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edhopper

(33,635 posts)
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 09:18 AM Aug 2016

Enough of the Gene is with Gilda

He was an atheist and did not think he was "going to be with Gilda". He was also remarried for 25 years and she saw him through his illness. He was married to Gilda for 5. it is very disrespectful to his widow to say he is with Gilda now.
The illusion by the public that Star marriages are special and more important is inane. I am sure he had a loving marriage with Gilda, but also with Karen. Enough with the fantasies.

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Enough of the Gene is with Gilda (Original Post) edhopper Aug 2016 OP
Are you speaking for him? MadDAsHell Aug 2016 #1
... Major Nikon Aug 2016 #4
I am stealing that. nt awoke_in_2003 Aug 2016 #12
Not if I steal it first Bucky Aug 2016 #40
I think we should all steal that tymorial Aug 2016 #152
He was remarried. Please respect his widow Karen AllyCat Aug 2016 #28
No need to awoke_in_2003 Aug 2016 #88
I think he's asking US to stop speaking for him (??) nt King_Klonopin Aug 2016 #135
Exactly. If he's dead and not in the afterlife, why are we worried about protecting his feelings? MadDAsHell Aug 2016 #139
Those posters are actually worried about THEIR feelings whathehell Aug 2016 #149
Yeah, that makes sense... Act_of_Reparation Sep 2016 #184
"Iilliterate"? Lol..Try some remedial reading, bro whathehell Sep 2016 #187
OH SNAP. Act_of_Reparation Sep 2016 #196
Lol..How old are you, ten? whathehell Sep 2016 #199
Yes, I am ten. Act_of_Reparation Sep 2016 #202
Thanks for the confirmation.. whathehell Sep 2016 #208
Yeah I have been thinking that every time I read-Now he is with Gilda. He has been married Person 2713 Aug 2016 #2
he is not with anyone Skittles Aug 2016 #49
yup blm Aug 2016 #52
My guess is that he wouldn't have minded the sentiment ("Gene is with Gilda"): jonno99 Aug 2016 #3
There is no afterlife madokie Aug 2016 #5
How can you believe in reincarnation and be an Atheist? B2G Aug 2016 #8
Why doesn't it? madokie Aug 2016 #13
Lol pipoman Aug 2016 #14
You state there is no afterlife B2G Aug 2016 #16
Assuming both an afterlife and reincarnation exist ToxMarz Aug 2016 #19
Logic will only spoil their fun madokie Aug 2016 #65
In other words: Act_of_Reparation Sep 2016 #186
Atheism is the lack of belief in gods. That's it, nothing more. cleanhippie Aug 2016 #32
Reincarnation IS a belief, however.. whathehell Aug 2016 #131
True, but I fail to see your point. cleanhippie Aug 2016 #134
Seems simple to me.. whathehell Aug 2016 #141
Not believing in supreme being is not incompatible with belief in an existence beyond death.... Spitfire of ATJ Aug 2016 #18
The poster flat out stated there is no afterlife B2G Aug 2016 #21
Depends upon the definition of "afterlife".... Spitfire of ATJ Aug 2016 #23
Says who? Why need there be an afterlife to have reincarnation? cleanhippie Aug 2016 #33
Afterlife is existence after death B2G Aug 2016 #43
Not required at all... N_E_1 for Tennis Aug 2016 #48
Insect!? lordsummerisle Aug 2016 #136
No. It's not. cleanhippie Aug 2016 #69
Really? You get to decide how the universe works? Cool. Thor_MN Aug 2016 #125
Why not? Atheists do it here all the time. nt B2G Aug 2016 #159
Sorry, I forgot to use the right language... Thor_MN Aug 2016 #160
GEEZ! AlbertCat Aug 2016 #162
re: "With no afterlife, there can be no reincarnation. " thesquanderer Sep 2016 #266
I can answer this. it's how I came to Buddhism. Exilednight Aug 2016 #57
Excellent response. TY. dgibby Aug 2016 #100
I have a similarly interesting story Orrex Sep 2016 #206
Wondering about and believing in are two different things GreenEyedLefty Aug 2016 #99
Wow a lot of questions about your statement LakeArenal Aug 2016 #44
Will do madokie Aug 2016 #76
See what you've done? Gone and started an atheist food fight! Maru Kitteh Aug 2016 #58
This. nt B2G Aug 2016 #62
Nice straw man you've got there. Need any help attacking it? cleanhippie Aug 2016 #70
It's all much too amusing to interfere with. Do carry on. Maru Kitteh Aug 2016 #84
Evangelical atheist? Lol. You do love a good straw man, don't you! cleanhippie Aug 2016 #85
+1000000! SammyWinstonJack Aug 2016 #118
not as much fun as theists defending a concept they can't even be bothered to define Warren DeMontague Aug 2016 #113
Agreed! Equally fun! Hence the (n). Maru Kitteh Aug 2016 #115
So true.. whathehell Aug 2016 #142
It always cracks me up.... AlbertCat Aug 2016 #163
Good thing there are no actual armaments on DU! Maru Kitteh Aug 2016 #169
I remember back before my eyes could focus so what is that, within days of birth. AlbertCat Aug 2016 #87
Hey Albert madokie Aug 2016 #112
I could care less what you believe or think. AlbertCat Aug 2016 #161
You don't have a clue Albert madokie Aug 2016 #164
do a little research AlbertCat Aug 2016 #167
I'm done with you madokie Aug 2016 #168
I'm done with you AlbertCat Aug 2016 #170
I know you think you know. Act_of_Reparation Aug 2016 #174
Yeah, and I have a friend who swears she can feel the Earth's rotation Orrex Sep 2016 #203
Sorry Orrex madokie Sep 2016 #205
Well, I won't call you a liar, but I will tell you that you're wrong Orrex Sep 2016 #207
If you'll do some research madokie Sep 2016 #228
I don't believe you, and it's no pox on me. Orrex Sep 2016 #233
Why is this such a big thing to you madokie Sep 2016 #234
Wait, let me guess: Orrex Sep 2016 #241
I never said I remembered the date of my birth madokie Sep 2016 #242
No, you don't Orrex Sep 2016 #243
You're not being fair to madokie. You are asking him to prove a subjective experience. AgadorSparticus Sep 2016 #261
He is making an extraordinary claim with no supporting evidence Orrex Sep 2016 #264
Says you. whathehell Aug 2016 #127
Prove me wrong madokie Aug 2016 #128
I don't have to.. whathehell Aug 2016 #132
Okay, since you have died you must know! whistler162 Aug 2016 #129
I think I just smell that way madokie Aug 2016 #130
This is Democratic Underground....Gene's wife isn't here... pipoman Aug 2016 #6
It is an interesting double standard. trotsky Aug 2016 #7
Nah, people like to think what they say matters and is important.... pipoman Aug 2016 #9
Thank you. whathehell Aug 2016 #143
Yes. nt jonno99 Aug 2016 #10
I saw those memes on FB Dorian Gray Aug 2016 #150
Dave's not, either. nt awoke_in_2003 Aug 2016 #17
No man, I'm Dave...man. SammyWinstonJack Aug 2016 #120
Glad someone got it. nt awoke_in_2003 Aug 2016 #121
You got the stuff? Maynar Aug 2016 #140
I don't feel like you earned that "Lighten up, Francis" Bucky Aug 2016 #42
LOL.... pipoman Aug 2016 #109
Exactly... nt Raine Aug 2016 #137
Someone appointed you the boss of DU? cwydro Aug 2016 #11
I don't feel like you earned that rofl icon Bucky Aug 2016 #39
Please, y'all, take this nonsense off to the Religion forum. n/t Stonepounder Aug 2016 #15
Please, y'all, take this nonsense off to the Religion forum. AlbertCat Aug 2016 #165
Only if the edhopper Aug 2016 #172
It can be frustrating when an individual applies a gracious sentiment LanternWaste Aug 2016 #20
May I suggest they didn't know Gene had remarried TexasBushwhacker Aug 2016 #22
^^This^^ Amaril Aug 2016 #64
Romanticizing their relationship TexasBushwhacker Aug 2016 #66
Nothing wrong with that.. whathehell Aug 2016 #155
He also is with George Washington, Napoleon, and billions of others who have come and gone still_one Aug 2016 #24
Oh my god... Gene Wilder is with HITLER now!!! Bucky Aug 2016 #38
LOL still_one Aug 2016 #97
heh Dorian Gray Aug 2016 #151
Yes, and Jefferson Davis too True Dough Aug 2016 #80
and don't forget Marty Feldman, Madeline Kahn and Harvey Kormen. They made a still_one Aug 2016 #98
"Gene is with Gilda" meme notKeith Aug 2016 #25
Wow. You're fun. nt Tommy_Carcetti Aug 2016 #26
+1 narnian60 Aug 2016 #29
Since when is talking about a person's death fun? amuse bouche Aug 2016 #75
You are arguing that he isn't with her in memory, in history, in romance, in pop culture? cbdo2007 Aug 2016 #27
I don't think you know what "star crossed romance" means. Bucky Aug 2016 #36
Enough of your Enough! WillowTree Aug 2016 #30
Yes, they are not more important, BUT, they are more public. As such, people share in their grief FighttheFuture Aug 2016 #31
YES PLEASE STOP! usaf-vet Aug 2016 #34
Um, if you don't like it, you can always just ignore it.. whathehell Aug 2016 #146
Right. He's with Madeline Kahn now. Bucky Aug 2016 #35
He's also with Peter Boyle. geardaddy Aug 2016 #37
So many Seers,,,,,,,,, Cryptoad Aug 2016 #41
So many commas. . . nt Codeine Aug 2016 #126
This is being said all over the media and social media yeoman6987 Aug 2016 #45
I don't think anyone had ill intentions by saying it. hamsterjill Aug 2016 #46
I agree. Third Doctor Aug 2016 #51
Even more zipplewrath Aug 2016 #55
But Then He Still Wouldn't Be with Gilda chrisau214 Aug 2016 #56
My mother buried my father next to his first wife, dgibby Aug 2016 #106
It's entirely appropriate to condemn the sentiment Orrex Aug 2016 #59
I don't find it disrespectful. hamsterjill Aug 2016 #60
Are you a religious or spiritual person? Orrex Aug 2016 #61
Yes. hamsterjill Aug 2016 #79
Then I don't think you understand why it's disrespectful Orrex Aug 2016 #86
You don't know what I understand and what I do not understand. hamsterjill Aug 2016 #91
You have shown clearly that you don't understand Orrex Aug 2016 #93
I understand just fine, thank you very much. hamsterjill Aug 2016 #103
The exchange so far has been a waste of time, but I'm very patient Orrex Aug 2016 #108
Yes, you responding with the same nonsense would be a waste of time. cleanhippie Aug 2016 #110
If you are a religious believer, I can understand why you think that. cleanhippie Aug 2016 #73
^^THIS^^ stopbush Aug 2016 #92
It's insensitive and inappropriate. cleanhippie Aug 2016 #72
"Gene Wilder don't believe in a god or heaven" whathehell Aug 2016 #148
+1 nt steve2470 Aug 2016 #101
They were married only 5 years because she DIED. nt B2G Aug 2016 #47
Someone tell me how to rec this post 500 times. Orrex Aug 2016 #50
Why would you care? MFM008 Aug 2016 #53
No one knows Orrex Aug 2016 #63
My point is MFM008 Aug 2016 #133
The annoyance is at those who, as always, use these occasions to proselytize Orrex Aug 2016 #138
Actually, he's probably nailing my grandma by now. nt Dreamer Tatum Aug 2016 #54
Thank you. DavidDvorkin Aug 2016 #67
lets say he is up there now with zero....so both sides can smile dembotoz Aug 2016 #68
Radner and Wilder were both Jews and Wilder was an atheist Jew REP Aug 2016 #71
Excuse me, but my experience with Judaism tells me you're whathehell Aug 2016 #145
I'll excuse your lack of knowledge REP Sep 2016 #177
Lol, don't bother, unless you can actually refute my claim, whathehell Sep 2016 #180
Turns out "knowledge" is only a Google search away.. whathehell Sep 2016 #260
Thank You. Great point amuse bouche Aug 2016 #74
holy mackeral you guys do go on jodymarie aimee Aug 2016 #77
You do realize this is a response to religious believers proclaiming Wilder is in heaven, right? cleanhippie Aug 2016 #78
Get used to it. This is DU shrike Aug 2016 #94
and what does that have to do with democratic underground politics jodymarie aimee Aug 2016 #81
Welcome to DU Orrex Aug 2016 #96
Not a thing... whathehell Sep 2016 #195
I know, right? Act_of_Reparation Sep 2016 #226
Yep. I doubt he was perfect so he will probably serve a few years in Purgatory, Nye Bevan Aug 2016 #82
I am enjoying this debate True Dough Aug 2016 #83
I think he loved both women..... Adrahil Aug 2016 #89
I would bet that even his widow understands why an adoring public might say that... 63splitwindow Aug 2016 #90
The news of his passing reminded many of us KMOD Aug 2016 #95
Let the mystery be. redwitch Aug 2016 #102
Love it! Thanks for posting!! LongTomH Sep 2016 #262
He said in his autobiography that his marriage to her would have ended if she had not died. CBGLuthier Aug 2016 #104
Gilda's autobiography Kansaskid Aug 2016 #124
Nice of him to say.. whathehell Aug 2016 #144
LOL. Yeah that always works out when you tell people what to do. Rex Aug 2016 #105
I love when people think they speak for the dead. JonathanRackham Aug 2016 #107
He was also, by his statements, a Buddhist, which is not incompatible with Atheism. And everything Warren DeMontague Aug 2016 #111
Gene also had an affair with a sheep Blue_Tires Aug 2016 #114
!!! progressoid Sep 2016 #178
Atheism aside wysi Aug 2016 #116
As a widower, as well as an atheist, I agree (nt) LongtimeAZDem Aug 2016 #176
Mom said recentevents Aug 2016 #117
I had not known he was an out atheist. SusanCalvin Aug 2016 #119
But..but.. whathehell Aug 2016 #147
Because he did things for which I am grateful. SusanCalvin Aug 2016 #175
Lol..Yes, I do have "another question", if you want to call it that, although whathehell Sep 2016 #179
Good grief. SusanCalvin Sep 2016 #181
Lol..Is that you're standard response to losing an argument? whathehell Sep 2016 #182
Didn't lose. Not interested. SusanCalvin Sep 2016 #255
Of course.. whathehell Sep 2016 #258
And it's "your." SusanCalvin Sep 2016 #257
Oh gee.. whathehell Sep 2016 #259
I looked at your (correct usage) journal, SusanCalvin Sep 2016 #265
Apostrophe, obviously. Orrex Sep 2016 #190
Oh my! SusanCalvin Sep 2016 #256
Besides, everyone knows he's with Inga DFW Aug 2016 #122
If heaven exists, he will be with Richard Pryor. IrishEyes Aug 2016 #123
Maybe we should do some introspection get the red out Aug 2016 #153
Gene is with Gilda now Loki Liesmith Aug 2016 #154
-1 Buzz Clik Aug 2016 #156
Thanks for reminding me why I hate Militant Atheists. Odin2005 Aug 2016 #157
Thanks for reminding me there's more than one of us on this board.. whathehell Aug 2016 #158
Thanks for reminding me why I hate Militant Atheists. AlbertCat Aug 2016 #166
I used to BE one, are you saying I don't exist? Odin2005 Sep 2016 #188
Did you preach your militant atheism in real life? Orrex Sep 2016 #193
I was an edgy Atheist college student. AlbertCat Sep 2016 #194
I guess that would include edhopper Aug 2016 #171
Um, nah.. whathehell Sep 2016 #183
But pointing out that edhopper Sep 2016 #197
So now it's about Gilda and not militant atheism, lol? whathehell Sep 2016 #200
What in my OP edhopper Sep 2016 #201
Probably the part where you call people on their religious privilege. Act_of_Reparation Sep 2016 #210
Yeah edhopper Sep 2016 #212
Nah... you're a militant because you talk. Act_of_Reparation Sep 2016 #218
yep edhopper Sep 2016 #220
My favorite... NeoGreen Sep 2016 #229
Lol..Really lame whathehell Sep 2016 #246
Nah..He's a militant because he proselytizes whathehell Sep 2016 #244
Even if that were remotely true... Act_of_Reparation Sep 2016 #245
No, dear, "militant" doesn't necessarily equate to violence, or even "extremist" whathehell Sep 2016 #247
So you are equivocating then? Act_of_Reparation Sep 2016 #249
The fact that you're calling the beliefs of others "garbage" for one thing,.. whathehell Sep 2016 #215
So you disagree with how I call out these people with their fantasies edhopper Sep 2016 #216
Is not being a jerk too much to ask? Odin2005 Sep 2016 #230
Where am I whinning edhopper Sep 2016 #236
Thank you whathehell Sep 2016 #248
I disagree with your attempt to equate your opinion with Reality.. whathehell Sep 2016 #239
Uh, no..again whathehell Sep 2016 #211
And why does my OP edhopper Sep 2016 #214
No I don't. Odin2005 Sep 2016 #189
Please explain how my post is Militant edhopper Sep 2016 #198
Telling religious people when they are grieving that there is no afterlife is a massive dick move. Odin2005 Sep 2016 #225
What in the actual fuck are you blathering about? Act_of_Reparation Sep 2016 #231
No edhopper Sep 2016 #237
Yes whathehell Sep 2016 #251
I Said Good Day! edhopper Sep 2016 #252
Well, that will show 'em, won't it? whathehell Sep 2016 #253
Its' not a 'persecution complex' when you have just told them you hate them muriel_volestrangler Sep 2016 #204
Going off on grieving religious people for believing in an afterlife is disgusting. Odin2005 Sep 2016 #227
No one was "going off on grieving religious people" muriel_volestrangler Sep 2016 #232
I find it interesting that asking for a modicum of respect for the dead or survivors... Humanist_Activist Aug 2016 #173
Awww.. whathehell Sep 2016 #185
You must not know many atheists in real life Orrex Sep 2016 #192
You truly are a piece of work... Humanist_Activist Sep 2016 #209
I know... whathehell Sep 2016 #213
WTF? That's your response? You truly are a heartless person, aren't you? Humanist_Activist Sep 2016 #217
appears edhopper Sep 2016 #219
I've been meaning to watch it, but haven't had an opportunity yet... Humanist_Activist Sep 2016 #221
Do see the movie edhopper Sep 2016 #222
I have NO idea what you're talking about..Why the fuck would you call me "heartless"? whathehell Sep 2016 #238
It wasn't an article, it was a personal testimonial, but really, don't bother responding... Humanist_Activist Sep 2016 #240
Message auto-removed Name removed Sep 2016 #191
Gene is with Cleavon Little now. Kaleva Sep 2016 #223
What about Richard Prior? edhopper Sep 2016 #224
that was before... OriginalGeek Sep 2016 #235
I just heard an interview with him on NPR from some time past. gvstn Sep 2016 #250
Believers gotta Believe astral Sep 2016 #254
You didn't offend me shrike Sep 2016 #263
 

MadDAsHell

(2,067 posts)
139. Exactly. If he's dead and not in the afterlife, why are we worried about protecting his feelings?
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 11:31 PM
Aug 2016

The dead don't need defenders.

RIP Gene.

whathehell

(29,096 posts)
149. Those posters are actually worried about THEIR feelings
Wed Aug 31, 2016, 07:24 AM
Aug 2016

as atheists, not those of the dead.... They just try to disguise it as the other.

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
184. Yeah, that makes sense...
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 07:30 AM
Sep 2016

... if you're illiterate.

No one is speaking about Gene's feelings. Gene's dead. They're talking about two things: 1) historical accuracy; and 2) the feelings of Gene's widow, which apparently don't matter because she didn't say funny shit on SNL.

whathehell

(29,096 posts)
187. "Iilliterate"? Lol..Try some remedial reading, bro
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 07:53 AM
Sep 2016

"Historical accuracy"? Wrong. Unless, of course, you can show us where anyone questioned the fact of Gene's atheism.

I doubt that Gene's widow is reading DU right now, but, as others have said, given the public nature of Gene's marriage to Gilda, I think.she'd understand.

I can see that DU's militant atheists aren't doing too well on this thread, but lame arguments and faux 'concern' won't help.

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
196. OH SNAP.
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 09:37 AM
Sep 2016

Witty rejoinder there. What, with the whole "go back to reading 101" schtick, I almost forgot I was on a web forum and not a schoolyard. Terrific banter. Very authentic.

"Historical accuracy"? Wrong. Unless, of course, you can show us where anyone questioned the fact of Gene's atheism.


Which might make sense if directly questioning Wilder's belief system was the only way to portray him inaccurately. I'd toss out a "remedial logic" quip, but seeing as that ground has already been covered...

I doubt that Gene's widow is reading DU right now, but, as others have said, given the public nature of Gene's marriage to Gilda, I think.she'd understand.


Well, you certainly have an opinion. And that's fascinating. But irrelevant.

You don't know Wilder's widow or what she reads, so I honestly couldn't give a flying fuck in a windstorm what you believe.

I can see that DU's militant atheists aren't doing too well on this thread, but lame arguments and faux 'concern' won't help.


It's always refreshing to see supposed liberals addressing atheists in much the same way conservatives do.

whathehell

(29,096 posts)
199. Lol..How old are you, ten?
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 10:31 AM
Sep 2016

"which made sense if that was the only way of portraying Gene inaccurately".

Say what? You're now telling us that this 'discusson is based on someone on the thread "portraying Gene inaccurately"?

Excuse me, but please tell us where Gene is being "portrayed inaccurately"? on this thread? Who is doing it, and how?

What, in fact, ARE you talking about?

I suggest you come back when you actually learn to construct an argument and articulate it.



Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
202. Yes, I am ten.
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 11:05 AM
Sep 2016

You nailed it.

You're now telling us that this 'discusson is based on someone on the thread "portraying Gene inaccurately"?


Not so much here, though.

on this thread?


Or there.

What, in fact, ARE you talking about?


Or there.

Excuse me, but please tell us where Gene is being "portrayed inaccurately"?


Or there (HINT: Read the op, *wink*).

I suggest you come back when you actually learn to construct an argument and articulate it.


And I shall promptly ignore your suggestion.

Person 2713

(3,263 posts)
2. Yeah I have been thinking that every time I read-Now he is with Gilda. He has been married
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 09:23 AM
Aug 2016

5 times as long to his current wife! I thank you for saying it here ... You just can't stop celebrity follower fantasy

madokie

(51,076 posts)
5. There is no afterlife
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 09:33 AM
Aug 2016

no guy in the sky in my world.

If there was/is gonna' be whatever, a heaven and hell and a bunch of the people I know will be going to heaven as they think they will I'd rather take the other road and go to hell rather than spend an eternity with them. sorry

Atheist from the heart.

I do wonder about reincarnation though as I remember my childhood well, I remember back before my eyes could focus so what is that, within days of birth. Anyways I've always felt that I've lived before and I'll live again. I never felt that I knew what or when I lived before just felt I hadLong before I was indoctrinated in the religious ways of which I ultimately was. That lasted until I was about 14 YO.
From then on I've not for a second thought there is anything to the bible or a heaven or a hell. I'm a free spirit and when I die I want my ashes put in a hole in the ground with a sycamore tree planted in the hole. Just in case my spirit may want or need a place to hang out and roost possibly rest, just in case mind you

madokie

(51,076 posts)
13. Why doesn't it?
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 09:57 AM
Aug 2016

I simply don't believe in a god, a supreme being. Has nothing to do with my questions concerning my possibly having lived before

 

B2G

(9,766 posts)
16. You state there is no afterlife
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 10:00 AM
Aug 2016

and then go on to talk about how you feel you've lived before and will live again.

You do the math.

ToxMarz

(2,169 posts)
19. Assuming both an afterlife and reincarnation exist
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 10:09 AM
Aug 2016

They would be kind of mutually exclusive states. You could only be in one or the other at any time. And the existence of one would not be predicted on the existence of the other.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
32. Atheism is the lack of belief in gods. That's it, nothing more.
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 11:05 AM
Aug 2016

Belief in reincarnation has nothing to do with gods, therefore nothing to do with not believing in gods, therefore nothing to do with atheism.

This isn't rocket science.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
134. True, but I fail to see your point.
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 08:56 PM
Aug 2016

Atheism isn't a lack of belief, it's the lack of belief in a god. Everyone believes many things, not everyone believes in a god.

whathehell

(29,096 posts)
141. Seems simple to me..
Wed Aug 31, 2016, 05:36 AM
Aug 2016

Last edited Wed Aug 31, 2016, 06:15 AM - Edit history (1)

Atheists generally defend their view by attacking all "belief" not backed by empirical evidence... Reincarnation is obviously in the same category.

 

Spitfire of ATJ

(32,723 posts)
18. Not believing in supreme being is not incompatible with belief in an existence beyond death....
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 10:07 AM
Aug 2016

The argument that the choice is either a pre-packaged sky spook or oblivion is a false choice put forward by people peddling their own belief.

There are other options besides having to stand before a father figure deity who is conducting the ultimate "People's Court".

 

B2G

(9,766 posts)
21. The poster flat out stated there is no afterlife
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 10:18 AM
Aug 2016

With no afterlife, there can be no reincarnation.

Maybe some atheists believe in an afterlife and souls, but Madokie evidently doesn't.

How can you possibly believe in reincarnation then?

 

Spitfire of ATJ

(32,723 posts)
23. Depends upon the definition of "afterlife"....
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 10:26 AM
Aug 2016

There are faiths where you hopscotch from life to life without the existence of a mystical realm.

 

B2G

(9,766 posts)
43. Afterlife is existence after death
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 11:29 AM
Aug 2016

Which is required for reincarnation.

You're right, it's not rocket science.

N_E_1 for Tennis

(9,786 posts)
48. Not required at all...
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 11:53 AM
Aug 2016

Energy cannot be destroyed, not rocket science.
Death=energy leaving the body.
Energy immediately is transferred to another being, whatever, insect, animal, person that is either going to be born or is being born. Reincarnation! No afterlife.

Remember everyone is almost an atheist. If you believe in only one god, you have already rejected all the other deities that some believe in.

We atheists just went to the final step. Rejecting all gods.

 

Thor_MN

(11,843 posts)
125. Really? You get to decide how the universe works? Cool.
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 07:44 PM
Aug 2016

Why are you wasting time on the internet when there is so much work for you do? I mean, the existence that gets to define how everything works must be busy. Get back to work and fix the messes the GOP has made.

 

Thor_MN

(11,843 posts)
160. Sorry, I forgot to use the right language...
Wed Aug 31, 2016, 09:53 AM
Aug 2016

We beseech thee to get off thine divine fundament and getest thine work done? That is, if thee is the decider of all things.

The concepts of an afterlife and reincarnation are more mutually exclusive than dependent on one another, IMO.

An afterlife in many religions are a heaven and hell thing, include puragtory if you are really anal about controlling the flocks.

Reincarnation is coming back as something else, which most of the aforementioned religions vigorously rule out.

Granted, there is some overlap in that some religions believe that you keep coming back until you get it right, and only then is there an afterlife.

But declaring that there can not be reincarnation without an afterlife is just silly.

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
162. GEEZ!
Wed Aug 31, 2016, 11:26 AM
Aug 2016

"We beseech thee to get off thine divine fundament and getest thine work done? That is, if thee is the decider of all things. "

"THY work done."

and "if thou art...."


"thine divine" is divine tho'.... (but should be "thy". "Thine" is used in front of words that begin with a vowel or "h".)



And I'm ribbing you y'know.....

thesquanderer

(11,995 posts)
266. re: "With no afterlife, there can be no reincarnation. "
Sun Sep 4, 2016, 02:09 PM
Sep 2016

"Afterlife" generally refers to some other non-earthly existence after we die (Heaven, for example). Reincarnation, in that respect, is not an afterlife. Yes, it is a return to life after death, but it is not another realm.

And both the belief in another realm of existence after death AND the belief in reincarnation are not things that, themselves necessarily require a belief in God (that is, a specific individual supreme intelligence responsible for creating these things). In theory, to the extent that these things could possibly exist at all, they could just as well exist without such a God.

Put differently, if someday we manage to prove that either an afterlife or reincarnation exists, that still wouldn't prove the existence of God. Different issues.

Exilednight

(9,359 posts)
57. I can answer this. it's how I came to Buddhism.
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 12:40 PM
Aug 2016

In most forms of Buddhism there is no supreme being, but we do believe in reincarnation.

I believe in it based on science. Matter and energy can neither be created or destroyed. The matter in my body will be redistributed along with my energy. In some sense, I've always been here and always will.

dgibby

(9,474 posts)
100. Excellent response. TY.
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 03:19 PM
Aug 2016

Interesting story: a friend of mine had an abortion, never told anyone about it. Several years later, she had a son. When he was about 5 years old, he told her that he had tried to come to her before, but that she was not ready for him, so he had to wait. He had not been told about the abortion, had absolutely no way of knowing it.

I have no explanation for this, except I think it is very much in line with what you are saying about matter and energy. As for me, I'm convinced I've been here before and will be here again.

I'm also interested in Buddhism. Do you have any books, etc, you could recommend?

Orrex

(63,226 posts)
206. I have a similarly interesting story
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 01:34 PM
Sep 2016

We moved into our current house when our younger son was 4.

A few months later he told us that the previous owners had a big dog. This baffled us, because he'd never met the previous owners, nor were there any dog-obvious signs in the house that he could identify. So my wife and I asked him how he knew:

"The lady told me on the stairs."

Spooky, right? Some sort of mysterious woman telling secrets to our toddler son in our very own home?

Nope. It was our realtor, who had bad knees and sat on the steps with him while we checked out the second floor of the house, and she told him about the dog.

The point is that parents--even very hands-on parents--don't control all of the information that flows into their kids' brains. Children are highly imaginative and are exceptionally good at retaining and regurgitating information in a way that makes it seem mysterious if you lack all of the details, much the way your friend lacked all of the details about her son's cryptic revelation.


In short, that anecdote--though admittedly charming--fails completely as evidence for reincarnation, and it certainly has nothing to do with the conservation of matter and energy.

Incidentally, that's a trendy ad hoc way of shoehorning a caricature of modern physics into a caricature of ancient wisdom. It's ultimately not very persuasive to anyone who doesn't already have faith in the underlying philosophy.


LakeArenal

(28,855 posts)
44. Wow a lot of questions about your statement
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 11:33 AM
Aug 2016

You can be an atheist and believe you've lived before. First off, people can think and believe anything they want.

Reincarnation may be part of physics rather than religion. Energy can't be created or destroyed, parallel universes, what's at the other end of a black whole. Who knows what happens after the physical body releases that energy. Where does it go?

Anyway madokie, save a branch on that sycamore tree for me.. Thanks.

Maru Kitteh

(28,343 posts)
58. See what you've done? Gone and started an atheist food fight!
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 12:45 PM
Aug 2016

Last edited Tue Aug 30, 2016, 05:21 PM - Edit history (1)



It always cracks me up, watching atheists argue about what constitutes "belief" while preaching earnestly from their soapboxes that if someone does not believe exactly as they believe they are not "real atheists."

Reminds me of . . . every zealot theist on the planet

I'll never understand the fervent and absolute insistence with which so many (n)theists claim the only true! right way!



cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
70. Nice straw man you've got there. Need any help attacking it?
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 01:42 PM
Aug 2016

But at least you've made yourself feel better than everyone else. Great job!

Maru Kitteh

(28,343 posts)
84. It's all much too amusing to interfere with. Do carry on.
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 02:25 PM
Aug 2016

The theist vs wishy-washy agnostic vs evangelical atheist is a source of great entertainment. Who would wish to stand in the way of that?



Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
113. not as much fun as theists defending a concept they can't even be bothered to define
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 05:04 PM
Aug 2016

much less come to anything like an agreement on.

Maru Kitteh

(28,343 posts)
115. Agreed! Equally fun! Hence the (n).
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 05:20 PM
Aug 2016

Insert your favorite (or least favorite) sample of highly vocal insisters, if you will.

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
163. It always cracks me up....
Wed Aug 31, 2016, 11:30 AM
Aug 2016

..... watching faiths kill each other if someone does not believe exactly as they believe ....




At least atheists just argue.

Maru Kitteh

(28,343 posts)
169. Good thing there are no actual armaments on DU!
Wed Aug 31, 2016, 11:47 AM
Aug 2016

Here, all of the (n)faith arguments about who is the real this and the real that are pretty fucking hilarious.

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
87. I remember back before my eyes could focus so what is that, within days of birth.
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 02:28 PM
Aug 2016

Salvador Dali said he could remember being in the womb.

But I don't believe him EITHER.


Remember..... every memory of any event or thing, but the 1st one, is remembering your last memory of it. One incorporates things that came after, and things that never played a part at the time, mis-remembered things....without realizing. Like a game of Chinese Phonebook (apologies to Chinese folks). Who knows what you are actually remembering.

And "feeling like I've lived before" means nothing.... like deja vu.

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
161. I could care less what you believe or think.
Wed Aug 31, 2016, 11:16 AM
Aug 2016

Oh good. that means you do care!

Unless you meant "I couldn't care less...."


And the science of memory is not "what I think".

madokie

(51,076 posts)
164. You don't have a clue Albert
Wed Aug 31, 2016, 11:34 AM
Aug 2016

do a little research
Some of us can remember to within days of being born. Thats fact, I am one of them so I know

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
167. do a little research
Wed Aug 31, 2016, 11:42 AM
Aug 2016
Some of us can remember to within days of being born.



Prove it. You made the claim.



As for research....1st google hit:

Despite some anecdotal claims to the contrary, research suggests that people aren't able to remember their births.

The inability to remember early childhood events before the age of 3 or 4, including birth, is called childhood or infantile amnesia.
http://www.livescience.com/45731-can-people-remember-birth.html
 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
170. I'm done with you
Wed Aug 31, 2016, 11:53 AM
Aug 2016

Well, you told me to do a little research!


Sorry you are wrong about your memories, dude.

Everybody creates false ones.

Orrex

(63,226 posts)
207. Well, I won't call you a liar, but I will tell you that you're wrong
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 01:36 PM
Sep 2016

I'm confident that you believe that you remember it, and (like my rotation-sensing friend) nothing will convince you to the contrary.

But you're still wrong, and you're certainly not in a position to tell anyone that they don't have a clue about it.

madokie

(51,076 posts)
228. If you'll do some research
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 03:59 PM
Sep 2016

there are those of us who can remember all the way to within days of our birth. I'm one of those persons. Some within hours. I'm not far from that myself.

I know exactly what I know and it matters not what you or anyone else thinks you know as obviously you don't know shit about this subject.

I'm not going to go looking for links for you either as I've better things to do with my time. The information is out there on this. Been too long since I read about the study in fact it was long before the internet and I believe it probably was Science or Discovery magazine as that was a couple of my fav's back then when I first read what confirmed what I already knew.

Call me a liar if you want but that is only a pox on you not on me.
Peace, now either educate yourself on this or shut up and in the mean time quit making excuses for your lack of knowledge here on this subject

Orrex

(63,226 posts)
233. I don't believe you, and it's no pox on me.
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 05:15 PM
Sep 2016

You're asking me to accept an extraordinary claim on faith with no evidence and no citations, simultaneously refusing to "go looking for links" for me.

So keep telling people about the day of your birth. I'm sure that you'll find more than a few credulous sorts who'll believe it without question.

madokie

(51,076 posts)
234. Why is this such a big thing to you
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 05:59 PM
Sep 2016

At any rate I could care less what you think, believe or don't believe. its your loss not mine

I will tell you, you have no idea what you're talking about but then again I could care less. So buzz off, ok

here's something else you might take issue with, My grand father fought as a union soldier in the Civil war. Last I read there was only 109 families in America with grandfathers that go back that far. That was 20 plus years ago so I'm sure that number has declined by now

Orrex

(63,226 posts)
241. Wait, let me guess:
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 10:22 PM
Sep 2016

You remember bright lights and lots of commotion and maybe a bunch of people fussing over you.

You don't actually remember the day of your birth. I believe that you think that you do, but you don't. You have constructed that memory from readily available stock images, and you've invested your self-image in the "reality" of that memory.

I don't care if you don't believe me. It's "such a big thing" to me because I have no respect for nonsense. Why is it "such a big thing" for you?


And why would I take issue with your grandfather? The last living child of a slave died just a few years ago, so I can readily believe that some families' generations span 150 years. It's well within mathematical possibility.

Unlike your claim that you remember the date of your birth.

madokie

(51,076 posts)
242. I never said I remembered the date of my birth
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 10:27 PM
Sep 2016

I said I remember before my eyes focused. What is that a week maybe ten days

Of which I do, even after all these years I still remember

Orrex

(63,226 posts)
243. No, you don't
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 10:42 PM
Sep 2016

You have constructed that memory.

And how could you possibly verify it, even to yourself?

AgadorSparticus

(7,963 posts)
261. You're not being fair to madokie. You are asking him to prove a subjective experience.
Sat Sep 3, 2016, 02:06 PM
Sep 2016

Just like we can't prove our dreams. Yes, we can have eeg's and prove when we go into the various states of rem and ram. But we can't PROVE our dreams. And there are times we don't even have dreams. All because we don't remember it? Maybe. And how to prove that I had this dream and not that dream? It is still a subjective experience.

How do you prove your feelings and emotions?

That is the thing with subjective phenomenons. You can't prove it. But just because we can't prove it doesn't mean it doesn't exist or that it didn't happen. There is much we do not know. There is much more to be discovered and learned in Science. And maybe one day, we will find a way to measure or prove the abstract concepts in our lives.

Orrex

(63,226 posts)
264. He is making an extraordinary claim with no supporting evidence
Sat Sep 3, 2016, 06:44 PM
Sep 2016

And he is making that claim in indirect support of claims of reincarnation or the afterlife. Since he is making those claims on an open forum, he is inviting refutation, even as he claims that he doesn't have to prove it to anyone. Maybe he doesn't "have to," but there is no way to believe his extraordinary claim except as an act of pure faith.

He also urged disbelievers to "do a little research" in order to help him support his extraordinary claim. It's flatly dishonest of him to make a claim and then require others to document it for him.

This is especially true because his claim directly contradicts established understanding of cognitive function in newborns.

Unfair? Not at all.

madokie

(51,076 posts)
130. I think I just smell that way
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 08:29 PM
Aug 2016

You believe what you want and I'll believe what I want, ok

No god for this old man.

 

pipoman

(16,038 posts)
6. This is Democratic Underground....Gene's wife isn't here...
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 09:40 AM
Aug 2016

Nobody who matters is here...lighten up Francis...

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
7. It is an interesting double standard.
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 09:47 AM
Aug 2016

If a believer dies, and an atheist says something about there not being an afterlife, etc., they are dismissed as rude and nasty.

If an atheist dies, and someone says something about there being an afterlife, etc., we are supposed to just let that slide. They 'meant well' or something.

 

pipoman

(16,038 posts)
9. Nah, people like to think what they say matters and is important....
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 09:53 AM
Aug 2016

Unless the dearly departed's loved ones are members here, nothing said really matters or is important.

Dorian Gray

(13,503 posts)
150. I saw those memes on FB
Wed Aug 31, 2016, 07:50 AM
Aug 2016

They're both stupid and insensitive. (Though I lean toward insensitive more because of his current wife than the afterlife aspect.)

Most memes are, though.

Bucky

(54,087 posts)
42. I don't feel like you earned that "Lighten up, Francis"
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 11:26 AM
Aug 2016

The desire to be the scornful critic in the room is perfectly natural. It probably feels like power to some personality types. But you really gotta wait until someone else freaks out over a nothing before playing that card.

 

pipoman

(16,038 posts)
109. LOL....
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 04:15 PM
Aug 2016

The desire to be the scornful critic in the room is perfectly natural. It probably feels like power to some personality types. But you really gotta wait until someone else freaks out over a nothing before playing that card.

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
165. Please, y'all, take this nonsense off to the Religion forum.
Wed Aug 31, 2016, 11:35 AM
Aug 2016

Only if you take the other nonsense off!

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
20. It can be frustrating when an individual applies a gracious sentiment
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 10:15 AM
Aug 2016

It can be frustrating when an individual applies a simple and gracious sentiment to someone we've never met.

However, as respect is merely an illusion itself and does not exist in any tangible way outside of our imaginations, it seems the very presence or absence of respect to someone who does not exist is far too inconsequential and immaterial to invest any concern into it.

Amaril

(1,267 posts)
64. ^^This^^
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 01:08 PM
Aug 2016

I almost made that comment (i.e., he's with Gilda now) yesterday in response to my daughter's post about his death on FB, but then thought........"You know, I wonder if he ever remarried after Gilda".......and did the Google. Having learned the answer, I didn't post it.

I'm guilty of romanticizing their relationship -- saw them as this tragic, perfect-for-each-other couple who were cheated of their happily ever after by cancer -- others probably are as well.

TexasBushwhacker

(20,220 posts)
66. Romanticizing their relationship
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 01:30 PM
Aug 2016

Absolutely. I think many people buy into the soulmate concept and that there can be only one, but that simply isn't the case. In Gene's case, his marriage with Gilda was his third, so one thing you can assume is that, while not always successful, Gene liked being married! I'm glad he found Karen. It seems that he was only duagnosed with Alzheimer's 3 years ago, so they had many good years together. Good for them.

whathehell

(29,096 posts)
155. Nothing wrong with that..
Wed Aug 31, 2016, 08:45 AM
Aug 2016

"There are all kinds of love in this world, but never the same love twice". F. Scott Fitzgerald.

notKeith

(141 posts)
25. "Gene is with Gilda" meme
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 10:37 AM
Aug 2016

This sort of drivel is useful for those who can't handle the idea that This. Is. It. Once we ..um.. pass thru the veil, if we simply cease to exist, that overwhelms some people. People who require something.. anything.. to give them solace. Whatever. Personally I can't get my head around (for example) the quasi-biblical requirement to do things so you get a heaven ticket. That's an external motive, i.e., apart from THIS construct, I'd act like an SOB. No, more interesting if someone behaves because it's simply right to do so, not so you get a reward.

cbdo2007

(9,213 posts)
27. You are arguing that he isn't with her in memory, in history, in romance, in pop culture?
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 10:48 AM
Aug 2016

That seems a little short sighted. Of course nobody is saying he is physically with her and they are playing ping pong together or something, but the final piece of a star crossed romance has now faded and the legend of "Gene and Gilda" will burn brighter than ever.

Bucky

(54,087 posts)
36. I don't think you know what "star crossed romance" means.
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 11:16 AM
Aug 2016

And Gene & Gilda aren't exactly a legend.

(if you're being sarcastic, sorry for taking you seriously)

 

FighttheFuture

(1,313 posts)
31. Yes, they are not more important, BUT, they are more public. As such, people share in their grief
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 11:02 AM
Aug 2016

and their happiness, both being such wonderful people in life. It's a form of collective good will and an acknowledgement of who they are and what they've done, which is in of itself, very important to a society. It is inspiring.

Why is that so hard for you to understand?

Regardless, my best wishes and prayers for Gene and Gilda, wherever they may be. Even if its only in our memories and the movies they made, bless you both. I think, though, that something more is going on!

whathehell

(29,096 posts)
146. Um, if you don't like it, you can always just ignore it..
Wed Aug 31, 2016, 06:53 AM
Aug 2016

Unless a rule violation is involved, I'm afraid DUers get to say what they want.

Bucky

(54,087 posts)
35. Right. He's with Madeline Kahn now.
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 11:14 AM
Aug 2016

Seriously, thank you for the perspective. I didn't know he'd remarried, but even then it seemed weird.

 

yeoman6987

(14,449 posts)
45. This is being said all over the media and social media
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 11:38 AM
Aug 2016

In death, the mourners say a lot of things to bring healing for themselves. I don't find it a big deal. Let people mourn in their own way.

hamsterjill

(15,224 posts)
46. I don't think anyone had ill intentions by saying it.
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 11:39 AM
Aug 2016

I've seen it here and other places, and I am fine with it.

There is no disputing the fact that Gene had a great love for Gilda, and that her death was a tragedy for him. What happened beyond that, well, only Gene really knows. The fact that he was married to someone else for 25 years may or may not mean that he loved that woman equally, less equally, or in a different kind of capacity.

Most spouses of widows or widowers fully accept the fact that there was someone before them, and that someone held a special place in their current spouse's heart.

But I don't think it's necessary to condemn posters for a simple sentiment.

zipplewrath

(16,646 posts)
55. Even more
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 12:09 PM
Aug 2016

It was very common in yea olden days for the widower to be ultimately buried with the widow. Second wives previously understood this "going in". Of course, today is a whole 'nother animal. But the sentiment survives.

dgibby

(9,474 posts)
106. My mother buried my father next to his first wife,
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 03:34 PM
Aug 2016

then willed her body to science. She told me that she thought 3 would be a crowd. What can I say. She always did march to the beat of a different drummer.

Orrex

(63,226 posts)
59. It's entirely appropriate to condemn the sentiment
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 12:49 PM
Aug 2016

For at least two reasons:

1. It's openly disrespectful of Karen Boyer
2. It's openly disrespectful of Gene Wilder

All this talk of intention is complete crap, because the actual intention is that the people pushing the Wilder/Radner meme are prioritizing their own romantic fantasies at the expense of Wilder's life, views and marriage.


Fuck that noise. I see no reason to respect the sentiment, because the sentiment is fundamentally disrespectful.

hamsterjill

(15,224 posts)
60. I don't find it disrespectful.
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 12:53 PM
Aug 2016

I think it's a sweet sentiment. That's my opinion. Yours differs.

Have a nice afternoon.

hamsterjill

(15,224 posts)
91. You don't know what I understand and what I do not understand.
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 02:47 PM
Aug 2016

You also didn't know Gene Wilder personally, or did you?

You have read something on the internet about an interview with him whereby he claimed he was an atheist. Who is to say WHAT Mr. Wilder would find disrespectful and what he would not.

You have no better basis for your assumptions than I would have for mine. You want to perpetuate an argument because the sentiment expressed is disrespectful to you. Point taken. But it is not disrespectful to me and to many others.

I can accept your disagreement with my opinion. Can you accept my disagreement with yours?

Let it go.

Orrex

(63,226 posts)
93. You have shown clearly that you don't understand
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 02:57 PM
Aug 2016

By your words I shall know you, and in this context I do indeed know what you don't understand.

You have no better basis for your assumptions than I would have for mine.
If we accept that Wilder's quoted statement is accurate, then I have a better basis for my conclusion than you have for your assumptions.

You want to perpetuate an argument because the sentiment expressed is disrespectful to you.
No, the argument is perpetuated by religious and spiritual bigots who constantly remind non-believers that they are unworthy of respect, by telling us to "Let it go," for instance, when non-believers object to their constant proselytizing.

But it is not disrespectful to me and to many others.
It is disrespectful to what we know of Wilder's views, it is disrespectful to his widow, and for all we know it might also be disrespectful to Radner.

I can accept your disagreement with my opinion. Can you accept my disagreement with yours?
I can accept that your opinion is ill informed and poorly justified. Can you?

hamsterjill

(15,224 posts)
103. I understand just fine, thank you very much.
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 03:28 PM
Aug 2016

Have yourself a very nice day. I'll not be responding any further. Any further exchange would be a waste of time.

Orrex

(63,226 posts)
108. The exchange so far has been a waste of time, but I'm very patient
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 03:58 PM
Aug 2016

I've dealt with religious/spiritual bigots for decades, and I know how strongly they resist any suggestion that their worldview might not be correct.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
73. If you are a religious believer, I can understand why you think that.
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 01:52 PM
Aug 2016

Perhaps putting yourself in the shoes of wilder, a non-believer, you might begin to understand why this "sentiment" is so very insensitive and inappropriate.

But that's difficult for believers, and I suspect difficult for you too.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
72. It's insensitive and inappropriate.
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 01:44 PM
Aug 2016

Gene wilder don't believe in a god or heaven, or any place he would "be with Gilda." Their that say that to him are being disrespectful of his philosophy and the way he lived his life.

whathehell

(29,096 posts)
148. "Gene Wilder don't believe in a god or heaven"
Wed Aug 31, 2016, 07:18 AM
Aug 2016

Lol..Let's hope he believed in using better English than you do.

P.S. You're not upset about "disrespect" to Gene or Gilda and their "philosophy..." You're pissed at "disrespect" toward you and YOURS...Get a grip.

MFM008

(19,821 posts)
53. Why would you care?
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 12:05 PM
Aug 2016

No one KNOWS. When you die you come tell us what really goes on.....oh wait.....

Orrex

(63,226 posts)
63. No one knows
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 12:59 PM
Aug 2016

But a fuckload of spiritual/religious proselytizers are more than happy to spout their sales pitch every chance they get.

If you're really concerned about this dreadful presumptuousness about post-mortem existence, then instead of scolding the OP, you should spend your time on those who claim authority to tell us exactly what happens after we breathe our last.

Orrex

(63,226 posts)
138. The annoyance is at those who, as always, use these occasions to proselytize
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 11:01 PM
Aug 2016

I've seen it literally hundreds of times, with a believer "praying for" or "thanking God" on behalf of an aggrieved victim, while the victim's own views are completely dismissed.

Since we can't know what happens after death, then people should keep their bullshit to themselves about Gene and Gilda being "together again." To do otherwise is to ignore Wilder's own statements and to seize yet another personal tragedy as an opportunity to preach the word, whatever the fuck their word is.

It is not "a harmless gesture," and the "good intentions" don't mean shit. It is, as always, deliberately and explicitly disrespectful of the deceased and the survivors.

REP

(21,691 posts)
71. Radner and Wilder were both Jews and Wilder was an atheist Jew
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 01:43 PM
Aug 2016

Saying "they're together again" is disrespectful of their Judaism (there's no heavenly afterlife in Judaism), disrespectful of Wilder's atheism, and disrespectful to Wilder's widow.

It's enough to mourn the loss of a beloved performer without taking on superfluous and unnecessary religious sentiments.

whathehell

(29,096 posts)
145. Excuse me, but my experience with Judaism tells me you're
Wed Aug 31, 2016, 06:42 AM
Aug 2016

full of it regarding "disrespect of Judaism" Judaism does not deny the existence of an afterlife, and many Jews believe in the possibility.

Besides, I see very little "respect" here for the Christianity of anyone, dead or alive -- Fuck double standards.

REP

(21,691 posts)
177. I'll excuse your lack of knowledge
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 01:39 AM
Sep 2016

Is your "experience" being a Jew? Because that's my experience. Thanks so much though for your thoughts, though.

whathehell

(29,096 posts)
180. Lol, don't bother, unless you can actually refute my claim,
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 06:03 AM
Sep 2016

something you've neatly dodged. Does Judaism deny the existence of an afterlife? Yes or no? That's all that matters here.




P.S. FWIW, I do have Jewish heritage, but again, that's not the point.

whathehell

(29,096 posts)
260. Turns out "knowledge" is only a Google search away..
Sat Sep 3, 2016, 12:09 PM
Sep 2016

Check this out: www.Jewfaq.org/m/olamhaba.htm.

amuse bouche

(3,657 posts)
74. Thank You. Great point
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 02:00 PM
Aug 2016

I really hate the 'better place' meme and so true about disrespecting his actual wife

 

jodymarie aimee

(3,975 posts)
77. holy mackeral you guys do go on
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 02:08 PM
Aug 2016

here I thought I as joining a bunch of thoughtful progressives who wanted to change THIS world, not ruminate and fight back and forth about an actor, however splendid, who died. I'll tell you where he is NOT, here!!

shrike

(3,817 posts)
94. Get used to it. This is DU
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 02:59 PM
Aug 2016

But there are a lot of interesting discussions that have nothing to do with politics. People here tend to be passionate about all kinds of things, including religion or the lack thereof.

 

jodymarie aimee

(3,975 posts)
81. and what does that have to do with democratic underground politics
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 02:18 PM
Aug 2016

DEMS know there is a separation of church and state. And the difference between serious and foolish conversations. If this is fun for you, have at it !! I am going out to register voters. Just expected more of you guys.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
82. Yep. I doubt he was perfect so he will probably serve a few years in Purgatory,
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 02:20 PM
Aug 2016

before being admitted through the Pearly Gates. Unless Saint Peter is a big fan of his, of course.

True Dough

(17,337 posts)
83. I am enjoying this debate
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 02:20 PM
Aug 2016

Good points made on all sides. This is what public forums should be about, not trying to shut down dialogue, for God's sake (did I just write "for God's sake???&quot .

 

Adrahil

(13,340 posts)
89. I think he loved both women.....
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 02:34 PM
Aug 2016

I have heard he deeply loved his wife, Karen. But that does not mean he quit loving Gilda. If his spirit does go on (like him, I think it does not), there is no reason to believe he wouldn't love seeing her again.

Stop being a killjoy

 

KMOD

(7,906 posts)
95. The news of his passing reminded many of us
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 03:00 PM
Aug 2016

of Gilda's passing years ago.

People can mourn however they want.

CBGLuthier

(12,723 posts)
104. He said in his autobiography that his marriage to her would have ended if she had not died.
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 03:30 PM
Aug 2016

That she loved him far more than he loved her. It happens.

Kansaskid

(17 posts)
124. Gilda's autobiography
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 07:20 PM
Aug 2016

Gilda discusses the fact that Gene did not want to marry again. She was very high maintenance, and he had reservations about their marrying. He finally just gave in and married her.

whathehell

(29,096 posts)
144. Nice of him to say..
Wed Aug 31, 2016, 06:28 AM
Aug 2016

Then again, he had multiple wives -- Maybe they all "loved him far more than he loved them".

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
111. He was also, by his statements, a Buddhist, which is not incompatible with Atheism. And everything
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 04:44 PM
Aug 2016

contains the Buddha nature.

If, at death, the ego dissolves and the illusion of ego, specific and finite melts back into the universal and infinite, then arguably "they" are together, in some fashion (or were never really separate) but like most theological/philosophical debates, it's the definition of pointlessness to argue about it.

...really, can't we fight about circumcision? porn? The man fucking the McChicken, for mcchicken fucking fuck's sake?

All this one does is remind me of two great comedians we've lost, over the years.

 

recentevents

(93 posts)
117. Mom said
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 05:45 PM
Aug 2016

My mother (93 years old) and father (who passed away almost 20 years ago) were married for 50 plus years. I ask her once about joining dad in heaven as they both were very religious people who lived the talk.
She replied, "It's till death do us part. I'm not going to be married to him in heaven, that's not the way it works."

SusanCalvin

(6,592 posts)
175. Because he did things for which I am grateful.
Wed Aug 31, 2016, 10:55 PM
Aug 2016

I'm grateful to a lot of dead people.

Any other questions?

whathehell

(29,096 posts)
179. Lol..Yes, I do have "another question", if you want to call it that, although
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 05:48 AM
Sep 2016

it is, in fact, identical to the last: Why would an atheist address someone -- with gratitude or anything else -- who can't hear?

Your feelings for a dead man, however fine, cannot restore his hearing, so they would properly only be expressed to the living.

Have a good day.



SusanCalvin

(6,592 posts)
181. Good grief.
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 06:27 AM
Sep 2016

If this is what floats your boat, knock yourself out.

I won't be here to participate, though. Thank you for playing.

whathehell

(29,096 posts)
182. Lol..Is that you're standard response to losing an argument?
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 07:10 AM
Sep 2016

Declare victory and go home?....Oh well, at least you're smart enough to know your limitations.

"Thanks for playing"?...You're welcome -- The pleasure was all mine.

SusanCalvin

(6,592 posts)
255. Didn't lose. Not interested.
Sat Sep 3, 2016, 01:01 AM
Sep 2016

Only here because...

Well, I admit I can't explain it any other way than apparently I am, at the moment, bored.

If you get your jollies splitting hairs, I defend your right to do so.

SusanCalvin

(6,592 posts)
257. And it's "your."
Sat Sep 3, 2016, 01:07 AM
Sep 2016

"You're" is the contraction for "you are."

In the title. You used it correctly in the body.

SusanCalvin

(6,592 posts)
265. I looked at your (correct usage) journal,
Sat Sep 3, 2016, 10:55 PM
Sep 2016

But not your replies since my abandoning (sorta) of this thread. And don't intend to. (An advantage of message boards of this sort.)

But, really, is this all you have got to do.....?

Sigh.....

Bye.

Orrex

(63,226 posts)
190. Apostrophe, obviously.
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 08:24 AM
Sep 2016

For those anyone a little rusty on the literary device: Apostrophe

Addressing someone who is absent, whether due to death, to distance, or to lost contact, is not a statement of faith nor any declaration of an afterlife. Nor is it any sort of "Gotcha!" proof that the speaker expects the absent person to hear. The speaker is, in effect, addressing the memory or the idea or the thought of the departed.

When you express frustration at a driver who cuts you off in busy traffic, do you always expect that driver to hear you to change his or her driving habits as a result? No? Then why the hell do you do it?

Wait, I know. You never express yourself in that way. Fine--then why do you suppose that other drivers do it? People talk to their cars and their computers all the time. They yell at movie screens to warn the hero away from danger. Do you think that they expect the character to hear them?

This is a nuanced point that I suspect might be lost on those religionists who sadly rely too much on Gotcha! moments, but it's necessary to consider the context of the situation and also the views of the speaker.

Does that clarify it for you, or are you still flailing around for a Gotcha! moment?

get the red out

(13,468 posts)
153. Maybe we should do some introspection
Wed Aug 31, 2016, 07:57 AM
Aug 2016

Our culture of worshipping "stars" is more than a little like the way the Greeks and Romans approached the worship of their Gods, and the mythology of their deities successes and foibles. Performers are people, they aren't living on Mount Olympus. This is just my opinion, but I really see our star struck culture as a problem.

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
166. Thanks for reminding me why I hate Militant Atheists.
Wed Aug 31, 2016, 11:38 AM
Aug 2016

Ah yes..... and other imaginary animals....

You might want to save your hate (it takes so much energy) for something that actually exists.

Odin2005

(53,521 posts)
188. I used to BE one, are you saying I don't exist?
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 08:00 AM
Sep 2016


Look at some of my early posts here in the mid to late 00s when I was an edgy Atheist college student.

Orrex

(63,226 posts)
193. Did you preach your militant atheism in real life?
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 08:48 AM
Sep 2016

If not, then you weren't as militant as you probably think.

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
194. I was an edgy Atheist college student.
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 09:02 AM
Sep 2016

That's your definition of a "Militant Atheist"?

What extreme and violent actions did you commit in the name of atheism?

edhopper

(33,635 posts)
171. I guess that would include
Wed Aug 31, 2016, 06:25 PM
Aug 2016

Gene Wilder, since you seem to think any atheist that is open about it is "Militant"

edhopper

(33,635 posts)
197. But pointing out that
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 10:30 AM
Sep 2016

people are saying Gene prefers Gilda over his widow. Wilder, an atheist, is now somnewhere with his "true love".
pointing out the inanity and insult of that is "Militant"/

Nice try.

whathehell

(29,096 posts)
200. So now it's about Gilda and not militant atheism, lol?
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 10:37 AM
Sep 2016

Switch goal posts much? I'd say "nice try", but It's a bit too obvious for that.

edhopper

(33,635 posts)
201. What in my OP
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 10:39 AM
Sep 2016

which is about people saying "Gene is with Gilda now" despite his wife of 25 years and the fact Wilder was an atheist who didn't believe in such garbage makes me a Militant?

Please proceed...

edhopper

(33,635 posts)
212. Yeah
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 02:24 PM
Sep 2016

probably the perception I did that, even though I didn't.
Like I'm a "Militant" for asking people to respect his widow.

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
218. Nah... you're a militant because you talk.
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 02:51 PM
Sep 2016

If you're a militant Christian, you blow up abortion clinics. If you're a militant Jew, you murder Palestinians in the streets. If you're a militant Islamist, you forcibly remove heads from bodies with butter knives. If you're a militant Hindu or a militant Buddhist, you lynch Muslims by the busload.

All an atheist has to do to be considered militant is rankle some nerves on an internet forum.

People would much rather not see or hear from us... except on election days.

whathehell

(29,096 posts)
246. Lol..Really lame
Fri Sep 2, 2016, 09:24 AM
Sep 2016

Last edited Fri Sep 2, 2016, 10:11 AM - Edit history (1)

If atheists talked about 'outer space' instead of spewing insults and ridicule at those with other views, they'd likely be unrecognized as

such, much less be tagged as "militant" which, btw, does not necessarily equate with being an "extremist".

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
245. Even if that were remotely true...
Fri Sep 2, 2016, 09:23 AM
Sep 2016

...you're deliberately lumping a guy who says things on the internet together with people who by definition take violent action to promote their political agenda. The best case scenario here is you don't really know what any of those words -- "proselytize" or "militant" -- really mean. Worst case, you're being dishonest.

Now you seem like an intelligent individual, so to be honest, I'm leaning towards the latter.

whathehell

(29,096 posts)
247. No, dear, "militant" doesn't necessarily equate to violence, or even "extremist"
Fri Sep 2, 2016, 10:09 AM
Sep 2016

although I can see how that analogy could, if accurate, advance your argument.

Sorry, but in this context, it simply means proactively advancing an agenda, and that frequently involves proselytizing. No one thinks militant atheists are "dangerous". They're just tiresome and obnoxious, like religious proselytizers...Get it now?


P.S. Given your insults and allover belligerence, I'm afraid I'm going to have to relegate you to the Big "I" list. Goodbye and good luck.




whathehell

(29,096 posts)
215. The fact that you're calling the beliefs of others "garbage" for one thing,..
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 02:33 PM
Sep 2016

Kinda thought that was obvious, but not for some, it seems.

You shit all over other people's views, and then, incredibly enough, whine about a lack of 'respect' for your OWN?

Atheist, Schmathiest, bro..You gotta be living on another planet with those expectations.

edhopper

(33,635 posts)
216. So you disagree with how I call out these people with their fantasies
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 02:37 PM
Sep 2016

of "Gene and Gilda"

And that makes me a "Militant"?

Your threshold for militancy is really low.

I guess That makes almost everyone on DU a "Militant" Democrat for the way they talk about Republicans.

Odin2005

(53,521 posts)
230. Is not being a jerk too much to ask?
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 04:02 PM
Sep 2016

Atheists whining that they are being told to shut up reminds me of the internet edgelords on sites like Reddit who think moderation is censorship.

whathehell

(29,096 posts)
239. I disagree with your attempt to equate your opinion with Reality..
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 08:08 PM
Sep 2016

and shove it down the throats of others via ridicule, insult and boorish arrogance.

whathehell

(29,096 posts)
211. Uh, no..again
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 02:22 PM
Sep 2016

I replied in the negative to this rather silly assumption:

"I guess that would include Gene Wilder, since you seem to think any atheist that is open about it is "Militant"

You guessed wrong, and, since I wasn't "gotched" by it as you obviously intended, you'd like to give it another go.

Sorry, bro -- This one is even sillier than the first and I'm not at all interested.


edhopper

(33,635 posts)
198. Please explain how my post is Militant
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 10:31 AM
Sep 2016

and please use examples of other forms of militancy you would compare it to?

Odin2005

(53,521 posts)
225. Telling religious people when they are grieving that there is no afterlife is a massive dick move.
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 03:45 PM
Sep 2016

"Militant" was the wrong word, "Fundamentalist" is probably the better descriptor. I am not implying that you or other such people are equivalent to IS or the WBC, I'm using it to describe the nasty, tactless behavior used to brag about how smarter and superior you are to religious people that makes you morally no better than fundie bigots telling people they are going to Hell

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
231. What in the actual fuck are you blathering about?
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 04:06 PM
Sep 2016
Telling religious people when they are grieving that there is no afterlife is a massive dick move.


Telling religious people there is no afterlife when they are grieving over the death of a man they never met is a "massive dick move"?

How about completely disregarding the feelings of the man you're supposedly grieving, along with the feelings of those who actually knew and loved him? What, that's just fucking peachy?

Just so we're clear, then: when I die, my atheist wife is going to have to bite her lip and stay quiet when distant relatives and acquaintances who barely knew me tell her I'm in a "better place"? Because I wouldn't want her, in her grief, to accidentally hurt the fee-fees of grieving believers and thereby become a massive dick.

I'm using it to describe the nasty, tactless behavior used to brag about how smarter and superior you are to religious people that makes you morally no better than fundie bigots telling people they are going to Hell


Well, you have an opinion on morality, and while the great lengths to which you go to establish some kind of bullshit equivalence between telling people there's no Santa and actively wishing for people to spend eternity locking in a furnace are truly fascinating, they're really.... not.

edhopper

(33,635 posts)
237. No
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 06:50 PM
Sep 2016

the dick move is telling his wife of 25 years that he is no with his "true love" as if they know fuck all about it.

The dick move is saying an atheist is now happy in heaven.

Pointing this out is not the dick move.

Good Day, Sir.

muriel_volestrangler

(101,385 posts)
204. Its' not a 'persecution complex' when you have just told them you hate them
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 12:54 PM
Sep 2016

You popped into a DU thread to tell the thread starter you hate them. And that has been your sole contribution.

Odin2005

(53,521 posts)
227. Going off on grieving religious people for believing in an afterlife is disgusting.
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 03:55 PM
Sep 2016

It is nothing but pumping up one's own ego and sense of superiority by shitting on others. The whole "we Atheists are all smart and logical and superior to all those stupid religious people" crap is nauseating.

Nobody is telling Atheists to shut up, people are telling atheists to not be assholes. That so many Atheists think those 2 things are the same says a lot.

muriel_volestrangler

(101,385 posts)
232. No one was "going off on grieving religious people"
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 04:25 PM
Sep 2016

They were pointing out that Wilder was atheist, so had no belief in this 'with Gilda' stuff, and, most importantly, that the actual person grieving - his widow Karen - was being ignored, and shunted to one side, not by "grieving religious people", but by DUers, in favour of the celebrity they'd heard of, with an inappropriate religious cliche.

And then you marched it to tell a DUer you hated them. Now you accuse the one person on DU to think of the living family member that they've been making it about their own "ego", and they're "shitting on others" by thinking of Karen. Congrats. You're really digging your hole deep.

"Smart and logical and superior"? The thread starter was better informed, and pointed out, politely, there's a living widow who was married to him for 25 years, right through his illness.

Are you telling atheists to shut up? No, you're just telling them you hate them. That's worse. That you think you have any moral standing in this whatsoever is very telling. Look to your own ego and how you're trying to pump it up. DU is not meant to be a hate site, so stop trying to make it one.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
173. I find it interesting that asking for a modicum of respect for the dead or survivors...
Wed Aug 31, 2016, 06:32 PM
Aug 2016

is apparently too much for Atheists to ask for.

whathehell

(29,096 posts)
185. Awww..
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 07:31 AM
Sep 2016

Poor widdle atheists..So Sad. Especially given how respectful THEY so often are to those not sharing their views...Give me a tucking break.




Orrex

(63,226 posts)
192. You must not know many atheists in real life
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 08:46 AM
Sep 2016

Or at least you've never bothered to listen to them.

In your entire life, have you ever heard an atheist intrude on a religionist's grief to proselytize atheism at them? Not talking about soundbytes from Richard Dawkins nor anonymous comments on an internet board: have you ever seen an atheist confront a widow and tell her that her husband is gone forever in the cold and soulless universe?

Of course not, because in spite of the pro-religion propaganda that infests every square inch of public life, the vast majority of atheists are not assholes and do not evangelize. Obviously there are exceptions, but other atheists tend to decry that behavior. Contrast that with the vast majority of religionists who exploit every death and tragedy to preach the word.

Not 12 hours ago a neighbor lost her son to an overdose. Do you think that I took that opportunity to tell her that there's no evidence that God exists? Of course not, because I'm not an insensitive monster. But if I had similarly lost a loved one, do you doubt that I would be told that he's "with God" or "in a better place" or "you're in my prayers?"

Sure, they insist that they're being positive and compassionate, but they're doing it by explicitly disrespecting the views of the person they're "supporting." That's like "supporting" a vegan event with a rack of barbecued ribs.


So instead of shitting on a minority in the name of religious bigotry, perhaps you might consider educating yourself about the people you're attacking.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
217. WTF? That's your response? You truly are a heartless person, aren't you?
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 02:41 PM
Sep 2016

Oh, what the fuck is the point, its not like you are capable of feeling shame, or anything really.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
221. I've been meaning to watch it, but haven't had an opportunity yet...
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 03:14 PM
Sep 2016

lame excuse, I know, especially since I think its on netflix. As far as the person I'm responding to, just an old time bigot(transphobe). Not really a worthy person to talk to, I'm assuming they are behaving better now than in the past, or else they may end up being shown the door.

whathehell

(29,096 posts)
238. I have NO idea what you're talking about..Why the fuck would you call me "heartless"?
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 07:47 PM
Sep 2016

If it helps, I did NOT read the article you linked me to.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
240. It wasn't an article, it was a personal testimonial, but really, don't bother responding...
Thu Sep 1, 2016, 08:38 PM
Sep 2016

if you're not going to read what the fuck I linked to.

Just stop the bullshit.

Response to edhopper (Original post)

gvstn

(2,805 posts)
250. I just heard an interview with him on NPR from some time past.
Fri Sep 2, 2016, 10:21 AM
Sep 2016

When he is asked about his relationship with Gilda he talks about the good times and the struggles. When he says, "I really did love Gilda", it sounds a bit defensive as in despite all the problems. If there is an afterlife, it sounds to me that his most recent family that saw him through his struggles will eventually reunite with him(maybe Gilda too) but definitely them.

 

astral

(2,531 posts)
254. Believers gotta Believe
Fri Sep 2, 2016, 09:30 PM
Sep 2016

Non-Believers gotta be right.

What's the big deal if we can't agree on where Gene Wilder went, anyway? None of us will ever know for sure until we cross over.
. . . Unless we don't. Crossover.
In which case, we just stay put where we are. .
I mean where we aren't, anymore.
So we can't stay there cuz we aren't there.
But, then, where did we go?
The Christians went to Heaven.
The Sinners went to Hell.
The atheists simply fertilized the flowers,
which were left by the non-non- believers
who thought the flowers were a symbol of respect to the deParrted who didn't go anywhere because as atheists they could not travel without their bodies.

All I know is:
± I have no defined religion.
± I believe in God because I can feel His presence.
± I love Gilda Radner more than I love Gene Wilder.
± I am probably not going to Heaven.
± The truth is the truth, whether we choose to believe it or not.
± I'm God-Damned Sure I'm right.
± Part of this post is going to get Bleeped.
± I think I have managed to offend everybody in this thread.
± Posting this was fun.

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