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Lyric

(12,675 posts)
Mon Sep 12, 2016, 03:22 PM Sep 2016

My GoFundMe campaign. No pressure. Help if you want to, or not if you don't. <3

Last edited Mon Sep 12, 2016, 06:18 PM - Edit history (1)

I understand that some of you despise GFM threads. I understand why. But please just use the exit link above and don't hit me with negative comments about it. I am a real person suffering a lot of pain and immobility right now, and I am having a lot of trouble finding resources to help me. Yes, I HAVE already contacted the local Center for Independent Living and they are working to get me discounts on materials and help with volunteer labor for accessibility renovations. But I still need to pay for a lot of these things myself, and they are expensive, even at a discounted price.

So for those who are interested and who might want to help--here we go.

There is now a VIDEO uploaded so I could talk to you all in person. Check it out on my campaign page!

https://www.gofundme.com/justfivedollars

I am disabled, thanks to spinal nerve root injuries and leg muscle damage from Cushing's Disease. I need to use my donated wheelchair to get around, and since my mobile home is not accessible, I am forced to spend nearly all of my time at home bedridden. It is a depressing and unhealthy way to exist.

I would like to make my home more accessible, to repair my donated powerchair and buy it a new, working battery, and to (hopefully, if my dreams come true) purchase a used wheelchair-accessible van to be able to get my heavy powerchair around. However, I have very little income.

I was thinking about how hard it is to ask people to donate larger amounts of money. But almost everybody could spare at least a fiver, right? And if I could get thousands of people to give me a simple five dollars, it would add up to enough to make a huge difference for me.

So that's what I am asking.

Can I please have five dollars? Or more or less, if that's what you choose to give. But five would be enough.

I intend to use it to get functional mobility equipment, get my home's entrances made accessible, and get an accessible van. Any money that I receive beyond those basic urgent needs (not likely, anyway) will go toward other accessibility expenses--renovating my bathtub with grab bars and a seat, getting my self-propelled wheelchair repaired and upgraded, and all the other expenses that go along with disability.

I will, of course, provide updates and photos as we hit each goal. I hope you will consider joining in. It's only five dollars to you, but it's the difference between being simply being alive and truly having a LIFE, to me.

If you can't help monetarily, then please, please, please help by sharing this link around to as many people as you can. The further it goes, the better chance that I will get enough to meet my goals. Sharing is a huge gift, all by itself.

Thanks so much in advance!

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My GoFundMe campaign. No pressure. Help if you want to, or not if you don't. <3 (Original Post) Lyric Sep 2016 OP
Kick. NaturalHigh Sep 2016 #1
Thank you, NH. Lyric Sep 2016 #3
Kick. nt. NCTraveler Sep 2016 #2
Gave a little. narnian60 Sep 2016 #4
*hugs* Lyric Sep 2016 #5
I did what I could. I hope you get enough to help out. Arkansas Granny Sep 2016 #6
KIck and rec. Good luck! Arazi Sep 2016 #7
Thank you! Lyric Sep 2016 #8
Kick! CaliforniaPeggy Sep 2016 #9
Thank you very much. My campaign is at $770 now! Lyric Sep 2016 #10
Wow, that's great! CaliforniaPeggy Sep 2016 #11
As of right now, we have enough to meet our first goal: repairing my wheelchair! Lyric Sep 2016 #12
Paying forward a good deed that someone did for me on Friday SticksnStones Sep 2016 #13
kick kcr Sep 2016 #14
I am in the process of uploading a Thank You video to YouTube so I can link it to my campaign. Lyric Sep 2016 #15
I uploaded the video! Check it out and please, pass this link around if you can. Lyric Sep 2016 #16
kick nt xmas74 Sep 2016 #17
Did my part. I'm disabled myself, so I know... Different Drummer Sep 2016 #18
It truly is. Lyric Sep 2016 #19
You are never alone on DU! riderinthestorm Sep 2016 #20
I'm definitely feeling that way right now. Lyric Sep 2016 #21
Giving it an up-kick... DUers are an amazing bunch... Rhythm Sep 2016 #22
They are indeed. Hello dear. Lyric Sep 2016 #23
Sure, hon... *nods* Always happy to do whatever i can to help... Rhythm Sep 2016 #33
Argh. So close! Lyric Sep 2016 #24
I just gave $5 democrattotheend Sep 2016 #25
Lmao. I love you Lyric Sep 2016 #26
Woohoooo, somebody donated another fiver and I made it to $900!!! Lyric Sep 2016 #27
I'd help you but I'm broke, but here's another KICK!!! nt steve2470 Sep 2016 #28
Thank you! Honestly, if you could just spread the link on Facebook that would help. Lyric Sep 2016 #29
Twitter here I come, I'm not good on FB steve2470 Sep 2016 #30
lol, that works for me. Lyric Sep 2016 #31
I'm doing horrible and barely getting by, but I can give you a kick & my thoughts & prayers Divine Discontent Sep 2016 #32
Thank you, DD... Rhythm Sep 2016 #34
K&R for visibility! nt tblue37 Sep 2016 #35
K&R Arkansas Granny Sep 2016 #36
Donated and kick PSUDem Sep 2016 #37
Just to link with your update: NaturalHigh Sep 2016 #38
Aloha Lyric, thank you for letting us know. I wonder if we could gather up some handy DUers in West mahina Sep 2016 #39
Update 3:30pm 9/13/16 ... Rhythm Sep 2016 #40
K&R mentalsolstice Sep 2016 #41
Kick. nt mentalsolstice Sep 2016 #42
UPDATE: Lyric is home after a hellacious night at the ED Rhythm Sep 2016 #43
kick nt steve2470 Sep 2016 #44
kick nt Lyric Sep 2016 #45
This message was self-deleted by its author rppper Sep 2016 #46
Kicked and donated Beaverhausen Sep 2016 #47
Thank you, dear heart. Lyric Sep 2016 #48
K&R Sissyk Sep 2016 #49

Lyric

(12,675 posts)
5. *hugs*
Mon Sep 12, 2016, 03:45 PM
Sep 2016

Thank you for letting me know who you are. And thank you for the help. It means the world to me. <3

Lyric

(12,675 posts)
12. As of right now, we have enough to meet our first goal: repairing my wheelchair!
Mon Sep 12, 2016, 05:08 PM
Sep 2016

I need new armrests because the ones I have are broken, and the leg rests are totally broken off of it. We will either get it repaired or just buy a new one altogether if the repairs are going to cost anywhere close to the price of a new one. So we've gotten that much, at least! And I can also get a shower chair, which is soooo vital for me. I cannot stand up for very long unassisted, so sitting down while I bathe is essential.

I remain hopeful that we will manage to get enough to repair the powerchair that was kindly donated to me by somebody local, through Craigslist. It doesn't run because the battery is dead, and the control stick and knob are broken. It also needs a new seat. Until we get the battery, we won't know what else might be wrong with it. It's a Scooter Store brand chair. I really want to get it working because having a functional powerchair would increase my independence dramatically.

Lyric

(12,675 posts)
15. I am in the process of uploading a Thank You video to YouTube so I can link it to my campaign.
Mon Sep 12, 2016, 05:53 PM
Sep 2016

The least I can do for people who have opened their hearts and wallets for me is to talk to them and thank them in person.


Lyric

(12,675 posts)
16. I uploaded the video! Check it out and please, pass this link around if you can.
Mon Sep 12, 2016, 06:18 PM
Sep 2016

It would mean so much to me and my family....

Different Drummer

(7,621 posts)
18. Did my part. I'm disabled myself, so I know...
Mon Sep 12, 2016, 06:31 PM
Sep 2016

something of what you're going through. Spending so much time at home bedridden must be dismal.

Lyric

(12,675 posts)
19. It truly is.
Mon Sep 12, 2016, 06:35 PM
Sep 2016

My Kindle and my laptop are the only things that keep me sane, most days. I only leave the house for doctor's appointments.

It will be wonderful to be able to get out of the house by myself. Just to sit on the porch! We need a small ramp from the doorstep down, because there's a bit of a drop, so I can't even get outside by my self.

Lyric

(12,675 posts)
21. I'm definitely feeling that way right now.
Mon Sep 12, 2016, 06:48 PM
Sep 2016

I can't believe that I am only $110 from hitting the $1000 mark--in two days. Two days! God, I am just floored...humbled beyond belief.

Rhythm

(5,435 posts)
33. Sure, hon... *nods* Always happy to do whatever i can to help...
Tue Sep 13, 2016, 07:17 AM
Sep 2016


Anything i can do to help your life become more 'livable' -- rather than just 'endurable' -- is nothing but a good thing...

Lyric

(12,675 posts)
24. Argh. So close!
Mon Sep 12, 2016, 07:39 PM
Sep 2016

That $890 number is driving me crazy. I am anal retentive enough to want the numbers to be whole and round, lol. If I had $10, I'd donate it myself just to make it even!

Edit: Now it's $895. ARGH! I think someone is totally playing with me here, lmao.

Lyric

(12,675 posts)
27. Woohoooo, somebody donated another fiver and I made it to $900!!!
Mon Sep 12, 2016, 08:15 PM
Sep 2016

Doing a major happy dance over here!

Lyric

(12,675 posts)
29. Thank you! Honestly, if you could just spread the link on Facebook that would help.
Mon Sep 12, 2016, 08:25 PM
Sep 2016

There might be people on your friends list who want to help. You never know

steve2470

(37,457 posts)
30. Twitter here I come, I'm not good on FB
Mon Sep 12, 2016, 08:25 PM
Sep 2016

OK several thousand people on Twitter just got your message, good luck!

Divine Discontent

(21,056 posts)
32. I'm doing horrible and barely getting by, but I can give you a kick & my thoughts & prayers
Mon Sep 12, 2016, 10:07 PM
Sep 2016

I am sorry you are dealing with all this, but so glad to see you're getting help...

Rhythm

(5,435 posts)
34. Thank you, DD...
Tue Sep 13, 2016, 08:37 AM
Sep 2016

If you can, also, give this a share on FB or Twitter or whatever other social-media platform you have access to...
Every bit of exposure helps!

mahina

(17,667 posts)
39. Aloha Lyric, thank you for letting us know. I wonder if we could gather up some handy DUers in West
Tue Sep 13, 2016, 04:18 PM
Sep 2016

Virginia who could come help with the entrance and hallway adaptation?

I would come over and supervise Just kidding, I have a purple thumb. (Can't hit a straight nail)

But I do have a couple of extra bucks as a rare coincidence and appreciate the link. It's not much but it's something.

Courage dear heart! Aloha no!

Rhythm

(5,435 posts)
40. Update 3:30pm 9/13/16 ...
Tue Sep 13, 2016, 04:30 PM
Sep 2016

"Got a call from my spine doctor earlier and she said that I need to go to the ED as soon as I can, because apparently they can do expedited MRI's and she is afraid that I am developing Cauda Equina Syndrome. That would lead to even more disability than I already have. Please pray hard for me, consider donating, and pass this link around? We really need support right now. To tell you the truth...I am scared out of my mind."

From Lyric's FB page...

Rhythm

(5,435 posts)
43. UPDATE: Lyric is home after a hellacious night at the ED
Wed Sep 14, 2016, 10:27 AM
Sep 2016

Because her spine specialist's office could not get an MRI appointment scheduled for any sooner than the end of the month -- and because the pain, peripheral numbness, and other issues have become steadily worse -- her doc told her to go to the ED at the university hospital yesterday afternoon, because they could expedite the imaging from there.

All the while spending the evening dealing with the unsympathetic ED staff, she was also dealing with a barrage of slander from the right-of-center spelunkers over at that 'site which shall not be named' (but y'all all know the one), who coordinated to have her GFM 'reported', and her motives questioned.

Video she shot from the ED is added to this post here:
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10028163249

She just got home this morning at around 8:30am, and she and Ben immediately crashed.
Her spine doc is reviewing the imaging results, and will decide from here what the best course of treatment will be.

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