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Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
Sun Oct 16, 2016, 09:01 PM Oct 2016

Today is my mom and dad's 68th anniversary and I feel compelled to say something public, sorry.

Last edited Mon Oct 17, 2016, 01:15 AM - Edit history (1)

Mary and Joseph - 91 and 94. Same CT house, married for 68 years today. Die-hard bleeding heart liberals. Still bowl every Wednesday. My dad with a cane. My mom, scored a 200 not too long ago - woohoo.

My dad, WW2 vet, So Pacific. He sent a Navy pic to my mom (who thought they were in love) signed "Friends Always"

They never verbally "taught" us 4 kids much - except to root for the underdog and to be honest. My dad made my sister walk 1/2 mile in the snow to return a nickel to the newspaper machine because she got two papers.

His mind is shot now....although there are glimpses of coolness. He voted for ""What kind of name is that??" Obama". We will have to convince him this year that Hillary is a man....but who cares, right?

And, I have to say, if my mom knew what P**** was, and my dad was with it - like he used to be - they would be 100% totally disgusted by the person who is running for the President of the United States.

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Today is my mom and dad's 68th anniversary and I feel compelled to say something public, sorry. (Original Post) Laura PourMeADrink Oct 2016 OP
What a wonderful tribute! Siwsan Oct 2016 #1
Thanks Siwsan ! Are you in the mood to explain your name? unusual Laura PourMeADrink Oct 2016 #6
It is Welsh Siwsan Oct 2016 #9
68 years together isa lifetime malaise Oct 2016 #2
thanks. One day maybe I will know why I deserved it. Just spent Laura PourMeADrink Oct 2016 #3
I'm a Buddhist, but not too certain about reincarnation vlyons Oct 2016 #53
How sweet!!! Liberal Jesus Freak Oct 2016 #4
Oh, I am sorry. And, it sounds like your dad might have been "all there" - which Laura PourMeADrink Oct 2016 #15
Oh, I agree! Liberal Jesus Freak Oct 2016 #24
So true...but it asks the question, Is it better to have your elders in sound mind Laura PourMeADrink Oct 2016 #45
Best wishes to them and you . apcalc Oct 2016 #5
Yes - my mom is very fine - healthy and amazingly sharp. Sharper than I. She knows every Laura PourMeADrink Oct 2016 #10
Happy Anniversary to your Mom and Dad! Hope they livetohike Oct 2016 #7
Thank you for sharing this!n/t Dalai_1 Oct 2016 #8
Laura--Thanks for posting this about your parents. My parents are celebrating their skylucy Oct 2016 #11
Holy Cow !! You and I are so lucky. Especially for having parents who Laura PourMeADrink Oct 2016 #19
I never bowled a 200 in my life. rug Oct 2016 #12
Wow what a legacy gopiscrap Oct 2016 #13
congrats to them!!!! joeybee12 Oct 2016 #14
thanks. And I heard my dad still said the same thing after many years.. Laura PourMeADrink Oct 2016 #16
hah! joeybee12 Oct 2016 #18
Smile...and what a great guy you must be to remember that ! Feeling very Laura PourMeADrink Oct 2016 #21
my parents were FDR Dems...I bet yours are too. joeybee12 Oct 2016 #23
What does that mean? Other than the obvious. My parents, Laura PourMeADrink Oct 2016 #40
Nothing to be sorry for Omaha Steve Oct 2016 #17
Mazel tov shenmue Oct 2016 #20
powodzenia Laura PourMeADrink Oct 2016 #22
Happy anniversary to them! mcar Oct 2016 #25
k&r Liberal_in_LA Oct 2016 #26
Lovely tribute ladym55 Oct 2016 #27
"root for the underdog" & "honest" - that's what my parents taught us, too - n/t UTUSN Oct 2016 #28
Looking back, it was the best lesson, don't you think? I am so lucky to live Laura PourMeADrink Oct 2016 #37
We did it all for the public good. We never benefitted from almost any of the "programs" and UTUSN Oct 2016 #66
That's a remarkable tribute-- wow, 68 years! ailsagirl Oct 2016 #29
Beautiful post! Texasgal Oct 2016 #30
What a sweet thing to say. They are not incredible - just normal Laura PourMeADrink Oct 2016 #35
Thanks for sharing your story DesertRat Oct 2016 #31
So curious - what in the world do they think of someone so base, so un-dignified, Laura PourMeADrink Oct 2016 #34
They are both disgusted DesertRat Oct 2016 #41
Give them a hug for me. I lost my dad at 89, 3 and a half years ago CentralMass Oct 2016 #32
Just wow:) no words better. Did your Dad get the invitation to join Ted in Laura PourMeADrink Oct 2016 #33
I'm having a little trouble responding senseandsensibility Oct 2016 #36
I know this sounds incredibly corny - but sending you good vibes across Laura PourMeADrink Oct 2016 #42
K&R... spanone Oct 2016 #38
Great tribute for your parents, wish mine were still here. dae Oct 2016 #39
Me too....but it is quality of time rather than length of time, huh. Laura PourMeADrink Oct 2016 #43
Oh yes. dae Oct 2016 #63
Hooray for them, and congratulations! Lifelong Protester Oct 2016 #44
I'm willing to bet your mom knows exactly what p**** is! A HERETIC I AM Oct 2016 #46
Wow, what a cool family you must have !! The word blowjob? Closest we ever Laura PourMeADrink Oct 2016 #47
I wouldn't say we were "cool".... A HERETIC I AM Oct 2016 #59
What a heartwarming post, LPMAD! brer cat Oct 2016 #48
Beautiful.... panader0 Oct 2016 #49
Congrats to the happy couple! world wide wally Oct 2016 #50
That would be wild. My dad was on a PT tender - the USS Willoughby. Laura PourMeADrink Oct 2016 #57
My Dad was on a cruiser named the USS Louisville world wide wally Oct 2016 #60
This is great to still have your parents, hope you enjoy every day. Thinkingabout Oct 2016 #51
Sounds like a great couple Bluzmann57 Oct 2016 #54
:) Don't know about the "fine children" part....just so very Laura PourMeADrink Oct 2016 #58
Congratulations and thank you for sharing. mountain grammy Oct 2016 #55
This is so lovely ... made me cry a little (in a good way) at my desk etherealtruth Oct 2016 #56
Very Nice! ProfessorGAC Oct 2016 #61
So sweet LittleGirl Oct 2016 #62
Lovely tribute to remarkable people. Boomerproud Oct 2016 #64
Awwwwwww... that's so sweet! calimary Oct 2016 #65
That's wonderful ... Congratulations to your parents Raine Oct 2016 #67
Tell him he's voting for Edmund Hillary TrogL Oct 2016 #68
 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
3. thanks. One day maybe I will know why I deserved it. Just spent
Sun Oct 16, 2016, 09:08 PM
Oct 2016

time with my best friend in Florida who is a FIRM believer in reincarnation.

vlyons

(10,252 posts)
53. I'm a Buddhist, but not too certain about reincarnation
Mon Oct 17, 2016, 12:16 PM
Oct 2016

So I decided to keep an open mind about it. Either way, I'm ok, because even tho' I have many character flaws, I'm confident that I'm a good person with good will in my heart. I still pray for my deceased parents on the chance that they reincarnated somewhere. Pray that they are in a loving family with easy access to authentic Buddhist teachings. Congrats on having such a loving family.

Liberal Jesus Freak

(1,451 posts)
4. How sweet!!!
Sun Oct 16, 2016, 09:08 PM
Oct 2016

Lucky you. My Dad passed 2 years before he would have celebrated 50 years with the love of his life. I still have my mom, but we both miss him every day

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
15. Oh, I am sorry. And, it sounds like your dad might have been "all there" - which
Sun Oct 16, 2016, 09:27 PM
Oct 2016

trust me is such a wonderful gift. Dementia sucks so bad. I would tell everyone to ask their parents everything imaginable about their past - it is a golden nugget you can never ever get back.

Liberal Jesus Freak

(1,451 posts)
24. Oh, I agree!
Sun Oct 16, 2016, 09:55 PM
Oct 2016

Yes, he was "all there" and I was able to ask many questions before he passed. My husband was not as fortunate with his parents Dementia is devastating to families.

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
45. So true...but it asks the question, Is it better to have your elders in sound mind
Mon Oct 17, 2016, 12:30 AM
Oct 2016

but weak body, or the other way around.

apcalc

(4,465 posts)
5. Best wishes to them and you .
Sun Oct 16, 2016, 09:09 PM
Oct 2016

Chuckled at ' what kind of name is that' Obama....and convincing him Hillary is a man....ah, well.
Your mom's mind ok?
Enjoy all the time you have with them!

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
10. Yes - my mom is very fine - healthy and amazingly sharp. Sharper than I. She knows every
Sun Oct 16, 2016, 09:12 PM
Oct 2016

ice skater, tennis player on the circuit. She knows all the Hollywood gossip - and loves Beyonce...although pronounces it Bwan-say.

Yup, biggest thing to impart - call.visit your parents if you are as lucky as I am to still have them.

skylucy

(3,739 posts)
11. Laura--Thanks for posting this about your parents. My parents are celebrating their
Sun Oct 16, 2016, 09:13 PM
Oct 2016

70th wedding anniversary on Tuesday. They were eighteen and nineteen when they got married. They still live in the house I grew up in and are both Democrats.They are horrified by Trump and are of course voting for Hillary. My dad is a vet of the Korean War. He cuts out all the anti-Trump cartoons from the newspaper and gives them to me. He also says that when Trump puts up his hand with his fingers touching to make a circle, he is signaling the message "I am an asshole."
I enjoyed reading about your mom and dad.
Happy Anniversary and Blessings to them.

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
19. Holy Cow !! You and I are so lucky. Especially for having parents who
Sun Oct 16, 2016, 09:36 PM
Oct 2016

passed on the greatest gift of all - to be a Democrat from the heart of your soul.

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
16. thanks. And I heard my dad still said the same thing after many years..
Sun Oct 16, 2016, 09:29 PM
Oct 2016

"Mary, do you think it will last?" and everyone laughs.

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
21. Smile...and what a great guy you must be to remember that ! Feeling very
Sun Oct 16, 2016, 09:50 PM
Oct 2016

melancholy....but thinking what the greatest gift they gave me? - was to be a Democrat. And, to actually care. And to not be one of those people with a Lock her up sign.

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
40. What does that mean? Other than the obvious. My parents,
Sun Oct 16, 2016, 11:40 PM
Oct 2016

to this day, cringe when the phone rings, let alone be part of some kind of group outside their home. They were never active in politics, they only knew in their gut to pull the straight Dem ticket. Period. Paragraph.

What did your parents do on the political vein?

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
37. Looking back, it was the best lesson, don't you think? I am so lucky to live
Sun Oct 16, 2016, 11:28 PM
Oct 2016

with that. But, if you asked them, they wouldn't even have a clue about it - it's just one of those things that's just "in the air".

UTUSN

(70,695 posts)
66. We did it all for the public good. We never benefitted from almost any of the "programs" and
Mon Oct 17, 2016, 09:52 PM
Oct 2016

voted always to help others.

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
35. What a sweet thing to say. They are not incredible - just normal
Sun Oct 16, 2016, 11:25 PM
Oct 2016

decent human beings....but with Democrat halos..!

DesertRat

(27,995 posts)
31. Thanks for sharing your story
Sun Oct 16, 2016, 10:25 PM
Oct 2016

My parents celebrated their 62nd anniversary in Feb. They are both 85 and lifelong Dems. They are very vocal about how much they loathe Trump.
Dad was for Bernie, Mom for Hillary but they both now are excited to cast their early ballots for Hillary. My Mom said that she never thought she'd live long enough to vote for a woman president. And here we are. I'm thrilled and grateful.
Cheers!

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
34. So curious - what in the world do they think of someone so base, so un-dignified,
Sun Oct 16, 2016, 11:23 PM
Oct 2016

so un-gentlemanly-like?

CentralMass

(15,265 posts)
32. Give them a hug for me. I lost my dad at 89, 3 and a half years ago
Sun Oct 16, 2016, 10:29 PM
Oct 2016

and my mom at 94 last year. My dad was was a Marine who served in the South Pacific during WII. The were both "Kennedy Democrats" My Dad got more liberal the older that he got and he was liberal to begin with. I loved talking politics with him. I miss them both very much.

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
33. Just wow:) no words better. Did your Dad get the invitation to join Ted in
Sun Oct 16, 2016, 11:21 PM
Oct 2016

Boston too? I thought my Dad would say..."Nah...what a bunch of crap but he didn't and went." It is truly high time for someone else to pick up that banner. I miss all the real hardcore Dems - or perhaps I am not aware as I should be. We can only hope that our children think as much of us as we do of ours, huh. Glad I wrote this to make me re-remember that.

senseandsensibility

(17,037 posts)
36. I'm having a little trouble responding
Sun Oct 16, 2016, 11:27 PM
Oct 2016

because for some reason the keyboard is blurry... please give my loye to your parents.

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
42. I know this sounds incredibly corny - but sending you good vibes across
Sun Oct 16, 2016, 11:42 PM
Oct 2016

the miles !!!! Just think, we still have each other !!!

A HERETIC I AM

(24,368 posts)
46. I'm willing to bet your mom knows exactly what p**** is!
Mon Oct 17, 2016, 12:47 AM
Oct 2016

Just cause they're older doesn't mean they don't know these things.

"Your generation didn't invent the blowjob, you know" - my father to my sister, during a discussion about sexual trends and mores.

Cherish the days you have left with them. Mom has been gone 2 years now and my dad, also a WWII and Korea vet, passed in 2000. My mother would have thought Trump was a complete joke and my Dad would have thought similar.

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
47. Wow, what a cool family you must have !! The word blowjob? Closest we ever
Mon Oct 17, 2016, 12:57 AM
Oct 2016

talked about sex, tangentially, was on my wedding day, when I was late leaving for my honeymoon because I wanted to hang out with my out of town girlfriends. My mom came up to my room and said, "Don't be scared, when you get to the hotel, you can sit and talk in the lobby."

A HERETIC I AM

(24,368 posts)
59. I wouldn't say we were "cool"....
Mon Oct 17, 2016, 02:01 PM
Oct 2016

but my mom and dad did have the tendency to be very frank and open and funny at times.

brer cat

(24,565 posts)
48. What a heartwarming post, LPMAD!
Mon Oct 17, 2016, 09:15 AM
Oct 2016

Thank you for sharing. Most of us are so disgusted, disheartened, and dismayed by "news" today that we need some joy and happiness to get through the day. You delivered!

world wide wally

(21,743 posts)
50. Congrats to the happy couple!
Mon Oct 17, 2016, 11:48 AM
Oct 2016

My Dad passed many years ago, but he too was in WWll, Navy, South Pacific. Makes me wonder what if they may have crossed paths. Both of my parents revered FDR and were looking lifelong Democrats. I am proud to say that both of my daughters are carrying on the tradition.

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
57. That would be wild. My dad was on a PT tender - the USS Willoughby.
Mon Oct 17, 2016, 01:07 PM
Oct 2016

Great about your daughters - we have to pay it all forward

Bluzmann57

(12,336 posts)
54. Sounds like a great couple
Mon Oct 17, 2016, 12:57 PM
Oct 2016

Your mom bowled a 200? Good grief! That's better than I can do. I'm glad they raised such fine children and that there are still people with real values around. Happy Anniversary Mary and Joseph.

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
58. :) Don't know about the "fine children" part....just so very
Mon Oct 17, 2016, 01:56 PM
Oct 2016

glad I was either raised or born with the Liberal gene. I just almost feel sorry for people who spend their life hating on this group and that group. Don't you think it would be just a horrible way to live? And most of the ones like that that I know are huge church-goers.

Yup, my mom is so good at bowling I secretly wish she would let one of us beat her once in a while.

ProfessorGAC

(65,042 posts)
61. Very Nice!
Mon Oct 17, 2016, 02:34 PM
Oct 2016

My parents made it to 45 years when my dad died at age 69. My mom passed 8 years later. So, i haven't had either parent for nearly 7 years now. Good for you and your family!

LittleGirl

(8,287 posts)
62. So sweet
Mon Oct 17, 2016, 04:18 PM
Oct 2016

My Mother is 84 and still misses my Dad. He's been gone since '75. Heart failure at age 42. They were so in love. They were happy.
They had 16 yrs together. She's never been the same.

Boomerproud

(7,952 posts)
64. Lovely tribute to remarkable people.
Mon Oct 17, 2016, 06:35 PM
Oct 2016

Obviously you are glad they found each other. May they have a beautiful day!

Raine

(30,540 posts)
67. That's wonderful ... Congratulations to your parents
Tue Oct 18, 2016, 04:04 AM
Oct 2016
Mine would've been married 60yrs this passed April but both are gone now.
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