winds we know blow away

They would walk down the street in the evenin'
And for years I would see them go by
And their love that was more than the clothes that they wore
Could be seen in the gleam of their eye

As a kid they would take me for candy
And I loved to go taggin' along
We'd hold hands while we walked to the corner
And the old man would sing her his song


I'll give you a daisy a day
I'll give you a daisy a day
I'll love you until the rivers run still
And the four winds we know blow away

Now he walks down the street in the evenin'
And he stops by the old candy store
And I somehow believe he's believin'
He's holdin' her hand like before

For he feels all her love walkin' with him
And he smiles at the things she might say
Then the old man walks up to the hilltop
And gives her a daisy a day

I'll give you a daisy a day
I'll give you a daisy a day
I'll love you until the rivers run still
And the four winds we know blow away

yewberry

(6,530 posts)
66. Did this a while ago myself.
Sat Aug 6, 2016, 02:41 AM
Aug 2016

My dad had a stroke a while back and I put together a playlist for him-- he'd lost the capacity to produce or understand speech but he'd always loved music so, so much. He died shortly thereafter and we ended up using the playlist at his memorial along with a slideshow of photos. I strongly recommend mixing in songs that will evoke or create happy memories.

Some of my dad's:

Canned Heat-- On the Road again



Sly and the Family Stone-- Everyday People


I think I might have included Dance to the Music too-- dad loved that one:


Stevie Wonder-- Superstition


Also You are the Sunshine of My Life


Robert Palmer Sailing Shoes trilogy


Little Feat-- Fat Man in the Bathtub

Pretty sure I put Dixie Chicken in there, too.

Allmans-- Blue Sky
'

Grateful Dead-- Ripple


Marvin Gaye-- What's Going On


BB King-- The Thrill is Gone


Also Lucille--


Tom Kitten

(7,347 posts)
67. I have two for you
Sat Aug 6, 2016, 03:40 AM
Aug 2016

"Swimming To The Other Side" by Pat Humphries. I don't know if this is the definitive version (there are several on youtube) but this one includes the lyrics




Another song I've always loved is "Genesis" by Jorma Kaukonen...



"Time has come for us to pause
And think of living as it was
Into the future we must cross, must cross
I'd like to go with you
And I'd like to go with you
You say I'm harder than a wall
A marble shaft about to fall
I love you dearer than them all, them all
So let me stay with you
So let me stay with you
And as we walked into the day
Skies of blue had turned to grey
I might have not been clear to say, to say
I never looked away
I never looked away
And though I'm feeling you inside
My life is rolling with the tide
I'd like to see it be an open ride
Along with you
Going along with you
The time we borrowed from ourselves
Can't stay within a vaulted well
And living turns into a lender's will
So let me come with you
And let me come with you
And when we came out into view
And there I found myself with you
When breathing felt like something new, new
Along with you
Going along with you"

Hekate

(90,714 posts)
68. I was just at a memorial where we sang a shortened version of Cohen's Hallelujah
Sat Aug 6, 2016, 04:08 AM
Aug 2016

It was beautiful. The readings were all from the deceased's personal translations of the Psalms. The Cantor sang .... but we were all invited to sing Hallelujah, and that's when I cried.

Aside from that, I would recommend playing the Ode to Joy....

 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
69. Gotta suggest some Martin Sexton
Sat Aug 6, 2016, 04:22 AM
Aug 2016

Cant stop thinking bout you



Halleluja


or maybe a little Purple Rain



Or maybe some Aurora



Best of luck with your list there are some great suggestions above.

Hekate

(90,714 posts)
70. Ode to Joy. The Parting Glass sung by Liam Clancy and Tommy Makem.
Sat Aug 6, 2016, 04:32 AM
Aug 2016

The older Liam got, the more poignant his rendition became.



Ode to Joy -- Beethoven

Yesterday we were at a memorial service and an abbreviated version of Cohen's Hallelujah was in the order of service for us to sing. That's when I cried.

I don't know if my previous comment ever made it through. I had to switch computers because mine kept crashing this thread.

Condolences and all the best with your playlist.




 

Gabi Hayes

(28,795 posts)
77. I've spent way too many hours listening to her stuff on youtube....great choice
Sat Aug 6, 2016, 07:15 AM
Aug 2016

she loves me, too!

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
79. I love her early stuff like this:
Sat Aug 6, 2016, 07:46 AM
Aug 2016


And I still listen and watch this one on youtube. Starting at 3:01 it just slays me- and so does Benny's guitar.

 

Gabi Hayes

(28,795 posts)
83. those are wonderful...have you seen the documentary; the one where she's losing
Sat Aug 6, 2016, 08:27 AM
Aug 2016

her voice?

found a newer one that I haven't seen; can't find the older one

seen this:



I know this song is kind of, well, familiar, but I like the bedside version
 

cali

(114,904 posts)
84. I have seen that- it's actually my favorite version
Sat Aug 6, 2016, 08:37 AM
Aug 2016

Grace is a Vermonter so I've been listening to her for years.

I think this cover of 'Cortez the killer' with Joe Satriani is amazing. I imagine you've heard it, but if not...



Tanuki

(14,919 posts)
72. I'll Fly Away
Sat Aug 6, 2016, 05:08 AM
Aug 2016

So many versions to choose from...this one features Loretta Lynn with the Willburn Brothers...

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
73. Brokedown Palace by the Grateful Dead
Sat Aug 6, 2016, 06:38 AM
Aug 2016

Probably one of the best eulogy songs there is, to my mind. I'd have it played at mine.

 

Gabi Hayes

(28,795 posts)
75. goodbye pork pie hat/icarus.....ralph towner/gary burton
Sat Aug 6, 2016, 07:08 AM
Aug 2016
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Gabi Hayes

(28,795 posts)
76. mordant 'humor'.....wc fields via donald fagen
Sat Aug 6, 2016, 07:13 AM
Aug 2016


''you can't fight with the fellow in the bright nightgown''

BlueMTexpat

(15,369 posts)
82. This is one that Mr BlueMTexpat has
Sat Aug 6, 2016, 08:23 AM
Aug 2016

Last edited Sat Aug 6, 2016, 08:59 AM - Edit history (1)

specifically requested and in this version. He was born in WV and wants his ashes to be scattered there. Hopefully, this will not happen soon!



Budgies Revenge

(216 posts)
85. I picked the songs for my Dad's service
Sat Aug 6, 2016, 09:39 AM
Aug 2016

I also did a mix tape to play in the waiting parlor with a slide show of pictures from his life. Here's a few from his service:







I've often thought that I would like to have these songs at my funeral, but I might have strange taste:










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